Now that we found love what are we gonna do? The Winter 2011-12 Gay Thread

Dedicated to all the gays with new boyfriends.

Damn it. I need to find a *new* boyfriend? Finding the first one was difficult enough.

At any rate, off to NYC with the boy in four hours. He's never been outside of Canada except to Florida once at the end of high school.

Excitement and/or horror awaits!

spent NYE/D with the bf, made soup, watched 7 movies, snuggled with the kitty, yadda yadda. Best NYE ever.

yeah i had a good new years w/ the boy (and some queens)

NYE was spent going out with friends and then losing those friends and stumbling into other friends, etc. etc. etc.

Disorienting, but ultimately fun night.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNEgUPKxk7A&ob=av3e

I spent it w my new bf and we made silly hats and blew trombones and blew trombones.

TMI thread is thattaway.

Customs agent at border was inquisitive re: boyfriend and if we would be returning together, etc. It was odd. His customs agent asked who his boyfriend was and I had to wave perkily from the line.

haha, I've been reading the Lonely Christopher (FOTabes?) short-story anthology and came acrtoss this def of love: "a sociopolitical hallucination." That'll do.

Better than Weekend, anyway.

we hosted a NYE rager at our house with a keg and a band (Salamander Wool) playing in our basement and champagne corks and bottle rockets getting shot off the back porch at midnight- it was kinda hardcore, didn't get to bed until 6 am- Martin was the bartender and I was the DJ so we barely saw each other at our own party . . .

well damn, I wish I lived in Ballamore.

Julius' is closed (temporarily, no doubt) by the Health Dept! dd, did you lodge a complaint about the cheesesteak?

it wasn't me, I swear!

Dedicated to all the gays with new boyfriends.

― lumber up, limbaugh down (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, January 2, 2012 3:28 PM Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

*sigh*

my nye: i went to a live hiphop show at a filthy house at the end of a winding, gravel road out in the sticks and grinded on girls in front of their boyfriends

i am reasonably certain i was the only gay at the NYE party i went to

Just had a New York-style bagel for the first time. I'm not sure how I feel abou this.

I don't believe I had a Montreal bagel on my one visit; what's different?

Alex, you're still here Thursday evening? Maybe we could get together w/ whoever else wants to....

I had to wave perkily from the line.

http://image.shutterstock.com/display_pic_with_logo/2657/2657,1108649820,1/stock-photo-girl-waving-good-bye-157928.jpg

The Difference Between Montreal and New York Bagels.

Biased, of course.

Definitely still in town Thursday evening, but the schedule is pretty tight.

If a bunch of us are up for something I can try to talk the bf into joining or talk him into letting me slip away for an hour or two.

I'm exhausted tonight, but tomw I'm free after 8pm, if sooner is better.

I can't believe I've never had a bagel in NYC.

Where should a person get a bagel while there? Just anywhere?

where they boil em

sounds mysterious

Damn. I haven't even had a bagel in Chicago's heavily Jewish suburb w/ purportedly good bagels. I suck!

absolute bagels on the UWS = mmmmmmm

ok, looks like Julius' maintained their premises about as well as I always suspected:

http://www.dnainfo.com/20120104/greenwich-village-soho/famed-gay-bar-julius-closed-by-health-department-for-roaches-mice

Hey hey! New Year!

I spent NYE with Chinese food & Trivial Pursuit: Book Lovers' Edition.

The former was wonderful but the latter was ill-advised.

bcz you just finished the game?

spent new years day hosting a waffle brunch which ended in an ill-advised trip to the mall because our neighbor has found Teavana.

which is like the Oprah book club of tea stores. i haven't been to a mall in like 7 years? i'd forgotten about them. they're pretty hilarious for about ten minutes.

I had the best eggs benedict on NYD with the last of the friends in town. No corned beef hash though.

i made eggs, bacon and potatoes on NYD for me and my hungover houseguests, somehow

but i also went to ANIMAL the other night and whoa

do tell

two kinds of foie gras! hamachi tostada! balsamic pork ribs with grilled yellow squash that tasted like candy! grilled baby broccoli with crispy egg! sweetbreads! other things!

haha i had ANIMAL pinned as a night at the eagle or something

I am still recovering from Christmas, I think, at least emotionally. There were certainly good moments but some really upsetting things, too. Plus all of the usual holiday exhaustion and intoxication. A funeral on the 27th for a friend who had been murdered kinda capped it all off.

One good part is that my mom's side of the family is finally ready to meet D. -- he was extended an invite to 2 family functions, even -- but he's not quite ready for that. But it's progress!

lol no, but i have been to CUB SCOUT xp

oh dear, elmo, sorry about yr friend :(

thx joe

how terrible, elmo, i'm sorry

glad about the family progress.

my sympathies elmo. i for one am relieved the holidays are over.

so far, tentative plan for Alex meetup is Metropolitan around 8:30, if lou or ramz are in range.

which is like the Oprah book club of tea stores. i haven't been to a mall in like 7 years? i'd forgotten about them. they're pretty hilarious for about ten minutes.

― ah, how quaint (Matt P), Wednesday, January 4, 2012 12:01 PM Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

oh god, i got a mall gift card for xmas and went there the other day, but couldn't even stand the place long enough to do my shopping.

elmo, that's terrible :(

Alex/ Morbs- Sorry I couldn't make it. I've been feeling like total shit on and off for weeks. Cannot shake this !@#$%^ cold.

No problem! Hope you feel better. I awkwardly introduced Morbz to my undergrad roommate who is from NYC and Katherine from The Singles Jukebox and we had a lovely and awkward but mostly lovely time. I think. I hope? I'm vaguely filled with social anxiety.

Next time for sure.

JF said to say thank you for the recommendation, though, because we went to the restaurant you suggested and it was ASTOUNDINGLY DELICIOUS.

nice! it's def. my favorite in the area.

and yeah, next time i won't let you get away. ;)

loved meeting you; just wish there were quieter bars in W'burg on Thurs night.

Damn. I haven't even had a bagel in Chicago's heavily Jewish suburb w/ purportedly good bagels. I suck!

Here's where to go, Je55e:
http://pics3.city-data.com/businesses/p/5/7/5/4/5295754.JPG

While not of the gay persuasion, I rang in the New Year with Je55e at a bar of the gay persuasion around the corner from Jaymc's.

one month w/ the boy 2nite

we are going out to the place where we first met

oh so you're one OF THOSE

yep! : D

we are going out to the place where we first met

you're logging onto OKCupid together?

