http://api.ning.com/files/Pyzn1gy9p0MtIB8E0Ip7-nisQetoBGd*4TO-poHF2aEuahVZFV26DmBjINS9t6Ig/bearweek2009_049.jpg
― plax (ico), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:49 (fourteen years ago) link
(l-r)?
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:52 (fourteen years ago) link
no one we know
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:54 (fourteen years ago) link
plax extremely disappointed you are not shirtless yet in this thread
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:54 (fourteen years ago) link
well actually when i was changing earlier i got a bit narcissus, well i mean, it wasnt as bad as i thought it would be.
― plax (ico), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:56 (fourteen years ago) link
hahahahahahahahaaa wellllll then no excuse for a non-you opening post image
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:57 (fourteen years ago) link
lets not lose the run of ourselves!
― plax (ico), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:57 (fourteen years ago) link
I took my shirt off just special for this thread :)
― i don't care if big daddy kane signed your mommas tits (The Reverend), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:59 (fourteen years ago) link
smile 4 the cameras, take your shirts off
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j2VTSW7HrQ4
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Monday, 31 May 2010 22:00 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm sitting here in my boxers & socks
(time to leave)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 31 May 2010 22:01 (fourteen years ago) link
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v1963/107/26/2057448/n2057448_53102989_6140.jpg
― J0rdan S., Monday, 31 May 2010 22:02 (fourteen years ago) link
miami beach?
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Monday, 31 May 2010 22:06 (fourteen years ago) link
Next time I've been to the gym three days in a row, I might consider this. Until then, ftn.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 31 May 2010 22:07 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh, and kudos to the first one to man up to the challenge for real.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 31 May 2010 22:14 (fourteen years ago) link
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Monday, May 31, 2010 5:06 PM (10 minutes ago) Bookmark
si
― J0rdan S., Monday, 31 May 2010 22:17 (fourteen years ago) link
i can't even remember when i was last on a beach. in weather that nice, anyway.
barcelona in a couple of weeks tho!
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Monday, 31 May 2010 22:18 (fourteen years ago) link
Appropriate thread! I just returned from the pool.
J0rdan, you in town yet?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 31 May 2010 22:20 (fourteen years ago) link
sunday
― J0rdan S., Monday, 31 May 2010 22:22 (fourteen years ago) link
as in, next
Looking forward to finally meeting, J0rdan.
I've got no pool pics, unfortunately. But here's a pic from last Friday's happy hour:
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f308/sotoalf/31522_398250064635_646994635_396459.jpg
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 31 May 2010 22:27 (fourteen years ago) link
I'd really like to see what happens when everyone on these threads effing takes off their shirts. Srsly.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, May 31, 2010 5:49 PM
I'd say "Miami" but I don't want to take any orders for cold pink drinks in martini glasses.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 31 May 2010 22:28 (fourteen years ago) link
I have v few qualms abt taking off my shirt, usually, except when it's on the opening page of a thread that everyone will be reading for the next 3 months. Also I'm sort of bony and have a weird concave stomach and am just not really what you would call "pleasant to look at with his shirt off'
― limp bizkotti (Stevie D), Monday, 31 May 2010 22:45 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm back at work after 17 days off. hi guys.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 1 June 2010 13:10 (fourteen years ago) link
the good news is that i'm still feeling pretty groovy from the california experience. like, all of my chronic stress just sloughed away my 2nd day of the trip and now i'm at work without the anxiety that normally occupies my cubicle hours.
we'll see how long it lasts, let's hope forever.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 1 June 2010 15:30 (fourteen years ago) link
Long vacations rock. I'm taking one starting Friday. WHERE BE THE NEW YORK GAYS?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 1 June 2010 15:46 (fourteen years ago) link
btw, dr3w and t3d, thank you & thank you for pointing me toward the magazine in the tenderloin -- as it happened, my hotel was only 2 blocks away. total pornucopia. i only wish i had set aside more time and more space in my luggage.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 1 June 2010 16:00 (fourteen years ago) link
In the middle of bleaching my hair.
http://i188.photobucket.com/albums/z245/tapiola/CIMG0791.jpg
― Miles "Tails" Davis (Daruton), Tuesday, 1 June 2010 16:06 (fourteen years ago) link
<3 u
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 1 June 2010 16:10 (fourteen years ago) link
Hehehe
― Miles "Tails" Davis (Daruton), Tuesday, 1 June 2010 16:11 (fourteen years ago) link
think i already posted myself sans shirt here before, sorry (yr not missing much, trust)
this nyc gay is down for a drink, tho i'm not sure i can do saturday (beisbol!)
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Tuesday, 1 June 2010 16:25 (fourteen years ago) link
My only handy shirtless pic is about 6 years old of me in b0xing gear, and nooo, yer not seeing that.
I seem to be free all weekend, Sotosyn, unless the doctor medicates me on Friday for this deep cough I've had for TWO WEEKS.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 1 June 2010 16:33 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm there June 6-9, so if a happy hour's easier we can do that. Where do you guys usually go?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 1 June 2010 16:37 (fourteen years ago) link
Guys I found this one picture of me that makes me sparkle:
http://img217.imageshack.us/img217/9008/2397796750254007988458.gif
― j/k like Jamiroquai (Stevie D), Tuesday, 1 June 2010 16:39 (fourteen years ago) link
Alfred, we usu don't go anywhere! Me, surm, Steve & donna rouge have been in the same bar exactly once.
http://juliusbarnyc.com/index.html
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 01:54 (fourteen years ago) link
as dr mentioned above, tho, there's food on Sundays here:
http://www.yelp.com/biz/metropolitan-brooklyn
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 01:56 (fourteen years ago) link
hey FYI NYC gayz, i'm in yr ville from june 10-13. whirlwind times, but it would be great to maybe see some of you? i'm giving a reading in greenpoint on the 12th, i'll let yall know what's up with that...!
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 03:48 (fourteen years ago) link
Can I just mention how content I am seeing that picture at the top every time I open it?
I wd love to meet up with both Soto and Tabes but I had to move back home to south jerz, making NYCing extremely difficult and costly :(
― j/k like Jamiroquai (Stevie D), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 03:55 (fourteen years ago) link
That being said, I will be in NYC the 12th!
― j/k like Jamiroquai (Stevie D), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 03:57 (fourteen years ago) link
no shirt on, new digital camera, but . . . feeling shy (and 38)
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 2 June 2010 04:36 (fourteen years ago) link
you've got to be fucking kidding.
― j/k like Jamiroquai (Stevie D), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 04:39 (fourteen years ago) link
I want a pic within 5 minutes or I'm removing all of your music from my collection.
― j/k like Jamiroquai (Stevie D), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 04:40 (fourteen years ago) link
let me wait til I digest the huge dinner of smoked meat we just had here in Montreal- I'm sure when we come home drunk from Club Taboo tomorrow night it will be a different story
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 2 June 2010 04:42 (fourteen years ago) link
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1300/4661948739_9915547c04.jpgI'll probably regret this
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:04 (fourteen years ago) link
dang
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:06 (fourteen years ago) link
seen worse in zines tbh iirc
― j/k like Jamiroquai (Stevie D), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:11 (fourteen years ago) link
also
dang― J0rdan S., Wednesday, June 2, 2010 1:06 AM (5 minutes ago) Bookmark
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, June 2, 2010 1:06 AM (5 minutes ago) Bookmark
― j/k like Jamiroquai (Stevie D), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:12 (fourteen years ago) link
^what she said
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:13 (fourteen years ago) link
so come on other gaylxors, take yr shirts off already, jordan and stevie and I can't be the only camwhores on this board
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:19 (fourteen years ago) link
oh and daruton too obv
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:20 (fourteen years ago) link
I stipulated what would have to happen before I went through with this exhibitionism. It'll be awhile.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:21 (fourteen years ago) link
That said, <3's for everyone who has done so. +10 bonus points for doing it above the 50-post fold.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:22 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh mine is coming down soon.
― j/k like Jamiroquai (Stevie D), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:29 (fourteen years ago) link
(cough)
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:37 (fourteen years ago) link
you guys
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:43 (fourteen years ago) link
there is no way you ppl get to see my nipples without buying me drinks first
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 05:53 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm sure when we come home drunk from Club Taboo tomorrow night it will be a different story
omg! I've soooo been there. One of the precious few times I actually blushed...
― Kevin John Bozelka, Wednesday, 2 June 2010 06:04 (fourteen years ago) link
― j/k like Jamiroquai (Stevie D), Wednesday, June 2, 2010 4:40 AM (2 hours ago) Bookmark
looool
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 07:12 (fourteen years ago) link
Next time I've been to the gym three days in a row
THREE days gets visible results? What is this workout?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 11:23 (fourteen years ago) link
dr3w! you guys still in montreal? i knew y'all had a show here soon - saw a poster on the metro - but i'm awful with dates and forgot to post something.
― Alex in Montreal, Wednesday, 2 June 2010 18:19 (fourteen years ago) link
oh wait! You guys are playing tonight! Awesome. Time to totally rejigger my schedule and make sure I don't miss it.
― Alex in Montreal, Wednesday, 2 June 2010 18:22 (fourteen years ago) link
and um...I presume/hope you were at Schwartz's and not The Main. The Main is damn good but Schwartz's is the only real place for smoked meat+mustard/pickles/Cott's Black Cherry. Mandatory MTL eats. That and bagels. Third on the list is poutine at La Banquise if you have time and/or are super drunk.
― Alex in Montreal, Wednesday, 2 June 2010 18:25 (fourteen years ago) link
La Banquise (aka Poutine Palace) is the greatest restaurant on the planet.
― Kevin John Bozelka, Wednesday, 2 June 2010 18:26 (fourteen years ago) link
i can confirm that schwartz's is amazing, as is liverpool house
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 18:29 (fourteen years ago) link
I have not been to Liverpool House, as it sounds somewhat out of my price range. Maybe not? Is it insanely fancy and delicious?
― Alex in Montreal, Wednesday, 2 June 2010 18:31 (fourteen years ago) link
But yeah. La Banquise. Totally worth the bloating, which is not something I say lightly.
― Alex in Montreal, Wednesday, 2 June 2010 18:32 (fourteen years ago) link
it was insanely delicious - one of the waitresses knew one of our party and insisted that we sample basically everything.
i don't really know how much it cost, someone else was picking up the tab :/
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 18:33 (fourteen years ago) link
i just had blueberry frozen yogurt in a cup. it was delicious.
i like licking the spoon upside down, you know you like flip it in your mouth
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 20:25 (fourteen years ago) link
i just had actual blueberries! they were perfect. big n juicy.
this thread title so apt for today, the benefits of working from home in this weather...wish our garden got proper sun.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 20:39 (fourteen years ago) link
i like real blueberries a LOT. in fact they might be my favorite berry, given that blackberry jam is my favorite jam. that's a really tough call tho cuz blackberries have a way with my heart.
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:01 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.virginmedia.com/images/blackberries430x300.jpg
peaches. they're at the supermarket, and i got some. i love them soooo much. i almost cried in my oatmeal this morning they were so fucking good.
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:13 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm also excited about a raspberry bush out back.
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:14 (fourteen years ago) link
lol @ crying in ur oatmeal
i can imagine peaches having that effect on someone, they are delightful
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:49 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm watching "Sex and the City" for the first time, gays. I'm in the middle of the first season. I'd no idea Darren Starr of "90210" fame wrote a few episodes.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:52 (fourteen years ago) link
omg
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:54 (fourteen years ago) link
ur addicted, i can tell
"90210 fame"
*shakes head*
(He 'created' SATC, didn't he? after Candace Bushnell at least)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:55 (fourteen years ago) link
yes
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:55 (fourteen years ago) link
ha -- not yet. The first two episodes are, naturally, awkward; but I just saw the one in which SJP has the fling with the twentysomething, and the bitchiness you know and love kicks up its spiked heel.
Some of the dialogue sounds like Maureen Dowd coulda written it.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:56 (fourteen years ago) link
The show is most valuable as a compendium of late nineties guys' haircuts.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:58 (fourteen years ago) link
he's cute tho isn't he
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:58 (fourteen years ago) link
Much better than "Mr Big" -- yick.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:59 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.carriesdiary.com/imgs/ep04_carrie_guy.jpg
this guy rite?
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 21:59 (fourteen years ago) link
He looks like a fifth-rate version of the fifth-rate Richard Grieco.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 2 June 2010 22:00 (fourteen years ago) link
xpostYeah, it was Schwartz's. I bought a t-shirt too, since I had one when I was a little kid. The Mutek show was fun to play, but my bf is sick as a dawg so we're grounded tonight, no Club Taboo shenanigans. That said, we were interviewed today by a supercute gay journo/college kid who used to be a Club Taboo dancer, so there has been some hotness in effect. Hoping bf gets better so we can see Nurse With Wound tomorrow.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Thursday, 3 June 2010 04:16 (fourteen years ago) link
Trynna think who this could be, and have more than one option? Heh. Reasons I love this city.
― Alex in Montreal, Thursday, 3 June 2010 05:38 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah, Alex, how do you stand it here? There are so many cute people it's just wrong.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Thursday, 3 June 2010 13:38 (fourteen years ago) link
good morning
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Thursday, 3 June 2010 14:01 (fourteen years ago) link
Hi hi hi
― Miles "Tails" Davis (Daruton), Thursday, 3 June 2010 14:10 (fourteen years ago) link
hi cutey pie how's your white hair
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Thursday, 3 June 2010 14:10 (fourteen years ago) link
Still looking fairly orange, will probably be into "yellow" territory after today.
― Miles "Tails" Davis (Daruton), Thursday, 3 June 2010 14:12 (fourteen years ago) link
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 3 June 2010 14:14 (fourteen years ago) link
what's for breakfast?
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Thursday, 3 June 2010 14:18 (fourteen years ago) link
Lobster eggs benedict with mimosas.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 3 June 2010 14:18 (fourteen years ago) link
damn son
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Thursday, 3 June 2010 14:28 (fourteen years ago) link
I am eating the date, raisins and pecans out of my date, raisin and pecan cereal.
― Miles "Tails" Davis (Daruton), Thursday, 3 June 2010 15:04 (fourteen years ago) link
Well, dr3w, I tend to drool a lot, and generally act thoroughly intimidated by the sheer attractiveness of this entire city. Then I don't have sex, hang out with straight people, and whine about it.
But seriously, this is a reminder that I only have three months left in this city of stunningly hot gay guys, and no longer have (m)any good reasons to not throw caution to the wind and try to sleep with all of them. I think I have a summer project.
― Alex in Montreal, Thursday, 3 June 2010 19:16 (fourteen years ago) link
i might go to "sugarland" tonight
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Thursday, 3 June 2010 19:35 (fourteen years ago) link
i have never been there on a non-weekend night!
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Thursday, 3 June 2010 19:49 (fourteen years ago) link
i was gonna ask!
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Thursday, 3 June 2010 19:50 (fourteen years ago) link
wd b better if i had some e
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Thursday, 3 June 2010 19:51 (fourteen years ago) link
they have karaoke on mondays tho i think?
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Thursday, 3 June 2010 19:51 (fourteen years ago) link
what do they have on thursdays? sluts? prolly
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Thursday, 3 June 2010 19:52 (fourteen years ago) link
those are a permanent staple of s'land iirc
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Thursday, 3 June 2010 19:56 (fourteen years ago) link
and in the interests of not dominating this thread with nyc-centric chitchat i would like to continue being sold on the idea of MTL gents, ideally via photographic evidence
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Thursday, 3 June 2010 19:58 (fourteen years ago) link
um. the only ones i can provide are of friends of mine! which would be awkward/weird, no?
― Alex in Montreal, Thursday, 3 June 2010 20:28 (fourteen years ago) link
I found this: http://boysofmontreal.tumblr.com/ but I'm not sold on it. I've been planning to pick up a new camera (old one broke) so once I have done so, I promise to creepily take pictures of hot boys all summer and post to thread.
― Alex in Montreal, Thursday, 3 June 2010 20:31 (fourteen years ago) link
I don't have sex, hang out with straight people, and whine about it.
I am very good at these three things.
But you know, it's hard not to hang out with straight people when you have, like, no gay friends in town. :/
― what it feels like for a goon (The Reverend), Thursday, 3 June 2010 22:47 (fourteen years ago) link
http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51W4ZJME3RL.jpg
― plax (ico), Thursday, 3 June 2010 22:52 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah, "I have no gay friends in town." is, like, sort of a thing with us, innit?
This is finally no longer true? Although my three gay friends are all people who I have hooked up/unsuccessfully gone on dates with, which may not be the wisest course of action. But it's worked out ok so far.
― Alex in Montreal, Thursday, 3 June 2010 23:17 (fourteen years ago) link
I don't even have any dudes I have hooked up with or unsuccessfully gone on dates with in town.
― what it feels like for a goon (The Reverend), Thursday, 3 June 2010 23:23 (fourteen years ago) link
:(
― Alex in Montreal, Thursday, 3 June 2010 23:25 (fourteen years ago) link
If only we could have a "Help The Reverend pay 4 dates, get laid, and meet dudes...2010 rolling HELP A FELLOW ILX0R thread.."
― Alex in Montreal, Thursday, 3 June 2010 23:26 (fourteen years ago) link
ha
― what it feels like for a goon (The Reverend), Thursday, 3 June 2010 23:58 (fourteen years ago) link
It was the first gay thread title, iirc.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 4 June 2010 00:05 (fourteen years ago) link
I have, like, no gay friends in town.
― what it feels like for a goon (The Reverend), Friday, 4 June 2010 00:13 (fourteen years ago) link
That was a pretty good thread. Forgot it was Chris that started the ball rolling.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 4 June 2010 03:59 (fourteen years ago) link
what do you guys do when you have a busy weekend of work planned, and then receive 3 party invitations?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 4 June 2010 04:01 (fourteen years ago) link
Usually I waffle on both and end up doing neither.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 4 June 2010 05:15 (fourteen years ago) link
Hopefully I'll see a couple for drinks on Monday or Tuesday when I bite the Big Apple.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 4 June 2010 11:04 (fourteen years ago) link
a couple of what?
I have a film screening on Tuesday eve, Monday can work for me.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 4 June 2010 11:16 (fourteen years ago) link
So I just got hired to this RIDICULOUS new job at a local family-operated convenient store chain. My already-short haircut is too long and needs to be cut (it cannot hang over the tops of the ears or hang 2" below earlobes), I have to shave my goatee (clean-shaven or moustaches only, wtf???) and I had to get fuckin DRUG TESTED. Also it is minimum wage. But when I went to get drug tested today they had a copy of OUT at the doctor's office which I thought was fucking incredible and I genuinely appreciated. I wanted to thank them!
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Friday, 4 June 2010 22:47 (fourteen years ago) link
who the hell wears moustaches?
― what it feels like for a goon (The Reverend), Friday, 4 June 2010 23:05 (fourteen years ago) link
i always think to "wear" a bear or moustache is hilarious.
― jed_, Friday, 4 June 2010 23:07 (fourteen years ago) link
xp I know, right?? Which is going to look weirder/skeevier on a 22yo? Like, how fucking weirdly antiquated and bizarre is this way of thinking.
Also I find nothing funny about wearing bears.
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Friday, 4 June 2010 23:08 (fourteen years ago) link
Yesterday I visited my super Italian great-grandmother Nan and the first thing she said when she saw me was "Stevie, you're raisin' a beard! Ya' too young to be raisin' a beard!"
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Friday, 4 June 2010 23:09 (fourteen years ago) link
raisin' is great, "wearing" is just plain funny to me - like it's something that hooks over your ears.
i've been on a heath tip for two weeks to try and get rid of my psoriasis - no drinking, lots of fruit and veg + fish etc. and it's working a dream... but then i had one drink last night and got a massive headache which lasted 'til this morning. then had another one tonight and the same happened, which is depressing. i really don't want to be a non drinker, i love boozing, so i hope that tendency disappears.
― jed_, Friday, 4 June 2010 23:12 (fourteen years ago) link
cleanshaven is ok unless you look 15 when you are cleanshaven. it just sucks to shave all the time. I am your age pretty much and I look good cleanshaven imo
― what it feels like for a goon (The Reverend), Friday, 4 June 2010 23:13 (fourteen years ago) link
That is exactly my problem. I look pubescent when I shave. Also I hate my chin and the goatee hides it sort of. Also also I HATE having to shave all the time; I only ever trim like once a month anyway.
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Friday, 4 June 2010 23:26 (fourteen years ago) link
Just went back to cleanshaven a couple weeks ago and, not surprisingly, it looks more or less the same as not-quite-cleanshaven. I have 5 o'clock shadow at 8 a.m. regardless.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 4 June 2010 23:26 (fourteen years ago) link
So I finally put two and two together that one of the doctors/research labs that I bring coffee to about three times a week (work at a cafe in a hospital, fyi) is a kind-of-a-big-deal expert on AIDS/HIV research and responsible for the most visible criticism of Canada's antiquated ban on blood donation by MSM.
http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/health/lift-ban-on-gay-blood-donors-researcher-says/article1580753/
Anyway, I bumped into him in the hallway this morning and randomly gave him props for being an advocate for rational science and so forth, which started off really awkward but ended up kind of cool? when he found out i was moving to toronto (ugh) for law school, he mentioned a bunch of interesting legal advocacy stuff going on there.
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 5 June 2010 00:29 (fourteen years ago) link
re: shaving - i look decent clean-shaven, good scruffy but AWFUL with 'actual' facial hair.
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 5 June 2010 00:30 (fourteen years ago) link
no one, NO ONE looks awful with "actual" facial hair.
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Saturday, 5 June 2010 00:43 (fourteen years ago) link
that is not true
― what it feels like for a goon (The Reverend), Saturday, 5 June 2010 00:48 (fourteen years ago) link
well, maybe my problem is i can't grow actual facial hair that is robust enough to look good, but i maintain that many facial hair-havers would look better sans.
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 5 June 2010 01:04 (fourteen years ago) link
(yrs looks positively dashing of course, steve)
Saw the doc for annual physical yesterday. Thanks, Doc, for pointing out that I was 25 lbs lighter ten years ago.
btw Alfred, great (unavailable on disc) Rossellini film at MoMA on Mon night:
http://www.moma.org/visit/calendar/film_screenings/9443
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 5 June 2010 10:40 (fourteen years ago) link
^that looks great. I really wish I didn't have plans.
Hi gays, btw. I'm a friend of Morbs's through baseball. I would introduce myself via shirtless pic, but that seems presumptuous.
― billy, Saturday, 5 June 2010 15:50 (fourteen years ago) link
hi billy!
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Saturday, 5 June 2010 15:53 (fourteen years ago) link
i dont think anybody would have a problem with that btw
― plax (ico), Saturday, 5 June 2010 16:56 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh, what the hell. Be kind, please?
http://img683.imageshack.us/img683/103/38762615.jpg
Also elmo, I got back from California too (though this was a few weeks ago). I had a similar thing happen while at Pt Dume on my birthday, this incredible feeling came over me and I thought, "What is this strange sensation?" I realized it was happiness and lack of stress and anxiety. And then of course I got back to NYC and immediately I get tension in my shoulders and neck. Hope your Cali grooviness lasts longer than mine did.
― billy, Saturday, 5 June 2010 17:43 (fourteen years ago) link
^i like this guy already
― plax (ico), Saturday, 5 June 2010 17:44 (fourteen years ago) link
hey there bud! wanna go to the game Thursday?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 5 June 2010 18:04 (fourteen years ago) link
GODDAMMIT. I can't :(, have dumb obligations w/ some friends.
― billy, Saturday, 5 June 2010 18:16 (fourteen years ago) link
well, somewhere soon then. Cyclones, Newark Bears...
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 5 June 2010 18:39 (fourteen years ago) link
I'd be down for Newark bears.
Billy, welcome!! I hope you like it here.
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Saturday, 5 June 2010 18:58 (fourteen years ago) link
Thanks! I have actually lurked on this board for a bit (also hi j03, didn't realize you were here too)
Morbs I really do want to go to Citi at some point this summer. Preferably to see Pelf.
― billy, Saturday, 5 June 2010 20:11 (fourteen years ago) link
hey Billy! I'm at the mets v marlins game AS WE SPEAK
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Saturday, 5 June 2010 20:54 (fourteen years ago) link
a typical Mets home romp
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 5 June 2010 22:20 (fourteen years ago) link
F'reals
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Saturday, 5 June 2010 22:26 (fourteen years ago) link
hope everyone is having a fine Saturday evening. my team won our kickball game, just had a nice sirloin salad for dinner, and taking a few NYC friends out on the town tonight. The air is dense and swampy and I plan on drinking to capacity. summer!
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Sunday, 6 June 2010 00:44 (fourteen years ago) link
also billy, i am def still feeling groovy. i've been dealing with a lot of family shit this past year and taking some time away was v helpful for me getting some perspective on and *emotional* distance from all that. feeling like a new elmo tbh.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Sunday, 6 June 2010 00:47 (fourteen years ago) link
was just driving along, stopped at traffic lights and who do i see go zooming past with a shock of white blonde hair?? our very own teddy! so when we were driving past him, i yelled out the window TEDDDDDDDDDDD and i think he had no idea who the fuck i was.
hi teddy!
― just1n3, Sunday, 6 June 2010 01:26 (fourteen years ago) link
only non-shirt pic of me I have:
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc1/hs112.snc1/4822_219194020712_713115712_7517405_2449432_n.jpg
― what it feels like for a goon (The Reverend), Sunday, 6 June 2010 06:15 (fourteen years ago) link
btw, welcome billy! such good looking
― what it feels like for a goon (The Reverend), Sunday, 6 June 2010 06:16 (fourteen years ago) link
i approve of these pictures. the thread title makes me hope for new ones every time i click on it. i was going to post one last night but fell asleep and probably need to be slightly drunker than i am now to do it.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Sunday, 6 June 2010 12:02 (fourteen years ago) link
fukkit.
http://img709.imageshack.us/img709/4514/photo8nl.jpg
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Sunday, 6 June 2010 12:16 (fourteen years ago) link
'm at the mets v marlins game AS WE SPEAK
I was there, too!
― tokyo rosemary, Sunday, 6 June 2010 16:58 (fourteen years ago) link
Lex, you always have such poise!
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Sunday, 6 June 2010 17:01 (fourteen years ago) link
oh hey, that was you justin3??? i was like, that could have been anyone. i was so zonked from work, too, that i was just like "let me across san pablo so i can go to the store to buy beer to drink it in the parking lot that is the yard of my house." haha, well, let's actually hang out sometime soon? i am sitting at mama buzz as i type, btw.
okay, i'll do the shirtless thing later tonight....and woh, so i've been hanging out with this guy a lot. it's starting to get really...uh... awesome? yeah!!
that said, this band was up here from san diego, and their drummer was this boy:http://c1.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/39/l_8d2ac5fbdc09404283984759ac832004.jpg
swoon swoon swoon. he was like 21, really nice and spacy, just the sort of thing that i adore. hung out with him a bunch as he was staying at my friend's spot.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Sunday, 6 June 2010 19:14 (fourteen years ago) link
as in the one on the right...they were pretty good, too, kinda sounded like Bikini Kill.
i know i started this thread but i meant it as more a life philosophy as opposed to a photo album theme. i kinda think self-portraits should be reserved for our haircuts tbh.
― plax (ico), Sunday, 6 June 2010 19:17 (fourteen years ago) link
drummer is A++
― Alex in Montreal, Sunday, 6 June 2010 19:19 (fourteen years ago) link
as in, no way am i posting topless pics itt
― plax (ico), Sunday, 6 June 2010 19:20 (fourteen years ago) link
as if we wouldn't take the excuse, plax
― what it feels like for a goon (The Reverend), Sunday, 6 June 2010 19:26 (fourteen years ago) link
i guess i'm not complaining tho!
― plax (ico), Sunday, 6 June 2010 19:29 (fourteen years ago) link
i think photos pretty much fall under the life philosophy
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Monday, 7 June 2010 07:55 (fourteen years ago) link
^bcz I have neither
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 7 June 2010 11:34 (fourteen years ago) link
i may be totally off here but i think i may have recently seen a shirtless picture of daruton on tumblr?! please confirm / deny
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Monday, 7 June 2010 15:43 (fourteen years ago) link
attn. Eric H: http://friskyhands.com/welcome
― plax (ico), Monday, 7 June 2010 17:52 (fourteen years ago) link
Welcome, indeed. Right now it seems like there are two people on there, but hopefully it grows.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 7 June 2010 21:35 (fourteen years ago) link
That would be really weird. I don't THINK I have any photos of me floating out in the interwebs.
― Miles "Tails" Davis (Daruton), Monday, 7 June 2010 23:59 (fourteen years ago) link
ok -- it was a picture of a dude somewhat resembling you with hair exactly like yours (same haircut and very recently bleached) and the face was hidden so I couldn't tell.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 00:17 (fourteen years ago) link
hey tabes, it's BROOKLYN PRIDE this weekend. Bring the shame! I've never heard of a Greenpoint reading before.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 01:03 (fourteen years ago) link
can i just
http://www.postersnthings.com/posters/rabbit_test.jpg
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 04:17 (fourteen years ago) link
NNNNNNNG i meant this
http://hitchcockandme.files.wordpress.com/2010/01/rabbit-test1.jpg
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 04:40 (fourteen years ago) link
I need to stop crushing on straight friends. I used to know better than this. Back when I knew gay people.
― donk quixote (The Reverend), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 10:24 (fourteen years ago) link
Ugh, that's the worst. Thankfully I've gotten over that period of my life. Maybe I'm getting older? Or I know worse straight people now.
― evan's schlong: glorious (billy), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 15:11 (fourteen years ago) link
Belated welcome to you, Billy.
My latest sad and pre-obstructed* crush objects seem to be monogamous gay couples.
(*this part being key, I think)
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 15:14 (fourteen years ago) link
you would think that I'd be able to meet some gay men to crush on in the 7th-gayest city in the country but apparently not
― donk quixote (The Reverend), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 15:36 (fourteen years ago) link
well, being in bar packed with gay guys laughing hysterically at all those lousy SNL Betty White sketches made me hate homos all over again
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 15:48 (fourteen years ago) link
You ever stopped?
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 15:51 (fourteen years ago) link
for a few hours at a time now and then! what about you?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 15:54 (fourteen years ago) link
I like them when they are not catty/judgemental, or stupid. The worst is a prissy, condescending bitch that lacks any semblance of wit or intelligence (apart from than the ability to program their DVR to record Glee)
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 16:15 (fourteen years ago) link
More and more, I'm finding I like them quite a bit ... as friends.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 17:17 (fourteen years ago) link
for a brief moment in time i started to get snooty or judgmental about other gays but then i just realized that makes me no better than anyone else
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 17:19 (fourteen years ago) link
also there are a lot of different types of gay people out there. i can even talk to people who watch glee with a straight face now
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 17:20 (fourteen years ago) link
well sure, I have a number... xxp The problems start when you get em in a group! Before you know it, you're laughing at drag queens.
billy fabs, have you been to the NEW gay sports bar in Chelsea? i thought about going tnite to see a couple innings from Strasburg's debut, but i'm not even sure they'll have it on (MLB Network).
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 17:21 (fourteen years ago) link
The problems start when you get em in a group! Before you know it, you're laughing at drag queens.
Yeah. But to be fair, some of the friends I've been hanging out with more lately are less judgmental and take their drag queens seriously.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 17:27 (fourteen years ago) link
morbs i'm not sure if you mean "finding drag queens funny" or "mocking drag queens"
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 17:40 (fourteen years ago) link
"finding drag queens funny." There was Divine, then Justin Bond as Kiki, and that's about it.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 18:16 (fourteen years ago) link
damn i was hoping to see ur titties
― For Nick Lachey, Forever Ago (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 18:25 (fourteen years ago) link
^ Miss Nan Sequitur, gentlemen
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 18:30 (fourteen years ago) link
billy fabs, have you been to the NEW gay sports bar in Chelsea?
I heard there was new one but I haven't been, no. Is it worse than GYM? I wanna see Strasburg's debut too, but I also wanna see Pelf pitch, as well as the Lakers-Celts.
I watch Glee when there's nothing to do. It is so insanely horrific I swear the last time will always be the last time. I need a job, is what this boils down to.
― evan's schlong: glorious (billy), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 18:45 (fourteen years ago) link
deeply feeling that last sentence :/
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 18:52 (fourteen years ago) link
i have a job but its everything else i need
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 19:11 (fourteen years ago) link
u'll find it
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 19:13 (fourteen years ago) link
My friends are having this elaborate prom party where it's going to be catered and fancy and etc., just for fun. And I have no one to bring. Will one of you go with me?
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 19:18 (fourteen years ago) link
or you'll adjust xp
(sorry, I can't resist being the Voice of Lowered Expectations)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 19:18 (fourteen years ago) link
. I booked a flight to toronto in september, and one home from SF in December (i've talked about what this was for in the past, I didn't really think I'd ever get round to it), and I've made up my mind that after christmas I will not be staying in Ireland. I'm conscious that I turn up on this thread every now and again w/ some negative nelly gripe, but at least I'm finally being pro-active about it... right? I really don't know what I was thinking moving home in the first place. I dunno, I'm thinking of learning spanish and moving to spain, Spanish guys are cute.
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 19:20 (fourteen years ago) link
why aren't u online more? i miss u :*(
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 19:22 (fourteen years ago) link
heh, it feels like i spend my whole life online sometimes. theres a pile of unread books next to my bed. Miss you too though
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 19:23 (fourteen years ago) link
Srsly, gay friends w/o benefits are quickly becoming one of the highlights of my social life. Until they try to set me up with their increasingly desperate friends.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 19:30 (fourteen years ago) link
i hear you. it's fun to have like " the boys " to chill with
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 19:32 (fourteen years ago) link
speaking as someone who moved home after school (twice) and actually had good stuff happen (the second time), i would say that moving home after school generally blows and the quicker you can leave the better. good on you. i bet it'll totally brighten the next few months and motivate you to make the most of your time there or whatever. xxpost
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 20:00 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm not graduating until december but i've moved back home for the summer -- my first extended period here since high school
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 20:04 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah, i mean I wouldn't have saved up as much money as I have. It also sucks that my best friends from college have spent the last six months in central/south america and that mybest friend from school is living in Brussels now. But yeah, i've inspired this wave of everyone deciding to leave and like emigrate (the assistant manager has like 8 grand saved up and shes moving to New Zealand now -she is crazy in love w/ kiwis)
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 20:07 (fourteen years ago) link
moving back home after university was just not an option to contemplate for me - would have been utterly horrific - went straight to london (without sorting a job first, which i don't recommend, but uhh it all worked out in the end). i think my parents probably live in a more rural place than most though.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 20:09 (fourteen years ago) link
um, the reason i was gone just there was bc i was giving a calf an injection so maybe not?
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 20:10 (fourteen years ago) link
ok you trump me there :/
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 20:12 (fourteen years ago) link
i don't live at home any more but i go to work at home. very weird. at first it was awful but now it's tolerable -- i've changed my relationship with my parents, gained some self-respect, and have a job. i still wanna live somewhere else but here's fine for now, as long as i feel like i'm evolving. x-post lol
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 20:23 (fourteen years ago) link
I lived with my parents for most of while I went to school, which made getting out afterward super-necessary.
― donk quixote (The Reverend), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 20:29 (fourteen years ago) link
I can't remember if I talked abt this here but I just graduated on the 18th of May and had to move back home with my mom, which I SWORE to myself I would not do. It wasn't even remotely a possibility in my mind, and I had spent a year putting everything in place so that it wouldn't happen, and then all of it fell apart literally the day I graduated. It's a huge consolation knowing it wasn't my fault or a matter of me dropping the ball or not being proactive or anything, though, and I've got a much different/more positive approach now than I did two years ago when I had to move back home because I DID drop the ball big-time, and I resented having to be stuck in suburbia w/ my mother.
I've got enough graduation money saved up, though, that it won't be too long before I look for an actual career-y thing and move to Philly or Brooklyn or something. At least there's no room to grow complacent or lazy here like there was in New Brunswick (which I hadn't planned on staying in for more than a year anyway). Also, the local library has lots of good movies, and the bus takes me and my bike to Philly and back for like $11.
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 21:14 (fourteen years ago) link
man, i think you've got it sorted
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 21:22 (fourteen years ago) link
I'll have to do a daytrip to Philly sometime.
As for your prom, sorry, I've given up chaperoning!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 21:46 (fourteen years ago) link
(it takes a lot to get me to NJ these days)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 21:49 (fourteen years ago) link
i am waaay overdue for a philly trip. i'll likely be there in the fall at some point
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 21:49 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh god. I endured a terrible, terrible drag queen at the Stonewall last night; we fled after 20 minutes of jokes that required instantrimshot.com
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 8 June 2010 23:15 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm going to see a, supposedly, very good one on friday. Taylor Mac, anyone?
― jed_, Tuesday, 8 June 2010 23:20 (fourteen years ago) link
. I booked a flight to toronto in september, and one home from SF in December
I will officially be in Toronto by September, so while I will know the city only marginally better than you, and have no place to live as of yet, feel free to couch surf/FAP.
― Alex in Montreal, Wednesday, 9 June 2010 00:11 (fourteen years ago) link
also, this:
is so true. the new friends w/o benefits rule has proven to be a Good Thing.
― Alex in Montreal, Wednesday, 9 June 2010 00:12 (fourteen years ago) link
OMG TI4RN4N U COME TO BAY AREA!!! that is so zang it hurts.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 04:14 (fourteen years ago) link
Drag shows are like instant "get me out of this bar sooner than now" imo.
― fuck being hard, suburbs are complicated (The Reverend), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 11:43 (fourteen years ago) link
I have never seen a drag show and have little desire to.
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 12:12 (fourteen years ago) link
You guys are being a tad harsh, tho drag is admittedly, in a lot of cases, the gender version of karaoke.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 12:24 (fourteen years ago) link
That seems like a rather accurate analogy, actually.
― fuck being hard, suburbs are complicated (The Reverend), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 12:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Doing karaoke is a lot of fun, but watching karaoke is really quite boring imo.
― fuck being hard, suburbs are complicated (The Reverend), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 12:32 (fourteen years ago) link
Challenging, I know.
― fuck being hard, suburbs are complicated (The Reverend), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 12:33 (fourteen years ago) link
Karaoke's only fun when I'm doing it.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 15:30 (fourteen years ago) link
Ditto. I will only sing Al Jarreau, and will only dress in drag like Al Jarreau.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 16:24 (fourteen years ago) link
u_u
― fuck being hard, suburbs are complicated (The Reverend), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 17:28 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.dvds2trade.co.uk/image/AlLev2004.gif
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 17:29 (fourteen years ago) link
I was known as "Jarreau" for the first 15 years of my life. I stopped going by that.
― fuck being hard, suburbs are complicated (The Reverend), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 17:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Al Jarreau is a badass. I'd have been flattered.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 17:56 (fourteen years ago) link
Having a name that no one can pronounce or spell, isn't your legal first name, and when they do get it, they make a big production out of is a humongous pain in the ass, fyi.
― fuck being hard, suburbs are complicated (The Reverend), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 18:07 (fourteen years ago) link
i thought ur name was r0dney
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 18:09 (fourteen years ago) link
It is. I have a first name. I also have a middle name. I used to go by my middle name. Now I go by my first name.
― fuck being hard, suburbs are complicated (The Reverend), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 18:10 (fourteen years ago) link
The name R0dney comes from my dad, and he is way more badass than Al Jarreau imo.
― fuck being hard, suburbs are complicated (The Reverend), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 18:11 (fourteen years ago) link
gonna remind u that my name is ti4rnán t0más U4itéir
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 18:11 (fourteen years ago) link
^^Way cooler name than Jarreau.
― fuck being hard, suburbs are complicated (The Reverend), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 18:13 (fourteen years ago) link
1. This is like the first time an ad has actually made me want to buy the product: http://regent.blogs.com/.a/6a00d8341ca4b653ef0133efbbc6f5970b-pi
2. Look where I'm helping out on the 19th:NYCPride Rally featuring Me’shell Ndegeocello, Martha Wash NY Gay Men’s Chorus, Vickie Shaw, Billie Myers and Bruce Vilanch
MARTHA MARTHA MARTHA!!!!!
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 18:27 (fourteen years ago) link
don't fetch Vilanch's donuts
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 9 June 2010 18:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Here's me:
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/80259710@N00/4688637370/" title="Untitled by Laurent Jacquinot, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1269/4688637370_0459a4f612_b.jpg" width="765" height="1024" alt="Untitled" /></a>
― RR, Thursday, 10 June 2010 17:32 (fourteen years ago) link
oops
― RR, Thursday, 10 June 2010 17:33 (fourteen years ago) link
word
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Thursday, 10 June 2010 17:34 (fourteen years ago) link
It worked?
― RR, Thursday, 10 June 2010 17:41 (fourteen years ago) link
yea if u click on it
u look like ur from brooklyn
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Thursday, 10 June 2010 17:45 (fourteen years ago) link
close -i'm in queens
where are u?
― RR, Thursday, 10 June 2010 17:49 (fourteen years ago) link
bk hi
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Thursday, 10 June 2010 17:50 (fourteen years ago) link
we're neighbors! hi
― RR, Thursday, 10 June 2010 17:53 (fourteen years ago) link
Trying again:http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1269/4688637370_0459a4f612_b.jpg
― RR, Thursday, 10 June 2010 17:54 (fourteen years ago) link
<3 :)
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Thursday, 10 June 2010 18:05 (fourteen years ago) link
CUTE!! Hi RR, how are you?
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Thursday, 10 June 2010 18:58 (fourteen years ago) link
Thanks both of you!
Hi Stevie; I'm well, and you?
― RR, Thursday, 10 June 2010 19:40 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm good. I went to this thrift store called Plato's Closet and I got two v nice shirts and I knew a few ppl who worked there, so they gave me 20% off. And now I'm sitting in my room listening to Mouse on Mars and attempting to "clean" it. I'm not doing a very good job.
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Thursday, 10 June 2010 19:42 (fourteen years ago) link
Is Plato's Closet in NYC? If yes, please let me know the address, as I'd love to go there.
What do the two shirts look like?
Good luck with the room cleaning.
― RR, Thursday, 10 June 2010 19:54 (fourteen years ago) link
u and mouse on mars
― plax (ico), Thursday, 10 June 2010 19:59 (fourteen years ago) link
love mouse on mars.
i'm "dj"-ing a fundraiser/pool party for the flag football league on saturday. my first time! i have 1 turntable, a portable cd player, a mixer, and my bookshelf system for speakers. fade out, press start, fade in, lol. i have a limited supply of records, mostly disco, a few odds and ends, and this soulbeat 8lp comp that's pretty rad. hope they like ten city!
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Thursday, 10 June 2010 20:27 (fourteen years ago) link
Does the Plato's Closet in NYC have ads on alt-rock radio with Valley Girl voiceovers, like the ones in Chicago do?
― jaymc, Thursday, 10 June 2010 20:49 (fourteen years ago) link
They do ads on rhythmic radio with Valley Girl voiceovers in Seattle.
― fuck being hard, suburbs are complicated (The Reverend), Thursday, 10 June 2010 21:10 (fourteen years ago) link
Plato's Closet is in Deptford, NJ. One is a fitted v. light denim button down, onto the back of which I am going to sew this patch of Bea Arthur someone in Philly silkscreened. The other one is a lovely purple and orange plaid flannel. $20.80 for them both! Yeah I can't stop w/ the Mouse on mars, it's ridic. I didn't even know Plato's Closet was a chain!
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Friday, 11 June 2010 01:48 (fourteen years ago) link
How is it that I can't even meet up with one person in a city with one of the largest gay populations in the US.
― Miles "Tails" Davis (Daruton), Friday, 11 June 2010 03:46 (fourteen years ago) link
Srsly I'm fucking frustrated.
Exact same bag, bubba.
― The Reverend, Friday, 11 June 2010 03:48 (fourteen years ago) link
plane tickets aren't that expensive these days
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Friday, 11 June 2010 03:49 (fourteen years ago) link
:\
― Miles "Tails" Davis (Daruton), Friday, 11 June 2010 03:51 (fourteen years ago) link
you will find some tail don't worry
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Friday, 11 June 2010 03:52 (fourteen years ago) link
The best thing that I ever did was just go to low-key gay pubs and just sit down and talk to people whether I liked them or not.
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Friday, 11 June 2010 03:53 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh xp these are my new shirts:
http://img809.imageshack.us/img809/1584/snapshot1n.jpghttp://img808.imageshack.us/img808/4599/snapshot2v.jpg
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Thursday, June 10, 2010 8:49 PM Suggest Ban PermalinkBookmark
they are when you're trying to figure out how you'll afford a can of pasta sauce
― The Reverend, Friday, 11 June 2010 03:56 (fourteen years ago) link
Man, when my bf and I broke up I went to California and had some crazy awesome fun times with some absolute Malibu stereotype replete w/ film producer stepdad's house which had floor-to-ceiling windows looking into the Pacific, and then I get back to NYC, which is SO GAY, and I have no luck. Like I'm always on the verge only to be left with frustrating nothingness.
So I feel you, rev.
― evan's schlong: glorious (billy), Friday, 11 June 2010 04:04 (fourteen years ago) link
cute shirts stevo
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Friday, 11 June 2010 04:05 (fourteen years ago) link
and daruton
― evan's schlong: glorious (billy), Friday, 11 June 2010 04:05 (fourteen years ago) link
Hott shades Stevie
― evan's schlong: glorious (billy), Friday, 11 June 2010 04:06 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah fuck it, I'm going to Boystown this weekend.
― Miles "Tails" Davis (Daruton), Friday, 11 June 2010 04:16 (fourteen years ago) link
i've been going out with my straight friends
it's lol, cuz they don't know i'm gay
and i just stand around like \(o_O)/
not interested in girls sorry
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Friday, 11 June 2010 06:58 (fourteen years ago) link
do u think u'll ever tell them and if so how do u think that will affect ur relationship
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Friday, 11 June 2010 06:59 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm not sure cuz they're my high school friends and i'll prob never see most of them after this summer
otoh i'll see some of them this summer and it would be nice
altho it would be a "big deal"
i probably will tell a few of my friends who i might kit with
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Friday, 11 June 2010 07:01 (fourteen years ago) link
it wouldn't affect friendships aside from some "omg"s or w/w
btw alfred i'm in miami
btw ramzi i love you
btw me too
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Friday, 11 June 2010 07:03 (fourteen years ago) link
aw you guyz
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Friday, 11 June 2010 07:06 (fourteen years ago) link
hi donna! ps i think the time we saw you with your shirt off you were covered in face paint
...
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Friday, 11 June 2010 07:09 (fourteen years ago) link
:)
― The Reverend, Friday, 11 June 2010 07:10 (fourteen years ago) link
i am covertly shirtlessly linked upthread
ps a tad tipsy
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Friday, 11 June 2010 07:13 (fourteen years ago) link
"I went to California and had some crazy awesome fun times (...) and then I get back to NYC, which is SO GAY, and I have no luck."
traveling solo while single seriously ups your game iirc
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 11 June 2010 15:44 (fourteen years ago) link
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Friday, June 11, 2010 7:01 AM (8 hours ago)
yeah, i know wat u mean, the only friend i ever had a hard time telling was a gay friend from 2ndary school, he had kinda made "being gay""his thing" and i felt like i was stepping on it.
― plax (ico), Friday, 11 June 2010 15:48 (fourteen years ago) link
One is a fitted v. light denim button down, onto the back of which I am going to sew this patch of Bea Arthur someone in Philly silkscreened. The other one is a lovely purple and orange plaid flannel.
― RR, Friday, 11 June 2010 16:03 (fourteen years ago) link
my bf went thrift shopping the other day and brought home the EXACT SAME shirt that i was wearing the night we met -- same label, same blue/aqua/pink plaid, same size. now i have two! which is good because the original is getting a bit worn out
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 11 June 2010 16:15 (fourteen years ago) link
so if tabes doesn't surface and tell us where his reading is, I'm going to confide my Brooklyn Priding to Metr0politan on Saturday night after midnight, if anyone's in the drinking mood.
also, Lady Gaga was at the same Mets game I was yesterday. One of us flipped a double-bird at fotogs.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 11 June 2010 17:49 (fourteen years ago) link
"After two days of hearings, by a vote of 9-6, the HHS Advisory Committee on Blood Safety and Availability has voted against recommending lifting the FDA ban on blood donation by gay men."
WHAT THE FUCK
― Sunny came home with emissions (Stevie D), Friday, 11 June 2010 22:14 (fourteen years ago) link
slkasf;pf;sllpapeo,mxvdkpwi
― The Reverend, Friday, 11 June 2010 22:15 (fourteen years ago) link
I mean I'll probably just lie and do it anyway, since it's not the Red Cross or whoever's collecting your blood that makes these policies.
― Sunny came home with emissions (Stevie D), Friday, 11 June 2010 22:26 (fourteen years ago) link
But I just have this picture in my head of this 75 year old asshole sitting on some board silently terrified of having some faggot's blood put into his body
― Sunny came home with emissions (Stevie D), Friday, 11 June 2010 22:27 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah we have the same shit here. a friend of mine was about to give me a lecture abt the impt. of donating blood when I told her and she was like "oh."
― plax (ico), Friday, 11 June 2010 22:50 (fourteen years ago) link
Same shit here, but hopefully not for long? Major medical orgs aka federally funded AIDS research institutes are advocating pretty hard for lifting of blood ban. Of course, I'm not familiar with the politics of it in the states - maybe the medical community there is doing the same, with little success.
Still, add another facepalm/headshake/sigh of frustration to the pile.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 11 June 2010 23:13 (fourteen years ago) link
Made sure to donate blood before I got around to coming out/engaging in teh gay sex, because of the gigantic pile of bullshit that is homophobic bureaucracy.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 11 June 2010 23:14 (fourteen years ago) link
Facepalm etc here too.
Unrelated news: I'll be taking part in the Brooklyn Pride march tomorrow. If any of you are going to see it, wave if you see me (or throw a peanut or something).
― RR, Saturday, 12 June 2010 00:57 (fourteen years ago) link
wait, who is RR?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 12 June 2010 01:02 (fourteen years ago) link
going to dublin nxt week to see some agnes martin drawings and just realised that its gay pride then i guess i could go maybe
― plax (ico), Saturday, 12 June 2010 01:04 (fourteen years ago) link
Expect a message soon. We'll hang out, even if I have to pick you up. Are you going to the Pains of Being Pure at Heart show tomorrow?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:03 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh, Morbs -- sorry I missed you. Another tight schedule for both of us.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:04 (fourteen years ago) link
xp maybe!
i would like to but i might be at a graduation party for my brother's gf
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:05 (fourteen years ago) link
Whatevs. I'm picking your ass up sometime this week. I'll mow through palm trees and shit.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:09 (fourteen years ago) link
ha, okay. i have a car now tho, so no worries.
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:14 (fourteen years ago) link
Awesome. Let's meet for drinks then -- maybe in the Sunset area?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:16 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah that works
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:17 (fourteen years ago) link
Sunday all good?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:18 (fourteen years ago) link
sure
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:19 (fourteen years ago) link
I'll send you a message tomorrow -- if you don't respond well to my shit about Janelle Monae, it's over.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:22 (fourteen years ago) link
― RR, Sunday, 13 June 2010 04:14 (fourteen years ago) link
just checkin
hey, I went to tabes' fab reading last night but we forgot to take a shirtless pic together.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 13 June 2010 14:27 (fourteen years ago) link
So this guy messaged me on LOLkcupid and in the course of about 48 hours we talked on the website, talked on AIM, started texting each other, and got coffee in Philly. He thinks I'm way adorable or something and wants to do a dinner date. Omg.
― Sunny came home with emissions (Stevie D), Monday, 14 June 2010 01:30 (fourteen years ago) link
My problem is he's like way cute and I want to really like him but I don't think I'm immediately attracted to him? But I want to get to know him better.
― Sunny came home with emissions (Stevie D), Monday, 14 June 2010 01:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Awesome! Yeah, it happens enough on the internetz to keep typing one's credit card number every month (I met two of my best boyfriends online). Good luck, Stevie.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 14 June 2010 01:31 (fourteen years ago) link
I want to post a picture but that is v creepy
― Sunny came home with emissions (Stevie D), Monday, 14 June 2010 01:32 (fourteen years ago) link
I met and spent much of the day hanging with this cute artist guy from Colorado Springs yesterday. Not really sure which side he butters his bread on, but I have my suspicions.
― The Reverend, Monday, 14 June 2010 01:33 (fourteen years ago) link
Bun side.
― Sunny came home with emissions (Stevie D), Monday, 14 June 2010 01:34 (fourteen years ago) link
Buns side?
― The Reverend, Monday, 14 June 2010 01:55 (fourteen years ago) link
I never want to be in a relationship, but god help me if I spend another day utterly alone as I did on Saturday.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 14 June 2010 05:22 (fourteen years ago) link
"I never want to be in a relationship"
why not?
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Monday, 14 June 2010 14:26 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah, you're not allowed to be more extremist than I am.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 14 June 2010 16:03 (fourteen years ago) link
When I say "ever," I still mean "right now."
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 14 June 2010 17:13 (fourteen years ago) link
so for at least until tomorrow...
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 14 June 2010 17:27 (fourteen years ago) link
Went to a club/bar called Danny's in Bucktown on Saturday. DJ was okay, some poor transitioning between tracks. Mixed crowd but there were definitely some gay boys there, but it seemed like they all knew each other and I would have felt weird asserting myself. Maybe next time. :)
― corey, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 03:08 (fourteen years ago) link
oh this is Daruton for those who don't know
also, I just found my Hot or Not profile from 2005. Hahahaha.
― corey, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 03:13 (fourteen years ago) link
man, Chicago gay bars (except Big Chicks) are the worst.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 03:36 (fourteen years ago) link
I've been to Danny's! With deej.
― nakhchivan. nakhchivan. nakhchivan i wanna rock ya (The Reverend), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 03:53 (fourteen years ago) link
Great place. Not a gay bar, though.
― nakhchivan. nakhchivan. nakhchivan i wanna rock ya (The Reverend), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 03:54 (fourteen years ago) link
hit fannyschillin w/ deej at danny's
― Youve Beenexposed (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 06:08 (fourteen years ago) link
― nakhchivan. nakhchivan. nakhchivan i wanna rock ya (The Reverend), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:38 (fourteen years ago) link
My glasses have a scratch from when they fell on the dancefloor there :(
J0rdan and I hung out a few hours last night. Great guy!
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:58 (fourteen years ago) link
k so i signed up for okcupid back when it seemed like u all were and it was fun and i filled out a profile, did a couple of those tests (but they're kinda boring) and then pretty much forgot abt it. but just there a week ago two ppl added me as "favourites" (?) (the only other person to do this was Stevie D!) In my memory though i recognised that 1 of the guys might be this customer who I kinda got a weird sexual tension vibe w/ when he used to come to the shop but hes kinda stopped. Might not even be the same guy though, and he has no info on his profile except for photo and age?
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 22:48 (fourteen years ago) link
the other day okcupid sent me this email:
subject: we have data on your attractiveness
body:We are very pleased to report that you are in the top half of OkCupid's most attractive users. The scales recently tipped in your favor, and we thought you'd like to know.
How can we say this with confidence? We've tracked click-thrus on your photo and analyzed other people's reactions to you in QuickMatch and Quiver.
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 22:56 (fourteen years ago) link
"data on your attractiveness"
I can hear Prince intone this on 1999.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 22:57 (fourteen years ago) link
not looking forward to getting the attractiveness email. do you think they give you tips on improving though?
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 23:00 (fourteen years ago) link
anyway just emailed some guy off it, theres like eight ppl in my area so theres a helluva lot of arse sniffing
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 23:03 (fourteen years ago) link
ew that's a gross term
good for u though! go through with it!
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 23:03 (fourteen years ago) link
let's start a dating site called Arse Sniffing
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 16 June 2010 02:25 (thirteen years ago) link
I am considering going to the Folsom East thing -- haven't been since they started charging $10 for it --on Sunday.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 16 June 2010 17:31 (thirteen years ago) link
I got the attractiveness thing after posting a photo taken with a webcam. Shitty photo quality = hot, apparently.
