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Also to sarahel: there've been news stories (Oh hello NYT Style section!) for at least several years about aged hipsters giving up city/corporate life and moving upstate to raise goats organically or whatever. Wasn't news then, isn't new now.

the soul of the avocado escapes as soon as you open it (Laurel), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:09 (thirteen years ago) link

so sorry I don't live in NYC or London - but it does seem like this isn't something that was a "trend" 8-10 years ago.

i don't know whether it's really popular in Canada as well (sarahel), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:11 (thirteen years ago) link

Hipster knitting was part of the same movement (actually it's the earliest example I can think of, but maybe I just didn't know any yuppies-turned-farmers then), and there were books about guerilla fiber arts and "stitch'n'bitch" groups 8-10 years ago. And I always thought etsy.com came out of that movement too: people wanted a way to showcase/sell the stuff they were making.

the soul of the avocado escapes as soon as you open it (Laurel), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:17 (thirteen years ago) link

Actually, I kind of support that. Whatever forms we need communal folk crafts to take to pass to the next generation, go for it. Stitch-n-bitch / urban farming / carpentry / whatever.

I think this comes from reading all those Foxfire books when I was working a boring summer job at a historical village.

Don Homer (kingfish), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:17 (thirteen years ago) link

Hipster knitting was part of the same movement (actually it's the earliest example I can think of, but maybe I just didn't know any yuppies-turned-farmers then), and there were books about guerilla fiber arts and "stitch'n'bitch" groups 8-10 years ago. And I always thought etsy.com came out of that movement too: people wanted a way to showcase/sell the stuff they were making.

If this is a movement, my moms would be an OG. She's been weaving, and winning state fair blue ribbons for it, for nigh on 30 years now.

Official Cheese-Filled Snack of NASCAR since 2002 (B.L.A.M.), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:19 (thirteen years ago) link

Semi-relevant, although I may wind up making a separate thread:

http://assets.theatlantic.com/static/front/images/magazine/covers/210x280/201007.jpg

It's the 20th annual End of Men! issue.

I can't tell whether this sort of thing is more a result of misandry (men are useless and dumb) or misogyny (women are power-hungry bitches who want to eliminate us), but either way it gets under my skin.

hills like white people (Hurting 2), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:21 (thirteen years ago) link

Like if we've been operating on the premise all these years that people should be judged by ability and not gender, and all these years men have been the overwhelming majority in every field, then why are we sounding alarms the moment women overtake men in something?

hills like white people (Hurting 2), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:22 (thirteen years ago) link

well sure, knitting, arts & crafts, the readymade magazine thing are the predecessors for the gardening/farming trend. And maybe it's not that recent, but I feel like this type of thing became more prevalent among members of and aspirants to "the creative class" post-dot com crash.

i don't know whether it's really popular in Canada as well (sarahel), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:25 (thirteen years ago) link

because it will sell THE IDEAS ISSUE of the Atlantic Monthly

I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:25 (thirteen years ago) link

x-post

I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:25 (thirteen years ago) link

I found out recently that pulling weeds and planting stuff in your yard is kind of fun if you're not forced to do it. Is that manly or not or non of the above?

bamcquern, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:27 (thirteen years ago) link

i think it depends on whether you have lower back problems as well as your class background and where you grew up

i don't know whether it's really popular in Canada as well (sarahel), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:28 (thirteen years ago) link

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bamcquern, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:29 (thirteen years ago) link

i no

i don't know whether it's really popular in Canada as well (sarahel), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:30 (thirteen years ago) link

My back's okay. I was middle class, but it's more complicated than that.

bamcquern, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:30 (thirteen years ago) link

& I grew up in eff ell aye.

bamcquern, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:31 (thirteen years ago) link

i grew up in a town where agriculture/agribusiness was the largest industry - i'm having trouble imagining planting things/pulling weeds as something fun, because i equate it so intensely with low-wage labor.

i don't know whether it's really popular in Canada as well (sarahel), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:32 (thirteen years ago) link

and as an educated middle-class white person i could avoid it and sit in an air-conditioned office - or something like that.

i don't know whether it's really popular in Canada as well (sarahel), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:33 (thirteen years ago) link

I never thought I would like it. It's only kind of fun because I don't have to. And starting a compost heap with my roommates at previous house was my gateway drug. Digging in dirt and trash I knew would be fun without even thinking.

bamcquern, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:35 (thirteen years ago) link

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bamcquern, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:35 (thirteen years ago) link

dorian corey is such a hero

"After Corey's death, the mummified body of Robert Worley (aka Robert Wells), was found in Corey's belongings with a gunshot wound to the head."

The Black Keys - white boys can still throw down (crüt), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:55 (thirteen years ago) link

I want to know more about that but can only read the first page of the citation!!!! Who has the goods?

the soul of the avocado escapes as soon as you open it (Laurel), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 20:58 (thirteen years ago) link

The extent of my urban farming is herbs on the balcony and six months of Saturdays working on a farmer's market stall, but I like doing those things. In the suburb where I grew up, everyone had gardens with at least beans and tomatoes growing in them. I also hate with a passion anything you could label YARD WORK, having been press-ganged into doing a ton of it for my mom as a teenager, but if I had my own garden I might feel differently.

WHEN CROWS GO BAD (suzy), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:00 (thirteen years ago) link

"After Corey's death, the mummified body of Robert Worley (aka Robert Wells), was found in Corey's belongings with a gunshot wound to the head."