I'll be nice cuz I like you and want you to be happy. xp

lol, alfred

thank u, doctor

Oh, Eazy, I missed your post to me somehow. If you're still around, hi and thanks. And thanks for the gay bar memories.

what a title of the thread!

Where is bagel country??

je55e i was at gay bar scarlet on sunday and there was a good number of short, buff-ish dudes and every time they walked by i'd think "hmm, je55e would like him"

and yes, alfred killed it w/ thread title

KILLED IT

i was gonna start the thread but alfred's is better than mine would've been

thank Heavy D

oh, sarge: I sent you an email.

Never mind – got yours.

i'm listening to that song "man! feel like a woman!" by shania twain

je55e i was at gay bar scarlet on sunday and there was a good number of short, buff-ish dudes and every time they walked by i'd think "hmm, je55e would like him"

Aw! You remembered!

For some reason I thought twice read "Jordan," not "J0rdan," and I thought it was weird that he went to Scarlet, knew my type, and was posting about it here.

thought

j0rd when we gonna meet

who r u

corey

elmo, sorry to hear that. so tragic.

alfred, i saw this and thought of you. snapped in london yesterday x

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v369/colinohara/IMG00086-20120109-1525.jpg

UNISEX HAIR STYLIST

(men and lesbians)

Guys I just scored tickets to see Björk on Feb 23, and tomorrow I'm seeing SANDRA (FOR FREE!!) and in late Feb Sinéad is playing and allegedly Madonna is touring this summer. 2012 is already my best diva year ever.

I'm going to say something that is probably bait for mockery, but gott damn, Chris Crocker is looking fine.

http://i.huffpost.com/gadgets/slideshows/204032/slide_204032_600322_large.jpg?1326208626

And I like how "gay" (femme, sissy) he sounds. Hot lisp.

fucking love him

the house remixes of leave britney alone are off the chain

:D

I should have known you would love him!

He's way too conventionally, saccharine-pretty for me to spend too much time on, but the twink stud stuff diluted with him as a girl + that pic of him being looking pure Tennessee brah + the queeniness makes him irressistale.

irresistible, that is

yeah and you know i'm from tennessee, so, bring it

Oh man, I forgot.

Wanna take it off-board, brah?

Get offa my board
And into my #8 Halsted bus

hahahahaha anytime dude

Just ask your driver for Je55e's Place, Diversey Parkway. He'll know the way.

is that some foofoo pop star?

so there's a bar in Greenpoint that has a monthly gay metal night. Would venture.

arghhhhh i would so go to that

omg me too

bar is Veronica People's Club. Next one is the 19th (next Thurs)

a few months ago there was a picture of chris crocker going around that kind of made me go O_O but more at how he'd changed and become somewhat acceptable than being actually swoonworthy tbh. good on him i guess!

For some reason his drag persona makes regular Chris way hotter. And even when he's actually IN drag, I'm kinda feeling him, which is v. unusual.

unusual for ME, obviously

alfred, i saw this and thought of you. snapped in london yesterday x

Thanks! I would only service gents.

Chris Crocker (born Christopher Darren Cunningham; December 7, 1987) is an American Internet celebrity, songwriter, blogger, and recording artist

God, the shit you ppl make me google

Internet celebrity

like Ned Raggett!

elmo, maybe D. will do this at karaoke one day:

http://soundcloud.com/mergerecords/the-magnetic-fields-andrew-in

:D

so apparently one of us is growing a beard

Wait you mean there are still some of us without beards?

I was gonna say

i am never gonna grow a beard

i think almost without exception i prefer my men to be clean shaven

I don't think I'm growing one this winter. Not a full one at least. Pretty scruffy right now but should shave before summer job application process starts.

I'm only growing one as an experiment.

need to see experiment

there's that part just before it becomes a beard but when its no longer really stubble and i havent been able to get past that in a while just because its such a crappy stage

Will post a pic when I can get ahold of my Dorothy Michaels glasses again.

i'm coming up on my six-year beardiversary. NEVER LOOK BACK

You've been growing a beard for SIX YEARS?!

har

i don't like how i look sans scruff anymore, but trimming a beard is kinda more annoying than just clean-shaving

I can't grow a beard. I can grow a lush goatee, mustache, and neck beard, but my jaw and chin are patchy whisker tundra.

It's too bad goatees are so dated b/c I looked OK with one.

Facial hair is not a problem with me. It's pretty much all over the place.

I'd ask for a transplant but it probably wouldn't match.

I can't wait til goatees come back. They are underappreciated indeed.

soul patches can die a terrible swift death otoh

*hides all photos of me from when i was sixteen*

TBTH, I almost prefer soul patches to goatees, but I guess it all depends on the face.

Soul patches are the facial hair equivalent of blazers w/ turtlenecks and ponytails

Will probably never recover from the era that made this happen:

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/3/3d/GordonBarenakedLadies.jpg

But feel free to attempt to post examples of sexy goatees ITT.

let it be noted that goatee = mustache + chin, never just chin.

The challenge still stands.

http://farm1.staticflickr.com/85/257252741_3874685d9a_z.jpg?zz=1

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Oh. That was not in response to Eric's request!

I kind of like chin + patch - mustache.

u look like a straight guy at a music festival

LOL, was gonna say "no fair!"

altho i dunno if straight men wear those hats

Yeah, the coloring-outside-the-lines on even that facial hair, imo, precludes it from being a goatee in the way I'm talking about.

(When I'm done with Manuary, tho, I'm thinking of toying with a horseshoe moustache just to see if it works.)

I am a gay guy at a music festival. It's Jenny's hat. That was 2004 at Intonation n/k/a Pitchfork. That was the day I first time I met Kenan. He gave me slugs off his Jim Beam and then a deep kiss - being silly, not making out.

Eric, I think a horseshoe mustache could look good on you. On some guys it's super hot.

u and kenan kissed on the lips?

there really should be an ilx gossip rag

I can't wait til goatees come back. They are underappreciated indeed.

― lost ai weiwei (Stevie D(eux)), Monday, January 16, 2012 6:34 PM (38 minutes ago)

they are so on the verge

We were just being goofy. But yes, lips, and also tongue.

xp

dang

this is kenan though right

being goofy

I should try that sometime.

