Defend the Indefensible: psychologically raw films about sexual obsession

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I haven't really lived, apparently. I KNEW IT!

The first film that came to mind is Roeg's disturbing Bad Timing.

Dr Morbius, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:00 (fifteen years ago) link

really, most of my "relationships" (God, I hate that usage) have been called off bcz I'm all NO DRAMA, plz. Haven't got the time.

If he was really hot I might cut more slack.

Dr Morbius, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:03 (fifteen years ago) link

The Center of the World is OK and has a woman putting a lollipop in her yinyang.

Eazy, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:05 (fifteen years ago) link

Fear, with Marky Mark and Reese Witherspoon, is the best movie about the 90s.

Eazy, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:08 (fifteen years ago) link

i have seen this fear

gff, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:10 (fifteen years ago) link

It's like Urban Outfitters and the Gap fighting for this teenage girl's soul.

Eazy, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:10 (fifteen years ago) link

quite a roller coaster ride, as i recall

gff, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:11 (fifteen years ago) link

zactly, my man, that's a good sex scene.

Eazy, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:11 (fifteen years ago) link

i need to see late marriage again. not that it really belongs on this thread

s1ocki, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:13 (fifteen years ago) link

woah it's molly parker in center of the world?! that's goin on the q

gff, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:14 (fifteen years ago) link

Roger Ebert, Chicago Sun-Times
"You want real? This movie shows you real." ... Read More

A.O. Scott, The New York Times
"The self-consciously rough, low-budget surface of The Center of the World can't disguise the slick cheapness at its heart." ... Read More

Mick LaSalle, San Francisco Chronicle
"Mindless and prurient." ... Read More

gff, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:14 (fifteen years ago) link

i just netflixed it.

xp (late marriage)

Jordan, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:17 (fifteen years ago) link

"Center of the World" is credited From A Story By Wang, Miranda July, Paul Auster And Siri Hustvedt.

Eazy, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:18 (fifteen years ago) link

because of the Miranda July

Dr Morbius, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:22 (fifteen years ago) link

woah it's molly parker in center of the world?! that's goin on the q

-- gff, Wednesday, May 28, 2008 12:14 PM (9 minutes ago) Bookmark Link

i know i know the widow garret omg rawr

jhøshea, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:27 (fifteen years ago) link

what's great about the sex scenes in Don't Look Now isn't the sex itself so much as how its positioned as a fond immediate memory Christie and Sutherland have as they're getting dressed afterward.

xpost

obv. we have two topics going here -- that of the thread title and just non-porn movies with interesting sex scenes

Hubie Brown, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 16:46 (fifteen years ago) link

haha apptly molly parker has a whole career of this stuff

Kissed (1996)
Ever since she was a young girl, Sandra Larson (Molly Parker) has been fascinated with the darkness of death. But when she takes a part-time job as an embalmer at a funeral parlor, her obsession with the afterlife and the study of necrophilia begins to consume her every desire. As her boyfriend (Peter Outerbridge) struggles to relate to her new lifestyle, he jumps through hoops to prove he'll do anything for love.

Bliss (1997)
Joseph (Craig Sheffer) and Maria (Sheryl Lee) are a young married couple in serious trouble. Although they love each other, Maria has difficulty opening up to Joseph, and, after 6 months of marriage, he makes the unhappy discovery that she's been unable to have an orgasm with him. Enter Balthazar (Terence Stamp), an unlicensed sex therapist who agrees to initiate Joseph into the mysteries of tantric sex that could save his marriage.

In the Shadows (1999)
Cash-strapped waitress Cynthia (Molly Parker) takes a job caring for moneyed cancer patient Eleanor Dunston (Joely Richardson). When she shows an interest in Cynthia's boyfriend, Buck (Aden Young), Cynthia persuades him to pose as her half brother so he can seduce the dying woman into leaving him her fortune. Writer-director Meg Richman transplants Henry James' classic novel The Wings of the Dove to Seattle's 1990s grunge scene.

