ok the dangerous teenage hug epidemic - another important new york times trend piece

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i recall this working pretty much as amtst described. my sister & her friends hugged, the guys never did unless it was some kind of flirtation initiated by the lady.

ian, Friday, 29 May 2009 04:43 (fifteen years ago) link

when does a cuddle become a snuggle, or vice versa?

kingfish, Friday, 29 May 2009 04:49 (fifteen years ago) link

thought they were synonymous.

ian, Friday, 29 May 2009 04:51 (fifteen years ago) link

handshakes are like hugs for your hands

the stanky leg (nickalicious), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:52 (fifteen years ago) link

hugs are like handshakes for your body

鬼の手 (Edward III), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:54 (fifteen years ago) link

not sure where milkshakes fit into the equation

鬼の手 (Edward III), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:55 (fifteen years ago) link

your penis

the stanky leg (nickalicious), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:56 (fifteen years ago) link

oh shit did you use that one already doh

no. i'm in awe!

elliot easton ellis (get bent), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:56 (fifteen years ago) link

let's leave your penis out of this

鬼の手 (Edward III), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:58 (fifteen years ago) link

(that's what she said)

鬼の手 (Edward III), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:59 (fifteen years ago) link

your penis

― the stanky leg

appropriate username?

jump in the looool (electricsound), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:59 (fifteen years ago) link

oh in that case...

xp i thought that's what that song was about

more xposts

rosario speedwagon (nickalicious), Friday, 29 May 2009 05:00 (fifteen years ago) link

at what duration does a *hug* become a *cuddle*

the dangerous teenage hug epidemic vs the cuddle puddle

salsa shark, Friday, 29 May 2009 07:07 (fifteen years ago) link

i would hug my female friends in hs, only hugged male hs friends after we graduated.

At the end of a semester my evil improv/drama teacher who had made many of my friends miserable for months hugged me and it was traumatizing.

clotpoll, Friday, 29 May 2009 07:16 (fifteen years ago) link

fwiw i don't see much (if any) evidence of this at my kid's middle school, yesterday AM this girl he love/hates came up and punched him 'hello'

m coleman, Friday, 29 May 2009 09:39 (fifteen years ago) link

guys i found something worse

Mr. Que, Friday, 29 May 2009 19:20 (fifteen years ago) link

everybody hugs in my office, btw

Feugh! (since somebody always asks: rhymes with "Peugh!") (forksclovetofu), Friday, 29 May 2009 19:35 (fifteen years ago) link

kinda want a powerhug with r giant hands kelly (pictured above)

corps of discovery (schlump), Friday, 29 May 2009 19:43 (fifteen years ago) link

mounted on r kelly's hands: a kitchen wallclock, a small recently felled log and a finger mounted crystal decanter

corps of discovery (schlump), Friday, 29 May 2009 19:44 (fifteen years ago) link

Have I mentioned what a hug maniac my 15-yr-old brother is? He has his own style of hug, which he calls 'Cars0n hugs' after himself, which involve squeezing the fucking shit out of you for a good 10 seconds. He's so wicked affectionate, it is just crazy.

Last night he was telling me in his speech class, a student gave a speech about how some of his best friends got kidnapped, raped and murdered when they were in elementary school. "It was so SAD, I needed some hugs but hardly anyone would give me one." My hypothesis, that it was bcz people like breathing while being hugged, was wrong. It turns out he's doing an 'I'm creepy and weird' gambit lately where he breathes on people's necks ans stabs his arm to make blood squirt onto his notebooks. •_•

cant go with u too many alfbrees (Abbott), Friday, 29 May 2009 19:45 (fifteen years ago) link

His peers don't find him especially huggable bcz of this.

cant go with u too many alfbrees (Abbott), Friday, 29 May 2009 19:47 (fifteen years ago) link

I am not sure I understand what is happening there

Obama seems to have the views of a 21-year-old Hispanic girl (HI DERE), Friday, 29 May 2009 19:48 (fifteen years ago) link

I blame My Chemical Romance

she's in arby's / she's in the can (Curt1s Stephens), Friday, 29 May 2009 19:50 (fifteen years ago) link

<3 yr new nickname, crütz

cant go with u too many alfbrees (Abbott), Friday, 29 May 2009 20:55 (fifteen years ago) link

I just saw these two people downtown

http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3352/3577087214_754c6920a7_o.jpg

In case you can't make out the signs, they say "FREE HUGS"

you'rine school (Jesse), Friday, 29 May 2009 21:23 (fifteen years ago) link

HUGS $1

ice cr?m, Friday, 29 May 2009 21:25 (fifteen years ago) link

The free hugs people were all over Boston last summer. Creepy.

