after the expiration of the "huggle" zone
― nabisco, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:47 (fifteen years ago) link
cuddles are generally horizontal, or at least sitting down.
― hugging used to mean something (call all destroyer), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:48 (fifteen years ago) link
i think its when the person starts to rub your back or really any hand/arm mvmnt at all once the hug has been formed
― Lamp, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:48 (fifteen years ago) link
I am huggy if you're already a friend and if I really like you. What gets me if when people I've met once and don't really know at all start hugging me goodbye and stuff. I'm not so into that. We just met - we're not at the hugging stage yet!
yeah i guess it's a gray area--like i hugged the gf's f (who i've met a bunch of times) but since i just met this guy he's more in the handshake zone. and he's an acquaintance's sig other--who knows if i'm ever gonna see him again?
― hugging used to mean something (call all destroyer), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:49 (fifteen years ago) link
Important: which discipline?
mostly poets (obv), some writers
― Ømår Littel (Jordan), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:49 (fifteen years ago) link
yeah a cuddle is a moving hug
― i like to fart and i am crazy (gbx), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:50 (fifteen years ago) link
it goes hug - huggle - cuddle - snuggle - "hooking up"
add motion and they are, respectively, hug - feeling up - heavy petting - grope - dry hump
― nabisco, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:50 (fifteen years ago) link
wait, those are backward
hug - feeling up - groping - (something) - dry humping
lol
― hugging used to mean something (call all destroyer), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:51 (fifteen years ago) link
"grinding on" is somewhere in there
― nabisco, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:51 (fifteen years ago) link
x-post to CAD - Yeah, exactly. You just met and had coffee. It wasn't as if you had some marathon bonding session or went through something traumatic together. In my mind that's definitely still handshake zone.
― Chaki Demus & Pliers (ENBB), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:51 (fifteen years ago) link
not yet, but trying
xp
― i like to fart and i am crazy (gbx), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:51 (fifteen years ago) link
is "feeling up" above the waist and "groping" below?
― Obama seems to have the views of a 21-year-old Hispanic girl (HI DERE), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:52 (fifteen years ago) link
also "french kissing" is missing
batters box - first base - second base - third base - sacrifice fly
― Lamp, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:53 (fifteen years ago) link
― nabisco, Thursday, May 28, 2009 2:50 PM (58 seconds ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
Where does Dutch Rudder fall into this?
― Moodles, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:53 (fifteen years ago) link
cuddling w/o moving
― roman knockwell (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:53 (fifteen years ago) link
lol i like the direction this is taking guys
― hugging used to mean something (call all destroyer), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:53 (fifteen years ago) link
am i gonna have to google dutch rudder
― i like to fart and i am crazy (gbx), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:53 (fifteen years ago) link
http://www.crayola.com/lesson-plans/detail/metric-hugs-lesson-plan/
― cool app (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:54 (fifteen years ago) link
say it in baseball *shakes fist*
― Lamp, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:54 (fifteen years ago) link
Dutch Rudder is a good character actor but I don't see how he's relevant
― nabisco, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:55 (fifteen years ago) link
Dan I would say "feeling up" is just that - feeling or lightly touching whereas "groping" sort of connotes more action. I think both could be used to describe above the waist action but that groping is def more involved.
― Chaki Demus & Pliers (ENBB), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:55 (fifteen years ago) link
Dutch Rudder, didn't they play the second stage at Lollapalooza one year?
― Mr. Que, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:55 (fifteen years ago) link
Hugging isn't mentioned in the bible, so it's only logical that it's getting banned everywhere.
― StanM, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:55 (fifteen years ago) link
feeling up=you have permissiongroping=you do not have permission
― Mr. Que, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:56 (fifteen years ago) link
that's is ITthere is no way I'm bringing a child into THIS WORLD
― warmsherry, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:56 (fifteen years ago) link
x-post I think that one can grope with permission under certain circumstances.