― corey, Wednesday, 16 June 2010 23:55 (thirteen years ago) link
someone on okcupid called me ugly
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Thursday, 17 June 2010 03:10 (thirteen years ago) link
OH MY GOD is it this Sunday?? Fuck, I'm going to miss it for like a 4th year in a row. GUYS are you going to come visit me at NYC Pride Fest at SummerStage on saturday? Please?
Also wtf j03 are you serious??? They just said "you're ugly"?
― WHERE did Sandy Denton get the audacity to leave the dressing room w (Stevie D), Thursday, 17 June 2010 03:15 (thirteen years ago) link
I've essentially been called ugly/annoying as people I've messaged visit my page and never respond.
― corey, Thursday, 17 June 2010 03:15 (thirteen years ago) link
oh that happens all the time to me. But i mean don't you do it too if you're simply not interested?rather than send a msg and say "oh hey, it's cool that you like but I just don't find you attractive!"
― WHERE did Sandy Denton get the audacity to leave the dressing room w (Stevie D), Thursday, 17 June 2010 03:20 (thirteen years ago) link
context: he sent me an IM, i ignored it, i checked in the next day, he had written me more msgs while i was offline that were like "wtf, even ugly guys ignore me"
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Thursday, 17 June 2010 03:22 (thirteen years ago) link
ugh, that's awful. That site is the worst. Then again, they all are.
― evan's schlong: glorious (billy), Thursday, 17 June 2010 03:31 (thirteen years ago) link
it's also the only site i've had the slightest bit of luck on (in the sense that i actually have gone on dates because of it)
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Thursday, 17 June 2010 03:41 (thirteen years ago) link
donna what's yer username? I'm Darjee.
― corey, Thursday, 17 June 2010 03:42 (thirteen years ago) link
or, uh, date. singular.
corey i am xuxa_pitts, in tribute to my former DN here
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Thursday, 17 June 2010 03:44 (thirteen years ago) link
oh hey, haha! I was just looking at your profile. I just redownloaded the Analogue Bubblebaths, thanks for the unintentional reminder. :D
― corey, Thursday, 17 June 2010 03:55 (thirteen years ago) link
oh, anytime! (i love when songs' titles describe themselves)
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Thursday, 17 June 2010 04:18 (thirteen years ago) link
I can't believe you guys made me make a profile. :(
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 17 June 2010 04:37 (thirteen years ago) link
username?
― WHERE did Sandy Denton get the audacity to leave the dressing room w (Stevie D), Thursday, 17 June 2010 04:46 (thirteen years ago) link
ephenderson, but I swear I'm not going to use this thing
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 17 June 2010 04:52 (thirteen years ago) link
I've always found that the best stuff happens when you rarely do.
― WHERE did Sandy Denton get the audacity to leave the dressing room w (Stevie D), Thursday, 17 June 2010 04:53 (thirteen years ago) link
I love that answering a dozen questions lets me see who is 90% my enemy.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 17 June 2010 04:59 (thirteen years ago) link
Eric I've added you even if you aren't going to use this *coughyeahrightcough*.
― corey, Thursday, 17 June 2010 05:19 (thirteen years ago) link
Just added you, Steve and xuxa to my faves as well. I'm still old-fashioned or inexperienced enough to think any real prospects will be from people I just happen to meet IRL.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 17 June 2010 05:22 (thirteen years ago) link
That's pretty much what I've tried to accomplish while on there but it seems all people want to do is chat endlessly online and never follow up.
― corey, Thursday, 17 June 2010 05:35 (thirteen years ago) link
Turned chat off first thing. I hated that feature in FB and I don't need it on a site for ass.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 17 June 2010 05:43 (thirteen years ago) link
I hate fb chat but leave it on for some reason. Usually it's like, if I wanted to chat, I'd be signed onto IM.
― Tavarius Polk (The Reverend), Thursday, 17 June 2010 06:02 (thirteen years ago) link
I like it as it saves me from using three different programs to chat with people.
― corey, Thursday, 17 June 2010 06:06 (thirteen years ago) link
Last night on that site I chatted w/ someone I went out with last year; he had seen my profile and then off we went. It was so easy and fun and he is adorable that I wished it would've worked out. Kinda bittersweet end to the night.
― evan's schlong: glorious (billy), Thursday, 17 June 2010 15:05 (thirteen years ago) link
I only have opportunity to chat w/ Eric when he visits NY (not often enough). Can I entice you w/ the Brooklyn Xanadude party?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 17 June 2010 15:19 (thirteen years ago) link
Kinda feel like playing compare and contrast with my gay review on Slant and yours.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 17 June 2010 15:27 (thirteen years ago) link
what grumpy gays we are, eh? (actually I haven't had time to fully read yrs yet)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 17 June 2010 15:50 (thirteen years ago) link
No snark intended, just thought it would be interesting to compare who we're laying blame on.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 17 June 2010 16:01 (thirteen years ago) link
We could let Tape Store do it!
I actually went easier on the gay political class than I intended to. I'm quite sick of them and their lockstep domesticity.
If I see Showgirls this weekend, then I can read yr really gay review:
http://www.clearviewcinemas.com/classics/classics-chelsea.shtml
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 17 June 2010 16:15 (thirteen years ago) link
woah! my tumblr was mentioned in an interview with christopher schulz (of PINUPS). pretty neat to be noticed for something i do in my idle time tbh.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 17 June 2010 20:26 (thirteen years ago) link
I mentioned your tumblr in my review of Jose Muñoz's new book "Cruising Utopia: The Then and There of Queer Futurity" for Criticism magazine, elmo. It doesn't come out for a few more months tho.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Thursday, 17 June 2010 20:28 (thirteen years ago) link
!!
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 17 June 2010 20:34 (thirteen years ago) link
that's pretty awesome, dr3w, thank you! i'd love to read your review once it's published, but until then, is the book worth the read? looks interesting
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 17 June 2010 20:47 (thirteen years ago) link
my broker told me to sell queer futurities.
*rimshot*
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 17 June 2010 22:00 (thirteen years ago) link
futilities more like
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 17 June 2010 22:02 (thirteen years ago) link
HI GAYZ
nice to see morbz last saturday. i've been really busy with work and hanging out and sleeping with m4tt.... um, you are all awesome?
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 18 June 2010 03:49 (thirteen years ago) link
hi!
the fuck, i can't figure out how to IM on OKCUPID can somebody tell me please
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 18 June 2010 03:52 (thirteen years ago) link
:/
I got messaged on OKC by a guy with a goatee. Not interested.
― ban grocery bagger (The Reverend), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:02 (thirteen years ago) link
That's a firm rule? You react like it's a guy w/ a goat.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:04 (thirteen years ago) link
i am all awesome! went to look for an apartment in toronto and found a few possibilities (nothing certain) but most of them are in/close to the sort of artsy sort of queer district around ossington/landsdowne and Queen West. found a queer-ish dive bar with a cute-ish bartender and not one but TWO cafes that make decent coffee.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 18 June 2010 04:05 (thirteen years ago) link
Still don't have an OKC account (or Manhunt. or DList which is big [among people I know/sleep with these days], apparently.). Should overcome my skeeved-out-ness one of these days.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 18 June 2010 04:07 (thirteen years ago) link
Morbs, I just find them tremendously unattractive 95% of the time. (I wear one myself sometimes, but I don't assume everyone has the same quarks of taste as me.)
― ban grocery bagger (The Reverend), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:08 (thirteen years ago) link
I haven't actually managed to fill out a profile, mostly cause I hate writing about myself.
― ban grocery bagger (The Reverend), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:09 (thirteen years ago) link
I'd might be kinda intrigued by a guy with a goat tbh.
― ban grocery bagger (The Reverend), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:10 (thirteen years ago) link
goats > goatees imo
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:44 (thirteen years ago) link
goatees are almost as bad as cargo shorts imo
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:46 (thirteen years ago) link
oouf everyone, I think they are kinda hot imo. Also Fantastic Man just did a bit on cargo shorts, so I guess they are not unfashionable anymore.
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:50 (thirteen years ago) link
I have no shorts I'd be willing to wear outside of the house.
― Whole Foods Employee Typecasting Computer (corey), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:54 (thirteen years ago) link
god i love shorts
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:55 (thirteen years ago) link
all my shorts used to be jeans
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:57 (thirteen years ago) link
i just found out recently that the denim cutoff is like a gay staple who knew
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:57 (thirteen years ago) link
i made a great pair of shorts out of navy pants
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 18 June 2010 04:58 (thirteen years ago) link
xp is it?? I've never seen any other gays with them. Except hipstery ones.
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Friday, 18 June 2010 05:09 (thirteen years ago) link
I have a pair of pink & orange checked golf shorts that I love. I like to wear them with a clashing top. Also a pair of plain white dickey shorts that I like to wear with all white.
― ban grocery bagger (The Reverend), Friday, 18 June 2010 08:21 (thirteen years ago) link
happy Friday, gays!
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 18 June 2010 11:20 (thirteen years ago) link
I figure denim cutoffs will work at Folsom East.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 18 June 2010 11:35 (thirteen years ago) link
Happy Friday to you, Alfred!
― ban grocery bagger (The Reverend), Friday, 18 June 2010 15:05 (thirteen years ago) link
someone was saying they got an email like this before?
We are very pleased to report that you are in the top half of OkCupid's most attractive users. The scales recently tipped in your favor, and we thought you'd like to know.How can we say this with confidence? We've tracked click-thrus on your photo and analyzed other people's reactions to you in QuickMatch and Quiver.. . .Your new elite status comes with one important privilege:You will now see more attractive people in your match results. This new status won't affect your actual match percentages, which are still based purely on your answers and desired match's answers. But the people we recommend will be more attractive. Also! You'll be shown to more attractive people in their match results.
How can we say this with confidence? We've tracked click-thrus on your photo and analyzed other people's reactions to you in QuickMatch and Quiver.. . .
Your new elite status comes with one important privilege:You will now see more attractive people in your match results.
This new status won't affect your actual match percentages, which are still based purely on your answers and desired match's answers. But the people we recommend will be more attractive. Also! You'll be shown to more attractive people in their match results.
― uppers epilepsy sh@kedown (The Reverend), Friday, 18 June 2010 21:40 (thirteen years ago) link
I still can't get around to the idea of filling out a profile. I have no idea what I'd say.
― uppers epilepsy sh@kedown (The Reverend), Friday, 18 June 2010 21:46 (thirteen years ago) link
well im in the bottom 50% then
― plax (ico), Friday, 18 June 2010 22:03 (thirteen years ago) link
bad choice of words maybe
scopin out allayur profiles btw
― plax (ico), Friday, 18 June 2010 22:22 (thirteen years ago) link
I feel like I'm filling out the world's most bizarre job application. u_u
― uppers epilepsy sh@kedown (The Reverend), Friday, 18 June 2010 22:24 (thirteen years ago) link
a BLOW JOB APPLICATION AMIRITE!?
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Friday, 18 June 2010 22:26 (thirteen years ago) link
stop
― uppers epilepsy sh@kedown (The Reverend), Friday, 18 June 2010 22:37 (thirteen years ago) link
i already did!
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Friday, 18 June 2010 22:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Steve, there's a summer Furball next Friday (?) if that will compensate.
But if you or anyone else wants to go to the Pinups mag party in Greenpoint tomw night, it's 2-for-1 drinks from 10-11, and Eugene is a good DJ.
http://pinupsmag.com/issue12launch.htm
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 19 June 2010 01:42 (thirteen years ago) link
I just made some cut-offs this afternoon because I was tired of the HUGE hole in the knee of my jeans, but they are uneven. Gotta fix them.
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 19 June 2010 02:56 (thirteen years ago) link
pictures, plz
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 19 June 2010 02:56 (thirteen years ago) link
No camera. I'll get rrrobyn to take some tomorrow at fringefest. Actually, I will borrow her camera to surreptitiously take pictures of the cuet summer boys of montreal at fringefest.
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 19 June 2010 03:00 (thirteen years ago) link
Wow, I'm in nyc tomorrow and have always wanted to go to a pinups party....!!!
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Saturday, 19 June 2010 04:24 (thirteen years ago) link
Wait OMG it's at Blackout?? That's where Elmo and I began our night of debauchery post-Metrop when we all met up that one time.
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Saturday, 19 June 2010 04:31 (thirteen years ago) link
ah I've never been there
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 19 June 2010 07:23 (thirteen years ago) link
i was at blackout tonight at a queer librarian party
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Saturday, 19 June 2010 07:50 (thirteen years ago) link
I saw that! They're having quite a weekend over there.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 19 June 2010 07:52 (thirteen years ago) link
it was mostly fun, except i've come home minus my bag >:(
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Saturday, 19 June 2010 07:53 (thirteen years ago) link
I actually went out to a gay night tonight. It was mostly full of dykes and bears, tho. Ugh. I have a bandana silk-screened with an image of Grace Jones and the words "MENZ ROOM" to show for it, so not a total loss. I was disappointed to see that it was red after I left and not orange as it looked in the club. Makes it a bit more complex for me to wear.
― uppers epilepsy sh@kedown (The Reverend), Saturday, 19 June 2010 08:44 (thirteen years ago) link
And just simply not the color I wanted. It's still awesome tho. I'll post a pic when I can.
Let's just appreciate the strangeness of this, shall we? It's a message/ad/who knows what from the LCBO which is the gov't-run chain of Liquor stores in Ontario (you can't sell hard liquor in normal stores in Ontario) that recently started making the rounds (in I presume print ads or something?).
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__XCWUd8FFjQ/TBjnd9KNQEI/AAAAAAAAKTM/j6ky1Veeb8k/s1600/LCBO-GayPride.jpg
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 19 June 2010 11:45 (thirteen years ago) link
The colors remind me of a Christian pamphlet.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 19 June 2010 12:16 (thirteen years ago) link
ah, marketed queerness
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 19 June 2010 13:45 (thirteen years ago) link
Hey donna I was gonna go to that thing, how was it?
And yeah, is Blackout the new thing, gay and straight alike? I feel like I've been invited to six different events there in the past few weeks.
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Saturday, 19 June 2010 14:13 (thirteen years ago) link
i enjoyed it, nice mixture of gays and lesbians which i feel like i never see here (scales tipped increasingly toward the latter as the night went on). i'll be stopping by again today to see if anyone found my lol tote bag, not sure i'll stay for the pinups thing tho
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Saturday, 19 June 2010 16:35 (thirteen years ago) link
I either go bagless or hold onto mine like a boytoy.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 19 June 2010 18:24 (thirteen years ago) link
I remove anything valuable or important from my bag before I go out and then don't worry much about it.
― uppers epilepsy sh@kedown (The Reverend), Saturday, 19 June 2010 18:32 (thirteen years ago) link
i refuse to believe that someone took it, seeing as these are gay librarians and there was a library book in my bag and we all of us know that incurring fines on lost books is way NAGL, but this also wouldn't be the first time this happened to me :(
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Saturday, 19 June 2010 19:24 (thirteen years ago) link
These things look like such a blast when you look at photos and then when you get there you realize everyone is already talking to somebody else. How do I shot gay bar?
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Sunday, 20 June 2010 17:24 (thirteen years ago) link
h8 it when people steal your bag. it's happened to me a couple of times in pubs when i tipsily chuck it over with a pile of coats and bags, get drunk and mingle and move around and then suddenly realise it's not there. never anything properly valuable in it except fucking GLASSES, which are so damn expensive to replace, so the thieves wouldn't even benefit.
it's much worse for girls who all keep shit like purses, cash, keys, ipods in their bags by default tho.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Sunday, 20 June 2010 18:36 (thirteen years ago) link
well dr got his bag back. I am trying to figure out where to put my stuff if I go to Folsom St East, uh, stripped down.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 20 June 2010 18:42 (thirteen years ago) link
Curses, summer wardrobe! You don't have enough pockets!
― the soul of the avocado escapes as soon as you open it (Laurel), Sunday, 20 June 2010 18:46 (thirteen years ago) link
or perhaps, any.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 20 June 2010 18:51 (thirteen years ago) link
"summer wardrobe" "pockets" - must be euphemisms for something....
― jed_, Sunday, 20 June 2010 21:38 (thirteen years ago) link
Took some friends to Ikea yesterday and it took us about an hour just to get out of Chicago with all the Puerto Rico Day madness. Also, I got sick of not having shorts and made some cutoffs!
http://s188.photobucket.com/albums/z245/tapiola/?action=view¤t=Photo7-1.jpg
― Miles "Tails" Davis (Daruton), Sunday, 20 June 2010 22:54 (thirteen years ago) link
Oops, my old name was still logged in on this computer.
― Whole Foods Employee Typecasting Computer (corey), Sunday, 20 June 2010 22:56 (thirteen years ago) link
photo evidence of said cutoffs:
― Whole Foods Employee Typecasting Computer (corey), Sunday, 20 June 2010 22:58 (thirteen years ago) link
FFfff, once more: http://i188.photobucket.com/albums/z245/tapiola/Photo7-1.jpg
― Whole Foods Employee Typecasting Computer (corey), Sunday, 20 June 2010 23:12 (thirteen years ago) link
ahem me and my living room:
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs104.snc4/35539_544677824154_4302681_31902495_1172251_n.jpg
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 21 June 2010 01:18 (thirteen years ago) link
― Whole Foods Employee Typecasting Computer (corey), Monday, 21 June 2010 02:16 (thirteen years ago) link
u guys are funny and both look adorable and i want to take u home to smoke a join and drink a corona with :P
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Monday, 21 June 2010 02:17 (thirteen years ago) link
*joint
PS corey that outfit is smokin yo
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Monday, 21 June 2010 02:18 (thirteen years ago) link
Well, I spent 2 hrs at Folsom East. I had no idea the subs-on-a-leash had such sophisticated doggie masks now.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 21 June 2010 02:33 (thirteen years ago) link
Wish I could've gone! Guys I'm getting more and more frustrated with "gay pride"/whatever the fuck gay is supposed to mean to heteros/etc. I think I'm going to join the Gay Shame movement.
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Monday, 21 June 2010 03:18 (thirteen years ago) link
i need to figure out where in my apt to put up that lifesize portrait of guillermo diaz before my (straight) roommates get home...
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Monday, 21 June 2010 03:23 (thirteen years ago) link
I just want to read mid-century German authors and listen to music by dead Europeans. Where's my movement?
― Whole Foods Employee Typecasting Computer (corey), Monday, 21 June 2010 03:25 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh wait that last question could be interpreted wrongly.
is someone stopping you?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 21 June 2010 03:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Myself, maybe.
― Whole Foods Employee Typecasting Computer (corey), Monday, 21 June 2010 03:41 (thirteen years ago) link
tabes, i wish i had chest hair like that. sometimes. i have just like 3 long, scraggly hairs around each nipple, and like 3 right in the center.
― The Reverend, Monday, 21 June 2010 05:52 (thirteen years ago) link
having no gay friends here to go to pride with was major bummerz btw :(
― The Reverend, Monday, 21 June 2010 05:53 (thirteen years ago) link
having no gay friends here to go to pride with was major bummerz btw :(― The Reverend, Monday, June 21, 2010 1:53 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark
― The Reverend, Monday, June 21, 2010 1:53 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark
fixed
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Monday, 21 June 2010 07:41 (thirteen years ago) link
I had tons of fun last year.
― The Reverend, Monday, 21 June 2010 07:58 (thirteen years ago) link
And I never get to do anything gay anymore, cause no gay friends, etc. Friday, I went to a gay club for the second time in the almost a year I've been here.
― The Reverend, Monday, 21 June 2010 08:00 (thirteen years ago) link
have i posted this before? can i just...
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v369/colinohara/89293335_746ec3f97c_o.jpg
― jed_, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 01:51 (thirteen years ago) link
Pretty much the only "anything gay" worth doing is sex.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 02:13 (thirteen years ago) link
I haven't done "gay" "sex" in over a year.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 05:50 (thirteen years ago) link
Goddamn, it's been since September that I got laid at all.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 05:51 (thirteen years ago) link
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, June 22, 2010 2:13 AM (6 hours ago) Bookmark
lol
i've never been to any pride. the london one clashes with the wimbledon women's final every year. i mean, getting excited about women's tennis is pretty gay already, so i like to think i'm still doing my bit.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 08:24 (thirteen years ago) link
Ha.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 08:28 (thirteen years ago) link
Having gay friends has been, in my experience, about a thousand times more rewarding in the long term than having gay sex.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 11:28 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm inclined to agree. Except, as of now, I have neither. I do generally value friends more than sex anyway.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 19:16 (thirteen years ago) link
Are you going to bars looking for friends? Cause that might not work out quite so well.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 19:25 (thirteen years ago) link
I did mention, I think, that I've only been to gay bars twice since I've been in Portland, so that's a firm no. I'm just really not meeting any gay dudes over the course of my normal life. Every time I meet someone interesting who I think might be gay, we start hanging out and soon enough he mentions his girlfriend.
Anyway, for all my grousing, I have a date of sorts today with a guy from OKC. I'm not really sure how attracted to him I am, but as far as personality and interests, we are like sides of a coin, so I'm excited about this.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:09 (thirteen years ago) link
I actually have at least 2 good friends I met in bars (and I didn't sleep w/ either of them).
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:10 (thirteen years ago) link
Here's something I don't understand: Rob Lowe.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:11 (thirteen years ago) link
I've spent probably 5-6 hours over the past two days chatting with this guy.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:11 (thirteen years ago) link
I met my three best gay friends at work, online (he was my last boyfriend and we still occasionally finagle), and as rock critics, respectively. It's not easy, though. Crude remarks about Jake or the prep standing at the bar are tolerated but not reciprocated by my straight crew.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:15 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm really not one to make crude remarks, at least not to people who aren't close friends. I'm generally pretty mild-mannered irl.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:16 (thirteen years ago) link
other gay men dont really like me that much?
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:17 (thirteen years ago) link
:( plax
My two close gay friends I had back home, I both met through school. One has since moved to New York.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:18 (thirteen years ago) link
ditto I think xp to plax
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:19 (thirteen years ago) link
as i've said before, i have found myself guilty of putting "other gay man" in this category by themselves, so that in my mind, they don't like me or i don't like them or something. but i think it's like a girl and other girls thing. at least for me, it doesn't always have to be as comparative or black and white as it is in my head.
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:30 (thirteen years ago) link
i just seem to elicit this weird suspicious attitude from other gays idk
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:32 (thirteen years ago) link
they are suspicious because YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:35 (thirteen years ago) link
well, are you suspicious of them?
J0rdan and I had a similar chat last week. Basically if you were born after 1985 or came out during that period you're more comfortable with straights than with gays, which leads to the expected complications when you're discovering your sexuality.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:37 (thirteen years ago) link
maybe i dont realise i am suspicious, but i always get called out for weird shit like not really being gay (i dont know how to respond to this btw, i re-heally dont think i code as super-straight by any means, and if its not that I have no idea)
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:39 (thirteen years ago) link
i always get called out for weird shit like not really being gay
I hear that line at least once a week -- maybe these people are right!
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:42 (thirteen years ago) link
srsly tho what is the correct answer to that?
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:45 (thirteen years ago) link
maybe they don't like you because they think you think they don't like you or maybe yr just projecting. possibly there's something slightly narcissistic about thinking that all other gay men don't like you - all the ones here like you so why would irl be the opposite?
― jed_, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:46 (thirteen years ago) link
well, there's one sure way to show 'em
― kenny logins (goole), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:46 (thirteen years ago) link
Being "gay" means "I'm attracted to men." Anything else is ancillary.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:46 (thirteen years ago) link
what i mean is that maybe you give out a "gay guys don't like me" vibe.
― jed_, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:48 (thirteen years ago) link
That's even worse for me, because I don't identify as gay-qua-gay. But fuck the whole idea of there being one right way to be gay anyway.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:48 (thirteen years ago) link
xp im not saying thats an unfair assumption, its just one i dont really know how to get around i guess
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:49 (thirteen years ago) link
To be totally honest, I think I have thes suspicion-of-gays thing going on. I guess I feel like I have so little in common with most of the gay men I meet, it's like why bother.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:52 (thirteen years ago) link
Perhaps you have so little in common w/ most people! Fishing for quality means harder work, alas.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:54 (thirteen years ago) link
i don't know, alfred, i know a lot of gay guys born after 1985 that get a long with a lot of gay people. you and jordan are particularly close with a lot of straight people.
also, i think i was trying to get at what jed is saying -- there seems to be a lot of competition between gay people. the whole "i'm not THAT gay" thing which we've talked about before in light of madonna fandom and the like plays some part in this conversation, i think.
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:56 (thirteen years ago) link
not that i'm trying to take anything away from rev and plax's experiences, at all - i'm just relating my own experiences to this conversation. i still have a kneejerk reaction around gay pride time of year, or around a lot of gaga fans or whatever, but now it's a more nuanced reaction because i have befriended more gay people over the years and i'm finding i have a great time with them.
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:57 (thirteen years ago) link
xxp I've never had any problem meeting straight guys I have things in common with though.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:58 (thirteen years ago) link
Yep.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 21:59 (thirteen years ago) link
i think maybe its partly due to never having had any gay friends really that i kindof have a pedestal thing going on too though.
yeah, i mean the "i'm not that gay" thing really bothers me and i'd hate to think i was playing into that narrative in some way. I think maybe that growing up where i have I didn't come into contact with any gays at all and i kindof built my own idea of what it meant.
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:00 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, i think SO much depends on location, tbh.
i mean, to speak in simplistic terms, there might be a lot of ilx-type gay guys out there that we are hesitant to meet bc of outer appearances, or bc of the groups they hang with, or something. looks can be very deceiving.
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:01 (thirteen years ago) link
i dont really tend to meet a lot of people in gen at all that i have "anything in common with" but i still have friends so i don't think thats the criteria for my case anyway
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:02 (thirteen years ago) link
rev otm
― kaká flocká flame (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:06 (thirteen years ago) link
plaxico, you don't have any reason to automatically assume that gays don't like you, you are well liked here as i'm sure you are irl but other people can be very sensitive to assumptions you make about them even when you don't vocalise them, obv.
i used to start with an "other people don't like me" assumption (i had low self esteem mixed with highly strung!) which i kind of managed to turn around but then i split up with my man last month and he kind of character assassinated me during the break up and told me i was too open and friendly with people and that he found it embarrassing. for a shy person whose way of coping with it is to (unconsciously) overcompensate for his shyness by being sometimes a little too gregarious was kind of a low-blow.
― jed_, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:07 (thirteen years ago) link
sorry that's really garbled, anyway he acted like a cunt about it.
― jed_, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:08 (thirteen years ago) link
jed, fwiw, i definitely felt like when i was fixated on the "i don't get along with other gay guys" mentality, people noticed it. it was definitely not overt -- i'm way too self-aware for that, but however subtle, i do believe that kind of vibe comes across just a bit.
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:10 (thirteen years ago) link
(not that i think he's a cunt he just upset me) xpost
― jed_, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:10 (thirteen years ago) link
and jed, that is a really low blow. i do the same kind of thing bc of an inherent shyness, and i'm really sorry to hear you went thru so much trouble with him :(
that does sound pretty horrible alright. but yeah i mean i tend to have the opposite problem. a lot of my friends have this weird thing about talking about how I am a difficult person to become friends with (this is apparently a really great way of affirming our friendship because it overcomes the barrier of me being uh, a standoffish dick). and that obviously does play a major thing, but I do frequently get accused of very strange ulterior motives by other gays and it is something that has never happened to me with straight people (except for one girl who told me quite a lot, usually in conversation with my boyfriend at the time, that i was just faking it)
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:14 (thirteen years ago) link
thanks! he was probably correct, essentially, but it's hard to find a middle ground when yr natural tendency is to back off from people because they may not like you.
but anyway, sorry, enough about me.
― jed_, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:17 (thirteen years ago) link
My own "gays don't like me" thing is more just general insecurity. coupled with that post-85 syndrome Alfred talks about.
And fwiw jed I did not think you were overbearing at all when I met you! (nor the opposite, either)
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:18 (thirteen years ago) link
thanks joe!
― jed_, Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:19 (thirteen years ago) link
plaxico i get the same thing (ulterior motives attributed to me) to the point where i doubted every thing i said / did / thought for a while. but then i have my own insecurities i project onto other gays so what jed and surm are saying ring pretty true for me. it's hard though! socializing, in a healthy way, especially when you're used to it being part of a negative feedback loop.
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:30 (thirteen years ago) link
hi gays
what happened in 1985? i was 4, and sorta out of it, culturally
― flapjackin (gbx), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:56 (thirteen years ago) link
"Oh Sheila" hit #1.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:57 (thirteen years ago) link
best year ever?????????????????
― The Black Keys - white boys can still throw down (crüt), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 22:58 (thirteen years ago) link
that song rules
― flapjackin (gbx), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 23:03 (thirteen years ago) link
how many ppl actually lurk this thread?
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 23:04 (thirteen years ago) link
table is the table's current male friend is a really awesome guy and they are super cute together.
― i don't know whether it's really popular in Canada as well (sarahel), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 23:21 (thirteen years ago) link
^fact
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 23:29 (thirteen years ago) link
yay!
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 23:42 (thirteen years ago) link
also Oh Sheila hitting no. 1 could make any year, imo
should i feel embarrassed as a straight female for outing myself as a gay thread lurker?
― i don't know whether it's really popular in Canada as well (sarahel), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 23:46 (thirteen years ago) link
loll it's the shirtless edition anything goes
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 23:46 (thirteen years ago) link
http://images2.layoutsparks.com/1/125628/happy-bunny-pink-glitter.gif
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 23:57 (thirteen years ago) link
(me shirtless, obv)
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Tuesday, 22 June 2010 23:59 (thirteen years ago) link
^big IRL lol.
I have v little gay friends. Actually, my closest gay friends are more or less the people from this thread that I've befriended online/IRL and also a few older (40+) gay men. I toooootally feel like I get the "not gay enough" vibe from other gay men and just largely feel like I don't have enough in common with them or something. I mean I have no qualms with them and wish I could be their friends but all the ones I've met don't seem to find me interesting enough.
Plax you should move to NYC and become talk of the town.
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 00:23 (thirteen years ago) link
I was out of college in '85 and barely remember "Oh Sheila."
When are we gonna get over this "gay enough" stuff? It's all become-commodified-mainstream-gay stuff. I love cock and I'm a lousy dresser!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 00:51 (thirteen years ago) link
LOL!
― jed_, Wednesday, 23 June 2010 00:57 (thirteen years ago) link
Hi guys! I'm more of a lurker these days. :( All I do is work lately.
I'm a lousy dresser
I am so with you on that.
― Suddenly Snoozin' (lou), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 01:00 (thirteen years ago) link
don't believe you tbh
― jed_, Wednesday, 23 June 2010 01:02 (thirteen years ago) link
My friend's sister recently asked me "Are you sure you're gay?" after I said I didn't like Glee or Lady Gaga. I said, "I'm way too good at sucking dick to not be gay." What a wasted talent that would be, otherwise. Not braggin', just sayin'.
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 01:07 (thirteen years ago) link
xpost
Well, I guess it's hard to dress offensively bad when you only wear the plainest clothes possible. :)
So my boss is going to let me work in our NYC office for a while if I can find a good place to sublet.
― Suddenly Snoozin' (lou), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 01:10 (thirteen years ago) link
― plax (ico), Tuesday, June 22, 2010 7:04 PM (2 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
i do. i think i posted about my so-called life once but mostly i lurk. hello though!
― horseshoe, Wednesday, 23 June 2010 01:11 (thirteen years ago) link
i'd like a so-called life
― jed_, Wednesday, 23 June 2010 01:24 (thirteen years ago) link
I have v little gay friends.
What's wrong with that?
http://i41.tinypic.com/2cr518o.jpg
― Kevin John Bozelka, Wednesday, 23 June 2010 01:26 (thirteen years ago) link
so jed, y'all are off-again atm?
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 01:27 (thirteen years ago) link
oh yes and there's no desire to go back tbh.
― jed_, Wednesday, 23 June 2010 01:34 (thirteen years ago) link
o wow, i'm sorry darlin. i hope you're taking good care of yourself.
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 01:48 (thirteen years ago) link
So my date went pretty well, but for some reason I am way more nervous now than I was before it.
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 23 June 2010 04:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Catching up.
Don't be afraid to feel, Rev!
Sorry to hear about the off-again, jed.
As to the post-85 thing, now I feel old, because I def feel like I have more than my share of gay friends. So clearly I was born before. Or something.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 04:12 (thirteen years ago) link
rev i always find i am more nervous if something is actually good enough to warrant it. it's a good sign!
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 05:12 (thirteen years ago) link
nervousness after a date's gone well >>>> boredom and disillusionment after a date's gone badly
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 05:53 (thirteen years ago) link
i totally get the "not gay enough" vibe off a lot of gay men (and GIRLS too, bizarrely - only a few, but the kind of fag-haggy girls one comes across a lot in the entertainment industry), which is odd given that most of my straight friends would probably consider me pretty gay - it's kind of like being caught in the middle in terms of stereotypes? i mean, it's not as if i can think of anything i'd need specifically gay friends in order to do, though.
the last date i went on, we met at a mariah carey album playback (which...lol, i guess) and got on super-well there, then it turned out over a meal (in a shitty chain restaurant! ugh why do i let anyone else choose where to eat ever, so many quality cheap places in london, there should never be any need to go somewhere like that) that he was one of those perma-bitchy, super-prejudiced types who kept calling women "sluts" every five seconds. really unpleasant to sit through. and then despite the fact that we'd originally bonded over r&b i got some real race issues vibes off him when it came to, like, poor black people, and this was confirmed when he used the actual phrase "black council estate trolls", at which point i neeeeearly just got up and left. this is why i hate gay men sometimes.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 06:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Fag hags are the most disgusting savages on Earth imo. Luckily my bisexuality more or less precludes me from them.
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 23 June 2010 06:09 (thirteen years ago) link
Btw, thanks for the kind words, guys. Just got done chatting with this guy again and we might see each other tomorrow, too!
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 23 June 2010 06:11 (thirteen years ago) link
xxp for a v long time I mistakenly assumed all gay men were, like, feminists, and would get confused/upset when gay men would say weird sexist or generally unintelligent things about women. Well, I get upset when everyone does it but I thought gay men knew better.
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 06:19 (thirteen years ago) link
Nah, gay men are still misogynists. Just a more refined version.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 06:20 (thirteen years ago) link
Gay men who call women "cunts" as a term of affection are just like...man, fuckin' knock it off
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 13:47 (thirteen years ago) link
What about the ones who actually mean it? (i.e. in reference to, say, Ann Coulter)
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 13:51 (thirteen years ago) link
Ramz is OTM. Congrats on your date, Rev.
Re: the "not gay enough" thing- I guess I get this a little from my bf's group of friends. I get the feeling it's more that they think I'm "weird" in general though (artsy-fartsy stoner with social anxiety), and I tend to avoid them pretty frequently as a result.
But then I have a handful of gay friends of my own where this isn't a problem at all.
Fag hags are the most disgusting savages on Earth imo.Wait, how are we defining "fag hag" exactly? Someone who isn't just friends with gays but latches on in a certain way?
― big jeans (lou), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 14:59 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah the whole androphilia-misogyny thing gets really weird, and i will totally cop to some of that bad behavior in my past. for me it had to do with the fact that i was raised with my older brother with my dad as the primary caregiver, then later had 5 more little brothers. i didn't really "get" "women" on a fundamental level for a long time -- meaning i was oblivious to my privileges as a dude.
my boyfriend, otoh, was raised "in the red tent," as he says, so i've gained some perpective in that regard, though i can still be stupid about it from time to time.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 15:03 (thirteen years ago) link
I think FH is kind of an awful term. I have at least one female friend who gravitates (somewhat) to gay men, but it's not an obsessive "oh-I'm-a-gay-man-on-the-inside" thing.
"Fruit fly" is much nicer.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 15:04 (thirteen years ago) link
gay men and women: it's complicated!
i wonder if "fag hags" are some kind of extension of gay diva worship, inasmuch as they allow gay dudes to take on the diva role themselves.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 15:18 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, I'm still close with my high school girlfriend. She has always had tons of gay friends, but she definitely has her own thing going on, too. Like her life doesn't revolve around gays. And it seems more like the gays flock to her than the other way around.
― big jeans (lou), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 15:22 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm hoping the change in attitudes will make the concept of a FH redundant.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 15:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Wouldn't mind being in with a few more fag stags, tbh.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 15:30 (thirteen years ago) link
the woman I described above once expressed admiration for the way I act like 'John Wayne' lol
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 23 June 2010 15:31 (thirteen years ago) link
This, in the name of Pride Month ...
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1371/4729588728_d43ca76f29.jpg
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 04:46 (thirteen years ago) link
i just...
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Thursday, 24 June 2010 05:02 (thirteen years ago) link
i can't even.
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Thursday, 24 June 2010 05:03 (thirteen years ago) link
Meh, I think I look more or less like Herbie Mann's Push Push album cover, but whatev.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 05:38 (thirteen years ago) link
(failing to see how this is a bad thing?) (also you've got quite a pair in that corner up there)
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Thursday, 24 June 2010 05:42 (thirteen years ago) link
verrry... nice
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 24 June 2010 11:44 (thirteen years ago) link
looking good, Eric!
― jed_, Thursday, 24 June 2010 12:10 (thirteen years ago) link
echoing sentiments and saying HOTTT, Eric. And I have way too many fag stags, come to NYC and take them.
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Thursday, 24 June 2010 13:23 (thirteen years ago) link
you've got quite a pair in that corner up there
Haha, yeah, I def cropped to keep those (ceiling fan cords) in the frame.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 13:27 (thirteen years ago) link
Do I see a DVD copy of Three Men and a Baby in the upper righthand corner?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 24 June 2010 13:29 (thirteen years ago) link
If the three men are Bradley Cooper, Ed Helms and Zach Galifianakis.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 13:47 (thirteen years ago) link
You definitely have June nailed down in the 2011 online film crix calendar.
So is all that from rockclimbing and piano?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 24 June 2010 13:53 (thirteen years ago) link
"all that" hah ... I'm still frustrated that I've hit such a plateau and haven't gotten any real bulk, but I also don't want to, say, buy a tub of protein powder
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 13:59 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh, and as for the calendar, I got pushed out by Gene Shalit.
http://www.hollywoodbitchslap.com/images/criticwatch/criticwatch_shalit.jpg
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 14:08 (thirteen years ago) link
you have as much as you need, imho. xp
It's OK, the lab refused to print Harry Knowles' shot.
So my gay pride weekend: Mets and 7 hours of Judy in A Star is Born
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 24 June 2010 14:10 (thirteen years ago) link
Is that movie now longer than Satantango?
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 14:22 (thirteen years ago) link
no, 4 hrs of supplements.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 24 June 2010 14:33 (thirteen years ago) link
eric's photo has inspired me to go to the gym today!
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Thursday, 24 June 2010 14:52 (thirteen years ago) link
you look hot E
still waiting for ti@rnan's foto op
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Thursday, 24 June 2010 15:00 (thirteen years ago) link
I am beyond that kinda inspiration, unless walking through 90-degree heat for a slice of pizza counts as a workout.
xp
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 24 June 2010 15:01 (thirteen years ago) link
i feel bad that i was the first person to post a shirtless pic but then everyone went on to post like, actual, photos where you can tell what's going on, so now i'm gonna post one
― ripe dick clark (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 18:10 (thirteen years ago) link
my flexing is tongue and cheek
http://i48.tinypic.com/241a3yo.jpg
― ripe dick clark (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 18:12 (thirteen years ago) link
aw!
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Thursday, 24 June 2010 18:14 (thirteen years ago) link
The Passion of J0rdan
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 24 June 2010 18:14 (thirteen years ago) link
this thread is awesome
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Thursday, 24 June 2010 18:15 (thirteen years ago) link
it is the best thread on ilx, imo
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Thursday, 24 June 2010 18:15 (thirteen years ago) link
after the U.S. politics thread, of course.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 24 June 2010 18:16 (thirteen years ago) link
Awes!
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 18:16 (thirteen years ago) link
tempted to call the next thread everybody take off your pants
― plax (ico), Thursday, 24 June 2010 18:50 (thirteen years ago) link
The thread that keeps on giving.
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Thursday, 24 June 2010 19:07 (thirteen years ago) link
billy i see u on manhunt a lot
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Thursday, 24 June 2010 19:07 (thirteen years ago) link
I feel like I'm never on it, or maybe we're on it at the same time. That site makes me sad a lot, I dunno.
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Thursday, 24 June 2010 19:11 (thirteen years ago) link
The thread that keeps on giving receiving.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 24 June 2010 19:13 (thirteen years ago) link
er giving
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Thursday, 24 June 2010 19:14 (thirteen years ago) link
It's versatile, and I like that.
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Thursday, 24 June 2010 19:14 (thirteen years ago) link
Be grateful I have no camera or I wd offer you skinny/toned ppl an alternative-body image
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 24 June 2010 19:24 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.smileyland.com/shop_images/Temporary_Tattoo.jpg
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Thursday, 24 June 2010 19:28 (thirteen years ago) link
Thread could probably stand a few more alternative body images.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 19:30 (thirteen years ago) link
They're over here:
Girls, its summer 2010 so... EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SKIRTS
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 24 June 2010 20:05 (thirteen years ago) link
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v369/colinohara/Photo331.jpg
oh, what the hell.
― jed_, Thursday, 24 June 2010 20:31 (thirteen years ago) link
btw it took 20 pics before i got a decent one.
http://media.bigoo.ws/content/glitter/text_miscellaneous_2/miscellaneous2_66.gif
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Thursday, 24 June 2010 20:36 (thirteen years ago) link
<3 I'm so glad I may or may not have opened the floodgates.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 20:54 (thirteen years ago) link
(Sorry, that sounded incredibly solipsistic.)
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 20:55 (thirteen years ago) link
peer pressure! :(
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 24 June 2010 21:09 (thirteen years ago) link
forget how many ppl are regulars ott
― plax (ico), Thursday, 24 June 2010 21:11 (thirteen years ago) link
btw i love your j crew ad showiness w/r/t the shirt jed
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Thursday, 24 June 2010 22:36 (thirteen years ago) link
like i actually wanna buy that shirt
i love this thread and all who pose within it. a+ work everyone.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Thursday, 24 June 2010 22:53 (thirteen years ago) link
Sooo I wasn't going to do this (because I already have once before! haha) but ok...
http://i147.photobucket.com/albums/r305/superflouis/prt/IMG3_1.jpg
― big jeans (lou), Thursday, 24 June 2010 23:27 (thirteen years ago) link
Ahh. So silly...
so... something.
― jed_, Thursday, 24 June 2010 23:28 (thirteen years ago) link
nice view!
― ripe dick clark (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 24 June 2010 23:29 (thirteen years ago) link
jesus christ
― jed_, Thursday, 24 June 2010 23:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Don't have anyone in the room with me -- which is why I'm on this thread -- so I'll have to wait on the ab shot.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 24 June 2010 23:33 (thirteen years ago) link
abs!!
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Thursday, 24 June 2010 23:40 (thirteen years ago) link
yowza!
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Thursday, 24 June 2010 23:54 (thirteen years ago) link
lou, you've really let yourself go.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 25 June 2010 01:11 (thirteen years ago) link
can someone make a gay ilx calendar? would buy, tbh.
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Friday, 25 June 2010 01:24 (thirteen years ago) link
Lou, your next post here better be your detailed, annotated exercise and diet log.
I mean srsly.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 01:44 (thirteen years ago) link
Holy.
Nice apt too!
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Friday, 25 June 2010 01:45 (thirteen years ago) link
lou, you get those abs from buying takeout from that Mexican place we visited?!
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 25 June 2010 01:47 (thirteen years ago) link
Haha, if we do nijoli's idea, and if I get June, I want a piece of the profits.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 01:49 (thirteen years ago) link
people under 40 i hates u
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 25 June 2010 01:56 (thirteen years ago) link
i can organize this happening, tbh. and would love to do it.
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Friday, 25 June 2010 02:06 (thirteen years ago) link
there are exactly 12 shirtless pics if we dont count jordy twice!!
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Friday, 25 June 2010 02:14 (thirteen years ago) link
We need a Jake shot as a freebie.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 25 June 2010 02:16 (thirteen years ago) link
That's the 13th shot. Goes on the cover.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 02:18 (thirteen years ago) link
Right!!
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Friday, 25 June 2010 02:19 (thirteen years ago) link
http://hollywoodhatesme.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/jake-gyllenhaal-prince.jpg
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 25 June 2010 02:25 (thirteen years ago) link
alfred you so hot
― jed_, Friday, 25 June 2010 02:27 (thirteen years ago) link
alright so i wimped out earlier and tucked mine away behind a link, but that's lame so HAYYY
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1211/4731818345_56690cfae3.jpg
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Friday, 25 June 2010 05:30 (thirteen years ago) link
nice
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 10:00 (thirteen years ago) link
Mmmm.
― an artist-mutant going beyond gender (The Reverend), Friday, 25 June 2010 10:20 (thirteen years ago) link
^suggestive period
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 10:22 (thirteen years ago) link
btw i am only doing this for calender royalties
http://i386.photobucket.com/albums/oo305/lejospopo/shirtless.jpg
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 10:56 (thirteen years ago) link
June is bustin' out all ovah
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 25 June 2010 11:36 (thirteen years ago) link
It's. All. Good.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 11:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Only technically shirtless here, and it's not a new picture. But what i fail to disclose of my torso, i will attempt make up for with my Dionysian aspect:
http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l0zrz4QtsI1qz9ezvo1_500.jpg
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 25 June 2010 13:07 (thirteen years ago) link
:) <3 you gays
― big jeans (lou), Friday, 25 June 2010 13:14 (thirteen years ago) link
Good morning.
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f308/sotoalf/DSC00125.jpg
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 25 June 2010 13:28 (thirteen years ago) link
good morning!
― jed_, Friday, 25 June 2010 13:31 (thirteen years ago) link
we got some hotties here.
― jed_, Friday, 25 June 2010 13:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Yay x 2!
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 13:40 (thirteen years ago) link
I love it. This thread will no longer be stopped!
Nice grapes.
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:04 (thirteen years ago) link
this thread is the first thing i checked this morning. before coffee. ya'll warm my heart.
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:08 (thirteen years ago) link
This is by and far the best thread of all time.
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:11 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, screw angst.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:26 (thirteen years ago) link
i feel so empowered
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:27 (thirteen years ago) link
guys this thread is going crazy, is it really just you all posting nekkid pics?
power to ye if it is, imo
― ,,,,,,eeeeleon (darraghmac), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:34 (thirteen years ago) link
sadly i think pretty much all of us have done it now, so i don't know where we go from here
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:36 (thirteen years ago) link
action shots, doy
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:36 (thirteen years ago) link
no, some of us fat ppl who don't have cameras haven't
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:36 (thirteen years ago) link
I was going to say "cell phone???" and then remembered. Morbs can't you find a photo booth at some Brooklyn bar and just snailmail us all copies?
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:44 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm sure I will have someone take one at a party or sumthin next month when you've all moved on to hardcore
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:47 (thirteen years ago) link
I think now it should be themes. Like "Gays, its summer 2010 so... EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SHIRTS while drinking a summer drink" or "Gays, its summer 2010 so... EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SHIRTS while doing your summer reading".
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:51 (thirteen years ago) link
i can get with this^
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:52 (thirteen years ago) link
"EVERYBODY LIP SYNCH SOME KATE BUSH ON YOUTUBE"
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:54 (thirteen years ago) link
i note that those are fundamentally the same theme tho
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:56 (thirteen years ago) link
Gays, its summer 2010 so... EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SHIRTS while doing your dishes?
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:58 (thirteen years ago) link
maybe you guys are overthinking this?
Also mayb some enterprising soul shd put these in our abandoned Judy Tenuta F'book groop.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:59 (thirteen years ago) link
ramzi/morbs
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 14:59 (thirteen years ago) link
Ah, the FB group. The tags to be swiftly removed.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 15:07 (thirteen years ago) link
"shirtless guys lipsynching kate bush songs" sounds like a tumblr waiting to happen
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Friday, 25 June 2010 15:08 (thirteen years ago) link
or "Gays, its summer 2010 so... EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SHIRTS while doing your summer reading".
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Friday, June 25, 2010 10:51 AM (32 minutes ago) Bookmark
nothing but the utmost of discretion:
http://img266.imageshack.us/img266/7286/snapshot2p.jpg
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Friday, 25 June 2010 15:27 (thirteen years ago) link
awesome!
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Friday, 25 June 2010 15:30 (thirteen years ago) link
:D
― jed_, Friday, 25 June 2010 15:32 (thirteen years ago) link
guillermo diaz is like the king of bonertime
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 15:43 (thirteen years ago) link
Haha!
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 15:52 (thirteen years ago) link
i have a nude guillermo diaz on my couch right this very second, as it so happens
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:03 (thirteen years ago) link
if you keep him there i can book flights now
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:04 (thirteen years ago) link
he's probably not going anywhere for the time being
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:08 (thirteen years ago) link
u dog
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:09 (thirteen years ago) link
Joe I think you should post a group shot.
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:13 (thirteen years ago) link
what a sassy thread
― flapjackin (gbx), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:48 (thirteen years ago) link
What a bi-curious interjection.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:50 (thirteen years ago) link
!
― flapjackin (gbx), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:52 (thirteen years ago) link
what suggestive punctuation
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:53 (thirteen years ago) link
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:54 (thirteen years ago) link
^ has posted topless photo of himself to ilx
xxpost
v has had topless photos of himself posted to ilx
― so you want Mark Ronson to cry into your ass (acoleuthic), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:54 (thirteen years ago) link
;D
― flapjackin (gbx), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:54 (thirteen years ago) link
I'd be cool if straight guys wanted to post some topless pics here too.
I'd be cool if straight gals wanted to post some topless pics here too.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:55 (thirteen years ago) link
pretty sure i've maxed my topless photos on ilx quota.
would also have no problem w/lesbians posting topless pics either, tbh
― flapjackin (gbx), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:56 (thirteen years ago) link
we scared the only one we had off
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:57 (thirteen years ago) link
she was great, she always wanted things to be radical i think
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, June 25, 2010 4:55 PM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark
bears repeating
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:58 (thirteen years ago) link
isn't queer culture anything that fucks with heteronormal paradigms? hence yeah, I wouldn't balk at a group unveiling, although I'm also aware there are good reasons for not baring one's upper half in a public forum, especially if one is female
that said I think more straight/mostly-straight (ahem) fellas should take pride in male beauty
― so you want Mark Ronson to cry into your ass (acoleuthic), Friday, 25 June 2010 16:59 (thirteen years ago) link
I think if you guys put these in WDYLL you wd get some 'conversion' offers
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:12 (thirteen years ago) link
srsly man, i am waiting
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:12 (thirteen years ago) link
BAN LOUIS JAGGER AND SOMETIMES JHOSHEA APPRECIATION THREAD
featuring one of jhoshea's finest pieces of gifcraft
― so you want Mark Ronson to cry into your ass (acoleuthic), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:14 (thirteen years ago) link
haha, i meant morbs but ok
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:15 (thirteen years ago) link
what're you waiting for dood, I don't have a camera
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:16 (thirteen years ago) link
convenient
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:17 (thirteen years ago) link
Haha, I totally missed that all-time .gif!
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:38 (thirteen years ago) link
Conversion offers??? I know just the guys. Let me grab 'em.
http://piedpatter.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/mormon-missionaries.jpg
"Hi, we're the missionaries. We'd like to talk to you about our position."
― breaking that little dog's heart chakra (Abbott), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:52 (thirteen years ago) link
ws guy on right
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:53 (thirteen years ago) link
Hmmm I was supposed to post that in WDYLL, sorry for interrupting.
― breaking that little dog's heart chakra (Abbott), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:53 (thirteen years ago) link
The one on the left looks more cuddly and less abusive.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:54 (thirteen years ago) link
i disagree, i think he looks like a bastard.
― jed_, Friday, 25 June 2010 17:54 (thirteen years ago) link
me 2
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:55 (thirteen years ago) link
one on the left has serious parent issues
― so you want Mark Ronson to cry into your ass (acoleuthic), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:55 (thirteen years ago) link
guy on right is built 4 cuddles and wild things 2
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 25 June 2010 17:56 (thirteen years ago) link
I would start by tying his arms with his tie so that he doesn't get to that Bible.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 25 June 2010 18:00 (thirteen years ago) link
i would tie his arms back anyway
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 25 June 2010 18:02 (thirteen years ago) link
Haha, tbh I'd probably leave them both alone. These two look nicer:
http://www.advocate.com/uploadedImages/ADVOCATE/EDITORIAL/exclusive_detail/200812/Mormon-Calendar-Pair-x390.jpg
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 18:02 (thirteen years ago) link
(Given they're in that calendar, I guess I know why.)
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 18:03 (thirteen years ago) link
has this thread become abt rating the hotttness of jehovahs witnesses. bc orig guy on right is still winning.
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 18:05 (thirteen years ago) link
^^
the 1 on the left in the 2nd pic looks like u a little bit E
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 25 June 2010 18:05 (thirteen years ago) link
He looks like Eric after prolonged exposure to Leo McCarey films.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 25 June 2010 18:09 (thirteen years ago) link
Not helping me deflate my ballooning rep as a pink narcissus, here. :)
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 18:12 (thirteen years ago) link
guy on right in first Mish pic looks a bit like Henry Rollins. Has anyone posted here about Henry & Glenn Forever?
― sarahel, Friday, 25 June 2010 20:24 (thirteen years ago) link
Um...well, I dropped by the thread and pictures went from a 'couple of people' thing to an 'everyone' thing, so apologies for the belated photo, etc.
http://i45.tinypic.com/24q4dol.jpg
WDYLL attempting to both be shirtless, have a head, and make sure your brand-new haphazard impromptu cut-offs are in the picture with you, while simultaneously realizing 'it HAS been a month since I've been to the gym. Well, fuck.' The mohawk grew in WAY too quickly, given that I only had my hair cut three weeks ago (and the sides grew faster than anything else, so there's no proof it existed), but it should be returning within the week and I'll make sure to take pictures this time.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 25 June 2010 20:46 (thirteen years ago) link
And yeah, original guy on the right is still winning the attractive Witnesses competition but guy on the right 2.0 is in the running. poor dudes on the left.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 25 June 2010 20:47 (thirteen years ago) link
they're blonder and seem to be filled with a vague sense of malaise. their compatriots are just more at ease.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 25 June 2010 20:48 (thirteen years ago) link
dont stand on the left imo
― plax (ico), Friday, 25 June 2010 20:48 (thirteen years ago) link
they're not Jehovah's witnesses - they're Mormon missionaries!!!
― sarahel, Friday, 25 June 2010 20:51 (thirteen years ago) link
Will hotness ever cease?
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 25 June 2010 20:53 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh, good! I thought so, but people kept on saying Jehovah's Witnesses.
Mormon "Elders" in their mid-20s are my favourite people ever. Frequently attractive, frequently gay-ish, easily flustered. I have a game that I play with them on the subway when they approach me, where I basically engage in friendly conversation with them about religion and Judaism and whatever, making it entirely clear that I'm not interesting in converting and also trying to determine how long I can hold off making a pass at them.
It's kind of like a "you try to convert me, and I'll try to convert you," thing. As of today, neither of us have ever won, but one of these days, I will.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 25 June 2010 20:59 (thirteen years ago) link
(And in my case, I'm not trying to convert them to Judaism, but rather to sex. With me. Just to clarify.)
Alex - you know you can get them to visit you at your home, right?
― sarahel, Friday, 25 June 2010 21:03 (thirteen years ago) link
HAHAHA. That is amazing. But, too much effort, I think.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 25 June 2010 21:05 (thirteen years ago) link
ok - i'm gonna go back to lurking now - but wanted to post this first:
http://www.comicsbeat.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Neely_HG4ever_cover_web-1.jpg
― sarahel, Friday, 25 June 2010 21:08 (thirteen years ago) link
nah, all you have to do is order the book of mormon from the hotline they show in the LDS tv commercials! and then the mormons have your address, forever. xpost
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 25 June 2010 21:09 (thirteen years ago) link
Just realized that the computer flipped my picture. Um...don't understand why/how, but my shoulder ends up looking disconcertingly bent.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 25 June 2010 21:10 (thirteen years ago) link
TS: You vs. Mirror-Image You.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 25 June 2010 21:12 (thirteen years ago) link
Alex weren't you saying you don't go out on dates? Wtf is wrong w/ Montreal.
