― RJG (RJG), Saturday, 6 January 2007 12:43 (seventeen years ago) link
I think this 'creepy' thing is exaggerated and abused as a term too often now. All too convenient. Perhaps attempts to flirt or even just attempts at humour/ice-breaking only get judged as creepy when there is not mutual attraction (not limited to sexual attraction....actually I feel pretty creepy right now just typing 'sexual attraction', DAMMIT). OR they are misjudged badly in the first place (easy to misjudge when trying to talk to people you don't really know), suggesting the person is socially inept or, if you will, AN CREEP. But it's interesting if you don't know what the person looks like (maybe more interesting if you do).
Thinking too much about something/someone tends to be judged creepy it seems. And being too readily open about personal matters, I guess.
But if ILXors never want to be told how pretty they are by people they don't necessarily know, why the hell is there a WDYLL thread every freakin month? Perhaps that thread concept is inherently 'creepy' itself? Or at least the way it pans out is. Perhaps not. I keep looking at it anyway, as do many others. It's one thing for someone to compliment you on relatively superficial level ("u r hott") every now and then. I would've thought it only becomes creepy when they KEEP doing it, building it up to a obsessive level - no matter how playful it's intended.
I don't really mind when these threads get derailed because it's otherwise only quotes people found funny, so not that big a deal.
― reverto levidensis (blueski), Saturday, 6 January 2007 13:44 (seventeen years ago) link
― -- (688), Saturday, 6 January 2007 13:46 (seventeen years ago) link
only 3 options on ILX now:
1) creepy2) obnoxious3) boring
i guess you can mix and match for the occasion tho
― reverto levidensis (blueski), Saturday, 6 January 2007 13:48 (seventeen years ago) link
― Pashmina (Pashmina), Saturday, 6 January 2007 13:55 (seventeen years ago) link
― emil.y (emil.y), Saturday, 6 January 2007 14:10 (seventeen years ago) link
― Nathalie (stevie nixed), Saturday, 6 January 2007 14:16 (seventeen years ago) link
― lex pretend (lex pretend), Saturday, 6 January 2007 14:18 (seventeen years ago) link
― RJG (RJG), Saturday, 6 January 2007 14:20 (seventeen years ago) link
― Laurel (Laurel), Saturday, 6 January 2007 14:23 (seventeen years ago) link
― underwater ghost ship picture (skowly), Saturday, 6 January 2007 15:12 (seventeen years ago) link
tuomas i know he doesnt look like the black people you're used to seeing in tintin but i can assure you dangermouse is a black dude
-- and what (an...), January 6th, 2007. (later)
― Haikunym (Haikunym), Saturday, 6 January 2007 15:19 (seventeen years ago) link
― reverto levidensis (blueski), Saturday, 6 January 2007 15:21 (seventeen years ago) link
-- aimurchie (kpcollin...), January 5th, 2007 3:31 AM. (aimurchie) (later)
― === temporary username === (Mark C), Saturday, 6 January 2007 15:28 (seventeen years ago) link
― Laurel (Laurel), Saturday, 6 January 2007 15:29 (seventeen years ago) link
-- Curt1s (curtis.stephen...), January 5th, 2007 11:50 PM. (Curtis Stephens) (later) (link)
because you may have mentioned to ty pennington that you kind of like cowboys?
-- mahalo 4 ur kokua (goforgrad...), January 5th, 2007 11:51 PM. (grady) (later) (link)
― Pleasant Plains /// (Pleasant Plains ///), Saturday, 6 January 2007 17:01 (seventeen years ago) link
― Allyzay Eisenschefter Pop You To The Extreme (allyzay), Saturday, 6 January 2007 18:45 (seventeen years ago) link
― === temporary username === (Mark C), Saturday, 6 January 2007 18:51 (seventeen years ago) link
― Allyzay Eisenschefter Pop You To The Extreme (allyzay), Saturday, 6 January 2007 18:52 (seventeen years ago) link
― StanM (StanM), Saturday, 6 January 2007 18:58 (seventeen years ago) link
― CreepM (StanM), Saturday, 6 January 2007 18:58 (seventeen years ago) link
― am0n (am0n), Saturday, 6 January 2007 19:19 (seventeen years ago) link
-- The Yellow Kid (TheYellowKi...) (webmail), January 6th, 2007. (link)
― The Android Cat (Dan Perry), Saturday, 6 January 2007 19:57 (seventeen years ago) link
-- timmy tannin (timmytanni...) (webmail), January 6th, 2007 6:21 AM. (pompous) (later) (link)
― mahalo 4 ur kokua (grady), Sunday, 7 January 2007 01:56 (seventeen years ago) link
-- and what (an...), January 7th, 2007. (later)
i knew cuz all my co-workers were like omg its dude from mastodon just like when i got all excited when ma$e's wife & kids came
omg do you work at the north pole??
-- s1ocki (slytus...), January 7th, 2007. (later)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 7 January 2007 16:12 (seventeen years ago) link
― Allyzay Eisenschefter Pop You To The Extreme (allyzay), Sunday, 7 January 2007 18:41 (seventeen years ago) link
― Allyzay Eisenschefter Pop You To The Extreme (allyzay), Sunday, 7 January 2007 18:42 (seventeen years ago) link
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Monday, 8 January 2007 04:56 (seventeen years ago) link
yeah that was my first try, it was on @ friend's account and neither of us really knew how to do anything but i found this flamingo and i copied it and made it really big and aqua and then i put it on top of my friend's house made out of american flags to block people's view of the strip club next door but then when i teleported the flamingo was following me so i was the guy who had a huge aqua flamingo flowing him around while we were looking to buy a penis and we ended up at this sex mall and this message kept playing build it good, make it sexy then we met this guy called the utopia urchin perks lancaster - it was pretty sweet.xp
-- jhoshea (totalwizar...) (webmail), January 7th, 2007 12:30 PM.
