Boston -- Classic or Dirty Water?

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BEAUTIFUL this time of year (Summer), late Spring and early Fall. SUCKS the rest of the time (i.e. most of the year)........and I was born and raised here. Now I'm just trying to convince my significant other to move back to the west coast where I lived for 4 winter-less years.

Paul, Saturday, 10 August 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

two months pass...
I came here looking for the lyrics to "dirty water" RI 0wnz

h4h4h4, Friday, 8 November 2002 01:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

two weeks pass...
All of you who claim to hate Boston or who are bashing it on here, are not true Bostonians. I, like BJ, stumbled across the page and refused to leave it until I found some normalcy, some person who was a Bostonian, not a bunch of whiners who talked smack about to me the greatest city I have ever known. He gave the noramlcy along with only a few others. While you all have this page to say this stuff on, Bostonians go on, living it up and loving every moment of it. I never hear this there, because you are the bitter minority on the topic and I was shcoked to see this page online was so full of people badmouthing Boston. I grew up just outside of Boston and have lived there my whole life. I have spent months though living in other cities all over the nation. Everyone I know from home and everyone I meet from there and especially those form other states, like Boston as much and usually more than theirs. New York has its downfalls although I love it too. I would never love it more than Boston. I recognize things about NYC that I dislike, but I still enjoy it there and would not make nasty genralizations about it, because I enjoy it so. Ironic you all say Bostonians are so rude, you outta read your own mean messages. I love Boston, and know it a lot better than many of you seem to, like JP wrote, 'it is easy to harp on a place'. But I know Boston is a place that if you really knew it, you probably wouldn't want to harp on, and yet I wonder if you people would ever take the time. Maybe you are knew to the area and feel lost. I would never, ever talk bad about it. I do not know who any of you are, but you people are uninterested in the city you live in and you miss the entire true spirit of what this historically old city is all about. It will leave you behind with an attitude like that. Bostonians generally are funny, fun-loving, true sports fan, outgoing people with sharp minds, down-to-earth attitudes, and welcoming personalities! It has some of the best schools in the nation, it has famous restraunts, it had many "firsts", it has plenty of fun things to do, it has so much to offer families, relatives can drive to each other an all live in different parts of the state, and it is not hard to do, and lastly, the people from Boston stand out....they are funny, they have accents often, they are smart, they know their history, they are culturally and racilly diverse, they are liberal, they speak their mind, and they are proud, not cocky (overall) and they should be. They should be because they are Bostonians. They would tell you about your bad attitudes in a heartbeat, and I am glad, that is the way to handle such negativity. I love it in Boston and you people 'can all move' like BJ says, if you want to trash it so hard. I read his e-mail and grinned. He said he doesn't know who any of you are, and neihter do I, but I know I am glad that people who want to talk like that about Boston are NOT REAL BOSTONIANS, AND UNLIKELY TO LIVE THERE IF THEY GET THE CHANCE TO MOVE...PLEASE DO IF YOU CAN...YOU'LL BE HAPPY ABOUT IT AND SO WILL WE. BJ said you could all just move to NY and become Yankkes fans for life....I couldn't agree more and hopefully you will, and for those who are rude in NY (not all are) you can join their ranks or be your happy selves, and then let Boston not have to hear that trash talk again or deal with your bad attitudes, why ever you claim to have them. Oh yeah and talk about snobby...again read your own messages about "how NY is the best...." and all your generalizations...it isn't really. Everywhere has its good and bad. And overall Boston has its great.

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:05 (twenty-one years ago) link

"real Bostonians" clearly = dud

M Matos (M Matos), Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:08 (twenty-one years ago) link

Oh and as JP wrote...we have the best medical centers in the world, leading medical research, and we are improving Boston to beeven greater, every day. I have been around the world, and nothing ever compares, to coming home to Boston. And it probably never will.

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:10 (twenty-one years ago) link

Matt--

What do you mean? I like CA lots, but what is 'dud' to you? Just curious, nothing more though.

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

I mean M Matos...not Matt...

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:14 (twenty-one years ago) link

I was kidding. I do a lot of joking about my dislike of Boston on the boards based on one weekend there (and the weekend was great but I could not see myself living there) and it was meant to be in-jokey in that manner. Hope that clears it up

M Matos (M Matos), Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

M Matos.....