Guy on right 2 = Guy on right 1 (they have the exact same face, basically) >>> left 2 >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> left 1
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Friday, 25 June 2010 23:51 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't go out on dates either, but it HAS been 20 years since I went to the gym.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 26 June 2010 00:56 (thirteen years ago) link
24 for me.
― grin and ˁ˚ᴥ˚ˀ it (The Reverend), Saturday, 26 June 2010 01:13 (thirteen years ago) link
Holy shit alex I think you've broken my gaylx top 5 ws
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Saturday, 26 June 2010 02:55 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh my god another one of those god-awufl Sassy Gay Friend videos came out and I'm being bombarded with it and I'm completely not understanding how people find this funny/acceptable
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Saturday, 26 June 2010 03:35 (thirteen years ago) link
We don't seem to have had any music in a while so may I suggest this for dancing in all your forms of clothedness:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YVfZzIoAjK8
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Saturday, 26 June 2010 06:38 (thirteen years ago) link
haha. oh the irony. you guys are too sweet. spent the night at a friend's house party filled with tons of fags and spent most of the evening talking to a handful of awesome lesbians, while the guys paraded their ridiculous hipster clothing and were generally catty at each other.
most interesting/intelligent guy there was a friend's new fling. :\
Wtf is wrong w/ Montreal
the real question is closer to 'wtf is wrong w/ you' and i'm working on puzzling that one out sometime in the next 60 years or so.
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 26 June 2010 08:05 (thirteen years ago) link
Night one of TC Pride not exactly unsuccessful in the sense I hung out with good friends. One of them, though, tried to hook me up with one of the guys he noticed me eyeing and that was not a success, but I appreciated the effort.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Saturday, 26 June 2010 08:07 (thirteen years ago) link
I'll be at Metrop for a bit after midnight, yo
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 26 June 2010 20:55 (thirteen years ago) link
lol so apparently i am going to the 90s tonight for my sister's b-day
― flapjackin (gbx), Saturday, 26 June 2010 21:17 (thirteen years ago) link
Haha, I'm so not going there. :) (Actually taking a night off from Pride to hang out with my old high school friends in town.)
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Saturday, 26 June 2010 22:55 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm eating sushi and going to karaoke. Straight karaoke.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 June 2010 22:57 (thirteen years ago) link
straightaoke
― jed_, Saturday, 26 June 2010 22:58 (thirteen years ago) link
dunno if the sushi's straight.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 June 2010 23:00 (thirteen years ago) link
gay fish?
― suge ♞ (The Reverend), Sunday, 27 June 2010 00:04 (thirteen years ago) link
As it turns out, the '90s was about the only gay bar I didn't hit up tonight, gbx.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Sunday, 27 June 2010 06:43 (thirteen years ago) link
Some nice man I liked talked to me n' stuff! Very unusual.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 27 June 2010 14:11 (thirteen years ago) link
I didn't end up going! went to bed early instead.
― flapjackin (gbx), Sunday, 27 June 2010 14:50 (thirteen years ago) link
Awesome Morbs!
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Sunday, 27 June 2010 15:59 (thirteen years ago) link
get it gurl!
not doing anything particularly proud today (unless baking a cake for a friend's bday counts)
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Sunday, 27 June 2010 17:14 (thirteen years ago) link
how did I get a semi-painful sunburn at the ballgame when our seats were in the shade? I was in the sun maybe 20 minutes. Damn Irish forebears.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 28 June 2010 02:10 (thirteen years ago) link
Ugh, my skin's now fuchsia for real.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 28 June 2010 02:12 (thirteen years ago) link
no longer salmon pink?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 28 June 2010 02:13 (thirteen years ago) link
No longer fit to receive light.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 28 June 2010 02:17 (thirteen years ago) link
Haven't had a chance to hang out with this guy again :/
― suge ♞ (The Reverend), Monday, 28 June 2010 04:43 (thirteen years ago) link
dr, baking a cake in this weather surely qualifies as some sort of pride-worthy masochism
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Monday, 28 June 2010 13:18 (thirteen years ago) link
btw i saw these two wholesome young men on saturday and thought of you all:
http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e239/allocryptic/78b1d016.jpg
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Monday, 28 June 2010 13:26 (thirteen years ago) link
Does the left-right matrix still hold here? My vote: no.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 28 June 2010 13:46 (thirteen years ago) link
the smaller of the two was definitely cuter in the face. fwiw i nearly ran to catch up with these two on the sidewalk in order to snap pics.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Monday, 28 June 2010 15:28 (thirteen years ago) link
elmo have you seen this? trust me, it's worth the long load time...
http://eu.wrangler.com/bluebell/#/collection
― jed_, Monday, 28 June 2010 19:42 (thirteen years ago) link
btw that link is for anyone who wants to take tony ward's clothes off.
― jed_, Monday, 28 June 2010 19:45 (thirteen years ago) link
woah, okay -- I'll have to set aside some private time to view that link. when i'm not at work. thanks jed!
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Monday, 28 June 2010 20:25 (thirteen years ago) link
Tony Ward was just about the only redeeming value of BUTT's awful "Straight Issue"
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Monday, 28 June 2010 22:45 (thirteen years ago) link
Went to PrideFest yesterday (invited by a straight friend!) — It was fun but also slightly boring. I felt like there was a vibe of negativity in the air that would be difficult to articulate.
As for good news, I've gone on two dates with a cute boy and I think I really like him. :D
― The Bitter Tears of Petula Clark (corey), Tuesday, 29 June 2010 01:27 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, the vibe of negativity at those parades definitely hangs in the air anytime a greased-up, pot-bellied bear wearing saggy whities dips it low to the pavement. Of course, in that case maybe some of them are thinking of the children.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 29 June 2010 03:04 (thirteen years ago) link
So for the first time in my ENTIRE FUCKING LIFE I "hooked up" with a guy at a bar; it was my friend Tony's DJ night at this trendy spot in Philly. This dude gave me his number, and all my friends are giving me the advice of play it cool and don't text him all eager right this second but wait til tomorrow evening and be all "oh hey are you going to this Lighting Bolt show you said you might go to", etc, like all demure. He is unbelievably adorable; I don't want to blow this but I am already way overthinking it.
― cynthia batter blaster (Stevie D), Tuesday, 29 June 2010 07:28 (thirteen years ago) link
Yes, it's best not to think! Play it cool.
the vibe of negativity at those parades definitely hangs in the air anytime a greased-up, pot-bellied bear wearing saggy whities dips it low to the pavement.
I SAID, I didn't go this year!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 29 June 2010 11:32 (thirteen years ago) link
hey eric, i was wondering how you are facebook friends w/ d4niel b4rnum-sw3tt? i have been chatting w/ him on tumblr (skeetshoot) and your face popped up when i located him on fb. do you know dude irl?
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 1 July 2010 20:57 (thirteen years ago) link
i saw two mormons the other day (always in pairs, those guys) in south wburg but neither one was esp cute :/
― querelle: the last fassbinder (donna rouge), Thursday, 1 July 2010 21:00 (thirteen years ago) link
Guys, I'd like to discuss this review with you.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 1 July 2010 21:09 (thirteen years ago) link
omg that sounds awesome.
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Thursday, 1 July 2010 21:17 (thirteen years ago) link
think you're right about the first graf al -- dumb. p3rp3tu4 lol
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Thursday, 1 July 2010 21:20 (thirteen years ago) link
the third one is, too! since when has "the self-destructive impulse to indulge in anonymous, sometimes Internet-facilitated sex" been "specific to modern gay life"?
― querelle: the last fassbinder (donna rouge), Thursday, 1 July 2010 21:23 (thirteen years ago) link
well, I've only been a modern gay so I don't know who else has been indulging.
I was hoping you were posting Armond's praise for Grown Ups.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 1 July 2010 21:34 (thirteen years ago) link
long joke, but A+ punchline
― The Reverend, Thursday, 1 July 2010 22:10 (thirteen years ago) link
Bits of that review are so awful it makes me wanna take off my shirt.
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Thursday, 1 July 2010 23:19 (thirteen years ago) link
I suppose "gay discos" are more outrageous to a white straight man than Ghostface records.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 1 July 2010 23:27 (thirteen years ago) link
what's outrageous to me is that ppl like the Scissor Sisters
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 2 July 2010 01:36 (thirteen years ago) link
Elmo, actually I don't know him very well at all. I think it goes back to Livejournal days, when we hung out in the same movie groups. I'm sure if I were the type to pare down FB friends, he'd probably be on the chopping block pretty early.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 2 July 2010 04:59 (thirteen years ago) link
that scissor sisters review. what. how many ignorant clichés and assumptions about gay culture can you cram into one review.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Friday, 2 July 2010 08:29 (thirteen years ago) link
wtf would m-perp know about gay culture anyway
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Friday, 2 July 2010 08:30 (thirteen years ago) link
~ANGER~
or sex
― jed_, Friday, 2 July 2010 08:31 (thirteen years ago) link
i originally typed that and deleted it on the grounds of meanness lol
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Friday, 2 July 2010 08:32 (thirteen years ago) link
yes, i was just about to write - "not that there's anything wrong with that!"
― jed_, Friday, 2 July 2010 08:34 (thirteen years ago) link
"Sex and Violence" explores the self-destructive impulse to indulge in anonymous, sometimes Internet-facilitated sex.
what exactly is "self-destructive" about this?
― hell hath no furry (J0rdan S.), Friday, 2 July 2010 08:43 (thirteen years ago) link
could easily substitute "self awakening" or or anything in between.
― jed_, Friday, 2 July 2010 08:47 (thirteen years ago) link
i guess this wasn't intentional, but the framing of that sentence in a paragraph about how scissor sisters are becoming more gay makes it seem as if anonymous, sometimes internet-facilitated sex is somehow taboo in the gay community, or MORE taboo than it is in the straight community, or that it's a "problem" that doesn't exist in the straight community at all
― hell hath no furry (J0rdan S.), Friday, 2 July 2010 08:49 (thirteen years ago) link
i haven't listened to the song and i assume that matthew is just relaying the feelings of jake shears, but the framing and solemn tone of that sentence remind me exactly of how straight people view and understand internet-facilitated sex ime
― hell hath no furry (J0rdan S.), Friday, 2 July 2010 08:52 (thirteen years ago) link
how straight people view and understand internet-facilitated sex
barely-concealed jealousy ime
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Friday, 2 July 2010 08:54 (thirteen years ago) link
for me it's a mix of ignorance and "oh my god, be careful" in a really overly serious tone -- not that that's not an important sentiment but straight people always seem to treat that kind of sex/human interaction as some grave act, as opposed to the more flippant action that it usually is
― hell hath no furry (J0rdan S.), Friday, 2 July 2010 08:58 (thirteen years ago) link
Guys, I actually don't have any problem with this review.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 2 July 2010 13:17 (thirteen years ago) link
Just sayin', anonymous Internet sex can be sketchy.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 2 July 2010 13:18 (thirteen years ago) link
you're gay, Eric?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 2 July 2010 13:31 (thirteen years ago) link
sure it can be sketchy, but that review makes it out to be Cruising-levels of ominous
"Does anybody know right now exactly where you are?"-- a reference to the commonly advocated practice of letting someone know the address of your hook-up in case you never turn up alive again.
is this really a thing?
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 2 July 2010 13:58 (thirteen years ago) link
Actually I remember seeing ads/signs to such effect in gay papers and locales back in the '80s & 90s, usu after someone in Greater NY was dismembered by a pickup.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 2 July 2010 14:21 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah i've read things advocating that exact thing (in dan savage columns i think) but i've never done it myself
― hell hath no furry (J0rdan S.), Friday, 2 July 2010 14:28 (thirteen years ago) link
okay, i figure that might have been a wise common practice in a pre-internet, pre-cellular time but i never received any advice like that tbh.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 2 July 2010 14:29 (thirteen years ago) link
i can't quite imagine telling someone where i'm going in such an event. i mean, what a weird email or text that would be to receive.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Friday, 2 July 2010 14:32 (thirteen years ago) link
it's a pretty antiquated sentiment cuz you're as likely to get dismembered by someone you meet online (probably less imo if it's a gay specific site like manhunt) as someone you meet and go home with from a bar
― hell hath no furry (J0rdan S.), Friday, 2 July 2010 14:34 (thirteen years ago) link
My friends have encouraged me to do it on a couple of occasions. Not that the opportunity has ever come up....
― Werner Herr'spotatochips (Stevie D), Friday, 2 July 2010 14:35 (thirteen years ago) link
You're probably more likely to get dismembered by someone you know within 10 miles of your own home.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 2 July 2010 14:36 (thirteen years ago) link
can u imag. one time i got scared and the guy startd to get all trippy cuz he was doing drugs, and he started to pick a fight with me. he was like "hey man, i rly don't think this is a good idea cuz you're just like - ::tweaky face:: tryin' to mess me with, yaknow, and i really don't appreciate it"
and when i looked into his eyes, i could see that he was gone - that any semblance of intelligence just kind of left the building
so i just played along with him and i said "i know, i know. you're right. i wasn't thinking" and i let him kick me out. yup.
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 2 July 2010 14:37 (thirteen years ago) link
fucker.
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 2 July 2010 14:38 (thirteen years ago) link
well, if only!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 2 July 2010 14:48 (thirteen years ago) link
a few things about me:1- i got fired from the job i hated because i don't contain the 'right image' they wanted to project to their terrible, bourgeois berkeley numbfuck customers. bitter mostly because of the reasoning, not because i liked the job. the job sucked.
2- i am totally smitten with my man. we've been at it for two and a half months! we even had a three-way last week.
3- everyone should try having sex in a hot-tub. it is amazing.
4- HI YOU GAYS ARE AWESOME.
a few things about this thread:1- re: 'not gay enough' conversation: for years and years i felt this way, then when i tried to make myself more gay, i realized how stupid even the less mainstream stuff can be, and started avoiding things altogether. i TOTALLY berated my ex n1ck (from t33ngirl fantasy) for being so into the circuit when he was last here, and he didn't get it— some people are just into being around the same cast of queens all the time, i think. i, on the other hand, like being around a rotating cast of queens, punks, artists, whatever. i guess that what i'm saying is that it really doesn't fucking matter whether you act 'gay enough' or like 'gay things.' while it might be harder to make gay friends, why the hell would you want some prissy hollister-bedecked fag as yr friend in the first place? he might suck good dick but he doesn't have much up there. all of you are intelligent gay creatures. don't waste your time thinking about whether you're gay enough.
2- i didn't attend any PRIDE festivities this year, a repeat of last year. EXCELLENT.
3- that Scissor Sisters review: the album is really quite good, and while it is a lot gayer than past albums, M4tt frames that aspect in a pejorative fashion, which is fucking dumb and he shld be slapped.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 2 July 2010 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
hi t3ddy it is so nice to hear that your love affair is raging strong and long!
so wait you rly think the hollister fags suck good?
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 2 July 2010 18:18 (thirteen years ago) link
at the hollister store here they have the men standing outside in bathing suits, it's so nice
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 2 July 2010 18:35 (thirteen years ago) link
they're very tan. and smooth
i've noticed that! it's, um, an attention-getter, for sure
nice running into you last night, surm :)
― querelle: the last fassbinder (donna rouge), Friday, 2 July 2010 18:36 (thirteen years ago) link
yes it sure was!
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 2 July 2010 18:53 (thirteen years ago) link
I do not know this Hollister thing.
I went looking for the guy from last Sat @ Metrop last night -- not knowing that the G train was split in two, or that it would stand still in the tunnel for 20 minutes -- but he is NOT there every night, it seems. :p
have a delish summer with your image, tabes!
OK, office "closes" at 3, just waiting for my supervisor to leave.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 2 July 2010 19:05 (thirteen years ago) link
No, I do think Alfred's got my number w.r.t the "not gay enough" question. I'm just drunk enough right now to admit it.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 2 July 2010 20:56 (thirteen years ago) link
i have recently changed my headline on manhunt to "#1 chick when i step out on the scene"
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Friday, 2 July 2010 21:37 (thirteen years ago) link
just fyi
Eric, how'd you get drunk so early? Got that party started?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 2 July 2010 22:13 (thirteen years ago) link
Half day at work and an off-site long lunch with some morning co-workers. Downside is I've slept off a good portion of a gorgeous afternoon.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Saturday, 3 July 2010 01:05 (thirteen years ago) link
Me and dude are having problems getting together due to opposite schedules, but we have tentative plans for queer cumbia night tomorrow. I am excited.
― The Reverend, Saturday, 3 July 2010 04:55 (thirteen years ago) link
Huzzah! Also "queer cumbia night" sounds like the most wonderful thing ever. Where do I get one?
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 3 July 2010 07:13 (thirteen years ago) link
Happy birthday, dear E!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BFLCGPXS1gs&feature=PlayList&p=62509EE88D688910&playnext_from=PL&index=0&playnext=1
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 3 July 2010 13:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Happy birthday, E. Here's something you might remember from your beloved summer of '90:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WrKdzCUkz-g
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 3 July 2010 13:34 (thirteen years ago) link
Real and realer! Thank you guys!
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Saturday, 3 July 2010 14:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Happy birthday Eric!
Check your facebook Morbs
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Saturday, 3 July 2010 14:58 (thirteen years ago) link
I've been feeling oddly satiated re: socializing lately. Even calling the boy I was seeing seems somehow repellent to me. I mean he's "nice" and everything but we have almost nothing in common and he's a bit passionless.
― The Bitter Tears of Petula Clark (corey), Saturday, 3 July 2010 15:27 (thirteen years ago) link
Also roomies have vacated the premises for the weekend so that means I get to listen to Feldman in the living room!
― The Bitter Tears of Petula Clark (corey), Saturday, 3 July 2010 15:29 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kelUCEcdO8Mz
Roxy and I watched this a million times today.
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Saturday, 3 July 2010 15:55 (thirteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kelUCEcdO8Mz
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Saturday, 3 July 2010 15:56 (thirteen years ago) link
happy birthday eric!
― querelle: the last fassbinder (donna rouge), Saturday, 3 July 2010 16:53 (thirteen years ago) link
:-) HBD !!!!!
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Saturday, 3 July 2010 18:40 (thirteen years ago) link
<3 HB, E x
― jed_, Saturday, 3 July 2010 19:52 (thirteen years ago) link
my california gays video won't show up above :(
maybe go to youtube and search 'california gays music video'
i have watched it eight times today
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Saturday, 3 July 2010 20:53 (thirteen years ago) link
i cannot watch that shit, but i love u
― so sick of the fucking V8 commercials (surm), Saturday, 3 July 2010 20:55 (thirteen years ago) link
don't mistake my love for the video for liking that song. the fact that those guys choreographed and shot that video is 1) awesome 2) cute 3) admirable imo
― Kelsey Glamour (Nijoli), Saturday, 3 July 2010 21:10 (thirteen years ago) link
Thanks again. Spent the day at the ball game with my ex and a gay couple still reveling in that honeymoon bloom. When I got home, ex texted me, "That's the last time I spend the afternoon with a happy gay couple. Shoot me now."
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Sunday, 4 July 2010 01:35 (thirteen years ago) link
lol adorbs
― janice (surm), Sunday, 4 July 2010 01:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Totes, excepting for the sad fact that we were/are both way more infatuated with both members of said couple than we probably ever were with each other.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Sunday, 4 July 2010 01:43 (thirteen years ago) link
Hahaha r4mz1 your display names always make me lol without really knowing why.
― The Bitter Tears of Petula Clark (corey), Sunday, 4 July 2010 01:44 (thirteen years ago) link
Today's ex day apparently. Mine called about two hours ago strongly hinting that he wanted to come over and "drink some wine."
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 4 July 2010 01:46 (thirteen years ago) link
lol corey
― janice (surm), Sunday, 4 July 2010 01:47 (thirteen years ago) link
hahahahaha "drink some wine"
I'm off in an hour or two to drink some wine w/ strangers.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 4 July 2010 02:20 (thirteen years ago) link
also, I'm sorry the Twins blew that lead, and I bet that couple has some KDDO fights.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 4 July 2010 02:34 (thirteen years ago) link
Probably. The ex and I never got far enough in our relationship to have any of those.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Sunday, 4 July 2010 07:28 (thirteen years ago) link
ok, so replace 'cumbia night' with 'his place and makeout makeout makeout makeout makeout'
― motherfuckin henry (The Reverend), Sunday, 4 July 2010 07:35 (thirteen years ago) link
j;ljasl;fja!!!
― janice (surm), Sunday, 4 July 2010 07:39 (thirteen years ago) link
ayoooo
― querelle: the last fassbinder (donna rouge), Sunday, 4 July 2010 07:39 (thirteen years ago) link
is pretty damn close to my own reaction tbh
― motherfuckin henry (The Reverend), Sunday, 4 July 2010 07:41 (thirteen years ago) link
happy bday erichappy makeout rev
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Sunday, 4 July 2010 11:09 (thirteen years ago) link
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Sunday, July 4, 2010 7:09 AM (2 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink makeouts should totally be celebrated like bdays.
― Alex in Montreal, Sunday, 4 July 2010 13:57 (thirteen years ago) link
They come about as frequently lately
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 4 July 2010 14:17 (thirteen years ago) link
i have had waaaaay more bdays than makeouts in my life. Eric I would buy you a gimlet if I were nearby, hope your birthday was super!
I did the crassest thing ever last night that was completely out of character. Tapped cute guy at bar on shoulder, asked what he was drinking, bought him one, shortly thereafter gave him my number. That's it. Didn't really talk to him (let alone have any sort of conversation), didn't try to dance with him, etc. Woke up this morning and was all EW WHY WD I DO THAT??, like what am I banking on, I THINK YR CUET SO YOU SHD WANT TO CALL ME RITE?????
― Werner Herr'spotatochips (Stevie D), Sunday, 4 July 2010 17:37 (thirteen years ago) link
I believe it's called 'networking'!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 4 July 2010 19:32 (thirteen years ago) link
surf's up!
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash2/hs050.ash2/35867_545309223824_4302681_31922658_3328092_n.jpg
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Sunday, 4 July 2010 19:47 (thirteen years ago) link
awsum. headed to the roof pool, wish u were here!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 4 July 2010 19:52 (thirteen years ago) link
on peak's island in maine, wearing red keds and pink seersucker shorts with sailboats embroidered on 'em. using lobster meat leftover from last night's boil to make ravioli tonight, drinking vodka tonics and feeling every WASPy inch like i fell out of an issue of Yankee magazine. happy fucking 4th to you all!
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Sunday, 4 July 2010 22:49 (thirteen years ago) link
wearing red keds and pink seersucker shorts with sailboats embroidered on 'em. using lobster meat leftover from last night's boil to make ravioli tonight,
damn, elmo -- talk about Spanish fly.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 4 July 2010 22:50 (thirteen years ago) link
http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e239/allocryptic/6578f5d2.jpg
festive 4th faggotry
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Sunday, 4 July 2010 23:56 (thirteen years ago) link
<3
― jed_, Monday, 5 July 2010 02:21 (thirteen years ago) link
Went to a fag party tonight: good music, better food and wine, but no one I could talk to besides the straight couple who invited me. Ugh.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 5 July 2010 05:00 (thirteen years ago) link
My friend and I drove out into some shitty suburb whilst blasting Prince records and watching fireworks.
― Ciudad Warez (corey), Monday, 5 July 2010 06:35 (thirteen years ago) link
Had fun tonight when the duo visiting my 'hood from NYC finally unleashed their antipathy for the Midwest, which they'd been sitting on for the last five days.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 5 July 2010 06:41 (thirteen years ago) link
Didn't help that we went to one of St. Paul's two (sad) (underpopulated) gay bars.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 5 July 2010 06:42 (thirteen years ago) link
gross xp
went to two different parties of varying gayness tonight, did not know the host of either one and kind of stayed w/ my own circle but it was still good times
also...not wanting to jinx it or nothing but there's a slight but still possible chance that i may be heading to the bay area soon. for...some time. (longer than i've stayed previously, even)
― querelle: the last fassbinder (donna rouge), Monday, 5 July 2010 06:53 (thirteen years ago) link
No, I mean I literally had fun with it. It was sort of fun to stick up for Midwestern boringness for a change.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 5 July 2010 06:55 (thirteen years ago) link
um, that "gross" was directed at the midwest antipathy, i should note
― querelle: the last fassbinder (donna rouge), Monday, 5 July 2010 06:55 (thirteen years ago) link
pssst, Eric ... aren't they from New Jersey? Pay no heed.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 5 July 2010 13:23 (thirteen years ago) link
(I went to a hopping gay bar in Williamsburg last night and was bored out of my mind. I could do with some Midwestern calm but will have to settle for Dixie hospitality next month.)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 5 July 2010 13:37 (thirteen years ago) link
jo3, that is some excellent news. hope it comes through.
i got extraordinarily drunk yesterday afternoon, passed out for two hours, went to m4tt's roof to watch fireworks, had very good and very emotional conversation, passed out by like 10:30? uh, anyway, yeah, things are good.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 5 July 2010 19:29 (thirteen years ago) link
did u go to metro morbs? i wound up there against my better judgment, was too tanked
― janice (surm), Monday, 5 July 2010 19:35 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah surm, I was outta there just after midnight tho.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 5 July 2010 19:43 (thirteen years ago) link
ah looks like i get there right as u were leaving, it was nice out on the porch to be fair
― janice (surm), Monday, 5 July 2010 19:44 (thirteen years ago) link
you prolly caught some of the ppl i was hanging with earlier, surm (they were the tall, skinny guys, maybe you saw them?)
― querelle: the last fassbinder (donna rouge), Monday, 5 July 2010 19:55 (thirteen years ago) link
I worked most of the day, then went to a rather wild bbq with Clay & his gf, where I got totally wasted. At some point a guy started walking around with a pig claw sticking out of his fly. Tried to get J out there, but he had other plans. Went to karoake with Clay's gf and sang "Sensual Seduction". Ended up crashing out on her couch with her (totally adorbs) cat snuggled up to me.
― motherfuckin henry (The Reverend), Monday, 5 July 2010 21:11 (thirteen years ago) link
awww
― Ciudad Warez (corey), Monday, 5 July 2010 21:23 (thirteen years ago) link
(Only one is from NJ, Morbs. The other is in Manhattan.)
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 5 July 2010 21:29 (thirteen years ago) link
Can't help but feel hugely crestfallen today. I've sort of been in vacation/party mode for the last nine days.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 5 July 2010 21:30 (thirteen years ago) link
i know, i found sanctuary in a pizza.
that's funny donna, you know, i think i did notice some tall skinny boys out last night.
ugh apparently i missed the part of the evening when everyone went back to the cute guys' apartment and "smoked crazy things" til odd hours
my timing is off, i used to be magically present every time there was a party imminent.
― janice (surm), Monday, 5 July 2010 22:15 (thirteen years ago) link
I have been partying in Philly like nonstop for the past two weeks. Going to my friend's monday night DJ thing again tonight where I met the most adorable boy last week and I HOPE HOPE HOPE he is there
― It's like 10,000 spoons from New York and New Jersey (Stevie D), Monday, 5 July 2010 22:42 (thirteen years ago) link
dear ilx gay thread, I thought some of you might get a kick out of this thing that I happened across in my horror blogs. maybe some of you will think "no that is just dumb" so I am sorry if it is just dumb ok.
http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l1pxx0VfDx1qz72v7o1_500.jpg
― les yeux sans aerosmith (underrated aerosmith albums I have loved), Monday, 5 July 2010 23:29 (thirteen years ago) link
"Slapsie" Maxie Rosenbloom sounds and (Miss) Jeff Donnell sound like some sexy bitches.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 5 July 2010 23:41 (thirteen years ago) link
i'll say!
http://thebsreport.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/rosenbloom-maxie-11.jpg
― querelle: the last fassbinder (donna rouge), Tuesday, 6 July 2010 00:04 (thirteen years ago) link
rowr
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Tuesday, 6 July 2010 00:12 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.cyberboxingzone.com/images/rosenbloom-maxie-44.jpg
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 6 July 2010 00:14 (thirteen years ago) link
wish i could slay my victims with laughs tbh
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Tuesday, 6 July 2010 00:16 (thirteen years ago) link
maybe i should take up boxing, comedy boxing
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Tuesday, 6 July 2010 00:25 (thirteen years ago) link
and learn everything i need to know from dr. morbius
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Tuesday, 6 July 2010 00:26 (thirteen years ago) link
what do we think of fire island
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:05 (thirteen years ago) link
What do we think of having hot friends?
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:05 (thirteen years ago) link
some friends want to plan a trip and i'm just like, that is so cliche, and so gay, and is it really that nice?
i'm really good at having hot friends, it's always been something i've been good at
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:08 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't mind swimming with hot friends at Fire Island.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:09 (thirteen years ago) link
right ...
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:09 (thirteen years ago) link
but it's like what else happens there, parties and sex? that about the gist of it?
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:10 (thirteen years ago) link
Among the things the ex has been mentioning in some of his newly emphatic msgs is the fact that I apparently keep particularly hot gay friends. :-/
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:13 (thirteen years ago) link
good luck finding a rental at this time, ramz
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:14 (thirteen years ago) link
(if ptown is anything to go by - maybe FI is bigger? i dunno)
we have 1 staked out that i could snatch, but it would be about $400 for me for 4 days, which is kind of a lot considering i don't like the beach or the chelseaburg set that presumably winds up on FI
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:16 (thirteen years ago) link
btw donna i met a friend of your's online. a certain robert, i think he's irish.
yup. that's it, that's my story.
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:36 (thirteen years ago) link
is he a redhead?
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:43 (thirteen years ago) link
uh huh
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:44 (thirteen years ago) link
hey gayz. kinda crazy here, in a good way. last night the boy and i watched Cape Fear and cuddled until we fell asleep.
also, this AMAZINGLY HOT drummer from one of my favorite bands friended me on the fbook. sarahel is going to be soooo jealous, maybe.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:46 (thirteen years ago) link
hahahaha - you & your boy are super cute, let me reiterate
― sarahel, Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:47 (thirteen years ago) link
aw thanks :D
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:49 (thirteen years ago) link
"Slapsie" Maxie Rosenbloom is one of Lee J Cobb's goons in On the Waterfront. Those were true cauliflower ears.
I was on Fire Island for about 36 hours at a friend's share, once. I explored the Meat Rack and the terrible discos.
(which Cape Fear?)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 19:53 (thirteen years ago) link
the Nick Nolte/Juliette Lewis/De Niro one that Scorcese directed....kind of bad, but i actually think it might be one of De Niro's more underrated performances?
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 20:00 (thirteen years ago) link
don't forget jessica lange!
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 20:02 (thirteen years ago) link
I think both versions are junk, but at least the first one had Mitchum smashing an egg on his chest.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 20:04 (thirteen years ago) link
The good scenes in the remake are De Niro laughing in the movie theater, and the one in the playhouse. Otherwise, Friday the 13th.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 20:05 (thirteen years ago) link
you're a fucking snob, Friday the 13th is awesome.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 20:05 (thirteen years ago) link
i am an equal-opportunity trash consumer.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 20:06 (thirteen years ago) link
also, goddamn, i am really restraining myself from posting pictures of said drummer here. it is nasty how hot he is.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 20:07 (thirteen years ago) link
you just discovered I am a snob where horror is concerned?
until Cape Fear, w edidn't know Scorsese could make a bad movie.
Too late :)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 20:25 (thirteen years ago) link
haha, yeah, i knew. i just like a great many 'crappy' horror films.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 20:27 (thirteen years ago) link
Another bonus of Facebook: seeing that the jocks and actor-boys I lusted for in high school have gone to seed.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:03 (thirteen years ago) link
You didn't know about The King of Comedy and After Hours? ;)
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:05 (thirteen years ago) link
I would watch King of Comedy every week for the rest of my life, just for Sandra alone.
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uSTXn4H5jY (Stevie D), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:06 (thirteen years ago) link
Tonight I will be watching Sleepaway Camp and nursing this homemade vegan sausage burger + rustic white bean and cremini mushroom w/ sage-breadcrumb topping casserole thing. Speaking of Juliette I just bought Kalifornia on DVD; I have not seen it since I was about ten and completely forget most of it other than A) that I really liked it and B) Juliette whining.
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uSTXn4H5jY (Stevie D), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:09 (thirteen years ago) link
got this as a gift:
http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41DV54TJ1ZL._SL500_AA300_.jpg
do you gays have any other recommendations along similar lines? discographies a plus!
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:13 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah you just lost all credibility for me w/ that king of comedy crack soto
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:13 (thirteen years ago) link
i never saw kalifornia! brad pitt?
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:13 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, and David Duchovny!
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uSTXn4H5jY (Stevie D), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:15 (thirteen years ago) link
Wow, I didn't even know that book existed!! I am going to read it, I think. Along with something about Studio 54 (need recommendations here).
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uSTXn4H5jY (Stevie D), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:17 (thirteen years ago) link
If Sandra Bernhard had played Rupert Pupkin she'd get my token gay vote.
Essential:
http://www.amazon.com/Journey-into-Paradise-Larry-Levan/dp/B000EPFCWC
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:18 (thirteen years ago) link
peter shapiro's 'turn the beat around' is very enjoyable + has big discography section in the back
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:21 (thirteen years ago) link
Guys look at this picture I just found
http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41Q54B19WZL._SS400_.jpg
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uSTXn4H5jY (Stevie D), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:22 (thirteen years ago) link
Nice. Just found out that Belinda Carlisle and her son with James Mason's kid is out:
http://www.edgesanfrancisco.com/index.php?ch=entertainment&sc=culture&sc3=&id=96679&pf=1
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 22:53 (thirteen years ago) link
Turn the Beat Around: A Secret History of Disco by Peter Shapiro is pretty good.
Also, Last Night A DJ Saved My Life by Bill Brewster and Frank Broughton is absolutely, totally essential.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 7 July 2010 23:14 (thirteen years ago) link
neighbor's boy is jumpin up and down on his trampoline in wearing a hooters shirt. with his shirtless friend who is more built than i am. they are 16.
― janice (surm), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:27 (thirteen years ago) link
Trampoline?!
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:31 (thirteen years ago) link
I see too many hot JB's in a day to count.
― lexicons of loaf (corey), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:34 (thirteen years ago) link
trampoline. have u ever noticed how erotic a trampoline can be?
― janice (surm), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:34 (thirteen years ago) link
Only when the nipples are jumping too.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:35 (thirteen years ago) link
they are
― janice (surm), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:35 (thirteen years ago) link
http://bigdaddyseashell.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/grace-kelly-james-stewart-in-rear-window.jpg
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:36 (thirteen years ago) link
i know, i feel horrible
― janice (surm), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:37 (thirteen years ago) link
yes, you are a creep.
...pix?
― lexicons of loaf (corey), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:38 (thirteen years ago) link
ugh i just tried to and they had gone
― janice (surm), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:40 (thirteen years ago) link
JBs = juvenile butches?
Soto's King of Comedy crack means I will pay my way into Oliver Stone's Chavez lovefest. Viva la revolucion
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:40 (thirteen years ago) link
I meant jailbait, but that works too.
― lexicons of loaf (corey), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:41 (thirteen years ago) link
oh man -- look at Chavez's parrot guys, LOOK AT IT. It's wearing a beret!
http://scrapetv.com/News/News%20Pages/Everyone%20Else/images-4/hugo-chavez-with-parrot.jpg
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:44 (thirteen years ago) link
plz guys, stop short of ILXMBLA xp
Is that the flag tied around his shoulder?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 8 July 2010 00:45 (thirteen years ago) link
We do have people on this thread who are in their late teens, right? Or am I just hallucinating and we only have 20s and up?
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 8 July 2010 02:58 (thirteen years ago) link
tape store is 19 iirc
― altered scones (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 8 July 2010 03:02 (thirteen years ago) link
or maybe 20 at this point!
i think i'm next youngest at 22? not sure tho
23 here
― lexicons of loaf (corey), Thursday, 8 July 2010 03:03 (thirteen years ago) link
TS is 20
― janice (surm), Thursday, 8 July 2010 03:12 (thirteen years ago) link
The half+7 rule rules out half this thread for me. :(
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 8 July 2010 03:13 (thirteen years ago) link
22, but only for just under two months.
― Alex in Montreal, Thursday, 8 July 2010 03:13 (thirteen years ago) link
Guys I just had the worst fucking date ever :C
― lexicons of loaf (corey), Thursday, 8 July 2010 05:23 (thirteen years ago) link
Tell us abt it, plz!
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uSTXn4H5jY (Stevie D), Thursday, 8 July 2010 05:25 (thirteen years ago) link
Also holy shit I just realized I turn 23 in less than a month.
we'll, to spare you most of the details, dude doesn't even get hard the entire time, and then says "well, I've seen worse."
― lexicons of loaf (corey), Thursday, 8 July 2010 05:26 (thirteen years ago) link
... and I was nice enough to drop him off at the train station! I should've said "get the fuck out of my apartment."
― lexicons of loaf (corey), Thursday, 8 July 2010 05:27 (thirteen years ago) link
Ugh, I'm just going to go to bed and forget about it.
― lexicons of loaf (corey), Thursday, 8 July 2010 05:33 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh my god so it was like all-the-way awful and not nipped-at-the-bud "I'm feeling tired tonight, BYE!" awful
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uSTXn4H5jY (Stevie D), Thursday, 8 July 2010 05:38 (thirteen years ago) link
I mean who checks their email when they're getting a BJ? Fuck.
― lexicons of loaf (corey), Thursday, 8 July 2010 06:02 (thirteen years ago) link
o_O
― The Reverend, Thursday, 8 July 2010 07:00 (thirteen years ago) link
l0u1s jagg3r
― altered scones (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 8 July 2010 07:13 (thirteen years ago) link
NO DOMA
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uSTXn4H5jY (Stevie D), Thursday, 8 July 2010 21:48 (thirteen years ago) link
as in "Yo... ever think about what it's like to marry a dude? I mean, no doma, bro"
No-Do Ma
― lexicons of loaf (corey), Thursday, 8 July 2010 22:49 (thirteen years ago) link
Bi-no Dome-a
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uSTXn4H5jY (Stevie D), Thursday, 8 July 2010 23:28 (thirteen years ago) link
that sounds horrible
― janice (surm), Thursday, 8 July 2010 23:34 (thirteen years ago) link
he said "i've seen worse"
who the FUCK? i can't believe you drove him anywhere
― janice (surm), Thursday, 8 July 2010 23:35 (thirteen years ago) link
ok so i've realized i have terrible sex hair. it's like everytime i move around or get into there goes my hair. i mean, i knew i was high maintenance but FUCK! guy pulls off my shirt next thing you know frikkin chewbacca over here! it's like, it looks perfect when i do it - the bangs just right, the framing of the face. then BOOM you touch it and everything goes to shit. i just made an appointment with my hairdresser.
― janice (surm), Thursday, 8 July 2010 23:39 (thirteen years ago) link
I sympathize: I have so little of it that I'm meticulous with the preparation. Then some guy comes along and treats it like Caesar salad.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 8 July 2010 23:50 (thirteen years ago) link
btw surm: your girl Sandra Bullock is one fucking terrible movie called The Dark Side -- er, sorry, The Blind Side.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 8 July 2010 23:51 (thirteen years ago) link
oh god. not intrigued.
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 00:39 (thirteen years ago) link
cor3y, fuck that guy.
also, marriage can suck it.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 9 July 2010 00:49 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm getting one of those bar piercing things for the top of the ear stuck in my head as like An Excellent Idea, but i'm concerned that it would be so so so so so so painful
i think i need to go with someone if i do that, but tomorrow i have to at least shop for an earring for my existing piercing.
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 01:39 (thirteen years ago) link
what's up with marriage t?
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 01:40 (thirteen years ago) link
oh surm, don't -- you're so cute without it.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 9 July 2010 01:46 (thirteen years ago) link
don't! DO NOT! piercings are totally awful imo.
― jed_, Friday, 9 July 2010 01:51 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah ramzi don't do this
― altered scones (J0rdan S.), Friday, 9 July 2010 01:54 (thirteen years ago) link
plz stop ridic sex hair worries too
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 9 July 2010 02:01 (thirteen years ago) link
barbells are so so passe ramz, don't do it.
oh and the whole DOMA thing got defeated. we've discussed my feelings on marriage before, no need to go into it again.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 9 July 2010 02:11 (thirteen years ago) link
Have had it more or less buzzed for the last five years and haven't looked back.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 9 July 2010 03:34 (thirteen years ago) link
Also, it was my understanding DOMA was not out and out defeated, and that this is merely one step in the long process towards marriage equality. Such that I'm following it, I mean.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 9 July 2010 03:35 (thirteen years ago) link
the "industrial" my friend said it's called. i guess not, huh? fine.
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 03:50 (thirteen years ago) link
Surm, you should do what you want to do imo. Of course, I'm only saying that because I've let any number of people talk me out of tats.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 9 July 2010 03:52 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah i mean surm, it's fine, but i think it looks gross and way too san diego.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 9 July 2010 03:56 (thirteen years ago) link
or long island in the hot topic in 1997. but whatever same difference.
i guess i'll just buy a stud.
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 04:06 (thirteen years ago) link
Still want to put ink on my head and neck.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 9 July 2010 04:22 (thirteen years ago) link
word!
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 04:44 (thirteen years ago) link
my boy has a pigeon on his neck. it's actually kind of cute to wake up to the image of a smiling pigeon? hahaha.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 9 July 2010 04:48 (thirteen years ago) link
I've never wanted a tattoo but a friend got one of a Caravaggio painting and it kinda blew my mind.
― lexicons of loaf (corey), Friday, 9 July 2010 04:53 (thirteen years ago) link
Ex has Guernica on his chest.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 9 July 2010 04:54 (thirteen years ago) link
lol lol tabes
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 04:58 (thirteen years ago) link
tattoos and piercings are gross imo
― otmato (The Reverend), Friday, 9 July 2010 05:51 (thirteen years ago) link
tattoos are negligible to me, piercings are gross
― altered scones (J0rdan S.), Friday, 9 July 2010 05:52 (thirteen years ago) link
As someone who's had the industrial but took it out: it is a very painful thing to have done to you. Also if you enjoy wearing non-earbud headphones it will be irritating.
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Friday, 9 July 2010 06:34 (thirteen years ago) link
My ex has Guernica on the brain.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 9 July 2010 12:23 (thirteen years ago) link
i find the vast majority of tattoos ugly and dumb. but i still want one.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 9 July 2010 12:44 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.stonestube.net/images/Tattoo%20You.jpg
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 9 July 2010 12:47 (thirteen years ago) link
"way too san diego" is lolz and true, but such a Bay Area thing to say.
I have two tattoos, they are embarrassing because it was silly being 18, but I still want more. Never liked piercings though.
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Friday, 9 July 2010 12:53 (thirteen years ago) link
tbh my personal reluctance to get ink is pretty bound up in my weird body-image issues. like, i'm not really confident enough in my body to decorate it for public display. but someday it will happen.
(i know i know: a gay with body issues, how very novel.)
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 9 July 2010 13:06 (thirteen years ago) link
you are so handsome though!
My main problem w/ getting more tats is that the one(s) I want to get, I know are totally embarrassing, and maybe I'm too old/self-conscious now for that sort of thing.
― I want to thank my psychiatrist (billy), Friday, 9 July 2010 13:42 (thirteen years ago) link
I have a pavlovian association with tattoos because of how many guys in porn have them (usually bad ones), so if I were to ever get one I would have to become more frank than I am now about being "sexy".
― lexicons of loaf (corey), Friday, 9 July 2010 13:45 (thirteen years ago) link
aw, i wasn't fishing for a compliment but thank you, billy! tbh it's my boxy shape and slender ladylike arms that i get down on myself for.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 9 July 2010 13:55 (thirteen years ago) link
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Friday, 9 July 2010 06:34 (7 hours ago) Permalink
omg. i only hear headphones like, all the time. that's out.
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 13:57 (thirteen years ago) link
also that's so cool that you had an industrial!
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 13:58 (thirteen years ago) link
*wear
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 13:59 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, the exhibitionism angle is def a major deterrent for me and getting a tat, as well. But maybe a little less so these days than it was in my 20s. More and more approaching the age of just don't give a fuck.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 9 July 2010 14:03 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm in my mid thirties and am not the sort of person who enjoys calling attention to himself, unless it's for my sunny good looks.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 9 July 2010 14:06 (thirteen years ago) link
i want a tat so bad but the permanence wd freak me the fuck out. i'm sure i would have many a moment of staring into the mirror and bawling.
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 14:10 (thirteen years ago) link
I am perfect as is.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 9 July 2010 14:18 (thirteen years ago) link
Pretty sure the only people bawling over my tattoo would be my grandparents.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 9 July 2010 14:41 (thirteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzvZmQaJo68
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 9 July 2010 14:44 (thirteen years ago) link
I kind of accept the fact that my good looks are in a clean-cut kind of way, and I will never successfully be able to pull off any other kind of good looks and I am fine with that.
― otmato (The Reverend), Friday, 9 July 2010 15:12 (thirteen years ago) link
Like, no one in their right mind would ever find me badass, no matter how hard I tried.
― otmato (The Reverend), Friday, 9 July 2010 15:13 (thirteen years ago) link
That's just it. The older I get, the more menacing my brow gets, so I'm all for spiking it.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 9 July 2010 15:16 (thirteen years ago) link
you could be an Oz prisoner next Halloween.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 9 July 2010 15:30 (thirteen years ago) link
rev i've been struggling with that lately. i don't think i'm ready to accept it. at the very least i need to do a badass cleancut.
speaking of i got a brand new sparkling gold clutch with a clear heart on the front! it was a gift from friends -- they knew i'd been wanting it.
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 15:59 (thirteen years ago) link
i have a tat lined up, just waiting on funds atm
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Friday, 9 July 2010 16:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Don't even wanna think about how expensive mine would be.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 9 July 2010 16:54 (thirteen years ago) link
What's your design gonna be?
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs472.ash1/25866_915985375809_800421_51211248_683848_n.jpg
the diagram on the left (w/o the text)
thinking my arm?
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Friday, 9 July 2010 18:35 (thirteen years ago) link
obv i need to find someone who will be really, really good at curves
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Friday, 9 July 2010 18:36 (thirteen years ago) link
typical me - taking my top off for the internet again.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v369/colinohara/Photo356.jpg
― jed_, Friday, 9 July 2010 18:40 (thirteen years ago) link
hotness jed
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 18:46 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm flammable
― jed_, Friday, 9 July 2010 18:47 (thirteen years ago) link
Love them both.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 9 July 2010 18:52 (thirteen years ago) link
magically, a new tattoo option revealed itself to me today:
http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l5b3lclUa71qz9ezvo1_400.jpg
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 9 July 2010 20:23 (thirteen years ago) link
yes! <3 it
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Friday, 9 July 2010 20:28 (thirteen years ago) link
that's v pretty but i don't think i would want a fly on my back or whatever (it is an insect right?)
love the design tho
― janice (surm), Friday, 9 July 2010 21:45 (thirteen years ago) link
i like the design too but it is legible as an image, or on the curve of your body? it seems quite confusing but maybe that's part of the whole thing, i don't know. maybe you want something mysterious but graphic? in that case, yes!
― jed_, Saturday, 10 July 2010 00:00 (thirteen years ago) link
mine's just like, okay, here's the "flammable" sign you all recognise but it's on my body.
i haven't thought much about what it might mean to anyone in the ten years that i've had it and, to be honest, not that many people have seen it and those that do normally just say that i'm not the kind of person they would imagine having a tattoo at all. i thought about it for a long time before i got it but i'm not exactly sure why i have that tattoo. i'd have to dig deep in my psyche to work it out, which i'm not exactly feeling is somehting i'd want to do.
also, i'm drunk, yay!
― jed_, Saturday, 10 July 2010 00:08 (thirteen years ago) link
Haaaay. Me too, kinda. Going out dancing! DJ Sprinkles and Morgan Geist are playing in DC tonight. Just got to eat dinner with them, in fact.
― big jeans (lou), Saturday, 10 July 2010 01:34 (thirteen years ago) link
interesting, report back!
― jed_, Saturday, 10 July 2010 02:01 (thirteen years ago) link
surm it's a honey bee! it's an illustration in a book on sacred geometry. i would like to keep bees some day actually.
now if i were to get that done i would probably have the lines cleaned up a lot, with the bee done in black and the geometric component in a different color, so it wasn't quite so cluttered.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Saturday, 10 July 2010 05:45 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, take out some of that clutter and it'd be a great one.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Saturday, 10 July 2010 06:00 (thirteen years ago) link
a honey bee!
― janice (surm), Saturday, 10 July 2010 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
If I'd ever done serious boxing:
http://s1.hubimg.com/u/264064_f520.jpg
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 10 July 2010 19:20 (thirteen years ago) link
today begins the task of making deliciously augmented treats for the party I'm throwing in 2 weeks. not excited to spends hours simmering butter in this heat but what can you do about it, what needs to get done, must.
making baklava and kouribiedes fyi.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Sunday, 11 July 2010 18:22 (thirteen years ago) link
alfred, i was in publix yesterday and they were playing "diplomat's son"
― hoos gossage (J0rdan S.), Monday, 12 July 2010 20:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Then you saw the bag boy and whispered to yourself, "It's not right. But it's now or never..."
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 July 2010 20:55 (thirteen years ago) link
lol no it was all old ladies at the deli
― hoos gossage (J0rdan S.), Monday, 12 July 2010 20:58 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh -- I thought I saw you at Sedano's early Saturday afternoon. Saw this blond guy with your body type, and almost approached him until I thought, "What's J doing in a Cuban supermarket in Westchester?"
I should have approached him anyway.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 July 2010 21:00 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah wasn't me
― hoos gossage (J0rdan S.), Monday, 12 July 2010 21:01 (thirteen years ago) link
i don't think i've ever been to sedanos, as fun as it sounds
If it helps, you were buying sour oranges.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 July 2010 21:01 (thirteen years ago) link
i am just going to do this because i cannot stop listening to either of these right now:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Ki2R9OieiY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhpu6r8taRc
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 12 July 2010 21:10 (thirteen years ago) link
so Lou, how was the geist/sprinkles?
― jed_, Thursday, 15 July 2010 15:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Is that the same Propaganda that did A Secret Wish?
― orchestral manure in the dark (corey), Thursday, 15 July 2010 15:33 (thirteen years ago) link
Amaaaaazing. If you ever get the chance to see Terre DJ, don't miss it. He got me to lose all inhibitions and dance my ass off, which is no small feat for someone as anxious and high strung as me! Such a good time...
― big jeans (lou), Thursday, 15 July 2010 15:44 (thirteen years ago) link
He got me to lose all inhibitions
photographic proof or it didn't happen.
― jed_, Friday, 16 July 2010 11:30 (thirteen years ago) link
proof of what we knew all along:
http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e239/allocryptic/7f029639.jpg
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 16 July 2010 13:52 (thirteen years ago) link
http://i48.tinypic.com/zmyvec.jpg
― trippin lookin at my portfolio (billy), Friday, 16 July 2010 14:20 (thirteen years ago) link
― Eric H., Friday, 16 July 2010 14:25 (thirteen years ago) link
one summer Ernie & Bert had a house on Fire Island w/ Sondheim & Anthony Perkins
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 16 July 2010 14:38 (thirteen years ago) link
working on my playlist for the gay wedding tomorrow. excited! and a bit nervous!
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Friday, 16 July 2010 14:40 (thirteen years ago) link
wait what are u doing for the wedding?
― janice (surm), Friday, 16 July 2010 15:05 (thirteen years ago) link
i propose a new taxonomy of coupled gays as "berts" or "ernies" to describe relationship roles
as in "power bert" or "versatile ernie"
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 16 July 2010 15:05 (thirteen years ago) link
Bert always seemed like a bossy top to me, though I'm right w/ you on vers Ernie.
― trippin lookin at my portfolio (billy), Friday, 16 July 2010 15:09 (thirteen years ago) link
surm: i'm the DJ!
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Friday, 16 July 2010 15:13 (thirteen years ago) link
YES!
me and my best friend are so bert and ernie. we fit the parts exactly, even insofar as looks are concerned.
― janice (surm), Friday, 16 July 2010 15:15 (thirteen years ago) link
unless you meant what i'm going to be playing. they gave me a list (written while drunk) of stuff i should play. the "'90s block" in particular should satisfy
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Friday, 16 July 2010 15:16 (thirteen years ago) link
haha billy i don't mean as synonyms for top/bottom roles, though you could use it that way. bert & ernie seem like they'd be more into oral and mutual j/o imho.
i'm a bert, btw.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 16 July 2010 15:24 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm a Prairie Dawn.
― Eric H., Friday, 16 July 2010 15:25 (thirteen years ago) link
Meanwhile Fozzie hangs out at bear bars, I'm reliably told.
― I'm never gonna do it without the Lex on (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 16 July 2010 15:33 (thirteen years ago) link
Was considering calling myself a Harry Monster, but I'm not quite there yet.
― Eric H., Friday, 16 July 2010 15:37 (thirteen years ago) link
I think I saw Dr Bunsen Honeydew at Julius'
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 16 July 2010 15:45 (thirteen years ago) link
Waiting for my Snuffleupagus.
― Eric H., Friday, 16 July 2010 15:46 (thirteen years ago) link
i feel like oscar today
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Friday, 16 July 2010 15:50 (thirteen years ago) link
m4m - cuddly monster couple looking for 3rd - 37 - sesame st.
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_dcpc99AkgrA/SvkhPLWMtmI/AAAAAAAABaU/Qs5Hx6ibiUM/s400/Two+Headed+Monster+Sesame+Street.jpg
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 16 July 2010 15:51 (thirteen years ago) link
Haah!
― Eric H., Friday, 16 July 2010 15:52 (thirteen years ago) link
so wait, donna
u never gave me the lowdown on ur friend r0bert
― janice (surm), Friday, 16 July 2010 16:11 (thirteen years ago) link
http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l5m7mwkFTe1qzw3gpo1_500.png
Y ISN'T THERE A DISLIKE BUTTON YET.
(thanks ctrl + w33d)
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 16 July 2010 16:50 (thirteen years ago) link
i have some awesome bert & ernie vinyl, guyz.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 16 July 2010 16:51 (thirteen years ago) link
surm: he briefly dated my best gay friend, didn't work out, haven't spoken to him much since but he is a very nice guy
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Friday, 16 July 2010 17:17 (thirteen years ago) link
i feel like he's too cute for me. y/n
― janice (surm), Friday, 16 July 2010 20:27 (thirteen years ago) link
no such thing!
― Mister AOR (The Reverend), Friday, 16 July 2010 20:30 (thirteen years ago) link
co-sign rev
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Friday, 16 July 2010 20:33 (thirteen years ago) link
Looking at apartments/houses in Toronto this weekend.
Found a really nice house w/ 4 random people I haven't met yet in a pretty decent location (near little Portugal). BUT...
When I walked into the house w/ the landlady, I was greeted by the guy moving out of the room I was looking at shirtless and wearing half-unbuttoned cutoffs shorter than the pair I occasionally sport.
Is it wrong that a voice in my head said "This is a sign."?
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 16 July 2010 23:06 (thirteen years ago) link
was he hot? what street was it on? i know that area reasonably well.
― jed_, Friday, 16 July 2010 23:45 (thirteen years ago) link
hahaha. hot, yes. boyfriended, also yes. hung out with them both after. they invited me to stay for dinner but i had plans. surm thinks i should have stayed for dinner b/c that was clearly an overture.
ossington/dundas sort of?
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 16 July 2010 23:56 (thirteen years ago) link
AKA I AM A HIPSTER LOL
ah yes, i know where you are, not as far along as gladstone though?
i'm only asking because i wondered if it's my friends ex-flat which i know it ridiculous considering the amount of HIPSTERs there now haha.
