Feminist Theory & "Women's Issues" Discussion Thread: All Gender Identities Are Encouraged To Participate

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ogmor, Wednesday, 21 May 2014 22:46 (nine years ago) link

http://i.imgur.com/XgesA6n.jpg

wtf

mookieproof, Friday, 30 May 2014 18:36 (nine years ago) link

Good article tbh

xelab V¸¸ (imago), Friday, 30 May 2014 18:45 (nine years ago) link

do not feed the clickbait

macklin' rosie (crüt), Friday, 30 May 2014 18:52 (nine years ago) link

?

You talking about the Slate article?

xelab V¸¸ (imago), Friday, 30 May 2014 18:55 (nine years ago) link

Not sure how well this article fits here, but I found this interesting...
http://www.nightmare-magazine.com/nonfiction/the-h-word-in-search-of-horrible-women/

About how some people find it difficult to accept realistic female characters that are bad people.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Friday, 30 May 2014 20:01 (nine years ago) link

does that article discuss the book Tampa?

La Lechera, Friday, 30 May 2014 21:09 (nine years ago) link

No but there is something quite similar

Robert Adam Gilmour, Friday, 30 May 2014 22:00 (nine years ago) link

Article reminds me FONDLY of the couple times a stranger has asked me, while knitting in public, if I was doing a Madame Defarge code. <3

just like the one wing dove (Crabbits), Saturday, 31 May 2014 00:42 (nine years ago) link

guess she's overhighlighted or whatever but i hope lady macbeth kills everyone on that list until she's #1

difficult listening hour, Saturday, 31 May 2014 02:06 (nine years ago) link

that which hath made them drunk hath made me bold
what hath quench'd them hath given me fire

difficult listening hour, Saturday, 31 May 2014 02:08 (nine years ago) link

This is pretty interesting. I don't have much to say about it and am just gonna throw it out there:
http://america.aljazeera.com/articles/2014/5/29/slut-shaming-study.html

Doritos Loco Parentis (Hurting 2), Saturday, 31 May 2014 19:27 (nine years ago) link

thanks for the links, RAG & hurting.

wr2 the "h-word" article, i'm torn in two directions. on one hand, i'm often troubled by the limited number of modes available to women as characters in popular entertainment. on the other, i sometimes have the unpleasant sense that "horrible" women in stories created by men are punching bags for the venting of grievance. thinking in particular of the "bad exes" of mad men and weeds.

riot grillz (contenderizer), Sunday, 1 June 2014 15:12 (nine years ago) link

You might know about this already but Kier-La Janisse written a book called House Of Psychotic Women and she talks about lots of films that have been dismissed as sexist (misogynist often). The book (which I haven't read but I listened to a series of interviews with her about it) is about horror films prominently featuring female neurosis and how they resonate with her and seem to with quite a lot of other women (plenty of female bloggers particularly love giallo and slasher films). She talked about even though giallo films are sexist they still showed her things that she felt were true in her life. The book has been well received and it doesn't sound like it strains too hard in the apologist bullshit direction.

Personally I think that men often get actresses or create female characters that are often beautiful (usually in a innocent or ethereal way) and can scream and express emotions in way that is impressive, enviable, cathertic and intoxicating. I think it helps them articulate emotions that they couldn't otherwise.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Sunday, 1 June 2014 18:02 (nine years ago) link

i sometimes have the unpleasant sense that "horrible" women in stories created by men are punching bags for the venting of grievance. thinking in particular of the "bad exes" of mad men and weeds.

wasn't weeds created by a woman?

relentlessly pecking at peace (President Keyes), Sunday, 1 June 2014 18:22 (nine years ago) link

wuzzit? [investigates...]

lol, yeah, i guess i'm guilty of exactly what SPM was talking abt in that nightmare essay: rejecting a negative female character based on what i assumed it was trying to "say". weeds eps written by a large and gender-varied group of people, but by no means generally "by men".

imaginary sexism aside, show's treatment of elizabeth perkins' cecilia still bugs me. seems vindictive & unfunny. i don't dislike her, but the show seems to.

riot grillz (contenderizer), Monday, 2 June 2014 02:01 (nine years ago) link

I felt like even though the characters were good in Sopranos, I feel like a lot of them were punching bags too. I think Betty Draper is a good character too.
I feel like when I read Victorian ghost stories there is often an idiot portrayed with total contempt and that annoys me, maybe these writers didn't have anyone to bitch about these people to, but I rarely appreciate characters who are nothing but punching bags.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Monday, 2 June 2014 13:44 (nine years ago) link

I just read my previous post, sorry for how horribly I written it.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Monday, 2 June 2014 13:45 (nine years ago) link

karma

Mordy, Monday, 2 June 2014 19:54 (nine years ago) link

And Hurricane Amanda seemed so warm and fluffy.

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Monday, 2 June 2014 20:08 (nine years ago) link

didn't she though

BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Monday, 2 June 2014 20:16 (nine years ago) link

Regarding that hurricane article, there was a comment on the Economist that was basically to the effect of "people who evaluate the danger of a storm by its name are being killed... are we sure this is a bad thing?"

building a desert (art), Monday, 2 June 2014 20:17 (nine years ago) link

Lol do not underestimate Hurricane Amanda.

La Lechera, Monday, 2 June 2014 20:42 (nine years ago) link

No one could have predicted that a sassy lil thang named Katrina could have breached the levies.