― mahalo 4 ur kokua (grady), Monday, 8 January 2007 05:28 (seventeen years ago) link
― Curt1s St3ph3ns, Monday, 8 January 2007 05:43 (seventeen years ago) link
-- Nigel (sellout...) (webmail), January 8th, 2007. (Nigel) (later)
AWKWARD-- s1ocki (slytus...) (webmail), January 8th, 2007. (slutsky) (later)
― Jena (JenaP), Monday, 8 January 2007 06:49 (seventeen years ago) link
-- Alfred, Lord Sotosyn (soto.alfre...), January 8th, 2007 12:45 PM. (Alfred Soto) (later)
first time for everything!
-- Haikunym (zinogu...), January 8th, 2007 12:47 PM. (Haikunym) (later)
― do i have to draw you a diaphragm (Rock Hardy), Monday, 8 January 2007 18:50 (seventeen years ago) link
ha! now you know how it feels dude -- VALLEY OF BLIZZARDZ (whateve...), January 8th, 2007.
― Edward III (edward iii), Monday, 8 January 2007 20:16 (seventeen years ago) link
http://img181.imageshack.us/img181/6882/fmhal6.jpg-- Brian Miller (yourjobisyourcredi...), Today 2:57 PM. (Brian Miller) (later) (link)
― a_p (a_p), Monday, 8 January 2007 20:41 (seventeen years ago) link
― how useful is latebloomer? really, really fucking useful! (latebloomer), Monday, 8 January 2007 21:02 (seventeen years ago) link
-- Haikunym (zinogu...)
dude he linked to red state reader on ile like MONTHS ago
-- and what (an...), January 9th, 2007. (later)
Not everyone reads every post on ilx, eaymc.
-- N.i.c.o.l.e (pl...), January 9th, 2007. (later)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 9 January 2007 15:07 (seventeen years ago) link
-- Dom Passantino (juror...), January 9th, 2007 4:30 PM. (Dom Passantino)
Look, it's Dom Passantino! Ha ha!
I see what you mean.
-- Bhumibol Adulyadej (starrysdarkmaterial...), January 9th, 2007 4:31 PM. (Lucretia My Reflection)
― lex pretend (lex pretend), Tuesday, 9 January 2007 16:36 (seventeen years ago) link
-- The Android Cat (djperr...) (webmail), Today 6:43 AM. (Dan Perry) (link)
― Curt1s St3ph3ns, Tuesday, 9 January 2007 23:17 (seventeen years ago) link
-- Watery G Tornado (...), January 6th, 2007 5:00 AM. (The GZeus)
Bullshit. I don't think anyone wished death on you. You were unpleasant, couldn't handle being disagreed with and incapable of engaging with anyone. Dan gave you countless chances to explain yourself or calm down, even TOM BOT was patient! Any disagreement led to you blowing up and attacking all and sundry on the thread. You lack common sense, manners and any kind of restraint.
― Kv_nol (Kv_nol), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 11:04 (seventeen years ago) link
― Ste (Fuzzy), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 11:14 (seventeen years ago) link
― electric sound of jim [and why not] (electricsound), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 11:14 (seventeen years ago) link
I would have MEDIOCRIOR with all this ILXors
:-/
― StanM (StanM), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 11:25 (seventeen years ago) link
― onimo (onimo), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 11:26 (seventeen years ago) link
-- passiflora incarnata (jb...), January 10th, 2007.
that cover is kind of creepy. why does michelle williams look all chubby? why does katie holmes look like jennifer garner? why does guy who plays pacey look like a B+ hs senior year art project? why would anyone hire van der beek?
-- sunny successor agrees: gay dad always trumps slutty mom (sunnysuccesso...), January 10th, 2007.
― latebloomer da nutty tarkovsky (latebloomer), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 14:18 (seventeen years ago) link
― reverto levidensis (blueski), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 14:28 (seventeen years ago) link
-- TOMB07 (tombo...) (webmail), January 10th, 2007 3:10 PM. (TOMBOT) (later) (link)
On Airheads thread
― you win again, gravity! (tissp), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 15:12 (seventeen years ago) link
joke... forming...
-- the original hauntology blogging crew (miltonpinsk...), January 10th, 2007 2:46 PM. (Enrique) (later)
― === temporary username === (Mark C), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 15:38 (seventeen years ago) link
― stoked for the madness (nickalicious), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 16:02 (seventeen years ago) link
LISTEN CAREFULLY
I HATE YOU
I AM SHAKING MY FIST AT THE COMPUTER SCREEN NOW, IT WOULD BE MORE EFFECTIVE IF YOU WERE ACTUALLY HERE AND I COULD SHAKE MY FIST AT YOU, BUT I'LL HAVE TO MAKE DO WITH WHAT I'VE GOT
-- The Android Cat (djperry@...
Cats!
-- Ned Raggett (ned@...
Not that this was your intention, but I read that and substituted 'FIST' for 'COCK' and 'COMPUTER SCREEN' for 'CHILD'S FACE' and got even MORE creeped out.
-- aldo_cowpat (aldo.cowpat@...
(edited, obviously)
― emil.y (emil.y), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 17:33 (seventeen years ago) link
― The Android Cat (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 10 January 2007 19:35 (seventeen years ago) link