T/S: Defamer v. Gawker

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This was the most tone deaf thing I've read so far this year:

http://gawker.com/woman-who-sleeps-22-hours-a-day-craves-unhealthy-food-1678481884

This is a sensitive topic for me because my wife has a debilitating sleep disorder. It has ruined her life. And one of the challenges that people with sleep disorders face is that there's almost no public understanding of them, and a tremendous stigma around them. So here we have a Gawker writer mocking somebody with a debilitating disease, undermining its severity, like, "lol, you sleep 22 hours a day? who hasn't been there? I wish I got to sleep in all day!"

I just don't get the lack of basic sensitivity. I'm sorry, but if you can't understand how having to sleep 22 hours a day would completely torpedo even your most basic hopes and dreams, or your ability to live something resembling a normal, happy life, then you are a monster. The basic lack of decency/sensitivity our society extends to the disabled is utterly appalling, and I don't get how somebody could write this, or how an editor could allow this, without realizing how cruel it is.

Evan R, Friday, 9 January 2015 17:03 (nine years ago) link

Again, sorry to vent about all this, but lack of public awareness about diseases is a huge challenge that many disabled people face. Insensitive shit like this, as inconsequential as it might seem on the surface, can actually have a huge on people's quality of life, because it fans the stigma around certain conditions. I usually try to temper my outrage over stupid Internet content, but in this case it's actually making people's lives worse, so I feel the need to try to do something to correct it.

Evan R, Friday, 9 January 2015 17:07 (nine years ago) link

having been in the professional blogging trenches, i think in the grind you become a cross between joel mchale on the soup and jake gyllenhaal in nightcrawler

da croupier, Friday, 9 January 2015 17:33 (nine years ago) link

p4reene to reenter Gawker trenches btw

touch of a love-starved cobra (Dr Morbius), Friday, 9 January 2015 17:39 (nine years ago) link

dan lyons seems not very bright and very un-gawker-like :(

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Tuesday, 20 January 2015 17:05 (nine years ago) link

Lyons, whose idea of a joke involves strikethrough text and whose idea of a lede is "Imagine a room full of these things,"

loool

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Wednesday, 21 January 2015 00:10 (nine years ago) link

i'm never ever #teampando but their piece on lyons was in very nice form http://pando.com/2015/01/18/dan-lyons-career-an-obituary/

celfie tucker 48 (s.clover), Friday, 23 January 2015 02:07 (nine years ago) link

one month passes...

a fish a barrel and ilx

mushaboom kids (rip van wanko), Monday, 2 March 2015 22:11 (nine years ago) link

St. Ann O'Tate

maura, Monday, 2 March 2015 22:14 (nine years ago) link


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