Are you ~not interested~ in money?

Also, I took "I'm not that interested in money" to mean "money is not my primary motivation" and "money is not in itself inherently interesting" - lots of people seemed to interpret that statement in quite different ways.

To me, "I'd like to have enough money not to have to think about money" does NOT mean "I'm ~interested~ in money" it means the reverse?

But my head hurts too much to get at those shades of meaning.

Blame Ronan if it's a confusing question, because he asked it with that phrasing on that other thread, ha!

I would like ALL the money, please.

i always liked john waters's take, i.e. the best kind of "wealthy" is being able to buy whatever books you want, whenever you want, without looking at the sticker.

i don't want a jewel-encrusted throne or anything. i just want to be able to buy a book without having to do mental math as to how it's going to affect the food/transportation-to-work budget by the end of the week.

imo the whole thing becomes a lot more nuanced in ways that the question doesn't really address when you have a spouse and kids and can literally watch on a day to day basis how being someone who is ~not interested~ in money can be pretty shitty for the people that you love and that not caring about money is its own kind of selfishness

i mean i guess that falls under "with caveats" or w/e

Also, to have the time to read all those books! Without having to stress about how you should be "working" or thinking about your career in some way rather than being able to spontaneously take an evening or entire day to sink into a book that won't directly earn you money

Xps

I wouldn't say that money is my primary motivation, but I wouldn't fully reduce it to other motivations either. It's nice to have more money, in the same way that it's nice to feel healthier or stronger. You feel that your field of action is enlarged.

I dunno, I grew up in a family with someone who was ~not interested~ in money. And seeing how one person's refusal to be interested in money lead to the other partner's having to compensate by appearing to become *obsessed* with money. There was selfishness on both sides, I think.

But you can really see the difference in how people react to this, between my brother and I. That he ended up becoming so ~interested~ in money that he now studies it for a living. Money is something that really *matter* to him. And I became a fucken hippie. Kids can be astonishingly resilient. It wonder if it was the conflict over attitudes over money that caused structural issues as much as not having money.

But it's easy for me to say this, as I haven't got kids, and never will.

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I think right now if I was actually that interested in money I'd have become an investment banker or management consultant or something that actually pays serious money, or even done what I do now at a higher level, but, well, I'm not.

But yeah I think the prospect of having kids kinda changes that. There's always the possibility at the back of the mind of being in a situation where you have a family who want and need stuff that you may not be in a position to provide and that's certainly a driver of caring more about money in the longer term. Especially given how stupidly expensive something like a British university education is likely to be in the future.

Also I know people who are so ~not interested~ in money that they have to constantly borrow off people who know they're never going to get it back, which is kinda a dick move in its own right.

When watching the TV "Batman", I used to wonder about The Joker's motivation. Getting the money, all he seemed to want to do with it is throw it in the air and go "whoo". And give a handful to a girl and go "here you are, go get some jewels"

irl professional troll behaviour

Ha, OK, people who are so "not interested" in money that they wilfully become sponges on the individuals around them is a valid point. That is definitely a kind of selfishness. Wanting to distance oneself from that kind of attitude is a definite caveat.

I'd say that was being "not interested" in one's own money, but being *very* interested in everyone else's money which is kind of a hypocrite way to operate. But, y'know... hippies.

But you can really see the difference in how people react to this, between my brother and I. That he ended up becoming so ~interested~ in money that he now studies it for a living.

being an economist is not being 'interested in money' really

not in the sense of this thread

Getting the money, all he seemed to want to do with it is throw it in the air and go "whoo". And give a handful to a girl and go "here you are, go get some jewels"

You have to admit that that sounds fun.

I have this recurring dream where I find I have won a massive Euromil amount, and spend the rest of the dream making sure everyone remains on a mental 'even keel'.

My brother became an economist after a career on Wall St and in Investment Banking, and becoming so obsessed with wanting to have money and the power/respect/fuck-you that it could buy, that he went beyond being obsessed with money for its own sake, to wanting to know how it *worked*.

