Mourning in America - Trump Year One: November '16 to

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If the GOP wins the argument that "actually some republicans aren't racist" in the public eye that's a huge whitewashing of what just occurred and a major loss for our ability to convey the degree to which trump is an extremist

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 20:58 (seven years ago) link

consigning a bunch of people as *unredeemable* racists is probably not winning many hearts and minds.

this is what I was trying to say, ftr, DJP otm but maybe he disagrees with this as well for some other good reasons

agree with D-40 here as well

sleeve, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 20:59 (seven years ago) link

If racist is something people are instead of a specific type of idea and action, then the corollary is that in order to eliminate racism, it becomes necessary to eliminate those people. That kind of thinking either leads nowhere, or leads to a pogrom against those people, such as the one Trump is proposing against undocumented immigrants. This seems wrongheaded to me, even if, in one's anger at Trump's voters embrace of a pogrom, it seems justified.

a little too mature to be cute (Aimless), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 20:59 (seven years ago) link

The other thing is, that being honest about racism might be motivating to minority voters, which might lead to a higher turnout. Not everything should be catered to appeal to white voters.

Apparantly, demonizing your opponent worked like wonders for the GOP. So I don't see the point in not doing it if it also happens to be true.

Frederik B, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:01 (seven years ago) link

xp Aimless, c'mon. How about option (b) people change?

never have i been a blue calm sea (collardio gelatinous), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:02 (seven years ago) link

imo we need to stop paying attention to what arguments resonate with liberals and start looking at which ones also piss of conservatives

― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, November 16, 2016 3:55 PM (four minutes ago)

is there any evidence that arguments that "piss off conservatives" actually get them to change or moderate their views, as opposed to cause them to become further entrenched and increasingly motivated to vote for republicans? because the latter seems more likely to me

k3vin k., Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:02 (seven years ago) link

i definitely plead guilty to bubble thinking. lots of people were guilty of it during obama's presidency. wow, gay marriage and a black president and...oh shit half the country has been holding their breath for 8 years! and in my bubble world i didn't see it. because i don't listen to white-wing radio and i live in a magical world of progressive pot farming.

it felt like attitudes were changing all over. but i was wrong. i mean i have never trusted most of the country, but i guess i just wanted to believe...

scott seward, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:04 (seven years ago) link

In social media where so many of these wars are now waged there's an effect where people's opinions are shaped and they forget about their earlier actions because one persuasive person reshapes their way of thinking. It's an effect of peer pressure; a charismatic or persuasive person tells them this is the way things are, and they quietly agree and become soldiers for that POV. I don't think people who voted for trump are irredeemable but I do think they voted for a racist candidate which is a racist thing to do, and pointing out how it is racist can force them to either double down on it or reconsider who they want to be.

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:04 (seven years ago) link

The other thing is, that being honest about racism might be motivating to minority voters, which might lead to a higher turnout. Not everything should be catered to appeal to white voters.

Apparantly, demonizing your opponent worked like wonders for the GOP. So I don't see the point in not doing it if it also happens to be true.

― Frederik B, Wednesday, November 16, 2016 4:01 PM (forty-six seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Because the presidency, house and senate are run by white people right now. I have a very good reason not to want to see half the electorate demonized. I work with an unusually sympathetic group of immigrants -- Dreamers -- and I'd rather people be given the space to say, nah, let's not destroy DACA and ruin hundreds of thousands of young lives. I need some subtlety, even if it doesn't really exist.

If it's a last gasp -- completely naive on my part, fine. But I'm sure that relentlessly describing people as 'irredeemable' won't end up doing my clients any favors.

soma's little yelpers (lion in winter), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:06 (seven years ago) link

is there any evidence that arguments that "piss off conservatives" actually get them to change or moderate their views, as opposed to cause them to become further entrenched and increasingly motivated to vote for republicans? because the latter seems more likely to me

― k3vin k., Wednesday, November 16, 2016 3:02 PM (two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

It just seems like basic logic to me that they're afraid that in pointing out trump is a racist they will lose supporters who don't want to be seen as racist. I'm sure this applies to many many trump voters

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:06 (seven years ago) link

xxxp one of my wife's coworkers (looks like her whole office full of medical professional white women voted for Trump except for her) quietly whispered "it's been EIGHT YEARS" when this issue came up last week

sleeve, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:06 (seven years ago) link

So I agree overall. Demonize the hell out of the regime. Make it look as bad as it is. But offer people a chance to for some reflection. Weren't they having Coco Rosie 'Kill Whitey' parties in Brooklyn ten years ago?

soma's little yelpers (lion in winter), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:08 (seven years ago) link

And getting people to change requires attacking the ideas that stand behind their racist thoughts, words or actions. Attacking the person elicits an immediate and strenuous defense. Explicitly dividing off the ideas from the person allows the person to listen instead of react. This way doesn't always work, but the first way almost never does.

a little too mature to be cute (Aimless), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:08 (seven years ago) link

If it's a last gasp -- completely naive on my part, fine. But I'm sure that relentlessly describing people as 'irredeemable' won't end up doing my clients any favors.

