― Dan (No Molestation Without Representation) Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 12 June 2006 12:02 (seventeen years ago) link
Here's an example: I'm out at a bar with a law school pal and at some point in the night he looks at my chest and tells me that my shirt makes my boobs look huge. Now this is completely unwelcome and innapropriate and I tell him so, to which he responds, "I'll bet you let Jeff tell you that your boobs look big!"
And I do, but that's because Jeff is MY HUSBAND. And unless there was enough alcohol involved that I don't remember it (which is possible), he's never made comments about my breasts while in public within earshot of our friends. And if he had, there was probably a fight later. But otherwise, of COURSE Jeff can tell me things about my boobs. I welcome such comments because they might lead to doing it.
Now I'm distracted. But I think I've made my point. Or I hope so because I'm late for work - the jist of it is that a reasonable rule of thumb (or boob) would be NOT to bring it up unless the woman initiates her body as a topic of conversation. Such as by waving her recently augmented tits in your face, for an excellent example.
― Safety First (pullapartgirl), Monday, 12 June 2006 12:05 (seventeen years ago) link
― Seriously, Try Punching This Guy in the Face and See What Happens (Enrique), Monday, 12 June 2006 12:14 (seventeen years ago) link
haha I R A BOY
― sinful caesar sipped his snifter (kenan), Monday, 12 June 2006 12:28 (seventeen years ago) link
― Seriously, Try Punching This Guy in the Face and See What Happens (Enrique), Monday, 12 June 2006 12:30 (seventeen years ago) link
― spectra (spectra), Monday, 12 June 2006 13:22 (seventeen years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 12 June 2006 13:24 (seventeen years ago) link
Another average day in Finland...... :)
― JTS (JTS), Monday, 12 June 2006 13:29 (seventeen years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 12 June 2006 13:31 (seventeen years ago) link
― Fluffy Bear (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Monday, 12 June 2006 13:54 (seventeen years ago) link
― guns to deal with vodka (haitch), Monday, 12 June 2006 14:45 (seventeen years ago) link
― Abbott (Abbott), Monday, 12 June 2006 15:48 (seventeen years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 12 June 2006 16:00 (seventeen years ago) link
― sinful caesar sipped his snifter (kenan), Monday, 12 June 2006 16:02 (seventeen years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 12 June 2006 16:05 (seventeen years ago) link
― sinful caesar sipped his snifter (kenan), Monday, 12 June 2006 16:06 (seventeen years ago) link
1) Her tits are great.2) My g/f pointed it out at much greater length than I did.3) At that precise point, she needed a bloke to tell her that.
So, although I was definitely saying it from a sexist perspective, it's still (IMO) an order of magnitude less creepy than Tuomas in the Roxy example.
― aldo_cowpat (aldo_cowpat), Monday, 12 June 2006 17:45 (seventeen years ago) link
― sinful caesar sipped his snifter (kenan), Monday, 12 June 2006 17:55 (seventeen years ago) link
― aldo_cowpat (aldo_cowpat), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:08 (seventeen years ago) link
― Jesus Dan (Dan Perry), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:08 (seventeen years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:16 (seventeen years ago) link
― aldo_cowpat (aldo_cowpat), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:17 (seventeen years ago) link
― Allyzay Rofflesbot (allyzay), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:17 (seventeen years ago) link
― sinful caesar sipped his snifter (kenan), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:18 (seventeen years ago) link
― otto midnight (otto midnight), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:18 (seventeen years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:18 (seventeen years ago) link
― Konal Doddz (blueski), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:18 (seventeen years ago) link
― Jesus Dan (Dan Perry), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:19 (seventeen years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:20 (seventeen years ago) link
― Damn, Atreyu! (x Jeremy), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:21 (seventeen years ago) link
― Damn, Atreyu! (x Jeremy), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:22 (seventeen years ago) link
― sinful caesar sipped his snifter (kenan), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:22 (seventeen years ago) link
― kingfish du lac (kingfish 2.0), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:22 (seventeen years ago) link
― Allyzay Rofflesbot (allyzay), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:23 (seventeen years ago) link
― kingfish du lac (kingfish 2.0), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:25 (seventeen years ago) link
― 333333333333 (33333), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:27 (seventeen years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:27 (seventeen years ago) link
― Allyzay Rofflesbot (allyzay), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:28 (seventeen years ago) link
xpost
― Super Cub (Debito), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:29 (seventeen years ago) link
Let's unpack this. Let's unpack this like we'll be here for a week.
― sinful caesar sipped his snifter (kenan), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:32 (seventeen years ago) link
― Super Cub (Debito), Monday, 12 June 2006 18:35 (seventeen years ago) link
― Jeff. (Jeff), Monday, 12 June 2006 23:18 (seventeen years ago) link
― TOMBOT (TOMBOT), Monday, 12 June 2006 23:31 (seventeen years ago) link
― TOMBOT (TOMBOT), Monday, 12 June 2006 23:32 (seventeen years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Tuesday, 13 June 2006 02:48 (seventeen years ago) link
It has never happened, but I can imagine it would be, at the very least, awkward.
Or boobs in general?
I would find it tacky or infantile, depending upon the circumstance.
How well would you have to know him for it to be normal?
I don't think it would be normal for a male friend to discuss any of my body parts with me, save for perhaps, my hands. I think hands are fair game.
Is there some company where the subject shouldn't be raised?
Breast cancer sufferers or survivors, for example.
― Mary (Mary), Tuesday, 13 June 2006 02:54 (seventeen years ago) link
― electric sound of jim (and why not) (electricsound), Tuesday, 13 June 2006 02:57 (seventeen years ago) link
― electric sound of jim (and why not) (electricsound), Tuesday, 13 June 2006 02:58 (seventeen years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Tuesday, 13 June 2006 02:59 (seventeen years ago) link