I am a gay guy at a music festival. It's Jenny's hat. That was 2004 at Intonation n/k/a Pitchfork.

Wow, have we ever talked abt how we were both at this?

I've met tons of straight guys who love to be "goofy" about same-sex stuff in a Jackass kind of way. Especially when I worked in restaurants and when I used to go to house parties w/ more 20-somethings. They did it for laughs.

I used to work with two straight guys who put on a show by talking sexy ("sexy") and rub each other's dicks through their pants as a joke. One of them got a new girlfriend who stormed out of the bar in a shit fit the first time she saw them do that. The other guy's GF soothed her, but she was never OK with it.

xp - I don't think we have! It was the first time many of the ChiLX people met: Jenny, Jeff, and I knew each other, obv., and we met La Lechera, jaymc, n/a, and Sarah (his wife, I forget her screen name).

i thought la lechera was a much newer poster than that

I think she was The Milkmaid previously? Not sure.

I've kissed a couple of theoretical straight guys; no tongue though.

I would like to have organized a gay FAP in Chicago this weekend but I was only there a couple days. Hung out with sarge and his boy on Saturday night and can confirm that he chose well. sarge too.

when I can get ahold of my Dorothy Michaels glasses again.

hmmm, seeing u & Stephen Merchant in a very tall reboot of Bosom Buddies

I've kissed a couple of theoretical straight guys; no tongue though.

The straight guys who I kissed or groped or was groped by were definitely straight, but we were also definitely just goofing.

Especially in NC - where I never had a gay friend, so I hung out w/ a lot of straight guys - I was the training wheels gay for bros to be tolerant of. Given enough booze, this led them to want to confront taboos like another guy doing body shots out of his girlfriend's navel or boobs or poking another guy's dick.

Alfred, what brought you go Chicago?

At the time it was gratifying to be the special gay that defeated homophobia, but thinking back, I heard "I like Jesse b/c he's gay, but not like other gay guys," which is pretty fucked up. If someone said that now we would commence a Very Special Episode.

watching ryan harrison play his 1st round match in the aussie open, love this guy
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/d/d1/Ryan_Harrison_Tennis_Player.jpg

need to see experiment

Pouting with Pacino.

http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7174/6712596239_f13f70afd4.jpg

w h o

a

you look kinda like denis lavant

Nice/ouch

http://sexyuglyicon.tumblr.com/post/3462861804/icon-denis-lavant-source

yow

niiiice

hi.

nice

212

ugh. i feel like i've effectively become recloseted

Someone forced you?

by Azealia Banks?

eric, i have no idea what that question means

to yr fam?

what's going on, Rev?

xp no, obv. just to new ppl i meet, even ppl who have become very close friends

They probably still know.

I mean, if you've told them, they do.

yeah, maybe. i've just kind of adopted a policy of let people assume whatever they want about my sexuality, i don't have to explain shit. which seemed logical at the time, but i'm realizing i really wish i was more forthcoming.

xp, no that's the problem, i haven't been telling anybody. and i keep having ppl who otherwise know me well, assume i'm 100% straight.

i think you guys are misunderstanding me, the issue isn't concerning anyone i've been out to in the past, it's new people i've met in the past year or so

You don't have to shove your Gay Business Card into their hand in the first 5 mins, you know. I know it's hard/weird sometimes, but just be natural about it.

There's no correct way to do it, I've found. Best to drop a remark at a bar when a bro comments on a girl ("Fuck that, man, did you see her boyfriend?") or in some other casual way.

I guess I'd wonder how many people you have a deep need to tell? There are definitely a lot of people I meet in any given year I'm not at all interested in sharing that (dormant) aspect of my personal life.

I know it's probably a different set of concerns if you're bi, tho.

i was just talking about this the other night - coming out is such a tediously ENDLESS process if you're not totally flaming. plus, the kind of comment you need to drop in to point people in the right direction is often a bit too crude for some situations.

"interested in: men" on facebook has been genuinely useful in this regard.

many xps - surm i've been trying to work out for quite a while whether i find ryan harrison attractive. it's quite an enjoyable process tbh. i already know that i do not find him to be a particularly likeable tennis player and his game is not compelling: i have no plans to cheer for him.

I really enjoy the rare times ppl flat-out ask "Are you gay?" bcz I love coming back w/ "so far"

i haven't been asked that in a while. either it's super obv or i just haven't really met any new ppl in awhile. probs both.

"interested in: men"

I've rejected that wording, myself.

i was just talking about this the other night - coming out is such a tediously ENDLESS process if you're not totally flaming

Yes. Case in point: this morning yet another coworker expressed surprise on learning the delicious news.

interested in: Carol Channing

"Interested in: myself"

Which is, on FB, redundant.

to love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance, etc.

And just as tempestuous.

yeah, i dunno, it bugs me that i'm not being assertive at all when ppl assume i'm straight tho. i'm not saying i have to shout it from the rafters. i guess a couple things that have happened in the past week have brought it into relief. there's a straight couple i've formed a very intense friendship with in the past few months and i've found myself on the verge of coming out to them at a few appropriate moments, but always stopped myself. i was just talking to the gf last week about my lack of love and she was all "don't worry, just let it happen and you'll find the right girl", and i felt stupid and cowardly for not coming out to her at that moment. and then the other thing, a (less close, admittedly) friend teasingly suggested i might be gay in a way that seemed to imply his true assumption is that i'm straight. which was kind of revealing like do i strike ppl as kinda faggy but not like actually gay per se?

and yeah, bi concerns, although i'm p confused about that tbh. like i know i'm very much attracted to women, and i've dated and fooled around with women in the past, but something always feels kind of awkward and not quite correct about it that it doesn't when i'm with a guy. so, i'm not sure how interested i am in women for practical purposes at this point. and i'm always worried that my gay side will drive them away. i've kind of come to the conclusion that i could be with a bi woman but not a straight woman. i'm totally stuck on whether to tell ppl i'm gay or bi. maybe i should just tell ppl i'm a kinsey 4. the last guy i dated, after i said something about my gayness, was like "no, you are so totally bi!" i often wish i was completely 100% gay, that would be so much simpler!

i really should use proper capitalization when writing big blocks of text

I really enjoy the rare times ppl flat-out ask "Are you gay?" bcz I love coming back w/ "so far"

― Dr Morbois de Bologne (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, January 17, 2012 11:18 AM Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

Oh god, the last time someone did this, it was in front of my dad, which, even though i'm out to him, was awkward as fuck.

yeah, that would not make it fun.

man, sorry rev, that has to be maddening

yeah, what a pain in the arse

Despite having enjoyed my handful of experiences with women, I tend to round up to gay. It's just more convenient and more accurately describes what I'm into/looking/for/want or just sort of go for the all-purpose queer.

