Seriously, this is the weirdest thing ever.
We were at a karaoke bar last night, kind of a dive but a good atmosphere, for our friend's 30th birthday.
Around the middle of the night, my friend orders a Foster's (for whatever reason, he HATES that beer), and after drinking a few sips, he states that the beer has gone bad. He works for his father's liquor store and knows beer/wine up and down, so as in any normal bar, he goes to exchange it for a Stella Artois.
He tells the bartender that the beer has gone bad, and the bartender chick tells him that it tastes fine to her...without tasting it. He asks her to, but she won't. Then she says out loud "NObody's ever complained about it before" (as if everybody in the last 10 years has drank from the same keg of beer).
so he offers to pay for the beer but just wants to switch it out with a Stella, and the bartender says "you know what, forget it". So my friend says "You know, you're a great karaoke singer, but a bad bartender".
5 minutes later, the host comes over and asks if everything was alright, and my friend explains that the bartender was rude to him. The host explains he heard he was rude to her and said "We'd like to ask you to leave". He then said he knew why my friend was called "McLovin" (which was the moniker he used to sing karaoke).
F'ing lame. They're within their rights to do whatever they want if its their own establishment, but bartenders refusing to swap out 'bad' beers and insinuating that people don't know what they're talking about is poor customer service. Hell I worked in restaurants for 4 years and had a lot worse things said to me than that!
So, anybody else here get thrown out for weird reasons from establishments?
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Sunday, 6 January 2008 15:26 (sixteen years ago) link
Yeah absolutely. This one time i ordered a drink that i hated on purpose so i could complain about it. then i insulted the bartender. And they asked me to leave???? crazy!
― Slumpman, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:11 (sixteen years ago) link
the only time someone ever brought back a drink to me when I bartended: someone ordered 2 beers, a whiskey and coke and something ridiculous, like a gin and diet coke or rum and diet coke. I explained which coke drink had which color stirrer before he took them. 2 minutes later he brings back the whiskey drink saying it's bad. I take a sip and say "Uh, it's bad because it's rum/gin and diet coke and it's a horrible drink." So, he takes it back to the girl who ordered it, and then she brings it back saying it tastes bad. I make her another drink but do tell her that it tastes bad because she ordered a bad drink.
I've wanted to throw out so many people, because they were idiots, but usually I just had a drink instead.
― Yerac, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:12 (sixteen years ago) link
I'm in two minds on this. But I work in a bar and I would have taken it back no question. But thought your friend was being an ass.
― I know, right?, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:13 (sixteen years ago) link
I know, someone orderd a rum and tonic last night. wtf?
yeah, i always remade drinks or added more alcohol if they said it's weak, but I will stick up for myself and let them know why they are wrong. I totally don't believe the customer is always right.
I really liked people ordering horrible drinks, and taking a sip in front of me and making a face, but then being a trooper and finishing their horrible drink.
― Yerac, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:17 (sixteen years ago) link
I think people who order rum and diet cokes are the worst people in the world.
― Yerac, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:18 (sixteen years ago) link
Or bad hairdressers who order cosmos and then get freaked out that they don't just taste like sugar.
― I know, right?, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:18 (sixteen years ago) link
lol rum n tonic... iiinteresting?
um, yeah, i think it was a case of "i'll be annoying" -- "well if you're gonna be annoying, then I'll be annoying too!"
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:20 (sixteen years ago) link
The worst are people (when its busy) who order three things then disappear and come back and ask for one more thing, and one more thing and then *wait a second* "what are you having? go on!" etc etc.
― I know, right?, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:20 (sixteen years ago) link
the woeful customer service perspective on humanity is unsettling... i work phones and that IS the worst, actually, when people call and are looking through the whoooole black book before than place an order. it's like, know what you want!
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:21 (sixteen years ago) link
(xcuse the typos pls!)
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:22 (sixteen years ago) link
Every now and again you get some drunk guy who can only remember his round one drink at a time and then basically tells you starting out that you are an idiot who will only be able to remember it one drink at a time, really slowing you down as the rest of the customers are like um, can we actually order and then you get their order in the time it takes him to come staggering back and it goes on like this for some time.
― I know, right?, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:22 (sixteen years ago) link
I know, or people who go "whadda ya got?" and expect an answer. i have a bar thankyou.
― I know, right?, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:23 (sixteen years ago) link
YES, that sucks.
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:23 (sixteen years ago) link
ppl will call me and be like what do you have this month, and i'll be like, ummm a LOT OF SHOWS, LOOK AT THE 8 BROCHURES WE SENT YOU. ; /
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:24 (sixteen years ago) link
but n e way yeah i woulda been super pissed if they threw me out but i find the best thing in those circumstances is just to understand that iTS THEIR PROBLEM for being bitchy mcbitches. and just move on to a better bar. i mean, bad beer and stupid hosts? bad
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:26 (sixteen years ago) link
What the fuck is wrong with rum and coke you freak?
