I feel like this one could at least be a bro even if other things didn't work, which is a better sign than I've had for a while. I think we know some people in common even. Otoh that kinda puts pressure on not to do or say anything I'll regret b/c I might have to be around this person again in the future.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 26 April 2012 16:38 (1 year ago) Permalink
as long as it's not emotional weirdness it's ok, imo
― mh, Thursday, 26 April 2012 16:45 (1 year ago) Permalink
Oh I just meant getting drunk and over-excited and talking a lot, loudly, possibly pounding on the bar for emphasis, and/or making out in public or something equally dumb. All par for the course, sadly.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 26 April 2012 16:56 (1 year ago) Permalink
This is why I don't have nice things easily embarrassed friends.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 26 April 2012 16:58 (1 year ago) Permalink
once you take those things out everything left sounds a little bit dull to me tbh
― Upt0eleven, Thursday, 26 April 2012 17:00 (1 year ago) Permalink
That means you are the kind of person I could be friends with! Congratulations.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Thursday, 26 April 2012 17:00 (1 year ago) Permalink
a very cheerful note on which to end my day :)
have fun!
― Upt0eleven, Thursday, 26 April 2012 17:02 (1 year ago) Permalink
It went very cutely, btw. I mean who fucking knows but thumbs up for now.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Friday, 27 April 2012 18:37 (1 year ago) Permalink
what happened to dimples?
― two overweight dachshunds with three eyes (La Lechera), Friday, 27 April 2012 19:50 (1 year ago) Permalink
I don't think he really liked me that much? It just kind of trailed off. He was good with all the things you can check off a list: email on time, send thank-yous, offer to lift heavy things, etc, but it was kind of like he read about them in a rule-book and not because his heart was in it? Serial dater, had the moves down but I could never tell what was behind them.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Friday, 27 April 2012 19:55 (1 year ago) Permalink
Be a fuck-up, be a hot mess, but please be basically a warm, affectionate person that I can at least understand.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Friday, 27 April 2012 20:08 (1 year ago) Permalink
Actually I prefer fuck-ups and hot messes, apparently. I mean going on the evidence.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Friday, 27 April 2012 20:09 (1 year ago) Permalink
It's heartening to be reminded that not everyone treats dating/relationships like a g-d financial transaction. Fuck-ups and hot messes need love, too.
― Dr. Buzzard's® Original Banana Bread (Deric W. Haircare), Friday, 27 April 2012 21:13 (1 year ago) Permalink
I think I've decided I'm easy
― mh, Friday, 27 April 2012 21:21 (1 year ago) Permalink
Honey, we knew that.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Saturday, 28 April 2012 14:33 (1 year ago) Permalink
Uh I don't know what this is but I like it.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Sunday, 29 April 2012 14:29 (1 year ago) Permalink
Going on 4th day of seeing each oth btw. o_O
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Sunday, 29 April 2012 15:08 (1 year ago) Permalink
wow! :)
― obliquity of the ecliptic (rrrobyn), Sunday, 29 April 2012 16:24 (1 year ago) Permalink
Laurel!
― mh, Sunday, 29 April 2012 16:27 (1 year ago) Permalink
I know! Going back on everything I stand for.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Sunday, 29 April 2012 16:31 (1 year ago) Permalink
I'm not going back on it, not really! I have plans 4 out of 5 nights this week already, he just showed up on a blank weekend in my calendar so it was simple to get together. And nice. We'll see how it goes. We live near each oth so that part, at least, still holds?
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Sunday, 29 April 2012 16:33 (1 year ago) Permalink
I was gonna say, wtf are you talking about? You wanted warmth and availability and ease, and you got it! Enjoy it ffs ;)
― two overweight dachshunds with three eyes (La Lechera), Sunday, 29 April 2012 16:41 (1 year ago) Permalink
Yesssssssss
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Sunday, 29 April 2012 16:48 (1 year ago) Permalink
they pretty much just do stuff thursday-sunday and spend the rest of the week doing their own thing in their own homes or with friends.