― jed_, Saturday, 17 July 2010 00:01 (thirteen years ago) link
no not nearly that far. anyway, looking at a few other places this wknd. we shall see.
are you from toronto, or just visit often?
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 17 July 2010 00:10 (thirteen years ago) link
no i just visit my best friend who moved there. she's currently on a crazy, and so far fruitless, apartment search.
― jed_, Saturday, 17 July 2010 02:51 (thirteen years ago) link
happy b'days to dr3w & elmo!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 17 July 2010 15:59 (thirteen years ago) link
happy birthday boys! x
― jed_, Saturday, 17 July 2010 16:01 (thirteen years ago) link
HB to both of you fine gentlemen!
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Saturday, 17 July 2010 16:45 (thirteen years ago) link
much <3 ur way
― janice (surm), Saturday, 17 July 2010 18:04 (thirteen years ago) link
calling Stevie D
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Kl7yL_h95qc/SV_p6OZeOII/AAAAAAAAJWI/BpCj60GEzuk/s400/Ben+Cohen+picture+8802.jpg
― jed_, Saturday, 17 July 2010 19:33 (thirteen years ago) link
Haps to both!
― Eric H., Saturday, 17 July 2010 19:57 (thirteen years ago) link
Hi, gays. I just came from the pool, where unemployed undergraduates were competing to see who could engage in the most obnoxious PDA's with their girlfriends.
― I'm never gonna do it without the Lex on (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 17 July 2010 20:11 (thirteen years ago) link
http://files.derekbodner.com/photos/2008-WS-Parade/small/6642-rain_on_parade_sign.jpg
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Saturday, 17 July 2010 20:15 (thirteen years ago) link
Happy days to both Elmo and Drew!!
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Saturday, 17 July 2010 20:40 (thirteen years ago) link
thanks y'all, i have had a crazy birthday here in Germany- friend's bf Benny baked me a cake with candles and champagne when we showed up at the dance studio this morning (we're working with choreographer from Forsythe Company on a new performance piece this month) and now Martin and I are holed up in a fancy suite overlooking the river in a crumbling old spa town called Bad Ems- tomorrow is all about taking the curative waters at this weird ass 18th century resort hotel- it's been decadent and weird and fun. So sweet of y'all to remember my special day. Kinda can't believe that I have survived to be, gulp, 39 years old. Whoah!
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Saturday, 17 July 2010 21:25 (thirteen years ago) link
you've achieved a lot in that time and you look damn good for it.
hope to see the forsythe piece at some point when it's realised.
― jed_, Saturday, 17 July 2010 21:35 (thirteen years ago) link
i'll be 39 next birthday.
― jed_, Saturday, 17 July 2010 21:36 (thirteen years ago) link
you've achieved a lot in that time
does that sound awful? you have done a hell of a lot and you'll do a hell of a lot more! x
― jed_, Saturday, 17 July 2010 21:37 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.haeckers-kurhotel.de/bad-ems/galerie/images/galerie1.jpgthis is where i'm hiding out tonight
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Saturday, 17 July 2010 21:43 (thirteen years ago) link
low key
― plax (ico), Saturday, 17 July 2010 21:44 (thirteen years ago) link
oh you... damn.
― jed_, Saturday, 17 July 2010 21:44 (thirteen years ago) link
Jed that Ben Cohen photo is... :o~~
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Saturday, 17 July 2010 22:34 (thirteen years ago) link
Hugs and kisses, Drew and elmo!
― I'm never gonna do it without the Lex on (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 17 July 2010 23:01 (thirteen years ago) link
thank u guys! although one of the surprise birthday gifts I've received this year is a searing toothache. oh well. gonna try to enjoy the day to the best of my ability.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Sunday, 18 July 2010 14:36 (thirteen years ago) link
:P
whisky
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 18 July 2010 14:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Thank you, jed; I had almost forgotten abt that pic. Elmo is going to have a v happy birthday re: this celebration of his I have been hearing about. Dr3w, I can't see how you could possibly have a bad birthday as well with all that excitement!
― the aztec mystic pizza (Stevie D), Sunday, 18 July 2010 15:21 (thirteen years ago) link
Bad EMS:
http://wwwimage.cbsnews.com/images/2003/12/26/image590302g.jpg
that pic! omg
so hot
forsythe isn't my cup of tea but i can see it working really well for you, drew
rock on!!!!
― janice (surm), Sunday, 18 July 2010 16:01 (thirteen years ago) link
o and btw by that pic i mean the one above, not the EMS
― janice (surm), Sunday, 18 July 2010 16:02 (thirteen years ago) link
my friends' wedding turned out great! i managed to keep the dancefloor going most of the night once ppl got into full-on party mode but on top of that the ceremony itself was really beautiful and the food was terrific. unfortunately the combination of an open bar + not getting to eat very much proved kind of disastrous; i woke up today w/ one of the most severe hangovers i've ever had, but it was so worth it
...also i went home w/ one of the grooms' friends :x
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Sunday, 18 July 2010 22:44 (thirteen years ago) link
great! esp yr last point ;)
― jed_, Sunday, 18 July 2010 22:53 (thirteen years ago) link
hells yea!
― janice (surm), Sunday, 18 July 2010 22:54 (thirteen years ago) link
hope ur hangover's mostly passed and ur gonna enjoy a nice dinner or sumthin
well that was a productive night! good goin, doll
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 18 July 2010 23:21 (thirteen years ago) link
Congrats. My worst hangover of the last ten years occurred after my best friend's wedding; at least yours had the best kind of ice pack on your head.
― I'm never gonna do it without the Lex on (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 18 July 2010 23:25 (thirteen years ago) link
What did you play during your set?
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Sunday, 18 July 2010 23:40 (thirteen years ago) link
ceremony opening: the beatles - 'here comes the sun'ceremony closing: the cure - 'just like heaven'dinner hours: sort of whatever i felt like since no one was really paying attention, so fleetwood mac, erasure, nina simone, steely danpartypartytime: lots of current top 40 but also a good hour or so of '90s dance/pop eg 'rhythm of the night', 'gettin jiggy with it'. 'party in the usa' got a pretty tremendous reception
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Monday, 19 July 2010 00:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Debarge's "Rhythm of the Night"?
― I'm never gonna do it without the Lex on (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 19 July 2010 00:01 (thirteen years ago) link
i barely even remember what i played near the end of the night
http://nickmain.files.wordpress.com/2008/02/crow.jpg
xp corona
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Monday, 19 July 2010 00:03 (thirteen years ago) link
party in the usa always gets a grand reception, esp at weddings i feel
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 00:29 (thirteen years ago) link
i also woke up with a hangover today. i get them so infrequently that it always takes me a while to realize why i feel so fucking weird.
i deserved it, though. i pretty much drank three 40z between the hours of 5:45 and 12:30 or so.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 19 July 2010 00:42 (thirteen years ago) link
man after my own heart!
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 00:43 (thirteen years ago) link
also, woah, i ran into friends from HIGH SCHOOL yesterday. i haven't seen anyone from high school (other than two close friends, one of whom went to lolcollege with me) in about five years. one of them is getting married (!) in a few weeks!
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 19 July 2010 00:45 (thirteen years ago) link
So my friend is getting all this action on CL, and I'm sort of tempted to make a posting just to see what sort of responses I get (but probz with little intention of answering). Is this an OK thing to do, "testing the waters"?
― the aztec mystic pizza (Stevie D), Monday, 19 July 2010 03:15 (thirteen years ago) link
CL is stupid but i guess it works for some regions
just be careful, perv central
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 03:47 (thirteen years ago) link
pretty much any internet place to solicit gay sex = perv central
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Monday, 19 July 2010 03:50 (thirteen years ago) link
or sex for that matter
guys i am drinking a big whiskey and coke with a lot a bit of whiskey and just a little bit of coke.
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Monday, 19 July 2010 04:32 (thirteen years ago) link
one of the best things about being at your parents' house is raiding their liqour cabinet imo.
so OTM
― the aztec mystic pizza (Stevie D), Monday, 19 July 2010 04:41 (thirteen years ago) link
i need this dude http://www.ilxor.com/ILX/ThreadSelectedControllerServlet?showall=true&bookmarkedmessageid=1760008&boardid=77&threadid=77794 over here to help me drink all this jim beam
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Monday, 19 July 2010 04:45 (thirteen years ago) link
I've tried CL a few times and have had some pretty bad experiences (including the last one I posted here about a while back). I haven't given up on it, but I am definitely not as confident about using it for that purpose.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Monday, 19 July 2010 04:45 (thirteen years ago) link
or lloyd, damn
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Monday, 19 July 2010 04:48 (thirteen years ago) link
i have had one great, one terrible, and one kinda ehhh experience w/ cl
oh god i am totally horndogging at the moment
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Monday, 19 July 2010 04:52 (thirteen years ago) link
on cl i've gone
pretty good -> eh -> very eh -> pretty great
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Monday, 19 July 2010 04:57 (thirteen years ago) link
really missin the boy right now. been out of touch for a minute but we're talkin right now about when i get back down there :)
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Monday, 19 July 2010 06:06 (thirteen years ago) link
score
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 06:09 (thirteen years ago) link
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Monday, 19 July 2010 06:22 (thirteen years ago) link
ur really cute and excited =)
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 06:23 (thirteen years ago) link
i wish i had a easy booty call here. i need to get some pressure out ;)
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Monday, 19 July 2010 06:26 (thirteen years ago) link
i just totally need to go ham right now
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Monday, 19 July 2010 06:37 (thirteen years ago) link
SO GODDAMN SICK OF FALLING FOR MY CUTE STRAIGHT FRIENDS
― exit through the (Tape Store), Monday, 19 July 2010 06:42 (thirteen years ago) link
don't do that
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Monday, 19 July 2010 06:52 (thirteen years ago) link
i know
i do that sometimes but i think the whole situ with the boy is giving me a better outlet for that energy
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Monday, 19 July 2010 06:58 (thirteen years ago) link
tape store, right now i'm writing this thing that is about boys who could never love me back.
so yeah.
but let me tell you everything gets so much better.
i meanhttp://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs445.snc3/25561_379225058476_682243476_3743466_5875624_n.jpg
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 19 July 2010 08:03 (thirteen years ago) link
or sometimes, it doesn't.
no one in my family ever had a liquor cabinet.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 19 July 2010 11:10 (thirteen years ago) link
but I thought you were raised Cat'lic!
― I'm never gonna do it without the Lex on (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 19 July 2010 11:38 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm definitely making full use of my parents' liquor cabinet next month, as i'm sort of being forced to move back in with them...
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Monday, 19 July 2010 13:07 (thirteen years ago) link
i helped subsidize the gin market on northern long island as a teenager, raiding my parents' liquor cabinet
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 14:19 (thirteen years ago) link
i didn't raid my dad's liquor nearly as often as i pinched from his stash
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Monday, 19 July 2010 14:22 (thirteen years ago) link
My dad went in AA before he met my mom, who has never touched anything but Cold Duck.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 19 July 2010 14:29 (thirteen years ago) link
Speaking from almost 23 years of experience, I can say that while on a global scale this is, I guess, a likely outcome, it is by no means a definitive truth, and some people are just fucked for a long while.
― the aztec mystic pizza (Stevie D), Monday, 19 July 2010 14:38 (thirteen years ago) link
and not in a good way.
Which is why I haaaaated the movie "Broken English" so much, because it's all EVEN IF YR AWKWARD AND HAVE BAD LUCK, YOU WILL SERENDIPITOUSLY FIND TRUE LOVE AND ALL YOUR DREAMS WILL COME TRUE, which is simply not true. Some people don't win in the end.
[/buzzkill]
― the aztec mystic pizza (Stevie D), Monday, 19 July 2010 14:45 (thirteen years ago) link
Where do you live Tape Store? Maybe you just need to meet more people. When your possibilities are limited your mind becomes attracted to people who are ineligible, I think. It was definitely that way for me, but once I realized I could attract the right type, those attractions fell away.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Monday, 19 July 2010 15:08 (thirteen years ago) link
otoh, all stories like that simply end before new problems set in.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 19 July 2010 15:09 (thirteen years ago) link
GOOD JOB AT BEING ENCOURAGING TO TAPE STORE.
serious negativity in here.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:02 (thirteen years ago) link
this has never been a thing for me
― r (ico), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:04 (thirteen years ago) link
haha availability is a turn on
Sorry, I didn't mean to be such a downer. FWIW I really, really hope Tape Store and rev and corey and I and everyone else all find people. And fast.
― the aztec mystic pizza (Stevie D), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:05 (thirteen years ago) link
One of the guys I've always held as a pie-eyed prospect in a perfect world but unavailable ... just broke up with his BF of some five or six years. Uh-oh.
― Eric H., Monday, 19 July 2010 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
life of tragic unrequited attraction has a certain romantic appeal tho
― r (ico), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
ha, thanks guys. :)
i found out a few weeks ago that this boy has a crush on me (first time in my life afaik). he's alright (nice, loves electrik red, is a photographer, could be beautiful w/ a haircut and a dif wardrobe), but i don't feel attracted to him. i'm not sure why. maybe i should just spend more time with him?
straight crush was teasing me about the whole thing--snuck up and put his arms around me and whispered 'it's [gay boy's name]' and i almost fainted :/
― exit through the (Tape Store), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:13 (thirteen years ago) link
"right now i'm writing this thing that is about boys who could never love me back"
<3 <3 <3
― exit through the (Tape Store), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:15 (thirteen years ago) link
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, July 19, 2010 2:02 PM (6 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
Yeah, speaking as the King of Negativity re: boy type stuff, shifting my mind into a patiently optimistic sort of place hasn't actually led to finding people, it's generally just a healthier and less stressful place to be?
which sounds really condescending and awful, but like...it'll happen if/when it happens, and until then, my life is plenty busy.
― Alex in Montreal, Monday, 19 July 2010 18:17 (thirteen years ago) link
Tape Store, you don't feel physically attracted to him, or you haven't clicked with him personally?
― Alex in Montreal, Monday, 19 July 2010 18:18 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.dwmg.com/images/forty_year_old_virgin_big.jpg
― exit through the (Tape Store), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:20 (thirteen years ago) link
because if it's the former, then you can't really change that, ya know?
but if it's the latter, then maybe let him grow on you. (not saying that you should make out with him, just give yrself some time to come around).
after being hung up for a while on unavailable guys (straight, not into you, boyfriend-ed, whatever) i often hold up new potentials against the perfectly unattainable (and unattainably perfect) dude and find them lacking. give him a chance on his own terms?
― Alex in Montreal, Monday, 19 July 2010 18:21 (thirteen years ago) link
physically i find him frustrating--he's got a beautiful face but he dresses like a confused hipster and his hair is gross imo. personally we're fine, but there haven't been any crazy sparks or anything (but i haven't spent that much time with him, just worked a few shifts together, chatted on the street, etc.)
― exit through the (Tape Store), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:22 (thirteen years ago) link
for a moment I thought you were suggesting he looked like steve carell.
seems worth exploring, at least?
― Alex in Montreal, Monday, 19 July 2010 18:26 (thirteen years ago) link
there have been a variety of interesting boys semi-on-my-radar in june/july, but i'm moving in three weeks, and it seems...well, less than prudent to try and start anything atm, especially since none of them have actively expressed interest.
― Alex in Montreal, Monday, 19 July 2010 18:28 (thirteen years ago) link
that always happens
― r (ico), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:28 (thirteen years ago) link
that said...
beautiful face but he dresses like a confused hipster and his hair is gross imo
you just described my type :P
idk if you like a guy, its not like your gonna get married?
hey, moving could be v good for dating! 'wanna show me around?' etc. etc.
staying in canada?
― exit through the (Tape Store), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:30 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, of course. it's more like. i am so busy with moving/paperwork/packing/generalized panic that finding the time to pursue anything is tough?
― Alex in Montreal, Monday, 19 July 2010 18:31 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah. just off to toronto for law school. and while i was born there, i haven't lived in the city since i was 9 mo. and i don't know it from a hole in the wall.
from what i gathered this weekend apartment hunting it is a city that is big and cold and sort of rude. sort of a leave-the-money-on-the-nightstand city?
BUT underneath the business-city shell, there are a handful of lovely neighbourhoods full of vinyl shops, second-hand bookstores, gourmet coffee and scruffy pierced+tatted baristas. if i ever have a moment to breathe outside of case studies and briefings, i am going to have a lot of fun there.
― Alex in Montreal, Monday, 19 July 2010 18:34 (thirteen years ago) link
Tape Store, I shall spend the next three weeks practicing my vaguely-perplexed/lost-but-still-cute look!
― Alex in Montreal, Monday, 19 July 2010 18:35 (thirteen years ago) link
guys, alfred and i kicked it on saturday and he grew a sweet beard! everyone congratulate him for looking good with a beard, even tho he is 30 and 30 year olds can grow beards
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:36 (thirteen years ago) link
Congratulation to Alfred for his upcoming beard.
― Alex in Montreal, Monday, 19 July 2010 18:38 (thirteen years ago) link
i like the sound of that
― plax (ico), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:39 (thirteen years ago) link
oh man! I'd have punched him in the dik
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:41 (thirteen years ago) link
also, you are sure hes straight?
― plax (ico), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:43 (thirteen years ago) link
aww thanks, J0rdan. I'll try to post a pic after I get it trimmed tomorrow.
btw J0rdan is fabulous company, and Presidente beer agrees too.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:43 (thirteen years ago) link
who's being negative? flying solo has its perks. But if you just still want to get laid regularly you have to be rich, powerful, or gorgeous once you hit 40 (forgot to do that).
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:45 (thirteen years ago) link
as someone who spent years in unrequited bromances and other emotionally arid circumstances: blaming a lack of available prospects is a factor, but only to a point. my situation was of my own making, involving closeted fear and feelings of unworthiness. crushing on straight / unavailable guys was an unhealthy pattern for me, but it was *my* pattern -- not the fault of the gay dudes i wasn't interested in, nor the fault of the dudes i longed for.
not saying that there's anything *wrong* with you but you have to be honest with yourself about what your emotional needs are here.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:46 (thirteen years ago) link
^^^ wisdom
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:48 (thirteen years ago) link
if you want to get laid its not impossible, dont really believe age is a factor in that
― plax (ico), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:51 (thirteen years ago) link
yes, I just have to get comfy w/ desperate 65-year-olds
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:53 (thirteen years ago) link
riiiight, loads of guys go for older guys for a start
― plax (ico), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:55 (thirteen years ago) link
Jared Leto gets hurt
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 18:58 (thirteen years ago) link
also, I need to stop wearing my Hell Is Other People t-shirt on Saturday nights
xxp
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Well. A 26-y-old of Brazilian descent came in to apply and he's been charming my ass off for ten minutes.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:07 (thirteen years ago) link
what happens once your ass has been completely charmed off? do you expect he will abscond with it?
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:09 (thirteen years ago) link
He can carry it home and pour mojitos over it.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:18 (thirteen years ago) link
ew
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:19 (thirteen years ago) link
he can mount it... on his wall
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:30 (thirteen years ago) link
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:31 (thirteen years ago) link
I have actually been much better with positivity and meeting dudes the past few months. I've exchanged numbers with two diff guys since I moved home/started going to Philly a lot, and things have def been on the upswing since the beginning of the year (I am constantly telling my friends that 2010 is My Year of Gay). I am just still getting frustrated I haven't found some sort of real relationship yet.
― the aztec mystic pizza (Stevie D), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:44 (thirteen years ago) link
i want to date a hot gay pizza expert
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:46 (thirteen years ago) link
post of the year
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:47 (thirteen years ago) link
i have been having this weird flirt/severe awkward thing w/ this guy who i think is kinda cute that comes to the coffee place i work from time to time. but its ACTUALLY ENTIRELY body language/emphasis stuff. i know its not all in my head because of things coworkers have said. i don't really know how to even initiate like a chat w. this guy. hes kindof weird anyway but im into that.
― plax (ico), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:55 (thirteen years ago) link
"hi"
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:56 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah that 's the groove i'm stuck on
― plax (ico), Monday, 19 July 2010 19:57 (thirteen years ago) link
i like to see what i come up with on the fly after that, sometimes it's pretty hilarious
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 20:15 (thirteen years ago) link
hi is usually followed by "i'll have a cappuccino plz" tho :/
― plax (ico), Monday, 19 July 2010 20:18 (thirteen years ago) link
slip him ur card
"oh and here u go, if u ever wanna get a real drink"
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 20:19 (thirteen years ago) link
live a little! freak yourself out! it'll be worth the adrenaline rush
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 20:20 (thirteen years ago) link
lol like i ever do this
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 20:21 (thirteen years ago) link
obv but "want to go for a drink some time?" is kind of a good one!
― jed_, Monday, 19 July 2010 20:21 (thirteen years ago) link
ha, i usually just wait for them to come to me i guess?
― plax (ico), Monday, 19 July 2010 20:25 (thirteen years ago) link
the ol' phone-number-on-a-napkin canard (i have always wanted to do this)
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Monday, 19 July 2010 20:26 (thirteen years ago) link
i am hoping i have the nerve for the ol' cocktail in the face next time i see this guy
― janice (surm), Monday, 19 July 2010 20:29 (thirteen years ago) link
this is what i did the first night i met my bf!
it was actually a karaoke slip but same diff.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Monday, 19 July 2010 20:40 (thirteen years ago) link
1- Morbz, I know so many poor, un-powerful, average-looking gay men over 40 who are in relationships, or have been in relationships recently. i just don't buy what you're selling.
2- elmo's big post is right on.
3- i think that perhaps my perspective has changed a lot in the past year, mostly because i found out more about myself, my sexual needs, and the type of 'scene' which interests me. these things come with time, but pushing in certain directions can also help you find out what does and doesn't work for you. what is certain is that unrequited crushes on straight friends is not going to make you happier, and thusly more attractive to guys who might actually want to sleep with you.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 19 July 2010 20:41 (thirteen years ago) link
That's been my experience -- it's pheronomal. The more aggressive and coquettish you are, the greater likelihood you'll get laid, and guys will start to smell your confidence.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 19 July 2010 20:58 (thirteen years ago) link
― the aztec mystic pizza (Stevie D), Monday, July 19, 2010 11:05 AM Bookmark
I found a people! We are just in the awkward 'are we a couple or not' zone.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, July 19, 2010 Suggest Ban Permalink12:07 PM Bookmark
Sometimes I feel like you live the best life.
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Monday, 19 July 2010 21:29 (thirteen years ago) link
Naw, Rev -- I couldn't his Facebook profile! I did ask if he "lived alone, with his parents, with a partner, or what?" He said he just bought a house and lives alone; he's too meticulous about housekeeping for roommates. "I lived with these two women once. Ew!" He shuddered. "Yes, I avoid women," I said. He nodded.
I still don't know whether he's one of us.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 19 July 2010 21:35 (thirteen years ago) link
I would probably guess so.
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Monday, 19 July 2010 21:38 (thirteen years ago) link
*couldn't find his Facebook profile, that is
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 19 July 2010 21:48 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't want a "relationship" (one of my 10 most hated words) per se. I would settle for a month or two of screwing.
Did not run into Cute Regular from Brooklyn Bar this weekend whose phone#/email I have failed to get, even after nibbling on his neck last time.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 19 July 2010 21:51 (thirteen years ago) link
Alex in Montreal, i started a thread over on ILB you might be interested in ;)
― jed_, Monday, 19 July 2010 22:10 (thirteen years ago) link
I Love Butt?
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 19 July 2010 22:12 (thirteen years ago) link
of course, where else?
― jed_, Monday, 19 July 2010 22:36 (thirteen years ago) link
ppl are slowly uploading photos from the wedding and there's a whole bunch of me dancing with that dude ^_^
(i also do not remember many of these photos being taken, at all)
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Monday, 19 July 2010 23:24 (thirteen years ago) link
how do you guys feel about "having" kids
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:24 (thirteen years ago) link
Not unless God performs a miracle.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:25 (thirteen years ago) link
Seriously: I have a six-month-old niece for whom I'm starting to feel love, and we get on just fine, but I lack the financial and psychological resources to raise and feel pride in a child.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:27 (thirteen years ago) link
i was talking about this with my housemates the other day. i feel like i have enough straight friends who will have kids that i can be like 'uncle ted' or whatever, so i have no real desire to have kids myself. plus that shit is expensive.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:29 (thirteen years ago) link
At the risk of sounding glib, I own my own place and don't have a pet. If I'm out of the apartment ten or twelve hours a day I'd hate leaving a dog alone, not to mention $200 every time I take it to the vet, plus tags, rabies shots, etc.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:32 (thirteen years ago) link
I have a 3-1/2 year old niece, and same. I sometimes wish the subway had kid-free cars. xxp
As Q. Crisp said, "The trouble with children is they're not returnable."
He also addressed our last topic: "It is explained that all relationships require a little give and take. This is untrue. Any partnership demands that we give and give and give and at the last, as we flop into our graves exhausted, we are told that we didn't give enough."
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:32 (thirteen years ago) link
this is a dilemma in my life def -- i love kids, i THINK i would love having a kid, but idk, the whole process seems pretty complicated because i don't think i could adopt a kid
i was thinking about this tonight cuz i was eating dinner w my grandmother and she was going thru old family history, who is who's cousin and sister and aunt and shit, and i was thinking like "hmmm, i'm prob not gonna end up contributing anything to the family tree" -- thankfully my brother will prob have 2 kids so it will be all good for the s4rgent family name
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:35 (thirteen years ago) link
if i was related to dr. morbs i would without a doubt procure a child and make him/her spent an inordinate amount of time with uncle morbs
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:36 (thirteen years ago) link
spend*
If it's any comfort to being a noncontributor to the tree, J, no one will care a hundred years from now.
The niece likes me, really.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:37 (thirteen years ago) link
how close to you is the nearest gay family member in yall's families? i can't think of anyone in mine tbh
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:39 (thirteen years ago) link
nobody I know of who's even suspiciously "discreet." We don't keep in touch w/ Dad's side of the family tho.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:44 (thirteen years ago) link
no other confirmed gays in my family. my dad's uncle was a lifelong bachelor, though -- who knows?
statistically speaking there is a good chance that one of my 7 bros will be a gay.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:45 (thirteen years ago) link
^same except replace "dad" with "mom"
xp to morbs
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:46 (thirteen years ago) link
My sister briefly flirted with sapphism; otherwise a second cousin twice or enough removed died of AIDS in '96.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:47 (thirteen years ago) link
ramzi really needs to be an uncle to a young girl imo
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:47 (thirteen years ago) link
i'd be down w/ being an uncle. i like the idea of having my brothers' kids visit me in nyc and i can take them to the met or to a silent comedy at film forum (if it's still around in like, 2024) or something
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:49 (thirteen years ago) link
My godfather -- my dad's half brother -- also died of AIDS, in 1995. We weren't close though, and as far as I know he caught it whoring in S. Korea when he was in ROTC in the early eighties.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:49 (thirteen years ago) link
when I attend family parties like Noche Buena and Father's Day, or even smaller things like birthday parties, I am quite literally the only person without a date. It leads to some awkwardness as I've sometimes no one to talk to, especially when the gin hits and I start to inject waspish remarks when The Men talk about their wives and girlfriends.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:51 (thirteen years ago) link
at my uncle's wake last month one of my great-aunts said something to my parents about my brothers and i finding girlfriends and getting married someday. i just smiled politely
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:54 (thirteen years ago) link
as it is i don't think i have much to talk about w/ extended family (who i hardly see anymore anyhow, since they've all moved down south), so if my brothers get to have kids soon that'd be great with me. my older one recently broke off an engagement tho (and i'm mostly relieved)
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 01:58 (thirteen years ago) link
Hi, gays. I'm bored.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:32 (thirteen years ago) link
hi alfred!
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:34 (thirteen years ago) link
what up elmo?
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:36 (thirteen years ago) link
sup dudes
yrs,bored in bklyn
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:37 (thirteen years ago) link
tooth is hurting like a mofo. possibly an abcess. hazy on vicodin & watching buffy:tvs on netflix (final season fyi)
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:39 (thirteen years ago) link
oyyy. i had to deal with an abscessed tooth last year, no fun. (and they gave me far weaker painkillers than vicodin)
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:45 (thirteen years ago) link
um, guys, i coaxed a boil to burst this afternoon by applying a warm compress. gross.
i don't think i have any out gay family members. my only surviving grandparent doesn't know that i'm a fag, but everyone else does.
that said, i think one of my younger cousins (a boy) is one of us. he's turning 16 this year, and wants to be a scifi writer, and loves Philip K Dick books that i get him for Xmas. he is awesome.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:46 (thirteen years ago) link
dentist appt is tomorrow a.m. and i am v eager to get this checked out. stressing a bit because i'm throwing a party this weekend and have put so much planning into it and i want to be in a condition to enjoy it.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:49 (thirteen years ago) link
also table: ewwwww. boils is nassty.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:50 (thirteen years ago) link
I worked with a guy who came in with one of these:
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Z5ltdcb_9X0/R8-YIi79raI/AAAAAAAAABo/hLuMXD3v1Ls/s320/boil2.jpg
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:53 (thirteen years ago) link
im wearing a jumper
― mittens, Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:54 (thirteen years ago) link
Re: Kids
It's something I want to do, but only after I'm settled and have basically reached self-actualization. I can see myself at 40 with a child.
My mother's brother was closeted (was married to a woman and had two kids) and died of what I believe was AIDS. My mother was the only person in our family who actually knew (went to gay clubs with him, etc.). I think his experience is what led my mother to be more understanding when I finally came out, and added to her understanding why I didn't come out years before.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:56 (thirteen years ago) link
On a semi-lighter note, I had a date tonight, but he hasn't messaged me back — which is okay as I kind of just want to sit in tonight and listen to Copland on headphones and drink mint tea.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:58 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm going out again. four nights in a row. my liver hurts.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 02:59 (thirteen years ago) link
i have been talking to the guy from the wedding on FB chat for the last...three hours now?
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:00 (thirteen years ago) link
Yay! :D
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:00 (thirteen years ago) link
I WANT PICS
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:01 (thirteen years ago) link
he really is a total sweetie, which makes it pretty annoying that i can't really date anybody at the moment
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:03 (thirteen years ago) link
pourquoi? too poor? GO DUMPSTERING TOGETHER.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:04 (thirteen years ago) link
maybe that's too Oakland for you, tho.
well, too-poorness leads into the real reason why: i'm moving back to nj in august
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:05 (thirteen years ago) link
with any luck, that berkeley fellowship will happen and i'll be out your way come fall, tho!
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:06 (thirteen years ago) link
NOTTOJINXITORANYTHING
YES!!!! I AM KNOCKING ON MY WOODEN KITCHEN TABLE.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:07 (thirteen years ago) link
THE WOODEN KITCHEN TABLE IS THE TABLE
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:08 (thirteen years ago) link
haha.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:10 (thirteen years ago) link
all this capslock action reminds me: I got an email from the chick at the box office of the symphony I sell subscriptions for in all caps, which she explained away with: I'M NOT SCREAMING IT'S JUST EASIER TO TYPE IN ALL CAPS
You think she could've spent the time explaining that to just use the shift key?
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:12 (thirteen years ago) link
in what universe is that ever true?
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:13 (thirteen years ago) link
also "I'm not screaming" sounds like a Linkin Park song title.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:13 (thirteen years ago) link
Just saw Les 4mours Imaginaires - second film from the current enfant terrible of Quebec cinema, X4vier D0l4n.
His first one, J'ai Tue M4 Mere was sort of a melodramatic gay coming of age piece focused more on the main character's relationship with his mother. First movie was pretty film school, despite taking a bunch of awards at Cannes, and held up mostly due to the fact that Anne Dorval is fucking wondrous as the mother.
New one is more low key, pretty enjoyable and funny in a v. French way. Unrequited bisexual love triangle high on style and light on substance. Awkward and ambitious vs. mannered and restrained, but both are worth a watch - he's a derivative but potentially promising new voice in queer film.
Of course having said this, Morbs & Alfred will probably hate them (due to having actual discerning taste). :P
― Alex in Montreal, Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:14 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh, and I'm sure there's something politically questionable for tabes to be pissed about. Haha.
Always wary of recommending films (esp queer film) because I don't know shit about the broader scene. Still, if nothing else, D0l4n's pretty cute, albeit supposedly a bit of a dick.
― Alex in Montreal, Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:15 (thirteen years ago) link
he came off as kind of annoying in an interview, but i'd like to see the films
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:23 (thirteen years ago) link
why are you googleproofing?
― jed_, Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:24 (thirteen years ago) link
Haha. I'm not sure? Know a couple of people in common - the lead actress in the new one is a friend of a friend, figured better safe than sorry when mentioning second/third-hand reports of douchery, but no real reason, I suppose.
― Alex in Montreal, Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:27 (thirteen years ago) link
ha, ok.
wtf this dude is 21?
― jed_, Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:28 (thirteen years ago) link
I've read about I Killed My Mother and would like to see it, but I think there's a limit to how much I could like a film by a 19-year-old who wasn't Sadie Benning.
j0e, does "sort of" moving back w/ folks mean they are giving you a private entrance? Anyhoo, let's have some more drinks or movies before that happens. (I am in the Deep South Aug 3-9.)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, like I said. Not bad, but flawed and overpraised as a result of his youth.
Here's a fairly enjoyable clip.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lagFmTpTaOg&feature=related&has_verified=1
― Alex in Montreal, Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:36 (thirteen years ago) link
heh, nah, but i will have a sweet oscillating A/C and a new comfy mattress. i'll be popping in and out of NYC periodically but yes, drinks soon!
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:42 (thirteen years ago) link
good, bcz I am not doing any more job interviews out there.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:43 (thirteen years ago) link
I think I need to move to the east coast. Everyone seems to be there.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:45 (thirteen years ago) link
neither will i, hopefully :x xp
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:50 (thirteen years ago) link
I want out of NYC more every day.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 03:57 (thirteen years ago) link
That's what I've been thinking for a few months, till it seems I might be forced out due to circumstances similar to j03's (only my destination is SoCal instead of NJ). I'd prefer to leave by choice. Talked about this drunkenly for several hours last night w/ married friends, and thinking about it for the past few days has given me an awful tension headache that vicodin has only alleviated a little bit.
twas good seeing you on Sat, Morbs.
― trippin lookin at my portfolio (billy), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 04:07 (thirteen years ago) link
and you, too!
The cultural decline of Gotham is forcing me out. And the reinstatement of Oliver Perez.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 04:11 (thirteen years ago) link
billy - LA? (that is maybe my other option if berkeley doesn't pan out)
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 04:15 (thirteen years ago) link
yep, LA. I kind of have to make a decision about this soon, which is stressing me out.
Stressing me out in a different way is 24yo actor who is supposed to be on 30rock next year. He is fun and cute and likes me but being an ACTOR, he is both charming and obnoxious at the same time. I feel like I'm too old to get into anything when I know there's no real future, but he's a hard person to turn down. And then there's added thing of possibly leaving soon, so I don't know how much time I should actually invest. Though I realize that sounds like whining, and I know it's a totally cushy fun problem to have.
― trippin lookin at my portfolio (billy), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 04:26 (thirteen years ago) link
My dad's cousin (which I guess makes him my cousin once removed?) is. Finally brought his boyfriend to our annual family reunion last summer.
― Eric H., Tuesday, 20 July 2010 04:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Gay....family members? I don't think I have those. There's the one cousin who always strikes me as kinda dykey (female basketball player etc) but she usually has a bf. I guess the closest is my aunt's gay friend who used to come to our christmas gatherings, but I haven't seen him in years.
it will be all good for the s4rgent family name
I'm the only male Gr33ne of my gen in my extended fam. Otherwise it's 6 girls and a boy w/ a diff last name.
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 06:24 (thirteen years ago) link
so uh yeah i just finished talking to that guy now
i don't sweat dating or meeting guys too much anymore but it does feel like i always meet ppl i'm interested in like, right before he or i have to go away for a long time
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 06:40 (thirteen years ago) link
I did meet a girl I shared a v. obvious mutual interest with a couple weeks before I moved to Portland and it really sucked when it could have been v awesome under only slightly different circumstances.
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 06:54 (thirteen years ago) link
im the same as rev wrt family name and i def don't have any interest in kids. one reason i'm glad not to be straight, i figure there's way more pressure then.
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 08:29 (thirteen years ago) link
ermmmm, my only bro is gay, but i think he's kinda closeted to, like, work people? and some friends maybe?
i'm out to p much everyone except my family! MY LIFE IS A MESS
― exit through the (Tape Store), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 08:39 (thirteen years ago) link
tonight was just a weird night overall for me..... spent waayyy more time thinking about being gay than i have in a long ass time
i indirectly ended up kind of... depressed -- usually never happens to me
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 08:52 (thirteen years ago) link
that's silly, j0rdan! you're cute and smart and are destined to be successful and happy and in love!
xoxo
― exit through the (Tape Store), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 08:57 (thirteen years ago) link
thanks boo
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 08:58 (thirteen years ago) link
the depressed part was... you know, generally being deeply in love with my str8 best friend hovers over my life but it's something i've coped with/accepted for like 4 years or something, but tonight for some reason it actually made me pretty sad, the cruelty of the whole thing
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 09:00 (thirteen years ago) link
hugs
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 11:30 (thirteen years ago) link
that sux jordan. the coping with it even more, really :(
what tape store and morbs said, really. btw does he know?
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 12:58 (thirteen years ago) link
i dreamt last night that i went to hospital for a standard operation, ended up getting a sex change and came out as a woman. the worrying part was that the only concern in the dream was what i was going to do with my clothes and where to go to buy woman's clothes and that i didn't know what was hip.
― jed_, Tuesday, 20 July 2010 13:32 (thirteen years ago) link
That's how it was for me. Friends knew and co-workers who I felt safe around knew, but I didn't come out to my family until the beginning of this year.
I've gone through this too, with more than one straight friend! I think after a while I just realized that I am inclined to have tender feelings for the people in my life, and that I may have been mistaking my platonic love for sexual attraction. After a while the attraction sort of fell away.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 13:55 (thirteen years ago) link
I use the phrase "after a while" too much also, bah.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 13:56 (thirteen years ago) link
I just realized that I am inclined to have tender feelings for the people in my life, and that I may have been mistaking my platonic love for sexual attraction. After a while the attraction sort of fell away.
^I'm with this, so much. The realization came with getting older, basically. Although it still affects me day-to-day, like "Why can't I find a guy as good as [straight guy friend]?" Though it's more comical than upsetting now, since I don't actually want to be w/ any of my friends.
We've all gone through this, yes? So buck up, jordan. I know it stinks but echoing other sentiments, you are way cute and funny and smart and some guy will be lucky to have you.
― trippin lookin at my portfolio (billy), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 15:57 (thirteen years ago) link
btw does he know?
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, July 20, 2010 8:58 AM (3 hours ago) Bookmark
yeah yeah -- we have a really great relationship, i'm really lucky in many regards, but of course that's part of the problem
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 16:49 (thirteen years ago) link
i didn't know he knew u were in love with him, i thought he just knew u were a faggot
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 16:51 (thirteen years ago) link
oh psh, yeah
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 16:51 (thirteen years ago) link
he loves me back! just not in exactly the same way
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 16:52 (thirteen years ago) link
From my experience – I think we kinda discussed it once – it's a dangerous, dangerous situation.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 16:54 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah :-/
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 16:57 (thirteen years ago) link
i think ur really nice jordan, and u will find some gorgeous man who will take care of u, i promise. i just know it. i see it.
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 16:58 (thirteen years ago) link
J0rdan, I'm pouring gin down your throat this week.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:04 (thirteen years ago) link
alfred u have been getting really graphic with regard to liquor
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:05 (thirteen years ago) link
That's cuz I mentioned asses and throats respectively, you perv.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:06 (thirteen years ago) link
one day i will find my ryan
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:15 (thirteen years ago) link
http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2007/specials/half_size/10_tips/ryan_seacrest.jpg
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:17 (thirteen years ago) link
you're so cute xp
i think he's fed up with me cuz i just gchat fought with him over ... yogurt
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:18 (thirteen years ago) link
if I may quote Annie Hall, "Love fades."
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:18 (thirteen years ago) link
is that blackened salmon? looks amazing
xpost That's OK, co-dependence flourishes.
― Eric H., Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:20 (thirteen years ago) link
my love has not faded but it has gotten more complicated
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:22 (thirteen years ago) link
and nihilism rules.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:22 (thirteen years ago) link
i'd rather chop off my own dick than fuck seacrest
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:22 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah but how bout that salmon eh?
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:23 (thirteen years ago) link
i'd much rather eat blackened salmon than do either of those things
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:23 (thirteen years ago) link
lol xp
hate salmon
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:23 (thirteen years ago) link
unless it's sushi
blackened swordfish owns
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:24 (thirteen years ago) link
surm...what aspect of yoghurt was the issue?
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:24 (thirteen years ago) link
tbh the yogurt was just an accidental accompaniment to the matter . . . it was mostly just me being pissy and making him deal with it. oops, i'm a bitch!
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:26 (thirteen years ago) link
Looooove salmon. I cook a terrific broiled salmon marinated in soy sauce, dijon mustard, half a teaspoon of olive oil, and dill. Then I sprinkle capers.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:26 (thirteen years ago) link
i have to be honest that i love dill
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:27 (thirteen years ago) link
surm, I'm going to shove dill up your nostrils.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:28 (thirteen years ago) link
don't think there's any fish or seafood that i don't love, but salmon's definitely near the top. will eat it done any way, in sushi, as gravadlax, honey roasted, anything.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:28 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.screenrights.net/conniestevensdillemma_clip_image004.jpg
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:29 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't get these gays that liken snatch to seafood. Seafood tastes great; snatch does not.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:29 (thirteen years ago) link
i had halibut last night
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:30 (thirteen years ago) link
jealous?
it's ok, i know you are, you can say it
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:31 (thirteen years ago) link
i had the best mackerel tartare with samphire last week
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:33 (thirteen years ago) link
i am! i had mac n' cheese :/
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:33 (thirteen years ago) link
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, July 20, 2010 1:29 PM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark
earlier this year, one of my roommates was cooking salmon, and the other was like "it really smells like vagina in here" and i was like "yep.................."
― de jong and the restless (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:33 (thirteen years ago) link
i am jealous of anyone eating solid food right now.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:42 (thirteen years ago) link
:( get well
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:42 (thirteen years ago) link
i am on a diet
and i am broke
i love life!
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:43 (thirteen years ago) link
on the upside, i've been lifting weights and doing sit ups! i actually kind of look like a guy (barely)
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:44 (thirteen years ago) link
I just got a haircut and trim, and look fab.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:44 (thirteen years ago) link
omg me too haircut!
i've also been wearing boxers. i know. now i just need a beer and a wife.
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:45 (thirteen years ago) link
on the plus this liquid diet will probably flush a few pounds away? ugh.
really struggling to see the silver lining to this tooth issue here.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:45 (thirteen years ago) link
what's wrong, elmo?
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:45 (thirteen years ago) link
learned this morning that the root canal i had 2 years ago was, ultimately, a failure, and the infection has recurred. probably going to need it yanked as other procedures come with a high chance of recurrence.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:49 (thirteen years ago) link
fuck
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:50 (thirteen years ago) link
ugh, hang in there; this will be over... eventually.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:51 (thirteen years ago) link
aargh. i had a wisdom tooth issue a few years ago that was unnecessarily extended, several months of soup/yoghurt/pate/wasting away :(
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:51 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh man.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 17:54 (thirteen years ago) link
I hate my shirt:
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f308/sotoalf/moi.jpg
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 18:06 (thirteen years ago) link
A+ beard!
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 18:38 (thirteen years ago) link
That's your best pic yet here, I think.
― Eric H., Tuesday, 20 July 2010 18:40 (thirteen years ago) link
haven't trimmed my facial hair in nearly a month. my mustache is looking slightly... unsavory.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 19:09 (thirteen years ago) link
Alfred, your beard is quite becoming!
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Tuesday, 20 July 2010 21:05 (thirteen years ago) link
Alfred that beard makes you look somewhat middle-eastern.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 02:32 (thirteen years ago) link
You guys are sweet.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 02:33 (thirteen years ago) link
:3
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 02:34 (thirteen years ago) link
Have been chatting with this older gay (late 40s I think) at work after I casually mentioned that I hadn't come out to my family until this year (we were talking about awkward family meetings) and it's become apparent to me how much harder it is for gay men of older generations (like born in the 60s or before) to get over their anger. It's been tough for me to get over hating the world and feeling mistreated, but talking to this guy has really hit it home that I basically have it easy in a lot of ways.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 03:05 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm only really out to my immediate family + whichever cousins are facebook friends w/ me.
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 04:53 (thirteen years ago) link
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, July 7, 2010 9:07 PM (2 weeks ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
i just happened upon this guy on your FB page? ...
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 20:09 (thirteen years ago) link
don't really know what to say, really
a few things:
1- surm, regular boxers are like....i almost suggest banned you for that, haha
2- um, wow, this morning was nuts. my butt hurts in that good way.
3- the drummer of said band: http://hphotos-snc3.fbcdn.net/hs377.snc3/24151_10150146407340387_505855386_11729860_528744_n.jpg
and that doesn't come CLOSE to how hot he is.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 20:40 (thirteen years ago) link
irl, that is.
i'm sorry but i stand by my regular boxers, i just LOVE THEM and i've been told i look cute in them :D
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 20:42 (thirteen years ago) link
well, i think that you're a savage, but cute no matter what ;D
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 20:44 (thirteen years ago) link
I like boxers.
T, could you take a plaster cast of his thighs?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 20:46 (thirteen years ago) link
;)
i still wear lots of gay underwear too, not to worry
so u gonna jump this guy or WHAT
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 20:46 (thirteen years ago) link
maybe. when/if i can find my passport.
or when his band comes back down on tour.
my bf and i have already decided that we want to sneak him through customs so he can just stay here with us.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 20:48 (thirteen years ago) link
also, relatively certain that he'd be jumping me, iykwim
well the reason i came across him is cuz i clicked on ur FB profile foto and saw his comment ...
"im on u" ?
um
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 20:50 (thirteen years ago) link
he's on the shirt.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 20:50 (thirteen years ago) link
and then i proceeded to click thru all his pictures and crane my neck to my office computer monitor, pretending i was looking at "figures"
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 20:51 (thirteen years ago) link
ahhahahahahahahahahahahahaha i was wondering why you responded what you responded
it's a double entendre of epic proportions.
when he wrote that, my jaw dropped and i was almost like, 'let me buy a plane ticket to vancouver asap'
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 20:51 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm actually a little bit upset that he exists. it makes me feel like a failure of epic proportions. and he's talented.
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 20:57 (thirteen years ago) link
but what's he like on the inside
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 21:04 (thirteen years ago) link
re: boxers, i keep a few pairs around for lounging around the house on hot & humid days. my testicles need as much swing as they can get on such days, to be crudely honest with you all.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 21:17 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm a briefs guys: the boxer legs bunch up under my thighs. I tend to wear boxers if I go drinking or dancing though; if I get lucky I prefer he gets a look at me in boxers.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 21:20 (thirteen years ago) link
easy access is the bomb
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 21:22 (thirteen years ago) link
i love that we can always fall back on haircuts and underpants
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 21:31 (thirteen years ago) link
i just have this memory, of this guy and me, sitting at my keyboard. and all of a sudden he was in my pants!
easy access.
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 21:41 (thirteen years ago) link
damn @ the drummer
― u dad (J0rdan S.), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:17 (thirteen years ago) link
i guess i see it, but i cant relate.
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:19 (thirteen years ago) link
like objectively y. subjectively n.
rly! wow i woulda thought that was a universal
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:19 (thirteen years ago) link
flesh to bone ratio is off
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:21 (thirteen years ago) link
i like tall toned skinny boys. eh.. plus his band is awesome.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:28 (thirteen years ago) link
I've seen hotter white guys -- and drummers. Sorry!
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:30 (thirteen years ago) link
not the first time i have posted this link
http://www.buttmagazine.com/?p=652
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:34 (thirteen years ago) link
flesh to bone ratio is off― plax (ico), Wednesday, July 21, 2010 6:21 PM (13 minutes ago) Bookmark
― plax (ico), Wednesday, July 21, 2010 6:21 PM (13 minutes ago) Bookmark
^^^fucking softball right here
― be told and get high on coconut (gbx), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:35 (thirteen years ago) link
I thought this thread played hardball
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:36 (thirteen years ago) link
i knew full well that i shouldn't have clicked that link in the library and yet i did and yet i did
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:36 (thirteen years ago) link
i don't find a single drummer in that Butt thing remotely attractive. however this:
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs063.snc3/13044_344301260386_505855386_10084552_881555_n.jpg
makes me weak. i''m sorry if i play into the hot 20-25 year olds who have little in the way of body hair, but that's just what i like.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:37 (thirteen years ago) link
all power to you
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:38 (thirteen years ago) link
its just endlessly baffling to me that ppl have diff taste than me on this tho
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:39 (thirteen years ago) link
it's equally baffling that any person could find any of those BUTT drummers attractive. they're all so average.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:40 (thirteen years ago) link
baffling TO ME, sorry
that's what i mean! haha!
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:41 (thirteen years ago) link
― plax (ico), Wednesday, July 21, 2010 7:39 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark
i can see this as the new ILM board description
― "slapsie" (donna rouge), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:41 (thirteen years ago) link
lol yes.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:42 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh, I'd have my way with him, but he's a drunk fuck.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:44 (thirteen years ago) link
too young
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:46 (thirteen years ago) link
eh, i feel weird now, i'm like friends with him kind of.
that and also, i do like other types. like i still find the infamous n1ck of TGF really hot.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:47 (thirteen years ago) link
table, we have similar taste
just had a yearlong *whatever it was* with a mostly str8 doom metal drummer
more power to you
haters gon hate
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:48 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah whatever.
at least now i know i know who my competition is. ;-)
oh, have u heard his band, dr3w?
go right here
probably one of my favorite LPs of the year.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:52 (thirteen years ago) link
oh yeah, our merch boy had played a show with them, he mentioned it when we played in vancouver, he said they're rad, haven't heard em yet
drummer boy was a champ in the sack but kinda broke my heart a bit on his way out
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:55 (thirteen years ago) link
oooh, sorry. that is a shame. that is, unfortunately, how it goes sometimes.
also, how do i attain M4tmos 'merch boy' status?
oh hey, i actually realized that the reason i didn't come to see you the last time you were out here was because the drummer's band was playing the same night!
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:57 (thirteen years ago) link
ok lol @ "merch boy"
― be told and get high on coconut (gbx), Wednesday, 21 July 2010 23:58 (thirteen years ago) link
our merch bro is/was named max 3ilbach3r and he's awesomehe's in a bmore noize band called n33dle gun (they've been going since they were in high school, now they're undergrads)I think they played with nu sensae?
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Thursday, 22 July 2010 00:02 (thirteen years ago) link
that would make sense, shearing pinx are more of the noize-punk think and they toured with nu sensae
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 22 July 2010 00:13 (thirteen years ago) link
not hating, table's drummer dude is a fine fine specimen -- just doesn't do it for me. but i happen to think that table's bf is way more attractive anyhow.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 22 July 2010 00:46 (thirteen years ago) link
Yup.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 July 2010 00:52 (thirteen years ago) link
i very much dug all the drummers in the butt photo essay
― u dad (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 22 July 2010 01:31 (thirteen years ago) link
Don't know what's so controversial. I want that drummer, like, now.
― Eric H., Thursday, 22 July 2010 01:41 (thirteen years ago) link
(Tabes's I mean, but the BUTT one is alright too.)
On second thought, yeah, I'd love that drummer, like, now. I've got a half a bottle of merlot and a six of beer in the fridge. Let's party, little drummer boy.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 July 2010 01:47 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah that drummer is hot as fuck even though I prefer guys bigger than me.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Thursday, 22 July 2010 01:54 (thirteen years ago) link
reactions
1) t#ddy never feel ashamed to speak about what u like, that's silly. i like my wonder bread white boys too. they're wonderful. i married one after all.
2) dr3w i thought u were with someone. are u in an open relationship, or did i completely make this relationship up to begin with?
3) i like average looking guys a lot as well. i know this is one of ti@rnan's things - the beauty in the "average" - and that he appreciates it in his work as well. i hear you. but i'm also a poppist at heart, in all senses of the term.
4) i am surprised that jordan likes the butt boys. happy, but surprised.
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:17 (thirteen years ago) link
that's it! my reactions.
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:18 (thirteen years ago) link
over the years i've definitely begun to much prefer meat > skinny dudes
― u dad (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:24 (thirteen years ago) link
I guess it's the combination of personality and person that makes the difference. I find the people with the body type that I find most attractive are usually jerks. :|
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:28 (thirteen years ago) link
o hey i have a date tomorrow.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:28 (thirteen years ago) link
? with your boyfriend?
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Looking at Little Drummer Boy again, I notice I don't know where his shoulder ends and an arm socket begins.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:37 (thirteen years ago) link
ur drunk
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:38 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm sober and in a position to notice such things.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:39 (thirteen years ago) link
but he does look way too skinny for me in pic #2, those pecs are caving in on him
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Like our expectations.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:40 (thirteen years ago) link
give him to me.
and no, not with bf, we are open.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:41 (thirteen years ago) link
This thread is fascinating
― European Bob (admrl), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:41 (thirteen years ago) link
i mean, we're each other's 'main man.' we're not fucking around a lot or anything.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:42 (thirteen years ago) link
right right i know that, i remember now
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:42 (thirteen years ago) link
lol @ 'main man'
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:46 (thirteen years ago) link
it's so retro
I look forward to the day when I'm desirable enough to have "extra" relationships.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:57 (thirteen years ago) link
You are cute, corey, and totally worthy of being in a threesome.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 July 2010 02:59 (thirteen years ago) link
(which are, btw, only fun if you're the object of desire, not when you're competing)
pourquoi? too poor? GO DUMPSTERING TOGETHER.― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, July 19, 2010 11:04 PM (2 days ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalinkmaybe that's too Oakland for you, tho.― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, July 19, 2010 11:04 PM (2 days ago) Bookmark
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, July 19, 2010 11:04 PM (2 days ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, July 19, 2010 11:04 PM (2 days ago) Bookmark
So wait, Oakland == Philadelphia?
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Thursday, 22 July 2010 03:01 (thirteen years ago) link
I have that issue of BUTT (with the drummers) and I think I've sort of fallen in love with all of them. Still trying to find where "those types" of gay men are.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Thursday, 22 July 2010 03:04 (thirteen years ago) link
Do any of you read this thread and just get bummed out?
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Thursday, 22 July 2010 03:07 (thirteen years ago) link
Also can I re-invite straight lurkers to also take their shirts off?
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Thursday, 22 July 2010 03:09 (thirteen years ago) link
I like average-looking guys, they're theoretically possible for me to get.
Preferred my drummers grungy, tho.
http://ryangruss.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dave-grohl-1991.jpg
http://web.stargate.net/soundgarden/images/jan/matt1.jpg
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 22 July 2010 03:39 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't know if I want to be in a threesome especially, but rather in a relationship where we would be close enough that sleeping with someone else would be part of an open relationship and not just another fuck.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Thursday, 22 July 2010 03:52 (thirteen years ago) link
Sorry, I'm just in a weird mood today. You ever have an anxious feeling like you've done something wrong for no reason? That's how I feel right now.
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Thursday, 22 July 2010 03:53 (thirteen years ago) link
OK I took my shirt off. What now? It's nice actually! I don't do this much.
― European Bob (admrl), Thursday, 22 July 2010 03:59 (thirteen years ago) link
You take a picture and you show it to all of us.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Thursday, 22 July 2010 04:00 (thirteen years ago) link
ewwww
I dunno
― European Bob (admrl), Thursday, 22 July 2010 04:04 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't think you want to see, really
I figured it was worth a shot.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Thursday, 22 July 2010 04:04 (thirteen years ago) link
You'd be surprised! Didn't you see those drummers in BUTT magazine we were all O.Oing over?
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Thursday, 22 July 2010 04:06 (thirteen years ago) link
I did!
