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even though Diane thought Sam Malone was a bland ingnoramus, she was still drawn to him, desiring his attention with a FERVOR and a PASSION!

Susan Douglas (Susan Douglas), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 16:55 (eighteen years ago) link

Off topic, but maybe more interesting to some:

How do I wash an old or antique quilt?

First, I would never wash an antique quilt in a washing machine, at least not one which has an agitator as the quilt will get wrapped around the agitator and will more than likely be ruined.

I would also never wash a quilt containing wool or silk, nor would I dry clean an antique quilt. Wool and silk are especially fragile. Dry cleaners use strong solutions and are more likely to hurt a quilt rather than save it.


Also, there must be no damaged areas--areas where you can see the batting poking out, rips, or places where the dyes (or other things) have eaten through the fabric. These are too fragile to withstand cleaning.


Most quilts in good condition (without damage mentioned above),can be cleaned first by vacuuming. You need to get a screen, fiberglass window screening available by the yard at your hardware store works well. Tape or sew binding on the edges to prevent the sharp ends from pulling threads or snagging the quilt.


Prepare a large table, or the floor by laying down a white sheet. Place the quilt on top, then the screen on top of that. Take a vacuum which is set at the softest suction possible by adjusting the air flow and hold the vacuum OVER the quilt (not directly on it). The vacuum will suck up dirt without pulling up the fibers. The screen helps prevent any damage to the quilt and holds all the fibers down. Vacuum the entire top of the quilt, then turn it over and vacuum the back side. This often is enough.


Some cotton quilts may be cleaned in the following way, but it is important to test the quilt to make sure that the dyes are stable.

Test each of different fabrics as follows: take a try Q tip and rub it over each of the fabrics. IF the color transfers, then it is likely it will run. If it passes this test, then dampen the q-tips and rub it on each of the fabrics. If it comes off onto the q-tip, then it will run.

If you have come this far without it running, then for the discolored spots, you can mix up a solution of non-chlorine bleach, specifically, I would use oh bother...Oxydol? It is in a blue container...and it is a really good addition to your washing...darling daughter is singing in my ear and I am having a hard time remembering. I'll check in the basement later. Spot treat the areas using a spoon or a piece of muslin to tamp it on.

Draw some cold or at most tepid water into the bath tub...put in approx. 2 T of Orvus paste (you can get this at quilt shops, from Clotilde, or from some Livestock supply places (cheapest there....it was originally designed for washing Livestock--it is straight sodium Lauryl Sulfate and is gentlest on your stuff) into about 4 - 5" of water. Buy one of the Woolite or CArbona "dye mops" to absorb dye which leaches in to the water...as a precaution. Lay the screening on top of the water and place quilt on top. Put dye mop on top of that. Pat the water through the quilt, not wringing. continue patting. Do not let the quilt soak as if the dyes go into the water and resettled, that is what contributes to the running of the dyes.

Drain off water, and run cold water through until the water comes off clear and no suds.


Press water out of quilt. Use towels to blot more water out. Lift the quilt on the screen (textiles are at their weakest when wet) and lay the quilt flat to dry...either on top of a clean sheet laid on the floor or outside. If you are putting the quilt outside to dry, cover the top with another sheet so that nothing falls on the quilt. Inside, put a fan on the quilt. After the top seems dry, turn it over and let the back side dry.

peepee (peepee), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 16:55 (eighteen years ago) link

they are aware that the president is not that hip, that MTV is fake and that reality t.v sucks.
They are in touch with the real world. congradulations Jmeister.

Marissa, there isn't a single person on this board that doesn't agree with you, yet most of them still feel your music to be a bit bland; perhaps a retread of Loreena McKennitt's stuff from the very early '90s but with less flair still. You've also found yourself in the very unenviable position of swimming in a pool of sharks, and we're often just waiting to rip a poor little seal to shreds... why? Because we're a bunch of strong-opinioned pricks (sometimes) who like to really get at the root of how music and culture affect one another. The truth is, most of us have nothing to do with the music industry, at least from a major-label angle, (some are journalists, but we're hardly part of the "industry" per se) and contrary to what you might think about how we "support" artists and art, we actually fucking love music so deeply (it is called I Love Music after all) that we're just basically insulted when crap artists foist their junk onto us and call it music and then demand certain respect for their less-than-worthy output. (search threads for the name Michael Costello... we just couldn't seem to kill that kid... good sport, he is, and i think many of us have grown to like him around!)

