Inquiry into child abuse at Catholic institutions in Ireland

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http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b037p6h2 if anyone wants to watch the program about it

one month passes...

http://minnesota.publicradio.org/features/2013/09/clergy-abuse/

This is insane.

how's life, Tuesday, 24 September 2013 15:16 (ten years ago) link

Wehmeyer left, but circled back twice.

lolllllll

j., Tuesday, 24 September 2013 22:15 (ten years ago) link

six months pass...

taken from broadsheet but relevant imo

Yesterday, Children’s Minister Frances Fitzgerald published the Children First Bill which will make it mandatory for professionals, including priests, to report situations where they believe children are at risk.

Further to this, retired parish priest Fr Gearoid O Donnchu spoke to Chris O’Donoghue on Newstalk and explained why he won’t break the seal of confession under any circumstance.

Mr O’Donoghue started by asking Fr O Donnchu how long he had been a priest.

Gearoid O Donnchu: “Since 1957, so 57 years.”

Chris O’Donoghue: “So I’m guessing in that time you’ve heard thousands of confessions.”

O Donnchu: “I’d say so yes, at least. Many thousands.”

O’Donoghue: “Father, in those confessions have people ever confessed a crime to you?”

O Donnchu: “That’s not a question I can answer.”

O’Donoghue: “Ok. The reason I was asking about that is because of what is envisaged in the Child First, the Child First legislation which we got a look at but we’ve known a little bit about beforehand. And it is envisaged it would be a law (sic) not to report a crime. And say if a crime is about abuse of a child or neglect of a child was told in confession. What’s your reaction?”

O Donnchu: “As far as I’m concerned what I hear in confession, I have not heard.”

O’Donoghue: “Even if that is about a crime?”

O Donnchu: “Even, no matter how bad it is.”

O’Donoghue: “But what if it’s about something that’s ongoing?”

O Donnchu: “I would advise the person that they should make it known publicly or come to me outside of confession. But anything I hear in confession, it’s as if I have not heard it.”

O’Donoghue: “Ok, but Father, do you realise why some people would be angry with that stance? Given that, potentially, people could be at risk. You could be hearing about people that are at risk?”

O’Donnchu: “Yes, but if somebody comes to confession, they come with the understanding that what they say is entirely privileged, there’s no mention of it, ever.”

O’Donoghue: “But I deduce from that though the seal of confession takes precedence over the law?”

O’Donnchu: “The seal of confession takes precedence over everything.”

O’Donoghue: “Even another person’s safety?”

O’Donnchu: “Even my own safety. If someone came and told me that they poisoned the wine I was going to use for Mass, I would still use it.”

O’Donoghue: “But Father, in the incidences of, and I don’t know, I mean, obviously, I’m not a priest so I don’t know how commonplace it is but presumably people who are doing bad things have guilty conscience and, if they are Catholic, they might try to ease that conscience by going to confession and those things could be ongoing like neglect or abuse of a child.”

O Donnchu: “That’s correct. And I think it’s the duty of the priest there to insist with the penitent to do something about the activities that we’re talking about.”

O’Donoghue: “Yes, you can insist in your advice or your counsel that, ‘you should go to the Gardaí’ or whatever that is.”

O Donnchu: “But if they don’t want to go then there’s nothing I can do about it.”

O’Donoghue: “Well there is, but you’re choosing not to?”

O Donnchu: “Oh definitely, I’m choosing not to.”

O’Donoghue: “Are you at peace with that Father, that you could be leaving people in danger?”

O Donnchu: “Completely.”

O’Donoghue: “You’re completely at peace with that?”

O Donnchu: “Completely at peace with it.”

O’Donoghue: “Some people might be livid to hear that.”

O Donnchu: “[laughs] That’s possible. When I say that I’d be completely at peace, I suppose that’s not quite a full statement. I would of course be worried, personally. But I haven’t the liberty to divulge that to a single person.”

O’Donoghue: “You would be breaking the law from now on?”

