How long would you wait before coming out of the Gin Blossoms closet?

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It's 2013, and you are Gin Blossoms frontman Robin Wilson. You meet a nice person and you want to be their friend. It doesn't really matter how you meet: maybe you go to the same gym, maybe your kids are in the same karate class, whatever. Your acquaintance obviously has no idea who you are, but they've probably heard "Hey Jealousy" a thousand times whether they realize it or not.

The question is, how long would you wait after your first meeting before you told your new friend that you were the guy from Gin Blossoms? And what factors would complicate your decision to come out? Modesty? Privacy? Shame? Please vote in this poll and share your opinions below.

Poll Results

OptionVotes
I would tell them later that same day. 7
I would tell them later that same month. 6
"I'm the guy from Gin Blossoms" would be literally the first thing out of my mouth. 3
I would tell them later that same week. 3
I would leave them a note about it after I died. 2
I would tell them in about 3 months. 2
I would tell them at some point over the next few years. 2
I would never tell them I was the lead singer of Gin Blossoms. 1
It would be my deathbed confession. 1
I would wait a full decade before I told them I was the guy from Gin Blossoms. 1
Fuck you, I would never tell anyone I was the lead singer of Gin Blossoms. 1
I would tell them in about a year. 0
I would tell them in about 6 months. 0
I would tell them the next day. 0
I would tell them in about 9 months. 0


Remember! The cormorant is a big brrd. It has got a long neck. (unregistered), Sunday, 7 July 2013 02:30 (ten years ago) link

it's ok, "unregistered," we already know and we accept you for who you are.

some dude, Sunday, 7 July 2013 02:33 (ten years ago) link

Yeah dude Gin Blossoms were great for a minute, even if you weren't the suicidal dude who wrote all the cool songs

the gospel of meth (Drugs A. Money), Sunday, 7 July 2013 02:35 (ten years ago) link

no shame in hey jealousy

Gukbe, Sunday, 7 July 2013 02:40 (ten years ago) link

gin blossoms rule

iatee, Sunday, 7 July 2013 02:58 (ten years ago) link

it's ok, "unregistered," we already know and we accept you for who you are.

o_O

my feelings about the gin blossoms are documented elsewhere but suffice to say they wrote a couple songs that are better than most ppl will ever write

call all destroyer, Sunday, 7 July 2013 03:13 (ten years ago) link

I wouldn't immediately drop that I was the lead singer of any somewhat-famous band; just not a good way to make an intro IMO.

Gin Blossoms fine with me btw.

Lee626, Sunday, 7 July 2013 03:15 (ten years ago) link

N/a. I'd say I was from Spacehog

Neanderthal, Sunday, 7 July 2013 03:19 (ten years ago) link

i've only ever heard "hey jealousy" (to my knowledge) which is a great song. i wasn't aware that the gin blossoms were this big source of shame or w/e

dyl, Sunday, 7 July 2013 03:42 (ten years ago) link

go listen to found out about you, right now

call all destroyer, Sunday, 7 July 2013 03:47 (ten years ago) link

I had no idea that several of their hits were originally recorded 3 or 4 years earlier for their earlier indie-label album in a faster, rawer style. I kinda like these....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n5JNwinCmuA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Yj3f-GO1Ws

Lee626, Sunday, 7 July 2013 04:11 (ten years ago) link

Personally, I think the only shame that comes with being hte guy from Gin Blossoms is the fact that you didn't write their best songs. But your average Joe probably doesn't know that.

MarkoP, Sunday, 7 July 2013 05:04 (ten years ago) link

those two songs are so great.

but how can you ever get past this: "The Gin Blossoms joined Everclear, Sugar Ray, Lit, and Marcy Playground on the Summerland Tour 2012, a 31-date nationwide tour that began on June 28, 2012 in Saratoga, CA, and ended on August 11, 2012 in Laughlin, NV.

akm, Sunday, 7 July 2013 05:22 (ten years ago) link

Had no idea there was an earlier version of those songs. Man, they sound great...

Elvis Telecom, Sunday, 7 July 2013 05:45 (ten years ago) link

there's nothing wrong with this band.

Treeship, Sunday, 7 July 2013 05:47 (ten years ago) link

found out about you, hey jealousy, nothing to be ashamed of there

tell the world imo

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 7 July 2013 05:48 (ten years ago) link

As I said on the last Gin Blossoms thread, these guys were really damn good for a radio rock singles band. "Allison Road" for the win. I guess I'd discuss it whenever it came up, I guess? Like if the guy's still currently touring with the band it'd probably come up quickly when they ask "what do you do for a living?".

Doctor Casino, Sunday, 7 July 2013 05:48 (ten years ago) link

i would not tell them for months and then when i told them make a huge deal out of it. "you thought, all this time that i was just a normal person. but actually, all this time, i have secretly been ROBIN WILSON. yes, THAT robin wilson. i will never forget that you showed me kindness while thinking i was a lowly, worthless nobody. never."

Treeship, Sunday, 7 July 2013 05:54 (ten years ago) link

i just went down an early 90's rabbit hole and remembered Live. Now, that would be a more embarassing admission yet I'm sure Ed Kowalczyk tells everyone he meets immediately who he is. Also, wiki tells me he is a giant crooked douche who weaseled his bandmates out of loads of money and now they're suing him.

akm, Sunday, 7 July 2013 06:18 (ten years ago) link

"Mrs. Rita" and Marshall Crenshaw-penned "'Till I Hear It From You" also top-notch. Like Treeship said, nothing wrong with this band.