And yes that did surprise me
― European Bob (admrl), Thursday, 22 July 2010 05:12 (thirteen years ago) link
― u dad (J0rdan S.), Wednesday, July 21, 2010 4:17 PM Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
^^^^^
bonerzville
― BIG MEECH aka the larryhoover (The Reverend), Thursday, 22 July 2010 06:05 (thirteen years ago) link
way xpost to surm
yeah, I'm in an ongoing relationship, and it's open-ish
as in . . . don't constantly seek others, but if something extra falls into your lap (so to speak), we each have permission to go for it. That said, tell the truth about it, no lies or hiding allowed. This has mostly worked well for 18 years. Problems have arisen if/when someone develops messy feelings about the third wheel in question.
sorry for TMI city folks but I guess I must clarify given my drunkposting from last night. Today I belong on a hangover thread.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Thursday, 22 July 2010 08:34 (thirteen years ago) link
<3hugs<3 that is so cool to know you've been at it for 18yrs
we are at 9 this september, open for most of it.
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 14:29 (thirteen years ago) link
18 years, wau
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Thursday, 22 July 2010 14:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Nine years? Don't take this the wrong way, but I didn't even think you've been post-pubescent for nine years, surm!
― Eric H., Thursday, 22 July 2010 14:43 (thirteen years ago) link
ha, we started up young! we were 18. gah i've been listening to boys of summer for too long, i'm getting nostalgic
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 14:56 (thirteen years ago) link
this is from the lolcollege thread, right after graduation 5 yrs agohttp://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g192/rrawn/100nights.jpg
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 14:57 (thirteen years ago) link
I would've been next to you, surm, with my hand on your upper thigh.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 July 2010 14:58 (thirteen years ago) link
aww u flatterer :D
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:00 (thirteen years ago) link
look at my hair gel tho! 90s much!?
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Do you still talk to the people in the background?
― abstract sand patterns, representing water (corey), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:06 (thirteen years ago) link
Not if that fellow sports the same hair.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:07 (thirteen years ago) link
isnt that ry4n i thought was the point
― plax (ico), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:09 (thirteen years ago) link
haha that's ryan! olivia, the babe in the middle, she's still our bestie. and shoulder girl, or the guy with a hand on her ass, no idea
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:10 (thirteen years ago) link
but no his hair no longer looks like a mid90s commercial for pert plus
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:11 (thirteen years ago) link
evidence, at our college reunion recentlyhttp://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs554.snc3/30321_549644640655_8400284_32300650_6759239_n.jpg
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:19 (thirteen years ago) link
WELL HELLO dude on right!
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:20 (thirteen years ago) link
thats an eye and a bit of hair
― plax (ico), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:22 (thirteen years ago) link
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:24 (thirteen years ago) link
that's sam. now, instead of the quad, i see him on manhunt.
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:31 (thirteen years ago) link
he was actually my neighbor freshman yr, and ryan's first hookup at school. i stole ryan from him =)
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:34 (thirteen years ago) link
ramzi you looked like the singer from vampire weekend
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:37 (thirteen years ago) link
Stop that, J0rdan.
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 July 2010 15:37 (thirteen years ago) link
lol @ Pert Plus ad
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Thursday, 22 July 2010 16:05 (thirteen years ago) link
- M4tt (the main man) has voiced an interest in having a three-way with SE4N. Obviously, I'd be totally into this sexually, but emotionally, it's too weird? I didn't really say anything because we were both wasted when he voiced this desire.
- My female housemate bled on the bottom of the toilet seat, and for a minute i thought that I was peeing blood this morning and had a little panic attack. Also, FUCKING GROSS.
- Here is my date today, to show I'm into more 'average' dudes:
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs427.ash1/23636_1168463231283_1819021091_308420_7662740_n.jpg
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 22 July 2010 17:23 (thirteen years ago) link
also r4mz you have aged well, better hair now.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 22 July 2010 17:24 (thirteen years ago) link
THAT guy is HOT
― plax (ico), Thursday, 22 July 2010 17:25 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah he kind of is. he writes this homoerotic punk zine that's pretty awesome.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 22 July 2010 17:28 (thirteen years ago) link
great photo too
― plax (ico), Thursday, 22 July 2010 17:28 (thirteen years ago) link
"homoerotic punk zine"
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 July 2010 17:29 (thirteen years ago) link
very cuuute
yea i don't have any homoerotic punk zine photos, maybe i need to hire a photographer
― janice (surm), Thursday, 22 July 2010 17:31 (thirteen years ago) link
there's a tumblr for all need:
PUNKS I'D LIKE TO FUCK : http://fuckyeahpilfs.tumblr.com/
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 22 July 2010 17:39 (thirteen years ago) link
^^^^ suggestion for autumn gay thread title
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 July 2010 17:41 (thirteen years ago) link
That guy's not 'average'!!
― European Bob (admrl), Thursday, 22 July 2010 17:45 (thirteen years ago) link
i meant in build, not in hotness.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 22 July 2010 17:46 (thirteen years ago) link
tumblr just keeps revealing its deep gay weirdness to me. i've realized how many boyblogs are just personal spank-banks -- which, ok fine, but i find it strange how public and communal the perving can get. and also, surprisingly banal!
i mean, plenty of my posts are selected for boners but idk. most of the porn i actually get off to isn't stuff that i'd share. maybe just me.
anyway, i'm now followed by a guy who does creepy gay 3D-rendered scenes and another who photoshops male nudes to make the dicks look comically large. lol gay internet.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 22 July 2010 18:17 (thirteen years ago) link
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― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Thursday, 22 July 2010 21:03 (thirteen years ago) link
I think, of all people, this is the boy you should be posting more revealing photographs of.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Thursday, 22 July 2010 21:04 (thirteen years ago) link
I went to see two of my friends do onstage storytelling last night, and I think I will go to Dan Fishback's new nutty play @ Dixon Place tonight.
http://www.popnography.com/2010/07/dan-fishbacks-the-material-world.html
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 22 July 2010 21:11 (thirteen years ago) link
hi alfred
i'm sorry for standing you up tonight
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Friday, 23 July 2010 02:16 (thirteen years ago) link
you stood him up??!
― janice (surm), Friday, 23 July 2010 06:14 (thirteen years ago) link
well, i was gonna go to his house, so not totally
also i forgot!
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Friday, 23 July 2010 06:15 (thirteen years ago) link
cuz of no cell phones at work
so alfred was like fixing olive plates and drinks for you and you just didn't show
― janice (surm), Friday, 23 July 2010 06:22 (thirteen years ago) link
haha i'm sorry, i'm sure he will forgive you
― janice (surm), Friday, 23 July 2010 06:23 (thirteen years ago) link
well we didn't have any concrete plans, like... a time set -- i told him i'd text him but then i forgot
we're gonna hang out tomorrow anyway so no biggie
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Friday, 23 July 2010 06:27 (thirteen years ago) link
are u guys doing it?
― janice (surm), Friday, 23 July 2010 07:04 (thirteen years ago) link
:-o
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Friday, 23 July 2010 07:11 (thirteen years ago) link
surm!
― ksh is my clone (The Reverend), Friday, 23 July 2010 07:11 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.mywickedspace.com/graphics/glitter/Animals/i100960163_78776.gif
― janice (surm), Friday, 23 July 2010 07:12 (thirteen years ago) link
hahahaha
― ksh is my clone (The Reverend), Friday, 23 July 2010 07:13 (thirteen years ago) link
hahahahaha oh surm
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Friday, 23 July 2010 08:16 (thirteen years ago) link
No olives for you, surm ;)
― Would love to hear Bam babble about this (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 23 July 2010 12:29 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm sure Sotosyn had folks in his dungeon to keep him busy
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 23 July 2010 13:08 (thirteen years ago) link
I wonder how many inter-thread trysts have gone on over the years
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Friday, 23 July 2010 15:59 (thirteen years ago) link
The Fabric of Our Lives™
― fidel castro clone (corey), Friday, 23 July 2010 16:01 (thirteen years ago) link
GAYZ I AM IN LOVE WITH THAT BOY
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 23 July 2010 16:36 (thirteen years ago) link
which one?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 23 July 2010 16:52 (thirteen years ago) link
ha ha the one i had the date with.
we like kissed and held hands and i ruffled his hair and stuff.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 23 July 2010 17:06 (thirteen years ago) link
o good!!
― janice (surm), Friday, 23 July 2010 17:08 (thirteen years ago) link
ruffling hair is like the best thing
ever
i am one of the best, tbpfh
how did it end?
― janice (surm), Friday, 23 July 2010 17:09 (thirteen years ago) link
we decided to like take it easy because we actually really like each other and didn't want things to be a fast fuck or hookup or whatever.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 23 July 2010 17:10 (thirteen years ago) link
so, more in the future :D
i bet he has a bit of a belllllly
how do you feel about that?
― janice (surm), Friday, 23 July 2010 17:11 (thirteen years ago) link
he actually is a bit more thin than i remember him. his pics on fbook don't do him justice. we're actually pretty much the same size, hes maybe a little bigger.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 23 July 2010 17:17 (thirteen years ago) link
aww i was getting excited for you, to have a real man to play with XD
― janice (surm), Friday, 23 July 2010 17:19 (thirteen years ago) link
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 23 July 2010 17:25 (thirteen years ago) link
Is this the punk or the skinny drummer?
― fidel castro clone (corey), Friday, 23 July 2010 21:53 (thirteen years ago) link
the punk. skinny drummer's in the netherlands or some bullshit.
sorry i'm answering for you tabes i just had four cups of coffee and i'm hyper. dunno what to do tonight either . . . ooh i'll call ben
― janice (surm), Friday, 23 July 2010 22:37 (thirteen years ago) link
left msg
― janice (surm), Friday, 23 July 2010 22:40 (thirteen years ago) link
went to my bike shop today, walked in to "it's raining men"
my buddy, the manager, was like "yeah i put on this muzak channel and it sounds like a gay bar!"
"what channel is it?"
"something called 'the circuit'?"
― be told and get high on coconut (gbx), Friday, 23 July 2010 22:43 (thirteen years ago) link
Gah T3d I dunno how you meet all these guys! Do you like meet them in your current social circle (from work? mutual friends?) or do you go through the usual internet channels?
― fidel castro clone (corey), Friday, 23 July 2010 22:44 (thirteen years ago) link
xp HAHAHA
― janice (surm), Friday, July 23, 2010 2:04 AM (15 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
reminded me of
are jaymc & rrrrobyn fucking each other― and what (ooo), Tuesday, May 16, 2006 12:56 PM (4 years ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
(The answer was no, btw.)
― jaymc, Friday, 23 July 2010 22:54 (thirteen years ago) link
The guy I've been talking to online for the past few months asked me to come visit him in NYC! :o
This be he:
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v1957/49/42/48603882/n48603882_33207828_6658.jpg
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 02:25 (thirteen years ago) link
Looks a bit like Jeff Buckley.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 02:28 (thirteen years ago) link
I've never noticed, but I agree!
He's also very intelligent and loves the same art stuff that I do that bores everyone else.
Visiting him would also be my first time in NYC other than just transferring from one airport to another.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 02:38 (thirteen years ago) link
corey, it's mostly within the queer/punk community i belong to.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Saturday, 24 July 2010 02:40 (thirteen years ago) link
irl lol's at "The Circuit". Evan, I think I speak for all of us when I say that you are our honorary gay man.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Saturday, 24 July 2010 02:42 (thirteen years ago) link
xp that's cool. I'm too much of a shut-in to be part of something like that.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 02:47 (thirteen years ago) link
Jeez I wd love to be a part of some queer/punk community. Where do I find these?
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Saturday, 24 July 2010 02:56 (thirteen years ago) link
start one in NB! (amazed there isn't one there already)
― temple beth-enny (donna rouge), Saturday, 24 July 2010 02:59 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh I moved out of there. There is a healthy punk community that I was sort of a part of but I couldn't find any gay people really. But I'm near Philly now sooooo...
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Saturday, 24 July 2010 03:07 (thirteen years ago) link
There are a lot of gays here but it is very mainstream circuit club MTV-gay kind of shit that I don't relate to.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 03:38 (thirteen years ago) link
I thought (aside from SF) all the queer/punk communities were found in 1994.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 24 July 2010 07:41 (thirteen years ago) link
i don't think i'm even 10% punk enough to be part of a queer/punk community
― ksh is my clone (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 09:10 (thirteen years ago) link
is it like an official community or just like a group of friends?
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 09:22 (thirteen years ago) link
i miss the days when punks were, you know, ugly. Like the Circle Jerks.
That play reading I went to the other night -- ii needs work, but it had its moments, like when an elderly Kabbalah expert says to Madonna, "Your vagina smells like a crowded henhouse."
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 24 July 2010 14:48 (thirteen years ago) link
corey, pretty sure i've talked to him. is he in bk?
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:09 (thirteen years ago) link
i definitely wouldn't fit into a queer/punk scene these days as much as i would've in HS
― temple beth-enny (donna rouge), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:11 (thirteen years ago) link
xp yes!
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:13 (thirteen years ago) link
yea he lives in prospect heights. my bf and i have both talked to him. he likes to flake out at the last minute. also he likes "masc"
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:13 (thirteen years ago) link
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:14 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't know, I think he's just anxious around people. I never messaged him with the sole intent of boning him. We might just hang out, which would be great anyway.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:18 (thirteen years ago) link
Plus I'd have a chance to meet you guys who are in NYC. :)
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:19 (thirteen years ago) link
whatever just letting you know! he was like "are u masc"
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:20 (thirteen years ago) link
i was like do i look masc betch
surm ftw
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:24 (thirteen years ago) link
I won't diss anyone for trying to hook up on craigslist
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:40 (thirteen years ago) link
((I'm not mad though, just to clarify))
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:52 (thirteen years ago) link
no totally
it's just i wd be sad if i were only attracted to masc guys
altho tbh i used to find fems, like, not hot
my horizons have broadened
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:03 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, like i get it like who you like, but i find the homogeneity of liking "straight acting" guys really gross
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:05 (thirteen years ago) link
ugh "masculine" is fine but "straight-acting" = total red flag
i'm gen. more attracted to girlyboys anyway
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
aww
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm straight acting
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
lol you are
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:12 (thirteen years ago) link
and ur hot too
thank u boo
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:12 (thirteen years ago) link
that phrase might cease to make my skin crawl when straight guys start regularly identifying as "gay-acting"
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:13 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm like the teacher you had in school that you couldn't imagine having sex with anyone.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:13 (thirteen years ago) link
on avg I'm attracted to masculine dudes but it's really the bitchiness of femme guys that is a turn-off.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:16 (thirteen years ago) link
i guess i just find it really symptomatic of hetero********* (censored for alfred's delicate ears) values and automatically makes me think the person describing himself as such is a self-hating fag (not to say j0rdan is)
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:16 (thirteen years ago) link
femmes don't have to be cunty tbf
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:17 (thirteen years ago) link
femme guys can be bitchy but my guy is a total sweetheart :)
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:18 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah surm otm
except when there's a cock in yr mouth, amirite?
I've been w/ guys all over the butch-femme spectrum; 'straight-acting' don't mean a thing.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:30 (thirteen years ago) link
ohhhhhhhhhhhhh SNAP!
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:32 (thirteen years ago) link
anyway it's not a phrase i use to describe myself and i wasn't the one who used it in the first place, but it is what it is
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:34 (thirteen years ago) link
i find femininity in gay men to be sexy in the context of their masculinity -- being totally femme isn't attractive to me
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:37 (thirteen years ago) link
yea like i'm a queen but u should see me put away a meatloaf
i don't fuck around
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:38 (thirteen years ago) link
ramzi is about as feminine as i could go, altho i'd probably draw the line at make up
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:40 (thirteen years ago) link
eye liner can be hot but i don't fuck with blush and/or lip treatments
i mean, the point is when i do my makeup i like to make it look i have the most amazing skin u could ever imagine or dream of
like if i do it right u would just think i was born with it
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:46 (thirteen years ago) link
i am wearing makeup today
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g192/rrawn/stripey.jpg
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:53 (thirteen years ago) link
well of course you look beautiful
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:53 (thirteen years ago) link
barely there makeup!
― jed_, Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:54 (thirteen years ago) link
just a whisper.
you look fab.
i wish we could take a thread group foto
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:58 (thirteen years ago) link
we'll have to when I come visit!
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:13 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm thinking like towards the end of next month
Last night on South Beach of all places a young woman hit on me.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:14 (thirteen years ago) link
My new beard has proven interesting; I didn't know I'd need to sport two when I go out.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, July 24, 2010 3:13 PM (4 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
Likely to be visiting friends in NYC late August as well. Sort of a last-jaunt before law school deprives me of a social life. NYC fags - There Will Be Beers?
― Y /\/\ /\/\ \/ (Alex in Montreal), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:20 (thirteen years ago) link
Hi, gays. Just sweated off a hangover at the pool. My tan is vicious.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:27 (thirteen years ago) link
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:28 (thirteen years ago) link
v cute, ramz.
I can't wait to meet J0rdan to see if he's more butch than I am. We may have to arm wrestle.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Morbs and J:
http://blogs.ocweekly.com/navelgazing/Stallone-over-the-top.jpg
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:31 (thirteen years ago) link
idk how people are able to conceive of themselves on some continuum of masculinity. i can't really think abt myself on those terms?
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:02 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm not a woman. I'm not a man. I am something that you'll never comprehend.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:04 (thirteen years ago) link
plax, it's easier when you're surrounded by different iterations of masculinity.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:13 (thirteen years ago) link
what does that even mean
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:14 (thirteen years ago) link
Don't you hang out with other men?
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:16 (thirteen years ago) link
You compare yourself with these other men.
why would i want to do that?
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:17 (thirteen years ago) link
Because you breathe?
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:19 (thirteen years ago) link
man dont diagnose me with ur neuroses
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:25 (thirteen years ago) link
I wish I had some.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:31 (thirteen years ago) link
You're probably assuming "compare yourself with other men" is a negative thing. All I meant to say is that when I'm in a group of guys it's as natural for me to think, "This guy's a swish, this guy's straight, this guy's an effeminate straight guy." I thought that's what everyone does, like stare critically at people's shoes.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:34 (thirteen years ago) link
i feel like that would make me really self conscious
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:36 (thirteen years ago) link
It's something I do too, and I don't think I'm overly self-conscious, but definitely conscious. It's just a part of reading non-verbal communication imo.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Right now I'm writing in Starbucks and two meters away is an Asian dude with appalling sandals, a ponytail, and a determined lisp. Oh -- and he ordered a non-fat vanilla latte.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:44 (thirteen years ago) link
plax is being disingenuous. everyone compares themselves to others. "Because you breathe" of course, well put.
― jed_, Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:46 (thirteen years ago) link
obv about some things, not on some taxonomy of manliness thing. i dont even know how i would do that.
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:48 (thirteen years ago) link
and i feel like inserting yourself into one must involve like, monitoring yourself
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:50 (thirteen years ago) link
& you don't?
― jed_, Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:51 (thirteen years ago) link
i have enough things to make me feel self conscious, plenty
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:51 (thirteen years ago) link
it's a perfectly natural thing to do. girls compare themselves to other girls, and men compare themselves to other men. it's just what ppl (and animals) do. a lot of girls feel at odds with the idea of being "girly," and a lot of men feel at odds with the concept of masculinity. especially in the marketing department, we are constantly barraged with ideas of masculinity, and when you have other men buying into it, it becomes all-too-natural to size yourself up in this way. especially when you are friends with other gay men, you started to compare your behavior with theirs.
also, as a gay man, you start with a preconceived set of insecurities in the way of your behavior. you come from a place of comparison -- a place of difference. so, questioning yourself in this way becomes the norm for a lot of us. it is a survival strategy to evaluate how "normal" you are insofar as society is concerned with acceptable male behavior.
so, while i think it's cool that you do not concern yourself with this, i also think it's unusual.
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 21:06 (thirteen years ago) link
i also think it is your culture that determines a lot of this, and i suspect ireland operates on a different spectrum with regard to gender and sexuality.
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 21:08 (thirteen years ago) link
great post, R.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 21:15 (thirteen years ago) link
saw a queer/punk guy at Oakland Whole Foods cleaning the floor - first thing i thought of was if table knows/"knows" him - his name tag read "Al3x F" (obv not googleproofed on the name tag)
― sarahel, Saturday, 24 July 2010 21:44 (thirteen years ago) link
tatted/piecered bros are 10¢/12 at WF here
― Sharif don't like it, rock the CRASBO (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 22:32 (thirteen years ago) link
ha, "piecered".
― Sharif don't like it, rock the CRASBO (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 22:33 (thirteen years ago) link
i've had sex with at least one guy from each WF in the City.
i don't know this character, sarahel, unless he had braids? if he did, then HOLY SHIT HE'S BACK FROM TRAVELLING? i love that one al3x and have missed him.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Sunday, 25 July 2010 01:02 (thirteen years ago) link
Awright, gays, I'm going drinking. Come join me. I'll buy you a sour apple martini, surm. Tabes, you'll like the blond Argentine who's meeting us.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 25 July 2010 01:27 (thirteen years ago) link
Guys here who've met me--am I "masc" or "straight-acting"?? Because I don't think I am, but everyone's shocked when they find out I'm gay. But maybe I let loose a bit when I'm around people who know I'm gay.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Sunday, 25 July 2010 02:40 (thirteen years ago) link
xp table - no braids - tall, thin, fauxhawk-y, pretty cute
― sarahel, Sunday, 25 July 2010 02:41 (thirteen years ago) link
tabes is it shitty if I start going to, like, Bash Back mtgs in hopes of getting some?
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Sunday, 25 July 2010 02:43 (thirteen years ago) link
my more feminine side is v. connected to my sexual psyche (no idea what i mean by that so don't ask), maybe even fetishistic, so v. few ppl ever get to see it come into play
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Sunday, 25 July 2010 07:01 (thirteen years ago) link
ugh can i have that removed from the internet?
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Sunday, 25 July 2010 07:05 (thirteen years ago) link
i have no idea what i even am!
― temple beth-enny (donna rouge), Sunday, 25 July 2010 07:13 (thirteen years ago) link
The "continuum of masculinity" can be a lotta fun when you consciously play with it, ie, turn your femme/butch dials up and down depending on the situation. (the world of 'roleplay' is one part of this, e.g. leather daddies who have Judy Garland shrines in the house)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 25 July 2010 14:05 (thirteen years ago) link
Hah, as if there are ones that don't.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Sunday, 25 July 2010 14:09 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't know if I play with my masculinity, I just float around trying to be friendly and civilized.
― Sharif don't like it, rock the CRASBO (corey), Sunday, 25 July 2010 15:17 (thirteen years ago) link
Well, that's good. You can do both.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 25 July 2010 15:29 (thirteen years ago) link
I think I'm fairly masculine, but I like to be charming (which I guess is at root feminine). Like Laurence Olivier.
― Sharif don't like it, rock the CRASBO (corey), Sunday, 25 July 2010 15:42 (thirteen years ago) link
corey, being civilized will get no one no where. just sayin.
and stevie, you shld totally do that. i definitely went to a Gay Shame meeting with similar hopes, and walked away with a hot queer.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Sunday, 25 July 2010 18:36 (thirteen years ago) link
also i lost my keys, and i am really tired. but maybe trying to go to Dore Alley? which if you don't know:http://www.google.com/images?client=safari&rls=en&q=dore%20alley%20fair&oe=UTF-8&um=1&ie=UTF-8&source=og&sa=N&hl=en&tab=wi&biw=1204&bih=684
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Sunday, 25 July 2010 18:38 (thirteen years ago) link
'bay of pigs'!! :D
― temple beth-enny (donna rouge), Sunday, 25 July 2010 18:45 (thirteen years ago) link
being civilized is cool!
of course, being uncivilized is cool too
time and place, peeps
i just woke up an hour ago and i'm about to meet up with lou to get some lunch.
and btw friday night i went to a dance party called XANADUDE and this guy was there http://www.theawl.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/maxsteele.jpg
the 1 on the left -- new york legend m@x st33le. I danced with him for like half a second. I <3 him.
― janice (surm), Sunday, 25 July 2010 18:55 (thirteen years ago) link
BEING CIVILIZED IS FOR SUCKERS.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Sunday, 25 July 2010 19:04 (thirteen years ago) link
lol no. it is for ppl who find all sorts of charm sexy. it's not all bout dirty queers anymore, t3ddy :P
― janice (surm), Sunday, 25 July 2010 19:05 (thirteen years ago) link
i love me some wholesome boys
the other night i had a dream that one moved into my house. but then he broke my heart.
― janice (surm), Sunday, 25 July 2010 19:06 (thirteen years ago) link
this was him http://i620.photobucket.com/albums/tt285/Batistafan_album/Soap%20Operas/gl_dcosgove_240x320_jpi.jpg
― janice (surm), Sunday, 25 July 2010 19:11 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't get it. What are you being if you're not being civilized? Militant? u_u
― Sharif don't like it, rock the CRASBO (corey), Sunday, 25 July 2010 20:04 (thirteen years ago) link
uncivilised
― plax (ico), Sunday, 25 July 2010 20:07 (thirteen years ago) link
radical
― janice (surm), Sunday, 25 July 2010 23:02 (thirteen years ago) link
hi, gays!
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 25 July 2010 23:06 (thirteen years ago) link
hiiiiiiiii
― Sharif don't like it, rock the CRASBO (corey), Sunday, 25 July 2010 23:08 (thirteen years ago) link
should I dye my hair back to its original color or keep it blonde?
― Sharif don't like it, rock the CRASBO (corey), Sunday, 25 July 2010 23:26 (thirteen years ago) link
keep it blonde.
and also, i just have issues with everything.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Sunday, 25 July 2010 23:38 (thirteen years ago) link
No need to mitigate!
― Sharif don't like it, rock the CRASBO (corey), Sunday, 25 July 2010 23:40 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm just interested by what you mean exactly... like are you opposed to just being genial in general or do you think it's a cop-out?
― Sharif don't like it, rock the CRASBO (corey), Sunday, 25 July 2010 23:46 (thirteen years ago) link
yesh, i know, it's just that surm and i get in little spats about things like this. i just find 95% of 'civilized' western society to be absolutely sickening, so i have an aversion to the word 'civilized.' if you're just talking about being nice to people on the street, then that's cool.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Sunday, 25 July 2010 23:48 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh I don't know. I pretend life is a pas de deux between Cary Grant and Katherine Hepburn.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 25 July 2010 23:50 (thirteen years ago) link
― Sharif don't like it, rock the CRASBO (corey), Monday, 26 July 2010 00:03 (thirteen years ago) link
hayyyy
http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e239/allocryptic/IMG_0833.gif
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Monday, 26 July 2010 00:04 (thirteen years ago) link
Your grapes look juicy.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 26 July 2010 00:12 (thirteen years ago) link
Staring at that photo kinda made me lose my balance.
― Sharif don't like it, rock the CRASBO (corey), Monday, 26 July 2010 00:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Whoa! It's like your head is expanding and contracting!
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Monday, 26 July 2010 02:29 (thirteen years ago) link
yesh, i know, it's just that surm and i get in little spats about things like this. i just find 95% of 'civilized' western society to be absolutely sickening, so i have an aversion to the word 'civilized.' if you're just talking about being nice to people on the street, then that's cool. ― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Sunday, 25 July 2010 23:48 (Yesterday)
aw, i love you though! and i totally hear where you're coming from. the world needs people like you, and me, together, having conversations. actually you should IM me sometime. that would be fun.
― janice (surm), Monday, 26 July 2010 03:02 (thirteen years ago) link
There's a party called XANADUDE?!?!?! God, I need to get out more often....
also, is that a pack of gum in his undies?
― phil-two, Monday, 26 July 2010 03:38 (thirteen years ago) link
lol no that's cash money flow
― janice (surm), Monday, 26 July 2010 03:42 (thirteen years ago) link
haha someone was telling me about the xanadude party the other night. is that a monthly thing or?
― temple beth-enny (donna rouge), Monday, 26 July 2010 04:10 (thirteen years ago) link
jah
― janice (surm), Monday, 26 July 2010 04:15 (thirteen years ago) link
even i know about the Xanadude parties, and i don't live in nyc.
speaking of which, i'm back in the City in AUGUST!!! working the independent fashion label trade at Javits or whatever, so...boys, let's meet up? it would be lovely to see all of the lovely NY faces in one place again.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 26 July 2010 06:17 (thirteen years ago) link
name a time and date, sugar
speaking of the independent fashion label trade - am i totally addled from sleeplessness or is this maybe the best tie ever?
http://www.zazzle.com/off_center_tie-151870321747820032
― temple beth-enny (donna rouge), Monday, 26 July 2010 06:50 (thirteen years ago) link
i mean, it looks like jeremy blake in cravat form
― temple beth-enny (donna rouge), Monday, 26 July 2010 06:52 (thirteen years ago) link
it does!
― plax (ico), Monday, 26 July 2010 06:55 (thirteen years ago) link
if only i'd known about it pre-thesis...
― temple beth-enny (donna rouge), Monday, 26 July 2010 07:00 (thirteen years ago) link
how exactly would you have worked that in?²
― ²http://www.zazzle.com/off_center_tie-151870321747820032 (ico), Monday, 26 July 2010 07:09 (thirteen years ago) link
loooooool
wearing it during my presentation obvs
― temple beth-enny (donna rouge), Monday, 26 July 2010 07:10 (thirteen years ago) link
this guy totally hit on me at my karaoke regular after i tore thru "wishing well" and "tutti frutti" he was kinda cute i hope i run into him again
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Monday, 26 July 2010 10:17 (thirteen years ago) link
I hv mentioned Xanadude (never attended)
I think Mattachine! is this Thurs.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 26 July 2010 11:24 (thirteen years ago) link
― Eric H., Monday, July 19, 2010 1:11 PM (1 week ago)
LOL, I must've been pie-eyed when I posted this. I meant "pie-in-the-sky prospect," as in someone I always viewed as a great missed opportunity.
But after a week of FB msg'ing each other, strike out that "missed."
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Monday, 26 July 2010 11:37 (thirteen years ago) link
:0
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 26 July 2010 13:57 (thirteen years ago) link
Well, it could easily be reinstated.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:07 (thirteen years ago) link
I am in NYC the 7th (day after my birthday!!), 14th, and 22nd, so these are the days that I think we should get drinks! Because I WANT TO BE INCLUDED.
Yesterday I checked out BIKE STOP, the Philly leather bar. But it was happy hour on a Sunday and there were only 8 other people there sooooo. But I will go again some time.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:25 (thirteen years ago) link
I was planning to come to NYC on the weekend after the 25th.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:31 (thirteen years ago) link
I got this awesome pin of Divine from PF @ the Punk Rock Flea Market, among a million other things that I can barely fit in my fucking bag that I still have to bike around the city with for another 24 hours... (Salt n Pepa 12", 7 CDs, Pee-Wee Herman lightswitch plate, 4 back-issues of Wire, a friend's old homemade Screaming Females tshirt, grab bag of tacky shit including both "Everyone Loves a Polish Girl" and "Everyone Loves a German Girl" keychains, two prints, a bike map, a pint glass, and more business cards than I can count). Have any of you read Fear of a Queer Planet? I that up too, for $1
How long will you be staying? I will definitely make a trip up for you, love.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:34 (thirteen years ago) link
jesus that makes me wanna go shopping
― plax (ico), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:35 (thirteen years ago) link
See, this is why you need to come visit Philadelphia.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:35 (thirteen years ago) link
u know i am working on it
― plax (ico), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:36 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh oh oh I also got this little picture frame with this silhouette cutout of the Philadelphia skyline, and also FOUR stickers that are just embroidered pairs of lips. All of thie stuff was like $30, too!!!
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:37 (thirteen years ago) link
Sorry, I am totally being all Sally Showoff right now. I'm just mad excited baout all my new stuff coz I so rarely actually buy new things.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:38 (thirteen years ago) link
elmo that is fucking sweet
― chuck entertainment cheese (crüt), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:39 (thirteen years ago) link
really is
― janice (surm), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:40 (thirteen years ago) link
xposts
Probably would leave here early Saturday morning and come back Monday. Now I'm not sure if I want to take Amtrak or my car.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:42 (thirteen years ago) link
What about Chinatown bus? Will surely be the cheapest way to go, and really they're not that bad.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:45 (thirteen years ago) link
Looks like Amtrak would be cheaper, but I might just drive. I don't think it'll be that much more.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Monday, 26 July 2010 14:55 (thirteen years ago) link
I meant cheaper than the Chinatown bus. Looks like it's running at around $110 round trip.
BoltBus and Megabus have them for $9-$16.50 each way; Megabus even has a few $3 fares if you book this far in advance!
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Monday, 26 July 2010 15:03 (thirteen years ago) link
and $3 handjobs am i right
― janice (surm), Monday, 26 July 2010 15:05 (thirteen years ago) link
Doesn't look like MegaBus goes from Chi to NY though.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Monday, 26 July 2010 15:11 (thirteen years ago) link
xp naughty!
― I like tv random anything (corey), Monday, 26 July 2010 15:12 (thirteen years ago) link
I am in the Deep South Aug. 3-9, and probably visiting the family in CT on 13th & 14th.
also, free Aretha Franklin show on 12th near Coney Island if anyone wants to join me.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 26 July 2010 15:14 (thirteen years ago) link
Bolt Bus doesn't go from Chi either. Are you looking at the NJ buses?
― I like tv random anything (corey), Monday, 26 July 2010 15:30 (thirteen years ago) link
elmo, i take it you made a good recovery then? looks fun!
― jed_, Monday, 26 July 2010 15:48 (thirteen years ago) link
definitely not recovered yet. apparently eating 6 (or more? i do not remember) pieces of thc-enhanced baklava does something to inhibit brain function for multiple days. that, and i must be getting older. ooh lawdy.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Monday, 26 July 2010 16:06 (thirteen years ago) link
in short -- it was a lovely party, with lots of people in costume and plenty of shirtless men. 2 cases champagne were consumed. there will be more pictures later when i figure out my fine motor functions again.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Monday, 26 July 2010 16:11 (thirteen years ago) link
i'll be in NYC from August 15-19 or something like that.
Stevie, i still have things that i got at the punk rock flea market 13 years ago.
that said, if i were to tell you that i would PAY YOU for the "Everyone Loves a Polish Girl" keychain, would you accept?
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 26 July 2010 16:23 (thirteen years ago) link
Wow! If times line up are we really going to have everyone but j0rdan, The Lex and Rev in NYC all at once? Crazy.
― Y /\/\ /\/\ \/ (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 26 July 2010 17:14 (thirteen years ago) link
xp Yes but I am totally not accepting any money for it. I was hoping I'd find someone that wanted it rly bad (that was also ideally not actually a Polish girl).
I don't think I'm going to be in town the 15th to 19th!! (unless you wanted to come down here for a day)
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Monday, 26 July 2010 17:34 (thirteen years ago) link
Goddmanit c I keep thinking you're in Boston
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Monday, 26 July 2010 17:47 (thirteen years ago) link
i'll be in the 'environs' for most of august i reckon
― temple beth-enny (donna rouge), Monday, 26 July 2010 18:15 (thirteen years ago) link
Dear gay bwoyz,
Have a Jean Nate day!
xokjb
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PAMnjq2m7Nc
― Kevin John Bozelka, Monday, 26 July 2010 19:17 (thirteen years ago) link
doesn't seem to be very cost effective, she used most of the bottle.
― jed_, Monday, 26 July 2010 19:20 (thirteen years ago) link
stevie, i'll be in philly from the 11th-15th or so. let's meet up? i will buy you a beer in exchange for that keychain. (you see, i am 50% polish.)
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 26 July 2010 22:10 (thirteen years ago) link
rewatching that jean nate commercial, i'm now convinced is 100% about watersports
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 00:20 (thirteen years ago) link
that's a great commercial, i got inspired
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 00:45 (thirteen years ago) link
hey gays -- never heard of this guy before. That's quite a Stud File.
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/07/26/books/26secret.html
When the author Justin Spring finally tracked down the executor of Samuel Steward’s estate, he had no idea what this sexual outlaw and little-known literary figure had left behind after his death in 1993.
So he was taken unawares by the 80 boxes full of drawings, letters, photographs, sexual paraphernalia, manuscripts and other items, including an autograph and reliquary with pubic hair from Rudolph Valentino, a thousand-page confessional journal Steward created at the request of the sex researcher Alfred Kinsey, and a green metal card catalog labeled “Stud File,” which contained a meticulously documented record on index cards of every sexual experience and partner — Rock Hudson, Thornton Wilder, “One-eyed Sadist” — that Steward said he had had over 50 years.
An attic full of items contained a secret history of a little-documented strand of gay life in the middle decades of the 20th century. Steward’s experience stands in stark contrast to the familiar story of furtive concealment and persecution in the period before gay liberation. As new biographies of artists and writers like E.M. Forster detail the effects of sexual repression on their work, Steward’s history shows what a life of openness, when embraced, entailed day to day.... “It was an Aladdin’s cave of gay paraphernalia and record keeping that was covered with dust and smelled like dog,” said Mr. Spring, whose biography “Secret Historian: The Life and Times of Samuel Steward, Professor, Tattoo Artist, and Sexual Renegade” is due out next month. (At the moment Mr. Spring is storing the collection.)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 01:18 (thirteen years ago) link
coolest pre-dr3w d4ni3l English professor?
surm are you still really skinny? i have a pair of pale pink'ish marc jacobs collection jean-cut pants that i bought in like 2005 and was WAY skinnier... obvs cant fit into them anymore but was gonna take them to like tokyo7 or beacons or something, unless you wanted to save me the trouble....
― phil-two, Tuesday, 27 July 2010 01:21 (thirteen years ago) link
that guy sounds awesome, a+ will attempt purchase.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 02:07 (thirteen years ago) link
john waters spoke very highly of that book iirc
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 04:10 (thirteen years ago) link
another reason to buy it.
i highly recommend Dennis C00per's new book, too. A great breadth of critical writings and interviews (with River Phoenix, Brad Renfro, Courtney Love, Leonardo Dicaprio, Keanu Reeves, Bob Mould, Stephen Malkmus, and JOHN WATERS himself). Really great read.
also, right now i am making italo-themed mix for my man.
a side:1. vangelis- islands of the orient2. amin peck- anxiety3. azoto- anytime or place4. doctor's cat- gee wiz5. scotch- disco band6. boney m- nightflight to venus7. lindstrom- i feel space
b side:1. doctor's cat- feel the drive2. azoto- exalt exalt3. baby's gang- challenger4. major swellings- swingjende bjeller5. black devil disco club- constantly no respect6. lindstrom & prins thomas- turkish delight7. daniele baldelli- pluton
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 04:23 (thirteen years ago) link
<3 doctor's cat <3
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 04:34 (thirteen years ago) link
doctor's cat might be the best italo group ever. just the two songs on this mix justify me saying so.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 04:44 (thirteen years ago) link
doctor's cat also = moon ray, who are responsible for this thing of wonder:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=110k5hsSTjo
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 04:53 (thirteen years ago) link
true. but i would also like to point to how awesome this is:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FNjjOI8tG1k
1996 IN RUSSIA. HOW GAY CAN WE GET.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 05:00 (thirteen years ago) link
Are there any collections of stuff from Italo groups who were consistently great? I have Kano's Greatest Hits (mostly awesome) and the Scotch compilation (okay).
― I like tv random anything (corey), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 05:18 (thirteen years ago) link
italo's definitely more a singles genre than an albums one, although i'm pretty fond of valerie dore's arthurian concept album 'the legend' (her greatest hits contains most of that + other singles as well)
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 05:41 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, I don't really follow DJ stuff so singles are hard for me to keep up with. I've known the I-Robots and the Disco Not Disco (even if this isn't all italo) comps but I guess those are pretty obvious. What else is there?
― I like tv random anything (corey), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 05:44 (thirteen years ago) link
That Raggio Di Luna track is so so great. Love that 12, the instrumental is just as great.
Anyone ever listened to Razormaid's collections of Italo and related stuff?
http://www.discogs.com/Various-Razormaid-The-Epilogue-Back-To-Basics/release/339767
Like that one?
― sistren (Siah Alan), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 06:35 (thirteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mplTBpvCiac
Sound quality is crap, but that Scalla track is top 10 material for me.
― sistren (Siah Alan), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 06:38 (thirteen years ago) link
btw I took off my shirt when I was dancing at the cafe next door to my work where J-Rocc from the Beat Junkies was djing a free show. he was totally pandering to my tastes. he played the Machine record!
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Tuesday, 27 July 2010 06:43 (thirteen years ago) link
hey, surm, just for you:
Many people are obsessed—and Franco has given them ample reason to be—with the question of whether he’s gay or straight. For a Hollywood heartthrob, he’s been unusually drawn to gay or bisexual roles: Allen Ginsberg, James Dean, Harvey Milk’s long-term boyfriend Scott Smith. Even seemingly straight roles—e.g., the pot dealer in Pineapple Express—end up bursting, in Franco’s hands, with homoerotic energy.
Although Franco has been silent on this subject, he seems to enjoy stoking the controversy. His art, across the spectrum, revels in gay culture. His student film The Feast of Stephen involves an extended fantasy scene in which a group of teenage boys gang-rape another boy—who then smiles meaningfully at the camera as the screen goes dark. (An intimate screening of the film was sponsored, last summer, by Butt magazine.) The narrator of Franco’s Esquire short story asks a friend: “Don’t you ever get jealous of those girls in pornos that get to be on their knees in the middle of all those dicks?” Franco researched his role for the 2002 film Sonny by hanging out at gay strip clubs in New Orleans, and even tagged along with a stripper as he serviced a male client in a hotel room. In a guest spot on 30 Rock, he played a version of himself whose sexual obsession with a Japanese body pillow is an open public secret—a perfect allegory for his alleged homosexuality.
When Franco mentioned to me, via e-mail, that he was leaning toward going to Yale for his Ph.D., the faculty member he singled out was Michael Warner. Warner happens to be one of the pioneers of queer theory, a school of thought born in the early nineties (just as Franco was hitting adolescence) that argues that sexuality is not a trivial, personal matter but fundamental to how we all experience the world. “Queer,” in this sense, transcends the simplistic binary of gay versus straight. As Warner puts it in his canonical anthology Fear of a Queer Planet, queer defines itself “against the normal rather than the heterosexual.” Thinking about sexuality—particularly exposing the assumptions embedded in heteronormative culture—is a form of radical social critique, a way to challenge arbitrary boundaries and institutions.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 00:12 (thirteen years ago) link
man i would just about die if he's gay
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 28 July 2010 00:36 (thirteen years ago) link
my NYU sources say he is
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 00:40 (thirteen years ago) link
what, do you run with the nyu glory hole crew or something?
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 28 July 2010 00:41 (thirteen years ago) link
^^^ yet another autumn gay thread idear
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 00:43 (thirteen years ago) link
phil, i am thin, but i too have gained a lot of weight. if your pants are less than a 30"w i will not fit into them at this point :/ i'm working on it
rev that's so cool that you abandoned all dancing inhibition
alfred that's quite a resume! i had no idea he was THAT queer-focused. very fun. lol his film and short story! too good
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 00:59 (thirteen years ago) link
all time classic post from J0rdan there ^
― jed_, Wednesday, 28 July 2010 01:07 (thirteen years ago) link
+ phil thank u so much for thinking of me btw!!
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 01:13 (thirteen years ago) link
no J0rd, my source is a regular on this thread. :)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 01:16 (thirteen years ago) link
jord, i had to do it.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 01:20 (thirteen years ago) link
I'd do Franco too.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 01:24 (thirteen years ago) link
end up bursting, in Franco’s hands
if only
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 01:53 (thirteen years ago) link
the thing with that franco is that, unusually and shamefully, he's like the one celebrity that i get all mushy-eyed over and start thinking things like "we'd be perfect for each other", not just the usual "i want to do him". (that too though.)
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 01:55 (thirteen years ago) link
*keeps shtum*
watched an ep of freaks and geeks recently and forgot how unreal dreamy he was on that show - not feeling this new 'omg marina abramovic is my bff' direction he's taken of late tho
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 02:25 (thirteen years ago) link
omfg at you
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 28 July 2010 02:57 (thirteen years ago) link
"gained a lot of weight"
"less than a 30"w"
I'm a 32". I'm so fat.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 02:58 (thirteen years ago) link
J, if you've gained weight I'm Kim Cattrall.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 02:58 (thirteen years ago) link
31-30 here.
yeah uh i'm not claiming that!
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 28 July 2010 02:58 (thirteen years ago) link
i was making fun of ramzi for being all IF ONLY I COULD SQUEEZE INTO PANTS MADE FOR PUBESCENT BOYS
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 28 July 2010 02:59 (thirteen years ago) link
If only I could squeeze into JF.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 03:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Eric if you don't shut up I'm going to vomit on you.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 03:04 (thirteen years ago) link
This thread is saucier than a good lasagne.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 03:05 (thirteen years ago) link
32-36
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 03:05 (thirteen years ago) link
This thread is saucier than a good lasagna.
Needs more cheese.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 03:06 (thirteen years ago) link
Needs more noodles.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 03:08 (thirteen years ago) link
<3 j
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 03:21 (thirteen years ago) link
29/30
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:35 (thirteen years ago) link
ugh i hate u
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:35 (thirteen years ago) link
that's what i was last yr except then my face LOOKED LIKE A SICK MAN. my hips were adorable but my face...
now my face is like nice and healthy looking but my hips...
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:37 (thirteen years ago) link
and tomorrow is pizza day at work :/
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:38 (thirteen years ago) link
this conversation is depressing me
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:39 (thirteen years ago) link
what is your pants size?
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:39 (thirteen years ago) link
also, dear shaggy-haired shirtless guy walking down the sidewalk this afternoon, I love you.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:40 (thirteen years ago) link
i wear a 30 and i'm not looking to go any lower
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:40 (thirteen years ago) link
nor do i think that it's actually physically possible
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:41 (thirteen years ago) link
i think i'm meant to be a 31
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:42 (thirteen years ago) link
like as a man
XPS oh, and CARRYING A CANTALOUPE, no less, that is essential.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:44 (thirteen years ago) link
re: pants size, I don't think I could gain weight if I wanted, but it doesn't matter to me as I'm not really attracted to skinny dudes
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:45 (thirteen years ago) link
but I love you guys of course
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:47 (thirteen years ago) link
ur very nice
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:47 (thirteen years ago) link
can i ask a question
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:48 (thirteen years ago) link
please do
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:48 (thirteen years ago) link
do we have to have the word "gay" in every thread title? is it like, necessary? i'm just kind of sick of the word
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:49 (thirteen years ago) link
i don't mean any offense by that
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:52 (thirteen years ago) link
I was thinking of "AFTER THE BOYS OF SUMMER ARE GONE" for the next title
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:52 (thirteen years ago) link
omg stop it
you know that was my away message all last week
hahaha yes that's what made me think of it
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:53 (thirteen years ago) link
"gay" specifically or gay signifiers in general?
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:53 (thirteen years ago) link
"gay" specifically
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:55 (thirteen years ago) link
Also tomorrow afternoon I might go on an OK Cupid date, very exciting! Tomorrow I might also get drinks with you guys (joe/surm/morbs) maybe?
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 04:55 (thirteen years ago) link
i will try to go but i have $0 dollars and a distaste for socializing this wk. i'm just like, feelin the hermit mode. YAH!
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:04 (thirteen years ago) link
sometimes a home's like a blanket for 2 and the 2 is u and u
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:06 (thirteen years ago) link
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:08 (thirteen years ago) link
that's me every day!
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:09 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm watching murder she wrote
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:14 (thirteen years ago) link
tape store is so sick of hearing me talk about this
we have the 1st four seasons on DVD
I was going to dinner or something by myself once and I told her it was a party of three--me, myself and I. And she thought it was the funniest thing ever and whenever I do things on my own she always makes a joke about "the three of you"
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:16 (thirteen years ago) link
oh her = my mom i mean.
hahah
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:17 (thirteen years ago) link
but seriously I never want to eat alone in a restaurant fucking ever again
http://www.squarehippies.com/images/actors/paul_rudd/paul_rudd1.jpg
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:18 (thirteen years ago) link
omg calm down
i don't mind it but it's not like the funnest thing ever
i mean what do you talk about
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:18 (thirteen years ago) link
I got lunch alone at this very good and very inexpensive vegan Chinese place in Philly yesterday, and that was nice. But the cute hardcore boy in the Bad Brains shirt sitting a few tables away made the whole thing a bit nicer. I mean there's a difference between that and then, like, going to Applebees and sitting in a booth by yourself staring at the empty seat in front of you.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:23 (thirteen years ago) link
if i ever ate at applebees alone i would kill myself
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:24 (thirteen years ago) link
or get 10 of those margarita cocktails they have, and die
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:25 (thirteen years ago) link
i have eaten at two different applebees in nyc :x
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:25 (thirteen years ago) link
I mean going into a "sit-down" kind of restaurant, I hate it. It's even worse when you're the only person there during their off period but are too embarrassed to leave.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:26 (thirteen years ago) link
no you kno what's the best tho -- eating at a diner alone, at the counter
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:27 (thirteen years ago) link
!!!!!!!
now that's life
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:28 (thirteen years ago) link
Going to Applebees with other people is bad enough, but if you're going alone, why are you going there and not somewhere with real food?
Now that I think of it I have eaten by myself quite a few times, esp when I had my internship in NYC and I wanted good vegan food. I mean it's nice to just sit and contemplate and really savor what you're eating without having to, like, talk about how your weekend was between bites.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:28 (thirteen years ago) link
Also, people-watching!
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:29 (thirteen years ago) link
one thing i was looking forward to about moving back to nj was going to diners again except i realized there's not really anyone in my town i can get coffee with anymore :/
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:29 (thirteen years ago) link
i got a lot of quality people-watching in when i was allowed in the juilliard/SAB cafe
you guys wanna complain about a bunch of skinny fucks, geez
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:30 (thirteen years ago) link
i get coffee with my blackberry
it's v rewarding
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:31 (thirteen years ago) link
What does it usually order?
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:32 (thirteen years ago) link
berry chai latte
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:39 (thirteen years ago) link
ugh berrychailatte would be a really annoying okcupid name
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:43 (thirteen years ago) link
better than "chiboy[insertgraduationyearhere]"
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:47 (thirteen years ago) link
my friend and I love to come up with hideous OKC names, like "flyguy4UinNJ" and stuff
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:51 (thirteen years ago) link
mothercomplex4u2005
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 05:55 (thirteen years ago) link
n0_w1r3_h4ng3rz6969
oops, I killed the thread with my bad joke! time for bed.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 06:10 (thirteen years ago) link
lol ::hugs::
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 06:26 (thirteen years ago) link
we had a few w/ fag, i figure its a practical thing, season, year, gay to make it searchable.
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 08:24 (thirteen years ago) link
38w, bitchez.
Drinks where? I kinda wanna go to the Mets. (not the Met)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 11:18 (thirteen years ago) link
currently trying to resist becoming obsessed with checking out pics of a friend's facebook friend whom i have never met. dude is like wow.
― jed_, Wednesday, 28 July 2010 12:59 (thirteen years ago) link
fag could work. or queer.
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 14:18 (thirteen years ago) link
or m4m / f4f
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 14:19 (thirteen years ago) link
or
homohop fall 2010
― janice (surm),
Haha. This was essential Sunday night viewing in the early nineties.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 14:22 (thirteen years ago) link
Autumn 2010: Run With The NYU Glory Hole Crew
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 14:25 (thirteen years ago) link
you have my vote
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 14:29 (thirteen years ago) link
Tearooms were big at Enwhyoo when I was there, g-holes not so much.
And as Buddy Cole said, "I prefer 'sodomite'!""
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 14:44 (thirteen years ago) link
where is Steve? bcz now ballgame looks like too much trouble.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 19:21 (thirteen years ago) link
should I wear a pride ring/bracelet y/n
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:10 (thirteen years ago) link
Only if you don't feel proud on the inside.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:15 (thirteen years ago) link
should you eat a peach
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:16 (thirteen years ago) link
not a fan of rimming personally.
― jed_, Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:17 (thirteen years ago) link
is eat a peach a euphemism?
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:25 (thirteen years ago) link
eatin pussy iirc
― pies. (gbx), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:26 (thirteen years ago) link
Alfred, it just seems like an easy way to advertise.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:26 (thirteen years ago) link
:o
which alfred are we talking about?
― jed_, Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:27 (thirteen years ago) link
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_PhAKJMmN24A/Sunuy0eqJsI/AAAAAAAAAGM/FtD3lgorCHg/s320/gay-hanky-code.gif
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:27 (thirteen years ago) link
LOL
― jed_, Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:28 (thirteen years ago) link
The Alfred who doesn't mind self-promotion.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:28 (thirteen years ago) link
ah
― jed_, Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:29 (thirteen years ago) link
so that is n
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:38 (thirteen years ago) link
GAY PRIDE
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:38 (thirteen years ago) link
thanks
― I like tv random anything (corey), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:49 (thirteen years ago) link
i heartily endorse the glory hole autumn thread title.
also, man, my life is awesome.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Wednesday, 28 July 2010 23:57 (thirteen years ago) link
tell us about it
― I like tv random anything (corey), Thursday, 29 July 2010 00:05 (thirteen years ago) link
listened to disco all night with my man, slept/cuddled/sucked until 1 pm, went out to this greasy diner for brunch, parted ways, and now i'm sitting in my fave cafe smoking cigs and drinking beer in celebration of finishing my latest round of articles for XLR8R.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Thursday, 29 July 2010 00:09 (thirteen years ago) link
sounds lovely
― I like tv random anything (corey), Thursday, 29 July 2010 00:11 (thirteen years ago) link
what did you write about?
― I like tv random anything (corey), Thursday, 29 July 2010 00:14 (thirteen years ago) link
(and best of all, otherwise unemployed?)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 29 July 2010 00:47 (thirteen years ago) link
corey, I have worn a pride bracelet for same reason u_u
― run (The Reverend), Thursday, 29 July 2010 05:29 (thirteen years ago) link
going to last thursday (monthly art extravaganza-type thing) with J tomorrow, should be fun :)
― run (The Reverend), Thursday, 29 July 2010 05:30 (thirteen years ago) link
did anyone hit on you while you were wearing it?
― I like tv random anything (corey), Thursday, 29 July 2010 05:31 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, but this was like... last summer. I have kind of gotten less bold since moving here :/
― run (The Reverend), Thursday, 29 July 2010 08:11 (thirteen years ago) link
anyway, just got done chatting with J and it sounds like things are about to get superawesome
― run (The Reverend), Thursday, 29 July 2010 08:12 (thirteen years ago) link
Have fun, Rev!
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 29 July 2010 11:50 (thirteen years ago) link
this is really very exciting for you reverend. can we get a physical description please?
― janice (surm), Thursday, 29 July 2010 14:02 (thirteen years ago) link
(apologies if we already got one)
hey guys
Stevie and I sang 'crush on you' and 'let the music play' at karaoke last night
itwasathing
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Thursday, 29 July 2010 15:47 (thirteen years ago) link
So cool!
― I like tv random anything (corey), Thursday, 29 July 2010 15:47 (thirteen years ago) link
Awesome! J0rdan and I chilled on my red leather couch late last Saturday night and listened to Rick Ross.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 29 July 2010 15:48 (thirteen years ago) link
ahhhahahahahahahahahaha
― janice (surm), Thursday, 29 July 2010 15:50 (thirteen years ago) link
I've never sang karaoke. If I did I would sing "Wuthering Heights".
― I like tv random anything (corey), Thursday, 29 July 2010 15:52 (thirteen years ago) link
A woman asked Stevie if he'd like to work at Fox News. And told me I looked like Steven Spielberg...?
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Thursday, 29 July 2010 15:53 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah that's an easy one to start off with.