Chaki Demus & Pliers (ENBB), Friday, 29 May 2009 21:45 (fifteen years ago) link

I wonder if I could haggle for a kiss too.

you'rine school (Jesse), Friday, 29 May 2009 21:46 (fifteen years ago) link

http://www.redwinebuzz.com/winesooth/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/joe-george-bush-picture-1-2.jpg

Rarely is the question asked, is our children hugging?

would you ask tom petty that? (tipsy mothra), Friday, 29 May 2009 21:49 (fifteen years ago) link

OMG that article Mr. Que found! Shocking.

StanM, Friday, 29 May 2009 23:15 (fifteen years ago) link

seriously, what is the premise of that article? is it really just

http://cache.gawker.com/assets/resources/2007/12/siren.gif CLOTHESLINES EXIST http://cache.gawker.com/assets/resources/2007/12/siren.gif ?

I can't tell what on earth it's trying to say otherwise and don't know why the fuck you'd pitch, research, write, place, sub and publish that story. "HOLD THE FRONT PAGE, we've discovered kettles, plumbing and potplants!"

Chaka Demus & Plies (sic), Saturday, 30 May 2009 06:51 (fifteen years ago) link

In this week's Sunday supplement: 22,000 words on DID YOU KNOW: some of YOUR NEIGHBOURS don't live in caves?

Chaka Demus & Plies (sic), Saturday, 30 May 2009 06:53 (fifteen years ago) link

Years ago, she had another clothesline outside the bathroom, one that stretched to the building next door. Ms. Schill shared the line with the woman in the opposite apartment, an unlikely connection on the thinnest of strings. The other woman died, and eventually the line was removed.

Ms. Schill misses that clothesline sometimes. And her neighbor, too.

paedo turkoglu (hmmmm), Saturday, 30 May 2009 09:11 (fifteen years ago) link

three weeks pass...

OK I am going to comment on this from a cultural perspective, based on my own experience. I am from Mexico where, as in most Latin America, people touch each other all the time. It has nothing to do -at least on a conscious level- with sexuality. It is just a way social bonding I guess. I was honestly a bit shocking, after coming to Canada (where I've lived for the past six years) people hardly hug or touch each other at all. Even among close friends. I must say that during my first long harsh winter (while I wasn't seeing anyone) I could have done with a little more physical contact.

touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, 22 June 2009 20:55 (fourteen years ago) link

we welcome you to 77.

probably gets busy with larper chicks or somefin' (forksclovetofu), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:03 (fourteen years ago) link

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touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:07 (fourteen years ago) link

what's your login email so we may have you join us on 77?

probably gets busy with larper chicks or somefin' (forksclovetofu), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:11 (fourteen years ago) link

77 being...?

touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:14 (fourteen years ago) link

its a hug emoticon duc?

Lamp, Monday, 22 June 2009 21:18 (fourteen years ago) link

xp

Originally opened in 1964 (Ned Trifle II), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:19 (fourteen years ago) link

77 is the colloquial term for a ILX board that isn't visible to the general public but does a very good job of being exactly like ILE only with more emoness

get money fuck witches (HI DERE), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:20 (fourteen years ago) link

OK I am going to comment on this from a cultural perspective, based on my own experience. I am from Mexico where, as in most Latin America, people touch each other all the time. It has nothing to do -at least on a conscious level- with sexuality. It is just a way social bonding I guess. I was honestly a bit shocking, after coming to Canada (where I've lived for the past six years) people hardly hug or touch each other at all. Even among close friends. I must say that during my first long harsh winter (while I wasn't seeing anyone) I could have done with a little more physical contact.

― touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, June 22, 2009 4:55 PM (31 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

i guess u don't live in quebec? everyone hugs and kisses each other on the cheek here

gabb 'bag (s1ocki), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:27 (fourteen years ago) link

ha ha u live in gaytown

probably gets busy with larper chicks or somefin' (forksclovetofu), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:28 (fourteen years ago) link

yea more like montregay

rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:29 (fourteen years ago) link

I do actually, but on the anglo side of Montreal.

touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:29 (fourteen years ago) link

xpost

touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:29 (fourteen years ago) link

daavid, go to the "boards" section and check out 7Curtis's 7borad

probably gets busy with larper chicks or somefin' (forksclovetofu), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:30 (fourteen years ago) link

OK, thanks!

touch my bum / this is life (daavid), Monday, 22 June 2009 21:32 (fourteen years ago) link


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