Dave Matthews Band : Name Your Reasons Why They Are So Bad & Hated.

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Actually, I honestly would really like to like DMB, they're talented (I got a Vic Wooten/Carter Beauford DVD that is, like, WOW), their songs generally don't offend me or piss me off, they fight the good fight in that they're very distinct and completely not something that should have mainstream appeal yet it does, I've even seen them in concert a few times, but DANGIT WHY DON'T I FIND ANYTHING I ACTUALLY LIKE ABOUT IT!?!

Oh well. *sigh*

nickalicious (nickalicious), Wednesday, 12 February 2003 22:03 (twenty-one years ago) link

I'm just average, common too
I'm just like him, the same as you
I'm everybody's brother and son
I ain't different from anyone
It ain't no use a-talking to me
It's just the same as talking to you.

- "I Shall Be Free No. 10", B. Dylan

o. nate (onate), Wednesday, 12 February 2003 22:04 (twenty-one years ago) link

right on man, I think we should just leave it at that.

naga_pampa (naga_pampa), Wednesday, 12 February 2003 22:16 (twenty-one years ago) link

We had all uniformly agreed on Dave Matthews Band as being the most hated until you appeared haha. Guess no-one else is gonna stick up for them though.
One thing. no-one ever agrees on anything here. Especially between the 'rock' fans and 'Pop' fans.

Ben Jones, Wednesday, 12 February 2003 22:38 (twenty-one years ago) link

I'll stick up for DMB. Alex in NY, check this week's TV Guide for the incomplete Simpsons quote you paraphrased. RE: DMB, I find their music interesting; they are one of the few bands out there to incorporate violins, saxophones, and flutes into their music. Their music defies classification, so, if for no other reason, they are worthwhile for stretching the boundaries of music genres. You really can't fence them into any type of music - sometimes they sound like bluegrass, sometimes they sound like country, sometimes they sound like rock.

Secondly, I think the lyrics are stirring and evocative; they make me feel the emotion that the song is trying to convey. I also think that Dave Matthews is a very honest songwriter - he really seems to feel what he is writing. As to the lyrics being misogynistic, I don't see any evidence.

RE: the fans - I am not an attorney nor am I an accountant; I am not in college presently, and I have never been inside a frat house (personal choice). I also bathe daily, brush my hair, and find patchouli nauseating. I have never been nor will I ever be a hippie.

Enough said on my part.

DianaM41, Wednesday, 12 February 2003 23:08 (twenty-one years ago) link

" Their music defies classification, so, if for no other reason, they are worthwhile for stretching the boundaries of music genres."
y'wot? Are you serious?
What other music do you think does this?
I can assure you many more bands streth the boundaries of music genres.
Saxophone,Flutes, Guitars, Violins? Try Funkadelic, Godspeed You Black Emperor, (even Jethro Tull), King Crimson, Miles Davis, Spiritualized. And im deliberately trying to not be obscure here. Theres many more lesser known bands, who all push boundaries back way further than DMB.

Winker Watson, Wednesday, 12 February 2003 23:38 (twenty-one years ago) link

DMB > G!YBE

chaki (chaki), Wednesday, 12 February 2003 23:46 (twenty-one years ago) link

Definitely the case when it comes political statements that are at least coherent and easy to read.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 12 February 2003 23:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

What do DMB fans think about Nirvana (and grunge/indie rock in general)?
I always see them as preferring pearl jam as theyre better musicians and how much they hate Nirvana. Thats what theyre like in my personal experience.
And most think Alternative means Creed/DMB/REM.
But hey i'm aware it is a gross generalisation based on 5 people i know.

Winker Watson, Thursday, 13 February 2003 00:03 (twenty-one years ago) link

"Any real or musical reasons to hate him? He does all sorts of music."

... all of them mediocre at best.

Why do people hate him? EZ: He sucks.

Who do so many peole like him: EZ2: He sucks.

suleiman, Thursday, 13 February 2003 00:11 (twenty-one years ago) link

" Alex in NY, check this week's TV Guide for the incomplete Simpsons quote you paraphrased"

I swear to the deity of your choice, I was *NOT* quoting "the Simpsons"! I haven't even watched "the Simpsons" since about 1996. Get over it!