― jed_, Thursday, 29 July 2010 15:53 (thirteen years ago) link
xp a woman called my friend a Nazi because he was wearing a raincoat.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Thursday, 29 July 2010 15:57 (thirteen years ago) link
I watched another extra-inning Mets loss on TV and woke up at 4:30am.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 29 July 2010 16:02 (thirteen years ago) link
Tom Hardy:
Of course I have [had sex with men]. I'm an actor for fuck's sake. I've played with everything and everyone. I love the form and the physicality, but now that I'm in my thirties, it doesn't do it for me. I'm done experimenting but there's plenty of stuff in a relationship with another man, especially gay men, that I need in my life. A lot of gay men get my thing for shoes. I have definite feminine qualities and a lot of gay men are incredibly masculine.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 29 July 2010 16:25 (thirteen years ago) link
let the music play
― plax (ico), Thursday, 29 July 2010 17:08 (thirteen years ago) link
yea i saw that snippit
― janice (surm), Thursday, 29 July 2010 17:09 (thirteen years ago) link
i mean, his lips scare me tho
― janice (surm), Thursday, 29 July 2010 17:12 (thirteen years ago) link
not TOM HARDY!
(had to google him)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 29 July 2010 17:20 (thirteen years ago) link
corey, i wrote about Mr. G (album snippets here, "Blessed" is a perfect track imo: http://www.beatportal.com/feed/item/album-of-the-week-mr-g-still-here-get-on-down/) and the new album by Justin K Broadrick of Godflesh and Techno Animal fame.
and morbz, i actually have a part-time gig now, doing social media and marketing for this company: http://fluffyco.com/shop/index.php
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Thursday, 29 July 2010 20:58 (thirteen years ago) link
oh and hey, my favorite songs to do at karaoke are "Touch Me" by the Doors, "Wicked Game" by Chris Isaak.
probably one of my favorite moments in a karaoke bar ever happened when these two FIERCE queens did an amazing rendition of Klymaxx's "Meeting in the Ladies Room."
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Thursday, 29 July 2010 21:00 (thirteen years ago) link
i looked for that and they didn't have it! >:(
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Thursday, 29 July 2010 21:13 (thirteen years ago) link
my karaoke version of tlc's waterfalls is formidable fyi
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 29 July 2010 21:52 (thirteen years ago) link
I specialize in shrieking Nirvana karaoke, drawing hateful stares
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 29 July 2010 21:55 (thirteen years ago) link
my favorite song to sing at karaoke is minnie riperton's "loving you" but I'll only sing it once at one place because i don't want to become known as the guy who always sings "loving you"
― run (The Reverend), Thursday, 29 July 2010 21:58 (thirteen years ago) link
in my first year in college ppl used to sporadically start singing that in class sometimes.
it was a thing
― plax (ico), Thursday, 29 July 2010 21:59 (thirteen years ago) link
lol.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:01 (thirteen years ago) link
my dad played me this song the other daymakin me feel kinda melancholic
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xzQZCxiV68
― plax (ico), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:05 (thirteen years ago) link
loving you? that's tough. do you do falsetto?
― jed_, Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:16 (thirteen years ago) link
you can do the karaoke-mid-line-octave-drop and its fine
― plax (ico), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:20 (thirteen years ago) link
i've probably done just that.
i actually have never sung karaoke in a bar just at house parties. i tend to do "wichita lineman" or the tamperer's "feel it" because i like to sing the chimney line. my preferred song would be sinatra's "french foreign legion" but i've never found it on the machine thing.
― jed_, Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:25 (thirteen years ago) link
god i love my falsetto
― janice (surm), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:35 (thirteen years ago) link
― J0rdan S., Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:36 (thirteen years ago) link
mine is garbage but i still absolutely love doing it
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:36 (thirteen years ago) link
awwww xp
― janice (surm), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:38 (thirteen years ago) link
I did "I Guess That's Why They Call It The Blues" and The Killers' "Human" at karaoke a few weeks ago.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:46 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't see the point of karaoke if you don't know the script -- it's like acting. Staring frozen at the monitor -- like these lame chicks singing "Hot Summer Nights" and "Hit Me With Your Best Shot" for the first time -- is beyond offensive.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:47 (thirteen years ago) link
right? spielberg lady last night was a whole measure behind on her song (i forget what it was) and it was just like 'man, c'mon with this'
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:51 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah but the worst thing about Karaoke is the people who do it all the time and are really good at it. I'd rather see a frozen chick than some Karaoke expert.
― jed_, Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:52 (thirteen years ago) link
(i learned my lesson the hard way after realizing i don't know how the verses of 'careless whisper' go)
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:52 (thirteen years ago) link
picking a karaoke song is prolly like deciding on a tattoo, it has to declare something definite abt you and i'm not ready for that kind of commitment. also i dont want to sing in front of ppl
― plax (ico), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:53 (thirteen years ago) link
that song is hard! i crashed and burned on it at karaoke one time
xp about careless whisper
― horseshoe, Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:53 (thirteen years ago) link
You guys are invited to my next performance of "Young Americans."
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:56 (thirteen years ago) link
i love how everyone does karaoke with like, no shame
― janice (surm), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:56 (thirteen years ago) link
I go to this total bro karaoke bar, and on my birthday two years ago I was almost lynched after I chose Debbie Harry's "I Want That Man."
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:57 (thirteen years ago) link
the place stevie and i went to had people singing sublime and that travie mccoy song (ugh)
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:58 (thirteen years ago) link
were you pointing at bros while you sang?
― jed_, Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:58 (thirteen years ago) link
yes! (my bros though)
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:59 (thirteen years ago) link
J0rdan! before you return to Mizzou we're going to karaoke.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:02 (thirteen years ago) link
o god you guys please be careful
― janice (surm), Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:03 (thirteen years ago) link
― jed_, Thursday, July 29, 2010 3:16 PM Bookmark
hell yes I do falsetto! (i sing most of it in my natural baritone range tho and only slip into falsetto for that part)
― run (The Reverend), Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:22 (thirteen years ago) link
respect!
― jed_, Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:28 (thirteen years ago) link
Rev, I'd love to see you. I think I missed my chance during EMP a couple of years ago.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:38 (thirteen years ago) link
i make these same facial expressions btw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kE0pwJ5PMDg
― run (The Reverend), Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:40 (thirteen years ago) link
i don't think i'd ever done karaoke as of emp a couple years ago tbh! this is a relatively recent thing for me.
― run (The Reverend), Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:41 (thirteen years ago) link
other fave karaoke song is "erotic city" cause i can sing all the parts in their original octaves :)
― run (The Reverend), Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:42 (thirteen years ago) link
oh ok -- I thought you went to that rockcrit FAP at the karaoke bar.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:50 (thirteen years ago) link
if i was doing a minnie Ripperton song it would def be "Les Fleur".
― jed_, Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:52 (thirteen years ago) link
no, i think that was the year i was a couple months too young and i ended up going to see this movie (brilliant btw) with a dude i met at the emp conf instead
― run (The Reverend), Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:53 (thirteen years ago) link
will somebody wear me to the fair?will a lady pin me to her hair?
― jed_, Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:54 (thirteen years ago) link
that song is just the best
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:58 (thirteen years ago) link
it is
― jed_, Thursday, 29 July 2010 23:59 (thirteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oWnJLZpnLvk
― jed_, Friday, 30 July 2010 00:01 (thirteen years ago) link
between empathy and sympathy is time
― plax (ico), Friday, 30 July 2010 00:08 (thirteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MlkYezp2T4E
I always want them to have this at the places I go, and I've only found ONE that does.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Friday, 30 July 2010 00:35 (thirteen years ago) link
also, i'm gonna say it because i feel it: i miss Bimble.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Friday, 30 July 2010 00:37 (thirteen years ago) link
I miss Bimbs too.
I want "Teardrops" everywhere I go but only W&W singing it.
btw the album on which you'll find it isn't great, alas. But Love Wars is a must, must own.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 30 July 2010 00:45 (thirteen years ago) link
J called out on me at the last moment but we are supposed to hang tomorrow. Trying to get this girl I met to go with me instead.
― run (The Reverend), Friday, 30 July 2010 01:24 (thirteen years ago) link
And she said yes! Yay!
― run (The Reverend), Friday, 30 July 2010 01:27 (thirteen years ago) link
hmmmmm
― janice (surm), Friday, 30 July 2010 01:30 (thirteen years ago) link
u gonna open the door for her 'n stuff?
Hi boys! How was your (respective) day?
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 01:36 (thirteen years ago) link
mm! fine and u cutey pie?
― janice (surm), Friday, 30 July 2010 01:37 (thirteen years ago) link
I've on my fourth glass of wine, am blasting "Teardrops," and waiting for you to bring coffee ice cream, corey.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 30 July 2010 01:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Okay, just a dull work day. Coffee ice cream sounds amazing right now.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 01:43 (thirteen years ago) link
amaaazing
― janice (surm), Friday, 30 July 2010 01:44 (thirteen years ago) link
Everyone come over then. Bring a bottle of good rioja then.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 30 July 2010 01:44 (thirteen years ago) link
Exactly like that.
My job is right by the Chi river and I found this spot right on the banks where no one seems to go. It seems like the kind of place I'd sit with a boy and hug each other and watch the ducks and kayakers.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 01:45 (thirteen years ago) link
still a bit headache-y from last night but right now very full of delicious mexican food, would like to crash out on my bed 'cept it's covered in all of the detritus i've collected from 2 years in this apt
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Friday, 30 July 2010 02:43 (thirteen years ago) link
Are you moving?
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 02:43 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, back home w/ my parents to nj. accentuating the positives though - still fairly close to the city but also it'll be kind of nice to escape for a bit
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Friday, 30 July 2010 02:48 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh duh, I knew that, it just slipped my mind. You'll have to come to NYC when I visit next month!
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 03:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Karaoke shortlist:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OkNDPQ4UfeU
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FxlNQIqBTpw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jgUiTNq0uYA
or any number of other Stevie songs that were never singles and would never ever have any chance of appearing in a karaoke book.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 30 July 2010 03:58 (thirteen years ago) link
guy I've been waiting for for 2 weeks seen in bar w/ dim Sopranos-cousin date
made out w/ attached guy in street
flirted w/ husband of former bisexual female bartender
NEW YORK RULES
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 30 July 2010 09:14 (thirteen years ago) link
After spending all evening with this pretty young lady then going to the bar and grinding on girls' asses to "Ignition (Remix)", I'm feeling pretty heterosexual right now. Sorry gays. :(
― run (The Reverend), Friday, 30 July 2010 10:42 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh my god, I just got home after being in NYC/Philly/etc since v. early Wed morning and I am so so wiped even after a nice 5 hour sleep. I have absolutely ZERO recollection of singing "Crush On You", which is sort of amazing considering I've wanted to do it at karaoke for a long time, and I was singing it to myself the next morning to try to trigger my memory but I could not remember a single second of it. I do, however, remember bumbling through "Let The Music Play", a song I only know four words to.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Friday, 30 July 2010 13:16 (thirteen years ago) link
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― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Friday, 30 July 2010 13:24 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm impressed by any man who can hit those notes in "Crush on You."
Hope it's not Soprano cousin Ralphy, Morbs.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 30 July 2010 13:26 (thirteen years ago) link
Good morgen boys! I stayed up way too late last night talking to old internet crush (since like 2004) who lives in Knoxville. He just broke up with his boyfriend of two years. u_u
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 15:15 (thirteen years ago) link
KNOXVILLE
― janice (surm), Friday, 30 July 2010 15:15 (thirteen years ago) link
and were you talking or "talking"
Just regular talking, but we've "talked" before. It's painful how much I like this guy.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 15:18 (thirteen years ago) link
Here's why:
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v273/239/62/729841280/n729841280_1398207_7715.jpg
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 15:29 (thirteen years ago) link
omg i love him
i like how he's holding that beer
you can def see the kentucky in him
― janice (surm), Friday, 30 July 2010 15:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Tennessee, boy!
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 15:31 (thirteen years ago) link
word! i grew up there <3
― janice (surm), Friday, 30 July 2010 15:32 (thirteen years ago) link
yea sorry meant knox
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 15:32 (thirteen years ago) link
also i was just looking at your facebook pics and i want to let you know that you are adorable
― janice (surm), Friday, 30 July 2010 15:47 (thirteen years ago) link
Aw thanks!
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 15:59 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm going to dream about him
― J0rdan S., Friday, 30 July 2010 16:54 (thirteen years ago) link
so up your alley
― janice (surm), Friday, 30 July 2010 16:55 (thirteen years ago) link
like, beyond
― J0rdan S., Friday, 30 July 2010 16:56 (thirteen years ago) link
he gives me hope
doesn't he kind of look like your bff
― janice (surm), Friday, 30 July 2010 16:58 (thirteen years ago) link
no not really
― J0rdan S., Friday, 30 July 2010 16:58 (thirteen years ago) link
well, soooooooooort of, in terms of facial features -- but EVERYTHING else, no
― J0rdan S., Friday, 30 July 2010 16:59 (thirteen years ago) link
yea i just mean facial features
― janice (surm), Friday, 30 July 2010 16:59 (thirteen years ago) link
AGH!
crazy party last night, i worked door, all sorts of insanity involving a sub-woofer and two tweeker-burner fucks freaking out over it being blown.
but whatever, my friends played well and i had a lovely time. plus waking up to bonerz is nice.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Friday, 30 July 2010 18:01 (thirteen years ago) link
ps- tweeker-burner fucks are the only thing i TOTALLY HATE about living out here. i can deal with rich people even if i don't like 'em, but christ, i hate people who go to Burning Man.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Friday, 30 July 2010 18:02 (thirteen years ago) link
Totally my type -- blond, slightly foolish, distant, inaccessible.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 30 July 2010 18:13 (thirteen years ago) link
Smell bad.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 30 July 2010 18:14 (thirteen years ago) link
oooh, that's me.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Friday, 30 July 2010 18:24 (thirteen years ago) link
he's kind of perfect
― J0rdan S., Friday, 30 July 2010 18:26 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm really glad I talked last night's "almost" out of our having intercourse on the sidewalk in the middle of a residential block in Park Slope. All it takes is one puritan and a phone...
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 30 July 2010 19:22 (thirteen years ago) link
without talking too much about it, can i just say how glad i am that there's at least one bar in nyc where it feels like 1975 never ended?
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Friday, 30 July 2010 19:29 (thirteen years ago) link
care to give any hints where karaoke took place?
Having lived through '75, I was kinda glad to see it go.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 30 July 2010 19:32 (thirteen years ago) link
as someone who's never even been to nyc, I feel so out of the loop on this thread sometimes
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Friday, 30 July 2010 20:17 (thirteen years ago) link
egh, sorry. i think tabes once rightly pointed out how annoyingly NY-centric this thread gets sometimes
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Friday, 30 July 2010 20:18 (thirteen years ago) link
wait til you live in new jersey, this thread will probably seem totally different
― plax (ico), Friday, 30 July 2010 20:30 (thirteen years ago) link
it doesn't bother me, personally
― J0rdan S., Friday, 30 July 2010 20:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Ten years ago this would have been a Miami centric site.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 30 July 2010 20:33 (thirteen years ago) link
*thread rather
it doesnt bother me but it doesnt make me feel like i have a whole lot to add most of the time.
― plax (ico), Friday, 30 July 2010 20:34 (thirteen years ago) link
agree with that.
― jed_, Friday, 30 July 2010 20:40 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, plax otm
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Friday, 30 July 2010 20:52 (thirteen years ago) link
ur DN makes me happy tho
― plax (ico), Friday, 30 July 2010 20:55 (thirteen years ago) link
Guys, the only way to make your hometowns more vital is to have more sex and adventures in them.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 30 July 2010 20:56 (thirteen years ago) link
The more adventures you enjoy in Kalamazoo and the more you post, the more likely this place will look like a Kalamazoo train station bathroom.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 30 July 2010 20:57 (thirteen years ago) link
:) (xps)
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Friday, 30 July 2010 20:58 (thirteen years ago) link
maybe grindr will actually come in handy for me next month
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Friday, 30 July 2010 21:00 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh, I never claimed I could hit the high notes on "Crush On You", but Joe can (and should) attest for my accuracy/lack thereof. I still don't remember a thing.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Friday, 30 July 2010 21:21 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm amazed that you don't remember that but you do remember 'let the music play' since that came later!
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Friday, 30 July 2010 21:24 (thirteen years ago) link
Strange, but yeah, I definitely remember that. As well as the rest of the evening.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Friday, 30 July 2010 21:26 (thirteen years ago) link
― J0rdan S., Friday, July 30, 2010 1:26 PM (2 hours ago)
I KNOW :C
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 21:28 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh, forgot to mention: his brother is starting school in Chi in Sept and he's going to visit!!
yeah, a bit NY-centric, but that's all right. i still don't really understand how anyone stands living there, but that's also just me being a grump.
part of the reason is, i think, that i know that if i came to new york i could get a job. and be surrounded by friends. and maybe even gain some notoriety, which seems to occur whenever i visit.
but that job thing, and paying out the ass to live in some shit studio off the Jefferson L stop, and being surrounded by friends? i feel like i'd get even less done than i do here.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Friday, 30 July 2010 22:44 (thirteen years ago) link
also, admittedly, i'm starting to get weirdly bitter that some of my friends are becoming somewhat famous, and it's only because they live in NYC that it's happening.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Friday, 30 July 2010 22:45 (thirteen years ago) link
i've lived here on-and-off for seven years and am not even remotely famous, if that counts for anything
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Friday, 30 July 2010 22:49 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah reading this thread makes me wish I lived in NYC. Ain't shit happenin' in Chicago.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 23:00 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm just... aghast.
― jed_, Friday, 30 July 2010 23:09 (thirteen years ago) link
Why so, Jed?
― I like tv random anything (corey), Friday, 30 July 2010 23:23 (thirteen years ago) link
T3DDY! saw you cruising down san pablo again - was gonna yell HIIIIIIIII but didn't want to scare you into falling off your bike ;)
― just1n3, Saturday, 31 July 2010 00:10 (thirteen years ago) link
haha, J! you should've, though i was blasting 100 Flowers on my little tape-deck thing and sort of lost to the world.
j03, it's weird. i mean, two friends of mine who weren't even really a band last year around this time played a show at the Standard Hotel last night for some sort of celebrity gala. angelina jolie in attendance and everything. another friend of mine works with Amanda Lepore and is best friends with the Scissor Sisters.
in other words, it's just my jealous side. yeah, i'm buds with some famous writers and musicians and artists, but out here that doesn't mean as much because the Bay Area is like living in a different country.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Saturday, 31 July 2010 00:42 (thirteen years ago) link
also, it was a conscious move on my part to not engage with new york in that way, and i love my life out here, but i'm just like, 'HEY GIVE ME A RECORD DEAL.'
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Saturday, 31 July 2010 00:44 (thirteen years ago) link
CG booty call tonight! I'm nervous!
― I like tv random anything (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 03:57 (thirteen years ago) link
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 31 July 2010 04:00 (thirteen years ago) link
Well, that was awesome.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 06:16 (thirteen years ago) link
aw yeah
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 31 July 2010 06:16 (thirteen years ago) link
ayyyy
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Saturday, 31 July 2010 06:17 (thirteen years ago) link
― I like tv random anything (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 06:18 (thirteen years ago) link
details! (?)
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 31 July 2010 06:21 (thirteen years ago) link
Bear-ish guy, 40s I think, hung. We sucked/fucked and we were both happy. :D
― I like tv random anything (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 06:25 (thirteen years ago) link
well then
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 31 July 2010 06:25 (thirteen years ago) link
sounds like a time!
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Saturday, 31 July 2010 06:26 (thirteen years ago) link
It was. And he was totally nice and courteous too! I've never been with an older guy before.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 06:28 (thirteen years ago) link
also, I just noticed I said "CG" earlier
― I like tv random anything (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 06:54 (thirteen years ago) link
the best
― plax (ico), Saturday, 31 July 2010 06:55 (thirteen years ago) link
One of the guys I've always held as a pie-eyed prospect in a perfect world but unavailable ... just broke up with his BF of some five or six years. Uh-oh.― Eric H., Monday, July 19, 2010 1:11 PM (1 week ago)
But after a week of FB msg'ing each other, strike out that "missed."― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Monday, July 26, 2010 6:37 AM (5 days ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
:0― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, July 26, 2010 8:57 AM (5 days ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
Well, it could easily be reinstated.― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Monday, July 26, 2010 9:07 AM (5 days ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
We met tonight. The "missed" remains un-reinstated.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Saturday, 31 July 2010 06:57 (thirteen years ago) link
Did you? Did you?
― I like tv random anything (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 07:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Blanche would answer that question in greater detail than I ever would. Of course, Blanche would do a whole lot more on a first date (if that's what this was) than I ever would. Suffice it to say this is for real good right now.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Saturday, 31 July 2010 07:04 (thirteen years ago) link
Yay
― I like tv random anything (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 07:08 (thirteen years ago) link
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Saturday, 31 July 2010 07:12 (thirteen years ago) link
ayyyyyx2
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Saturday, 31 July 2010 07:22 (thirteen years ago) link
yay for getting laid!
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Saturday, 31 July 2010 07:33 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm a bit unsure as to whether this guy wants me to come over?
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Saturday, 31 July 2010 07:35 (thirteen years ago) link
argghhhh why did i meet the sweetest guy ever NOW >:(
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Saturday, 31 July 2010 07:59 (thirteen years ago) link
OK well while we're all sharing our recent experiences...
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Saturday, 31 July 2010 14:32 (thirteen years ago) link
oh, the hell w/ all your luck
I've never been with an older guy before.
Spread the word, we're great!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 31 July 2010 14:56 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah. I messaged him this morning telling him how awesome last night was and that I wanted to make it a regular thing.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 15:06 (thirteen years ago) link
Nice to read some good news from you guys. Cheers!
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 31 July 2010 15:06 (thirteen years ago) link
wait why is jed aghast
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 15:27 (thirteen years ago) link
also why are you all so great ?
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 15:28 (thirteen years ago) link
yesterday i went to the doctor, he took my blood
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 15:29 (thirteen years ago) link
I decided to go to The Cock the other night to "see what happened". For those of you not in NYC, it is the absolute seediest bar imaginable: the doors are completely black and recessed from the sidewalk, and the only indicator that the place exists is a single neon sign of a rooster, and when you walk in the only thing inside is a bar, a row of benches on the back wall across from the bar, and a single dimly-lit red light shining onto a disco ball. Also a few prominently-placed signs letting you know that there is NO SEXUAL ACTIVITY ALLOWED. But it's the type of place that you can't even really see who's sitting three feet away from you (which I guess makes the guy giving blowjobs in the corner that much more appealing?)
Anyway what "happened" was a nice smallish and youthful 45yo Irish gentlemen with gauges in his ears and short gray hair and an adorable smile. Not sure who looked at who first or whatever, but highlights of the evening (re: early morning) included dancing to Madonna's "Future Lovers" in his apartment and playing lots of Dead Can Dance and then deciding it'd be a good idea to maybe sleep once sunlight started coming in through his curtains. Let me also say that the subway from Forest Hills to Manhattan seems soooooooooooooo much longer when it's 10 am you're hung over and by yourself and your Zune is dead.
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Saturday, 31 July 2010 15:30 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.zulva.com/images/good_job/images/great.gif
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 15:33 (thirteen years ago) link
last time i went to The Cock they played all my favorite songs, like in a row. it was cute.
and this guy looked at me and busted out the falsetto part in mariah carey's "hate u" remix and we both sang it together
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 15:43 (thirteen years ago) link
!!!!
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 15:46 (thirteen years ago) link
n e way i wanna go to atlanta
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 15:49 (thirteen years ago) link
What's in Atlanta?
― I like tv random anything (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 16:24 (thirteen years ago) link
a good friend of my dad's, and ciara
altho i think she just went down to dallas for a show
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 16:27 (thirteen years ago) link
wow, SD
I'm going to Atlanta on Tuesday, surm, if there's any errands I can run for you.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 31 July 2010 17:34 (thirteen years ago) link
I'd never live in Georgia again unless I was retired and only then it would be North Georgia.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 18:33 (thirteen years ago) link
Lived there for the first 15 years of my life.
― I like tv random anything (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 18:34 (thirteen years ago) link
is it cool?
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 18:59 (thirteen years ago) link
i rly want 2 go to miami tho prolly there 1st - am working on a friend 2 host me in dec
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:00 (thirteen years ago) link
surm, I'd love to see you and your tanlines.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:01 (thirteen years ago) link
alfred i will b tan if i go and i will gloss my eyes and wear my gold and look u up ferrealz
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:02 (thirteen years ago) link
Are you coming by yourself or with ry@n? If you're solo I can put you up for a night.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:03 (thirteen years ago) link
alfred, it's 16 degrees C here, overcast and drizzly.
what is it there? sock it to me.
― jed_, Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:05 (thirteen years ago) link
atlanta's great. wish i'd gotten to spend more time there last year. sadly the only times i get to cross the atlantic these days (and for...the foreseeable :/ ) are on press trips.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:07 (thirteen years ago) link
i will be coming with ryan and a couple friends, we'll be staying at mr sherriff's house hopefully
he doesn't know this yet obv
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:07 (thirteen years ago) link
It's 92 and overcast today. The pool was lukewarm. I just showered and am about to leave to meet a friend for some reading and writing. Will post a photo soon.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:09 (thirteen years ago) link
Showered and ready
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f308/sotoalf/me-2.jpg
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:25 (thirteen years ago) link
let's see the outfit!!
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Just a black quasi Polo with offwhite shorts and sandals. No one here to photograph the body shot.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:31 (thirteen years ago) link
good look, good look
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:33 (thirteen years ago) link
heyo. YAY FOR PEOPLE GETTING BOOTY. ISN'T IT AWESOME!!??
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Saturday, 31 July 2010 19:47 (thirteen years ago) link
Georgia is cool in some parts. The North is mountainous and v pretty but there's no industry, so if you live there you're probably retired or white trash.
The town where I'm from is small, pretty much everyone knows everyone. Gays do not live there.
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:30 (thirteen years ago) link
i hear you
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:30 (thirteen years ago) link
xxp T3ddy, yes! And I'm still getting messages from people. Might make it two nights in a row!
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:31 (thirteen years ago) link
man, if you only knew how insane the sex going on below me sounds. love living with crazy queer people.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:33 (thirteen years ago) link
i need to go out tonight
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:35 (thirteen years ago) link
do you all live in a communal household or are they just neighbors?
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:36 (thirteen years ago) link
it's my two housemates. i have two more as well.
but for real, it is some INTENSE screaming and slapping and sighing and whew.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:38 (thirteen years ago) link
ahh that's too much for me
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:39 (thirteen years ago) link
i used to get comments and winks from the guys down the hall in college cuz ryan and i were like... loud
i tend to be a noisemaker i'm a musician what do u want from me
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:41 (thirteen years ago) link
I guess it's good because you don't have to keep reassuring then that you're enjoying it.
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:46 (thirteen years ago) link
then = them*
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:49 (thirteen years ago) link
haha now during all this sex talk "Tiger" by ABBA comes on.
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:50 (thirteen years ago) link
wait, what's too much for you? people-wise? man, i've lived in co-ops with 42 other people. i love communal living. my house is called MISCARRIAGE VALLEY.
here are some fun facts about my household:
- si0bhan works in a dildo factory
- hilt is siobhan's lover, and just moved here from the Northwest, and has equal numbers of Lady Gaga and Dark Metal t-shirts.
- M@ryam was one of the first people to be prosecuted under the anti-enviroterrorism law, but they threw out her charges because she didn't actually DO anything violent.
- el-no also just moved here from the Northwest, and is completely obsessed with zebra print.
- buttercup is our pitbull. he's a sweetheart.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Saturday, 31 July 2010 21:58 (thirteen years ago) link
i dunno, i actually can't imagine living alone.
i hate living w. other people. i love when the evening when the house is quiet.
― plax (ico), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:00 (thirteen years ago) link
i think that we have established that i am very much a people person. i do sometimes like my silence, but that's what bike-rides through the hills are for.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:02 (thirteen years ago) link
i don't know what i prefer! i definitely need space to work on music and stuff but i'm definitely a company-whore.
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:03 (thirteen years ago) link
too.
r4mz, i have studio monitors, a mixer, two turn tables, a gigantic bass amp and cab, a bass, lots of records and books, boxes galore filled with old books and papers... i mean, it's not like we're room-mates. i have enough space to do whatever i want. for $365 a month.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:11 (thirteen years ago) link
omggg i would have fun in ur room
do u play bass?
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:11 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah. trying to get a band started right now.
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:12 (thirteen years ago) link
! me too
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:13 (thirteen years ago) link
i want to sing for a band
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:14 (thirteen years ago) link
i haven't since highschool :( :/ :*(
so do i! i used to. it was fun!
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:15 (thirteen years ago) link
i wd b the punk mariah to ur bass of course, prolly not what u have in mind but i wd surely be able to pull off some kickin background voxxx at least :P
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:16 (thirteen years ago) link
i did not know that u sang in ur past
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:17 (thirteen years ago) link
T3d, I meant the slapping and screaming, not so much the roommates. They are wonderful if it's a good situation and everyone is pretty much independent.
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:57 (thirteen years ago) link
btw I just got back from ANOTHER booty call! What is wrong with me???
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:58 (thirteen years ago) link
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:58 (thirteen years ago) link
slut
<3 :D :) xxxooo
― janice (surm), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:59 (thirteen years ago) link
heheh
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 22:59 (thirteen years ago) link
FWIW I once lived with four other guys, two of them a couple, one a former bf of one of the couple, and one a straight friend. Seemed like a good situation going into it but it turned out really badly, mostly 'cause I was 19 and crazy.
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Saturday, 31 July 2010 23:10 (thirteen years ago) link
me at 19 in a hostel in Krakow: http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-sf2p/v14/246/53/19400623/n19400623_30014302_1779.jpg
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:01 (thirteen years ago) link
i can deal with the screaming and stuff because i definitely yell a lot during sex, but there's nobody living above me, so unless you're cooking breakfast, you can't hear me.
that said, once, buttercup came into my room when m4tt was inside me, and i was just like, "bttercup likes to watch" and he just laid down and watched til it was over.
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs471.ash1/25830_114826851878973_100000549777915_183119_540477_n.jpg
― the nyu glory hole crew (the table is the table), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:04 (thirteen years ago) link
i have a strict rule about no pets in the room during
u look adorable btw
― janice (surm), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:06 (thirteen years ago) link
ramzi u should totally come to atlanta!!
― I think I'm Big Bird, Harold Hooper (crüt), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:09 (thirteen years ago) link
ATL is fun, my friend h3len is from there, i almost took a trip with her in june...
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:11 (thirteen years ago) link
i bet i wd enjoy myself immensely. really need to see this friend of the family, he was my dad's best friend, and he and his wife are really nice. they've been writing me, trying to get me to come.
― janice (surm), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:14 (thirteen years ago) link
ps, that is buttercup above. isn't he the cutest pit EVAH?
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:14 (thirteen years ago) link
Also T3d, you really remind me of one of my old roommates. We're still talking. He's a really great guy. I think you two would get along.
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:14 (thirteen years ago) link
yes, so cute!
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:15 (thirteen years ago) link
beautiful dog
― janice (surm), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:20 (thirteen years ago) link
lol tabes btw u look like Rowlf the muppet
― janice (surm), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:21 (thirteen years ago) link
http://images2.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20100320214033/muppet/images/thumb/7/79/Rowlf2.jpg/300px-Rowlf2.jpg
and u kno that is definitely a compliment
― janice (surm), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:22 (thirteen years ago) link
oh, i'm sure we would. i'm generally pretty affable. have been thinking about getting a tat of the 'affable' symbol on my body somewhere. do you gays know about these codes? interesintg reading/looking:
http://www.bigkugels.com/content/amg/AMG_Codes/index.html
also lol, when people who haven't seen me for a long time see me now, they're like, "WHAT"
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:22 (thirteen years ago) link
i mean, ok, i'm gonna go through it. that was 19 above.
here is 21:http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-ash1/v24/42/32/4300904/n4300904_30150256_3377.jpg
22:http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-sf2p/v71/23/91/4302681/n4302681_30496209_6227.jpg
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:26 (thirteen years ago) link
haha yes! i was doing drawings based on those for a while, never figured out how to turn them into paintings tho
― plax (ico), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:26 (thirteen years ago) link
i was like u were drawing t3ddy?
― janice (surm), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:27 (thirteen years ago) link
that's so... random
ha not quite
― plax (ico), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:28 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, I've gone through a lot of different looks.
You've always looked great, though T3ddy.
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:30 (thirteen years ago) link
23:http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-sf2p/v282/197/92/4204079/n4204079_31260142_8802.jpg
24:http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc1/hs056.snc1/4503_529055965484_4302681_31395164_4730557_n.jpg
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:31 (thirteen years ago) link
haha, thx guyz. all of you have always looked good too.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Since we're posting old photos, this is me at 16 or 17:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v222/souvlaki/7d9619d0.jpg?t=1280623529
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:48 (thirteen years ago) link
Still have that shirt, actually.
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:49 (thirteen years ago) link
i was told the tweaker chick at T3d's party went by the name "SNAC" (sexy naked asian chick) - she was something else.
Also T - i would totally be in a band w/you
― Display Name must be less than 80 characters (sarahel), Sunday, 1 August 2010 00:50 (thirteen years ago) link
I own my own place, so I couldn't imagine living with anyone else, which is precisely why I, to quote Morrissey, need to see people and I need to see life.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 1 August 2010 01:42 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm looking forward to my other roommate moving out. I've been trying to get an old friend from FL to move up here.
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 01:44 (thirteen years ago) link
corey, you've a beautiful mouth.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 1 August 2010 01:56 (thirteen years ago) link
ok, what's fun to do in ATL? Tho I'll be doing a lot of baseball stuff.
Yeah, I live to avoid being anywhere near that.
I wish I had a photo of my 8th-grade powder-blue leisure suit to prove I did not always look good.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:03 (thirteen years ago) link
or to prove how the seventies sucked pussy.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:03 (thirteen years ago) link
xp *blushes*
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:04 (thirteen years ago) link
― janice (surm), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:06 (thirteen years ago) link
I just returned from drinks at a Coral Gables dive and escargot and a filet mignon split with the lead singer of our best local band. Anyone who wants to bring coffee and sauvignon blanc to my apartment is welcome.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:08 (thirteen years ago) link
alfred i would come kick it but i'm working in the morning
― righteous lecoq (J0rdan S.), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:09 (thirteen years ago) link
So wait you guys are in FL?
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:10 (thirteen years ago) link
You don't have this schedule much longer, and you sleep in, so come on over. Leave when you want.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:12 (thirteen years ago) link
miami
― righteous lecoq (J0rdan S.), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:13 (thirteen years ago) link
My buddy and I, three hours ago:
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f308/sotoalf/DSC00131.jpg
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:24 (thirteen years ago) link
I like his glasses. You look great too, A.
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:31 (thirteen years ago) link
I thought those were chem lab goggles
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:37 (thirteen years ago) link
I hate the glasses meself; they only work on Dorothy Michaels.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:38 (thirteen years ago) link
If I wore glasses I'd go with the Zbigniew Cybulski tinted-lenses:
http://www.allynscura.com/images/ZbigniewCybulski_opt.jpg
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:45 (thirteen years ago) link
ace reference, corey!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:46 (thirteen years ago) link
(r u a film student?)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:47 (thirteen years ago) link
No, just a film fan/buff. Nowhere near your level though!
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:53 (thirteen years ago) link
well there but for the grace of God go ye
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 1 August 2010 02:58 (thirteen years ago) link
Just got back from a big music fest...missed half of Arcade Fire's set to see Robyn (which like...on any other day would be a giant mistake but I saw them a month ago, so whatever, either because you love Arcade Fire like me or because you're the Lex and think Robyn is pure evil.)
point being. i stayed at robyn for an hour because i met a lovely young man there who asked for my phone number as i was running off to the last half of AF's set. I was invited out for a walk sometime. :)
― Y /\/\ /\/\ \/ (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, 1 August 2010 04:54 (thirteen years ago) link
Also, drunkenly made out with a German on Thursday night, and he's not taking a hint. Hmm.
Finally figured out the secret of my sex life. Every four months - it's like clockwork.
― Y /\/\ /\/\ \/ (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, 1 August 2010 04:56 (thirteen years ago) link
Life is happening!
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 05:53 (thirteen years ago) link
It's happening and I want to get off.
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Sunday, 1 August 2010 06:40 (thirteen years ago) link
Although my first couple hours in NJ have been interesting, to say the least.
My little bro just told me he first figured out I was gay when he looked over my shoulder while I was at the computer taking a survey about when I first realized I was gay. (I have zero recollection of ever doing this but he seems to be totally cool with it so whtvs.)
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Sunday, 1 August 2010 06:43 (thirteen years ago) link
So have you came out to your family yet? Did he confide this to you in secret?
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 06:47 (thirteen years ago) link
ugh, it's too late and my grammar's shit
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 06:48 (thirteen years ago) link
I never sat them and told them; I let them figure it out for themselves. I've brought boyfriends home for holidays.
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Sunday, 1 August 2010 06:50 (thirteen years ago) link
(but by this point they all know, yes)
That's cool, seems like a more natural way of doing it instead of making it a "thing". I had to tell my mom but her response was essentially "I know", and everyone else was totally fine about it.
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 06:58 (thirteen years ago) link
btw I am having major deja vu right now
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 07:02 (thirteen years ago) link
I think we go through this every so often.
I will say one of the positives of moving back home = having access to a functioning record player again. Am currently d-_-b to 'another green world'
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Sunday, 1 August 2010 07:08 (thirteen years ago) link
tinted lenses i find a bit crepey. i know because i had them for about a week and felt like a crepe. got them changed v quickly.
― jed_, Sunday, 1 August 2010 12:43 (thirteen years ago) link
another green world is a great d-_-b album!
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 16:13 (thirteen years ago) link
weird situations, friends.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 1 August 2010 18:39 (thirteen years ago) link
not bad, just weird.
You're telling me. I think I may have a long-distance thing now?!
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Sunday, 1 August 2010 18:52 (thirteen years ago) link
woah! well at least you don't have lots of weird interactions with guys that are pretty much like "blah blah let's get in bed with boyfriend he likes you too"
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 1 August 2010 19:20 (thirteen years ago) link
what's weird, T?
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Sunday, 1 August 2010 19:49 (thirteen years ago) link
xpost true, I do not have interactions like that, haha
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Sunday, 1 August 2010 23:22 (thirteen years ago) link
no-drama Erichama
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 2 August 2010 02:19 (thirteen years ago) link
I have never had an interaction even remotely like that; not sure whether to be envious
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Monday, 2 August 2010 05:52 (thirteen years ago) link
It sounds hot in theory but I don't think I'm the type to make that work.
― from now on small breasts will never be the cause of your embarrassment (corey), Monday, 2 August 2010 05:55 (thirteen years ago) link
ugh how to avoid jealousy. the punk boy that everyone was extolling the virtues of upthread has been hooking up with our friend d4vid a little bit these past days, and all i want to do is punch both of them in the face. or make out with both of them. or...ugh. i mean, i'm friends with both of them, so it's cool, but i am still wildly jealous. mostly of d4vid.
i watched Bruce Labruce's last zombie horror film thing just now (streaming on Netflix, people!) and was into it, but was expecting much more explicit gay sex. was kind of disappointed with the lack of that, though i have always wanted to see a dick plunge into somebody's stomach. uh, too much? i'm such a fucking weirdo, you guys know that already.
also wowo, roommate sex again just now, INSANE.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Monday, 2 August 2010 07:40 (thirteen years ago) link
i have a new crush
― janice (surm), Monday, 2 August 2010 13:48 (thirteen years ago) link
i've already perused his facebook account for shirtless photos
― janice (surm), Monday, 2 August 2010 13:49 (thirteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hj5S1RCUDvM
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 2 August 2010 13:50 (thirteen years ago) link
Describe him!
I got a booty call from my ex early last night. I feel rather gross about it, and relieved.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 2 August 2010 13:51 (thirteen years ago) link
ugh thank u this is exactly what i needed to hear
― janice (surm), Monday, 2 August 2010 13:51 (thirteen years ago) link
sometimes my emotions are very simple
― janice (surm), Monday, 2 August 2010 13:52 (thirteen years ago) link
also t3ddy bear i think it's called a good thing when couples ask u to have sex with them :D
― janice (surm), Monday, 2 August 2010 13:55 (thirteen years ago) link
lol @ being all "at least you don't have PEOPLE WHO WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU in your life"
― janice (surm), Monday, 2 August 2010 14:04 (thirteen years ago) link
Well, at present, only my father and all women are on the PEOPLE I WOULDN'T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH list.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 2 August 2010 14:05 (thirteen years ago) link
oh, i think you confused directions. i'm the one saying that to other guys.
i mean, most of the time, if they're hitting on me, it's me alone. boyfriend is more of a homebody...
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Monday, 2 August 2010 16:00 (thirteen years ago) link
oh hahahahaaaaa
― janice (surm), Monday, 2 August 2010 16:02 (thirteen years ago) link
the Atlanta Eagle has KARAOKE! What kind of Eagle is that?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 2 August 2010 16:34 (thirteen years ago) link
The only one you'd like.
http://www.annarbor.com/2009/10/07/sam_the_eagle.jpg
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 2 August 2010 16:36 (thirteen years ago) link
this just in on my verizon wireless blackberry: my crush just confirmed me as a friend
― janice (surm), Monday, 2 August 2010 17:11 (thirteen years ago) link
not necessarily sfw
http://www.omgblog.com/2010/08/omg_how_cute_model_takes_a_sho.php#more
― janice (surm), Monday, 2 August 2010 19:21 (thirteen years ago) link
can I read this at work?
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 2 August 2010 19:23 (thirteen years ago) link
o wait here's the abridged post, more or less sfw
http://omgblog.com/
it's stupid, but cute
― janice (surm), Monday, 2 August 2010 19:29 (thirteen years ago) link
dr3w it seems ur fb buddies with a good friend of mine, mich@el sh3rriff
care to explain?
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 3 August 2010 21:37 (thirteen years ago) link
jeez with 1,712 Facebook buds it's hard to keep track, must rack brain
busy using a fancy urinal here in Frankfurt tho
http://www.flickr.com/photos/52713075@N06/4858578058/sizes/m/
― the tune is space, Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:13 (thirteen years ago) link
― the tune is space, Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:14 (thirteen years ago) link
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4119/4858578058_eaa09aa519.jpg
so hot right now
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:15 (thirteen years ago) link
I counted: at the moment I have a crush on six guys.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:16 (thirteen years ago) link
stopping by to say: if any of you gays want to get gay mawwied, lemme know, i am available for all your nuptial needs
― pies. (gbx), Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:21 (thirteen years ago) link
never
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:22 (thirteen years ago) link
ok, w/e
― pies. (gbx), Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:22 (thirteen years ago) link
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:23 (thirteen years ago) link
I would marry most of you -- just don't expect lifelong commitment.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:24 (thirteen years ago) link
are sham weddings ok?
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:25 (thirteen years ago) link
not sure if i can do annulments---lemme check the manual
xp dude i said ALL of your nuptial needs, didn't i
― pies. (gbx), Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:26 (thirteen years ago) link
juuuuuust checking! brb, gotta call some friends
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:31 (thirteen years ago) link
by the way, I was "twice boiled cabbage is death" but I am now "the tune is space"
― the tune is space, Tuesday, 3 August 2010 23:59 (thirteen years ago) link
― pies. (gbx), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 00:04 (thirteen years ago) link
You were the walrus, now you're space.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 00:05 (thirteen years ago) link
dr3w i can't handle that picture right now
i mean
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 00:35 (thirteen years ago) link
stopping by to say: if any of you gays want to get gay mawwied, lemme know, i am available for all your nuptial needs― pies. (gbx), Tuesday, August 3, 2010 7:21 PM (4 hours ago) Bookmark
― pies. (gbx), Tuesday, August 3, 2010 7:21 PM (4 hours ago) Bookmark
SHOW ME WHERE TO SIGN
― Pissed off our Weingarten (Stevie D), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 03:24 (thirteen years ago) link
cute artist guy from colorado springs is str8 :(
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 05:21 (thirteen years ago) link
I made eyes with a v good-looking guy who lives in the artist lofts above my office today
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 05:24 (thirteen years ago) link
I attempted to flirt with and gave my number to the v nice guy at the new vegan restaurant in Philly (tipped him with a flower I'd folded out of a dollar bill!) but I am pretty sure he is str8 :(
― Pissed off our Weingarten (Stevie D), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 05:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Atlanta Eagle: Billy Joel and Streisand for karaoke, UFC fights on the TV.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 05:51 (thirteen years ago) link
DOWN GOES PROP 8
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 22:22 (thirteen years ago) link
^^^^late to the party
― pies. (gbx), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 22:24 (thirteen years ago) link
later haters
― the tune is space, Wednesday, 4 August 2010 22:54 (thirteen years ago) link
The delicious irony of one of this thread's only Californians being one of its only gay marriage opponents.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 23:00 (thirteen years ago) link
Man, my mom is totally going to crank up the old "why don't you two get married" now thang again. But still- awesome news my fellow homos!
― the tune is space, Wednesday, 4 August 2010 23:56 (thirteen years ago) link
u kno i am available for marriages
(totally callin yr mom)
― pies. (gbx), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 23:57 (thirteen years ago) link
who wants to marry me? I have a nice beard and am listening to Marvin Gaye's Here, My Dear.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 4 August 2010 23:59 (thirteen years ago) link
who wants to marry me? I have a nice beard
isn't that the point of having one?
(ba-dum)
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Thursday, 5 August 2010 00:02 (thirteen years ago) link
I left that one gift wrapped for ya.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 5 August 2010 00:05 (thirteen years ago) link
Great news to hear, regardless of how you feel personally about getting married.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Thursday, 5 August 2010 00:09 (thirteen years ago) link
picked this up at a used bookstore but haven't gotten too far into it --
http://www.gaychristian101.com/images/SameSexUnions.jpg
it's mainly focused on liturgical rites but has already had some interesting comments on pre-modern marriage in general. anyone read this? would be interesting to hear an informed opinion on the book's scholarship (drew? casuistry, if u there?)
v happy about the overturning of prop 8 btw
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 5 August 2010 00:46 (thirteen years ago) link
"Ah to be 22, washed up and fuckin' through. You're a pair of K-mart shoes: plastic and phony and with the belief that happiness in life is matrimony. Padlocked to wedlock cuz time's a wastin' to hurry up and waste your life in marriage. Entrapment = death, caught in a web, sentenced to a harsh life of eating meals together and sharing the same bed, ick! How about you just invite me to the divorce instead. Skip the serenade and the bullshit promises your mom and dad would've made. Honeymoon narcosis brains in a love-bong like anyone really waits that long cuz the way I see it you were already fucked way before you ever got fitted for the stupid tux. You are fucking losers, and I hope your kids are ugly."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6f2YftDvT34
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Thursday, 5 August 2010 01:14 (thirteen years ago) link
there is a sweet irony that the only Californian on this thread is against ALL marriage.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Thursday, 5 August 2010 01:22 (thirteen years ago) link
rolling my damn eyes @ u
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 5 August 2010 01:26 (thirteen years ago) link
for reals
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Thursday, 5 August 2010 01:27 (thirteen years ago) link
sweet irony is one way to say it...
― righteous lecoq (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 5 August 2010 01:29 (thirteen years ago) link
horrible opinion borne out of selfish petulance is another
― righteous lecoq (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 5 August 2010 01:30 (thirteen years ago) link
hey, kids, look - transgression can be boring too!
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 5 August 2010 01:32 (thirteen years ago) link
The time to insult guys rushing to get married -- as I do now with straight couples I know -- is after you've got the legal right to get married in the first place.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 5 August 2010 01:34 (thirteen years ago) link
roll your damn eyes all you want, i know i'm the only one on this thread (and possibly this entire board) that feels the way i do.
i don't feel like arguing it any longer.
but mostly because i love you guyz.
if it makes you happy, i'm happy for you.
xoxot
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:00 (thirteen years ago) link
if it makes you happy, i'm happy for you, unless you actually want to go through with it, in which case, no
― righteous lecoq (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:02 (thirteen years ago) link
dude, i actually have no problem with anyone getting married. in fact, that Chuck B. song above is WAY SILLY and i know it.
so quit calling me names. thanks.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:05 (thirteen years ago) link
So silly that you included a sizable excerpt AND the YouTube, especially after you've made your views clear on the subject on several threads.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:07 (thirteen years ago) link
You're not but you're the only one who's smug about it.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:08 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm thirty-five and if you wanna compare notches on our bedposts I can play that game, but excerpting a third-rate song to adduce how purportedly trangressive your experiences are is some trolling bullshit.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:11 (thirteen years ago) link
oh, and kisses, tabes. No hard feelings.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:13 (thirteen years ago) link
1. Charles Bronson were fucking awesome. Sorry the lyrics are way silly, but they were an awesome band. Especially live.
2. I don't want to compare anything with anyone. I don't really understand where you got that from, to be honest.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:17 (thirteen years ago) link
i mean, my sexual experiences have nothing to do with the way i feel about marriage. i only care whether you are happy with whatever sex you are getting.
like seriously, sorry if i pissed anyone off. it was a troll move.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:20 (thirteen years ago) link
It was a troll move for me to even bring it up in the first place. But it was definitely an irony to note.
No matter; five years from now, all of us in the States will find it our legal option to be duly gentrified.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:22 (thirteen years ago) link
S'all good, tabes. For you (us):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W9WdBbotlyM
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:24 (thirteen years ago) link
xpost And I think it's pretty damned transgressive, if you want to look at it that way, to snatch away one of the (supposedly) most sacred bastions of normalcy away from the normals. But that's just me.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:25 (thirteen years ago) link
Gay marriage passes and all the fags start bickering about nonsense. Welcome to ILX.
― En Moog (Stevie D), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:25 (thirteen years ago) link
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:38 (thirteen years ago) link
Like...I am invested in the legality of gay marriage in America insofar as DOMA etc. is discriminatory and stupid, and people should have the right to get married if they so choose, but to some extent this seems so foreign to me.
I live in a country where gay marriage has been legal since 2003, and a province where, gay or straight, a sizeable percentage (if not a majority) of people don't bother getting married at all. Quebec is all about common law partnerships, basically. Kind of rocks my world (and pisses me off) that people are still so scandalized by the idea of a couple of dudes or chicks marrying each other. Hopelessly antiquated, and fucking depressing that y'all are still dealing with this, when there are so many more important and less morally obvious issues to work on.
― Y /\/\ /\/\ \/ (Alex in Montreal), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:43 (thirteen years ago) link
Which is to say, yay for the defeat of Prop 8, let's hope it sticks so fagz can get married, and we can all start bickering over things either more important or more trivial.
― Y /\/\ /\/\ \/ (Alex in Montreal), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:44 (thirteen years ago) link
The latter.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:53 (thirteen years ago) link
distraction time!
ahem check out some of my more recent poems:http://hatersandperpetrators.tumblr.com/
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Thursday, 5 August 2010 03:54 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, more trivial. for instance, we haven't had a good madonna fight in awhile...
*ducks out of the room*
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Thursday, 5 August 2010 04:22 (thirteen years ago) link
I love this thread. :D
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Thursday, 5 August 2010 04:31 (thirteen years ago) link
http://lyricsmusic.name/img/posters/49b3023b826a3.jpg
If you don't like this album, I actually don't like you.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Thursday, 5 August 2010 04:45 (thirteen years ago) link
nice apt dude
― pies. (gbx), Thursday, 5 August 2010 05:01 (thirteen years ago) link
the perspective of that wall is fuckin' with my brain
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Thursday, 5 August 2010 05:10 (thirteen years ago) link
I have been listening to "Future Lovers" (from Confessions) sort of nonstop since that dude and I danced to it in his living room last week. Erotica is probably my favorite album, tied with Ray of Light. I mean, it's the one where she does "house"! Also, "Rain".
― En Moog (Stevie D), Thursday, 5 August 2010 05:22 (thirteen years ago) link
does "more trivial" mean more obsessive 40-post streaks about all this awful music you guys like?
hey tonight, I went to MARY'S in Atlanta, voted #1 gay bar in USA by the ever-lovin' LOGO Channel. ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
I'm gonna give em the ben of the D and say it was a slow night. (and the DJ did play Pulp's "Babies")
in solidarity w/ tabes:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qthNLwFHiB4&feature=related
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 5 August 2010 05:44 (thirteen years ago) link
MARY'S is not a very inspired gay bar name imo
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Thursday, 5 August 2010 05:57 (thirteen years ago) link
there is a gay cuntry bar called The 3 Legged Cowboy
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 5 August 2010 06:01 (thirteen years ago) link
There is a gay "dive bar" called The Cock.
― En Moog (Stevie D), Thursday, 5 August 2010 06:10 (thirteen years ago) link
do i go to beach w/ wedding dude and his friends tomorrow y/n
(am feeling slightly under the weather)
― the numbing/spicy queen of the conservative band (donna rouge), Thursday, 5 August 2010 06:12 (thirteen years ago) link
I recuse myself as I hate the beach
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 5 August 2010 06:16 (thirteen years ago) link
Mary's in Portland is a titty bar,
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Thursday, 5 August 2010 11:31 (thirteen years ago) link
that ban marriage vid = hai I'm breaking ur toys
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Thursday, 5 August 2010 13:03 (thirteen years ago) link
OK, this is probably stupid of me to bring up BUT snark/smugness/quips aside:
Tabes, it is quite clear how you feel abt marriage (gay/straight alike) and apparent that you have little interest in getting one, but do you feel that the option should be at least afforded to those who are really into it?
― En Moog (Stevie D), Thursday, 5 August 2010 13:12 (thirteen years ago) link
i didn't really respond in full last night because honestly i was pissed off and needed some time to process my reaction. but anyway:
same-sex marriage may be equivalent for legal purposes to heterosexual marriage but they are NOT symmetrical, culturally speaking, and i don't think they can or should be! and i think that bemoaning gay marriage as 'gentrification' just obscures the fact that marriages, gay AND straight, can be as queer and unconventional as the partners involved; there are many different purposes of marriage and each union expresses those purposes in their own unique proportion. equal legal recognition just ensures that gays can enjoy *all* of those purposes fully.
i really feel i have a personal stake in this issue, so i definitely personalized ted's posts as an attack (especially since they immediately followed my post on the subject), even if it wasn't intended as such.
so. just had to say something. return to trivial pursuits if you like. :\
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 5 August 2010 15:23 (thirteen years ago) link
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Thursday, August 5, 2010 4:17 AM (12 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
you def seem like you like to compare notes re: sexual experiences, i think that's pretty evident.
― janice (surm), Thursday, 5 August 2010 15:35 (thirteen years ago) link
i think that's all alfred was talking about with that statement.
i'll marry you gbx, send me a webmail and we can arrange it. thnx.
― jed_, Thursday, 5 August 2010 15:46 (thirteen years ago) link
also in the UK we have gay marriage of a sort, and have done for five years or so, except it's called "civil partnership" and you can't legally call yourself "married". this is set to change pretty soon, i think. i hope. i'm all for marriage!
― jed_, Thursday, 5 August 2010 15:48 (thirteen years ago) link
but the key thing, of course, is that it doesn't matter whether you, as a homo, are for it or against it. the right of equality overrides your personal take on it.
in other words, what elmo said.
― jed_, Thursday, 5 August 2010 15:51 (thirteen years ago) link
some xposts:
surm, i do compare notes, but i wasn't comparing notes above in the instance where Alfred was accusing me of doing so. that's why i was confused— go up and read it if you care that much.
elmo, i agree with you in many ways. i just don't think that the State should really have any control over how people form relationships and what privileges they get when they form them. this is an admittedly naive belief, yes, but my question is: if your unmarried partner of 20 years wants to visit you in the hospital, should that person be allowed to do so? FUCK YES, and that permission shouldn't come from the State.
but mostly what this is about, for me, is an enshrining of marriage as the only way to express legitimate 'love' — note that many news outlets have been using language such as LOVE OVERTURNS H8. i find this construct to be completely false, incredibly insulting to many loving couples who have chosen NOT to get married, as well as continuing a system of privilege that has oppressed gays, lesbians, and women for years. indeed, it also enshrines a monogamy which, while admittedly pretty fucking awesome in many ways, has also been shown to be a relatively recent and somewhat unnatural state of being.
that said, i understand your points, elmo, and wish you all the best. you're a great guy, and whoever you end up marrying (i'm assuming it's the bf) is truly lucky.
stevie, i don't have a problem with other gayz getting married. just don't put down other ways of building/sustaining relationships, which seems to be the sort of outcome we're headed towards. i mean, in two years, are people going to start asking m4tt and i if we're gonna get hitched? i certainly fucking hope not. that would be wildly annoying and insulting, imho.
okay.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Thursday, 5 August 2010 16:56 (thirteen years ago) link
forgot to add that, despite my opinion on the issue, the 'other' side's blatant homophobia and horribl obfuscation is/was truly sickening. fuck them.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Thursday, 5 August 2010 17:01 (thirteen years ago) link
otm?