:) :) Cool...by the way...I may have mixed you up with someone and you may not livein CA. If so, my bad...Thanks and Happy Holidays. :) :)

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

nope, I live in NYC

M Matos (M Matos), Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

I was born in Boston but spent my first four years in Lynn. Does that count? "The armpit of Massachusetts" was great to me. It's still beautiful when I go back. Give me the ocean. Give me people living on top of each other. I was in this little multi-ethnic working class neighborhood, this cul de sac where all the kids played and taught me to talk. I thought my name was Peedah until I moved to Madison, Wisconsin.

Pete Scholtes, Sunday, 24 November 2002 03:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

All of you who claim to hate Boston or who are bashing it on here, are not true Bostonians.

Dude, most of us aren't from Boston, what the hell?

Ally (mlescaut), Sunday, 24 November 2002 04:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

comparing Boston to NYC is grossly inapt. comparing boston to philadelphia or baltimore (to name just two) is more appropriate. and boston clearly loses to both philly and baltimore.

Tad (llamasfur), Sunday, 24 November 2002 06:48 (twenty-one years ago) link

Um...Ally...

You may not be..but many of these other folks say they now live there...so that was to them.....get it? Not to you....and if you aren't from there you know even less about the place...yes driving can suck, but that is not a reason for me to hate a city, maybe it is for you....but read through these and many people aren't from Boston but NOW LIVE THERE...I, like BJ and others was saying they could all move back to where their from instead of being Boston residents (aka 'Bostonians') because they aren't that anyway, and hate it so much. I see you are not from there....that was not who the Bostonian thing was directed to...you live there you are considered one...excpet for them....and other than traffic why do you like Philly better? I am just curious?

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 14:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

Pedah!!

Me too! Lynn...I love it!! Awesome message!

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 15:04 (twenty-one years ago) link

i really, really don't like boston. on the other hand i can well imagine that it's better than loads of other US (or even worldwide) cities; i just can't imagine why people would choose to live here rather than new york or london or...

toby (tsg20), Sunday, 24 November 2002 18:31 (twenty-one years ago) link

I, like BJ and others was saying they could all move back to where their from instead of being Boston residents

Smooches to you, too. Taking sides: "If you don't like it, go back where you came from!" vs "If you don't like it, what would you like to see different?"

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Sunday, 24 November 2002 18:40 (twenty-one years ago) link

i guess probably most of my problems with boston stem from it being tiny (also the absurd 2am curfew). as i say, i'm sure it's great as small US cities go, it's just that for me small US cities = gigantic dud.

toby (tsg20), Sunday, 24 November 2002 19:05 (twenty-one years ago) link

Why was the "Real Bostonian" spending untold hours of his Saturday night defending Boston's nightlife on ILE?

Puritan, get thee to Rhode Island!

Mat Bo (Mat Bo), Sunday, 24 November 2002 19:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

Tim H was explaining to me not long ago that all of the buildings in the centre of Boston are made of wood. Neither of us had been there, so it may not have been the most informed and accurate discussion of the subject ever.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Sunday, 24 November 2002 21:29 (twenty-one years ago) link

I still stand by my "hey, my one weekend in Boston and Cambridge was fun" statement. I think, like most cities, if you already know really good people there, that makes a crucial difference. Good people in Boston are really good people, from my experience.. maybe because of the stretching of good character that's required to deal with the, ahem, others.. or not.

Dan, whatever happened to smug Joker fisty guy?

donut bitch (donut), Sunday, 24 November 2002 21:42 (twenty-one years ago) link

To Dan...if you want to see improvements that is different than people bashing it and acting like it is not worth their time because it sucks...and Mat Bo, I spent about 20 minutes on here the other night to defend my city that I miss so much, because I am away at school and saw this page...then I went out and had a blast, so thanks for your input...by the way, I like Rhode Island but I am not a Puritan....

Cass, Monday, 25 November 2002 03:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

other than traffic why do you like Philly better?

Less Bostonians.

Ally (mlescaut), Monday, 25 November 2002 03:42 (twenty-one years ago) link

as always, Ally hit it on the head.

that, and both Philly and Baltimore have better food than Boston. and that includes better seafood. yes, Bostonians, you read that right. so much for Boston Harbor!

Tad (llamasfur), Monday, 25 November 2002 03:45 (twenty-one years ago) link

anyway, Boston is the ultimate "little town w/ a big town attitude." so of course Bostonians are going to get knocked about a bit when they step to people from, say, NYC or Chicago or London. anyone who thinks that Boston is in the same league as NYC, Chicago, or London is out of their minds. It's especially ludicrous because so many Bostonians (IRL, not necessarily on ILX) have the absurd notion that Boston = center of the universe. Why, because of Harvard? Boston Harbor? The Red Sox? Puleaze.

