Rolling 'this is sexist' thread

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“A lot of them showed a ton of remorse for their actions. Many of them ended up crying, speechless, jaw drops, and they’re very disappointed by their actions. It’s one of those things that you don’t realize until after the fact.”

I was going to take the piss out of this, but... I guess there is something in it, a la mass hysteria/Milgram experiment/general peer pressure.

This, on the other hand:

“It wasn't a big deal to me. I’m not a feminist kind of person. It didn’t affect me personally,” said second-year psychology student Amanda Fougere.

FUCK YOU YOU FUCKING FUCK.

emil.y, Sunday, 8 September 2013 17:42 (ten years ago) link

i attend a canadian university, organising hitler youth esque rallies & branding girls with alliterative misogynistic epithets is kinda de rigueur, here; i am surprised it has not blown up before now. i almost feel like to tie the above to a particular incident undermines it, as if it's specifically insensitive rather than broadly, comprehensively insensitive. it is a very terrible way to treat & inaugurate the arrival of young people to a city/to adult life imo.

szarkasm (schlump), Sunday, 8 September 2013 17:43 (ten years ago) link

goddammit.

1 P.3. Eternal (roxymuzak), Monday, 9 September 2013 15:12 (ten years ago) link

not sure which individual it was referring to but I saw some twitter activity saying they also gave an award to a guy who had previously found out the SSN, name, and address of a woman who disagreed with him and posted them online

oh yeah, and techcrunch was founded by an alleged rapist and known dickhead. fuck everyone who thinks being associated with that shit is ok.

is space noise (mh), Monday, 9 September 2013 15:29 (ten years ago) link

ah, this is the guy: http://www.theverge.com/2013/9/12/4693710/the-end-of-kindness-weev-and-the-cult-of-the-angry-young-man

Completely wretched human being who was busted for the wrong thing.

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Thursday, 12 September 2013 18:59 (ten years ago) link

good lord that is terrifying

your authentic guitar playing self (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 12 September 2013 19:12 (ten years ago) link

I know this is the minorest of points but:

Caroline Criado-Perez — a British journalist who led a successful campaign to get the image of author Jane Austen on one of the UK’s banknotes

isn't correct, as she says on her own blog: http://weekwoman.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/womens-aid-speech-on-cyber-harassment/

kinder, Thursday, 12 September 2013 19:36 (ten years ago) link

If there’s one thing I want to come out of what happened to me, it’s for the phrase “don’t feed the trolls” to be scrubbed from the annals of received wisdom. Not feeding the trolls doesn’t magically scrub out the image in your head of being told you’ll be gang-raped till you die. What are victims meant to do with that image, the rage and the horror that it conjures up? We’re meant to internalise it until it consumes us? Well I’m sorry, but I’m not having that.

oof, this hits hard

WHAT DOES SAMANTHA FOX SAY (DJP), Thursday, 12 September 2013 19:44 (ten years ago) link

I'm sure 'don't feed the trolls' doesn't apply to online harrassment so it's kind of a stupid thing to say. I agree with 'don't feed the troll' when someone's just posting something challopsy or annoying just to get a rise but these people aren't trolling.

kinder, Thursday, 12 September 2013 19:47 (ten years ago) link

(I don't mean the above is stupid, I mean the people saying 'don't feed the trolls' in this context)

kinder, Thursday, 12 September 2013 19:48 (ten years ago) link

damnit this cyberharassment shit is really scary. I think my version of the "protective dad" speech is going to be "Have fun tonight, be home by 10, and if an inappropriate picture of my daughter ever winds up on the web I'm just going to slit all of her exes' throats, to cover all bases"

#fomo that's the motto (Hurting 2), Thursday, 12 September 2013 19:49 (ten years ago) link

Completely wretched human being who was busted for the wrong thing.

― beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Thursday, September 12, 2013 2:59 PM Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

dunno if weev did anything he shoulda been 'busted' for as opposed to just disliked and shunned for?

