Gay Marriage to Alfred: Your Thoughts

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So...where's next? I'm looking at the map (http://www.freedomtomarry.org/states/) and kind of scratching my chin. Oregon at least kind of plausible, right? But after that... I mean it's going to hit the point where all the states that are possibly going to do this of their own accord will have done it, and "let it happen in the states" is going to run out of juice. I mean, right? I guess somewhere like Ohio =might hypothetically flop back on their constitutional amendment, which was backed by 62% in a referendum back in 2004; FreedomToMarry reports a poll showing a 52% majority in favor of marriage equality in 2012.

That said, I'm still amazed how quickly this went from something linked to a couple of freak outlier states, easily pigeonholed as obvious bastions of liberalism RUN AMOK, to fifteen-sixteen states.

Doctor Casino, Thursday, 14 November 2013 23:41 (ten years ago) link

Sorry, Rev, you're joining Eric and me in mah-riaj.

the objections to Drake from non-REAL HIPHOP people (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 14 November 2013 23:48 (ten years ago) link

:-(

ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Friday, 15 November 2013 01:04 (ten years ago) link

So...where's next?

IIRC New Mexico is where the next decision will go down, currently before the state Supreme Court. Oregon's looking very likely next year as you note. After that it does get tricky per the incremental strategy, but this is also why there have been a slew of lawsuits filed in a variety of non-recognizing states essentially designed to force the issue. My guess is the presumption is to get this before the Supreme Court again and finally put it away, presuming no full repeal of what's left of DOMA.

Keep in mind that with Illinois about to formally join, the total US populace covered by gay marriage will be around 40% -- and that's not chump change. If Pennsylvania and Ohio went over that alone would take it well over 50%, and at that point I think you'd be seeing some tremendous pressure for a national standard that's already starting to come through -- business interests are increasingly more vocal about it being a selling point in terms of recruitment and assignment. Combine that with what's inevitably starting to happen when it comes to gay couples in the military, or one in the military and one out, and where THEY'RE assigned and things will be resolved within the next few years, pretty much. The relevant lawsuits are already under way.

Ned Raggett, Friday, 15 November 2013 01:15 (ten years ago) link

I've already seen an argument that Christie's nod/wink approach -- "Hey I tried but what are you going to do?" -- is going to become the new default over time on the right. Not exactly sure of that myself -- at some point you inevitably run into people who really honestly do object to it and aren't going to change their minds -- but at the same time, the trend has been and continues to be a series of clear indicators that there's growing national acceptance on all fronts. It's a shitty fact that there's still some years to run on this but compare it with ten years ago, much less twenty, when this whole thing essentially kicked off with the original Hawaii decision, and it is pretty amazing still.

Ned Raggett, Friday, 15 November 2013 01:21 (ten years ago) link

Great answers Ned, thanks. Yeah, I should be more optimistic. This whole thing could be a done deal in the relatively near future, and yet, yeah, SO recently it was just unthinkable.

Doctor Casino, Friday, 15 November 2013 02:05 (ten years ago) link

Sorry, Rev, you're joining Eric and me in mah-riaj.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9vk5vUzuXc

midnight outdoor nude frolic up north goes south (Eric H.), Friday, 15 November 2013 06:56 (ten years ago) link

Sorry, Rev, you're joining Eric and me in mah-riaj.

― the objections to Drake from non-REAL HIPHOP people (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, November 14, 2013 3:48 PM Bookmark

I can't condone that. Polygamy makes a mockery of traditional marriage between a man and man.

old homophobic boom bap rap traditionalist (The Reverend), Saturday, 16 November 2013 08:34 (ten years ago) link

who are the men here.

I have a friend who works at Kroger (Matt P), Saturday, 16 November 2013 10:14 (ten years ago) link

yall just move to new caledonia and find a cool turtle to name after yourselves.

I have a friend who works at Kroger (Matt P), Saturday, 16 November 2013 10:15 (ten years ago) link

what is this thread about. oh yeah, gay marriage. go die in a fucking fire.

I have a friend who works at Kroger (Matt P), Saturday, 16 November 2013 10:18 (ten years ago) link

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I have a friend who works at Kroger (Matt P), Saturday, 16 November 2013 10:20 (ten years ago) link

one month passes...

New Mexico makes it 17

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 19 December 2013 22:33 (ten years ago) link

http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/news/57291925-78/ban-judge-sex-court.html.csp
Federal judge strikes down Utah’s ban on same-sex marriage

1staethyr, Friday, 20 December 2013 22:25 (ten years ago) link

!

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Friday, 20 December 2013 22:33 (ten years ago) link

Same-Sex Couples in Utah Getting Marriage Licenses

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/judge-strikes-utahs-sex-marriage-ban-21293820

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Friday, 20 December 2013 22:36 (ten years ago) link

so has the federal court called state law unconstitutional on this issue prior? how important is this?

uh, prop 8 was ruled unconstitutional by a federal court

1staethyr, Friday, 20 December 2013 22:59 (ten years ago) link

okay, dumb question on my part. so does this mean that wherever a law is raised banning gay marriage, the feds will move in and revoke it? how quick is this moving now?

more detail

http://www.ksl.com/?sid=28099570&nid=148&title=federal-judge-rules-utah-same-sex-marriage-ban-unconstitutional&fm=home_page&s_cid=featured-1

forks i think it means the broader issue of state bans based on gender will be at the supreme court pretty soon and likely overturned i.e. a more active ruling? california ruling was limited somehow, i can't remember in what way though, i'm slow on this stuff.