― soma's little yelpers (lion in winter), Wednesday, November 16, 2016 3:06 PM (twenty seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

who has actually said "irredeemable racist"? If you have to put that word in front of racist to make your argument maybe you're not actually in disagreement

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:09 (seven years ago) link

i also live in a bubble, scott. montgomery county went for Hillary by 21 points and almost 100,000 votes. there are still tons of hillary/kaine signs still up throughout my neighborhood. as did most of the counties next to us - lehigh, bucks, chester, philadelphia (duh), delaware county, as did NJ, MD and NY. she still lost PA. i feel like pauline kael. xpz

Mordy, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:09 (seven years ago) link

Weren't they having Coco Rosie 'Kill Whitey' parties in Brooklyn ten years ago?

not a good example, see Coco Rosie thread

sleeve, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:10 (seven years ago) link

I don't think people who voted for trump are irredeemable but I do think they voted for a racist candidate which is a racist thing to do, and pointing out how it is racist can force them to either double down on it or reconsider who they want to be.

I agree with this totally, but most people consider themselves to be fairly fixed, so the difference between "that thing you did was racist" and "you're racist" is enormous in getting them to that consideration.

(I know, I know, this is Jay Smooth 101)

xp Aimless OTM

Andrew Farrell, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:11 (seven years ago) link

Based on my few conservative acquaintances on Facebook, I don't know that conservatives are concerned with being seen as racist. They just say "nuh-uh," point out that Obama promoted all of the racial divisiveness, and handwave it away.

Devastatin' Dan the Suggest Ban Man (Dan Peterson), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:14 (seven years ago) link

Well who are we talking to? If I'm talking to you guys (mostly leftist, aspiring non racist if not fully anti racist Hillary voters) then I think we should be comfortable saying that the trump voters were by and large a racist constituency. Including those "persuadables." Because a vote for trump was imo driven mainly by white racial grievance. If we can't call a spade a spade then what's the point? Tip toe around it w talk of "economic anxiety" for fear of seeming like we think our racist uncle is "irredeemable"? Fuck that. It's one thing having a conversation with your racist uncle but let's be real about what happened here

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:16 (seven years ago) link

If you're ok with voting for a racist you may be a racist /Jeff foxworthy voice

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:17 (seven years ago) link

has this vox thing been here yet?

http://www.vox.com/identities/2016/11/15/13595508/racism-trump-research-study

while i'm really, really unwilling to continue to give people a free pass on their shit, at the same time my approach is not to call people racist _to their face_. like, say you have a friend who is always talking about wanting to fuck fifteen year old girls. that person is completely, totally a pedophile, no matter how many times they tell you they're "just kidding, but seriously, look at how hot she is". but if you call them a "pedophile", and mean it, they'll get deeply offended.

xiphoid beetlebum (rushomancy), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:17 (seven years ago) link

completely unrelated, I took the morning off from work to help out with a student march organized by my daughter's school: https://twitter.com/MLNow/status/798949007254908929

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:19 (seven years ago) link

Most of the Trump voters I work with and talk about the racist issue seem to feel that it's possible to be isolationist and not be a racist. They didn't vote for Clinton because they largely view the left's call for diversity as putting immigrants needs before the needs of americans. They don't think of this as racist because they have no problem with people who work and are a productive member's of society, as long as they pay the same taxes and keep their money here. Anyone who falls outside of this, "they deserve nothing from America." And they feel like Liberals fuel racism by always talking about it.

JacobSanders, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:19 (seven years ago) link

Who in here is saying these people are irredeemable?

Frederik B, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:19 (seven years ago) link

while i'm really, really unwilling to continue to give people a free pass on their shit, at the same time my approach is not to call people racist _to their face_. like, say you have a friend who is always talking about wanting to fuck fifteen year old girls. that person is completely, totally a pedophile, no matter how many times they tell you they're "just kidding, but seriously, look at how hot she is". but if you call them a "pedophile", and mean it, they'll get deeply offended.

