in my supposedly wiser years, i purchased a massive leather wristlet with a chunk of PBR can affixed (at the "punk rock flea market"), but could never quite bring myself to wear it. perhaps i've been missing out.
― Me and my pool noodle (contenderizer), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:29 (ten years ago) link
when I started dating my eventual wife, my most common mode of dress was wearing ripped flannel shirts over band t-shirts, Dockers, and either combat boots or mismatched Chuck Taylors (left foot black, right foot white)
by the time we got serious, I started wearing polo shirts more often, although I'd still break out the combat boots because hey, I gotta be me
― DJP, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:31 (ten years ago) link
the best outfit is a plain black t shirt and jeans.
― Treeship, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:36 (ten years ago) link
with clarks desert boots. or at least, i like wearing that because it is totally neutral and i don't have to think about what i am wearing.
― Treeship, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:37 (ten years ago) link
treeship otm. except my shoe game isn't very good. I need to peacock up.
― Romantic style in da world (crüt), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:38 (ten years ago) link
haha yep those fashion choices are "totally neutral"
― 1staethyr, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:38 (ten years ago) link
I used to approach clothes as a political statement that basically said "I am going to try my best to look homeless so that you will not be prepared for when my intellect tears your head off"
Now the statement I try to make with my clothes is "I did laundry"
― DJP, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:40 (ten years ago) link
maybe that should go on the aging support group thread
the main thing i know is that i look better with dark colors and get "washed out" by pastels.
― Treeship, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:41 (ten years ago) link
I'll tell you what, let's smash the patriarchy and then get our colors done.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:42 (ten years ago) link
i mainly try to make sure my shirt and pants are not accidentally the same color
― stefon taylor swiftboat (s.clover), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:43 (ten years ago) link
every now and then i wear a blue shirt with blue jeans or a tan shirt with khakis and then want to curl in a ball and hide for the rest of the day
let's smash the patriarchy and then get our colors done.
you know L when you say things like this, it makes me want to marry you
― ⚓ (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:45 (ten years ago) link
no more nail art till the patriarchy is 100% smashed
― Romantic style in da world (crüt), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:50 (ten years ago) link
I really can't read "smash the patriarchy" without giggling now, thanks ILX
― DJP, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:51 (ten years ago) link
:D
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:56 (ten years ago) link
I promise to take elmo as my lawful domestic partner whether he is a winter or a summer, in manicures and in pocket squares, for as long as we both shall go halvsies on a nice bungalow.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:58 (ten years ago) link
mmm, pastryarchy
― i don't even have an internet (Hurting 2), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:59 (ten years ago) link
Where we will hold #Occupy seminars and consciousness-raising sessions on every second Wednesday.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 19:59 (ten years ago) link
I was looking at some nail art the other day and then glancing at my own, bare fingernails and was a little sad, tbh
I'm also wondering if maybe the people who think they've met me before when I've talked to them downtown perhaps met Treeship but we both dress so generically so as to be identical
― mh, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:01 (ten years ago) link
and also because i regularly lie and tell people that i am you
― Treeship, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:04 (ten years ago) link
you shouldn't do that, people will mistake you for a sexist
― mh, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:06 (ten years ago) link
― stefon taylor swiftboat (s.clover), Tuesday, June 25, 2013 12:43 PM (38 minutes ago)
i mainly try to make sure that all black everything always forever
― Me and my pool noodle (contenderizer), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:24 (ten years ago) link
except socks. socks should look like ice cream.
took me a second to realize 'nail art' = fingernails, and not, y'know, art made out of nails
― the Spanish Porky's (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:26 (ten years ago) link
I've been negged tons of times and it usually backfires
pretty sure my sister got picked up by a PUA last weekend at the goth club. He was doing magic tricks and he kept putting his glasses on her and saying "You look so cute!" And they snogged, so I guess it worked.
― homosexual II, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:28 (ten years ago) link
Tbf you want real nails to make patriarchy smashing tools. It's not enough to scratch the patriarchy. Xp
― Treeship, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:29 (ten years ago) link
I've reached the age where the direct approach works best.
Wish Laurel could do my Nomi Malone-esque revenge nails. I'll use them to scratch the patriarchy.
― homosexual II, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:30 (ten years ago) link
I dont think i've ever "approached" anyone with explicit romantic intent tbh
― Treeship, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:32 (ten years ago) link
lol a soccer friend wrote a well-intentioned Abby Wamback piece the oth day which I stopped reading when I got to references to women athletes scratching and clawing their way to the top.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:32 (ten years ago) link
This is why I ditched the supporters' club, guys, in case you were wondering!
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:33 (ten years ago) link
Speaking of being sexist.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:34 (ten years ago) link
really? i didn't know that.
this is absurdyou have never talked to a person/approached a person specifically because you found them appealing in a romantic way? i can't believe that for 1 second
― free your spirit pig (La Lechera), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:48 (ten years ago) link
well anytime i find someone appealing in a romantic way i sort of stare at my shoes and try to remember to take breaths, until they go away
― 乒乓, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:50 (ten years ago) link
you're full of it too, mister
― free your spirit pig (La Lechera), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:55 (ten years ago) link
http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4n51o1jot1qdye1ho1_r1_250.gif
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 20:56 (ten years ago) link
Xp LL, i have done that, but not usually with an "end game" like, I want to take this person home/get their #. I was in a relationship for a reaaallly long time though, that ended very recently.
― Treeship, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:00 (ten years ago) link
i think i only once set out with a long term plan to get into a relationship with a person i'd seen at a distance who look intersting. the plan mostly involved reading books at a bar we both frequented. it worked. thanks, Baader Meinhof gang!
― That booby's are HOTTT (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:02 (ten years ago) link
what i do is i friend them on facebook and then post a lot of cool things to my feed, hoping that they'll notice how cool i am
― 乒乓, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:03 (ten years ago) link
hahaha yes
― Romantic style in da world (crüt), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:04 (ten years ago) link
there shd be a PUA term for Facebook peacocking. i vote Facecocking.
― That booby's are HOTTT (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:04 (ten years ago) link
Lol
― Treeship, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:04 (ten years ago) link
i'm disappointed in all of you (except NV because he put some effort into it, and it worked)
― free your spirit pig (La Lechera), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:06 (ten years ago) link
don't worry, i blew it in the end
― That booby's are HOTTT (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:07 (ten years ago) link
Yeah, I decided that spending time around people who called women "bitches" was more trouble than it was worth, even if the core of ppl that I was friends with didn't do that--the wider group did. Plus the group msg board was practically wallpapered with swimsuit avatars and naked women in ppl's sig files and men calling other men pussies and I just couldn't.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:07 (ten years ago) link
it's the same thing, facebook is just a really shitty bar
― mh, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:07 (ten years ago) link
good point
― free your spirit pig (La Lechera), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:08 (ten years ago) link
when I was around the roller derby crowd they said "bitches" a whole lot but that was a different context, I would imagine
― mh, Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:08 (ten years ago) link
Facebook wd be improved by complimentary peanuts and the possibility of cocktails, this is true
― That booby's are HOTTT (Noodle Vague), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:09 (ten years ago) link
Lol I guess I surprised rrrobyn and our mutual friend V once by emphatically saying I would never never tell anyone I had a crush on, because that way lies embarrassment for everyone involved.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 25 June 2013 21:09 (ten years ago) link