ok the dangerous teenage hug epidemic - another important new york times trend piece

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Years ago, she had another clothesline outside the bathroom, one that stretched to the building next door. Ms. Schill shared the line with the woman in the opposite apartment, an unlikely connection on the thinnest of strings. The other woman died, and eventually the line was removed.

Ms. Schill misses that clothesline sometimes. And her neighbor, too.

paedo turkoglu (hmmmm), Saturday, 30 May 2009 09:11 (fifteen years ago) link

three weeks pass...

OK I am going to comment on this from a cultural perspective, based on my own experience. I am from Mexico where, as in most Latin America, people touch each other all the time. It has nothing to do -at least on a conscious level- with sexuality. It is just a way social bonding I guess. I was honestly a bit shocking, after coming to Canada (where I've lived for the past six years) people hardly hug or touch each other at all. Even among close friends. I must say that during my first long harsh winter (while I wasn't seeing anyone) I could have done with a little more physical contact.

touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, 22 June 2009 20:55 (fourteen years ago) link

we welcome you to 77.

probably gets busy with larper chicks or somefin' (forksclovetofu), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:03 (fourteen years ago) link

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touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:07 (fourteen years ago) link

what's your login email so we may have you join us on 77?

probably gets busy with larper chicks or somefin' (forksclovetofu), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:11 (fourteen years ago) link

77 being...?

touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:14 (fourteen years ago) link

its a hug emoticon duc?

Lamp, Monday, 22 June 2009 21:18 (fourteen years ago) link

xp

Originally opened in 1964 (Ned Trifle II), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:19 (fourteen years ago) link

77 is the colloquial term for a ILX board that isn't visible to the general public but does a very good job of being exactly like ILE only with more emoness

get money fuck witches (HI DERE), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:20 (fourteen years ago) link

OK I am going to comment on this from a cultural perspective, based on my own experience. I am from Mexico where, as in most Latin America, people touch each other all the time. It has nothing to do -at least on a conscious level- with sexuality. It is just a way social bonding I guess. I was honestly a bit shocking, after coming to Canada (where I've lived for the past six years) people hardly hug or touch each other at all. Even among close friends. I must say that during my first long harsh winter (while I wasn't seeing anyone) I could have done with a little more physical contact.

― touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, June 22, 2009 4:55 PM (31 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

i guess u don't live in quebec? everyone hugs and kisses each other on the cheek here

gabb 'bag (s1ocki), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:27 (fourteen years ago) link

ha ha u live in gaytown

probably gets busy with larper chicks or somefin' (forksclovetofu), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:28 (fourteen years ago) link

yea more like montregay

rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:29 (fourteen years ago) link

I do actually, but on the anglo side of Montreal.

touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:29 (fourteen years ago) link

xpost

touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:29 (fourteen years ago) link

daavid, go to the "boards" section and check out 7Curtis's 7borad

probably gets busy with larper chicks or somefin' (forksclovetofu), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:30 (fourteen years ago) link

OK, thanks!

touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:32 (fourteen years ago) link

'emoness'??

autogucci cru (deej), Tuesday, 23 June 2009 05:05 (fourteen years ago) link

dont cry about it

gabb 'bag (s1ocki), Tuesday, 23 June 2009 05:07 (fourteen years ago) link

im going to make a private 77 thred about how im ;_;

autogucci cru (deej), Tuesday, 23 June 2009 05:17 (fourteen years ago) link

OK I never read that clothesline article before now. Its an Onion piece someone misplaced, right?

I'm Rick Wakeman, bitch! (Trayce), Tuesday, 23 June 2009 05:24 (fourteen years ago) link

me neither. fuck a dryer imo

task force vs the brisbane punks (electricsound), Tuesday, 23 June 2009 05:42 (fourteen years ago) link

And I thought the "hey look, hipsters all wear chunky black framed glasses! Even when they DONT NEED TO!" wank in last weeks Age was bad enough.

I'm Rick Wakeman, bitch! (Trayce), Tuesday, 23 June 2009 06:12 (fourteen years ago) link

EXCELLENT message/username combination, daavid.

StanM, Tuesday, 23 June 2009 06:19 (fourteen years ago) link

two months pass...