Despite the fact that I, and many of us here, find your songs to be incredibly tired and completely the antithesis of what challenging, kicking-against-the-pricks music should sound like (believe it or not, that's what we're really trying to get at), I'm sure that with all the ravenous music consumers on the net there is indeed a place for you where you will find a supportive fanbase. But if it hasn't yet dawned on you, the I Love Music board just isn't that place. When it comes to promoting yourself, it would serve you well to do a bit of research before you put your name out there and when you do put your name out there, recognize that you'll never be able to control what happens to it once you have.

ken taylrr (ken taylrr), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 18:12 (eighteen years ago) link

Ken, despite how OTM you were/are, she will not read and respond to your sentiments.

To my delight, she will rant again soon though.

marissa fan, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 18:25 (eighteen years ago) link

Oh, and by the way, Jmeister was joking.

x-post

ken taylrr (ken taylrr), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 18:28 (eighteen years ago) link

I just listened to Marissa's music, and it reminds me of some of my favorite musicians, such as Natalie Merchant, Fiona Apple, Sarah MacLachlan and Eva Cassidy!

polyphonic (polyphonic), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 18:30 (eighteen years ago) link

http://marissamarchant.com/slide_show.html?show=Slide_Show&picture=picture1.jpg&autopilot_running=

Does anyone else notice a creepy common thread in all the mideival imagery chosen for this slide show?

P. Wheelie OTMFM.

Marissa - more, please.

yr mom (yr mom), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 19:21 (eighteen years ago) link

Marissa - Your POSTS ROCK!

This is the digital tongue lashing we've had coming for A LONG TIME!

bring the fuckin' pain, I say.

PappaWheelie OTM!

M@tt He1geson (Matt Helgeson), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 19:23 (eighteen years ago) link

wow, the artwork chosen (or are those her originals) says a lot.

Susan Douglas (Susan Douglas), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 20:10 (eighteen years ago) link


So do the green contact lenses.

Land Ho (dymaxia), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 20:48 (eighteen years ago) link

I really want to know when the show is.

Forksclovetofu (Forksclovetofu), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 21:17 (eighteen years ago) link

I really want to know when the show is.

And I don't???

PappaWheelie (PappaWheelie), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 21:23 (eighteen years ago) link

No, I'm with you Pappa. We should go together.

Forksclovetofu (Forksclovetofu), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 21:25 (eighteen years ago) link

TICKETS FOR TWO RIGHT HERE MARISSA.
C'mon! Go book a show!

Forksclovetofu (Forksclovetofu), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 21:26 (eighteen years ago) link

Freal dough!

PappaWheelie (PappaWheelie), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 21:30 (eighteen years ago) link

I am moving to New York again, not the city but another city in New York State.
It is a very cultural city considering it is in the usa. hahah.
I am packing my things and we redid the lights...I was thinking some lead paint fell into my drink while we were redoing the lights.
So I had to throw up my whole dinner ...
to avoid any lead paint poisoning.
Yes, I have to move to a bigger and quieter house to record and I have my fairly large studio ..especially for a home studio....
So I am concentrating on that. I won't be living in a big city like NYC cause it costs too much for large space and nothing is quiet. I have a 650 pound sound booth...but my piano has be recorded in a regular room.
My house has to become the studio.
I don't have a Van..and a group of dudes to travel with..so I don't go from town to town, paying for the gas...
I am just singing weddings, parties..and whatever comes up..right now..I haven't been trying to connect with other musicians..because I have been doing this for years..and alot of musicians snub me off..and act elitist and snobby, like they are all too good to play for me ...of course it depends..but connecting with really with it people on a cultural level..is extremely hard to find...take care all.

Marissa

Suck it... suck some wheat grass cubes that is...it is good for your health...
frozen wheat grass cubes..