This amigurumi Jamaican octopus is ready to chill with you (Phil D.), Sunday, 7 July 2013 12:18 (ten years ago) link

Jesus, Gin Blossoms fans are so defensive! I don't think I'd ever come out of the GB's closet, because I'm afraid people would pat me on the back and give me some patronizing fluff like, "you guys were really damn good for a radio rock singles band." and whenever they saw me in a bad mood, they'd try to cheer me up by saying, "stop feeling like you're a guilty pleasure or a one-hit wonder, because you're not." I just don't think I could deal with that.

(too bad I can't change my vote from "wait 10 years" "never tell anyone")

* "wait 10 years" to "never tell anyone"

I was the lead singer for Deep Blue Something fwiw

Just noise and screaming and no musical value at all. (Colonel Poo), Sunday, 7 July 2013 13:23 (ten years ago) link

*gunshot*

Neanderthal, Sunday, 7 July 2013 13:24 (ten years ago) link

all of the Gin blossoms albums are out of print. EXCEPT for the Rarities edition of New Miserable Experience, which is mostly outtake tracks and alternate versions.

Neanderthal, Sunday, 7 July 2013 13:26 (ten years ago) link

I can't imagine anyone reacting that way. Most people are really excited to know anyone with any connection to celebrity.

I wouldn't immediately drop that I was the lead singer of any somewhat-famous band; just not a good way to make an intro IMO.

This is OTM. I'd let it come up naturally.

Treeship also makes a good suggestion, though.

EveningStar (Sund4r), Sunday, 7 July 2013 13:27 (ten years ago) link

That was an xpost to unregistered.

EveningStar (Sund4r), Sunday, 7 July 2013 13:27 (ten years ago) link

I mean, "I was in the Gin Blossoms" sounds like it would be easier for the average acquaintance to relate to and appreciate than e.g. "I'm a new music composer".

EveningStar (Sund4r), Sunday, 7 July 2013 13:29 (ten years ago) link

Gin Blossoms played at Disney Food and Wine recently.

Neanderthal, Sunday, 7 July 2013 13:31 (ten years ago) link

they were actually well received, as far as those type of shows go

Neanderthal, Sunday, 7 July 2013 13:33 (ten years ago) link

I still love that first album.

kornrulez6969, Sunday, 7 July 2013 13:58 (ten years ago) link

I want people I've recently met to like me because they enjoy my company, not because they like clinging to famous people. I'd be plenty proud of being the lead singer of the GBs, but telling people that right away would attract fame/attention whores, not people who genuinely liked me. I like the story of how Lily Allen enjoyed frequently hanging out with her dad's friend "Uncle Joe" when growing up, whom she regarded as her godfather. She had no idea he was Joe Strummer.

Lee626, Sunday, 7 July 2013 14:37 (ten years ago) link

I agree. I never reveal my true identity (Obama)

Treeship, Sunday, 7 July 2013 14:45 (ten years ago) link

Quit spying on us!

the gospel of meth (Drugs A. Money), Sunday, 7 July 2013 17:34 (ten years ago) link

four weeks pass...

I would be like "Hey, check it out. Remember all those bitchin' Arizona rock songs from the mid-90s that still give you chills as you drive through the desert at night? Well, I just sang them. But the guy who wrote them killed himself. That's how good they were. Can you watch my dog for a week?"

President Keyes, Sunday, 4 August 2013 23:52 (ten years ago) link

Automatic thread bump. This poll is closing tomorrow.

System, Monday, 5 August 2013 00:01 (ten years ago) link

i would say the same things, president keyes. except if i were robin wilson, one of my affectations would be addressing everyone as "sexy".

Treeship, Monday, 5 August 2013 00:06 (ten years ago) link

Automatic thread bump. This poll's results are now in.

System, Tuesday, 6 August 2013 00:01 (ten years ago) link

The people who hated Gin Blossoms the most were the people who loved the worst indie rock.

the rofflestomper (dandydonweiner), Tuesday, 6 August 2013 00:02 (ten years ago) link

two weeks pass...

"Hey Jealousy" is such a magnificent song.

Funny thread, this.

Mule, Monday, 26 August 2013 12:26 (ten years ago) link

N/a. I'd say I was from Spacehog

I like the approach of saying you're in a different band, to open their mind to the possibility that you're in a band that was popular in the 90s, and then once they're comfortable with that, come totally clean about being in the Gin Blossoms.

Vinnie, Monday, 26 August 2013 13:23 (ten years ago) link

one year passes...

http://i.imgur.com/VGJfahm.gif

the geographibebebe (unregistered), Monday, 18 May 2015 23:37 (eight years ago) link

"no, we didn't do 'walk on the water'"

akm, Tuesday, 19 May 2015 04:42 (eight years ago) link

"or walk on the ocean" or whatever the fuck it's called

akm, Tuesday, 19 May 2015 04:42 (eight years ago) link

four years pass...

The people who hated Gin Blossoms the most were the people who loved the worst indie rock.

― the rofflestomper (dandydonweiner), Monday, August 5, 2013 8:02 PM (five years ago) bookmarkflaglink

had to bump thread just to point out that this is the most otm thing ever

Paul Ponzi, Monday, 15 July 2019 11:52 (four years ago) link

^^ yes, very otm.

also, "Hey Jealousy" is a great song, and as i've grown older, i've actually met a few people who could have been the dude singing. the "truth" of the experience being spoken to makes it an even better song imho.

blue light or electric light (the table is the table), Monday, 15 July 2019 12:39 (four years ago) link


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