In other news, I just remembered this afternoon that idly staring at cute guys on the bus is one of life's great joys.

And I finally got a haircut and feel vibrant and awake and human again. Shaggy mane was weighing me down.

Will post a picture soonish.

cannot WAIT to get a haircut

it changes my whole outlook

i need to fix my haircut. i don't like it.

Growing this beard is my version of getting a haircut.

i think the beard looks v nice on you in that pic, eric

yes it's v impressive!

interested in: Carol Channing

― Dr Morbois de Bologne (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, January 17, 2012 1:27 PM (9 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

actual lol

Rev, it's tough to tell established friends if you weren't actually in the closet and hiding it from them. If you're just coming out of the closet, it's a lot easier to answer the inevitable "Why didn't you tell me before?!" than if you are correcting their assumptions. Anyway, I'm wishing you the best.

Alfred OTM re "look at that cute guy" (or mentions of a/n ex/boyfriend).

Haircuts OTM. Beards too, Eric's in particular!

i'm contemplating adding a pride pin to my bag. seems kinda tacky tho.

Rainbows are so gaudy. Bear pride colors are much nicer.

Bear pride colors are basically a more saturated version of any given pit stop at Pinterest.

hi

there are bear pride colors?

surm, every time I see you online I hear "Ra ra ro-ma-ma" in my head.

xp

Yes - earth tones!

brown (fur) and yellow (honey)

that's their story and they're sticking to it

Ha, I didn't know that's what the colors represented. I feel like I've seen bear-pride flags with gray and black on them, too -- I guess those are just different shades of fur.

also just had to google Pinterest, since thus far I've assumed it was an affinity for The Homecoming

I'm making a sport of joshing jaymc today.

Oh, LOL, I thought it was a resort in Northern Minnesota!

xp re Pinterest

Bears pride colors are basically a more saturated version of any given pit stop at Pinterest.

― dead-trius (Eric H.), Wednesday, January 18, 2012 6:34 AM (4 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

Bears pride colors are basically a more saturated version of any given pit stop at Pinterest

pit pride

hey guys, i have jockstraps on my necktie today

literally

never even seen those at the Nasty Pig boutique!

oh THAT's where they went, mind mailing them back to me, thxxx

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ly0ejhpfCu1qjnwvko1_500.jpg

he, he

oh tomw is the gay metal night in Greenpoint.

WANT xp

The sweater too!

the same Greenpoint bar has a Friday night thing called Kielbasa, which I think tabes needs to attend sometime like a good Pole.

yeah, really don't need gay threads no mo', unless someone needs to call me a bitch on Thursday.

so is Cynthia Nixon saying she's bi but decided to be gay for scheduling purposes?

can't be bothered anymore. also t3d seems to have disappeared?

my life is really completely uninteresting right now (unless you think obscure mizoguchi films are exciting)

fwiw my life is not at all like an obscure mizoguchi film

basically living on nothing until i can get a job. right now my hopes are all up in a small town county archives in wyoming. HIRE ME GODAMMIT. :/

fuck salt lake city

my job is ending this week and there might not be anything until march :(

everyone i like hates it here

jobs

weird word

sorry to hear that t, guess we arent the only ones. easy to forget.

my bf got "demoted" at his bakery job (from shift mgr) AND had his hours cut on the same day (probably a sign the place isn't doing so hot)

sorry abt all the shitty stuff, guys

i spend all my time doing schoolwork.

are you going for your masters now?

yes! i love it but its crazy work all the time. i realised yesterday that all the sexually ambiguous mediterranean guys are actually just gay. which is nice.

But I'm sure it at least feels like you're working toward something, which is a good feeling.

At this early stage my classes seem almost too easy. I think I'm going to get my ass kicked once I get to a level where actual effort is expected.

Important news:

Jesse and I are going to see Diamanda Galas at the MCA on Feb. 23.

― gonna give her the old fuquay-varina (Jenny), Friday, January 27, 2012 11:53 AM (6 minutes ago) Bookmark/

:D

jealous!

yeah

GUYS GUYS GUYS!!!

As of today I am a volunteer at Philly's LGBT archives and holy fucking shit, I am in paradise. There is so much stuff here. Including:

http://i934.photobucket.com/albums/ad184/sdolnack/64822e3b.jpg

what years did that run?

Sometime in the 50s?

Right now I'm poring over back issues of this porn/erotica/personals magazine called DADDY. And there's an ad for pubic hair softener in this issue of Fast Pace from 1971

i went to a queer archives panel on tuesday, there's an accompanying exhibit with some of those ONE issues, charles pierce's mae west moppette, lesbian softball jerseys, etc

I feel like I should have studied archiving :-( I need to learn abt this shit

love the display name stevie x

the ONE archives in l.a. is connected to the magazine right?

yep

At this early stage my classes seem almost too easy. I think I'm going to get my ass kicked once I get to a level where actual effort is expected.

― tanuki, Friday, January 27, 2012 3:49 PM (6 hours ago)

yeah but i think you're totally gonna reap the benefit of having spent some time just learning and educating yourself. i always feel like i'm not ready for the classes i'm taking. i mean there's pros and cons obviously, i know your're gonna really love it. being out of school for a couple of years is really making me appreciate it.

also can i mention that grindr is so fn tedious.

Grindr has totally lost its appeal to me. So has sleeping around in general, for that matter. I guess my "wild youth" days are behind me :-(

Like if my boyfriend and I try to start a movie after like 10pm I will fall asleep before its over. Also I haven't slept past 8 or 9am or so in weeks. Also I got way too excited about buying a bookshelf at Ikea last week.

Oh i dunno, Grindr can be startling too- I just had the jarring experience on Grindr of a blonde, 6 foot 5 sporty n fit looking twenty year old tell me out of the blue that I was very handsome only to realize, upon closer inspection, that he was a former student of mine- he apparently didn't recognize my pic without glasses and suit and tie? I explained that I couldn't flirt with undergrads but was happy to have a friendly chat. I wouldn't file that under "tedious" but under "the one that got away" . . .

oh and hi all and thanks Morbz for coming to that metal night, that was fun

congrats on cool job Stevie

it was fun! my friend and i both loved yr jacket.