I think. I mean, maybe I'm doing my brother a massive disservice in representing him that way, but this has been the basis of a long-standing massive philosophical gulf between us.

Anyway I need to stop brining my family into it, but I think it's v obvious that I picked up my attitudes towards money off my family - as I think most people do. It's just that my family are, well, peculiar. So maybe that's why I end up with attitudes that are incomprehensible to others.

Ha, OK, people who are so "not interested" in money that they wilfully become sponges on the individuals around them is a valid point. That is definitely a kind of selfishness. Wanting to distance oneself from that kind of attitude is a definite caveat.

― Popcorn Supergay Receiver (Masonic Boom), Thursday, 19 April 2012 14:44 (1 minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I don't see this as "disinterest in money" as disinterest in work.

I have a dayjob in sales, so money should be important to me, but really as long as I can pay the rent and do some of the things I want, I'm quite happy on the whole. I get more interested in money when I'm broke. I'm more interested in job satisfaction and "profile" at the end of the day (you get neither in sales), and a lot of what I do outside the day-job (writing, promoting, festival organisation, and whatnot) do not provide fiscal rewards.

My own brother left university saying "all I care about is money", which I thought was an admirably honest thing for him to say.

Not interested in money (as in "money is not my primary motivation", in fact it's nowhere near it) but "I'd never want that much money" sounds lame to me

If we're really burrowing down, then all I'm interested in is being happy. Money is a tool which can facilitate some degree of happiness. That's all. (To me.)

But there are many paths to happiness. Not all of which involve ~money~.

::tosses lotus petals about and dances like a fucken hippie::

My particular paths involve bicycles and speakers and sausages from the posh butcher, though.

Anybody who works as a freelance journalist can safely say they're not excessively interested in money. Or if they are then they're going the wrong way about it.

Disappointed that poll options aren't song titles TBH

C.R.E.A.M.
Money Is Not Our God
To Hell With Poverty!

Etc

Not sure which would measurably improve my happiness more, though. £97 million in a trust fund, or Thom Yorke in my... y'know.

WAIT WHO AM I KIDDING.

(I should ban myself from mine own thread. I'll stop that now.)

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Would the £97 million allow you to put Thom Yorke in your... y'know... though? Is the question.

Actually my mum, who plays the lottery religiously, says "i'd never want that much money" whenever anyone actually wins any large amount, errrrrr, playing the lottery

maybe not thom yorke - he wouldn't even play concerts in china or hong kong because he doesn't support the chinese regime

If you play the lottery, I suppose you should plan for winning a very large sum. Although I wouldn't spend too much time "planning".

China is not, as far as I know, a reasonable comparison for MB's... y'know.

Well, he took £4 million to play Coachella so I wonder if he'd take £97 million to play in ~my~ Coachella...?

depends on your... 's human rights records

Put your £97 million down, flip it, and reverse it.

I'd pick up a Flag Post if I made the joke I'm dying to make right now. So you are all spared it. And also spared rhyming "vagina" with "China."

Let's move on. Swiftly.

Oh, I think I already did on another thread...

OMG at ~my~ Coachella

Best vaginal euphemism, will use

not worrying about money is a luxury i can't afford

Put your £97 million down, flip it, and reverse it.
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^ Elizabeth II Regina

I remember reading a story about diddy, diddy was dissatisfied, why, well it was because that despite all of diddy's wealth, on some mornings he would wake up and there would be crust on his lips, you know, the kind that sometimes forms, and no matter how much money he had he couldn't make that problem go away

has he not heard of creme de la mer?

diddy is like the gatsby of (...)

is that a .. coachella?

Alright, alright, enough with the coochella jokes.

Though perhaps we have established that although not everyone in interested in money, sex is a much more universal motivating factor, and sex jokes have a near universal interest. Sigh.

that's because money's no joke

Also, I took "I'm not that interested in money" to mean "money is not my primary motivation" and "money is not in itself inherently interesting" - lots of people seemed to interpret that statement in quite different ways.

this is how I took it to mean so I voted (a), but also because the majority of totally loaded people I know are fairly miserable/unhappy and it's abundantly clear to me that past a certain point money doesn't just NOT buy happiness, it actively contributes to your unhappiness.

i know some rather happy loaded people. maybe money is some multiplication function for happiness? or just irrelevant altogether?

