ok the dangerous teenage hug epidemic - another important new york times trend piece

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not yet, but trying

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i like to fart and i am crazy (gbx), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:51 (fifteen years ago) link

is "feeling up" above the waist and "groping" below?

Obama seems to have the views of a 21-year-old Hispanic girl (HI DERE), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:52 (fifteen years ago) link

also "french kissing" is missing

Obama seems to have the views of a 21-year-old Hispanic girl (HI DERE), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:52 (fifteen years ago) link

hug - feeling up - groping - (something) - dry humping

batters box - first base - second base - third base - sacrifice fly

Lamp, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:53 (fifteen years ago) link

wait, those are backward

hug - feeling up - groping - (something) - dry humping

― nabisco, Thursday, May 28, 2009 2:50 PM (58 seconds ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

Where does Dutch Rudder fall into this?

Moodles, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:53 (fifteen years ago) link

cuddling w/o moving

roman knockwell (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:53 (fifteen years ago) link

lol i like the direction this is taking guys

hugging used to mean something (call all destroyer), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:53 (fifteen years ago) link

am i gonna have to google dutch rudder

i like to fart and i am crazy (gbx), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:53 (fifteen years ago) link

Where does Dutch Rudder fall into this?

say it in baseball *shakes fist*

Lamp, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:54 (fifteen years ago) link

Dutch Rudder is a good character actor but I don't see how he's relevant

nabisco, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:55 (fifteen years ago) link

Dan I would say "feeling up" is just that - feeling or lightly touching whereas "groping" sort of connotes more action. I think both could be used to describe above the waist action but that groping is def more involved.

Chaki Demus & Pliers (ENBB), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:55 (fifteen years ago) link

Dutch Rudder, didn't they play the second stage at Lollapalooza one year?

Mr. Que, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:55 (fifteen years ago) link

Hugging isn't mentioned in the bible, so it's only logical that it's getting banned everywhere.

StanM, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:55 (fifteen years ago) link

feeling up=you have permission
groping=you do not have permission

Mr. Que, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:56 (fifteen years ago) link

that's is IT
there is no way I'm bringing a child into THIS WORLD

warmsherry, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:56 (fifteen years ago) link

x-post I think that one can grope with permission under certain circumstances.

Chaki Demus & Pliers (ENBB), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:57 (fifteen years ago) link

(oops. sorry. http://www.biblegateway.com/quicksearch/?quicksearch=embrace&qs_version=9 )

StanM, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:57 (fifteen years ago) link

the ol' five finger hug

cool app (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:57 (fifteen years ago) link

you do not have sufficient grope permissions to access this file

Lamp, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:58 (fifteen years ago) link

a good reporter would have pulled a quote from that last group, because I would find it super-informative as a reader to see a news story containing genuine teenage sneering about this issue, and in general about who thinks they're so cool with their stupid hugging but really they're just dumb jerks
― nabisco, Thursday, May 28, 2009 2:19 PM (22 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

Amen.

I can only think of one condition and one instance under which hugging occurred between my peers in middle school and high school: when couples spent the entire lunch period in sloppy kisses and serious dry humping in the hall and my two female high school classmates who were outspoken about not being lovers (Sarah was a cheerleader and Buffy (I'm not making it up) was a basketball player). I had public speaking class w/ them and they hugged before and after every single class.