O Donnchu: “I wonder would I?”

O’Donoghue: “Well I suppose it’s more of a question, would you be breaking the law in what is envisaged here?”

O Donnchu: “I don’t know, I haven’t seen the law. But if the law says that what I hear in confession I should go to the guards with, then I’m prepared to break that.”

O’Donoghue: “Even if, at the core of the issue here, Father, is something that I genuinely believe you would believe is strongly in: protection of the child in all instance.”

O Donnchu: “Definitely, I would do everything I could to protect a child.”

O’Donoghue: “But not to break the seal…”

O Donnchu: “But not to break the seal of confession.”

O’Donoghue: “So you are keeping one thing above the protection of the child then?

O Donnchu: “I’m keeping one thing above the protection of myself, the child, the protection of anything.”

O’Donoghue: “But you see Father, in say, the analogy you gave about the wine, that’s personal choice, you’re choosing not to protect yourself in that instance. A child can’t choose, a child could be in a harmful environment and, as an adult, you now have essential information.”

O Donnchu: “In a way I don’t. The priest with whom he’s in confession has that information but that priest is not allowed to divulge that information to anybody. That’s the way, that’s the way I was educated, that’s the way I’ve lived, that’s the way I intend to continue to live, please God.”

O’Donoghue: “Father Gearoid, is there any, and I understand you won’t tell me instances of confession, but is there any working around this? I mean can you act, based on something that you have heard in confession, I don’t mean tip someone off, I don’t mean something that blunt but can you act to remove people from situations in your other duties.”

O Donnchu: “No.”

O’Donoghue: “You don’t do anything based on what you hear in confession?”

O Donnchu: “Not a thing.”

O’Donoghue: “Even if that is breaking the law from now on, that’s what you’re willing to keep doing?”

O Donnchu: “I’m not sure if it is breaking the law but if it is breaking the law, then I’m prepared to do that.”

recommend me a new bagman (darraghmac), Wednesday, 16 April 2014 10:52 (ten years ago) link

He's following the Canon Law of his church and could/would in theory be excommunicated for breaking the Seal of Confession so I think the problem more with the higher law (in his eyes) that constrains him than that particular priest.

I'd be willing to bet good money he'd accidentally spill that wine.

Can. 983 §1. The sacramental seal is inviolable; therefore it is absolutely forbidden for a confessor to betray in any way a penitent in words or in any manner and for any reason.

Can. 1388 §1. A confessor who directly violates the sacramental seal incurs a latae sententiae excommunication reserved to the Apostolic See; one who does so only indirectly is to be punished according to the gravity of the delict.

You'd hope our all new not as scary as the last guy Pope would have a look at that.

pick it up for ripple laser (onimo), Wednesday, 16 April 2014 12:00 (ten years ago) link

the logic is impeccable, pedophiles can trust priests and children can't

j., Wednesday, 16 April 2014 13:36 (ten years ago) link

one month passes...

I can't even muster for this latest. nothing that comes out surprises, just glaze over tbh. but its absolutely horrific. also: no coverage that I can recall nationally, certainly nothing like what it should be.

http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/jun/04/claim-of-800-childrens-bodies-buried-at-irish-home-for-unwed-mothers

dn/ac (darraghmac), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 09:23 (nine years ago) link

saw it yesterday, and too horrible to draw any points from tbh except maybe that if you want inhumanity at its best then you gotta organize for it

arid banter (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 09:24 (nine years ago) link

http://www.thejournal.ie/tuam-mass-grave-babies-1488267-May2014/

“People aren’t really talking about the discovery,” she said. "People don’t seem shocked, I don’t understand. If two children were discovered in an unmarked grave, the news would be everywhere. We have almost 800 here.”

everyday sheeple (Michael B), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 09:29 (nine years ago) link

sense of collective guilt re: parents' and grandparents' values maybe?

arid banter (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 09:32 (nine years ago) link

definitely.

and I'm early 30s and went through the catholic school system and even though I spent the last 6-7 years avowedly atheist it still feels, at some level, something everyone here has complicit guilt for.

which is bullshit but yet...

dn/ac (darraghmac), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 09:38 (nine years ago) link

I was actually thinking about that story the other day and was reminded of something mentioned in the Savita coverage. Someone mentioned how, if you read Irish papers over the years, you would eventually notice a "trend" of small pieces about dead infants being found in public places. Like these things are reported but it's almost accepted. And that was something we never really discussed as a culture.