I was like.... wait, you can actually do that?!?
Yep. That's pretty much my ideal too, to the point that for much of my life i gravitated towards kinda-long distance relationships to ensure it stayed that way.
― Lee626, Sunday, 29 April 2012 20:33 (1 year ago) Permalink
I think it's time for me to move any further updates to the boy trubs thread because for the duration of whatever I am off okc.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Monday, 30 April 2012 14:34 (1 year ago) Permalink
congrats!
― rayuela, Monday, 30 April 2012 14:39 (1 year ago) Permalink
Thanks! I guess! It doesn't feel like I've "arrived" anywhere in any way, it's just a beginning and god only knows. But it's...okay! Enthusiastically okay.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Monday, 30 April 2012 14:47 (1 year ago) Permalink
grudging enthusiasm
― rayuela, Monday, 30 April 2012 14:48 (1 year ago) Permalink
You know me.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Monday, 30 April 2012 14:51 (1 year ago) Permalink
it's the way to go!
― rayuela, Monday, 30 April 2012 14:54 (1 year ago) Permalink
POLYAMOROUS PEOPLE OF OKCUPID - LEAVE ME ALONE!
― homosexual II, Thursday, 3 May 2012 20:13 (1 year ago) Permalink
I only discovered the poly scene on okc when I listed bisexual on my profile l o l
― superpussy, Thursday, 3 May 2012 20:25 (1 year ago) Permalink
OMG
― Pita Malört (Je55e), Friday, 4 May 2012 17:39 (1 year ago) Permalink
Hey!
― Pita Malört (Je55e), Friday, 4 May 2012 17:40 (1 year ago) Permalink
I just got a message on Scruff from a super super cute guy who works at Trader Joe's. He recognized me. I've caught him looking at me every time I'm in there but I kind of thought he was straight and just being that Trader Joe's brand of preternaturally friendly!
― Pita Malört (Je55e), Friday, 4 May 2012 17:42 (1 year ago) Permalink
Ugh why do so many guys got to name themselves lame things like "artyguy" and "quirkyguy" and similar vague "I'm cool, me!" words that are really offputting? Whats in a name, etc, but blergh.
― fix it with like some music glue (Trayce), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:22 (1 year ago) Permalink
creativelad18563
― the aower of aussy (electricsound), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:26 (1 year ago) Permalink
Ha yeah exactly ;_;
― fix it with like some music glue (Trayce), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:27 (1 year ago) Permalink
shit you figured out my name on okc
― mh, Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:34 (1 year ago) Permalink
LAD
roffle
― fix it with like some music glue (Trayce), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:36 (1 year ago) Permalink
OK in the immediate list of matches and visitors on my page Ive got names such as "foodartguy", "artyguy435", "luv2plsrU" (ewwwww), and at least four guys with the word "geek" or "nerd" in their username. COME ON GUYS. TRY HARDER.
― fix it with like some music glue (Trayce), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:38 (1 year ago) Permalink
Je55e, what happened with the scruffy trader joe guy??
― rayuela, Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:42 (1 year ago) Permalink
new dn
― 12plsrU (electricsound), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:45 (1 year ago) Permalink
aaargh
― fix it with like some music glue (Trayce), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:51 (1 year ago) Permalink
lol
― mh, Tuesday, 8 May 2012 00:51 (1 year ago) Permalink
luv 2 plaster U
― madame boo berry (donna rouge), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 03:02 (1 year ago) Permalink
taintbaster1984
― You Don't Throw Oranges On An Escalator (Deric W. Haircare), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 03:39 (1 year ago) Permalink
I kinda chose two random words without any real associations as my username so you have to actually read my profile to find me unappealing.
― You Don't Throw Oranges On An Escalator (Deric W. Haircare), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 03:44 (1 year ago) Permalink
Lotta cut shirtless guys all up in my OKC today too, yuck.
― Pureed Moods (Trayce), Tuesday, 8 May 2012 03:45 (1 year ago) Permalink