But yeh, hugs would have been sooo out of place in my schools.

you'rine school (Jesse), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:04 (fifteen years ago) link

pretty sure when i was in high school the theater kids and goth kids were the only ones hugging it up

Ømår Littel (Jordan), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:06 (fifteen years ago) link

maybe they got the idea from my so called life or something

Ømår Littel (Jordan), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:06 (fifteen years ago) link

ugh, my grandfather had a dutch rudder on his hand, it was really fuckin gross

rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:13 (fifteen years ago) link

Wait - now that I think of it, there were probably a couple drama kids who hugged. Ugh.

you'rine school (Jesse), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:15 (fifteen years ago) link

maybe they got the idea from my so called life or something

ha!

rosario speedwagon (nickalicious), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:21 (fifteen years ago) link

i like hugs!

rosario speedwagon (nickalicious), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:22 (fifteen years ago) link

nabisco xp: this article would have been better if it addressed hugging as leading to social stratification or if there are ethnic/racial issues or how it affects autistic kids. The hugging thing vs. the rise of autism spectrum diagnosis ... or even better, cases of hugging gone wrong. Hugging leading to stalking. Kids that hug wrong.

giving a shit when it isn't your turn to give a shit (sarahel), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:47 (fifteen years ago) link

Kids that hug wrong.

the mind boggles

Obama seems to have the views of a 21-year-old Hispanic girl (HI DERE), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:48 (fifteen years ago) link

this article is completely perfect the way it is - btw i just read it like 10 mins ago

ice cr?m, Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:49 (fifteen years ago) link

as i recall when i went to HS (early/mid 90s) this worked strictly along gender lines. girls hugged--usually each other, occasionally guys. guys never hugged one another, and rarely if ever initiated hugs with girls.

amateurist, Friday, 29 May 2009 00:32 (fifteen years ago) link

paedo turkoglu (hmmmm), Friday, 29 May 2009 00:45 (fifteen years ago) link

rosario speedwagon

dude

elliot easton ellis (get bent), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:21 (fifteen years ago) link

oh shit did you use that one already doh

rosario speedwagon (nickalicious), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:40 (fifteen years ago) link

lb I find it disturbing that you are disturbed

― 鬼の手 (Edward III), Thursday, May 28, 2009 7:07 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

why?

Vokuhila (latebloomer), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:42 (fifteen years ago) link

i recall this working pretty much as amtst described. my sister & her friends hugged, the guys never did unless it was some kind of flirtation initiated by the lady.

ian, Friday, 29 May 2009 04:43 (fifteen years ago) link

when does a cuddle become a snuggle, or vice versa?

kingfish, Friday, 29 May 2009 04:49 (fifteen years ago) link

thought they were synonymous.

ian, Friday, 29 May 2009 04:51 (fifteen years ago) link

handshakes are like hugs for your hands

the stanky leg (nickalicious), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:52 (fifteen years ago) link

hugs are like handshakes for your body

鬼の手 (Edward III), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:54 (fifteen years ago) link

not sure where milkshakes fit into the equation

鬼の手 (Edward III), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:55 (fifteen years ago) link

your penis

the stanky leg (nickalicious), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:56 (fifteen years ago) link

oh shit did you use that one already doh

no. i'm in awe!

elliot easton ellis (get bent), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:56 (fifteen years ago) link

let's leave your penis out of this

鬼の手 (Edward III), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:58 (fifteen years ago) link

(that's what she said)

鬼の手 (Edward III), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:59 (fifteen years ago) link

your penis

― the stanky leg

appropriate username?

jump in the looool (electricsound), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:59 (fifteen years ago) link

oh in that case...

xp i thought that's what that song was about

more xposts

rosario speedwagon (nickalicious), Friday, 29 May 2009 05:00 (fifteen years ago) link

at what duration does a *hug* become a *cuddle*

the dangerous teenage hug epidemic vs the cuddle puddle

salsa shark, Friday, 29 May 2009 07:07 (fifteen years ago) link

i would hug my female friends in hs, only hugged male hs friends after we graduated.

At the end of a semester my evil improv/drama teacher who had made many of my friends miserable for months hugged me and it was traumatizing.

clotpoll, Friday, 29 May 2009 07:16 (fifteen years ago) link

fwiw i don't see much (if any) evidence of this at my kid's middle school, yesterday AM this girl he love/hates came up and punched him 'hello'

m coleman, Friday, 29 May 2009 09:39 (fifteen years ago) link


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