Grindr has totally lost its appeal to me. So has sleeping around in general, for that matter. I guess my "wild youth" days are behind me :-(

― tropical mall lady (Stevie D(eux)), Sunday, January 29, 2012 9:52 PM (5 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

stevie u r so dead to me. this thread is so gentrified now.

i think these threads were always pretty gentrified tbh

nah i remember when it was black lesbians for miles

black lesbians can gentrify themselves too

Ph!l and I have essentially decided that we want to be monogamous. For the first few months I wasn't totally sure but I think it's a good idea. I feel like I'm in it for the long haul. I told him yesterday, "I'm not going anywhere."

I haven't bought a bookshelf yet though. I'm actually slowly giving him all my books cuz I don't want 'em anymore.

T, if it makes you feel better I think my pathetic cocksucker slut years are just in front of me, so I'm doing my part.

don't mind me, i went out last night and didn't get laid and being hungover always makes me super horney anyway

but morbs that does make me feel better.

being hungover always makes me super horney anyway

yes! there's even a thread about that here somewhere

anyway i've been distracted all day by some cypriot pretending to be coy. if he wasn't cute in his profile pic i would be doing my reading for class.

ran into a guy i went on a date with at an art opening last night

on a saturday?

also ended up hooking with this guy after we went back to my place for drinks earlier this week. hadn't really planned on that but it was nice. (he told me afterwards he's not looking for a relationship and i was like "cool! me neither!" would that it always went that smoothly)

yes

this show, which is terrific (that giant wall installation is amazing - took some photos of it last night but they were all fairly blurred)

http://www.luisdejesus.com/

Ooh! Also tbh T they might return someday! Maybe I'm just having a phase of chastity?

I never had sleeping around days, I guess. Never figured out *how* to do it. I dunno. It's not like I'm opposed to the concept - hell, I'm allowed to - but the entire concept of picking up guys remains totally daunting and confusing to me. I feel like I stumbled into a pretty decent relationship through dumb luck.

Tbh, school and life are so exhausting these days I don't have it in me to go out that much (and despite not picking up ever, I love going out). Went to a concert Friday night that ended at 2:30 for the first time in months and Saturday I was hungover and unproductive until sundown.

The boy's been expressing a desire to indulge in his 'wild youth' days, though, so I guess I'll just live vicariously through him.

And wait. Confused. tanuki = c0rey, so who is judith?

really its only the picking up guys part i enjoy. sometimes i feel like i get bored halfway through sex let alone relationships.

oh, it's Ti4rn4n. nevermind. hi!

my brain still hasn't recovered from friday night, clearly. ugh.

hey!

hey jude <3

I never had sleeping around days, I guess. Never figured out *how* to do it. I dunno. It's not like I'm opposed to the concept - hell, I'm allowed to - but the entire concept of picking up guys remains totally daunting and confusing to me. I feel like I stumbled into a pretty decent relationship through dumb luck.

Same here, minus the stumbling into a relationship part.

I do, I must say, sorta savor being able to tell stories from my *CRAZY PAST* or w/e. I was talking abt sex stuff to my friend at work the other day and I was all "Did I ever tell you abt the time I fucked a rabbi?" and she nearly shit herself.

i have had the worst 24 hours of trying to get laid. normally i am super good at this.

also, hey jed. <3 <3

A Rabbi?

Like... reform? Or modern orthodox? You get more points/respect from me the further up the theological chain you go.

i am doing a half decent job at slimming down, and growing out my stubble. then i am getting a tan and showing off my new haircut.

(xp speaking of getting laid)

I've gained about 10 lbs since this summer. I'm okay with that.

but the entire concept of picking up guys remains totally daunting and confusing to me.

Me too until I have way too many drinks in me and I turn a corner and I'm suddenly starting conversations all over the place and evidently being good at breaking the ice in a way I normally am not.

Last night I went to the somewhat seedy Lucky H0r5h0e and talked to a bunch of Mexican and Guatemalan guys celebrating two birthdays. One of them - short and cute - asked to friend me on FB but I'm not sure he succeeded. I was like just take my phone number, but being a modern man, he doesn't like using the phone.

It's also far easier for me to start a conversation w/ a stranger in Spanish. Or when in a strange city. Maybe I feel more open when I'm out of my usual element or something.

picking up guys is somewhere between hello and a miracle, it's a fine line

My worst moment of which I a proudest is when I went up to the stranger in the bar and said, "Take me home with you," and he did. I reserve the right to brag about that, though I don't even consider it bragging since it was the booze talking, not me.

me and my straight best friend have ended up having really frank discussions about sexuality the past two nights

what constitutes "really frank"?

[also, i enjoy v. much the construction of the phrase 'my straight best friend' insofar as it inverts all of the weird tokenism of the far too often heard phrase 'my gay best friend']

yea the 1-2 punch pickup can work real wonders jess

takes one to know one in those kinds of situations

Ha – I always had a frank sex/"relationship" chat with two of my best straight bros last night: prostates and such.

whoops: omit "always"

Chicken wings and beers helped with the sextalk.

As for my sex life, I've been dry for weeks, since before Xmas; thank god for my dromedary instincts.

you store it in a hump?

I store my humps more like

I just jerked around all weekend, not nec in a metaphorical way

jerked into a literal facepalm

i went to the salon and talked to the ladies, scrubbed my shower and my sink, re-organized the linen closet and got the new Vogue

I need to clean my bathroom tonight or tomorrow.

"clean"? is that a verb?

