Grimes/Claire Boucher thread

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yeah see i suspect grimes to get to the point she is at, hugely acclaimed artist, doing it by herself, dealing with people who clearly didn't believe she could do it along the way...i suspect toughness is not her problem. but little things do build up over time and people get pissed and sometimes, amazingly, delete their blogs.

christmas candy bar (al leong), Thursday, 7 February 2013 19:54 (eleven years ago) link

even if she's very easily offended or prone to overreacting in real life, I see absolutely no evidence of that here and I honestly wish I was nearly as contemplative in my reactions and thoughts. and I don't even have anyone hounding me or caring what I think.

mh, Thursday, 7 February 2013 19:55 (eleven years ago) link

not that this isn't part of real life!

mh, Thursday, 7 February 2013 19:55 (eleven years ago) link

really wish I hadn't actually seen her list

ron paulstretch (crüt), Thursday, 7 February 2013 19:57 (eleven years ago) link

josh how grimes handles this is literally irrelevant, she can handle it exactly as she pleases and how she feels would be best for her

No, I insist she take my advice. Do you have a way I can contact her? I know what's best for her.

Seriously, I think this whole thing transcends blame the victim. I feel like we're all victimized by this stuff all the time, in a sense. If someone told me when I was little that one of my favorite artists would not only have a portal that provided a direct link but would actively encourage free (in every sense) communication, I would not have believed you. If someone then said such a thing would be ruined by assholes writing in hateful and hurtful shit just because it's easy and anonymous, young me would have asked why the fuck anyone would do that? It makes me sad. Sort of recalls the ground zero of this sort of thing, of Bob Dylan trying to live a normal public life, and that getting fucked up by psycho fans going through his mail, dropping in on him at home, etc.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:00 (eleven years ago) link

it's true. you are actually the victim in this situation.

zero dark (s1ocki), Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:01 (eleven years ago) link

I think I'm going to blog about it.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:02 (eleven years ago) link

Josh I don't agree with what you're saying but I do think you're expressing a globally accepted consensus opinion about people in the public eye, "you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen". I think it's nonsense but here I am also expressing opinions online about public figures

dry rub come save beef (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:05 (eleven years ago) link

I think it's possible to disagree strongly in the abstract, but reality dictates this shit will never go away. Internet comments are the least of it.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:10 (eleven years ago) link

cannot stand the "bad thing [x] will never go away so we should just accept & tolerate it" mindset

lex pretend, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:13 (eleven years ago) link

yeah, me neither.Lex, let's you and I get together to make sure this kind of thing never happens again.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:16 (eleven years ago) link

the best I can do is not do that s*** myself, and teach my kids not to do it either.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:17 (eleven years ago) link

Android, taking the first step by censoring my writing.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:17 (eleven years ago) link

I mean, that stuff thousands of people have to go through on a daily basis via via the Internet infuriates me, but I honestly don't know what the solution is.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:19 (eleven years ago) link

I'm honestly scared s******* at what my daughters will have to go through in just a few years. but short of cutting them off from the internet I'm not sure what I can do.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:20 (eleven years ago) link

this situation seems to me an example of somebody making the inevitable just that much easier. unfortunately.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:22 (eleven years ago) link

lmao does android actually censor when you type the wort shit

❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:22 (eleven years ago) link

It does! Sometimes. When I do it by voice.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:24 (eleven years ago) link

There is the part where she isn't actually sure that blogging is helpful to what she does, it feels like she was thinking about closing the tumblr and that the trolling was the final straw.

Van Horn Street, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:30 (eleven years ago) link

5*** 3*** 7*** 1*** exp **/13

omg android is amazing

a permanent mental health break (difficult listening hour), Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:32 (eleven years ago) link

lex be honest how many people have you sent death threats to for having "Gangnam Style" on their EOY list

dirty drone barack boy (some dude), Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:34 (eleven years ago) link

all of them, twice -_-

lex pretend, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:36 (eleven years ago) link

uh not the trolling, but because her posts were being used in a way she didn't intend them to be. which is a perfectly valid reason to delete one's blog imo.

