I reported everyone who tweeted at me or tweeted my pic and blocked everyone who faved or RTed.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 17 June 2014 08:53 (nine years ago) link
Rev that is shady as fuck, I am way sorry that that happened :(
That OUT article basically seems to list the same type of person over and over
― aaliyah papi (Stevie D(eux)), Tuesday, 17 June 2014 20:28 (nine years ago) link
Right. A gay person.
― Cronk's Not Cronk (Eric H.), Tuesday, 17 June 2014 20:34 (nine years ago) link
Jenni Olson picks a LGBTQ film canon of 25 (I did not know about The Watermelon Woman til recently).
http://www.fandor.com/keyframe/the-essential-lgbtq
― son of a lewd monk (Dr Morbius), Friday, 20 June 2014 15:21 (nine years ago) link
That sounds all kinds of messed up.
― Cronk's Not Cronk (Eric H.), Friday, 20 June 2014 15:40 (nine years ago) link
I know I prolly shouldn't bump this thread for a few reasons:(1) I've made an ass of myself on ilx in very real and concrete ways(2) I've tried to bump the gay threads before saying I would stick around and I totally failed at that(3) I've been a dick to people on ilx and on the gay threads beforeAnd(4) I've made an ass of myself with people from ilx irl before BUTHere I am anyway because? What's the worst that could happen andI miss it. So. Who's still alive? Did anyone keep this tradition going? I'll search new answers now too.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 03:55 (five years ago) link
Hi surm. I like your chutzpah. I have done all the things you listed. Ultimately though why not keep on stumbling on.I’m increasingly gay with each passing year. Last year my beard turned 1/3 gray in 6 months. 2018 was a rough one, 2019 is already better.I miss hordes of p town types all in a giant room singing along to whatever they sing along to now BUT i’m still enjoying a pit stop in a tiny town. Tonight the stars are just so clear it looks somehow extra-dimensional.
― macropuente (map), Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:04 (five years ago) link
:-) thank you for your kindness and i'm glad you posted. did i know you five years ago? was it the same username and i've forgotten? all the mistakes i've made.... i regret them deeply, but stumble i will. i'm glad to hear 2019 is already better for you than the shit show that was 2018. i am finally beginning to feel that way too. i can totally relate to the beard.
are you on a road trip?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:10 (five years ago) link
Hi surm
I like that you bumped this thread because it reminded me of the happier days
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:12 (five years ago) link
omg hiiiiiii!!! i'm glad you like it. how are you?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:18 (five years ago) link
I don't know!
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:28 (five years ago) link
I did an orchestral arrangement for Christine & The Queens today for her appearance on the French Grammies, that was fun. The song is "La Marcheuse" and it's a really beautiful song
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:29 (five years ago) link
My bf wants to cheat on me, which is interesting! I am getting a cold sore rn so I think I'm going to give him my blessing, the cheater's blessing, go enjoy strange dick while I ointment my lip
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:31 (five years ago) link
ha! ok your day sounds truly wonderful, i hope you feel proud AF. and i guess you and your bf have never done the open thing?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:33 (five years ago) link
It's kind of imposed upon me. He fucks around and I'm having to learn to deal with it. It's odd! We have such a great sex life but his wandering eye is a constant. Considering how previous relationships I've had have been devastated by cheating and/or lying-about-cheating I'm trying to grow up and live with it
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:35 (five years ago) link
My week has been strange. Somebody who owed me an apology, but from whom I never in my wildest dreams expected an apology, called me and apologized a couple of days ago and I started crying a lot and that was a good thing
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:36 (five years ago) link
i miss y'all
― clouds, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:38 (five years ago) link
xp that's a beautiful thing. that happened to me once and it changed my life, i'm still in touch with that friend and her apology forever changed our lives.
i would say.... you're definitely not a child bc you prefer monogamy. easy to forget that in this day and age when everybody's open. i think it's important for both people to feel like they're not giving up too much.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:41 (five years ago) link
clouds!!!!
Hi clouds!
I would prefer monogamy, but I love this man wholeheartedly and if he wants to fuck other men then I want to meet that need, rather than have him sit around wanting to fuck other men and resent me for imposing boundaries on him
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:51 (five years ago) link
totally hear that. we've been open for years--in fact my boo just got home from a date--so i feel you 100%.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:59 (five years ago) link
clouds how's life?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 06:01 (five years ago) link
surm, I missed you making an ass of yourself on ilx in very real and concrete ways, sadly! lovely to see you! and clouds!
― Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:00 (five years ago) link
good morning!
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:30 (five years ago) link
surm, I wish I ran into u in ft greene more often
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 26 January 2019 13:34 (five years ago) link
Jed, that's so nice to hear for some odd reason! Alfred! Morbz! Morbz it would be lovely to grab a drink in the neighborhood soon. I hope everyone's off to a relaxing weekend.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 14:40 (five years ago) link
surm, I hung out with Morbs and j0rdan last Saturday. Wish you'd been there.
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 14:42 (five years ago) link
Hola Surm!
― plax (ico), Saturday, 26 January 2019 14:44 (five years ago) link
PLAX I WAS WAITING FOR YOUThank you for being hereXp Alfred that sounds excellent. Jordan has always been a true gentleman. I remember the time I ran into him at a club in NYC, I just wanted to put him in my pocket like a lucky penny.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 14:51 (five years ago) link
https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/id/thumb/6/63/L28835.jpg/220px-L28835.jpg
― plax (ico), Saturday, 26 January 2019 15:38 (five years ago) link
<3 <3 <3 plax what will you do today?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 15:48 (five years ago) link
now that we've all met for virtual brunch, surm, can you start a winter '19 gay thread?
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 15:52 (five years ago) link
omg im stuck in a library writing an incredibly boring essay about the use of research evidence in public policy.
― plax (ico), Saturday, 26 January 2019 16:01 (five years ago) link
its raining.
I'm also in the library and it's raining.
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 16:05 (five years ago) link
I'm Also in the Library and It's Raining: WINTER 2018/2019 GAY THREAD
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 16:06 (five years ago) link