Money is a magnification factor for damn near everything, both good and bad.

Imagine a football match on TV.

Who do you want to win?

"I don't care" = "I am enjoying watching the match"

"I'm not interested" = "I am enjoying reading this book"

"I don't care about money" = that person is either super rich, or lives in a cabin with a goat.

"I'm not interested in money" = that person has made a choice not to make money the primary focus of their life.

Well I don't qualify on either count for the first one, so it has to be "I'm not interested" and that's how I've cast my vote.

It'd take a massive amount of money for having money in and of itself to be worth it, imo. Difference b/t 60k and 160k is what ... slightly nicer versions of the same stuff? and you'd probably have to work 60-80 hours a week for that privilege of slightly nicer. For money to be worth it it'd have to be enough to live like a debauched Roman emperor or effete world-traveling eccentric.

Imagine a football match on TV.

Who do you want to win?

"I don't care" = "I am enjoying watching the match"

"I'm not interested" = "I am enjoying reading this book"

This doesn't actually make sense but whatever. I suppose the point stands that people who are interpreting the question in different ways aren't interpreting it wrongly.

xp The difference between 60k and 160k would probably be retiring ten years earlier.

Probably. But you're just taking away the hours and years of your youth and tacking it onto the years when you're older, though wiser I suppose... if you're lucky to make it that far. This is assuming you have to spend most of your waking day working for that 6-figure salary. Retirement is the victory lap around your own death. Definitely looking forward to that.

Yeah you're losing out on youth but I dunno, being able to retire at 55 and not work while you're older and frailer has its appeals as well.

but what about

"I'm doing it because I care"

vs

"I'm doing it because I have to"

different things???

xp Retiring at 55 definitely sounds appealing, but what I worry with that is the longer in the future we plan, the more unexpected and unpredictable things are likely to happen. Plan at 25 ... plan depends on constants through 55. I had a friend who was on the retire-at-55 plan, then he suddenly met a girl, and a year later he's now a husband and a father.

"I'm doing it because I am interested" is altogether different

I think, even when semantics are disputed, one can still be interpreting the question wrongly.

Like, if the question were "Do you love money?" and people started debating "well, yeah, I like money, I like having it, it's useful, so yes I like money" it would be valid to say "the question was not whether you *like* money, but whether you *love* it."

Semantic differences in words can still be salient.

yeah, and then you can get to the territory of people collecting coins and notes.

<3 Aussie money, for example.

great thread

You are a terrible poster.

when younger totally had plans when I was young to earn £1m and retire at 40.

totally didn't appreciate how far/not far £1m gets you when younger

sorry about that superfluous "when I was young" bit

actually i suppose it's doable. £25000 a year assuming i die at 80

if it's in your capacity to get ludicrous amounts of money, i'd think you'd have a social obligation to be interested in it so you can disperse it to those in need. i think bono's doing the right thing, basically.

but the man is mentally ill!

mentally ill... like a fox?

Automatic thread bump. This poll is closing tomorrow.

I wanna say I completely agree, but growing up in the US in modern times there is a psychological/emotional attachment I have to money that is deeply, subconsciously ingrained. Whenever I'm in a situation where I'm broke and depressed, the minute some money starts to come back my way I instantly feel better, and it's kind of scary.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G6uCyrnhG90

i figure i could be happy with a billion dollars

I'm interested in money up to a point. Anything over 2 million starts to become overkill but I wouldn't call this a caveat

so did I just vote "I completely agree" that I'm interested in money or "I completely agree" that I'm not interested in money?

who's bright idea was it to stick ~not~ in the thread title?

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caveats win in a landlside

otoh, money-loving disagreement wins in a landslide

Prince told me in a dream that money can be used to buy heaven

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nqgu3Z9N6t4

http://wfmu.org/365/2003/256.shtml