― Noodle Vague, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:26 (sixteen years ago) link
no no -- RUM AND CREAM SODA
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:27 (sixteen years ago) link
diet coke
I've heard someone complain about this around here before
I'm assuming it was you.
― I know, right?, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:27 (sixteen years ago) link
xpost
That could be good.
― I know, right?, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:28 (sixteen years ago) link
its sooooo good, esp. fr the holiday season.
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:28 (sixteen years ago) link
Sooooooooo not getting it. His problem wasn't with the beer, it was that the beer itself had gone bad. IE, the yeast....
As far as insulting the bartender, well, he spoke the truth ....I served in restaurants for years and had I done somethign like that to someone I probably woulda gotten reprimanded for insinuating the customer was a loon.
It wasn't a case of "I don't like this beer"...if someone serves you a beer with a born-on date of September, I suppose you just drink it and say nothing?
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:28 (sixteen years ago) link
There was this really funny group who decided to only order bizarre things and see what they tasted like. It wasn't wasteful because they drank it all and got really drunk and were even funnier.
― I know, right?, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:29 (sixteen years ago) link
hahaha that does sound fun
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:29 (sixteen years ago) link
I know this guy who insulted the bar girl once and then apologized but she was like "seriously, fuck you" and he was started being "why are you being so rude" and then complained to the manager, who was going out with this chick.
I think he does a lot of coke.
― I know, right?, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:31 (sixteen years ago) link
But he called her something really horrible to begin with
and fyi, I'm not a proponent of 'the customer is always right', either.
I could, at times, be a hard ass when I took manager calls at my current job before my role changed and I didn't have to do that anymore.
But if someone has actually stated that the beer itself has gone bad (not that they don't LIKE the beer), might help to check it out, even if you doubt it.
(for the record, my friend is pretty much right on the money when he says things like that...they probably didn't realize he works in the alcohol profession.)
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:31 (sixteen years ago) link
wat are those weird green drinks, medori sours? what is that? i had one once, it was so good!!!!
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:31 (sixteen years ago) link
i guess it really depends on the type of bar. a dive bar in nyc would really not waste their time checking on your beer, maybe. i dunno, it's hard to imagine knowing what a bad beer would taste like.
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:32 (sixteen years ago) link
well yea, once the profanity or the heavy insults come in, that's a one and done.
in my profession (benefits), you'd be surprised how many times idiots will complain nobody told them they had to do such and such within 30 days, and then you'll tell them they were mailed a letter saying just that and they will say "I didn't get it".
According to some of these clowns, the mail service must lose 70% of their mail!
Or my favorite, is when someone doesn't pay a bill because they don't get one in the mail. IE, it gets lost, or, more likely, they misplace it and forget about it.
so if I know I have a monthly recurring Cingular bill, and I don't get it one month, that means the month is free? No, it means you call and ask for another copy.
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:33 (sixteen years ago) link
well yea, we live in Florida.
I wouldn't doubt it in New York. I'm fairly respectable of the whole "when in Rome, do as the Romans do" motif. Last time we went to NY my other Florida cronies that were with me were miffed that they wouldn't split the check and after trying to point out that NYC ain't Florida, I gave up and let them whine for the next 10 minutes in silence.
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:34 (sixteen years ago) link
haha yes there is a set of expectations...
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:35 (sixteen years ago) link
and for the record, I love New York, so I tend to defend everything about it
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:39 (sixteen years ago) link
sometimes the power trip thing is hilarious. it's like, i work in a public/entertainment kind of arena, but i never feel that my job is so important that i should be rude to ppl, or kick them out, etc for something kinda small. awful.
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:39 (sixteen years ago) link
it's like OOO you're so fucking important, you hold the key to my either drinking or not at your bar. I BOW DOWN, FUCKER.
hmm, yea.
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:40 (sixteen years ago) link
rum and DIET cokes are horrible. i don't think it was me that complained about it before. I am not a big fan of rum in general, but rum and diet cokes are awful shit. But luckily where I bartended in ny, people only really order whiskey and pbr 70% of the time.
― Yerac, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:40 (sixteen years ago) link
What is your job?
― I know, right?, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:41 (sixteen years ago) link
haha those are like my favorite things to order, even tho i usually order vodka. altho do places like have pbr a lot? i never feel like they do
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:41 (sixteen years ago) link
me? arts administration
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:43 (sixteen years ago) link
It's more fun to tell someone to go to Hell in a way that they look forward to the trip (sorry for the bad cliche).
and of course, your secret is God's secret.