And in other fake trends, a "Facebook Exodus"

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/30/magazine/30FOB-medium-t.html?em

The article itself admits that the numbers don't back this up. How do they feel comfortable reporting this?

the kid is crying because did sharks died? (Hurting 2), Monday, 31 August 2009 19:42 (fourteen years ago) link

heffernan does not report, she babbles nonsense about stuff she's heard from her friends and family.

call all destroyer, Monday, 31 August 2009 19:50 (fourteen years ago) link

yeah doesn't she have her own personal fact checker on staff? amazing she's still employed

Mr. Que, Monday, 31 August 2009 19:51 (fourteen years ago) link

She obviously wants it to be true.

the kid is crying because did sharks died? (Hurting 2), Monday, 31 August 2009 19:52 (fourteen years ago) link

huh, i had always figured her for being a good bit older than 40. i guess she's just dumb.

call all destroyer, Monday, 31 August 2009 19:53 (fourteen years ago) link

One person shut down her account because she disliked how nosy it made her. Another thought the scene had turned desperate. A third feared stalkers. A fourth believed his privacy was compromised. A fifth disappeared without a word.

The exodus is not evident from the site’s overall numbers.

the people vs peer gynt (goole), Monday, 31 August 2009 19:54 (fourteen years ago) link

sentences like that are how nazi germany started basically

the people vs peer gynt (goole), Monday, 31 August 2009 19:55 (fourteen years ago) link

a small but noticeable group are fleeing

velko, Monday, 31 August 2009 19:56 (fourteen years ago) link

Another thought the scene had turned desperate.
Another thought the scene had turned desperate.
Another thought the scene had turned desperate.

call all destroyer, Monday, 31 August 2009 19:57 (fourteen years ago) link

I think she needs a hug.

Houston (Euler), Monday, 31 August 2009 19:57 (fourteen years ago) link

Virginia Heffernan thinks the scene has turned desperate

Mr. Que, Monday, 31 August 2009 19:57 (fourteen years ago) link

ILXodus

velko, Monday, 31 August 2009 19:58 (fourteen years ago) link

Mr. Que's posts had turned desperate.

velko, Monday, 31 August 2009 19:58 (fourteen years ago) link

don't they know about "hide posts" functionz

Fox Force Five Punchline (sexyDancer), Monday, 31 August 2009 20:04 (fourteen years ago) link

Another friend, who didn’t want his name used, found that Facebook undermined his whole notion of online friendship.

ian, Monday, 31 August 2009 20:07 (fourteen years ago) link

seriously "web service with 150 million users has a few malcontents" is in actual fact Not Fit To Print

all yoga attacks are fire based (rogermexico.), Monday, 31 August 2009 20:09 (fourteen years ago) link

guys she does this pretty much every week.

call all destroyer, Monday, 31 August 2009 20:11 (fourteen years ago) link

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginia_Heffernan

Heffernan began her career as a fact-checker with The New Yorker magazine.
Heffernan began her career as a fact-checker with The New Yorker magazine.
Heffernan began her career as a fact-checker with The New Yorker magazine.
Heffernan began her career as a fact-checker with The New Yorker magazine.
Heffernan began her career as a fact-checker with The New Yorker magazine.
Heffernan began her career as a fact-checker with The New Yorker magazine.

all yoga attacks are fire based (rogermexico.), Monday, 31 August 2009 20:14 (fourteen years ago) link

http://2009.sxsw.com/files/u13/VirginiaHeffernan.jpg

velko, Monday, 31 August 2009 20:21 (fourteen years ago) link

dumb AND cute!

stfuhut (k3vin k.), Monday, 31 August 2009 20:22 (fourteen years ago) link

i'd check her facts.

scott seward, Monday, 31 August 2009 20:23 (fourteen years ago) link

Que is thinking of Alessandra Stanley, isn't he?

I don't know if this qualifies as bogus-trend "reporting" cause it was in Heffernan's column in the magazine, which is very much not "reported."

nabisco, Monday, 31 August 2009 20:25 (fourteen years ago) link

Que is thinking of Alessandra Stanley, isn't he?

Yes. Both have written about TV for the Times.

jaymc, Monday, 31 August 2009 20:27 (fourteen years ago) link

which also BTW is way less cringy than I'd ever have imagined when it started! I think I've actually enjoyed a few weeks

nabisco, Monday, 31 August 2009 20:28 (fourteen years ago) link

huh, i had always figured her for being a good bit older than 40.

I think it must be the name. I first read her in Slate, so she didn't seem terribly old.

jaymc, Monday, 31 August 2009 20:29 (fourteen years ago) link

Que is thinking of Alessandra Stanley, isn't he?

CORRECTION

A post on Monday afternoon incorrectly named Virginia Heffernan as having her own personal fact checker on the New York Times. It is Alessandra Stanley who was the fact-checker, not Heffernan.

Mr. Que, Monday, 31 August 2009 20:30 (fourteen years ago) link


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