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 13 February 2003 00:29 (twenty-one years ago) link

stop quoting the Eagles Alex!

James Blount (James Blount), Thursday, 13 February 2003 01:47 (twenty-one years ago) link

DMB fans do not like all of the same things. If 5 people who like Dave, don't like grunge/indie rock. It doesn't mean we all hate Nirvana. I personally like Nirvana, they had a unique tortured soul that was awesome to listen to.
Diana wasn't saying that the DMB is better than any of those bands you listed, Winker. She said they were worth while because they could mix genres, which is true.

naga_pampa (naga_pampa), Thursday, 13 February 2003 02:36 (twenty-one years ago) link

DMB never really seemed like my thing, but I don't think I've ever heard anything by them except some song that was on MTV a few years ago that was about ants marching(?) or something like that. If I were to download (sorry, I'm a cheapskate) one DMB song that would reveal to me their glory, where should I start, naga_pampa?

o. nate (onate), Thursday, 13 February 2003 03:05 (twenty-one years ago) link

try to find a live ALL ALONG THE WATCHTOWER, JIMI THING, BARTENDER, DON'T DRINK THE WATER, the last two are good for lyric content, the first two are good for the jam. PLEASE listen to the whole song, and not just the first two minutes. If you don't like these songs, they're probably not for you.

naga_pampa (naga_pampa), Thursday, 13 February 2003 03:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

Alright, thanks for the recommendations. I'll see what I can find.

o. nate (onate), Thursday, 13 February 2003 03:44 (twenty-one years ago) link

dmb IS frat rawk.
it's the sndtrk to date rapes and beer bongs.
it's the horrible sound of pseudo hippies (see phish,bella fleck).
it's the stuff that makes me appreciate 20 minutes of feedback.
not for what it is, but for what it's not...
dmb makes me think that people deserve what happens to them.

edde, Thursday, 13 February 2003 04:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

Christ you people are punks.

DMB and Mayer are rilly nothing alike aside from the "guy with guitar" thing and even that's pushing it given DMB's lush orchestration and Mayer's uh... lack of that.

DMB's earlier stuff rilly was quite unique sounding but ultimately it frustrated me coz every single was "unique" the same way and Crash was as pleasant a song to idle a summer away to as any Belle and Sebastian and most importantly I would FAR prefer DMB to Wilco, GY!BE, Sigur Ros, or any other "dreamy" semi-popular hip alterna-dross out there.

Not that I listen to any really, but.. I mean haven't we gotten over hating a band for its audience? Tho i suspect that the real root of the hate is that fratboy whatever types listen to DMB and feel "deep" and the gulf between the claim of "deep" and the not really that deep followthru or between "musically inventive" and the okay-not-really-that-inventive followthru is what puts foax off -- "Oh my god! People are looking for MUSICAL INNOVATION and getting THIS instead!" when in fact people are looking for something like DMB and getting precisely that.

I mean, fratboys put on Roxy to feel "sexy" -- does that make Roxy Music bad?

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Thursday, 13 February 2003 06:53 (twenty-one years ago) link

DMB play false metal.

original bgm, Thursday, 13 February 2003 06:53 (twenty-one years ago) link

I mean, fratboys put on Roxy to feel "sexy" -- does that make Roxy Music bad?

Nope. DMB still eats, though. Rather than saying they're better than Godspeed/Sigur etc., I'd prefer to equate them. ;-)

Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 13 February 2003 07:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

Both put me to sleep. But DMB make me feel happy instead of alienated or paranoid as I drift off.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Thursday, 13 February 2003 07:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

Ned, you anger my ferret! How can one push the Windy and Carl and not the G!Y!B!E! or Itchy Woooo? How HOWWWW!?!?

To that freaking hippie, can you not see Dave Mathews Band suck my farty wind?!?! How can you not feel the vibe!!?!

Mr Noodles (Mr Noodles), Thursday, 13 February 2003 07:58 (twenty-one years ago) link

dmb IS frat rawk.

The Rhino Frat Rock box set is much better than any DMB I've ever heard.

Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Thursday, 13 February 2003 12:45 (twenty-one years ago) link

I managed to dig up one of those songs you recommended, naga_pampa, it's "Bartender" from something called the "Lillywhite Sessions" (apparently this is kind of a revered studio bootleg in DMB circles). I know that listening to one song hardly makes me a DMB expert, but without further ado, my $0.02:

What I liked about the song: Well, first of all, these guys are a real band - ie., they can play their instruments, they get a groove going, they are tasteful. The song had a nice loose-limbed, live feeling despite being a studio recording. Unlike a lot of the studio confections on the rock charts, it doesn't have that grisly Dr. Frankenstein after-taste of being patched together in Pro Tools and then zapped into life. (Not to say that there isn't a place for studio confectionery, but it's refreshing to hear alternatives to it.) No doubt these guys can also play their songs well in a live setting, which is a definite plus if you like live music (which I do).

What I didn't like: I mentioned being tasteful as a good thing in the previous paragraph, and to a certain extent it is, but it can also be a bad thing, I think, when it shows that the band is reluctant to take chances. My favorite type of music to see in a live setting is jazz, and there are some similarities between this music and certain types of jazz: the celebration of musicianship, the emphasis on rhythm, soloing over a repeated chord progression. However, none of the solos I heard (and again this is only based on one song, so take this with a grain of salt) really excited me. The soloists seemed reluctant to stretch out and take center stage, so to speak. As a result, the music ended up seeming kind of faceless. You don't hear the individual personalities of the musicians coming through. Perhaps this is an intentional decision to give the group jam priority over the individual expression, but if you're not going to have interesting solos, what exactly is the purpose of repeating a fairly uninteresting chord progression so many times? I think the answer is probably is that this is a form of dance music - because this is a structure that you often find in dance music. The purpose of the long repetitive passages is to give people the opportunity to dance. Which is fine, I guess, if you like to dance, but it can get a bit dull when listening just for the sake of listening. Anyway, that's my take on the music. As for the singing, well, I must admit that Dave Matthew's singing style is a bit mannered for my taste. He is a member of the Eddie Vedder school of masculine emoting through tasteful bellows and groans, except that he occasionally throws in a yodel, which is just odd. The lyrics also do little for me. The central conceit of this song is that he is asking a bartender for the drink of the wine that brought Jesus back to life. There's one nagging flaw with this conceit: namely that nowhere in the legend of Jesus is anything mentioned about any drinks of wine bringing him back to life. So the symbolism doesn't really go anywhere.

o. nate (onate), Thursday, 13 February 2003 17:06 (twenty-one years ago) link

Ned, you anger my ferret! How can one push the Windy and Carl and not the G!Y!B!E! or Itchy Woooo? How HOWWWW!?!

Because the first rules and the others do not. Or rather, the first puts me to gentle sleep with a smile on my face, the second puts me to sleep, period, and the third makes me think, "Can't I just listen to some In the Nursery instead?"

Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 13 February 2003 17:11 (twenty-one years ago) link

"DMB and Mayer are rilly nothing alike aside from the "guy with guitar" thing"

Wrong. LISTEN TO MAYER'S VOCALS!!!!! It has nothing to do with the guitar.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 13 February 2003 17:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

Mayer does the fey open vocal thing but DMB bends it and stretches it and puts it to odd cadences. I mean the fey open vocal thing is just this common male singer-songwriter voice, which like Duncan Sheik and David Grey and they all use.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Thursday, 13 February 2003 18:08 (twenty-one years ago) link

they both got the berklee connection goin on and it shows

James Blount (James Blount), Thursday, 13 February 2003 18:14 (twenty-one years ago) link

It's the shoes, it's gotta be the shoes.

Carey (Carey), Thursday, 13 February 2003 18:18 (twenty-one years ago) link

Dave Matthews is the Bud Light of music.

david day (winslow), Thursday, 13 February 2003 19:22 (twenty-one years ago) link

im glad you all dont like dmb. have fun at your creed shows!

katie41414442222, Thursday, 13 February 2003 23:42 (twenty-one years ago) link

Creed? isnt that where DMB fans hang out now? haha

jason pole, Thursday, 13 February 2003 23:49 (twenty-one years ago) link

im glad you all dont like dmb. have fun at your creed shows!