― xiphoid beetlebum (rushomancy), Wednesday, November 16, 2016 3:17 PM (one minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

maybe it's his economic anxiety

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:20 (seven years ago) link

That's rad, Shakey. :-) xp

never have i been a blue calm sea (collardio gelatinous), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:20 (seven years ago) link

they have no problem with people who work and are a productive member's of society, as long as they pay the same taxes

so not trump

Mordy, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:21 (seven years ago) link

the "economic anxiety" meme is really unfortunate because its purveyors know full well that the plebes who spread it won't really grasp the irony

k3vin k., Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:22 (seven years ago) link

If I'm talking to you guys (mostly leftist, aspiring non racist if not fully anti racist Hillary voters) then I think we should be comfortable saying that the trump voters were by and large a racist constituency.

One of the talking points used by conservatives is that, even if liberals speak semi-respectfully to voters who hold conservative views when seeking their votes, they privately hold those voters in utter contempt when they are talking among themselves. Because liberals are elitist pigs who will lie to your face about what they really think or want. Draw your own conclusion about whether your advice reinforces this caricature.

a little too mature to be cute (Aimless), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:23 (seven years ago) link

Apparantly, demonizing your opponent worked like wonders for the GOP. So I don't see the point in not doing it if it also happens to be true.

While that might feel good, how does it work as a strategy? Democrats already win 95% of the African-American vote and significant majorities of every other minority group. Can you squeak out an extra 2%? Does that change anything on the state level anywhere?

Being combative, yes - hammer Trump on ballooning deficits with no benefit to the people, hammer him when racist policies actually start getting made. Backing off from social progressivism? No, not at all.
Demonizing works because a large percentage of the vote that Republicans need to capture are primed for it, whether that's godless liberals or the homosexual lobby or whatever. Those people are a lost cause.

Kiarostami bag (milo z), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:23 (seven years ago) link

layers + layers of irony - k3v when u say "economic anxiety" you mean to deride ppl who make light of economic anxiety, right? and when deej uses it above he means it to make light of ppl who claim it's economic and not racist? xxp

Mordy, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:24 (seven years ago) link

I can't tell you the number of times I've heard "If I could cheat the system like Trump does I would."

JacobSanders, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:24 (seven years ago) link

One of the talking points used by conservatives is that, even if liberals speak semi-respectfully to voters who hold conservative views when seeking their votes, they privately hold those voters in utter contempt when they are talking among themselves. Because liberals are elitist pigs who will lie to your face about what they really think or want. Draw your own conclusion about whether your advice reinforces this caricature.

― a little too mature to be cute (Aimless), Wednesday, November 16, 2016 3:23 PM (fifty-six seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Have you even thought about what you're arguing here? We shouldn't call racists racist because then the racists will think we look down on them?

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:26 (seven years ago) link

A lot of that grievance came from white petit bourgeois people who still have money/jobs but also a feeling of status decline because inequality is widening for them too, but they don't blame it on business leaders who actually form a consensus on reforming employment terms etc (many of these people are also underemployed after the crash). They blame it on the people they see as a rung or two below them on the ladder, or they blame it on the other kind of middle-class person who is more liberal, better educated, or just that bit wealthier. But if you point out the corruption of the 1per cent, to them you're just jealous.

jane burkini (suzy), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:26 (seven years ago) link

"Who in here is saying these people are irredeemable?

― Frederik B"

i didn't say "irredeemable", but last week i said that i can never trust or respect anybody who voted for trump again, and declared all my relatives who voted trump dead to me. i stand by that.

"One of the talking points used by conservatives is that, even if liberals speak semi-respectfully to voters who hold conservative views when seeking their votes, they privately hold those voters in utter contempt when they are talking among themselves. Because liberals are elitist pigs who will lie to your face about what they really think or want. Draw your own conclusion about whether your advice reinforces this caricature.

― a little too mature to be cute (Aimless)"

i got no reason not to hold them in contempt. we are talking about some deeply contemptible motherfuckers here.

xiphoid beetlebum (rushomancy), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:26 (seven years ago) link

That's rad, Shakey. :-) xp

thx - 600+ kids! it seemed well received by the neighborhood

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:26 (seven years ago) link

D-40 and Aimless arguing ... popcorn .gif

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:27 (seven years ago) link

nice that someone can enjoy it

Mordy, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:28 (seven years ago) link

Going away to talk shit about political opponents behind their backs is GOP 101, as well as basic human nature to some extent - so much projection here it hurts.

jane burkini (suzy), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:29 (seven years ago) link

I can't tell you the number of times I've heard "If I could cheat the system like Trump does I would."