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Friday, 20 December 2013 23:08 (ten years ago) link

Yeah this is moving pretty quickly. Due process is starting to work out damn fast.

Also, at least one gay couple has already married (no waiting period in Utah). So an attempt to revoke that (which will happen) would only prompt a further lawsuit that will rule similarly at some point.

Ned Raggett, Friday, 20 December 2013 23:10 (ten years ago) link

*dies*

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Friday, 20 December 2013 23:19 (ten years ago) link

hahahahahaha fuck washington county

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Friday, 20 December 2013 23:20 (ten years ago) link

utah is by far the reddest state this has happened in fwiw.

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Friday, 20 December 2013 23:24 (ten years ago) link

xp to matt: yeah, if the state of utah takes this to the supreme court that should force a more active ruling. the state of california didn't appeal the original district court ruling against prop 8, so the supreme court was able to avoid ruling directly on its constitutionality by simply determining that the defendants (supporters of prop 8) had no standing to appeal, leaving the district court's decision intact.

1staethyr, Friday, 20 December 2013 23:31 (ten years ago) link

ty

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Friday, 20 December 2013 23:34 (ten years ago) link

https://twitter.com/jsethanderson/status/414169183707234304

Seth Anderson ‏@jsethanderson

Line out the door now in Salt Lake. A celebration of love and joy.

Johnny Fever, Friday, 20 December 2013 23:35 (ten years ago) link

http://pbs.twimg.com/media/Bb9srY-IYAcPQPw.jpg

Johnny Fever, Friday, 20 December 2013 23:36 (ten years ago) link

Utah state senator Jim Dabakis just got married to his longtime partner.

jaymc, Friday, 20 December 2013 23:41 (ten years ago) link

damn it xp

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Friday, 20 December 2013 23:42 (ten years ago) link

this is especially sweet given that Utah-based orgs funded Prop 8 in California

cristalnacht (lukas), Friday, 20 December 2013 23:57 (ten years ago) link

Ryan Bruckman, spokesman for the Utah Attorney General’s Office, said its attorneys plan to appeal the decision and were currently drafting a motion to seek a stay of the ruling "as quickly as we can get it taken care of."

Utah Gov. Gary Herbert issued this statement late Friday afternoon: "I am very disappointed an activist federal judge is attempting to override the will of the people of Utah. I am working with my legal counsel and the acting Attorney General to determine the best course to defend traditional marriage within the borders of Utah."

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Friday, 20 December 2013 23:58 (ten years ago) link

the u.s. judge ruled in 16 days on this (he was scheduled to issue a decision jan. 7).

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Saturday, 21 December 2013 00:00 (ten years ago) link

is it possible this could be at the supreme court in a year?

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Saturday, 21 December 2013 00:02 (ten years ago) link

The only long-term couples that I know who aren't married couldn't be because they live in Utah and New Mexico. This week is pretty alright.

joygoat, Saturday, 21 December 2013 01:04 (ten years ago) link

10th Circuit Court denied Utah's request for an emergency stay tonight so get ready for a slew more marriages tomorrow...

Ned Raggett, Monday, 23 December 2013 01:23 (ten years ago) link

And 10th Circuit reaffirms Shelby's rejection of the stay, gay marriage to remain legal through the resolution of the formal appeal at least, Gov. Herbert already saying in internal emails that there's minimal impact on state services. State's move now, but I suspect this is pretty much done on a practical level. Question is do they take this to the Supreme Court so Kennedy can put the final kibosh.

http://m.sltrib.com/sltrib/mobile3/57306142-219/state-sex-marriages-utah.html.csp

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 25 December 2013 00:47 (ten years ago) link

Officially four Utah counties still going "La la la I can't hear you!" Including Utah County/Provo/BYU.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 25 December 2013 00:50 (ten years ago) link

And to answer Matt P's question -- I don't think a year? It kinda depends on when the 10th Circuit decides, which sounds like it might not be until summer. If Utah loses, they'd have to appeal, then it depends on when the Supreme Court schedules it, if they agree to hear it (which is pretty damn likely).

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 25 December 2013 00:53 (ten years ago) link

Hmm, though one final twist via the Washington Blade re the immediate stay:

But same-sex marriage seeking to marry in Utah aren’t out of the woods yet. State officials — Gov. Gary Herbert and Attorney General Sean Reyes — can file a request for a stay before the U.S. Supreme Court. The request would go to U.S. Associate Justice Sonia Sotomayor, who could refer the issue to the entire court.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 25 December 2013 00:59 (ten years ago) link

provo spain?

mookieproof, Wednesday, 25 December 2013 01:01 (ten years ago) link

Gotta love Orem.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 25 December 2013 01:04 (ten years ago) link

utah county is the weirdest place in the u.s.

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Wednesday, 25 December 2013 02:00 (ten years ago) link

towns named after book of mormon characters. one of the articles had the weirdest fuckin quote from batshit insane byu law professor lynn wardle. hope they get the shit sued out of them.

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Wednesday, 25 December 2013 02:07 (ten years ago) link

"sexual civil rights"

mookieproof, Wednesday, 25 December 2013 02:25 (ten years ago) link

so pretty

From the Album No Baby for You! (Matt P), Wednesday, 25 December 2013 06:50 (ten years ago) link


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