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once this girl asked me to eat her out, and her cunt was blleding in huge roten chucks and then i saif this is fucking disgusting and why dont you just eat some bleeding shit out of my fucking ass you slut, and she told me it was all because she ate a really rare steak, so that s why her cunt was tlike that, i just made her lick it all off my cock after and then i said thats your babys brains.

― ass eater johnson, Sunday, 18 May 2003 22:36 (twenty years ago) link

Trayce: it kinda goes without saying that if the guy says it's cool and is then grossed out it's TOO BAD FOR HIM. Generally speaking, the last thing I'm thinking about before fucking is whether or not there's gonna be stuff on my sheets. Blood washes out, and if you do have a stain it can be a happy reminder.

― Bryan (Bryan), Sunday, 18 May 2003 22:38 (twenty years ago) link

Since fivvy brought it up, I'll offer my experience, which I've not seen mirrored on the board (and my, we do talk about sex on the rag quite a bit it seems): the boyfriend is quite squeamish about blood and related but he's also a good sport and quite horny, but the few times we've tried it, it hasn't worked out well for me. I feel like my cervix is swollen or something, and he bumps up against it more, so it ends up being too painful to be worthwhile. (He's a bit big on the best of days anyway.) Also it seems to prolong my period by a day or too...no fun. (p.s. I also get that eye of the hurricane sitch.)

― teeny (teeny), Monday, 19 May 2003 00:41 (twenty years ago) link

A) Mention it. Better to know before hand than to look down and worry about having ruptured something. Really. (To say nothing about the health/safe sex issue.)

B) I've found that orgasms during my period tend to lessen the intensity and duration of menustral cramping.

C) About the "dryness" during the period - I also ahve this problem - dry-up and the muscles contract - just calls for some lube and some prolonged finger exploration by my partner (and I am not gonna bitch about that requirement).

D) I am quite pleased to see how many on here are not repulsed by the thought of menustral blood.

E) And for Anne, about the oral sex - honey, I'm sorry you feel that way - I need the clit involved if I'm going to reach climax, but oral sex without cruising for the orgasm is not something to be overlooked.

― I'm Passing Open Windows (Ms Laura), Monday, 19 May 2003 01:17 (twenty years ago) link

Interesting, I find sex just before a period brings it on and makes me cramp more. At least it seems thats whats happening...

― Trayce (trayce), Monday, 19 May 2003 01:24 (twenty years ago) link

I heart the sex during the period. I am so damn horny then it's not even funny.

I respect everyone's choices etc. blah blah, HOWEVER, if a guy has a problem with this completely common situation then that's an automatic downside in my book. I mean he might as well go ahead and tell me he's Republican for god's sakes!

― That Girl (thatgirl), Monday, 19 May 2003 05:53 (twenty years ago) link

Amen sistah.

― luna (luna.c), Monday, 19 May 2003 05:57 (twenty years ago) link

I've known guys who didnt know which hole we pee out of, so being ok with periods would probably be waayyy beyond them. Bloody sad really, they must have grown up with no sisters/mother figures...

― Trayce (trayce), Monday, 19 May 2003 06:14 (twenty years ago) link

this isn't really a question. just bring in some towels, make sure he wears a condom (which you probably do anyway, right?) and PRESTO!

― M Matos (M Matos), Monday, 19 May 2003 06:16 (twenty years ago) link

Tell first. Intercourse should never be a problem, but oral treats might not be on the menu.
Several years ago a period caught both of us off guard once when midway through a particularly athletic romp through several rooms (I had already gone down), I noticed my equipment was bright red.
We had a good laugh, noted that it was Hallowe'en and all that and then moved to the shower.
But it was Hallowe'en. So it was funny. But for like two seconds, I thought I had done serious damage. Because there was a lot of it, and men really don't associate blood (or blood-like female secretions, I'm not 100% clear on the whole menstruation thing, but I'm okay with that) with anything other than (typically violent) injuries.
So, I can say, if you're with a longterm/regular/steady partner, then the period should not pose a problem for the dude. But if a guy has not been around a woman for a while, then menstruation is far from the top of his mind, and if he hasn't been forewarned and he sees blood, I think a mild reaction should be tolerated.

― HoraceMann, Monday, 19 May 2003 07:41 (twenty years ago) link

Tell him for the sake of courtesy and openness, but there's no reason why it should make any kind of difference.

― Mark C (Mark C), Monday, 19 May 2003 08:58 (twenty years ago) link

i think a bit of talking is a good idea if you going to be intimate with the lad. there is some basic technical aspects to the whole beast with 2 backs thing, re: persons individual tastes that is always good to mention anyhow so a little bit of information viz the waxing and waning of your menstrul moon would not necessarily put said fella off.

if it does he would surely be more freaked by the prospect of some haemoglobin on the end of his latex truncheon, so your best off avoiding any post/mid coital scene.

most likely he will be too nice and sensitive and that might put tamper with the animalistic mentatility of your passion.

― arthur woodlouse (arthur woodlouse), Monday, 19 May 2003 10:36 (twenty years ago) link

Anne, I weep for what must have been your poor experiences with being eaten out in the past...

weep being the operative word in this thread.

― ken c, Monday, 19 May 2003 12:42 (twenty years ago) link

three years pass...

Andrew - hepatitis C is transmitted by blood not other body fluids AFAIK, however apparently it is a very low risk of being transmitted this way from sexual contact.

― spectra (spectra), Saturday, 5 August 2006 02:14 (seventeen years ago) link

Are there any other diseases that would be present in the blood, but not in vaginal fluids?

― lurker #2421, inc. (lurker-2421), Saturday, 5 August 2006 04:18 (seventeen years ago) link

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