xposts lmao lex

Roz, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:37 (eleven years ago) link

man, if only there was a place on the web where I could interact as just a fellow human being with musicians who have had critically acclaimed work

mh, Thursday, 7 February 2013 20:40 (eleven years ago) link

Wait, are you saying we should invite Grimes to 77

how's life, Thursday, 7 February 2013 21:06 (eleven years ago) link

we're... not on 77 right now

* mind blown *

mh, Thursday, 7 February 2013 21:14 (eleven years ago) link

oh man, I don't know why I said that. I hope Grimes googlers don't start coming around and asking questions.

how's life, Thursday, 7 February 2013 21:54 (eleven years ago) link

they seem to have calmed down, the Ned googlers haven't tried setting up any shrines for him on ILE for a few years

mh, Thursday, 7 February 2013 22:04 (eleven years ago) link

beyonce posted here as dom passantino for years before she was banned

unprepared guitar (Edward III), Thursday, 7 February 2013 22:20 (eleven years ago) link

Been thinking earlier today that Grimes would fit in pretty well here between being amazing.

eskimo table (seandalai), Friday, 8 February 2013 00:11 (eleven years ago) link

wkiw claire

❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Friday, 8 February 2013 00:14 (eleven years ago) link

yep

markers, Friday, 8 February 2013 00:40 (eleven years ago) link

Not sure who is arguing for her playing the victim but either there are plenty of strawmen here or some words have been misunderstood. I was just trying to tell her what i would tell any stranger, friend, or family member to do about internet trolls: ignore them. There is no magic internet troll b gone button....yet.

It's kind of a mute issue now that she's taken it down. Personal webspace turning into office public space is a tough thing to deal with I imagine. If you're recording and playing shows and all it's much easier to just tune it out and focus on what's important at the moment.

Emperor Cos Dashit (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 8 February 2013 00:43 (eleven years ago) link

And then we can look forward to seeing more posts turned into pitchfork headlines

Moodles, Friday, 8 February 2013 00:44 (eleven years ago) link

Xpost

Moodles, Friday, 8 February 2013 00:44 (eleven years ago) link

she could post as "underrated beyonce singles i have blogged"

❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Friday, 8 February 2013 00:54 (eleven years ago) link

She won't show up if you keep saying nice things about her

dry rub come save beef (flamboyant goon tie included), Friday, 8 February 2013 00:55 (eleven years ago) link

"flamboyant pussy ring included"

Tim F, Friday, 8 February 2013 00:58 (eleven years ago) link

lol

dirty drone barack boy (some dude), Friday, 8 February 2013 01:29 (eleven years ago) link

whooooa Tim!

mh, Friday, 8 February 2013 02:20 (eleven years ago) link

they seem to have calmed down, the Ned googlers haven't tried setting up any shrines for him on ILE for a few years

...there's a vision.

Ned Raggett, Friday, 8 February 2013 02:36 (eleven years ago) link

Local band/AmRep types Supernova once threatened to write a song about me called "My Name is Ned," while my friend Grady in Chicago wants to do the same. I say bring it on. FEED MY EGO!

― Ned Raggett, Thursday, April 19, 2001 2:00 PM (11 years ago)

❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Friday, 8 February 2013 02:46 (eleven years ago) link

And? DID YOU?

Ned Raggett, Friday, 8 February 2013 02:51 (eleven years ago) link

full disclosure: today is the first time I've actually felt compelled to give Visions a listen

Drugs A. Money, Friday, 8 February 2013 06:02 (eleven years ago) link

better late than never

markers, Friday, 8 February 2013 06:49 (eleven years ago) link

hey it’s claire

I've had a really hard time with all of this but if it means that Drugs A Money has finally listened to my album Visions then i guess it's all been worth it.

x
c

Deafening silence (DL), Friday, 8 February 2013 12:38 (eleven years ago) link

three weeks pass...

http://actuallygrimes.tumblr.com/post/44487022558

markers, Sunday, 3 March 2013 22:44 (eleven years ago) link

lol

Nilmar Honorato da Silva, Sunday, 3 March 2013 22:49 (eleven years ago) link

Amazon is bad for people prone to options paralysis

markers, Friday, 8 March 2013 19:00 (eleven years ago) link

woops -- that's part of someone else's post that i was responding to by modifying on 77.

markers, Friday, 8 March 2013 19:01 (eleven years ago) link


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