Philly also has a "little town" attitude, though Philadelphians are more justified in that it's the fifth-largest city in the country. And they aren't as full of themselves and their town as Bostonians are.

Tad (llamasfur), Monday, 25 November 2002 03:53 (twenty-one years ago) link

If your reason for thinking Boston is the center of the universe is the Red Sox then I weep for you.

Tad basically explained it anyway, to take things down to the serious level for a sec, because it's so true. I think it's a freaking Massachusetts curse, thinking yourself very bloody important. This is why all the people on this thread who are not from Boston but live there and think a lot of it sucks and should be changed think it sucks and should be changed. It seems kind of telling that the majority of the people who just luuuuuuurve Boston are born there and everyone else wants to blow it up?

Whatever, the Red Sox suck ass, that's what it is.

Ally (mlescaut), Monday, 25 November 2002 04:01 (twenty-one years ago) link

Great Cthulhu this thread has gone on...

Anyway, just to dog-pile on Boston some more I have to mention the word that a Maine-born friend of mine uses in reference to Bostonians:

Massholes

Chris Barrus (xibalba), Monday, 25 November 2002 04:19 (twenty-one years ago) link

I don't think there's much of a correlation between the quality of seafood and the quality of Boston Harbor, what with that body of water being so foul and off-limits for so long. Massachusetts Bay, maybe. I was born and bred in the area and I've seen the harbor like five times. It's still mostly blocked by buildings anyway unless for god sakes you really need to see it.

The glorification of "baked scrod" has to be the biggest Boston scam ever. But really, why would Philly have such good seafood? Is it the fish? The preparation? Tad?

Cass I'm really glad you had fun even though you weren't in Boston.

Mat Bo (Mat Bo), Monday, 25 November 2002 05:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

I LOVE Boston and surrounding city area for precisely the reasons cited by Geeta in her praise post above.

I like the Bookstores records shops etc and found Boston much cheaper than NY for things when I was there next weekend. I found the people both friendlier and nicer (cab drivers and waiters). Maybe this is cause I was in Williamsburg NY the previous 2 days - and that place seems to breed horribleness.

Size? It takes only 25 min to get anywhere you need to go if you live sort of in the city. Compared to living in like Zone 2 or 3 or 4 of London for the same price? For all the time I spend commuting I don't have any time to enjoy the things London is supposed to be so great for - not to mention the fact that London does shut down at 1am as well.

Maybe when I hit my 30's I found find Boston's "young" population a bit annoying, but I certainly wanted ot move back there when I was there last weekend.

marianna, Monday, 25 November 2002 10:36 (twenty-one years ago) link

not to mention the fact that London does shut down at 1am as well.

what?? the point is that boston *completely* shuts down at 2am - whereas if i want to be out dancing in london til dawn i can do it any night of the week in any of dozens of places! and doubtless the same will be true of drinking come next summer, too.

toby (tsg20), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:25 (twenty-one years ago) link

Maybe this is cause I was in Williamsburg NY the previous 2 days - and that place seems to breed horribleness.

Well, yes, if you're going to come to NY I'd suggest most anywhere BUT WBurg, especially now a days with all the trustafarians living there.

And yes, London does stay open all night, there's absolutely no difficulty in finding a place to go if you really need to - I defy any Bostonian to tell me an after hours bar there. They've only got ONE strip club you know.

Ally (mlescaut), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:30 (twenty-one years ago) link

I enjoyed my trip to Boston very much but I kind of fell in love a bit with NYC so that overshadowed the Boston element.

Best thing about Boston = excellent guides / hosts (thanks Marianna!), good record shops, hanging out with the Perrys.

I was pleased to find that it is not the centre of Boston which is made of wood. The brain box in which I keep my thoughts about Boston is wooden though.

Tim (Tim), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:48 (twenty-one years ago) link

One more comment about the Red Sox........No need to bring them into this conversation. All this talk about Philly and Baltimore, christ two of the worst teams in all of baseball, and oh yeah those beloved Yankees and Mets really tore it up this year.

Chris V. (Chris V), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

Go to chinatown after hours and you can find quite a few after hours bars. From the looks of this it seems that all Bostonians are getting labeled as massholes? Im not saying that Boston is the greatest city (thats reserved for Worcester ;) but it ain't that bad.

