A thread we can go to when an ILX beef gets out of hand and we don't understand wtf is going on

ha ha!

think we need a thread for ppl to declare who they have beef with, shit's getting confusing and clearly we need a reference

I hate everyone.

I declare...thumb war

thumb dude

Was gonna start 'a thread for ppl to declare who they have beef with, shit's getting confusing and clearly we need a reference' in jest but figured people would stop being polite and getting real so no.

this is what i was urging, i mean it would be a beef lancing thread, that shit is obviously festering for a lot of ppl out there as is anyway like

to be a little earnest, i think it's kind of a good thing that conflicts mostly happen in the moment and in context and that not everyone knows exactly what's going on -- having a bunch of 3rd party chatter about 'beef' just kind of cements the dynamics between 2 strangers occasionally typing at each other, which really if we're going to pretend it's a big deal at all might as well be fluid and open to change and rehabilitation. too many times here over the years i've been too cavalier w/ people i didn't know and made them feel disliked before i really knew them a fraction as well as i do now, and in most cases i think hashing out some explicit feud at the time would not have helped anything.

Yeah, I mostly just try to ignore or play nice with anyone I have beef with here. Not that there are many who fit that bill.

just stay off the "best before date" thread, i imagine Old Lunch would be given a really hard time there

ha

^

good thread for old beefs tho

I wouldn't want him to be left out for too long though

Old tuna salad beefs will clear a room.

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