I ALWAYS hated, as a server, the people who would walk in 1 minute prior to close. Now, for perspective--had I worked in a GOOD restaurant, I may not have minded being kept late for a straggler, but this was a struggling restaurant that probably wrote its monthly returns in black ink once in a two year period.
(Hint: a restaurant that shares its name with a vehicle brand and serves California style mexican food).
So one day it was dead, I was tired and wanted to go home, and I was closer, so I got everything ready, we hadn't had a customer in ages, and right as the clock was to strike closing time, these two walked in...and knowing full well, they sat down anyway.
so in my irrational rage (back in my I hate everything for no good reason phase), I went to the kitchen, and got the salsa we were required to bring every table, and put ketchup, mustard, jalapeno peppers, a quarter of a bottle of habanero sauce...anything I could find into it, and mixed it up and took it to the table.
when I got back they were suffering from the concoction and asked if we had a milder salsa. I grinned and said it was the mild...but then felt bad a little later and brought them a different one without telling them.
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:43 (sixteen years ago) link
i'm like a ticket + event fairy. whoa post post k
omg ha that souns AWFUL!
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:44 (sixteen years ago) link
I vowed to never go back to retaurants and haven't since....
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:45 (sixteen years ago) link
Aren't you hungry? (sorry)
― Kerm, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:50 (sixteen years ago) link
haha!
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Sunday, 6 January 2008 16:53 (sixteen years ago) link
funny, i was talking about this the other day ... when i was a kid, me and my folks would go out for meals (often to the local berni inn or similar -- oh yeh, the eighties in the north of england!) with the next-door neighbours.
mr N-DN was actually a reasonable bloke but had a bottomless capacity for dickwittery, and would manage to fuck off waiters within about five seconds of us getting in the door. casual sexism, offhand comments, you name it ... once he actually asked a waitress, half-way through the meal, if she'd mind "getting the other girl to serve us, because we like her better". it was like he didn't actually realise what a cock he was being. despite us trying to explain, repeatedly.
i hate to think how much "chef's special sauce" me and my parents have been forced to eat because of that throbber. i think, in the end, my mum and dad were forced to be spectacularly blunt with him. and i don't remember going out with them again.
― grimly fiendish, Sunday, 6 January 2008 17:03 (sixteen years ago) link
WOW
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 17:04 (sixteen years ago) link
the end result is that i go out of my way to be nice to waiters. who probably think i'm an ingratiating wanker, and break out the special sauce all over again :(
― grimly fiendish, Sunday, 6 January 2008 17:04 (sixteen years ago) link
noooo
― Surmounter, Sunday, 6 January 2008 17:07 (sixteen years ago) link
dell
― gr8080, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 01:46 (sixteen years ago) link
I was to understand there was pie and punch
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 01:47 (sixteen years ago) link
i don't think there were calls to ban me?
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 05:42 (sixteen years ago) link
nobody spoil my illusions here or anything
I don't even know who's new anymore.
― jessie monster, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 05:52 (sixteen years ago) link
have you been in hiding lately btw?
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 05:53 (sixteen years ago) link
lol, nah I've been really, really busy with school/work this year. also drinking beer with my boyfriend.
― jessie monster, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 05:56 (sixteen years ago) link
awes
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 05:57 (sixteen years ago) link
also drinking beer with my boyfriend.
living the dream
no yoke
― dell, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 07:22 (sixteen years ago) link
i wasn't around when you were new hoos, but:
33. BIG HOOS aka the steendriver goes from CIO-target-number-one to loveable and crucial part of the ILX family without hardly changing his posting style at all.
-- gr8080, Sunday, December 23, 2007 5:28 PM (2 weeks ago) Bookmark Link
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 8 January 2008 07:27 (sixteen years ago) link
i had:
BAN JORDAN SARGENT
Ban John Justen
― John Justen, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 07:29 (sixteen years ago) link
lol
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 8 January 2008 07:31 (sixteen years ago) link
i just put together that droooone= w4lter.
what happened to him btw?
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 8 January 2008 07:32 (sixteen years ago) link
I remember reading some article in "Psychology Today" magazine, which even at the time I read it, the magazine was a pale shadow of its former self. Anyhow, there was a piece about which cliches were true-to-life or not...like examining "familiarity breeds contempt" and "absence makes the heart grow fonder".
The conclusions drawn were that the more familiar one is with a person in a given context, the more one tends to warm towards them...and the greater the person's absence time-wise, the more one tends to forget them.
STalkers, don't take heart from this; you're likely fucked in any event...