Chris V. (Chris V), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

Erg. I was referring to the lack of subway after 1 am - not to mention the pubs shutting at 11. In both cities there ARE places you can go to well past 2 am to do your dirty deeds. NY is the city that never sleeps but London and Boston and pretty much every other US city I've been to, definately nods off around 1am.

marianna, Monday, 25 November 2002 16:06 (twenty-one years ago) link

Dan, whatever happened to smug Joker fisty guy?

I think he opened for The Clientele! (not really, alas)

Favorite part of the Clientele show was when the lead singer said, "Please turn up the reverb on my mic, there's a real singer in the house," in reference to me (???). I immediately shouted, "MORE FALSETTO!!!" He chuckled and said, "Yes, more out-of-tune, rubbish falsetto... Where's that reverb?" He was GREBT, though.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 25 November 2002 16:11 (twenty-one years ago) link

I'm pretty sure the "real singer" was a reference to you Dan Perry!
Viva Mary Chung's!

marianna, Monday, 25 November 2002 16:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

Not one message referencing "More Than A Feeling?"

OK, than I'll do it.

mike a (mike a), Monday, 25 November 2002 20:03 (twenty-one years ago) link

"Hitch a Ride"

Chris V. (Chris V), Monday, 25 November 2002 20:05 (twenty-one years ago) link

RI = much much better than Boston. Now, if only Boston commuters would stop moving to Providence..
I had never been to Boston until this year.. and.. all the historical landmarks + the Isabelle Gardner (sp?) museum = classic, but.. wow ! why does everyone look the same & are all rich & wearing ribbed turtleneck sweaters ? why can't you buy a cool pair of shoes anywhere ? why is everyone in such a bad mood !?

daria g, Tuesday, 26 November 2002 04:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

All this talk about Philly and Baltimore, christ two of the worst teams in all of baseball,

Um, the Phillies and the Orioles have won World Series in my lifetime. Which is more than can be said for the Red Sox. Another plus for the Phillies and the Orioles: when their ballparks get run-down and go to seed, they tear them down and build new ones. (same criticism goes for the Cubs, too)

and oh yeah those beloved Yankees and Mets really tore it up this year.

At least the Yankees made it to the playoffs. And I hate the Mets, so I'm probably just as happy as you are that they sucked (and will continue to suck).

Tad (llamasfur), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 05:07 (twenty-one years ago) link

yep, they have one champioships in our lifetimes. but i think the sox have a better chance of winning one before either of those two teams do. Granted if the Phils get Thome, then it gets interesting. But their pitching staff does nothing for me. Neither does the Red Sox staff for that matter. When John Burkett is your number 3, there is plenty reason to worry. Ugh I hate being a Boston sports fan. Although my Bruins are tearing it up this year.

Chris V. (Chris V), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 12:56 (twenty-one years ago) link

god excuse my awful engrish up there. thats "won championships"

Chris V. (Chris V), Tuesday, 26 November 2002 13:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

this thread won't die! and the phillies got thone!

Tad (llamasfur), Saturday, 7 December 2002 12:38 (twenty-one years ago) link

five months pass...
http://www.norfolkwindmills.com/postcards/boston.jpg

gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 4 June 2003 09:25 (twenty years ago) link

three weeks pass...
i am so bored of boston, NYC is hipster trash these days. that is all.

kephm, Monday, 30 June 2003 17:02 (twenty years ago) link

i jsut found $20 outside on the sidewalk. i love boston again

kephm, Monday, 30 June 2003 19:08 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah, but you could have been living in your pad and getting your $20 worth of those few minutes of rent.

donut bitch (donut), Monday, 30 June 2003 19:14 (twenty years ago) link

explain this "getting $20 to live in my pad for a few mintues"
paying rent doesnt bother me.

kephm, Monday, 30 June 2003 19:42 (twenty years ago) link

Ha ha, you have a local news reporter named Joe Shortsleeve. This is like having a weatherman with the given name "Storm."

I had fun, although I kept driving around in circles at the junctions of Route 1, I-95, 278(? -- the road that goes to Marblehead/Beverly) and 114 each time I tried to go from anywhere. It was the Blair Witch project of driving ("AIEEE!! We were just here!!) But now I understand why New Englanders give such strange directions: There is no such thing as a plain left turn, right turn, or a street that keeps its same name past more than a few lights. "Curl around right" is a valid and useful direction. And Dunkin' Donuts really is a very convenient landmark.

I think Mary would like Salem Willows. Skee Ball has gone up to 25 cents from a dime but it's still fun.

felicity (felicity), Tuesday, 8 July 2003 20:36 (twenty years ago) link


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