The sum of my linens are always either on the bed or in the laundry.

btw the new Givenchy boy models look pretty dope imho

i went to brooklyn with my boyfriend and stayed in a hotel. the elevator in the hotel was lit with violet LEDs and had shitty dance music piped in. rave elevator, not so great. the rest of the trip was pretty awesome. fluffy king-sized bed, why can't you be mine??

i also brunched a lot and saw the HIDE/SEEK queer portraiture exhibit at the brooklyn museum (highly recommended btw)

the thing from the smithsonian?

does it have this in it?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0weP_HMOFg

that is still the best thing

last I read, yes

wish I had my trip money to DC from last January in my pocket, in other words

i hate mattresses for being so expensive and ridiculous but when i go somewhere the bed is like one of the best things, even if it's a motel 6 or whatever. xp

i'm real bummed i didn't get to see that hide/seek show when i was in nyc last

i plan on being back in april tho btw

perchance around Apr 21?

two weeks before that :/

i have a pretty nice queen mattress at home but it is SUPER FIRM, just firm as anything, the firmest bed ever. mostly because my boyfriend can't deal with soft, squishy mattresses because they aggravate his back & joint issues, so when i get to sleep in a poofy plush mattress it is always a treat.

also donna the exhibit is only there until 2/12 ;_;

i also brunched a lot and saw the HIDE/SEEK queer portraiture exhibit at the brooklyn museum (highly recommended btw)

― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Monday, January 30, 2012 12:39 PM (56 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

We saw this when we were in Brooklyn! And also brunched a little bit.

It was really quite excellent.

yeah! i bought the exhibition catalog too because obviously i needed more queer coffee table art books

http://feastoffun.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/arnold-comes-of-age-1930.jpg

p.s. kinda fell in love with this 'arnold comes of age' tbh, colors are insanely vibrant irl. <3

i've never really gotten into queer books, or queer art in general i guess

altho a good friend of mine curates a queer art performance festival so in terms of dance and live performance i'm there

best queer art i've seen recently was the adventures of tintin

I need to live alone. Or at least with someone whose as much of a neat freak as I am.

Proof: the way my roommate has magazines stacked on the bookshelf in our living room pisses me off. Guh!

my god

i actually live with people who are the exact right level of neat for me. its not a pigsty but there isn't shit lying around or anything.

I know, it's so stupid and I've had roommates who were much worse! (like the fake-jewish pothead who used to live here)

Proof: the way my roommate has magazines stacked on the bookshelf in our living room pisses me off

You would love the sprawling piles of the NY Times that occupy floorspace in my apt.

morbs i just feel like we would be perfect housemates.

well if you hear of a place in London that needs a proofreader of American English LMK.

Morbs I'm sure we'd have a lot to talk about and the value of your presence would make up for any slovenliness, whereas this roommate never initiates conversations ever and is just kind of boring

so i ran into a guy i went on a date with over a year ago at an art opening last week and we hung out again tonight. he's kinda terrific and i'm not sure why we let that year+ elapse in the first place, but um...i don't want that to happen again.

:)

http://i.imgur.com/P83UL.gif

Who is that?

cute

My boy and I just saw HIDE/SEEK this weekend, spent way longer than we had anticipated it was so good. Noticed they mostly steered away from embellishment and camp and stuck more to what I might call sensuality and reverence, I think this payed off. We both wanted the catalog but it's like 15 dollars cheaper off amazon so that's to come. Totally recommended queer coffee table art book: Some Faggy Gestures by Henrik Olsen.

A+ DN, scottfree

is scottfree a new moniker for one of the regular, or someone new?

I'm new, I'm new! Scott here.

hi scott!

so are you visiting Gotham or residing, scott?

Just visiting. We came up to see Bjork on friday and spent the night at my cousin's in Brooklyn and had an excellent weekend of museums and generally arty things plus a bit of shopping natch.

hi scott!

If anyone wants something authentically romantic visit the NY Hall of Science—huddled together observing microbes under the 'scope + taking turns demonstrating optical illusions + hall of mirrors, I can't even tell you how magical this was.

oh, you're THAT scott :)

;)

I had an inkling that it might be you we were to partake in Crash with. Sorry about the no-show; another time most definitely. Brooklyn Museum really engaged us for way longer than we were expecting. I'm thinking of getting an artist's membership to Moma for the film screenings, so there's that in the future perhaps.

hi scott, welcome

i think i get it

hey there are some really great Felix Gonzalez-Torres and Yves Klein pieces up at the Art Institute Museum that I hadn't seen before that you'd probably enjoy.

i was having all these melancholic feelings today thinking about fgt, thinking how sad it is that he died

felix and ross

We were talking about his billboards in class today and it just gave me a sick, heavy feeling in my chest.

http://shapeandcolour.files.wordpress.com/2010/06/candyart.jpg

fuck the world

guy from last night has the FGT solitary bird print hanging over his bed

also he lists agnes martin under his "people who inspire him"

i'm gonna stop typing things before i jinx everything

I don't think I could be with anyone who wasn't at least interested in art.

fgt about it guys

“Unlike most artworks in a museum, you are allowed to touch this piece and to take away a piece of candy. Gonzalez-Torres made this artwork in memory of Ross Laycock. At the time the work was created, Ross had recently died of causes related to AIDS. The candy pile starts each day at 175 pounds, which was Ross’ ideal body weight. As visitors take candy, the pile gets smaller. This process mimics Ross’ weight loss as a result of his illness. Museum staff replenishes the candy regularly. Gonzalez-Torres’ decision to portray Ross with multicolored, shiny candies was a thoughtful one. Seeing such a large pile of candy on the floor stimulates notions of abundance, sweetness, and happiness—feelings associated with Ross, which the artist wished to share with viewers in a unique way.”

fgt it? I fgot what I was sposed to fgt!

Yeah. That Gonzalez-Torres piece was one of the ones in the exhibit that hit me most viscerally.

Also, in the first room with the older photographic prints, they were playing music from this compilation

http://www.discogs.com/Various-AC-DC-Blues-Gay-Jazz-Reissues-Volume-One/release/860313

which I haven't been able to track down, but looks AMAZING.

I don't think I took a candy in D.C.

i once took one of the sheets from the gun violence paper stack, followed by everyone else in the gallery rushing to take one

i did this at the frieze fair once and got a mean look from the woman who was minding the stand. i told her that if she wanted to display a fgt she had to learn how to be generous.

boom

xp

omg

∞ <3

ugh stevie i owe you an e-mail or something about archiving

For some reason I was reading the first gaythread I'd posted in — man I sound dumb.

hey tanuki, what new felix gonzales-torres piece is up at the AIC? i was there last week and didn't see anything besides his date piece which is up permanently.

the first time i saw someone use the abbreviation FGT i was sort of shocked because it was in reference to a piece i made (as in like, "x + fgt = this piece") and it took me a second to realize it didn't mean faggot

I can't find anything about it on the AIC website — it's a large panel divided in two with text painted on each one and ends with something like "close-up of an ejaculating dick".

waaaaait i think that's this piece by larry johnson:

http://images.artnet.com/artwork_images_139919_507473_larry-johnson.jpg

oh shit you're right *is an idiot*

lol i'm kind of a johnson stan

he did a series of pieces about the kennedys, this one is my fave:

http://www.spence.net/collection/photos/artwork103/full_240.jpeg

so what is FGT short for?