Marissa Marchant, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 21:41 (eighteen years ago) link

America is bland. the people are boring. the culture is dead. UK is boring too. both cultures are boring and dead. No passion, no romance..no beauty.

Marissa OTM.

Momus (Momus), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 21:45 (eighteen years ago) link

Suck it... suck some wheat grass cubes that is...it is good for your health...
frozen wheat grass cubes..

Marissa OTM.

PappaWheelie (PappaWheelie), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 21:50 (eighteen years ago) link

For your information, marissa, OTM means "on the money"
so they're avidly agreeing with those statements.

Fetchboy (Felcher), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 21:52 (eighteen years ago) link

Haha I thought that was someone parodying Momus! Oh Momus...

jaymc (jaymc), Wednesday, 3 August 2005 22:12 (eighteen years ago) link

I have some additional photos of myself that were requested...
they are far from image provoking and image creating.I have more that are better then this..but I have to put them up it is slow going..bye now..I found a house..

marissa marchant, Friday, 5 August 2005 04:12 (eighteen years ago) link

If I can get a hundred and fifty of you in the New York area to pledge to pay fifteen bucks and a two drink minimum to see Marissa, maybe we can get her onstage.
Who'll start?

Forksclovetofu (Forksclovetofu), Friday, 5 August 2005 04:45 (eighteen years ago) link

Or we could all chip in $15 to remove her vocal cords and remove her fingers?

Brooker Buckingham (Brooker B), Friday, 5 August 2005 16:47 (eighteen years ago) link

don't make us boo hoo agian

big meany, Friday, 5 August 2005 16:59 (eighteen years ago) link

Yes, I have a little extra time today. so I will be uploading much better photos then what I just uploaded. I just found the box where the photos are...
Picture it, takes a long time and it slows down the damned computer. I am not cursing today. I found a house, and I have to move. Moving is very stressful.
I took some chinese herbs to help with stress...
Anyone coming on the "i love music" board will have to take something to calm themselves down. LOL, keep checking and I will have more photos by request....

marissa marchant, Friday, 5 August 2005 17:13 (eighteen years ago) link

Get back on your meds already.

Reggie, Friday, 5 August 2005 17:16 (eighteen years ago) link


if you can prove to me that you are actually real, ill sign you. this is not a joke.

Carson Daly, Friday, 5 August 2005 18:00 (eighteen years ago) link

http://wlt4.home.mindspring.com/outsider.htm

sign her up here!

Brooker Buckingham (Brooker B), Friday, 5 August 2005 20:05 (eighteen years ago) link

raining here, love it.
I have a NEW photo on my slide show now...
the second one...my hair is naturally wavy and sometimes curly, but in one photo I had my hair overly hennaed..if you know what henna is...my hair was poker straight. I think I am taking that photo down...some of thes I may take down, some of them are not flattering.
but you will LIKE the second one, if you don't, it is because you are Anglos...tee hee...lol

marissa marchant, Friday, 5 August 2005 20:17 (eighteen years ago) link

Yes, we know what Henna is.

I'm playing it cool but it's terribly cruel / Kate (papa november), Friday, 5 August 2005 20:28 (eighteen years ago) link

insane here, love it.
I have a NEW photo on my slide show now...
the second one...my hair is naturally insane and sometimes crazy, but in one photo I had my hair overly psychotic..if you know what psychosis is...my hair was schizophrenic. I think I am taking that photo down...some of thes I may take down, some of them are not menally fractured.
but you will LIKE the second one, if you don't, it is because you are sane...tee hee...lol

Brooker Buckingham (Brooker B), Friday, 5 August 2005 20:29 (eighteen years ago) link

and there, inlies, the beauty of henna

Henna Barbara, Friday, 5 August 2005 20:37 (eighteen years ago) link

Hi,
I am really having a nice day. Hope you are too. I have a dark one, it looks Gothic.
I like it...
It has that moonlight and romance feel to it..
you know what romance is? do you????
In your crazy house of insane people, do you remember what romance was?
Romantic people turn me on.
I just put another photo of myself and I like this one..
This is all by request folks...and now I have to call my neighbors to break down the sound booth that weighs 650 lbs.
Your negativity maybe entertaining someone, but I don't feel affected by this...I feel great today...!@

marissa marchant, Friday, 5 August 2005 20:37 (eighteen years ago) link

Sign her to, uh, what?