That or the old sow who eats her farrow, idk idk idk.

gyac, Wednesday, 4 June 2014 09:48 (nine years ago) link

yeah the collusion between the community, religious orders and the state over this means no-one is ever going to be held accountable for it

everyday sheeple (Michael B), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 09:53 (nine years ago) link

shrug the collective shoulders and go on

gyac, Wednesday, 4 June 2014 09:55 (nine years ago) link

mass grave of 800 bodies found in rural Ireland India, authorities powerless to act

dn/ac (darraghmac), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 10:01 (nine years ago) link

"oh that's shocking, oh imagine living somewhere awful like that"

dn/ac (darraghmac), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 10:02 (nine years ago) link

It does feel like casually ignoring horrific shit is part of our M.O. as a people. I mean, if you had any other country with the amount of suspicious devices and bomb scares we have...

gyac, Wednesday, 4 June 2014 10:08 (nine years ago) link

just speaking personally like

I have experience of the type of fella still doing that, and at least as far as the local type goes, he's beyond idiocy, in the main, and yknow there's a reason most of them are intercepted long before the device gets to where its going, or if it gets there it doesn't stand a chance of working

that said, I wouldn't have called it commonplace out west, is it that much more prevalent other than towards the north or at Quinn factories?

dn/ac (darraghmac), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 10:39 (nine years ago) link

is there any sense at all from the media of "ah the Church has had enough of a battering these past couple of years, let's give them a break eh lads"?

arid banter (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 11:04 (nine years ago) link

idk, first thoughts are yes to that, and then there's definitely deference from the IT and the other broadsheets, and then the most depressing thought is that well, this isn't news anymore

dn/ac (darraghmac), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 11:09 (nine years ago) link

i did wonder if there was some variation on "scandal fatigue" as well as the lingering deference in some quarters

arid banter (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 11:10 (nine years ago) link

mix of all three

also afaic nothing done. the church has been publicly broken but hasn't seen individuals brought to justice nor paid anything like restoration nor been anything less than begrudging or defiant in acknowledgement.

and it still controls education infrastructure.

dn/ac (darraghmac), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 11:13 (nine years ago) link

so the fatigue is strengthened by a lack of any faith in the structures that should be formally moving against the legacy power, lending credence to the uneasy suspicions that change isn't coming quickly

dn/ac (darraghmac), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 11:15 (nine years ago) link

multiple xps

I was thinking more towards the border, Dundalk and all that, but you get a bit of it in Dublin too.

gyac, Wednesday, 4 June 2014 11:19 (nine years ago) link

north side is the new border hey

dn/ac (darraghmac), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 11:25 (nine years ago) link

this story made me remember when a 15 year old girl in my class at my catholic school had a baby she intended to keep who was born with severe birth defects and died within hours, and hard adult voices said it was for the best. these were people who marched piously against abortion and didn't believe in birth control but they said with grim satisfaction that her cruel bereavement was for the best, as if god had done her a big favour.

estela, Wednesday, 4 June 2014 11:32 (nine years ago) link

in the long run we might all someday get those ppls learned and certain wisdom, but I hope not

dn/ac (darraghmac), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 11:42 (nine years ago) link

Most talk seems to be geared around "hey let's build a memorial" rather than anything else :/

everyday sheeple (Michael B), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 12:21 (nine years ago) link

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estela, Wednesday, 4 June 2014 12:29 (nine years ago) link