Felix Gonzalez-Torres

oh, right

Better than Lepore IMO

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zrvxi1-3SDY

dude is channeling some serious diva snap

I'm trying to watch Todd Haynes' Poison right now but it is sooooo baaaaad

:(

I saw it a little over a year ago, again, and it brought back the feeling of the plague years quite vividly. Maybe only in people old enough, of course.

aw, i like it. i think i liked the faux-doc part the best but i'd have to rewatch it to make sure

that is my bf's favorite "gay" movie

I do prefer Pvt Idaho, Paris Is Burning & Fight Club

I'm just not getting the wooden acting and awful sets and ridic narrative motion

it's meta?

I guess someone's not getting a boner from the prison stuff... See if you spot a future star acting under a psedonym.

re: the sets, iirc he wasn't exactly rolling with a huge budget

Oh the prison thing I am totally into fwiw. But wouldn't it have been cheaper to just, like, go find somewhere outside with lots of rocks and dirt? It's kinda Querellian

yeah, he was coming off a banned Barbie-doll film xp

nah, more theatrical this way a la Un Chant d'Amour

OH OH Also I got season 3 of Mary Tyler Moore out of the library on a whim (I'd never really seen it before and always passed it over on Nick at Nite as a kid) and I am SO FUCKING IN LOVE W/ THIS SHOW, FUCK

Poison was his first feature iirc? The banned barbie film was his MFA thesis.

Hey gays!

I have taken a piece of candy from the pile and a sheet of paper from the stack.

hey gurl(z)

you're in NY? xp

T/judith - was the FGT curtain up at sfmoma when you visited?

Me? No. This was in Chicago and San Francisco.

Although I may be in New York at the end of April.

but which stack and which pile?

I'm all right, jack / keep your hands offa my FGT stack

The pile was the Untitled (Portrait of Ross in L.A.) piece. I don't entirely remember what the stack-of-paper piece was. I gather he's done a few different ones. This was at SFMOMA in early 2004.

The pile was at the Art Institute of Chicago, probably around the same time.

i think the Sfmoma one in early 2004 was the same one that may or may not have been there when judith visited in 2010.

i have a mental catalogue of every fgt i have seen irl. sfmoma doesnt figure. poison is great. that sirk thing is the only haynes im eh abt. poison is hilarious and sad and thaemlitz samples it and hot in some of the prison bits.

untitled placebo

maybe it was there when stevie d visited then?

i sawsome p faggy stuff there. i have notes somewhere. some late night photos of baths somewhere.

hey gays

since i decided not to go out tonight i need ur advice...

should I watch death becomes her or she-devil?

dbh

thanku

dmi

where did thaemlitz sample 'poison'?

on soil

i know corey is a fan but i can't remember which track. towards the end of the album. its from the homo child jesus storyline tho

oh wait that track at the end? the "kid has the gun" thing? never made that connection!

yeah I think that's it though I haven't seen the movie

had a terrific date yesterday - picnic at a park (he made wontons, i made brownies), followed by probably too many drinks at a gay piano bar, late night diner run, and then this morning he made us breakfast. dumb stupid super smart adorable jerks ruining my "be alone forever" policy.

:D

if there's still tickets we might be going to a john cage concert on thursday

where'd you meet?

it's weird. he found me on OKC over a year ago and we went on one date, and then, for various reasons i don't really want to recount here, we never saw each other again...until i ran into him two weeks ago out of the blue at an art opening, and we made plans to hang out. so this was technically our third date.

i think he's really wonderful and it's nice for a change to actually know for sure that the feeling is mutual.

also when we first got to the piano bar one of the older patrons hit his head on the actual bar and fell unconscious. they had to call in the paramedics.

Holy shit how does that even happen?

i'm having a normal conversation w/ someone i know on grindr right now.

oh yes i just had a normal conversation on gaydar too.

about contemporary dance, no less.

i organised a class field trip w a guy on my course!

I had no normal conversations this weekend, cept I said hi to 2 of donna's friends at a showing of George Kuchar's The Devil's Cleavage tonight.

Ha! M4rci sent me a text to tell me she totally loves GK now.

last night the boy and i went out for a lavish dinner and we got seated next to a gay couple in their 50s, and we caught a few glances from them where it seemed like they were really happy to be sitting next to a younger gay couple? like when we left (before them) the waiter told us that we could take the rose on the table, so i did, and they flashed these huge grins at us. it was cute.

oh and the food was great

i hope you all also had good v days, for those who choose to "celebrate"

I was happy, since I spent the bartime w/ single ladies and someone played "Fuck You" on the jukebox

i was solo but i went to a queer experimental film screening that was pretty cool. the bus ride back was amazing, this big singalong (like, seriously almost half the bus) broke out - "rolling in the deep" followed by "gin and juice" followed by erykah's "on and on" (!). so LA was my valentine yesterday.

i also COMPLETELY UNINTENTIONALLY HONEST wore a red shirt yesterday

that. is. awesome.

I had a fairly exasperating workday and then crashed out at home by myself.

went out to dinner monday night - not intentionally for v day, just cause we hadn't in a while.

last night we just watched a movie and did some schoolwork, but oddly enough valentine's day seems so much less important in a relationship than it did when i wasn't in one.

shrug.

i accidentally had a kinda sweet v day lol. went to my first ever fashion show/ presentation, got to chat a bit with some folks i really admire (telf@r, f@tim@ @l q@diri!), then had dinner and chilled with l31f.

i watched bridget jones diary with two recently dumped chicks

sidenote - lou and also rev, i guess - have you heard l31f's new Seajunky tape? the first half was up on soundcloud and it's really good. Mostly beats, iirc.

yes! and there's a second part i might like even better, but it wasn't up for very long.

I've never celebrated Valentine's Day. Last night I drank wine and got my rocks off regarding Dave Gahan's crotch sheathed in tighty-whiteys in Depeche Mode 101.

gross

i watched bridget jones diary with two recently dumped chicks

― judith, Wednesday, February 15, 2012 4:25 PM (27 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

this should count as community service or something

"got my rocks off" means "I wrote about it."

i had this red champagne stuff that was really good

I guess procrastinating with writing now qualifies as "edging"

xp

i accidentally had a kinda sweet v day lol. went to my first ever fashion show/ presentation, got to chat a bit with some folks i really admire (telf@r, f@tim@ @l q@diri!), then had dinner and chilled with l31f.