-- katie41414442222

Clearly not someone who regularly reads ILM.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 13 February 2003 23:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

People like Katie make me nostalgic for when I was 13.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 14 February 2003 00:04 (twenty-one years ago) link

I had no idea there was such animosity between Creed fans and DMB fans!

Divide and conquer...

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 14 February 2003 00:09 (twenty-one years ago) link

I can't really see a difference between Creed fans and DMB fans, personally.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 14 February 2003 00:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

well, I bet neither camp could tell the difference between a Sigur Ros and a G!YBE fan either...

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 14 February 2003 00:16 (twenty-one years ago) link

One group is all sullen and angsty while the other group moons around shouting "Itchy-WOO!"

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 14 February 2003 00:20 (twenty-one years ago) link

I do not moon, I float.

Mr Noodles (Mr Noodles), Friday, 14 February 2003 00:50 (twenty-one years ago) link

Not to beat a dead horse, but those acoustic guitars he uses with the electric pick-ups sound like dog-doo. You know the ones I'm talking about, they've got plastic bodies on them. I know they're convenient for playing live but they sound horrible, way too clean.

Come to think of it, everything else about them kind of fits that sound as well.

Dave Beckhouse (Dave Beckhouse), Friday, 14 February 2003 01:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

"Not to beat a dead horse, but those acoustic guitars he uses with the electric pick-ups sound like dog-doo. You know the ones I'm talking about, they've got plastic bodies on them. I know they're convenient for playing live but they sound horrible, way too clean."

AGH! Ohmigod this is so so true. I'm appalled that these things are so common. I had a very hard time finding an acoustic guitar that had an electric pick-up that *wasn't* one of these shitty-sounding models with the plastic body and the little sliders on top. The sound is indeed godawful - really thin and useless. I don't understand why people don't stick with decent wood acoustics and just use good contact mics.

Shakey Mo Collier, Friday, 14 February 2003 01:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

There cheaper for when they break their shit up at the end of everyshow in a Who like orgy.

Mr Noodles (Mr Noodles), Friday, 14 February 2003 01:43 (twenty-one years ago) link

go listen to your elitist smug indie sonic youth records if you can't understand the catchy melodic pop brilliance that is the dave matthews band.

Evan (Evan), Friday, 14 February 2003 01:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

"What Would You Say" and "Ants Marching" are good. "I Did It" and "The Space Between" are horrible. Haven't heard much else.

Curtis Stephens, Friday, 14 February 2003 01:57 (twenty-one years ago) link

What they need is the bomb chick like Len, then they would be catchy and brilliant. Or a guy that wears black contact lens and looks like a monkey. Monkeys are good at hackeysack.

Mr Noodles (Mr Noodles), Friday, 14 February 2003 01:58 (twenty-one years ago) link


I think Rockists and Popists can mostly agree that DMB is CRAP.

Jonathan Williams (ex machina), Friday, 14 February 2003 15:46 (twenty-one years ago) link

But where does that leave the jamists?

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 14 February 2003 15:57 (twenty-one years ago) link

I think there are some Jamists that hate DMB.....

Jonathan Williams (ex machina), Friday, 14 February 2003 16:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

There must be some people who like them. They regularly sell-out stadiums and their albums have sold > 13 million copies.

o. nate (onate), Friday, 14 February 2003 16:07 (twenty-one years ago) link

creed??? no,no,please, no.
it's ALMOST as bad as bmb.
but, you know what they say about "close". and this is neither situation.
dmb seems to be regressing as opposed to getting better. i don't get that.
i've been forced to hear damn near everything the man has ever done. that being said, there's worse stuff out there, not alot, but some.
creed shows??? where did that come from?? oh, right. a dmb fan. noted.
as for indie-smug-sonic-youth comment...uh, ok. i will.
and i'll enjoy it, ya know why? cuz it's not dmb. and no, it's not always the greatest thing since the bread maker, it's at least a step above the medicority that is dmb.
zing-splash.

eded, Friday, 14 February 2003 17:19 (twenty-one years ago) link


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