Rolling 2014 Thread on Race

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Οὖτις, Wednesday, 29 October 2014 13:34 (nine years ago) link

more on the video, from Slate: The Problem With That Catcalling Video


...The video is a collaboration between Hollaback!, an anti-street harassment organization, and the marketing agency Rob Bliss Creative. At the end they claim the woman experienced 100 plus incidents of harassment “involving people of all backgrounds.” Since that obviously doesn’t show up in the video, Bliss addressed it in a post. He wrote, “we got a fair amount of white guys, but for whatever reason, a lot of what they said was in passing, or off camera” or was ruined by a siren or other noise. The final product, he writes, “is not a perfect representation of everything that happened.” That may be true but if you find yourself editing out all the catcalling white guys, maybe you should try another take.

...Activism is never perfectly executed. We can just conclude that they caught a small slice of catcallers and lots of other men do it too. But if the point of this video is to teach men about the day-to-day reality of women, then this video doesn’t hit its target. The men who are sitting in their offices or in cafes watching this video will instead be able to comfortably assure themselves that they don’t have time to sit on hydrants in the middle of the day and can’t properly pronounce “mami.” They might do things to women that are worse than catcalling, but this is not their sin.

Karl Malone, Thursday, 30 October 2014 13:20 (nine years ago) link

"White people just aren't as loud as persons of color. Now a Puerto Rican, there's someone who can drown out a firetruck siren."

pplains, Thursday, 30 October 2014 13:27 (nine years ago) link

This whole thing is getting way overthought imo. The video pretty effectively makes the point overall and now it's getting drowned out by the think piece arms race. But why not just do a sequel? Have multiple women of different races walk around and caption the white guy comments that are allegedly too hard to hear. Sun is gonna rise again tomorrow and men are gonna keep catcalling too, easy to repeat the result.

my jaw left (Hurting 2), Thursday, 30 October 2014 13:37 (nine years ago) link

So... is Slate implying that only white people have office jobs or visit cafes on purpose or did they just do the exact same thing Hollaback did?

kissaroo and Tyler, too (DJP), Thursday, 30 October 2014 13:37 (nine years ago) link

At least the Rosin piece doesn't throw in "differing cultural expectations" like a lot of the pieces I've seen, like you know "Hey, I don't want to be a presumptuous white person here, maybe black and latina women love being harassed on the street." I even saw one that said there should be a "study" of how women of different races and classes feel about catcalling before we make any assumptions. I'm being a presumptuous white guy here too, but my presumption is that most people of all races and classes don't like being harassed on the street by strangers, until proven otherwise.

my jaw left (Hurting 2), Thursday, 30 October 2014 13:53 (nine years ago) link

I think that's a safe bet. Also just in general I'm pretty sure anyone who wants to talk about how it's a "cultural" thing is being hella racist. But if that dude wants to ask a bunch of Black and brown women how they feel about street harassment, I support that! He might even learn something.

Dan: I...don't know? That sentence went right by me. I don't have a take on it, but if that's your read, then the piece has a problem.

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 October 2014 13:58 (nine years ago) link

Did you feel the same way when I said (above) "white men, who on the whole have academic and economic privilege"? My take, if anything, is that she's referencing that fact without specifying it. Maybe that's too charitable, or maybe it's important to be specific?

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 October 2014 14:04 (nine years ago) link

But if the point of this video is to teach men about the day-to-day reality of women, then this video doesn’t hit its target. The men who are sitting in their offices or in cafes watching this video will instead be able to comfortably assure themselves that they don’t have time to sit on hydrants in the middle of the day and can’t properly pronounce “mami.” They might do things to women that are worse than catcalling, but this is not their sin.

If the main criticism of the video is that it unconsciously pitches catcalling as something more likely to happen when men of color see a "white" woman, causing a swathe of white men guilty of or complicit in similar/analogous behaviors to go "phew, not me!", this section in that context reads to me as casting comfortably middle-class men in offices and cafes as almost exclusively white. "Man" is intended to be read as "white man". I don't have a strong problem with the baseline sentiment but it should be expressed explicitly, not implicitly.

(I do have a small problem but I have a meeting to go to)

kissaroo and Tyler, too (DJP), Thursday, 30 October 2014 14:30 (nine years ago) link

Hurting, I currently live and work in an area with a lot of gang members, street people, drug addicts...and I'm coming to the difficult realization that 1) guys who take a friendly gesture as an indicator of romantic interest are OF this class of people - whether they live like a street person 2). these people don't KNOW what self-examination is and probably find the concept threatening.

