Wouldn't a rejection of the 'vicious cycle of reprisal' firstly entail
a rejection of the notion of this thing 'hate', or of hate as the
opposite of love? I feel I know what love is, but whatever I've felt
can never live up to 'hate'. I don't know what hate is. Some say
that the opposite of love is indifference, but I think indifference is
orthogonal to love. This thing 'hate' just seems to be dustbin into
which we chuck all sorts of feelings we don't want to confront - fear,
discomfort, irritation, hormone fluctuations. Does hate really exist?
Does love have an opposite? Can it be negated, is it subject to
arithmetic, or is it something that is present to the extent that
you're aware of it?
― Kerry, Sunday, 17 February 2002 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link