My one in-person argument with a Trump fan in the last week didn't have a response when I flipped that to all the dastardly 'welfare cheats' and etc..

Kiarostami bag (milo z), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:29 (seven years ago) link

If you've got an issue w one of my posts feel free to address it, I don't think I'm being unclear or s thing

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:30 (seven years ago) link

I think Trump voters make a difference between being a successful rich person and an elite. Elite's are overeducated and useless in their view, "they couldn't hang drywall." Someone who is rich has made the system work for them to arrive at the place many working class trump voters aspire to. Yes there are numerous holes in this logic.

JacobSanders, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:30 (seven years ago) link

the idea of Donald Trump hanging drywall is getting close to giving me a lethal giggle fit

¶ (DJP), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:32 (seven years ago) link

i got no reason not to hold them in contempt. we are talking about some deeply contemptible motherfuckers here.

OK. If you accept that each and every vote for trump came from a deeply contemptible motherfucker, then I guess the only way to win future elections will be to mobilize more voters who agree with you, so they'll outnumber the mfs in swing states. That's fine. You realize Clinton just tried that. We might want to win back a few of the contemptible mfs who voted Obama in 2008 and 2012, just to be on the safe side.

Also, given the roughly 59,000,000 deeply contemptible mfs out there who voted for trump, I guess we are all going to live in a deeply contemptible society for the foreseeable. Seems to me changing that is going to take something other than twiddling thumbs until they all die. Or we could try that. Hasn't really worked well I the past.

a little too mature to be cute (Aimless), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:37 (seven years ago) link

I kinda feel that senate 2018 thread would be more constructive than rehashing this debate again...

Frederik B, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:38 (seven years ago) link

I think Trump voters make a difference between being a successful rich person and an elite. Elite's are overeducated and useless in their view, "they couldn't hang drywall." Someone who is rich has made the system work for them to arrive at the place many working class trump voters aspire to. Yes there are numerous holes in this logic.

― JacobSanders, Wednesday, November 16, 2016 4:30 PM (ten minutes ago) Bookmark

hillary didn't do enough to emphasize that trump got his start with a million dollar "loan" from his father

, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:41 (seven years ago) link

we just need to find something for those contemptible motherfuckers to do. maybe we really do need to mine more coal. throw them in the pit!

okay, just venting...

scott seward, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:42 (seven years ago) link

OK. If you accept that each and every vote for trump came from a deeply contemptible motherfucker, then I guess the only way to win future elections will be to mobilize more voters who agree with you, so they'll outnumber the mfs in swing states. That's fine. You realize Clinton just tried that. We might want to win back a few of the contemptible mfs who voted Obama in 2008 and 2012, just to be on the safe side.

― a little too mature to be cute (Aimless)

fyi, i'm not responding to this atrocity by seeing if we can re-run the numbers and maybe win one more election before the next openly racist demagogue comes along. however, if you think we can build a stable anti-racist coalition on the backs of people who have clearly demonstrated themselves to have no principles, go for it.

xiphoid beetlebum (rushomancy), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:49 (seven years ago) link

Also, given the roughly 59,000,000 deeply contemptible mfs out there who voted for trump, I guess we are all going to live in a deeply contemptible society for the foreseeable. Seems to me changing that is going to take something other than twiddling thumbs until they all die. Or we could try that. Hasn't really worked well I the past.

― a little too mature to be cute (Aimless), Wednesday, November 16, 2016 4:37 PM (eleven minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I think the discussion has to be about the best strategies to fight the implementation of Trump's stated agenda. That's where real lives are at stake.

I keep seeing this on my FB wall http://www.popsugar.com/news/Donald-Trump-Supporters-Racist-42705977 and wondering what the point is, trying to imagine a single Trump supporter who read it and was like, 'damn. That changes everything.' Also safety pins, I see a lot of people arguing about safety pins.

soma's little yelpers (lion in winter), Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:51 (seven years ago) link

We have a while to go, but if Trump keeps dumping the press pool or shutting out the press entirely, I can easily imagine all those idle hands needing something to do diving in and doing the job that few of them seemed to do during the campaign. I just wonder how long they'll be content being evaded or lied to.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 16 November 2016 21:52 (seven years ago) link


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