"Dave Barlow" is the name Lou uses on sabermetrics baseball sites (s.clover), Thursday, 12 September 2013 19:52 (ten years ago) link

i mean i'm not clear on exactly what other horrible things he did, but i'm really not for locking ppl up for being just terrible

"Dave Barlow" is the name Lou uses on sabermetrics baseball sites (s.clover), Thursday, 12 September 2013 19:53 (ten years ago) link

I knew a guy who was "ironically" racist/misogynist in high school, I think partially as a reaction to his school environment and his blue collar dad really being different in default stances so he went over the top, and it was my first view into the fact that you are the person you act as in daily life, not the person you internally think you are. If people see you being a sexist asshole who treats women like shit, then...

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Thursday, 12 September 2013 19:53 (ten years ago) link

I don't know, publishing someone's SSN, name, and location and encouraging you harass them seems criminal

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Thursday, 12 September 2013 19:53 (ten years ago) link

well if someone does it w/r/t someone in the public eye that i already have it in for (e.g. zimmerman) then i'm gonna be on their side, i think. so then if someone does it to someone i don't have it in for in a terrible way i'm not sure how a legal distinction is possible

"Dave Barlow" is the name Lou uses on sabermetrics baseball sites (s.clover), Thursday, 12 September 2013 19:56 (ten years ago) link

i mean i'm not clear on exactly what other horrible things he did, but i'm really not for locking ppl up for being just terrible

― "Dave Barlow" is the name Lou uses on sabermetrics baseball sites (s.clover), Thursday, September 12, 2013 2:53 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i think he did in fact break the law he was accused of breaking (whether it's good law idk), but it's also true than in a highly technical and obscure case the prosecution paraded all of his online abusiveness and white power nuttiness in front of the jury and they threw him away.

he's also like the most famous 'troll' ever, there's a times profile of him from i swear like 3 years ago, if the other horrible thing's he's done are of interest.

goole, Thursday, 12 September 2013 19:58 (ten years ago) link

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weev

goole, Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:00 (ten years ago) link

afaik there is no use for someone's social security number outside of malicious use? I can't think of any legitimate way I could protest or legally bother someone with it

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:00 (ten years ago) link

wtf are you talking about "legal distinction" -- whether or not you think some people deserve to be harassed or not has nothing to do with whether it's against the law or not in a given jurisdiction (xp)

#fomo that's the motto (Hurting 2), Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:01 (ten years ago) link

Also, while the CFAA is a bad law, the violation he was convicted of would probably be within the confines of a better, narrower version of the same law, i.e. it seems like the kind of conduct that legitimately should be illegal.

#fomo that's the motto (Hurting 2), Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:03 (ten years ago) link

haha yeah, thinking someone deserves to be harassed does not make it legal to actually harass them

WHAT DOES SAMANTHA FOX SAY (DJP), Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:04 (ten years ago) link

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/08/03/magazine/03trolls-t.html?pagewanted=all

jfc, '08

goole, Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:09 (ten years ago) link

well i don't know harassment law v. well, but i don't think its very strong (especially w/r/t online communication) and tends to be a misdemeanor in most cases and i don't really feel it should be beefed up.

"Dave Barlow" is the name Lou uses on sabermetrics baseball sites (s.clover), Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:10 (ten years ago) link

he is also said to have trashed his enemies’ credit ratings.

uh yeah, this shit in the article combined with the fact he's spending money on stuff with no obvious source of income...

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:16 (ten years ago) link

In some states I would bet you could get an aiding-and-abetting conviction for someone who posts a SS# and address with the intention of leading to harassment and where it actually does lead to a crime.

#fomo that's the motto (Hurting 2), Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:17 (ten years ago) link

well i don't know harassment law v. well, but i don't think its very strong (especially w/r/t online communication) and tends to be a misdemeanor in most cases and i don't really feel it should be beefed up.

a bullshit opinion imo

combination hair (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:39 (ten years ago) link

well if someone does it w/r/t someone in the public eye that i already have it in for (e.g. zimmerman) then i'm gonna be on their side, i think. so then if someone does it to someone i don't have it in for in a terrible way i'm not sure how a legal distinction is possible

this is crazy? it is always wrong. even if one feels a savage satisfaction when someone commits a crime against a person one hates it's still a crime.