― The Black Keys - white boys can still throw down (crüt), Tuesday, June 22, 2010 8:55 PM (9 minutes ago)

haha i knew this, but did you read about the note left with the body? I can hear it read in her voice.

plax (ico), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:05 (thirteen years ago) link

I grew up pretty much in a suburb (also in ef ell aye) with just my mom and our yard was always a mess. Our backyard especially was really overgrown and there was this huge bamboo tree taking over everything. It was a great place to play and I'm pretty sure I learned to love weeds and bugs back there.

In my dad's neighborhood everyone's lawn was way way manicured. All the kids in his neighborhood would dig huge holes in all the cul-de-sacs, destroying everything. I love gardening because any activity involving crouching and digging in the dirt is fun to me. My favorite part is squeezing the roots.

I once had this really ridiculous summer job planting restorative wetland plants along lake and river beds and it was soooo hard but it didn't make me hate yard work.

big loose compost heaps are the best. Gawd, having a semi office job is what makes me want to be outside and dirty when I'm not working. I guess because yard work was always presented to me as a leisure activity (except for that one job, but we were saving the environment!) it still feels leisurely to me.

peacocks, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:12 (thirteen years ago) link

wow that was longer than I meant for it to be.

peacocks, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:14 (thirteen years ago) link

and less coherent?

peacocks, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:15 (thirteen years ago) link

I also hate with a passion anything you could label YARD WORK, having been press-ganged into doing a ton of it for my mom as a teenager, but if I had my own garden I might feel differently.

― WHEN CROWS GO BAD (suzy), Tuesday, June 22, 2010 4:00 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark

totally---secretly love doing "chores," unless they're actual chores, prescribed by someone else.

also: virtually every "crafty" trend i've even mentioned in passing to my mom, she can locate somewhere in the 70s. really sort of amazed that anyone (except 20 yo hipsters) think they're reinventing the wheel when they get stoned and try and reinvent the wheel

flapjackin (gbx), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:26 (thirteen years ago) link

well, were these "crafty" trends trendy in the 80s and 90s? i guess that's my real question.

i don't know whether it's really popular in Canada as well (sarahel), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 23:15 (thirteen years ago) link

Next up: macrame and decoupage.

nickn, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 23:58 (thirteen years ago) link

Man, I read some quote that was all "these young new women think they're doing something special and revolutionary by picking up needles and yarn and making themselves an angora toque, but really" from like the 1920s.

breaking that little dog's heart chakra (Abbott), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 00:27 (thirteen years ago) link

just wait 'til kilns make a return

Don Homer (kingfish), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 00:31 (thirteen years ago) link

HA! My cousin installed a state of the art kiln and turned her garage into a pottery about five years ago.

Crafts my mother did in the '70s: dried flower arrangements in baskets; cornucopia-type arrangements in baskets complete with varnished challah loaf and many, many dried gourds; wreaths; crocheting innumerable Afghans (besides the dogs, this is the reason ladies of a certain demographic can locate Afghanistan on maps); shell collections in lamp bases; arrangement of cattails and other dried marsh grasses in wicker baskets; God's Eyes; macramé; limited sewing of clothes; making jam out of a tree full of crab apples/the grapes on my aunt's trellis; needlepoint; rug hooking - but never, ever knitting. Most of those crafts make me want to stab my eyes out and there is a wicker ban in this apartment.

The only crafty thing I ever did in the '80s was to make Jackson Pollock-style sweatshirts and t-shirts using acrylic paint flicked onto plain tops.

WHEN CROWS GO BAD (suzy), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 00:35 (thirteen years ago) link

i did hella rug hooking and cross stitch in the 80s, but i was a child

an outlet to express the dark invocations of (La Lechera), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 00:59 (thirteen years ago) link

has this been posted yet
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4oQ4hjQ_9Bc

its like why GROCERY BAG and not saddam? (deej), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 06:40 (thirteen years ago) link

totally---secretly love doing "chores," unless they're actual chores, prescribed by someone else.

^^this

Pies and Whispers (get bent), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 06:47 (thirteen years ago) link

I love the fact that a thread called "Marketing of Masculinity" is now all about knitting and sewing.

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 23 June 2010 07:09 (thirteen years ago) link

how can we best market knitting & sewing to men?

The Black Keys - white boys can still throw down (crüt), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 07:19 (thirteen years ago) link

sharp objects?

Pies and Whispers (get bent), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 08:30 (thirteen years ago) link

my sewing machine has more horsepower than your sewing machine

crüt it out (dyao), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 08:31 (thirteen years ago) link

sew easy a caveman could do it

Pies and Whispers (get bent), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 08:34 (thirteen years ago) link

goatse, that last one

ampersand (remy bean), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 11:28 (thirteen years ago) link

how's this for a masculine look - the sweater's hand-made by this boy's great-aunt:

http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4015/4672733796_bee5fce3f6_b.jpg

eat your heart out, hipster knitters

progressive cuts (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 11:35 (thirteen years ago) link

i dunno about masculine, but it's certainly awesome

Remember when Mr Banhart was a replicant? (darraghmac), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 11:38 (thirteen years ago) link

My kid in a sweatervest that was knitted for me as a child by my Godmother's mother:

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs429.snc3/24717_407929428782_556118782_5017459_69855_n.jpg

kkvgz, Wednesday, 23 June 2010 12:01 (thirteen years ago) link

awww
That is a great vest that definitely looks homemade. No one sells garments made of variegated yarn. It's a dead giveaway that it was gifted by a crafty relative.

breaking that little dog's heart chakra (Abbott), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 15:21 (thirteen years ago) link

He looks a lot happier to be wearing it than the kid in Tracer's photo.

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 23 June 2010 15:55 (thirteen years ago) link

they're both beautiful!

Pies and Whispers (get bent), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 16:44 (thirteen years ago) link


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