― plax (ico), Thursday, 5 August 2010 17:11 (thirteen years ago) link
Thank you for the clarification, and your take makes more sense when it's rationalized and spelled out like that. Not the case when you come in bellowing "fuck gay marriage." Yes, there is a time in ones life to hope for that which does not exist, but there's also a time to acknowledge an attainable reality.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Thursday, 5 August 2010 17:17 (thirteen years ago) link
i.e. YES to all your points that The State should have no claim on how and who I love ... though an acknowledgment that those gov't constructs are capable of shaping people's opinions on, say, homosexuality and, ergo, are worth reorganizing in the form of legalized gay marriage would be nice
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Thursday, 5 August 2010 17:22 (thirteen years ago) link
legal marriage has about as much to do with "love" as electing a president has to do with "hope": window dressing.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 5 August 2010 21:25 (thirteen years ago) link
hey guys what's going on
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Thursday, 5 August 2010 21:31 (thirteen years ago) link
misanthrope, get on board!
― plax (ico), Thursday, 5 August 2010 21:32 (thirteen years ago) link
no i just got some stuff from ikea, feelin pretty good tbh
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Thursday, 5 August 2010 21:33 (thirteen years ago) link
Window dressing to what? You don't even believe in love. If anything, love is the window dressing to marriage.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Thursday, 5 August 2010 21:53 (thirteen years ago) link
Gays now say marriage is about love the way the fundies say it's about religion. Those are the things individuals bring to it; the state does it for bookkeeping and taxes.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 5 August 2010 21:58 (thirteen years ago) link
MATT P THE FUCK HAVE YOU BEEN??
i'll marry you gbx, send me a webmail and we can arrange it. thnx.― jed_, Thursday, August 5, 2010 11:46 AM (6 hours ago) Bookmark
― jed_, Thursday, August 5, 2010 11:46 AM (6 hours ago) Bookmark
back tfo, I claimed him dozens of posts before you did.
― En Moog (Stevie D), Thursday, 5 August 2010 22:21 (thirteen years ago) link
Heylo peeps.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Friday, 6 August 2010 02:00 (thirteen years ago) link
You don't even believe in love.
Now, don't be mean! I believe in love's 57 mysterious varieties, not the one-size-fits-all of the marketplace and songwriters.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 6 August 2010 11:54 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm not being mean. You're the one who cited Woody "love fades" Allen upthread.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 6 August 2010 12:01 (thirteen years ago) link
If it fades, it exists!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 6 August 2010 12:09 (thirteen years ago) link
Cold comfort. No wait, that's no comfort at all.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 6 August 2010 12:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Hey, happy birthday to Stevie D!
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 6 August 2010 15:06 (thirteen years ago) link
Yay, wish I could party with you Stevie!
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Friday, 6 August 2010 15:15 (thirteen years ago) link
oh me too. HBSD!!!! xxxx
― jed_, Friday, 6 August 2010 16:12 (thirteen years ago) link
happy bidet stevie!
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Friday, 6 August 2010 16:20 (thirteen years ago) link
one more year of being awesome btw!
― plax (ico), Friday, 6 August 2010 17:41 (thirteen years ago) link
happies to stevie!!! xoxothetableisthetable
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Friday, 6 August 2010 17:54 (thirteen years ago) link
woooooo, happy birthday!
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Friday, 6 August 2010 18:23 (thirteen years ago) link
chatting a dude on grindr in yr honor today, Stevie!!
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Friday, 6 August 2010 18:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Thank you all!!! This is going to be like the best 3 days I've had in a while. I also made the following house mixtape and I will upload it either today or on Monday.
http://a.imageshack.us/img530/2407/mixtape.png
― En Moog (Stevie D), Friday, 6 August 2010 18:36 (thirteen years ago) link
happy birthday! xoxo
― christopher dullan (Tape Store), Friday, 6 August 2010 18:42 (thirteen years ago) link
happy birthday monsieur
― the tune is space, Friday, 6 August 2010 20:10 (thirteen years ago) link
okay, not to dampen a parade, but i think Mattilda has some points here re: gay marriage.
http://www.npr.org/templates/player/mediaPlayer.html?action=1&t=1&islist=false&id=129002759&m=129002755
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Saturday, 7 August 2010 00:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Everyone out partying tonight? :|
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Saturday, 7 August 2010 03:44 (thirteen years ago) link
not me. i ate pizza and watched showgirls.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Saturday, 7 August 2010 03:52 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm listening to choons and being generally bored, as usual. I need to stop being online so much, I think.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Saturday, 7 August 2010 04:02 (thirteen years ago) link
i saw 'the kids are alright' tonight and wished i knew some lesbians who lived in my town. now i am listening to baby dee and am about to fix myself a drink.
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Saturday, 7 August 2010 04:19 (thirteen years ago) link
I watched an 11-inning baseball game after a 90-minute rain delay amid drunk young Georgians.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 7 August 2010 05:39 (thirteen years ago) link
watched "Washington Square", attempted to recover from our ten hour trip to Poland at the OFF festival
― the tune is space, Saturday, 7 August 2010 07:20 (thirteen years ago) link
Watched some bands at a loft party, got an awesome drunk haircut from my friend Ke4ton and then went with a bunch of fags to a radical queer dance party, where I (naturally) managed to find, dance with and spend the night hitting on the ONE flirtatiously coy straight guy in the entire place.
Hot anarchist who apparently is straight but sleep with the occasional guy if they are sufficiently politically radical. I do not qualify. Heh.
But Er1c (the boy I met at the Beach House/R0byn/Arcade Fire concert) is back in town from NYC and we will hopefully hang out sometime this weekend.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Saturday, 7 August 2010 08:51 (thirteen years ago) link
Was going to go out but fell asleep soon as I got home from work.
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Saturday, 7 August 2010 11:35 (thirteen years ago) link
Happy bday Stevie! May dick be in your near future.
― ballerrr (The Reverend), Saturday, 7 August 2010 11:37 (thirteen years ago) link
May dick be in your rear future
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 7 August 2010 18:43 (thirteen years ago) link
lol jord
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Saturday, 7 August 2010 19:10 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm so fucking tired of being broke. I just want to stay in my room and never leave.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Saturday, 7 August 2010 20:58 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm in the same boat. But also staying in my room/indoors is driving me batty.
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Saturday, 7 August 2010 21:01 (thirteen years ago) link
A friend asked if I wanted to do karaoke and I was supposed to meet up with this one guy tonight, but at the moment the thought of doing either makes me ill. Even if there's no cover at the karaoke bar I KNOW they'll want to do something else and I won't be able to because I have no money — and thinking about this has just lead to a train of negative thoughts: I'm already 23 and I haven't even gone to college and I expect to study music and be a composer? Who the fuck am I kidding? I just feel like slamming my head against a wall.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Saturday, 7 August 2010 21:17 (thirteen years ago) link
23? don't sweat it, there's plenty of time. plus, your head will be in a better place when it does happen.
― jed_, Sunday, 8 August 2010 00:07 (thirteen years ago) link
ha ha ha the company i keep. sort of.
http://www.queerty.com/gay-tea-partiers-want-to-abolish-the-whole-marriage-thing-20100806/
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 8 August 2010 01:36 (thirteen years ago) link
Tried hard to flirt w/ baseball-fanatic worker at Atlanta queer bookstore today. Told him what bar I was going to Sunday night. SUBTLE?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 8 August 2010 05:10 (thirteen years ago) link
Hoooo man I just had the most wonderful date! Gorgeous biker-type boy, slightly scruffy. Afterwards he sat and listened to Stravinsky with me. <3
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 05:13 (thirteen years ago) link
I guess I feel a little better for the moment. :)
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 05:17 (thirteen years ago) link
tonight i chatted with a dude on grindr, who then proceeded to drive here from about half an hour away to pick me up so we could do *whatever*. he picked me up in front of my town's movie theater (where i ran into my little brother and his friends, looool). i got into his car, and he asked me what i wanted to do. i told him i was actually uncomfortable about the whole situation and that i didn't want to do anything. i got out of the car. he drove home (presumably). i walked to the nearby wine shop before it closed to buy myself a bottle. i've drunk about half of it.
~THE END~
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Sunday, 8 August 2010 05:54 (thirteen years ago) link
:( yeah, I get turned off whenever they have to ask beforehand what you want "to do".
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 05:59 (thirteen years ago) link
With this guy we were both really jokey and comfortable with each other. It shouldn't feel like some illicit thing.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 06:02 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, i think i'm not cut out for this quasi-anonymous internet-enabled hookup thing. i need at least the pretense of hanging out
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Sunday, 8 August 2010 06:03 (thirteen years ago) link
worrrrrrd
― "mc hammer" (f/ mc hammer) (The Reverend), Sunday, 8 August 2010 06:12 (thirteen years ago) link
usually i ask the "want to do" question, and the other dude goes "eh... whatever" and then whatever happens happens
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 8 August 2010 06:49 (thirteen years ago) link
i mean i think it's a reasonable question to ask in the context of a situation like that -- never wanna overstep boundaries & i don't think it really "ruins the mood" or anything
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 8 August 2010 06:50 (thirteen years ago) link
donna, if I may ask, how old are you?
― the tune is space, Sunday, 8 August 2010 07:51 (thirteen years ago) link
you may! i turn 26 next month
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Sunday, 8 August 2010 15:46 (thirteen years ago) link
Last night I wrote a song called "pay for it" with some frienz. The concept is very simple: if u want it, u gotta pay for it. Nothin's for freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee (falsetto)
― janice (surm), Sunday, 8 August 2010 15:48 (thirteen years ago) link
Jord I dunno, it depends on the situation. If someone asked me that just after picking me up in their car I would be weirded out.
R4amz recordings or it didn't happen. :D
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 16:03 (thirteen years ago) link
haha, "R4amz"
recordings or it didn't happen. :D
yes please. EP EP EP?
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, 8 August 2010 16:05 (thirteen years ago) link
i think my major problem is just the idea that sex is all that's going to pass between us. this sounds like some kinda hippie ish but i like when sex arises organically out of my talking/connecting with someone. like i'm vibing with a guy and it leads to other stuff. situations like what happened last night by contrast seem so...forced. i'm just not into sex with strangers as a way to relieve our mutual boredom. (not that i've not done it before and won't ever again.)
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Sunday, 8 August 2010 17:31 (thirteen years ago) link
that's completely understandable, i wouldn't feel weird about it or think it's some sort of ridiculous hang-up.
hey, i read with k3vin k1llian last night! lots of my friends came! lots of poets came! it was awesome!!
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 8 August 2010 17:35 (thirteen years ago) link
you could have answered "pick up a couple beers" i guess
― plax (ico), Sunday, 8 August 2010 17:37 (thirteen years ago) link
should also note that the dude lived about a half hour's drive away - so i) i wasn't especially looking forward to the long ride and ii) i felt pretty bad that i made the guy come so far to get me only to change my mind (for which i apologized to him)
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Sunday, 8 August 2010 18:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Was he ugly
― janice (surm), Sunday, 8 August 2010 18:18 (thirteen years ago) link
:|
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 18:29 (thirteen years ago) link
That typically affects how "uncomfortable" I feel w strange hookups
― janice (surm), Sunday, 8 August 2010 18:44 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah pretty much. Some people are incredibly adept at looking completely different IRL than they do in photos.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 18:58 (thirteen years ago) link
Yup
― janice (surm), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:36 (thirteen years ago) link
Boy, what an ugly day -- I spent two hours reading uninterrupted.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:37 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah sometimes i could just
― plax (ico), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:38 (thirteen years ago) link
why is that ugly, alfred? that sounds like heaven to me.
in other news, i have been listening to the Carpenters.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:42 (thirteen years ago) link
I've never had anyone, what's the word, misrepresent themselves. When I started doing this via AOL in the late nineties it was a constant fear but it never arose. Part of my success was insisting on meeting in a bar first so I always had the option of ignoring him. Luckily it never rose to an impeachable offense -- the crime that is; can't speak for my dick.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:43 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh, sorry -- I meant the weather. Rainy Sunday. J0rdan will confirm.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:44 (thirteen years ago) link
Turning over a new leaf needn't mean changing your listening habits.
ehh if its an excuse to listen to the carpenters then
― plax (ico), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:45 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah it's gross out here
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:46 (thirteen years ago) link
No excuse needed to listen to the Carpenters imo.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:47 (thirteen years ago) link
Alfred, just to say: i listen to punk, bach, indian ragas, techno, whatever.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:55 (thirteen years ago) link
my ears are always open.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:56 (thirteen years ago) link
forgive me they are delicious, so multifaceted and eclectic
― plax (ico), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:56 (thirteen years ago) link
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― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:57 (thirteen years ago) link
I wasn't asking for a defense of your music, tabes: I listened to Johnny Hates Jazz and Merle Haggard this afternoon. Can you explain what you dig about the Carpenters? I've hovered this close to buying a good comp. Oh -- while you're at it can you recommend a comp?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 8 August 2010 20:58 (thirteen years ago) link
you can complain. but seeing as how i haven't seen rain since....two months ago, my sympathy isn't really with ya.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 8 August 2010 21:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Gold is pretty awesome, imho.
i dunno, it's been a while since i thought of them, and then i read this book review in the NYT of a Karen biography, so i just pulled out my vinyl
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 8 August 2010 21:04 (thirteen years ago) link
Plax why won't you add me on Facebook?
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 21:07 (thirteen years ago) link
Just thought I'd say that aloud. :\
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 21:13 (thirteen years ago) link
plax don't make corey feel left out
― janice (surm), Sunday, 8 August 2010 21:16 (thirteen years ago) link
Sorry, I don't want to make anyone look like a jerk, I was just wondering. I guess I shouldn't think so much about something so insignificant.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 21:26 (thirteen years ago) link
thinking so much about things so insignificant is like my no. 1 pastime, welcome to the party!
― janice (surm), Sunday, 8 August 2010 21:28 (thirteen years ago) link
corey, if it makes you feel any better, i once friended this boy in college, then he unfriended me, then a week ago he friended me again. he is really interesting now, think he's matured a lot (he is like six years younger than me and i had no place hitting on him in the first place tbh).
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 8 August 2010 21:43 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah. I mean, I've done my fair share of cutting off people whose only tie to me is via online and then contacted them again for arbitrary reasons. I just thought it was weird unless T just doesn't check his friend requests or something.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 21:49 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah. i mean, this kid just got freaked out by me, but i think he is no longer freaked out because he got into performance art and shit and understands a bit more of where i was coming from.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 8 August 2010 21:50 (thirteen years ago) link
I actually just recently got in touch with someone I'd more or less "deleted" from my life because they were exceedingly negative and it turns out he's just about to start private composition study with a pretty prominent american composer, so people do grow up!
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 22:08 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah.. actually, maybe his art has grown up and he's done a little bit more of it too, but man his blog is just....like....he's a very conflicted individual. deeply conflicted, i should say.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 8 August 2010 22:22 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm confused by people who aren't deeply conflicted tbh
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 22:30 (thirteen years ago) link
deep
― janice (surm), Sunday, 8 August 2010 22:33 (thirteen years ago) link
ya u no me
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 22:39 (thirteen years ago) link
i get that, corey, but i mean, this kid is a performance artist type, a composer, and a total gym rat. yet he is also intensely shy and can't find anything but anonymous sex but he wants a real relationship, at least thats what i glean from his blog. i mean the contradictions are endless, i have many myself, but not as many as him... also just for edification:
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs324.snc3/28831_1359560433587_1368810144_31013979_297697_n.jpg
rawr.
― pounding beats of worship (the table is the table), Sunday, 8 August 2010 22:41 (thirteen years ago) link
yea i don't think ti@rnan's really that conflicted, enough to not respond to ur friend req
he's probably just, u no, busy
― janice (surm), Sunday, 8 August 2010 22:46 (thirteen years ago) link
T that description sounds like me in a lot of ways, really.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 22:48 (thirteen years ago) link
Don't define failing to accept a Facebook invitation as as be-all-end-all, corey. I'd love you even if we were using Netscape.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 8 August 2010 22:54 (thirteen years ago) link
omg netscape
― janice (surm), Sunday, 8 August 2010 22:54 (thirteen years ago) link
:>
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 22:55 (thirteen years ago) link
Sunday chatroom eh?
I am off for fried chicken & gay sports bar on last night in ATL.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 8 August 2010 23:20 (thirteen years ago) link
oohh nice! aidan is having some fried chicken on sex and the city right now
have fuuuuuun
― janice (surm), Sunday, 8 August 2010 23:24 (thirteen years ago) link
the sports bar is called WOOFS
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 8 August 2010 23:27 (thirteen years ago) link
as long as it's not called POOFS.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 8 August 2010 23:29 (thirteen years ago) link
There's a bar here called the CUBBY BEAR. Not a gay bar afaik.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 23:29 (thirteen years ago) link
also I find it enjoyable to type proper nouns in all caps for some reason.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 23:31 (thirteen years ago) link
as long as you refrain from doing it in an essay you'd turn in to me...
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 8 August 2010 23:32 (thirteen years ago) link
;
;_;
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Sunday, 8 August 2010 23:45 (thirteen years ago) link
thinking so much about things so insignificant is like my no. 1 pastime, welcome to the party!― janice (surm), Sunday, August 8, 2010 5:28 PM (6 hours ago) Bookmark
― janice (surm), Sunday, August 8, 2010 5:28 PM (6 hours ago) Bookmark
Let me be the 2nd to welcome you to the club.
― En Moog (Stevie D), Monday, 9 August 2010 03:41 (thirteen years ago) link
also I left my house on Friday and I haven't gone back yet and I won't until tuesday morning!
― En Moog (Stevie D), Monday, 9 August 2010 03:42 (thirteen years ago) link
Hi, guys.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 9 August 2010 03:42 (thirteen years ago) link
hi! I just got in from the boring bear sports bar and took off my shirt.
I will come to Miami when they build that new Marlins park.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 9 August 2010 03:55 (thirteen years ago) link
we will welcome you
― J0rdan S., Monday, 9 August 2010 04:12 (thirteen years ago) link
alfred saw me eat a hot dog tonight
― J0rdan S., Monday, 9 August 2010 04:13 (thirteen years ago) link
J0rdy, why don't you join SABR after you graduate? we could hit the bars in a different major-league city every year.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 9 August 2010 04:17 (thirteen years ago) link
ha, i'll look into it
― J0rdan S., Monday, 9 August 2010 04:18 (thirteen years ago) link
had a friend over to watch mad men. now i'm sippin' sambuca.
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Monday, 9 August 2010 04:19 (thirteen years ago) link
btw last night I went to a minor league game in Greenville SC and there was a deadly "baseball clown." Along with a rubber nose and balloons on his helmet he had a red bandanna sticking out of his right rear pocket. :o
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 9 August 2010 04:20 (thirteen years ago) link
i hope you gave him the fisting of a lifetime
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Monday, 9 August 2010 04:21 (thirteen years ago) link
i couldnt get him alone.
actually he was repulsive, and i'm sure his sphincter was no different. The Rome Braves had immaculate butt-snugging uniform pants, however.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 9 August 2010 04:36 (thirteen years ago) link
actually he was repulsive, and i'm sure his sphincter was no different.
this is my favorite thing ever
― J0rdan S., Monday, 9 August 2010 04:44 (thirteen years ago) link
what's worse: a repulsive person or a repulsive sphincter
someone's gotta have that as a DN
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Monday, 9 August 2010 04:44 (thirteen years ago) link
i roffled and i ATE THE WHOLE THING
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Monday, 9 August 2010 08:00 (thirteen years ago) link
A very sad piece of meat.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 9 August 2010 12:29 (thirteen years ago) link
Hung out with E for four-ish hours last night. Lots of makeouts + vegetarian chili. I am content.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 9 August 2010 13:30 (thirteen years ago) link
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Monday, 9 August 2010 14:26 (thirteen years ago) link
what is this movie with shelley winters "bloody mama"
― janice (surm), Monday, 9 August 2010 14:31 (thirteen years ago) link
who's this E?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 9 August 2010 14:34 (thirteen years ago) link
Er1c is a boy that I met at a music festival last Saturday (specifically at Robyn's set but whatever). He's nice - maybe a little too nice - and his music tastes are too PopJusticey for life, but he's good people, and he's cute, so we'll see what happens.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 9 August 2010 18:09 (thirteen years ago) link
I dunno. I occasionally meet these charming and cute 19 year olds who are very very 19 re: perspective, headspace viz life, and to make an issue of that would be condescending, but at the same time it's something that is there in the back of my head.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 9 August 2010 18:12 (thirteen years ago) link
lol @ "too popjusticey for life"
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Monday, 9 August 2010 18:14 (thirteen years ago) link
and i think yr qualms about being in a different "headspace" are warranted - if you're each looking for different things it's hard to sustain a relationship that way
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Monday, 9 August 2010 18:17 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, but like I said, we'll see. We've hung out twice and made out once (and we're very good at the latter) so I don't think this is necessarily the moment to start freaking out. It's summer, y'know?
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 9 August 2010 18:19 (thirteen years ago) link
Summer tonguings are awesome.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 9 August 2010 18:20 (thirteen years ago) link
summer tonguin', havin' a blaaaastsummer tonguin', happens so faaaast
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Monday, 9 August 2010 18:26 (thirteen years ago) link
totally having the same thoughts about the 19-yo girl I'm seeing now
― "mc hammer" (f/ mc hammer) (The Reverend), Monday, 9 August 2010 19:55 (thirteen years ago) link
If you can't beat'em marry'em.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 9 August 2010 19:57 (thirteen years ago) link
hey table - is that v cute guy Sean on your team or mine?
― sarahel, Monday, 9 August 2010 19:57 (thirteen years ago) link
― "mc hammer" (f/ mc hammer) (The Reverend), Monday, August 9, 2010 3:55 PM (3 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
It's tricky, because you can't presume to know where they stand on things or what they're looking for out of yr interactions but at the same time there are SIGNS. part of me says 'you are not responsible for other people's uncommunicated expectations' and part of me says 'do no harm' and part of me thinks that assuming he's as young&naive as he seems is patronizing and gross.
\(o_0)/ Makeouts is the only real answer here.
(Rev, what happened w/ J, btw? Is he still a going concern?)
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 9 August 2010 20:05 (thirteen years ago) link
I keep forgetting Rev is bi.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 9 August 2010 20:05 (thirteen years ago) link
With J, I ran up against one of the unforseen pitfalls of internet dating, which is that even though we live in the same (relatively small) city, our lies never naturally intersect. We don't go to the same places, we have very different schedules, and it was just too much damn work for us to see each other. A couple weeks ago he bailed on a date at the last moment and I texted this girl I'd just met to see if she wanted to go instead. At that point I just kind of went screw J, it's too much effort to see him and most of that effort is coming out on my end.
I still reserve the right to use him as a booty call if neccesary.
― "mc hammer" (f/ mc hammer) (The Reverend), Monday, 9 August 2010 20:16 (thirteen years ago) link
our lives*
― "mc hammer" (f/ mc hammer) (The Reverend), Monday, 9 August 2010 20:17 (thirteen years ago) link
Se4n? this se4n? http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs248.snc4/39738_508825678492_139100633_30308567_4923673_n.jpg
if it's him, then he is very much on my team. you don't remember me lusting and pining and whatnot over him?
(he has a tremendously lovely penis, fyi)
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Monday, 9 August 2010 20:25 (thirteen years ago) link
yes that guy - pretty sure he was on your team, but i was just checking!!! he was at the base of b@ss show last night, as was the cute Whole Foods guy that i posted about a while back, wondering if you knew him.
― sarahel, Monday, 9 August 2010 20:27 (thirteen years ago) link
i wanted to go to that show to say bye to max for a while, but i got caught hanging with old friend in SF til midnite. how was it?
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Monday, 9 August 2010 20:29 (thirteen years ago) link
i left early - oh and for the folks on this thread, S3an is even hotter IRL than in the pic.
― sarahel, Monday, 9 August 2010 20:30 (thirteen years ago) link
he is disgusting hot.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Monday, 9 August 2010 20:30 (thirteen years ago) link
table u don't know a j0hn Lµrz do you?
― pies. (gbx), Monday, 9 August 2010 20:30 (thirteen years ago) link
felt like this should be reposted here:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VcGJZpfl1c
― sarahel, Monday, 9 August 2010 20:34 (thirteen years ago) link
Love Barney's shorts.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 9 August 2010 20:39 (thirteen years ago) link
gbx, i might. i know a few dudes by that name out here. any descriptors?
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Monday, 9 August 2010 20:54 (thirteen years ago) link
ginger, shaved head, studying lit @ berkeley, went to p-ton, opinionated to the point of boorishness at times
― pies. (gbx), Monday, 9 August 2010 21:29 (thirteen years ago) link
also a total manwhore, by his accounts
― pies. (gbx), Monday, 9 August 2010 21:30 (thirteen years ago) link
oh! i've met him once, he knows my friend iv4n.
speaking of gingers, there was one on the BART yesterday that was so swoonworthy, i nearly dropped my bike five times just because i was so focused on him.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Monday, 9 August 2010 21:33 (thirteen years ago) link
My air conditioner is broken. It's too fucking hot in my apartment. I got a parking ticket. Fuck.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Monday, 9 August 2010 21:45 (thirteen years ago) link
i have been asleep all day
― janice (surm), Monday, 9 August 2010 22:59 (thirteen years ago) link
i mean like asleep
Look what you've missed: hot dogs, repulsive sphincters, New Order, and Rev's girl.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:02 (thirteen years ago) link
i know. but i am going to go out tonight, i am going to shave my face and go out
― janice (surm), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:03 (thirteen years ago) link
altho to tell u the honest truth a lot of ppl prefer me with the facial hair
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g192/rrawn/shaveornoshave.jpg
shave or no shave
― janice (surm), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:10 (thirteen years ago) link
no shave
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:11 (thirteen years ago) link
u think i'll look like a dork with no facial hair don't you
― janice (surm), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:15 (thirteen years ago) link
a band geek or somethin
― janice (surm), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:16 (thirteen years ago) link
No shave. Surm, if I bumped into you I'd let you make out with me.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:19 (thirteen years ago) link
i suppose you'll say no eyeliner too
― janice (surm), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:22 (thirteen years ago) link
what is it with ppl wanting me to like be a man
― janice (surm), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:23 (thirteen years ago) link
fuck em
― plax (ico), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:24 (thirteen years ago) link
i will try
― janice (surm), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:27 (thirteen years ago) link
lipstick and hair = hawt!
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:28 (thirteen years ago) link
cocktail time!
who gonna join me?
― janice (surm), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:46 (thirteen years ago) link
i wish
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:51 (thirteen years ago) link
:| what's up wit u?
― janice (surm), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:52 (thirteen years ago) link
among other things, not having a ton of cocktail ingredients
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:56 (thirteen years ago) link
also i saw 'the other guys' earlier and it sucked
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Monday, 9 August 2010 23:58 (thirteen years ago) link
re. band geek, there's a new boy at work who is like 6'5" and rail thin, floppy hair, baby face and glasses. Of course, he has a bass-baritone voice. I kinda wanna ruffle his hair.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 00:07 (thirteen years ago) link
ruffling hair
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 00:12 (thirteen years ago) link
is still
i have a question
if you're around straight guys who don't know your gay, and they start talking about girls -- i.e. this one is hot, this one is not etc -- will you join in? or will you abstain? or will you go "sorry, i'm a fag"
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 10 August 2010 01:47 (thirteen years ago) link
i always disclose.
that said, i don't hang around straight guys who aren't filthy punks, so i don't really have a real response.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 01:50 (thirteen years ago) link
this happened at work, so i kinda had no choice but to be around it
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 10 August 2010 01:52 (thirteen years ago) link
Part of the reason I moved from FL is to get away from that situation.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 01:57 (thirteen years ago) link
xp ugh, so know the feeling.
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 01:58 (thirteen years ago) link
The story of my life. Depending on the company, I'll keep silent or I'll proffer my opinion. I have as much right to call some chick ugly as they do.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 02:09 (thirteen years ago) link
http://i86.photobucket.com/albums/k112/altima1994/POLICE-SIREN-ANIMATED.gif
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 02:13 (thirteen years ago) link
For twelve years I've always disclosed, and see no reason why as a writer and a member of the human race I couldn't offer caustic commentary or advice.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 02:15 (thirteen years ago) link
TAKE THE BRO LANGUAGE OUTSIDE, BRO. THAT'S ALL I'M SAYING.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 02:16 (thirteen years ago) link
Today was a travel day. Since I didn't get to Paschal's soul food, I had it in the ATL airport.
At this baseball convention I go to every year, some 70-year-old married retiree will occasionally ask me "Do you have a family?" My ideal response is "Even better...!"
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 02:55 (thirteen years ago) link
btw, Aretha for free in Brooklyn Thursday night
(tonight too I think, but must be over)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 02:56 (thirteen years ago) link
Ahhh, cool air. This is how I feel right now:
http://image3.examiner.com/images/blog/wysiwyg/image/sun-with-sunglasses-thumb5826306.jpg
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 03:01 (thirteen years ago) link
uh, so gayz, i have to move. i don't want to, for the most part, but am starting to feel really bad about things.
like, how is it that new housemate who has spent a total of like a month and a half here since she moved in May 1st gets to dictate what the house needs?
how is it that other housemates agree with her, but say that it's more a lifestyle thing and nothing against me as a person?
urgh.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 03:48 (thirteen years ago) link
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, August 9, 2010 1:05 PM Suggest Ban PermalinkBookmark
tbh i kind of spent the winter doing the same except for wanking to girly porn sometimes and then all the girls came out in their summer clothes and i basically went nuts ^___^
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 10 August 2010 03:58 (thirteen years ago) link
ew don't say "wanking"
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 10 August 2010 04:00 (thirteen years ago) link
"wanking"
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 10 August 2010 04:01 (thirteen years ago) link
ok, also, gross thing here, but i have a corn on my right big toe that might be able to win some sort of record.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 04:21 (thirteen years ago) link
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 10 August 2010 04:22 (thirteen years ago) link
it's actually kind of fascinating. i can peel layers off myself like an onion.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 04:23 (thirteen years ago) link
need new shoes obv.
i've had bumps on my toes for years but have no idea what they are or what caused them. they're something of a deterrent to wearing open-toed shoes in public, even though i still sometimes do
and now i've gone down the wormhole of GIS'ing various podiatric ailments :( :(
― Donna and the pitfall of being pulchritudinous (donna rouge), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 04:32 (thirteen years ago) link
i never wear sandles ever p. much cause i detest the thought of being a dude who wears sandles. i haven't even owned any since i was like 10
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 10 August 2010 04:42 (thirteen years ago) link
i can't even spell them :(
also i p. much hate feet
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 10 August 2010 04:44 (thirteen years ago) link
Yay, boy from other night messaged me back! There is hope!
― Janet Privacy Control (corey), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 05:13 (thirteen years ago) link
feet are gross. i just can't understand foot fetishists...or at least i guess i can see how a foot in really good condition can be attractive, but those dudes must spend their lives in a frustrating and fruitless pursuit of a half-decent foot, let alone a perfect one, because in practice feet are gross. and you can't get away from it, it's an inevitable consequence of being human.
re: str8 dudes - i ask them questions about their taste! usually w/r/t muscles, i never quite know where str8 dudes stand on women with eg toned arms. i know several girls whoa are weirdly paranoid about that...like they'll go to the gym to lose weight but they're scared of lifting weights and gaining visible muscle. i'm like, how can getting your body in healthy, strong shape ever be a bad thing? smh. anyway yeah, retty easy to proffer one's own opinion in those conversations. it's usually cool but if they get too obnoxious then i can just go there w/r/t boys and that usually reins them in.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 10:16 (thirteen years ago) link
I just got back to my house for the first time since Friday afternoon (craaaaaaazy birthday weekend!). I feel like I have so much to catch up on!
― En Moog (Stevie D), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 17:06 (thirteen years ago) link
not into crazy muscle chicks tbrr
― grady "cougar" mellencamp (The Reverend), Monday, March 22, 2010 10:41 AM Bookmark
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 10 August 2010 21:00 (thirteen years ago) link
then again, i'm not into crazy muscle dudes either
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 10 August 2010 21:01 (thirteen years ago) link
well there's crazy crazy muscles which are nagl on either sex and just make me think of roids, like the dude i walked into on the tube the other day, and then there's just tone and definition, which is what the girls i referred to seem to be scared of
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 10 August 2010 22:36 (thirteen years ago) link
so Aretha cancelled. Again. Like when I planned to see her in '86.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 02:17 (thirteen years ago) link
For you, Morbs. One of my favorite Aretha tunes from the eighties:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9tadGA5QJbU&feature=av2e
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 02:56 (thirteen years ago) link
In other news I, somewhat idly, hooked up with my ex. He left my place just ten minutes ago.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 02:57 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm just not into sex with strangers as a way to relieve our mutual boredom. (not that i've not done it before and won't ever again.)
― shoggoths in hot weather (donna rouge), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 07:01 (thirteen years ago) link
You guys know those Save the Children guys that stand on the sidewalk and try to guilt you into donating money? I totally hit it off with one and then got dinner with him after he got off work. During which he proceeded to tell me about his "partner" and also mentioned the word "monogamous", WTF! I also went to an ACT UP meeting and saw Orlando and picked up two AIDS short-story collections (by Allen Barnett and Jameson Currier) and then danced on top of a speaker cabinet to "Debaser" and then capped the night by doing something impulsive at 2AM that probably was unwise considering I had work in 12 hours.
― En Moog (Stevie D), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 09:40 (thirteen years ago) link
stevie d u r awesome
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 09:48 (thirteen years ago) link
wau
I really disliked Orlando
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 11:12 (thirteen years ago) link
and who wants to see Gentlemen Prefer Blondes on Thursday eve?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 11:14 (thirteen years ago) link
And that was just on Monday!! Orlando was very nice but not exceptional. I'd maybe like to see it again but I wouldn't buy it. Morbs what specifically did you really dislike about it?
― En Moog (Stevie D), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 11:30 (thirteen years ago) link
I haven't seen it since 1994 but I thought then it was static except for the bitching session between Alexander Pope and his colleagues. Not charmless though, and I'm not sure how else one can film such an "unfilmeable" book.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 11:37 (thirteen years ago) link
it's typical modernist/feminist/pansexual claptrap of the time (the movie, not Woolf)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 13:16 (thirteen years ago) link
i really like Debaser
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 15:46 (thirteen years ago) link
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, August 11, 2010 1:16 PM (2 hours ago)
yeah i always wanna see this movie
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 15:47 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm sure I'd hate other Sally Potter movies based on what I've read about em
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 11 August 2010 15:50 (thirteen years ago) link
OK so here is the house mix that I made!! For review:
01. William Orbit, Beck, and Pink - "Feel Good Time (Summer Holidays Mix)"02. Masters at Work feat. India - "I Can't Get No Sleep (Ken/Lou 12")"03. Dajae - "Brighter Days (Album Version)"04. Karen Finley - "Tales of Taboo (Radio Mix)"05. S'Express - "Hey Music Lover"06. Madonna - "Ray of Light (Liquid Mix)"07. Vitalic - "My Friend Dario (Dima Prefers Newbeat Mix)"08. The Stone Roses - "Begging You"09. C+C Music Factory - "Here We Go, Let's Rock and Roll"10. Jose & Luis - "Queen's English (Album Version)"11. Tom Tom Club - "Beautiful"12. Planet Soul - "Set U Free (Radio Mix)"13. A Guy Called Gerald - "Voodoo Ray"14. Frankie Knuckles feat. Jamie Principle - "Your Love"
House of D01n4ck.zip
― En Moog (Stevie D), Thursday, 12 August 2010 06:46 (thirteen years ago) link
morbs would u consider _handmaid's tale_ to be typical modernist feminist claptrap of the time
which i watched last night fwiw
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 12 August 2010 13:22 (thirteen years ago) link
never read or saw THT
t3d when are u in NY? wd u like this?
http://www.filmlinc.com/wrt/onsale/fcssummer/ubuweb.html
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 12 August 2010 13:31 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, let us know when you get here because i'm officially not heading out west anytime soon :/
― shoggoths in hot weather (donna rouge), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:37 (thirteen years ago) link
out west
― plax (ico), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:37 (thirteen years ago) link
that sounds so romantic right now
― plax (ico), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:38 (thirteen years ago) link
doesn't it tho
doesn't it
― shoggoths in hot weather (donna rouge), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:40 (thirteen years ago) link
:-/
― plax (ico), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:41 (thirteen years ago) link
you know you could probably just go
― plax (ico), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:42 (thirteen years ago) link
i think tabes gets to NY Monday
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:43 (thirteen years ago) link
soon as i get someone else to pay for my airfare/lodging
― shoggoths in hot weather (donna rouge), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:44 (thirteen years ago) link
dont you know ppl who live there from college you could crash w/
if i were you i'd try and find a ride and split petrol money and just go. srsly.
― plax (ico), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:46 (thirteen years ago) link
i was gonna move out there if i got this job. which i didn't.
― shoggoths in hot weather (donna rouge), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:50 (thirteen years ago) link
i do get in monday. i work from 12-6 that day and 9-6 on tuesday and wednesday. on tuesday, i'm going to this crazy gay fetish thing that my friend tommy works at. looks like a lot of ballgags and leather. eh, it's cool.
um...anyway, yeah, kind of a short trip, might not be able to really hang that much. also, Morbz, Kenny Goldsmith is a pompous shit and those other two bands are dullsville unless one is WAAAYYYY STONED.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:54 (thirteen years ago) link
haha, I know K.G. from his unlistenable WFMU show, he and I talk shit at each other whenever I see him
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:57 (thirteen years ago) link
I am now proofreading a poem called "Dr3ams 0f Ps0riasis"
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 12 August 2010 18:58 (thirteen years ago) link
i am beta-testing this stupid website. boss said to work on it for three hours, and after 45 minutes, i'm like..."uh...."
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Thursday, 12 August 2010 19:05 (thirteen years ago) link
table, as an online retailer currently forced to use a shitty, untested, malfunctioning website -- beta testing is so important.
seriously, i can't even get into the misery our programmer has inflicted on the business. it makes me too angry.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 12 August 2010 19:35 (thirteen years ago) link
who builds a retail website but forgets to implement any sort of content management platform!?! IF I WANT TO ADD A PRODUCT DESCRIPTION I HAVE TO PASTE IT INTO THE RAW CODE.
rrrrgghAAAAARrrr!! ELMO SMASH.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 12 August 2010 19:40 (thirteen years ago) link
ahem.
sorry.
ahem, elmo, we are working with a very good back-end here. not too many bugs that i've noticed thus far, just mostly appearance issues, an inability to log out of one's account, and the strangest thing: the inability to take something out of one's cart. like what if a customer changes his/her mind? i was like: this is really kind of important.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Thursday, 12 August 2010 19:48 (thirteen years ago) link
lol wtf are you guys talking about
― janice (surm), Thursday, 12 August 2010 19:56 (thirteen years ago) link
back ends
― plax (ico), Thursday, 12 August 2010 19:57 (thirteen years ago) link
it's like i just walked into the Tech Nerds of Summer thread
lovin it
― janice (surm), Thursday, 12 August 2010 19:57 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, that's definitely a problem. content management is really the least of my problems, tbh. lately we have been receiving authorized payments without actual corresponding order info. fuck my life.
wouldn't mind working with a nice back-end about now, tho. ~sigh~
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 12 August 2010 20:00 (thirteen years ago) link
so u just get credit card numbers in the mail
― janice (surm), Thursday, 12 August 2010 20:01 (thirteen years ago) link
I wd prefer to hear more abt the ballgagf3tish thang
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 12 August 2010 20:04 (thirteen years ago) link
i guess if your still in new jersey this autumn you can take me to sky mound
― plax (ico), Thursday, 12 August 2010 20:55 (thirteen years ago) link
uh not exactly my scene but:http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs207.snc4/38702_417435648818_30540523818_4517269_3603728_n.jpg
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Thursday, 12 August 2010 22:13 (thirteen years ago) link
A repulsive person and a repulsive sphincter.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 12 August 2010 22:13 (thirteen years ago) link
4 me the thing that fetish ppl dont get is that nothing is sexy w/o shame
― plax (ico), Thursday, 12 August 2010 22:14 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm more offended by the one on the left's horrible tattoos.
― Joanie Loves Shakuhachi (corey), Thursday, 12 August 2010 22:16 (thirteen years ago) link
lol will prolly be fun tho
― plax (ico), Thursday, 12 August 2010 22:17 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm offended by the cushion.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 12 August 2010 22:19 (thirteen years ago) link
i don't know if i agree with you, t, about the shame thing. i think a full embrace of the taboo, sans shame, is actually quite sexy.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Thursday, 12 August 2010 22:23 (thirteen years ago) link
thats cool i just have a whole diff. set of baggage than u
― plax (ico), Thursday, 12 August 2010 22:24 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, and i like Bataille
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Thursday, 12 August 2010 22:26 (thirteen years ago) link
His left arm looks like it was dipped in marinara sauce.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 12 August 2010 22:27 (thirteen years ago) link
well, my friend is the one on the right. so.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Thursday, 12 August 2010 22:27 (thirteen years ago) link
Fine with both of them tbh
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 13 August 2010 01:11 (thirteen years ago) link
hi, Eric!
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 13 August 2010 01:11 (thirteen years ago) link
Hi. Been on vacation all week for the annual family reunion. Worst year here ever. Nice to, after all these years, finally feel the full force of the awkwardness and hostility that most normal, non-annual family reunions have to cope with.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 13 August 2010 01:13 (thirteen years ago) link
tabes, I'd do yr friend, he has nice arms.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 13 August 2010 06:25 (thirteen years ago) link
just fyi, jo3 used to crush on this guy at NYU. here's a full torso plus undies pic:
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs234.snc4/39060_129483310428221_100000996596253_144679_3663884_n.jpg
we used to make out and were in punk bands together when we were like 14.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Friday, 13 August 2010 13:09 (thirteen years ago) link
good morning everyone! i'm having coffee. and orange juice :) i LOVE orange juice on a nice misty day like this. this day is perfect. it is so misty, cool, and gray. i just want to sit outside and talk to my friends while i like sip mojitos and discuss things.
― janice (surm), Friday, 13 August 2010 13:59 (thirteen years ago) link
also i am going to boston today. isn't that trippy? i have never been to boston, but my friend just moved there a little while ago, so it should be fun. she's fun and she likes to smoke pot with me and discuss things. discussing things has become a very big theme for me lately!
― janice (surm), Friday, 13 August 2010 14:02 (thirteen years ago) link
have fun in Boston, surm -- i rarely do!
tomorrow night ESG is playing at a downtown festival in Providence -- I've got a friend with rooftop access overlooking the stage. so excited u guys...
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 13 August 2010 14:09 (thirteen years ago) link
I would like to go back to Boston if only for the used record shops.
― Joanie Loves Shakuhachi (corey), Friday, 13 August 2010 14:51 (thirteen years ago) link
― janice (surm), Friday, 13 August 2010 14:55 (thirteen years ago) link
oh, that guy! didn't recognize him with the...yeah.
loved those party pics you posted on FB, elmo :)
i will be in nyc for maybe the weekend? (at least tonight for sure)
― shoggoths in hot weather (donna rouge), Friday, 13 August 2010 15:52 (thirteen years ago) link
thanks dr! i'm really happy with how the party photos turned out. so many ppl came in costume! <3 this new camera too.
fwiw u guys can see them here.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 13 August 2010 16:16 (thirteen years ago) link
Download that mix Stevie D put up. Clearly, the boy was born ten years too late.
It kicks off with my very fave C & C Music Factory, the underexposed "Here We Go, Let's Rock & Roll" (bet xhuxk e counts it as disco metal), then offers two classics of sass: Jose & Luis: "Queen's English" (with background vocals by Madonna, I forgot) and Karen Finley's eternal "Tales of Taboo" (in a six-minute "radio mix" hahaha).
It sags some - wrong S'Express (there was only one right one), a nifty remix of "My Friend Dario" but less temper tantrum-prone than the original. The only track I wanted to shut off, however, was the last one (Frankie Knuckles feat. Jamie Principle: "Your Love"...is this morning music? maybe I should listen to it at dawn).
Anyhoo, good show! Thanx Stevie!
― Kevin John Bozelka, Saturday, 14 August 2010 07:05 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm gonna do a Cathy here and go : ACK! KJB!!! "Your Love" is one of the best, best house tracks ever recorded.
though by all rights, stevie, that song is Jamie Principle's. Frankie took it and is credited with it (after a bit of a battle with Principle) along with Jamie, but Principle did it first.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Saturday, 14 August 2010 15:45 (thirteen years ago) link
as in, even in the wiki article, it is "Jamie Principle (feat. Frankie Knuckles)." just fyi.
u tell em grrl
― janice (surm), Saturday, 14 August 2010 21:28 (thirteen years ago) link
I think the boy at the counter at Myopic Books might be one of us. As I checked out he gave me a look that was like <3 :D
― Joanie Loves Shakuhachi (corey), Saturday, 14 August 2010 21:44 (thirteen years ago) link
ack! i love that bookstore.
went to gay party last night in philly, was looked at a lot, tried to talk to some boyz, they were catty snobs. left feeling really weird.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Sunday, 15 August 2010 16:26 (thirteen years ago) link
Yes, it's so hard for me not to blow $50 every time I go there.
― Joanie Loves Shakuhachi (corey), Sunday, 15 August 2010 16:41 (thirteen years ago) link
that's probably bc you want an excuse to hand things to the guy at the counter
― janice (surm), Sunday, 15 August 2010 18:09 (thirteen years ago) link
So he can look at me with those watery grey eyes of his? You bet.
― Joanie Loves Shakuhachi (corey), Sunday, 15 August 2010 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
i get looked at a lot
― janice (surm), Sunday, 15 August 2010 18:12 (thirteen years ago) link
because i'm a fuckin FREAK
― janice (surm), Sunday, 15 August 2010 18:14 (thirteen years ago) link
pHr34k
― Joanie Loves Shakuhachi (corey), Sunday, 15 August 2010 18:14 (thirteen years ago) link
i think that i got looked at, not just because of whatever, but because i wasn't in the philly gay uniform. more punk than those fagz. whatev.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Sunday, 15 August 2010 19:28 (thirteen years ago) link
What is the Philly gay uniform?
― Joanie Loves Shakuhachi (corey), Sunday, 15 August 2010 19:39 (thirteen years ago) link
my back is so sunburnt ow ow ow
― shoggoths in hot weather (donna rouge), Sunday, 15 August 2010 20:00 (thirteen years ago) link
Yes, I am a little red too from walking yesterday. And now once more into the rays.
― Joanie Loves Shakuhachi (corey), Sunday, 15 August 2010 20:04 (thirteen years ago) link
The passing of slurs on Facebook by men who should know better (i.e. thirtysomething guys) is irritating as fuck. To register his disapproval of our local film critic's review of "The Expendables," this buddy of my cousin's wrote: "dude, um, considering the rumors regarding miss [MALE LOCAL FILM CRITIC], i'd say he's smoking more than a pipe, if you catch my drift..."
I tossed back: "I smoke that pipe too, and passing insinuations is none of your business, unless you like the tobacco in that pipe too."
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 16 August 2010 02:35 (thirteen years ago) link
Fuck that dude.
― Joanie Loves Shakuhachi (corey), Monday, 16 August 2010 02:42 (thirteen years ago) link
said local film critic is a good acquaintance too.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 16 August 2010 02:44 (thirteen years ago) link
hey, my friend Mark is doing a live radio show with the "ex-gay" minister whose program Mark attended while researching a screenplay! Sure to be good listening.
http://www.markallencam.com/?p=299
http://sevenseconddelay.blogspot.com/2010/08/seven-second-delay-live-825.html
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 16 August 2010 04:40 (thirteen years ago) link
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Saturday, August 14, 2010 11:45 AM (2 days ago) Bookmark
I was trying to figure out what was going on there! Didn't he re-record it though? I want to get them both and just do a side by side.
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 03:59 (thirteen years ago) link
Yo, so I went to this bar and sat next to this guy who was rly cute, and he started talking to me and we told each other abt ourselves, and he seemed geuninely interested and flirty and laughed at my jokes, etc., and then bought me a drink, and at one point when I left to pee and came back he drunkenly/adorably jokingly said something like "WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE".
And then that was it; he just ignored me for the rest of the night and hooked up with like six other guys. What. the fuck. Like, seriously, the whole thing lasted maybe 10 or 20 minutes. Who does this????
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 04:32 (thirteen years ago) link
he was probably on drugs
― be my anchor baby (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 04:33 (thirteen years ago) link
fuck 'em
― albino python on cocaine (corey), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 04:36 (thirteen years ago) link
figuratively speaking ofc
It definitely was the type of environment where people could have easily (likely?) been on drugs
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 04:38 (thirteen years ago) link
anyone who could ignore that username ain't worth it imo
― shoggoths in hot weather (donna rouge), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 05:49 (thirteen years ago) link
CHANTÉ U STAY
― albino python on cocaine (corey), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 05:55 (thirteen years ago) link
:D :) <3
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 19:05 (thirteen years ago) link
makes me think
http://i386.photobucket.com/albums/oo305/lejospopo/man.jpg
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 19:21 (thirteen years ago) link
hey gays, the Jane St Hotel in the far West Village (almost in the river) is having a Labor Day weekend special of $89/night if you want to come visit.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 19:23 (thirteen years ago) link
We could all split it!
Also T omg
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 19:28 (thirteen years ago) link
what chaos can ensue – the mind reels.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 19:34 (thirteen years ago) link
I believe the rooms are like classic train compartments (ie Some Like It Hot small)
excellent access to the Eagle & Christopher St though
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 17 August 2010 19:43 (thirteen years ago) link
The other night the Save the Children guy called me while I (and I think he, too) was drunk at like midnight and I think he told me that he liked me and now I am to call him right now and I am way nervous for I have a) never really done things like this before (entered into a mutual "I like you" sort of thing) b) HATE talking on the phone.
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 03:29 (thirteen years ago) link
I mean the grapefruit vodka helped but
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 03:30 (thirteen years ago) link
the Save the Children guy? i missed this
B-52s free in Bklyn Thursday
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 03:33 (thirteen years ago) link
Gays, its summer 2010 so... EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SHIRTS
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 03:42 (thirteen years ago) link
Tiarnan I'm reading a book on Ellsworth Kelly now and it's blowin my mind. Thanking you.
― albino python on cocaine (corey), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 03:57 (thirteen years ago) link
my shirt is off btw
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 18 August 2010 04:08 (thirteen years ago) link
>_>
― albino python on cocaine (corey), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 04:10 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't know why I posted a bookmark instead of just CPing the post. That was a dumb and boring conversation, sigh.
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 05:10 (thirteen years ago) link
Gays, what do you think of Brandon Flowers? I made a point last night of rubbing the image of Flowers in Birks into J0rdan's face.
http://twitpic.com/n846p/full
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 19:26 (thirteen years ago) link
i feel like i've argued with jordan on that one before, but: no.
better without the dreadful facial hair but with him you feel it's always lurking ready to sprout without warning
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 19:32 (thirteen years ago) link
meh.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 19:53 (thirteen years ago) link
co-sign
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 19:56 (thirteen years ago) link
hundreds if not thousands of straight guys i'd rather lust after
I'm not sure he's a guy.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 19:58 (thirteen years ago) link
He's a half-butch lesbian.
Haha, in that case, he moves to the front of the line of lesbians I'd pretend to want to do.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 20:00 (thirteen years ago) link
― albino python on cocaine (corey), Wednesday, August 18, 2010 3:57 AM (16 hours ago)
true facts, dmi
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 20:11 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm feeling like a nostalgic old pervert because, via various facebook run-ins, I have re-connected with people from my old summer camp where, at the age of 12, I figured out I was gay because of how I felt about my fellow campers and *this* particular camp counselor:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/18589793@N04/4905743352/
On "New Wave Day" (a day when all in the camp were supposed to dress up in punk/new wave outfits in order to eat lunch in the cafeteria) he saw my depressed look and said "hey bud, you look like you could use a Cool Stripe"- and proceeded to run a line of scotch tape across the bridge of my nose in order to give me a low-budget "Adam Ant" face makeup look. But since I sat on his lap while he applied this particular bit of faggy decoration, it was sweet torture. Okay, just had to share with y'all.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 18 August 2010 21:18 (thirteen years ago) link
D'oh
yowza
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 21:20 (thirteen years ago) link
I won't spell out his full name on this board but his last name actually began with the letters S-E-X
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 18 August 2010 21:23 (thirteen years ago) link
I had the first inklings that I was gay at summer camp too — when my bunkmates pulled the sheets off of a sleeping bunkmate's bed to reveal that he was wearing (very thin) briefs (this was when it became uncool to wear boxers). Having a communal shower didn't hurt either.
― albino python on cocaine (corey), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 21:36 (thirteen years ago) link
Wait -- when did it become uncool?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 21:38 (thirteen years ago) link
I wish I boasted the kind of hips that could wear boxers.
In my peer group — boxers just became de facto better than briefs, which I pretty much held to until I started wearing clothes that actually fit me.
― albino python on cocaine (corey), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 21:41 (thirteen years ago) link
obv staying home from camp cost me some vital years
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 21:50 (thirteen years ago) link
years = cock
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 21:54 (thirteen years ago) link
this isn't one of those things where "it's never too late" though.
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 21:55 (thirteen years ago) link
word of caution.
camp? cock?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 21:58 (thirteen years ago) link
its the combo that concerns me in this case
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 18 August 2010 22:00 (thirteen years ago) link
that very combo was a big concern of mine when I was a camper too.
I'm kind of embarrassed to blather on here, but it's a weird thing to be so swept away by this fuzzy, not very distinct photo. The idea of gay 12 year olds is an uncomfortable one for queer adults, I reckon, for obvious reasons. the risks of exploitation seem to hover very close, and how can someone that young really know anyway? But I can remember very clearly how awful I felt that summer as the knowledge of what was going on with me when I looked at other boys when we had to go skinnydipping at the pool sank in and registered. And everybody at the camp, all the older kids and counselors etc. were Nice People who could sense that I was incredibly depressed. They all kept trying to help me and figure out what was wrong, and I couldn't talk about it and had to make up not very persuasive excuses, which just made me feel more isolated. That YMCA camp in Kentucky was a regular Well of Loneliness, I tells ya. (or Well of Horniness?)
― the tune is space, Thursday, 19 August 2010 00:29 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm entranced by drew's camp counselor
― be my anchor baby (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 19 August 2010 02:55 (thirteen years ago) link
hey, gays, join me in saying bye to J0rdan, who returns to Mizzou with a heavy heart. I'll miss him!
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 19 August 2010 03:07 (thirteen years ago) link
That's a really, really gorgeous photograph
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Thursday, 19 August 2010 03:08 (thirteen years ago) link
bye Jordan! say hey to Mizzou for me. Somebody should use my camp counselor photo as the cover of a chillwave mixtape already or something. It's even got his str8ness documented with that proprietary hand on the girl's shoulder. He's a dad with two kids now.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Thursday, 19 August 2010 03:11 (thirteen years ago) link
hey gayz. got back into Oakland last night. hope you all are okay.
my time on the east coast was pretty good, but i only really saw 5 friends in NYC. and then i got into a weird battle with my mom right before i left....and guess what it was about? SHE SAID I AM "TRYING TOO HARD TO BE GAY." and i was like, 'excuse me, but fuck off' and we went at each other for like 45 minutes and i made her cry, and my dad was all like, "everyone has terrible teenage years" dismissing me outright, and i was just like, YOU REALIZE THIS IS WHY I DONT LIKE COMING HOME FUCK YOU BOTH.
eugh. anyway, glad to see yall are doing okay.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 17:52 (thirteen years ago) link
How old are you?