Threat Assessment Division (I M Losted), Thursday, 30 October 2014 14:33 (nine years ago) link

Thanks for the report from the trenches

my jaw left (Hurting 2), Thursday, 30 October 2014 14:35 (nine years ago) link

U R Wronged

Karl Malone, Thursday, 30 October 2014 14:43 (nine years ago) link

I think I M Losted's statement is grossly inelegant and incomplete but not inaccurate; where it falls down is the implicit "only" in the statement

kissaroo and Tyler, too (DJP), Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:25 (nine years ago) link

I currently live and work in an area with a lot of gang members, street people, drug addicts...and I'm coming to the difficult realization that 1) guys who take a friendly gesture as an indicator of romantic interest are OF this class of people

I don't think I get what he's trying to say here but I actually think I disagree w it? None of those categories are made of up a "class" of ppl, first of all. It's possible a reader could grok the sentiment? But otoh most white people envisioning the categories of "gang members," "street people," and "drug addicts" are going to imagine them as being made up of Black ppl so it's just super unhelpful at the very least? (Esp gang members, altho maybe West Coast ppl are more used to seeing white homeless alcoholics or something, I don't know.)

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:34 (nine years ago) link

I M Losted's comment kinda reminds me of the TFA teachers who after their first 6 months on the job start essentializing their students

, Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:36 (nine years ago) link

But mostly because I feel safe saying that "guys who take a friendly gesture as an indicator of romantic interest" do NOOOOOOOT only come from any particular "class" no matter how you define class.

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:37 (nine years ago) link

^^^ my point as well

kissaroo and Tyler, too (DJP), Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:42 (nine years ago) link

Yeah actually I would say misreading cues from women, at times wilfully, is a trait of men that crosses race and class.

my jaw left (Hurting 2), Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:43 (nine years ago) link

but I couldn't exactly follow what IMLosted was trying to say tbh

my jaw left (Hurting 2), Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:43 (nine years ago) link

I try to clarify that whole issue for men who catcall/hit on me by being as mean as possible right off the bat. Because I am just that helpful! You're all welcome, btw.

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:44 (nine years ago) link

A friend of mine, when asked, "What do you think are some effective strategies against catcalling?" said, "Tasers. I think the answer is tasers." Which is turns out it's illegal for civilians to carry tasers in NYS but we're working on it.

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:47 (nine years ago) link

i got heckled on the street yesterday and it's definitely a good thing i didn't have a taser

example (crüt), Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:49 (nine years ago) link

"gang members," "street people," and "drug addicts" are going to imagine them as being made up of Black ppl so it's just super unhelpful at the very least? (Esp gang members, altho maybe West Coast ppl are more used to seeing white homeless alcoholics or something, I don't know.)

haha gtfo this is a ridiculous assumption

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:50 (nine years ago) link

1) guys who take a friendly gesture as an indicator of romantic interest are OF this class of people - whether they live like a street person

i think I M Losted accidentally left off "or not" at the end of this. if that's right, i guess the point would be that guys that take a friendly gesture as an indicator of romantic interest, regardless of economic class, can be grouped together with gang members, drug addicts, and street people as...people who are lacking social skills (?)

Karl Malone, Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:51 (nine years ago) link

??? Do you think that most white people don't assume "gang members" are black? I'd be willing to let "homeless" go but I'd even bet on "drug addicts"!

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:52 (nine years ago) link

I would say that in any given metropolitan area there are gang members, homeless people and drug addicts of all ethnic groups. this is certainly true of where I live (which is yes, the west coast)

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:53 (nine years ago) link

sorry but wtf does i m losted mean when he says "street people"

marcos, Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:54 (nine years ago) link

I...didn't say that wasn't the reality, though. I said that I would bet that most/a lot of/do you really want to argue about this? wite ppl would mentally picture a gang member or drug addict as Black.

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:55 (nine years ago) link

idk what the pt is of assailing theoretical strawmen who automatically assume all gang members, homeless people and drug addicts are black. Sure these people exist but let's not let extrapolation get outta hand here.

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:56 (nine years ago) link

Oh my god it was in the context of saying, maybe this isn't an effective way to talk about the problem also it doesn't make sense in the first place, so jesus christ ease up.

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 October 2014 15:58 (nine years ago) link

it puts the emphasis on class rather than race, which may be relevant. or maybe not idk. these things are all knotted up together. "rich white people harass like THIS" lol

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 October 2014 16:03 (nine years ago) link

HARASSMENT IS ALSO NOT ABOUT CLASS IS THE THING HERE.

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 October 2014 16:04 (nine years ago) link

the kind of street harassment we're talking about might be, though... and hard to avoid with this subject?
like generally rich/white/whatever people do their harassing in other places if i go by the standard stereotypes, unless you're talking about, I don't know, Italian construction workers or whatever

Nhex, Thursday, 30 October 2014 16:17 (nine years ago) link

"Ayyyyyyy, BOSCHK!"

how's life, Thursday, 30 October 2014 16:18 (nine years ago) link

Me, yesterday:

The story about street harassment of white women is really also the story of gentrification. Do all races and cultures harass? Obv, because they all are shaped by patriarchy. But white men, with, on the whole, educational and economic privilege, may do their harassing in other spaces than the street, like the office or job site or in the home to their domestic laborers--and when young white women move into majority-minority neighborhoods, their experience of SH can be almost completely that of being harassed by Black and brown men whose home community they are now living in.