Darson Caily, Friday, 5 August 2005 20:41 (eighteen years ago) link

marissa,

halifax is nice this time of year, but the white snow cone globes never embrace sea shanties echoing through the icy mist, the nicest reminder of why i love you through the thick and thin. warm weather melts my heart into yours and why don't we go together into the new millenium? i never want to see you cry into the microphone again, for it is the silent stare of the moonlight that casts tears in your eyes, as you leave me far behind in the satin sheets of white cloudscover. it is sad, alas, that we live a reality in which highlights magazine is not the highlight, but a new world savage death cult imagery. but rest tightly, marissa, as we all live with you in big flannel empress wax crystals.

love,
jerry

Jerry Atricks, Friday, 5 August 2005 21:05 (eighteen years ago) link

dear jerry,
you are quite laugh..lol.

marissa marchant, Friday, 5 August 2005 21:13 (eighteen years ago) link

this is really starting to frighten me.

you will be shot (you will be shot), Friday, 5 August 2005 21:44 (eighteen years ago) link

i knew some hooking up would take place. and i'm pleased.

Susan Douglas (Susan Douglas), Friday, 5 August 2005 21:50 (eighteen years ago) link

hooking up? no, i'm afraid you have it wrong. it is her music that i love; she herself is clearly a psycho

Jerry Atricks, Friday, 5 August 2005 22:03 (eighteen years ago) link

you're less and more discriminating than the average person.

Susan Douglas (Susan Douglas), Friday, 5 August 2005 22:16 (eighteen years ago) link

okay, "love" is a bit of an exaggeration. I would rather listen to merzbow's "degradation of tapes" at 250dB locked in a steel cage.

Jerry Atricks, Friday, 5 August 2005 22:28 (eighteen years ago) link

You can tell SHE is pyscho...especially because she intimidates me..and I hide behind the computer like man with no dick or testicles.
So the only thing I can do to pump myself back up to manhood, is to put Marissa down.
It builds me up as a little man.
...especially a little man with NO dick.
And NO life.
We are little men here, posing as Marissa, hoping we could get some kind of little attention from her, in our very small little derranged world.
You can tell we are all the same people posing as Marissa and speaking to ourselves..
I have NO dick....
and NO life. Marissa is normal. sane and talented.
That is why irrates me..us and them.

marissa marchant, Friday, 5 August 2005 22:36 (eighteen years ago) link

Marissa OTM!

Fetchboy (Felcher), Friday, 5 August 2005 22:38 (eighteen years ago) link

BTW, I have only seen Crispman Glover in a couple movies..
He is sooooooo talented! This is a compliment!!!! I think he is brilliant.

marissa marchant, Friday, 5 August 2005 22:43 (eighteen years ago) link

Gimmick.

Reggie, Friday, 5 August 2005 22:47 (eighteen years ago) link

some of you people on here are absolutely some of the most hysterical human beings on the planet. I am laughing here. Literally.
I love the album idea with Crispin Glover, including playing the rat.
New ideas, I love this kind of stuff. I love Crispman Glover most of the time.

marissa marchant, Friday, 5 August 2005 23:04 (eighteen years ago) link

and i love you **all** the time, Marissa. (sorry-could not resist)

Susan Douglas (Susan Douglas), Friday, 5 August 2005 23:13 (eighteen years ago) link

Crispman Glover

Thanks for the LOL, marissa!

declan zimmerman, Friday, 5 August 2005 23:17 (eighteen years ago) link

marissa, now its hard for me to believe you can't find kindred souls on the internet. i think you just like ILM. could this be true?

Susan Douglas (Susan Douglas), Friday, 5 August 2005 23:21 (eighteen years ago) link

crispin glover.
Sorry.
I am not into hollywood..got to fly.

marissa marchant, Friday, 5 August 2005 23:48 (eighteen years ago) link


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