₴HABΔZZ ¶IZZΔ (Hurting 2), Monday, 2 June 2014 20:48 (nine years ago) link

xp i called her mandy and she blew my house down now that's just over-reacting

dn/ac (darraghmac), Monday, 2 June 2014 21:26 (nine years ago) link

"Female hurricanes are 'crazy'"

₴HABΔZZ ¶IZZΔ (Hurting 2), Monday, 2 June 2014 21:27 (nine years ago) link

No one could have predicted that a sassy lil thang named Katrina could have breached the levies.

― ₴HABΔZZ ¶IZZΔ (Hurting 2), Monday, June 2, 2014 8:48 PM (2 hours ago)

More fool them, she'd been openly associating with The Waves since like 1985.

just like the one wing dove (Crabbits), Monday, 2 June 2014 23:32 (nine years ago) link

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

dn/ac (darraghmac), Monday, 2 June 2014 23:36 (nine years ago) link

so good.

goole, Monday, 2 June 2014 23:37 (nine years ago) link

category 5!!!!

mattresslessness, Monday, 2 June 2014 23:43 (nine years ago) link

Beautifully done

₴HABΔZZ ¶IZZΔ (Hurting 2), Tuesday, 3 June 2014 03:13 (nine years ago) link

Debunked:

http://phenomena.nationalgeographic.com/2014/06/02/why-have-female-hurricanes-killed-more-people-than-male-ones/

All hurricanes had female names until 1979, and hurricanes have been getting steadily less deadly in recent years with the increase in early warning etc. Correlation does not imply causation.

Branwell with an N, Tuesday, 3 June 2014 15:17 (nine years ago) link

that was exactly my first thought

k3vin k., Tuesday, 3 June 2014 16:27 (nine years ago) link

my first thought was also a Katrina and the Waves joke

On-the-spot Dicespin (DJP), Tuesday, 3 June 2014 16:30 (nine years ago) link

my first thought was a Boston lyric: "I'm gonna say it like a man and make you understand/ Amanda"

relentlessly pecking at peace (President Keyes), Tuesday, 3 June 2014 16:35 (nine years ago) link

I thought this was really really good:
https://nplusonemag.com/online-only/online-only/the-ultimate-humiliation/

₴HABΔZZ ¶IZZΔ (Hurting 2), Tuesday, 3 June 2014 22:05 (nine years ago) link

this whole thing has made me think a lot about stalkers and romance, particularly that awful poster board guy from "love, actually"

La Lechera, Tuesday, 3 June 2014 22:59 (nine years ago) link

my first thought was a Boston lyric: "I'm gonna say it like a man and make you understand/ Amanda"

when i was in 8th gr it was "i'm gonna take you by the thighs and make you realize…amanda"
not cool

La Lechera, Tuesday, 3 June 2014 23:03 (nine years ago) link

wowed by that piece

mattresslessness, Tuesday, 3 June 2014 23:24 (nine years ago) link

first graf reminded me of joan didion.

mattresslessness, Tuesday, 3 June 2014 23:29 (nine years ago) link

It was the one thing about this situation that I read from start to finish.

La Lechera, Tuesday, 3 June 2014 23:31 (nine years ago) link

Part of what impressed me about it was how much the author seemed legit driven to understand her subject rather that fall back on canned explanations, even though it's in some ways a repulsive subject. Also some of the stuff toward the end was some of the smartest writing about sex I've ever read and actually helped me understand myself a little better.

₴HABΔZZ ¶IZZΔ (Hurting 2), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 00:50 (nine years ago) link

Definitely reminded me of Didion as well.

That's So (Eazy), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 00:52 (nine years ago) link

need to finish that; i see both dlh and i both posted it to the shooting spree thread in the same afternoon, ha

the writer is, like, super cool afaict. and the magazine she runs is pretty hot stuff: adult-mag.com

goole, Wednesday, 4 June 2014 00:58 (nine years ago) link

I'm a little surprised to see such praise for an article that includes sentences like

I’ll join the “conversation” on gun control when cops start dropping their Glocks.

what I do dead seriously want to consider is why the messy, shockingly diverse, and sometimes parodically sexist world of pornography—and not the Puritan, hierarchical, and secretly sexist world of Facebook—will indubitably be blamed for the way it makes some boys see women.

If Rodger had a problem with porn, it was that he didn’t see nearly enough of it.

It seemed to me like a weird, meandering piece, one that has some good ideas and writing but then crashes full force into stupid stuff like the above.

JRN, Wednesday, 4 June 2014 02:57 (nine years ago) link

I winced a little at the gun control line, but overall it seemed like a piece that was able to get past the *correct* stances on political issues in order to hit on some deeper truths. I think she's obviously right about porn not being at fault for the way men see women (after all, it's a much older problem than porn) and her "didn't see nearly enough of it" I take to mean that he didn't see enough varieties of it -- perhaps an overly optimistic thought since I presume she means kink or stuff that is way outside of the porn realm that most young straight males frequent.

₴HABΔZZ ¶IZZΔ (Hurting 2), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 03:02 (nine years ago) link

i don't think that piece is perfect, but it's interesting, and honestly written

i mean, she also says she doesn't think the kid was insane

rap steve gadd (D-40), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 03:04 (nine years ago) link

I think it's worth asking what we mean by "insane." He was someone who thought about things in a way that we consider (rightly) grossly unacceptable and way outside the norm, but I think she's suggesting that he may have been a "rational" person who carried ugly and wrong ideas to their extreme conclusions. I got a similar feeling from Breivik. IDK. Like he wasn't hallucinating, he wasn't convinced there were voices telling him to do something, he might be described as "paranoid" in a way I guess, with his sense of the entire way gender and sex works being designed to fuck with him.

₴HABΔZZ ¶IZZΔ (Hurting 2), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 03:08 (nine years ago) link


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