Should I go fishing or get a friend to hang around? Celebrated GAY Summer 2012

oh brother

(that's at the first video, stevie)

aw man, i'm sorry

that's a good memory though

and a really fucking great bit of juxtaposition w/ the emotional song and her solemn face

xps

me IRL:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfnc55cHCN0

i got six seconds into that bowtie video

stevie i am sad that you are sad
<33333

remember kids, it's only acceptable to be gay as long as you're successful

Jeez guys.

wait, there are unsuccessful gays?

I was one but I think I finally got the hang of it.

i'm probably getting a double major in two humanities so i am an unsuccessful gay to-be

i just had a croissant!

i'm gay!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wdbs3lKEeBE

wait, there are unsuccessful gays?

Tell me are you ready, really really ready for ...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y4JrVIpxqIE

i just had a croissant!

― surm, Thursday, September 20, 2012 8:57 AM (45 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i'm gay!

― surm, Thursday, September 20, 2012 8:57 AM (45 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

^^^ success IMO

Livin' the lifestyle.

He's into fricasee chicken
Croissants and chocolate éclairs

wait, there are unsuccessful gays?

― kizz my hairy irish azz (Dr Morbius), Thursday, September 20, 2012 5:00 AM Bookmark

sup

how does a person who makes beautiful music think he's unsuccessful i don't know \o_O/

In my experience it's those people who have a natural state of self-dissatisfaction that are the most able creators

the best is when most of that dissatisfaction stems from how you don't actually create anything

that's me!

reminds me of the great line in Interiors when someone says of Marybeth Hurt, "Poor Joey, she has the temperament of an artist but none of the talent."

definitely sympathized with that line

http://www.avclub.com/articles/paris-hilton-launches-new-awareness-campaign-for-d,85226/

guys i just went to a bar to sing "baby baby" karaoke by myself

i think i just peaked

also not to be a bitch but it's kind of difficult for me to get worked up over anything that comes out of Paris Hilton's mouth.

or into it, et al

two dinner parties this week. the first was with the boy's sister, her partner and another of his friends; the second was with four of my friends. i like this "showing your man off to your social circle" phase

^^ that's the unnerving part for me. As a hypocrite in good standing, I refuse to receive the hypercriticism I've inflicted free of charge on others.

i've always loved introducing different parts of my social circle to each other - i love watching how people get on with each other. some people are a bit obsessive about keeping different circles distinct, i've never got that at all.

in this case there may be an element of "look how fucking hott he is"

anyway he made a good impression on my friends.

i've always loved introducing different parts of my social circle to each other - i love watching how people get on with each other. some people are a bit obsessive about keeping different circles distinct, i've never got that at all.

oh I thought you meant "introducing dates to the group." I love introducing friends from different circles.

Ooh exciting!

I reunite with my own paramour tomorrow afternoon after a two-week interval (both of us out of town consecutive weekends) for a cocktail date at Miami's oldest hotel. I love hotel bars.

Since my bf has been out of town (like, all bloody year) I've lost touch with his circle of friends, who are the ones in my life that, like, "go dancing" and "drink beers". I'll call them up when I get bored and want to have a night out, but it still feels like I'm having to introduce myself to them, after ten years of knowing everybody

(My circle of friends are mostly 'hard working parents' and/or 'creative professionals')

the day after my bday party, when he first met lots of my friends, he was like...you know a LOT of people who work in the media, or indeed who don't seem to have "proper" "jobs". yupppp

(by this point my social circle is basically a vast interlinked web anyway, very few completely separate areas)

why the fuck would anyone want a proper job?

Health insurance. #USA

i've always loved introducing different parts of my social circle to each other

I don't like this AT ALL and go out of my way to make sure it almost never happens. (Understanding that this never involves "paramours" or less icky synonyms, cuz I don't acquire them.)

c'mon – you acquire icky synonyms all the time.

I am always extremely anxious when friend circles of mine merge. I don't know whether I'm worried they won't get along or whether they'll all wonder why I'm friends with this or that person.

I am always extremely anxious

jkjk

It was kind of hard to keep it from happening at my mom's funeral, wehen one of my oldest Brooklyn friends said after meeting my sister that she was a pleasant surprise "because I expected some shrew."

it was awesome to see so many people from all walks of life commingling at my birthday party a few weeks ago - film nerd/archivist pals and ilxors and my bf's writer friends and even someone from my hometown

i was thrilled to introduce my friends to my guy, and i'm pretty sure his friends like me too (i've met most of the ones who live here and in SF). maybe this sounds weird but i honestly wouldn't want to date someone my friends didn't like

if you wanna be my lover
you gotta get with my friends

it's true though, my friends mean more to me than any lover, and there's something repellent about the kind of people who cocoon themselves away from their social circle once they find a partner

It's a truism that friends get more jealous than lovers.

what are... friends?