Chicken + waffles seems like a poignantly gender-fluid follow-up meal
― flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 17 June 2014 05:57 (nine years ago) link
that sucks rev. did you report the ringleaders? cuz that's straight up abusive right there. do you want them to be called out some more or do you want it to die down...
― lex pretend, Tuesday, 17 June 2014 06:38 (nine years ago) link
I reported everyone who tweeted at me or tweeted my pic and blocked everyone who faved or RTed.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 17 June 2014 08:53 (nine years ago) link
Rev that is shady as fuck, I am way sorry that that happened :(
That OUT article basically seems to list the same type of person over and over
― aaliyah papi (Stevie D(eux)), Tuesday, 17 June 2014 20:28 (nine years ago) link
Right. A gay person.
― Cronk's Not Cronk (Eric H.), Tuesday, 17 June 2014 20:34 (nine years ago) link
Jenni Olson picks a LGBTQ film canon of 25 (I did not know about The Watermelon Woman til recently).
http://www.fandor.com/keyframe/the-essential-lgbtq
― son of a lewd monk (Dr Morbius), Friday, 20 June 2014 15:21 (nine years ago) link
That sounds all kinds of messed up.
― Cronk's Not Cronk (Eric H.), Friday, 20 June 2014 15:40 (nine years ago) link
I know I prolly shouldn't bump this thread for a few reasons:(1) I've made an ass of myself on ilx in very real and concrete ways(2) I've tried to bump the gay threads before saying I would stick around and I totally failed at that(3) I've been a dick to people on ilx and on the gay threads beforeAnd(4) I've made an ass of myself with people from ilx irl before BUTHere I am anyway because? What's the worst that could happen andI miss it. So. Who's still alive? Did anyone keep this tradition going? I'll search new answers now too.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 03:55 (five years ago) link
Hi surm. I like your chutzpah. I have done all the things you listed. Ultimately though why not keep on stumbling on.I’m increasingly gay with each passing year. Last year my beard turned 1/3 gray in 6 months. 2018 was a rough one, 2019 is already better.I miss hordes of p town types all in a giant room singing along to whatever they sing along to now BUT i’m still enjoying a pit stop in a tiny town. Tonight the stars are just so clear it looks somehow extra-dimensional.
― macropuente (map), Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:04 (five years ago) link
:-) thank you for your kindness and i'm glad you posted. did i know you five years ago? was it the same username and i've forgotten? all the mistakes i've made.... i regret them deeply, but stumble i will. i'm glad to hear 2019 is already better for you than the shit show that was 2018. i am finally beginning to feel that way too. i can totally relate to the beard.
are you on a road trip?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:10 (five years ago) link
Hi surm
I like that you bumped this thread because it reminded me of the happier days
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:12 (five years ago) link
omg hiiiiiii!!! i'm glad you like it. how are you?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:18 (five years ago) link
I don't know!
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:28 (five years ago) link
I did an orchestral arrangement for Christine & The Queens today for her appearance on the French Grammies, that was fun. The song is "La Marcheuse" and it's a really beautiful song
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:29 (five years ago) link
My bf wants to cheat on me, which is interesting! I am getting a cold sore rn so I think I'm going to give him my blessing, the cheater's blessing, go enjoy strange dick while I ointment my lip
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:31 (five years ago) link
ha! ok your day sounds truly wonderful, i hope you feel proud AF. and i guess you and your bf have never done the open thing?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:33 (five years ago) link
It's kind of imposed upon me. He fucks around and I'm having to learn to deal with it. It's odd! We have such a great sex life but his wandering eye is a constant. Considering how previous relationships I've had have been devastated by cheating and/or lying-about-cheating I'm trying to grow up and live with it
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:35 (five years ago) link
My week has been strange. Somebody who owed me an apology, but from whom I never in my wildest dreams expected an apology, called me and apologized a couple of days ago and I started crying a lot and that was a good thing
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:36 (five years ago) link
i miss y'all
― clouds, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:38 (five years ago) link
xp that's a beautiful thing. that happened to me once and it changed my life, i'm still in touch with that friend and her apology forever changed our lives.
i would say.... you're definitely not a child bc you prefer monogamy. easy to forget that in this day and age when everybody's open. i think it's important for both people to feel like they're not giving up too much.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:41 (five years ago) link
clouds!!!!
Hi clouds!
I would prefer monogamy, but I love this man wholeheartedly and if he wants to fuck other men then I want to meet that need, rather than have him sit around wanting to fuck other men and resent me for imposing boundaries on him
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:51 (five years ago) link
totally hear that. we've been open for years--in fact my boo just got home from a date--so i feel you 100%.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:59 (five years ago) link
clouds how's life?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 06:01 (five years ago) link
surm, I missed you making an ass of yourself on ilx in very real and concrete ways, sadly! lovely to see you! and clouds!
― Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:00 (five years ago) link
good morning!
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:30 (five years ago) link
surm, I wish I ran into u in ft greene more often
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 26 January 2019 13:34 (five years ago) link
Jed, that's so nice to hear for some odd reason! Alfred! Morbz! Morbz it would be lovely to grab a drink in the neighborhood soon. I hope everyone's off to a relaxing weekend.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 14:40 (five years ago) link
surm, I hung out with Morbs and j0rdan last Saturday. Wish you'd been there.
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 14:42 (five years ago) link
Hola Surm!
― plax (ico), Saturday, 26 January 2019 14:44 (five years ago) link
PLAX I WAS WAITING FOR YOUThank you for being hereXp Alfred that sounds excellent. Jordan has always been a true gentleman. I remember the time I ran into him at a club in NYC, I just wanted to put him in my pocket like a lucky penny.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 14:51 (five years ago) link
https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/id/thumb/6/63/L28835.jpg/220px-L28835.jpg
― plax (ico), Saturday, 26 January 2019 15:38 (five years ago) link
<3 <3 <3 plax what will you do today?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 15:48 (five years ago) link
now that we've all met for virtual brunch, surm, can you start a winter '19 gay thread?
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 15:52 (five years ago) link
omg im stuck in a library writing an incredibly boring essay about the use of research evidence in public policy.
― plax (ico), Saturday, 26 January 2019 16:01 (five years ago) link
its raining.
I'm also in the library and it's raining.
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 16:05 (five years ago) link
I'm Also in the Library and It's Raining: WINTER 2018/2019 GAY THREAD
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 16:06 (five years ago) link