Suspicious River (2000)
A fatalistic hotel receptionist (Molly Parker) who exhibits many self-destructive tendencies is compulsively drawn into a dark netherworld of crime. After playing the prostitute to several willing guests in the hotel where she works, she spirals into a heated romance with a sadistic lodger who allows her to be gang-raped. Soon, it seems that her behavior might lead her to the same fate as her mother, who was brutally murdered.

gff, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:02 (fifteen years ago) link

jesus christ

Tracer Hand, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:04 (fifteen years ago) link

Writer-director Meg Richman transplants Henry James' classic novel The Wings of the Dove to Seattle's 1990s grunge scene.

wow

max, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:07 (fifteen years ago) link

ha

jhøshea, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:07 (fifteen years ago) link

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Writer-director Meg Richman transplants Henry James' classic novel The Wings of the Dove to Seattle's 1990s grunge scene.

Writer-director Meg Richman transplants Henry James' classic novel The Wings of the Dove to Seattle's 1990s grunge scene.

Writer-director Meg Richman transplants Henry James' classic novel The Wings of the Dove to Seattle's 1990s grunge scene.

gff, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:07 (fifteen years ago) link

totally. molly parker is terrible.

s1ocki, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:13 (fifteen years ago) link

that list is like everything wrong with english-canadian cinema

s1ocki, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:14 (fifteen years ago) link

still, would smash

gff, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:16 (fifteen years ago) link

BLISS is a movie every couple, married or not, should see to better improve their relationship with their partner on not only a sexual level, but an emotional and spiritual level as well. Many viewers will not go beyond the initial subject of sexual abuse plot setup and thus will miss the pure meat of this film. After the introduction of the sex therapist, dramatic and subtle secrets are revealed on how to woo and keep a partner intimately aroused. Anyone who has engaged in tantric sex knows that there is more to "the act" than just a localized feeling...that it can be experienced with the total body and for absolute endless hours! This is not orgy, but is rather arrived at with a slow hand and a controlled spirit. This is the first movie to delve into the God Power of the sexual act. Brilliantly written, exquisitely filmed, and supurbly acted, I would say this is one of my most treasured & recommended films.

107 out of 123 people found this review helpful.

gff, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:18 (fifteen years ago) link

shes good in deadwood

jhøshea, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:18 (fifteen years ago) link

The mixed reviews say more about the viewers than the film. First, this is a film with sex in it, not a sex flick. It has excellent cinematography, score, acting, production values. And yes, a handful of sex scenes. The sex is grown-up, hot, emotional, and intense, but not explicit (no genitals). In short, it is serious. Can you handle it? Get past the sex to really appreciate it. I say rare because few films can handle sex directly without being voyeuristic or falling back to violence or juvenile humor to defuse the tension. Four stars for this film, and an extra one for breaking the tired old mold.

51 out of 55 people found this review helpful.

gff, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:19 (fifteen years ago) link

I think that if men could understand the deeper levels of sexuality that this movie demonstrates, there would be fewer divorces.

1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

gff, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:21 (fifteen years ago) link

I know some of you disagree, but Bitter Moon is a terrible entry in this genre.

Eazy, Wednesday, 28 May 2008 17:21 (fifteen years ago) link

five months pass...

OK there the NFT over here appear to be doing a whole season of this stuff.

xyzzzz__, Thursday, 27 November 2008 19:18 (fifteen years ago) link

I've seen Realm of the Senses and Onibaba, both are very good.

Neil S, Thursday, 27 November 2008 19:28 (fifteen years ago) link

three months pass...

ey thanks 2 everyone who talked up 'late marriage', what a great movie

laying | (goole), Wednesday, 25 March 2009 14:47 (fifteen years ago) link

Aren't *all* films w/ Sex in, stylised?

how many actual 'couplings' in a film, can you say reflects anything you have actually done to a greater extent?

I'm not saying 'none', there's just so few of them.

Mark G, Wednesday, 25 March 2009 14:50 (fifteen years ago) link

28

laying | (goole), Wednesday, 25 March 2009 14:51 (fifteen years ago) link

yeah 'late marriage' is great.

meat of beef (Jordan), Wednesday, 25 March 2009 14:53 (fifteen years ago) link

xpost OK, names!

Mark G, Wednesday, 25 March 2009 14:53 (fifteen years ago) link


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