― handy ban (lou), Wednesday, February 15, 2012 1:23 PM Bookmark

!!!!!!!!!!!

no words to say

sidenote - lou and also rev, i guess - have you heard l31f's new Seajunky tape? the first half was up on soundcloud and it's really good. Mostly beats, iirc.

― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Wednesday, February 15, 2012 1:35 PM Bookmark

yes! great stuff. I did manage to hear the second part when it was up.

J0rdan, where did you have dinner?

this place in andersonville called the big jones

I bet it was.

Rev/lou - is the 'second' part the Treehugger Side B of the cassette, or that random 'Ice' track that was 14 minutes long that is like the 'extra' part of Side A?

it was the "Ice" that I heard.

Yeah, ok. Me too. Just checking!

Sorry for the thread derail, everyone else.

i'd rather read about that than people's valentine's days

hey y'all.

Ted, I was just thinking abt you abt 45 seconds ago as I read this!

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/11/17/fashion/a-haircut-returns-from-the-1930s.html?_r=1

tabes weren't you threatening to come east in Feb?

and Rev, you in NY in 3 weeks or so?

No, the NYC trip fell through. :(

stevie, that haircut is really good, but kind of 4-5 seasons ago, imho. also, i dunno, maybe it's my DIY snobbery, but do you REALLY need to go to a barber to have the sides of your head shaved? that just strikes me as lazy.

morbz, as far as NYC trip, i'm taking two classes right now, doing some construction work, writing a bunch, and....in other words, no. i actually don't plan on coming east anytime soon, tbh.

ok... I'm looking at my lingering debt from last summer in Calif and thinking I might not go anywhere this year. (At least til the Democratic convention.)

bummer, Rev. I hope to get back to the PacNW in the next couple years.

this place in andersonville called the big jones

Oh yeah, that place is good. Haven't been there for dinner in a long time, but they do an excellent brunch.

yeah it was cool! we kind of just skimmed this big list of restaurants listed on open table that had prix fixe menus for v day and was the one that best fit in terms of location, food, price, ability to get reservation etc

their brunch looked dope tho just looking at the regular menu tho

I've been thinking that recently how I love Andersonville, Uptown, Rogers Park, etc. but the commutes are too long to the Loop. Especially from A-ville. But I miss the neighborhoodiness and the "grit" I guess.

I like that area too!

I still haven't been to Andersonville!

That remarkably horrible Shit Chicagoans Say video said something like "Go to Andersonville? What? And dodge all the lesbians??" which really annoyed me b/c: 1. That's not how fucking jokes work and 2. "Andersonville = lesbians" hasn't been true since before I moved here in 2004.

for yr entertainment

http://www.buzzfeed.com/fjelstud/the-cutest-boys-with-beards-with-cats

ooh la la cute boys with beards with cats

for me it's a tossup between #23 and #30- both are v smashable

that list really is "white boys with beards with cats" tho

but it doesn't mean those aren't some cute ass boys tho damn

When I saw the URL I thought we'd see pics of Jake Gyllenhaal and Ryan Gosling with their girlfriends at Pet Supermarket :(

brainwasher- so happy we met last night!

such a sucker for the boys with tats in that buzzfeed thing. speaking of which, i finally completed my mission of getting another stick-and-poke on my right hand to balance the one i have on my left....

CHAOS QUEER
https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/424824_636799007564_4302681_32671055_1115278059_n.jpg

xp lou - me too! it was great meeting you, that party was so fun I'm still recovering right now lol

btw kjb & rev - PHD dude flaked on me AGAIN. Can you believe it? i'm not even mad it's so absurd at this point!

Ok you're done with his ass. There's more BP in the sea - not British Petroleum (in this instance) but Boy Pussy. Go get it.

aw, were y'all partying at GG?

so um...kinda real smitten with this guy

lou you're friends w/ someone who's friends w/ one of my school friends. she logged into facebook on my laptop and i saw it on my wall before i realised it was her wall.

did the Brainwasher/lou meetup happen at DJ Sliink?

nah, couldn't make it to dj sliink. kingdom played last night, with zebra katz hosting!

t- i'm guessing it's a guy i met around the holidays who was visiting nyc.

Kingdom & Zebra Katz?

Sigh. Why was nothing amazing and gay happening when I was in NYC? Heh.

Except Nguzunguzu are playing 285 Kent the weekend of EMP (March 23), so if any of y'all are down, we should go.

seeing them on thursday night, pretty excited

this channing tatum is really very cute

the fuck does somebody like that come from

he's kinda gross

He looks like he chews on rocks but yeah I agree.

with surm

I'll probably be in NYC for EMP, gays.

http://gossip.whyfame.com/files/2010/02/channing_tatum1.jpg

:|

are you going to EMP as a presenter or spectator?

a heckler

you been before? it's never really crossed my mind to go

haha xp

the dude who was in "prison break" >>>> channing tatum

pix or it didn't happen

It's more fun than you'd expect, lex. I've been twice and wasn't bored. I've met and made a lot of friends.

wentworth miller https://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=wentworth+miller&gs_sm=3&gs_upl=3993l6238l0l6316l16l9l0l6l6l0l141l893l5.4l14l0&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.r_cp.r_qf.,cf.osb&biw=1207&bih=679&um=1&ie=UTF-8&tbm=isch&source=og&sa=N&tab=wi&ei=Oh5BT9ePLs3iggfnxfiSCA

and he's gay to boot

is he the one that he like ran someone over or something

lol i have no idea

would let him run me over tho

o snap

bitches gettin fresh all up on the thread

Except Nguzunguzu are playing 285 Kent the weekend of EMP (March 23), so if any of y'all are down, we should go.

― Somewhere between Fergie and Jesus (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, February 19, 2012 3:54 PM (1 hour ago)

i'm going to this obv so if you guys want to hang out or w/e beforehand let me know

Ok you're done with his ass. There's more BP in the sea - not British Petroleum (in this instance) but Boy Pussy. Go get it.

LMAO, yes I will be ignoring all future correspondence from him.

yeah, count me in.

xpost