Please note: this offer excludes infants abandoned by God because their mother was a whore

arid banter (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 4 June 2014 14:04 (nine years ago) link

re lack of coverage of this domestically

chairman of rte board is director of the firm handling the nuns pr apparently

dn/ac (darraghmac), Friday, 6 June 2014 13:22 (nine years ago) link

I thought RTE were covering it now? They seem to have a good bit on the site atm. Was just reading this > http://www.rte.ie/news/2014/0606/622045-dail-children/

gyac, Friday, 6 June 2014 13:35 (nine years ago) link

they are now! silence was deafening for days after tho

dn/ac (darraghmac), Friday, 6 June 2014 13:41 (nine years ago) link

yeah, "now" obviously the keyword here. I have a lot of problems with them and their obvious slants and biases (and the ridiculous amount of airtime they gave to the 1ona crowd too).

gyac, Friday, 6 June 2014 13:56 (nine years ago) link

I wanted to go into that more with kev there too.

the Iona/far right balance issue is a case of Irish establishment either believing that there is a silently majority out there cheering Iona on (not my experience but I won't discount it), that 'balance' requires a fifty-fifty share of coverage, airtime and moderation without regard to fact or reason (def don't discount this) or that fuckit, its better TV to have the most partisan loudmouths possible on there regardless of misrepresentation.

all options are profoundly depressing so I turn gladly to conspiracy tbph

dn/ac (darraghmac), Friday, 6 June 2014 14:06 (nine years ago) link

one year passes...

so my dad just found out that his grandparents were his granduncle/aunt- his grandmother was packed off to Dublin to have the child and was on the boat to the states a fortnight later. she never saw her son again despite returning to Ireland twice for him.

she married in NYC, had 6 kids (including a supreme court judge?) and one of her grandchildren made contact with dad today to meet up and trade stories.

all because lol catholic church lol ireland lol 1911, giving kid to your brother to raise and leaving home forever was the better alternative.

deejerk reactions (darraghmac), Monday, 12 October 2015 23:12 (eight years ago) link

hmm seems more likely a court of appeals judge, nm

deejerk reactions (darraghmac), Monday, 12 October 2015 23:20 (eight years ago) link

well then, only the court of appeals you say. then he's hardly made a noise in the world at all.

Morris the Florist meets Horace the Taurus (Aimless), Monday, 12 October 2015 23:28 (eight years ago) link

ugh he's an anti death penalty campaigner imma call dad back tell him to call the whole thing off

deejerk reactions (darraghmac), Monday, 12 October 2015 23:32 (eight years ago) link

my old parish priest back in the news
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-highlands-islands-34504729

Cosmic Slop, Monday, 12 October 2015 23:49 (eight years ago) link

I had an auntie who turned out be my half-sister. I got relegated to some foam on the floor for 4 years when she moved into our 2 bedroom house, it was an early lesson in dread lol catholicism for me :(

sort of on topic:p

xelab, Monday, 12 October 2015 23:59 (eight years ago) link

three years pass...

I am watching my national news service running a major story on a woman that was miraculously healed after visiting a shrine in my home county where the virgin mary appeared on a gable along with sundry others in 1879 and tear this fucking country down please

theRZA the JZA and the NDB (darraghmac), Sunday, 1 September 2019 21:15 (four years ago) link

Knock? Easily the creepiest place in the country I’ve ever been to.

gyac, Sunday, 1 September 2019 21:36 (four years ago) link

ive conducted housing interviews in day-long batches there and v noticeable strain of crazy vs the other six centres

theRZA the JZA and the NDB (darraghmac), Sunday, 1 September 2019 21:40 (four years ago) link

Knock do some cracking holy water though, it might have cured me of the bollocking I got for greedily drinking a gulp of it once whilst "pooching" in the grown-up section of the childhood slum!

calzino, Sunday, 1 September 2019 21:41 (four years ago) link

I didn't dare replace it with tap water lest i got struck down.

calzino, Sunday, 1 September 2019 21:41 (four years ago) link


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