Dora Viola G. I. de Orellana Dysart Plantagenet Tollemache-Tolle (c sharp major), Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:47 (ten years ago) link

yeah, it's not like vigilante justice becomes ok just because it's online. Do you think it's alright to throw rocks at Zimmerman if you see him in public?

#fomo that's the motto (Hurting 2), Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:49 (ten years ago) link

no, because I don't want to get shot

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:52 (ten years ago) link

I knew a guy who was "ironically" racist/misogynist in high school, I think partially as a reaction to his school environment and his blue collar dad really being different in default stances so he went over the top, and it was my first view into the fact that you are the person you act as in daily life, not the person you internally think you are. If people see you being a sexist asshole who treats women like shit, then...

rip noise board

mookieproof, Thursday, 12 September 2013 20:56 (ten years ago) link

http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2013/09/23/130923fa_fact_widdicombe?currentPage=all

I feel that there might be some good writers that come out of this bustle site, but if so, they're going to be the survivors of a sinking ship. I can't help but giggle at the complete cluelessness of this guy when he treats "women" as a demographic in the way that "sports fans" are a demographic. The parts where he conflates sports fans with men are pretty amazing, too.

He told me that he wished he’d spent time building relationships with what he called “the feminist community.” “It got me thinking,” he said. “Honestly, nothing would have been more helpful here than for some highly regarded feminist writers to say, ‘Bryan’s a good person.’ ”

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Monday, 16 September 2013 16:47 (ten years ago) link

bear in mind that most women, like most men, have shitty taste and are interested in reading dumb articles if at all.

"Dave Barlow" is the name Lou uses on sabermetrics baseball sites (s.clover), Monday, 16 September 2013 16:51 (ten years ago) link

That's the thing, I think the site idea isn't horrible in a not-profitable way! I just don't think that world news or celebrity gossip are written in a way that excludes women

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Monday, 16 September 2013 16:53 (ten years ago) link

three weeks pass...

happy to see the sexy cat/magician's assistant avoided censure

Treeship, Thursday, 10 October 2013 15:55 (ten years ago) link

I don't understand. What's the goal of that img?

Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Thursday, 10 October 2013 15:57 (ten years ago) link

idk. hopefully it is satirizing people who would use hateful language to describe women wearing skimpy halloween costumes.

Treeship, Thursday, 10 October 2013 15:58 (ten years ago) link

I think the goal of that image is to make the viewer's eyes burst into flames due to severe, uncontrollable rolling

Bitch Fantastic (DJP), Thursday, 10 October 2013 15:58 (ten years ago) link

Apparently 'slut' means 'the end' in Swedish and all the costumes thus marked are out of stock.

The normative power of the factual (Michael White), Thursday, 10 October 2013 15:59 (ten years ago) link

xp I had to take a break from eye rolling due to extreme muscle fatigue, no wonder I couldn't tell.

Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Thursday, 10 October 2013 16:00 (ten years ago) link

guys if I go in costume as a woman for halloween which of these should I pick

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Thursday, 10 October 2013 16:06 (ten years ago) link

They're all mediocre

The normative power of the factual (Michael White), Thursday, 10 October 2013 16:22 (ten years ago) link

So what about that spanish arse drummer video then

cardamon, Thursday, 10 October 2013 17:12 (ten years ago) link

http://pixel.nymag.com/imgs/daily/intelligencer/2013/10/10/10-sexual-harassment.o.jpg/a_190x190.jpg

can't even hover-hand a butt these days without a nymag article

beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Thursday, 10 October 2013 18:26 (ten years ago) link

is that for real?

sweat pea (La Lechera), Thursday, 17 October 2013 19:05 (ten years ago) link

That's been all over the blogs I read for the last day or so. Scott Lemieux at LGM does a nice job of helping blow it up: http://www.lawyersgunsmoneyblog.com/2013/10/the-sexual-assault-of-women-isnt-a-problem-of-women-drinking

My question is primarily riparian (Phil D.), Thursday, 17 October 2013 19:09 (ten years ago) link


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