― dell, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 07:36 (sixteen years ago) link
reverend is cool with me hes just kinda crotchety
-- and what, Wednesday, August 1, 2007 10:42 AM (5 months ago) Bookmark Link
more miccio than lex, i mean
thanks?
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 07:51 (sixteen years ago) link
I never got ban-calls, but I was pretty quiet through my first year or so here, or at least I would like to think I was.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 07:52 (sixteen years ago) link
lol i thought for a while that you were skidmore-style old
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 8 January 2008 07:57 (sixteen years ago) link
"that rev's gotta have a great time knitting and listening to reggaeton records"
lol @ deej calling you a pop-ist.
wtf is a 'humansuit'?
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 8 January 2008 07:58 (sixteen years ago) link
RIP humansuit
― John Justen, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 08:01 (sixteen years ago) link
heaven needed another small cat
― John Justen, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 08:02 (sixteen years ago) link
Results 1 - 2 of 2 for "ban humansuit". (0.09 seconds)
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 08:07 (sixteen years ago) link
some people called for a "Ban Darramous" every time i posted, but i think that was either a case of mistaken identity or dom trying to be funny.
― darraghmac, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 10:00 (sixteen years ago) link
yeah early quietness is key to not getting a ban thread, but now im sort of jealous that i never got one
― max, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 10:07 (sixteen years ago) link
all i got was "there's a grady now???"
― gr8080, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 10:16 (sixteen years ago) link
can't be too quiet, traceable history wildcard
― strgn, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 10:24 (sixteen years ago) link
Weird thread.
― Dom Passantino, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 10:31 (sixteen years ago) link
'tis a fly boatman's balmy font. I love Bobby's newfound enthusiasm for ILX.
― Øystein, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 10:32 (sixteen years ago) link
Wow, how did I miss this one? Awesome.
― Pashmina, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 10:47 (sixteen years ago) link
dear max rBo Jackson Overdrive,
usually when we here at ILX have a general aversion to a new poster, it's usually an accurate one. you suck.
-- cutty, Friday, 5 October 2007 19:39 (3 months ago) Bookmark Link
― Dom Passantino, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 11:03 (sixteen years ago) link
Mebbe its cos I only post to threads about Britney and Black Dice and the Gay thread, but people have only ever been supernice to me.
I'm banned from the Noise Board though.
― I know, right?, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 11:13 (sixteen years ago) link
we = 6 people
― blueski, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 11:14 (sixteen years ago) link
nah tiarnan, it's 'cos you arrived on more or less the same day as another 19 year-old UK&Eire student, who took the apportioned shit of two men
oh and the fact i post to more or less every thread EXCEPT those ones :D
― Just got offed, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 11:24 (sixteen years ago) link
Your search - "ban colonel poo" - did not match any documents.
Damn, I need to step up my game.
― Colonel Poo, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 11:31 (sixteen years ago) link
this thread has gone FUBAR!!!
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 13:00 (sixteen years ago) link
FLAMBOYANTLY UPSET BY ASSHOLE RE-ORDERERS
― gr8080, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 13:27 (sixteen years ago) link
"You know, you're a great karaoke singer, but a bad bartender".
aside from WORST ZING EVAH.
we need to know - what did the bartender sing????????
― ken c, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 13:49 (sixteen years ago) link
"Can you guys ban Thermo Thinwall's ip from hitting ilx at all..."
i r loved
― The Cursed Return of the Dastardly Thermo Thinwall, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 16:08 (sixteen years ago) link
ihttp://www.cummingthefragrance.com/imagesAlan/image7.jpg
― Slumpman, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 23:54 (sixteen years ago) link
http://www.cummingthefragrance.com/imagesAlan/image7.jpg
oh holy hell, totally wrong thread...!
― Slumpman, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 23:55 (sixteen years ago) link
RIGHT THREAD
― Just got offed, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 23:56 (sixteen years ago) link
you'll be delighted to know that my mum walked in the room just as i loaded that one up
― Just got offed, Tuesday, 8 January 2008 23:57 (sixteen years ago) link
i AM delighted :D
― Slumpman, Wednesday, 9 January 2008 00:00 (sixteen years ago) link
I think she sang Fallin' by Alicia Keys, butI could be wrong
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Wednesday, 9 January 2008 03:25 (sixteen years ago) link
Not that you asked, but I sang "Practice What You Preach" by Barry White
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Wednesday, 9 January 2008 03:26 (sixteen years ago) link
― buzza, Sunday, 8 August 2010 03:16 (thirteen years ago) link
― Yerac, Sunday, January 6, 2008 4:18 PM (2 years ago) Bookmark
I miss Yerac.
― not everything is a campfire (ian), Sunday, 8 August 2010 03:23 (thirteen years ago) link