Maybe like 10-12 years ago, another white woman made a SH doc called War Zone where she took a (non-hidden) camera around various cities and tried to talk to the men who harassed her. Some of those cities had a majority white poverty class who were more vicious and obscene than any of the New York PoC she spoke to, and some of them had white-collar men on their lunch break who harassed her even harder than non-white men but were way more ashamed of it when they got recorded/confronted.

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 October 2014 16:24 (nine years ago) link

To be more specific in light of today's posts the "white-collar" men in question were iirc all white but I haven't seen the movie in a long time so I might be overlooking other people in a group scene where office dudes are sitting outside eating lunch. And in any case street harassment happens regardless of either race OR class/employment/whatever.

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 October 2014 16:38 (nine years ago) link

hey guys guess what
http://news.yahoo.com/woman-seen-harassed-nyc-streets-video-gets-rape-180905117.html

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 October 2014 22:54 (nine years ago) link

The nightmare scenario is that somehow Gamergate merges into this

Karl Malone, Thursday, 30 October 2014 23:23 (nine years ago) link

kinda feel like it already is

my jaw left (Hurting 2), Thursday, 30 October 2014 23:30 (nine years ago) link

eh i don't think so

i asked my students* to define and give examples of street harassment today and they were 100% on it -- examples, animated discussion, laughing/stories, the whole thing. they asked about the video, they knew all about it.
my guess is that they don't know what gamergate is and if they did, they would not care

SH is way bigger
that's kinda why i think the infighting "the problem with the problem with" rhetoric/position jockeying is annoying to me -- that video was really effective regardless of how PROBLEMATIC it was
"the conversation" is going on -- there's no way to control it; better to encourage it to continue and fret about who's doing it better behind closed doors
imo

*14 young women 18-24, 1 young man in the same age bracket, all Latina/o/Hispanic aside with one exception and she grew up in Turkey

cross over the mushroom circle (La Lechera), Friday, 31 October 2014 00:05 (nine years ago) link

Are there any other videos out there doing the same basic experiment as '10 Hours'? I bet a bunch are going to start popping up in the next week.

jmm, Friday, 31 October 2014 00:10 (nine years ago) link

LL, that is like EXACTLY what I was saying in a clusterfuck facebook thread about this today -- I think I even used something to the effect of "The Problem With The Problem With..." "Position-jockeying" is exactly how I feel about a lot of the response, as much because of the tone ("This stuck up white girl doesn't even see her privilege!") as the actual content. I agree, video was effective, particularly in showing just how pervasive and commonplace this is.

my jaw left (Hurting 2), Friday, 31 October 2014 00:30 (nine years ago) link

this ebony article on it was good

Karl Malone, Friday, 31 October 2014 00:32 (nine years ago) link

I liked the Lemieux article too and shared it on fb today but it doesn't address race at all--in fact, maybe unsurprisingly given the outlet is Ebony--it addresses the reader w some implicit assumptions of Blackness.

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Friday, 31 October 2014 00:50 (nine years ago) link

Why do they think all Caucasian women living in cities are "moving into" some POC community?

Got news for you - in urban areas, not all "street people" are brown-skinned.

Why don't these people get off their behinds and go to some REAL places.

Not every Caucasian woman in the city is the Central Park Jogger.

Threat Assessment Division (I M Losted), Friday, 31 October 2014 01:09 (nine years ago) link

I'm not your loathed stupid middle-class white woman. I grew up in a white ethnic and working-class urban area.

I'm glad I allowed you to feel smug and superior. Why do you assume things? Yes, I grew up with gangs and drugs - white people.

Threat Assessment Division (I M Losted), Friday, 31 October 2014 01:13 (nine years ago) link

I agree "the conversation" IS going on!! And I loooooove it! But when ppl insist that any action or resource like this video is an overall good because it "starts a conversation" even if it does other harms, even unintended ones, I don't want that in my corner.

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Friday, 31 October 2014 01:15 (nine years ago) link

I grew up "in the trenches". Not only middle class teacher / stereotype / nerd people commit the indulgent crime of owning a computer.

Threat Assessment Division (I M Losted), Friday, 31 October 2014 01:15 (nine years ago) link

Give me a BREAK, you phonies. You're the kind of people who idiotically argue that DV doesn't have a "class". It does too - rich people don't beat their kids and spouse as much and you know it. Unless you get all of your info from the women's studies department. Which is staffed by (generally) upper middle class types.

Threat Assessment Division (I M Losted), Friday, 31 October 2014 01:20 (nine years ago) link

I'd wondered if that video would garner discussion on ILE/ILX...

RAP GAME SHANI DAVIS (Raymond Cummings), Friday, 31 October 2014 01:28 (nine years ago) link


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