― Chaki Demus & Pliers (ENBB), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:57 (fifteen years ago) link
(oops. sorry. http://www.biblegateway.com/quicksearch/?quicksearch=embrace&qs_version=9 )
― StanM, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:57 (fifteen years ago) link
the ol' five finger hug
― cool app (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:57 (fifteen years ago) link
you do not have sufficient grope permissions to access this file
― Lamp, Thursday, 28 May 2009 19:58 (fifteen years ago) link
a good reporter would have pulled a quote from that last group, because I would find it super-informative as a reader to see a news story containing genuine teenage sneering about this issue, and in general about who thinks they're so cool with their stupid hugging but really they're just dumb jerks― nabisco, Thursday, May 28, 2009 2:19 PM (22 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
Amen.
I can only think of one condition and one instance under which hugging occurred between my peers in middle school and high school: when couples spent the entire lunch period in sloppy kisses and serious dry humping in the hall and my two female high school classmates who were outspoken about not being lovers (Sarah was a cheerleader and Buffy (I'm not making it up) was a basketball player). I had public speaking class w/ them and they hugged before and after every single class.
But yeh, hugs would have been sooo out of place in my schools.
― you'rine school (Jesse), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:04 (fifteen years ago) link
pretty sure when i was in high school the theater kids and goth kids were the only ones hugging it up
― Ømår Littel (Jordan), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:06 (fifteen years ago) link
maybe they got the idea from my so called life or something
ugh, my grandfather had a dutch rudder on his hand, it was really fuckin gross
― rip dom passantino 3/5/09 never forget (max), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:13 (fifteen years ago) link
Wait - now that I think of it, there were probably a couple drama kids who hugged. Ugh.
― you'rine school (Jesse), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:15 (fifteen years ago) link
ha!
― rosario speedwagon (nickalicious), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:21 (fifteen years ago) link
i like hugs!
― rosario speedwagon (nickalicious), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:22 (fifteen years ago) link
nabisco xp: this article would have been better if it addressed hugging as leading to social stratification or if there are ethnic/racial issues or how it affects autistic kids. The hugging thing vs. the rise of autism spectrum diagnosis ... or even better, cases of hugging gone wrong. Hugging leading to stalking. Kids that hug wrong.
― giving a shit when it isn't your turn to give a shit (sarahel), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:47 (fifteen years ago) link
Kids that hug wrong.
the mind boggles
― Obama seems to have the views of a 21-year-old Hispanic girl (HI DERE), Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:48 (fifteen years ago) link
this article is completely perfect the way it is - btw i just read it like 10 mins ago
― ice cr?m, Thursday, 28 May 2009 20:49 (fifteen years ago) link
as i recall when i went to HS (early/mid 90s) this worked strictly along gender lines. girls hugged--usually each other, occasionally guys. guys never hugged one another, and rarely if ever initiated hugs with girls.
― amateurist, Friday, 29 May 2009 00:32 (fifteen years ago) link
― paedo turkoglu (hmmmm), Friday, 29 May 2009 00:45 (fifteen years ago) link
rosario speedwagon
dude
― elliot easton ellis (get bent), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:21 (fifteen years ago) link
oh shit did you use that one already doh
― rosario speedwagon (nickalicious), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:40 (fifteen years ago) link
lb I find it disturbing that you are disturbed
― 鬼の手 (Edward III), Thursday, May 28, 2009 7:07 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
why?
― Vokuhila (latebloomer), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:42 (fifteen years ago) link
i recall this working pretty much as amtst described. my sister & her friends hugged, the guys never did unless it was some kind of flirtation initiated by the lady.
― ian, Friday, 29 May 2009 04:43 (fifteen years ago) link
when does a cuddle become a snuggle, or vice versa?
― kingfish, Friday, 29 May 2009 04:49 (fifteen years ago) link
thought they were synonymous.
― ian, Friday, 29 May 2009 04:51 (fifteen years ago) link
handshakes are like hugs for your hands
― the stanky leg (nickalicious), Friday, 29 May 2009 04:52 (fifteen years ago) link