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 20 August 2010 17:53 (thirteen years ago) link
dr3w, that story pretty accurately describes school experiences. camp for me was...ahem...JHU's CTY program at Hamilton College in Clinton, NY, so i was surrounded by weird freaky smart kids like myself. i first was 'out' at camp. it was kind of amazing, in retrospect.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 17:54 (thirteen years ago) link
25. xp
i didn't really ever go to summer camp in the normal sense -- my only camp experiences were school class trips etc. so i was surrounded by my teachers -- no sun-kissed nipples of shirtless camp-counselors for me.
but i was sent on a camping / biking trip through Maine when i was like 15, and got up to a little bit of sneaky groping of sleeping tent-mates. i was a pervy lil dude, still am, no doubt.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:17 (thirteen years ago) link
I remember v vividly one time falling asleep at camp and seeing one of our counselors go into the shower in the next room, and trying so hard to catch a glimpse of his dick in the bathroom mirror. I must have been 12 or 13? I always wonder, is it really fucked up to sort of wish you'd had sexual experiences at a young age?
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:21 (thirteen years ago) link
no! The problem comes when adults think they can exploit this confusion.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:22 (thirteen years ago) link
exactly. i think a lot of problems also come into play because adults are able to vocalize the fact that children/teenagers are sexual beings, whereas children are so unsure/ashamed of themselves a lot of the time that they can't do this. like, i don't think that Tony Duvert had sex with young kids all the time, but he was a fierce advocate for recognizing children's sexuality...
anyway...
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:31 (thirteen years ago) link
according to him my bf would loiter in the bathrooms at his camp so as to view counselor cocks as they flopped and dangled freshly from the showers
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:31 (thirteen years ago) link
you make it sound so quaint and springtime-y
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:35 (thirteen years ago) link
myself, i was always tying / untying / re-tying my shoes in the highschool lockers for the same reasons
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:37 (thirteen years ago) link
i was too repressed and awkward for irl anything, so every night i entered the magical world of internet porn
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:40 (thirteen years ago) link
my earliest crush was on a substitute teacher/gymnast we had for a week in japanese 1, 7th grade. i didn't realize it was a crush until i was in my 20s.
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:43 (thirteen years ago) link
i would totally do the same thing in the locker room in middle school and early high school... dilly-dally to get glimpses of inner thighs and cocks etc.
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:48 (thirteen years ago) link
ok maybe TMI but i am sharing
there was this one dude -- a senior during my sophomore year -- who definitely noticed me looking at him after football practice. super-fit cocky alpha italian dude.
anyway, one practice we had to pair off for assisted stretches, and he selected me -- which made me very nervous. so i have his ankle on my shoulder and my hands on his massive thigh, stretching out his hamstring, and he says -- "you want to suck my dick?"
i managed a blush and a "no thanks" but was still terrified afterwards. i have wondered what would have happened if i had answered differently, but it probably would have been degrading and humiliating no matter what. he was not known to be a nice guy.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:50 (thirteen years ago) link
how sexy that degradation would have actially been is a mystery for the ages
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:52 (thirteen years ago) link
woh! did he look like this guy:http://img.mymusclehunks.com/blog/lucaskazan/184/Image01.jpg
― a repulsive person and/or a repulsive sphincter (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:53 (thirteen years ago) link
Never really curious about johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:54 (thirteen years ago) link
ahaahaaha
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:54 (thirteen years ago) link
it sounds like the name of a young adult novel.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:55 (thirteen years ago) link
nah, he was hairier and a bit thicker xp
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:55 (thirteen years ago) link
well, i would assume, because he wasn't a gay porn star. haha.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 18:59 (thirteen years ago) link
OK, I know nothing about you or your parents, but it sounds less like they're dogging you for being gay and more like they're telling you to get over acting like a teenager, at least that's what it sounds like to me your dad is saying. Unless I'm misconstruing and he's saying, "you're too old to still be in this phase."
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:00 (thirteen years ago) link
I bet that guy's way to short to be an effective football player.
height isn't necessarily a prereq fwiw
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:07 (thirteen years ago) link
It is for me.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:09 (thirteen years ago) link
um, Eric, no. sorry.
my mother is always asking me "whether i'm sure" of my sexuality, and i'm always like, "pretty certain, yeah, tho i'm obviously into the idea of a spectrum of behaviors, etc." but in the end, it comes down to the fact that i've been interested sexually in other guys and have known it since i was around 11 or 12, and to have my mother essentially deny years and years of inner turmoil, depression, eating disorders, and etc., simply because she's a fucking homophobe and wants grandkids, well.. that's pretty fucked up.
so when this fight happened, i raised the issue of the misery of teenage existence, and pointed out that even they (my parents) noticed that i have been a significantly happier person since i 'came out' to them (for the 3rd or 4th time, btw) and the rest of the world.
what my dad was saying was that, "my teenage years were awful too, they're awful for everybody," which is a truth bomb duh, but also denies the subjectivity of individual emotional pain.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:09 (thirteen years ago) link
It was probably painful for him to watch your teenage years.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:11 (thirteen years ago) link
(And I mean that in a not-mean way. In the "he saw you suffering and it upset him" way. But, again, I don't know your parents.)
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:12 (thirteen years ago) link
it probably was. i mean, he is infinitely more sympathetic and cool with me than my mom.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:18 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah i don't know what the benchmark is for hetero teenage misery or anything but i can guarantee i (we) had it worse. but it's annoying to compare either way because it doesn't even matter and it shouldn't. i wasnt deluded enough to wear it as a badge and now it's not holding me back, and i hope the same for anyone who went through similar shit.
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:23 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, it doesn't hold me back until i visit my parents, who make it an issue by blathering off shitty statements like the ones i've mentioned.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:25 (thirteen years ago) link
that doesn't even make sense? rambling tbh. just remembering similar "conversations" i've had with my parents and how it's so easy to play the victim and ask for consolation that never comes, cuz it has to come from yourself. now if the topic even comes up, which it doesn't, cuz i'm living with my bf anyway, but if it did, i redirect it. if they press, it's none of their fucking business.
xp it's hard not to get baited by them but that's essentially what they're doing and it makes you feel shittier as a result. i had to establish w/ mine that certain topics were completely off-limits by literally not responding or changing the subject. treat them like children that need to be taught by example cuz that's exactly how they're acting.
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:33 (thirteen years ago) link
oh that first sentence wasn't about you table, just an x-post to myself
yeah, good advice. thx.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:38 (thirteen years ago) link
I had a pretty uneventful adolescent discovery period and an even less notable coming out process. I guess that's to blame for my boring life choices.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:38 (thirteen years ago) link
my dad has come a long way in terms of accepting me as gay, but he's never really acknowledged the amount of guilt & shame i went thru -- probably never will, either. it's tough, and it's probably very hard for any parent to deal with the fact that they had an unwitting hand and making their kid's life so miserable.
my dad now acknowledges that d. & i probably have the healthiest relationship out of anyone in the family
because, he jokingly adds, "there's no women involved" :\
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:40 (thirteen years ago) link
*in making
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:41 (thirteen years ago) link
: S
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:42 (thirteen years ago) link
LOL at falling back on misogyny as a bonding device
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Friday, 20 August 2010 19:57 (thirteen years ago) link
recounting that highschool story has set my mind reeling with other locker room memories. i need to leave work like, right now.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:04 (thirteen years ago) link
you do have bathrooms at work, right ;D
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:06 (thirteen years ago) link
let's all hit the showers
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:06 (thirteen years ago) link
YEAH
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:10 (thirteen years ago) link
My chest is damp, my shirt stuck to my body. It's a scorcher out there. Someone help me take this V-neck off.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:10 (thirteen years ago) link
fondly recalling games of grab-ass, lamenting what might have been
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:11 (thirteen years ago) link
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Friday, August 20, 2010 11:40 AM Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
^^^
― welcome back, ma$ed god (The Reverend), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:11 (thirteen years ago) link
and when i say grab-ass i mean like really digging your fingers in there
~~~nostalgia~~~
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:12 (thirteen years ago) link
woah! that sounds like a lot of fun.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:13 (thirteen years ago) link
The thought of another man -- let alone the friend on whom I'd a serious crush in senior year high school -- laying a finger on me was too exotic and frightening to even contemplate. It didn't even occur to me. I was more non-heterosexual than gay.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:13 (thirteen years ago) link
I meant to ask steve & j0e if they wanted to see any Ludlam films.
http://anthologyfilmarchives.org/film_screenings/programs/retrospectives/charles-ludlam
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:38 (thirteen years ago) link
elmo i think i found me a movie u would enjoy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKDAacQjPbA
― plax (ico), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:58 (thirteen years ago) link
lol that looks bad from the screenshot but srsly
― plax (ico), Friday, 20 August 2010 20:59 (thirteen years ago) link
noted!
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Friday, 20 August 2010 21:27 (thirteen years ago) link
would see that movie.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 23:49 (thirteen years ago) link
They didn't make us shower in middle school/high school so I had to get more creative
― be my anchor baby (J0rdan S.), Friday, 20 August 2010 23:53 (thirteen years ago) link
PS- a former prof of mine just gave me a shitload of designer clothes, plus some rare peasant items from Paris. i am now the proud owner of Comme des Garcons men's skirt much like the one in the middle here:http://images.nymag.com/images/2/daily/fashion/08/07/28_skittedmen_lg.jpg
plus some other awesome shit.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Friday, 20 August 2010 23:55 (thirteen years ago) link
Question for everyone who is out to their parents: were they blindsided at all by you coming out? Did they suspect you were gay and deny it? How did this play into your post-coming out relationship?
Cuz I'm 90% positive that my parents know I'm gay.
― be my anchor baby (J0rdan S.), Friday, 20 August 2010 23:56 (thirteen years ago) link
Mom was devastated -- sobbed, hugged herself, shut herself for a week alone in the house, the whole schmeal (I only learned about the latter from my sis). I suspect for her it was the final crumbling of a supreme fiction.
Whereas Dad smiled thinly, sadly, to himself and mumbled, "I know. I knew it." He delivered the ultimatum the next morning.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 20 August 2010 23:59 (thirteen years ago) link
Ultimatum?
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:02 (thirteen years ago) link
My coming out was so boring. And they both knew.
Not so much an ultimatum as an exchange of favors: if I were to bring a putative boyfriend to a family gathering, extend my dad the courtesy of letting him know so he can leave.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:08 (thirteen years ago) link
My mom asked me before I moved "You need to tell me — are you gay?" I said yes, she laughed and said "you think I don't know that?". I've mentioned here before that her brother (my uncle) was gay, so she knows all about the struggle and shame, and I love her for it — and my other family members are fine with it too.
Unrelated: Today I told the cute nerdy guy at work I was going to Whole Foods for lunch and he asked he if could tag along and I was like "!!!", but it turns out he was straight and just wanted to chat, which I appreciated too. It's nice not to be the one making all the effort to befriend someone and have them meet you halfway for a change.
― Count Scrofula (corey), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:10 (thirteen years ago) link
So Jordan you should tell them, it will remove a lot of stress from your life (I hope, anyway).
― Count Scrofula (corey), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:11 (thirteen years ago) link
so nice of your mom just to ask, then laugh. i think i like her.
― jed_, Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:14 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm leery of counseling him otherwise. Every dynamic is different. I told him two years ago and I'm not sure it made a damn bit of difference. Our relationship is probably better than ever, but it's got fuck-all to do with my coming out to them; it's age, comfort, and experience.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:15 (thirteen years ago) link
It's actually not that stressful for me tbh, just sorta feel like it's "time"
― be my anchor baby (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:16 (thirteen years ago) link
i told my mum and she went "okay" then we never mentioned it again til i had a boyf.
if it's time it's time.
― jed_, Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:16 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah. you're a senior in college right? that's when i did it.
anyway, my dad had the same reaction that Alfred's did, minus the ultimatum. weird.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:17 (thirteen years ago) link
My gayness doesn't intersect at all with our shared lives, which of course is the problem: it's noticeable by its absence. Thus, while I'm relieved I finally told them an independent observer couldn't gauge the benefits to each side. I don't see any real change until I have a serious lover whom I insist on their meeting.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:21 (thirteen years ago) link
When you get to that point where "it's time," there's absolutely no stopping it. It was, iirc, kind of a rush.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:23 (thirteen years ago) link
i've showed them pictures of my two boyfs.
plus they met se4n in person, and were like, 'he your special friend.' and it was weird.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:27 (thirteen years ago) link
I've actually only told two ppl irl, then two more via AIM. everyone else found out from those four people, one way or another.
― be my anchor baby (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:27 (thirteen years ago) link
OTM. I did it after several glasses of wine. It felt like I was reading a script of my own movie, I'd rehearsed it so many times. I was hovering above my body watching myself.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:29 (thirteen years ago) link
I only had pretty much two good friends at the time and I told both of them, and pretty much made it apparent online through FB or whatever (that sounds dorky, I know).
― Count Scrofula (corey), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:31 (thirteen years ago) link
this was years before I told my family btw
I've been out to close friends since summer 08, everyone else p much summer 09 and no family as of now
― be my anchor baby (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:33 (thirteen years ago) link
I did a few close friends one night in the summer between freshman and sophomore year and then family the next day. Knowing my parents were save territory, I knew I needed to do them the favor early on.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:41 (thirteen years ago) link
safe territory
my parents and i smoked cigarettes right after. it was kind of funny.
then i went and got drunk and did tons of free blow all night.
thoooose were the days, hahaha.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:48 (thirteen years ago) link
my parents and i smoked cigarettes right after
Haha. Same here.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 21 August 2010 00:54 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah. When it's time, it's time. I did just over a year and a half ago, before I got around to the actual reality of being gay in any practical sense, but once I got all my mental ducks in a row and got past all my bullshit, it just sort of happened. Started with like...my three best friends, and within two weeks there was this rush/relief of finally TELLING people. (Not necessarily recommended for everyone/anyone, but you know...you come out when and how you need to. Unless you're a high-ranking member of the Christian Right.)
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:17 (thirteen years ago) link
Anyway, debating my Friday night.
TS: Low-key night in with some wine and a book vs. Body-Painting Party with a bunch of naked hipsters.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:18 (thirteen years ago) link
The latter, in a heartbeat.
― Count Scrofula (corey), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:25 (thirteen years ago) link
wtf how are you even debating
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:28 (thirteen years ago) link
Um...because it's 12$, and I'm not sure if my friends are going or not. Also, sometimes you just need a break from your crazy hipster neighbourhood.
This Tuesday I lent my speakers to a friend of mine for a screening of a XXX comedy porn called The Cumming of Jizzus at another friend's loft. It's just been that kind of week.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:34 (thirteen years ago) link
But, yeah, fair enough.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:35 (thirteen years ago) link
Alex, come to my place: we'll have a glass of white wine before I drive us out to South Beach. I got this pair of jeans that'll make us irresistable.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:35 (thirteen years ago) link
Huh? I'm confused.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:36 (thirteen years ago) link
lol. yeah i understand.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:36 (thirteen years ago) link
I know a place where no hipsters go.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Elko, Nevada?
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:40 (thirteen years ago) link
Hmm. Well, I'm heading home from a family dinner in the 'burbs, so if I get back to my place early enough, then I'll chance it.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:46 (thirteen years ago) link
Not much diff in air miles to NYC, so I'm not really feelin' yr pain.
My dad was mortally ill before I really started having sex with men, and my mom is an 82-year-old Irish Catholic bingo lady who never even talks about straight sex. So I hate to fly in the face of all that is right and good -- no, actually, I love it -- but there was never any point in telling either of them. Besides my being unboyfriendable.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 21 August 2010 01:57 (thirteen years ago) link
my coming out was totally bloodless. came out to close friends late 08, decided it wasn't really any sort of secret anymore by spring 09, came out to my immediate fam on my bday that june. still not really out to extended fam except for those who are on my facebook, but i'm sure word has gotten around some and i'm not worried about it either way. the real hurdle for me was coming out to myself, not anybody else
― welcome back, ma$ed god (The Reverend), Saturday, 21 August 2010 03:50 (thirteen years ago) link
btw ted a punk friend of mine is moving to oakland
― welcome back, ma$ed god (The Reverend), Saturday, 21 August 2010 03:55 (thirteen years ago) link
I was going to meet up with this guy tonight, but I just messaged him apologizing that I really didn't feel like doing anything after all. He wasn't really my type anyway. :\
― Count Scrofula (corey), Saturday, 21 August 2010 04:09 (thirteen years ago) link
Am I the only one whose parents found out vs. voluntarily telling them? You see, when your father is a network security engineer, no amount of covering your online tracks will completely cover your online tracks. But looking back, it's pretty funny to think abt my mom tearfully asking me what a "bear" is with such genuine confusion.
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Saturday, 21 August 2010 04:29 (thirteen years ago) link
hahaha
― be my anchor baby (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 21 August 2010 04:31 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm pretty sure that my mom & brother & prob father have seen gay porn history on various computers throughout my life
― be my anchor baby (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 21 August 2010 04:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Well I mean there was a "first time" when I was like 12 or 13 I guess? But the therapist told my parents I was probably just "curious" and they clung to that for a while. And so did I, sort of, coz I was going to this super-conservative Christian school and I told myself that I was sexually attracted to men but emotionally attracted to women (looooooooool). But I eventually grew out of this, and when my mom (well, dad) found shit on the computer again 5 years later it was like "oh, uh, sorry mom I'm gay".
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Saturday, 21 August 2010 04:34 (thirteen years ago) link
Dad was and is totally cool with it, mom is as cool with it as she can be but only when we don't have to deal with it. She flipped out when we both worked at the same place 2 yrs ago and I wanted to tell my co-worker friends. She also is convinced that NO ONE in the family knows and that no one really needs to know, including my 16 year old brother (because it would "confuse" him).
But he already knows, i think, because he asked her once if I was gay and her response was "That's something you'll have to ask your brother"
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Saturday, 21 August 2010 04:37 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah my mom found my search engine history when I was 13 but it never came up again. :|
― Count Scrofula (corey), Saturday, 21 August 2010 04:45 (thirteen years ago) link
happened w/ my sister
― welcome back, ma$ed god (The Reverend), Saturday, 21 August 2010 04:49 (thirteen years ago) link
happened to me, too! man that sucked.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Saturday, 21 August 2010 10:49 (thirteen years ago) link
My sis found out by reading my journal, left on my desk when she borrowed my computer. How did I learn this? By reading her journal.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 21 August 2010 12:01 (thirteen years ago) link
― welcome back, ma$ed god (The Reverend), Saturday, 21 August 2010 12:19 (thirteen years ago) link
I came out to my friends via Livejournal ;_;
― eastern european pale skin dark hair small boobs wife (donna rouge), Saturday, 21 August 2010 14:32 (thirteen years ago) link
I've recounted my coming-out-to-parents story before. Since moving back home the topic has not been broached once but I also have been keeping to myself here mostly.
Morbs I'm at my friend's place in Brooklyn at the moment but I don't know if I'll be seeing any movies today
― eastern european pale skin dark hair small boobs wife (donna rouge), Saturday, 21 August 2010 14:37 (thirteen years ago) link
ah. I will be heading to Metrop tnite if I ever get my writing done. Alleged bubbly at midnight for one of the DJ's birthdays.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 21 August 2010 14:47 (thirteen years ago) link
if you leave it too long it kinda just gets more difficult partly because you know that people know and it can be harder to tell people things they already know.
― jed_, Saturday, 21 August 2010 14:50 (thirteen years ago) link
but i suppose that's what coming out to close friends is, essentially. i'm gay and i know that you know it so it's cool to talk about it rather than skirt around this elephant.
― jed_, Saturday, 21 August 2010 14:54 (thirteen years ago) link
idk when me and my best friend saw the royal tenenbaums she was all "is margot tenenbaum based on you?" bc of how ridic. private-bordering-on-secretive i am anyway abt everything.
― plax (ico), Saturday, 21 August 2010 15:00 (thirteen years ago) link
Every time I've told a close friend they didn't believe me.
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Saturday, 21 August 2010 15:30 (thirteen years ago) link
same exact
― be my anchor baby (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 21 August 2010 17:34 (thirteen years ago) link
get new friends?
― Count Scrofula (corey), Saturday, 21 August 2010 18:22 (thirteen years ago) link
just smart, cute all-american boys! who are gay!
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 21 August 2010 18:36 (thirteen years ago) link
(j/k, j0rd and stevie. but actually, that might be right on the money?)
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 21 August 2010 18:37 (thirteen years ago) link
one friend when i told her wondered how i could know if i'd never been with a girl in the first place
btw i saw this last night and it was awesome
http://www.lightindustry.org/piers
― eastern european pale skin dark hair small boobs wife (donna rouge), Saturday, 21 August 2010 18:44 (thirteen years ago) link
bubbly imaginable
― janice (surm), Saturday, 21 August 2010 18:49 (thirteen years ago) link
i drank a lot of prosecco last night, does that count?
― eastern european pale skin dark hair small boobs wife (donna rouge), Saturday, 21 August 2010 18:53 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah
― janice (surm), Saturday, 21 August 2010 18:54 (thirteen years ago) link
I will be bringing a large bottle of beer to Mahler's 2nd tonight.
― Count Scrofula (corey), Saturday, 21 August 2010 18:58 (thirteen years ago) link
helllllllooooooooooooo! here's to a semester of fucking hot dudes?
― christopher dullan (Tape Store), Saturday, 21 August 2010 19:05 (thirteen years ago) link
Having issues parsing "fucking hot dudes".
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Saturday, 21 August 2010 19:13 (thirteen years ago) link
fucking dudes who are fucking hot
― Count Scrofula (corey), Saturday, 21 August 2010 19:15 (thirteen years ago) link
I just came from the pool, where I'm ready to swear the fortysomething Venezuelan who sent his kids back "upstairs" was about to rid himself of his bathing suit.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 21 August 2010 19:24 (thirteen years ago) link
hmm. what pool do you go to alfred?
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 21 August 2010 19:32 (thirteen years ago) link
The one at my condo complex.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 21 August 2010 19:33 (thirteen years ago) link
It's thundering quite badly so we both left -- separately.
I am going to shower, head to my pool, then write some more about Josef von Sternberg.
btw Steve D, I don't know yr schedule, let me know if you hv time/inclination for a Newark Bears game b4 the season is over!
(it's minor-league baseball, fellas)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 21 August 2010 19:34 (thirteen years ago) link
i used to go to the Biltmore with old ilxor elan to swim. and then at night, we'd ride to the golf course and smoke fatties under this nice stand of trees.
also, i desire thunder. clouds with just light spritzing and no thunder is shitty, i'm sick of august.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 21 August 2010 19:34 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah i know what you mean. sometimes i wish summer would go on forever. but right now i just feel like i'm trying to make time go faster.
― plax (ico), Saturday, 21 August 2010 19:36 (thirteen years ago) link
mercury in retrograde fuckin shit up
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 21 August 2010 19:40 (thirteen years ago) link
this is what im sayin
― plax (ico), Saturday, 21 August 2010 19:41 (thirteen years ago) link
the other day I got the first inklings of fall via a cool breeze
― Count Scrofula (corey), Saturday, 21 August 2010 19:49 (thirteen years ago) link
mmm...fall.
it's the first fall ever where i'm not going back to school? uh, woah. that's weird.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 21 August 2010 20:07 (thirteen years ago) link
Morbs, when does the season end? I will see what I can do!
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Sunday, 22 August 2010 00:15 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.newarkbears.com/schedule/games/
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 22 August 2010 00:40 (thirteen years ago) link
for morbs, just in case you don't open the giants thread on ILBB
http://i35.tinypic.com/27yykch.png
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 22 August 2010 04:29 (thirteen years ago) link
― welcome back, ma$ed god (The Reverend), Sunday, 22 August 2010 05:05 (thirteen years ago) link
I dont get it, J0rd, I'm generally happy when weed fiends are set back
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 22 August 2010 07:54 (thirteen years ago) link
um, kinda really confused and fucked-up here.
m4tt and i had a talk last night, and it was okay, but not really. i mean, what do you say when someone tells you that you're too good for them, and that they don't want to hold you back in a relationship, but also don't want things to change much? like, a downgrade from 'boyfriend' to 'lover and best friend'? we need to talk more, but christ, i am reeling over here. plus there's the whole added thing that we slept together last night, and this morning we engaged in some of the most intensely passionate oral i've ever experienced.
WHAT THE FUCK.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 22 August 2010 18:09 (thirteen years ago) link
also, the conversation ended when we mutually told each other that we cared about each other more than anyone in the world, then he sort of fell into my arms and promptly went sleepies.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 22 August 2010 18:50 (thirteen years ago) link
Sounds like he wants to marry you.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:06 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm just going to ask him straight up, "what do you want to change?" like, if he wants things to stay the way they are but not be in a 'boyfriend' commitment situation, that's fine by me. but i don't really know what he was getting at.
that said, he has been having some problems recently with going off certain medicines and getting on certain medicines and etc. it might just be weird mood shit.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:12 (thirteen years ago) link
sorry to un-lurk - but it sounds like he wants reassurance
― sarahel, Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:13 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, "I'm not good enough for you" is basically a request for a "yes, you are" response. Even if it feels stupid and unnecessary. The show-don't-tell rule doesn't apply 100 percent of the time, no matter how mind- and nut-blowingly good the oral is.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:15 (thirteen years ago) link
sounds like he doesn't want it to get too heavy, but really enjoys being with you at the same time
― janice (surm), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:15 (thirteen years ago) link
and i want to reassure him. he needs someone, despite saying that he feels alone and needs to be alone and thinks he's dragging me down. he's not dragging me down— the thought of not having him in my life is positively crushing, at least at this point.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:16 (thirteen years ago) link
i mean it's basically him being like, "i'm a manic-depressive drug addict and you're way too good for my fucked-upness, but i love you." and my response is "i don't care how fucked up you are, i fucking adore you"
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:17 (thirteen years ago) link
"i'm not good enough for you" can also be code for something else. kind of a bs line tbh.
― janice (surm), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:18 (thirteen years ago) link
i mean, you know best, but why are you reeling? are you afraid he's having second thoughts?
xpost It's a masking line, but not that inaccurate. I am repeatedly amazed at the ludicrous idea of someone being interested in me.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:19 (thirteen years ago) link
(Well, not "repeatedly" in the sense that it's like often, but when it seems incongruously intense.)
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:20 (thirteen years ago) link
does he want to be less fucked-up? is it about him being unsure or insecure about making major life choices and whether he should deal with it alone and/or what role he wants you to play in this/what role you are up for in this?
― sarahel, Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:21 (thirteen years ago) link
just that wording makes it sound like m@tt wants to have his cake and eat it too, but without the pressure of expectations
― janice (surm), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:22 (thirteen years ago) link
aw T - i just remember when you were in NYC not this most recent time, but the time before - and M@tt came to a show, and he seemed kinda sad and mopey, like he was totally missing you.
― sarahel, Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:23 (thirteen years ago) link
i don't think he's having second thoughts. i'm more afraid that he's retreating into himself, and um...not to get into his DSM-IV.2 or whatever, but that isn't good.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:27 (thirteen years ago) link
sarahel, yeah, i think that's it re: the insecurity about what role i can or want to play in him getting less fucked-up.
btw, we just exchanged txts and he's still like 'come visit me at work today, hope you're having a good one.' i mean, it obv isn't a break-up scenario, but something else....
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:29 (thirteen years ago) link
if the idea of a downgrade in commitment is freaking you out, i would suggest being more assertive about what you want out of the situation, and going after him. it's obvious you think he's worth it.
― janice (surm), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:32 (thirteen years ago) link
mental illness is scary enough for the person who suffers from it, and being in a committed loving relationship and wanting to get better is scary because it's something that the mentally ill person can fuck up, not just for themself, but for the person that they love. I dunno if he has guilt issues ... but ... i've been in his position when i was a lot younger and it didn't end well.
― sarahel, Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:32 (thirteen years ago) link
do you think the conversation he initiated was more about your relationship than his mental baggage, or the other way around?
― janice (surm), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:37 (thirteen years ago) link
both v different problems
― janice (surm), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:40 (thirteen years ago) link
i understand that it's scary. (disclosure: after a long relationship and break up last year, he tried to turn himself in, if you get my veiled wording). but as someone who has also been on both sides of the equation, i want to be there. i'd rather get hurt by him in helping him than get hurt by him otherwise.
anyway, i'm seeing him later, it'll be a talk.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:44 (thirteen years ago) link
yea just be honest with yourself, i would say. about what you both want.
― janice (surm), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:48 (thirteen years ago) link
if you want to hang or whatever, lemme know - but you've also got plenty of other irl supportive friends, too!
― sarahel, Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:48 (thirteen years ago) link
hey sarah, thanks. we shld totally get drinks sometime.
and surm, yeah, i think honesty is key word here.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 22 August 2010 20:06 (thirteen years ago) link
i'd rather get hurt by him in helping him than get hurt by him otherwise.
this is a very healthy attitude imo
― d4n, d4n, d4n (yausah, yausah, yausah) (The Reverend), Sunday, 22 August 2010 20:10 (thirteen years ago) link
talk went well. we split a burger and hashed it out. so! :D
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 22 August 2010 23:22 (thirteen years ago) link
― d4n, d4n, d4n (yaosah, yaosah, yaosah) (The Reverend), Sunday, 22 August 2010 23:23 (thirteen years ago) link
isn't splitting a burger the best
congratulation
― janice (surm), Sunday, 22 August 2010 23:25 (thirteen years ago) link
it is the best! it was just a really nice talk.
ily's were said.
feeling a lot better now. thanks for all the support, friends.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 22 August 2010 23:28 (thirteen years ago) link
and thx for getting me in the mood for beef
thx a whole fucking lot
― janice (surm), Monday, 23 August 2010 00:24 (thirteen years ago) link
mmm burger and hash.
Glad it worked out, tabes. I got to this conversation too late but it sounded to me earlier like all you guys needed was a tete a tete, especially after this morning's head a head.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 23 August 2010 00:31 (thirteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ug75diEyiA0
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Monday, 23 August 2010 00:37 (thirteen years ago) link
fluffy buns
― baseball michael jordan (crüt), Monday, 23 August 2010 00:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Old people leering.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 23 August 2010 00:40 (thirteen years ago) link
hey, former lover on the cover of SPANK magazine:http://spankzine.files.wordpress.com/2010/08/spank16-cover1.jpg?w=750&h=755
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Monday, 23 August 2010 20:25 (thirteen years ago) link
hey, has anyone heard from r@mzi after he ground his jaw to death last night?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:35 (thirteen years ago) link
what?
― Count Scrofula (corey), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:36 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm fine thanks
― janice (surm), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:37 (thirteen years ago) link
My buddy in Bushwick went clubbing last night and got real lucky with a guy who looked like you. WAS it you?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:37 (thirteen years ago) link
no no it wasn't, i was occupied with other things
― janice (surm), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:38 (thirteen years ago) link
i can't decide what song to listen to
― janice (surm), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:41 (thirteen years ago) link
"like a surgeon"
― janice (surm), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:42 (thirteen years ago) link
something chill, maybe
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:42 (thirteen years ago) link
or weird al sure
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:43 (thirteen years ago) link
lol no the ciara one. it's very chill.
― janice (surm), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:43 (thirteen years ago) link
like, very.
-_-
feels like fall today
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:44 (thirteen years ago) link
intensely fall
this day is incredible
― janice (surm), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:45 (thirteen years ago) link
incredibly dreary?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:47 (thirteen years ago) link
the air, the crisp breeze, the perfect shade of gray ... u crazy boy
― janice (surm), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:47 (thirteen years ago) link
janice i introduced my man to sandra lee the other night. don't think he gets her, but that's ok, we are still tight.
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:47 (thirteen years ago) link
ok it's all good
― janice (surm), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:48 (thirteen years ago) link
Sandra Lee is like every mom
― Count Scrofula (corey), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:49 (thirteen years ago) link
aww america
― janice (surm), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:49 (thirteen years ago) link
i hope so and i hope not at the same time xp
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:50 (thirteen years ago) link
he also hadn't heard of "hobby lobby" before, then i introduced him to jean teasdale
― what if "middlebrow" is pubes? (Matt P), Monday, 23 August 2010 21:51 (thirteen years ago) link
My mom does not fry sunflowers in canola oil and sour cream.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 23 August 2010 22:00 (thirteen years ago) link
my moms microwaves things more than i think is necessary or healthy— i haven't had a microwave in 4 years and avoid them at all costs— but otherwise, no, my mom is nothing like sandra lee. the night before i left, she made meatloaf using ground veal, pork, and beef, with a side of spicy squash and my favorite lemon-dill asparagus. she cooks like that all the time, and pretty much has since i can remember.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Monday, 23 August 2010 23:07 (thirteen years ago) link
also, while it feels like fall in new york, it is 88 here in oakland and everyone is like 'wtf'
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Monday, 23 August 2010 23:08 (thirteen years ago) link
that dinner sounds nice
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 00:18 (thirteen years ago) link
(lemon dill!)
(dang!)
My mom isn't like Sandra Lee either, but she is very much "this is what 'normal people' are like"
― Count Scrofula (corey), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 00:25 (thirteen years ago) link
Sandra Lee, not my mom
― Count Scrofula (corey), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 00:27 (thirteen years ago) link
cooking, dance music, romance -- so much I don't understand at all
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 00:31 (thirteen years ago) link
do you not cook?
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 00:35 (thirteen years ago) link
i haven't cooked in weeks. i miss that "man i just cooked myself something awesome and now i am going to eat it and love it and feel like i did the damn thing' feeling
― eastern european pale skin dark hair small boobs wife (donna rouge), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 00:37 (thirteen years ago) link
surm, I cook spaghetti and make pancakes once a week. And ocaasionally heat canned soup.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 00:38 (thirteen years ago) link
who are u people. cooking is one of the great pleasures of life.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 00:44 (thirteen years ago) link
how can you live alone and not cook
― Count Scrofula (corey), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 00:45 (thirteen years ago) link
unless oyu can afford to eat out for every meal
heh
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 00:46 (thirteen years ago) link
morbs do you "eat out for every meal"?
Reheating Saturday's filet mignon and lobster ravioli is just as marvelous.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 00:48 (thirteen years ago) link
steve don't turn my words into sexual innuendo >:|
― Count Scrofula (corey), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 01:02 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm eating a peach btw
― Count Scrofula (corey), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 01:05 (thirteen years ago) link
Do I dare to eat a peach?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 01:11 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm wearing the bottoms of my jean shorts rolled
― eastern european pale skin dark hair small boobs wife (donna rouge), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 02:07 (thirteen years ago) link
sexy
― Count Scrofula (corey), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 02:09 (thirteen years ago) link
i got jeans from the mall. they fit weird. so one night when i was going out, i cut them. short. now i look gay, and cute.
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 03:57 (thirteen years ago) link
― yentl giant (corey), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 04:00 (thirteen years ago) link
cooking is hard!!! i pretty much can only make spaghetti, and then throw pieces of meat/fish onto the cast iron grill...
― phil-two, Tuesday, 24 August 2010 04:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Vegetables are fail-proof. I don't know what to do with meat. I usually let other people cook it.
― yentl giant (corey), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 04:02 (thirteen years ago) link
being employed has been thoroughly detrimental to my cooking
― d4n, d4n, d4n (yaosah, yaosah, yaosah) (The Reverend), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 04:22 (thirteen years ago) link
ya the composition of my meals is largely dependent upon what can be thrown together in 5 minutes before I run out the door (usually late anyway)
― yentl giant (corey), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 04:40 (thirteen years ago) link
being unemployed has been thoroughly detrimental to mine!
― eastern european pale skin dark hair small boobs wife (donna rouge), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 04:59 (thirteen years ago) link
i am going to start eating like a normal human tomorrow
i'm really excited!
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 05:09 (thirteen years ago) link
also it's 1am and all i want to do is go to a party, what's wrong with me
last weekend there were a few parties and it just made me realize how much i like them
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 05:12 (thirteen years ago) link
that's the second set of refs to the exact same line in prufrock in this very thread. y'all are obsessed with eating peaches.
― jed_, Tuesday, 24 August 2010 08:26 (thirteen years ago) link
I can't afford it, but I do it.
I don't even enjoy eating all that much.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 10:55 (thirteen years ago) link
You've given up.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 11:17 (thirteen years ago) link
i hate cooking so much - every step of the cooking process, from shopping for ingredients to putting them together, stresses me the fuck out. so much nervous breakdown-inducing effort and then the food's gone in 10 minutes and you're left with a pile of washing up! fuck that shit. i am more than happy to let people who enjoy it cook for me all the time. i actually found it quite liberating to admit this to myself a couple of years ago and then just stop ever trying to cook anything more time-consuming or complex than, like, pasta, or scrambled eggs.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 11:26 (thirteen years ago) link
maybe i'm just a true domestic gay but cooking is one of my favorite methods of relieving stress. get home from work, grab a knife and a cutting board, keeping my hands busy, focusing on the immediate task and letting the workday dissolve -- maybe a glass of wine or a puff, filling the kitchen with the smell of cooking, making it feel truly comforting sanctuary. the pleasure is in the process and the product is just the culmination.
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 12:58 (thirteen years ago) link
ok so braggin but i feel genuine pity for u cooking-disabled ppl
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 13:05 (thirteen years ago) link
however yes I enjoy eating out with others, so plz volunteer.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 13:07 (thirteen years ago) link
i'd really like to enjoy cooking, it would be beneficial to me in many ways i think, but i just can't. the penultimate time i cooked, i was living with a girl who was v much into baking, cooking &c; we had some friends over to dinner and she pretty much stood over me and made me do it (and also helped). the last time, it was literally just trying to make a pasta and vegetable bake with some veg that my flatmate had left in the fridge before going on holiday. it reduced me to a minor nervous breakdown, i ended up throwing it out of the window and ordering a pizza because i couldn't cope. that was when i swore never to cook again.
the reasons i hate it are pretty much
- i can't multitask. i have to concentrate on everything that's going on simultaneously otherwise i forget about it and things get burnt or explode. cue frazzle and stress- i can't deal with ingredient shopping, particularly if there's something i only need a teaspoon of but know i won't use again. and because i never have ingredients in the house, i can't cook spontaneously- i can't make recipes up as i go along. "just use something else!" aaargh fuck anyone giving me that advice. i have to know that the recipe is being followed to the letter otherwise i get stressed and worried- and i never have the exact ingredients or the exact implements required for a recipe to work. EVER. always something missing, or something that won't fit- i can't really chop or peel things, i sort of hack ham-fistedly away and am lucky if no blood ensues- hatred of both washing up and leaving washing up to fester; pretty much every meal i make for myself is based on how little washing up there is to do at the end- UGHHHHHH, basically.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 13:17 (thirteen years ago) link
details & time investment don't appeal to me either.
No kidding; why do you think I started writing film criticism?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 13:27 (thirteen years ago) link
Because you didn't want to eat anymore.
― 2 + 2 is vah-gi-nah (Eric H.), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 13:29 (thirteen years ago) link
I'd rather not make nice things just for myself, but cooking for two or more is fun. I usually just eat rice and beans.
― yentl giant (corey), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 13:30 (thirteen years ago) link
genuine pity, i say
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 13:36 (thirteen years ago) link
i just give up and order general tso's chicken from my local ghetto-wok
― phil-two, Tuesday, 24 August 2010 14:08 (thirteen years ago) link
i am more than happy to let people who enjoy it cook for me all the time.
not all of us have this option
― d4n, d4n, d4n (yaosah, yaosah, yaosah) (The Reverend), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 14:56 (thirteen years ago) link
― eastern european pale skin dark hair small boobs wife (donna rouge), Monday, August 23, Suggest Ban Permalink2010 9:59 PM Bookmark
i had so much more time and, more importantly, energy that i don't have now. then again, my work is pretty physically demanding.
― d4n, d4n, d4n (yaosah, yaosah, yaosah) (The Reverend), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 14:58 (thirteen years ago) link
elmo OTM all over the place. i was actually just talking about this with friends on friday: i find ingredient/food shopping WAY less stressful/more fun than clothes shopping
i usually can't balance wanting to see a movie after work with cooking for myself on weeknights, tho
― eastern european pale skin dark hair small boobs wife (donna rouge), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:16 (thirteen years ago) link
look, either ya kno how to cook, or ya don't
me, put me in a kitchen with a frying pan and you'll come out with a calamity
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:17 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah tho i must admit that knife skills / a well-stocked pantry / an arsenal of cookware are all pretty crucial and take a little time to acquire but the end satisfaction is more than worth it
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:20 (thirteen years ago) link
plus -- it's chemistry! you turn stuff into other stuff! and then -- you eat it!
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:21 (thirteen years ago) link
i could stand some improvement in the knife skills dept, tbh
xp haha yes!
― eastern european pale skin dark hair small boobs wife (donna rouge), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:23 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah but that's the thing elmo
it is chemistry
and not all of us are chemists ok
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:24 (thirteen years ago) link
I cook very simple things on weeknights: chicken breasts, couscous, pork chops, tossed salads, etc. Never mind the expense: if I ate canned food or ate out every night I'd look like Jabba.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:28 (thirteen years ago) link
chemistry was one of my favorite subjects
― d4n, d4n, d4n (yaosah, yaosah, yaosah) (The Reverend), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:28 (thirteen years ago) link
Plus, it's fun to try and fail to cook an ambitious dish. I received no formal cooking instructions other than watching Mom and Dad for a couple of years and suddenly being left to my own devices upon moving out.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:29 (thirteen years ago) link
when i am finally established in my country estate, some distant dreamy day in the future, i will invite u all for a feast
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:29 (thirteen years ago) link
(the country estate will be a series of geodesic domes fyi)
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:31 (thirteen years ago) link
100 nights of sodom
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:32 (thirteen years ago) link
and cheesecake
― eastern european pale skin dark hair small boobs wife (donna rouge), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:33 (thirteen years ago) link
chemistry was a nightmare for me
also ALSO i hate cooking cuz i'm impatient. i never think about food unless i'm hungry, in which case i want the food NOW.
i eagerly await elmo's feast.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:34 (thirteen years ago) link
(and i will keep chickens and bees, and maybe a pig or a goat)
(i am just being escapist because my apartment was broken into yesterday and i'm not feeling incredibly safe & secure at home right now)
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:34 (thirteen years ago) link
I was going to post on that thread, elmo. I'm sorry to hear it. At least you weren't there, like I was when my house was burgled twenty years ago.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:36 (thirteen years ago) link
oh shit, sorry to hear that :( did they take much?
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:36 (thirteen years ago) link
i will be attempting to banish the intruding spirits this week with an elaborate sage-frying, butter-browning, potato-mashing ritual
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:37 (thirteen years ago) link
while playing Kate Bush Get Out Of My House at full volume
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 15:38 (thirteen years ago) link
sorry elmo :(
― jed_, Tuesday, 24 August 2010 16:47 (thirteen years ago) link
oh no elms
― king boy swag (The Reverend), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 16:49 (thirteen years ago) link
elmo OTM about cooking being about the pleasure of process. My sister is in town this week and we made stir fry last night. So good.
Sorry to hear about the apartment. I just moved into a big ground floor place which used to be a spa - huge windows - and will now def be warier. People are dicks.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 16:52 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, i'm on the 1st floor and i never suspected I'd want bars on my windows as much as i do right now
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 24 August 2010 17:12 (thirteen years ago) link
OK So in addition to my mom calling me in Philly yesterday and telling me that my room sort of flooded and that the carpet's soaking wet against and two feet extending from this one wall (where I had a ton of boxes stored), I come home and find that she took this GIANT pot of soup that I made out of the fridge to get something behind it, and just left it on the counter overnight. Was v time consuming and not cheap either, and I had gotten to eat a total of one (1) bowl of it.
Thanks, mom.
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Wednesday, 25 August 2010 17:53 (thirteen years ago) link
wonder if anyone here doesn't have a mom who drives them crazy
― "Not in a great place" meaning mentally? or Oregon? (Matt P), Wednesday, 25 August 2010 18:36 (thirteen years ago) link
*raises hand*
― king boy swag (The Reverend), Wednesday, 25 August 2010 19:15 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah my mom is possibly the least crazy-making person in my family these days
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 25 August 2010 19:18 (thirteen years ago) link
my mom is 82 and lives 90 miles away, so she seldom surprises me much now.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 25 August 2010 19:31 (thirteen years ago) link
I just need to gtfo of this house. NYC/Philly here I come.
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Wednesday, 25 August 2010 19:40 (thirteen years ago) link
i basically have the best parents ever. we are all awesome friends. it's my sister who drives us crazy
― king boy swag (The Reverend), Wednesday, 25 August 2010 19:41 (thirteen years ago) link
my mom is pretty much the best
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 25 August 2010 20:20 (thirteen years ago) link
duh
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 25 August 2010 20:20 (thirteen years ago) link
give holler if you wanna go anywhere, Steve (& j0e?)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 25 August 2010 20:27 (thirteen years ago) link
were we talking about hot drummers? terry bozzio, imo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3891DejVQxU
― lene lovage (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 25 August 2010 21:27 (thirteen years ago) link
ugh, can't take my mom right now, need to move out of this house
also idk what to make of this long-distance flirting, thinking of a road trip to ohio!
also nyc and amsterdam work trips in november, i think i will run into hot dudes in both of those places? <3 <3 <3
― christopher dullan (Tape Store), Thursday, 26 August 2010 07:04 (thirteen years ago) link
so long as you steer clear of the red light district in the latter, yes
― eastern european pale skin dark hair small boobs wife (donna rouge), Thursday, 26 August 2010 14:54 (thirteen years ago) link
Visiting NYC is somewhat of a priority for me now. I've never done this long-distance thing. I'm not even sure if it's a "thing".
― mein voight-kampff (corey), Thursday, 26 August 2010 15:30 (thirteen years ago) link
hey gays, on Wed night I attended a live radio broadcast where someone uttered the phrase "Sophie Tucker's cunt."
This morning at 4, I closed a local bar w/ a guy I've had a crush on forever and pressed my card into his hand as he was unchaining his bike.
That is all.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 27 August 2010 22:48 (thirteen years ago) link
sounds like a good week.
― "Not in a great place" meaning mentally? or Oregon? (Matt P), Friday, 27 August 2010 23:22 (thirteen years ago) link
Morbs, you have cards??
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 27 August 2010 23:26 (thirteen years ago) link
Should be modeled after this dude's card
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4YBxeDN4tbk
― mein voight-kampff (corey), Friday, 27 August 2010 23:43 (thirteen years ago) link
I was unemployed for 8 months last year, of course I have cards.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 27 August 2010 23:54 (thirteen years ago) link
"Morbius. Doctor, if you're nasty."
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 27 August 2010 23:55 (thirteen years ago) link
I just hope this guy calls me for dinner and not freelancing.
Or just "lancing," heh heh
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 27 August 2010 23:55 (thirteen years ago) link
GO MORBS!
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Saturday, 28 August 2010 00:15 (thirteen years ago) link
college is such torture
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:04 (thirteen years ago) link
there are too many hot guys -- i can't even concentrate in class
pretty sure i'm gonna get a 98% in my women and gender studies class because there are two other dudes in there and none are cute
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:05 (thirteen years ago) link
if you start dating one of these women you're off my list
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:10 (thirteen years ago) link
i would never
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:11 (thirteen years ago) link
I know it's a dreadful cliche, but the men and women in those gender classes are usually...ugh
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:12 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah.....
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:16 (thirteen years ago) link
are there... sweatpants?
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:35 (thirteen years ago) link
mesh shorts, even better
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:38 (thirteen years ago) link
oh man
so basically you get to watch swingin dicks all day?
i miss college sometimes
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:40 (thirteen years ago) link
there have been swinging dicks, yes
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:41 (thirteen years ago) link
and now since i'm wearing contacts & i can wear sunglasses and be less conspicuous about my staring
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:42 (thirteen years ago) link
― mein voight-kampff (corey), Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:44 (thirteen years ago) link
Ha -- if I saw you in sunglasses indoors I'd think, "Panderer."
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:45 (thirteen years ago) link
mesh shorts, flip-flops, and accessorized girlfriend are de rigeur FIU attire.
ha i don't wear them inside!
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 03:53 (thirteen years ago) link
i have a guy coming over tonight
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 04:23 (thirteen years ago) link
first time i've ever had a dude over here
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 04:24 (thirteen years ago) link
Yay!
― mein voight-kampff (corey), Saturday, 28 August 2010 04:29 (thirteen years ago) link
I've got the girls over.
http://stylusmagazine.com/turntable/wp-content/uploads/2006/02/Golden_Girls-1p0f.png
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Saturday, 28 August 2010 04:42 (thirteen years ago) link
go sarges!
― does a ˁ˚ᴥ˚ˀ sh!t in the woods? (The Reverend), Saturday, 28 August 2010 04:48 (thirteen years ago) link
lol it's not that big of an accomplishment... placing an online sex ad and such
he's cute tho
https://mail.google.com/mail/?ui=2&ik=b42e0e308f&view=att&th=12ab6816f6b2fbfb&attid=0.1&disp=inline&realattid=f_gddunjr82&zw
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 05:19 (thirteen years ago) link
I walked thru NYU area today, and jeez, where did all the beautiful 20-yo boys come from?
Bikeman didn't show up at the gay bar tonight, but this semi-hot mess I've kissed before staggered up to me on his way out and asked "I thought you were straight. With the wife and kids? Do I have you mixed up with someone else?"
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 28 August 2010 08:57 (thirteen years ago) link
Did you laugh in his face? I hope you laughed in his face.
J0rdan how did it go???
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Saturday, 28 August 2010 14:33 (thirteen years ago) link
how did it go? well, it didn't exactly go
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 17:50 (thirteen years ago) link
long story:
at 10 pm we finished our initial email correspondence, he said he was going out and he would email me again at 1 am. so 1 am i check my email, and nothing. 1:15, 1:30, 1:45 etc nothing. so before i'm about to go to sleep, at 4 am, i check my email, and he had emailed me back at 3 am. so i email him like "hey no big deal let's just meet up tomorrow." he emails me back asking to meet right then, and i say sure okay. so at about 4:20 AM i give him my address. but he doesn't email me back like "okay i'm leaving" or w/e. also his phone is broken. so at about 4:30 i go outside to wait for him. by 4:45 it becomes apparent to me that he isn't coming over, but i don't want him to, like, show up here and knock on the door or something and wake my roommates. so at 5 am i finally retreat back inside. and then i went to sleep. and here we are.
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 17:54 (thirteen years ago) link
he came
― janice (surm), Saturday, 28 August 2010 18:06 (thirteen years ago) link
just too soon
sounds like
― janice (surm), Saturday, 28 August 2010 18:07 (thirteen years ago) link
hehe
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 18:08 (thirteen years ago) link
I envy your endurance (5 am!).
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 28 August 2010 18:20 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm up at that time regardless
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 18:23 (thirteen years ago) link
:( jordan
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Saturday, 28 August 2010 18:32 (thirteen years ago) link
that's annoying
yeah it was annoying
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 28 August 2010 18:32 (thirteen years ago) link
rude imo
he probably was drunk, and fell asleep before he could get his ass out of his place
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Saturday, 28 August 2010 18:34 (thirteen years ago) link
He got caught up following the deej-Whiney Cee-Lo war.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 28 August 2010 18:36 (thirteen years ago) link
that would certainly result in unplanned sleep
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Saturday, 28 August 2010 18:41 (thirteen years ago) link
no Steve, the semi-hot mess was kind of laughing so I wanted to provide dry ice
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 28 August 2010 19:41 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.flickr.com/photos/52713075@N06/4935259745/
― the tune is space, Saturday, 28 August 2010 20:35 (thirteen years ago) link
fight with m4tt.
feel like shit. can't even remember how it started.
and i can't stop crying.
fuck.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 28 August 2010 20:40 (thirteen years ago) link
T - sorry for missing Light Asylum last night - I was, well, fighting/crying at my ex-bf
― sarahel, Saturday, 28 August 2010 20:48 (thirteen years ago) link
they were great. it was an awesome show. but after was a nightmare-- i'm sorry your night was equally crap.
god, i'm supposed to work on my job's site right now, and all i want to do is just curl up in a ball and die.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 28 August 2010 20:52 (thirteen years ago) link
the offer to hang, get drinks, take soup samples from Whole Foods, whatever - that still stands <3
― sarahel, Saturday, 28 August 2010 20:56 (thirteen years ago) link
thanks.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Saturday, 28 August 2010 21:01 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm drunk. Jess is mad at me because I didn't feel like watching two movies in a row. No one responded to my Craigslist ad. Buh.
― glutinous maximus (corey), Sunday, 29 August 2010 01:08 (thirteen years ago) link
Jess is my rm/friend of 7+ years
two movies in a row? fuck that.
― jed_, Sunday, 29 August 2010 01:10 (thirteen years ago) link
"what else are you going to do while drinking beer?"
― glutinous maximus (corey), Sunday, 29 August 2010 01:14 (thirteen years ago) link
listen to Xenakis prob
Jed_ I. Love. You.
Ended up meeting a boy last night too! From Brooklyn, just went by KC. We had Lols trying to get my bike into his hotel
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Sunday, 29 August 2010 03:08 (thirteen years ago) link
oh lord yall
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 29 August 2010 06:47 (thirteen years ago) link
smh at attempting to have sex
this dude from last night showed up!
and we got into it
and then he left
RIP
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 29 August 2010 06:48 (thirteen years ago) link
thankfully it's easy for me to find humor in things
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 29 August 2010 06:49 (thirteen years ago) link
also ramzi i need to ask you a question over aim when you see me on
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 29 August 2010 06:51 (thirteen years ago) link
Stevie D, great! <3
― jed_, Sunday, 29 August 2010 10:44 (thirteen years ago) link
So did you or didn't you, J?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 29 August 2010 12:26 (thirteen years ago) link
Was out celebrating my (early) birthday with a bunch of friends last night, including an out of town couple who were crashing on my couch. Much to my surprise, after karaoke and food last night they were not crashing on my couch, if you get my drift.
And I think you do.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, 29 August 2010 16:50 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't get your drift?
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Sunday, 29 August 2010 16:51 (thirteen years ago) link
Were they crashing in the guest room instead?
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Sunday, 29 August 2010 16:52 (thirteen years ago) link
Really? Fine. More plainly: birthday threesomes are really awesome.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, 29 August 2010 16:57 (thirteen years ago) link
Sheesh i was only kidding!
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Sunday, 29 August 2010 17:56 (thirteen years ago) link
However that is pretty otm
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Sunday, 29 August 2010 17:57 (thirteen years ago) link
Sorry. Hangover + sarcasm are a bad mix.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, 29 August 2010 18:23 (thirteen years ago) link
I'll just leave this here.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5z7R-5Znoc
― glutinous maximus (corey), Sunday, 29 August 2010 18:33 (thirteen years ago) link
The language is leaving me.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 29 August 2010 18:35 (thirteen years ago) link
ted are you ok?
jordan i'll look 4 u
― janice (surm), Sunday, 29 August 2010 18:52 (thirteen years ago) link
Ok so my Halloween costume this year is officially going to be a bob wig and Minnie ears and a black feather boa
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Sunday, 29 August 2010 19:08 (thirteen years ago) link
"I'm one of
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Sunday, 29 August 2010 19:09 (thirteen years ago) link
Omg this iphone
wait did u get one??
― janice (surm), Sunday, 29 August 2010 19:17 (thirteen years ago) link
Yes and every time I try to IM/post/etc on it it sends stuff early! What I was GOING to say was
"I'm one of Annie Lennox's backup dancers from her 1995 Letterman performance, obviously" but the joke's sort of ruined when you have to re-type it.
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Sunday, 29 August 2010 19:32 (thirteen years ago) link
lol lol
― janice (surm), Sunday, 29 August 2010 19:53 (thirteen years ago) link
― J0rdan S., Saturday, August 28, 2010 11:47 PM Bookmark
this is basically how i live my life
― let diddy cook (The Reverend), Sunday, 29 August 2010 19:57 (thirteen years ago) link
― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Sunday, August 29, 2010 3:32 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink my big stubby thumbs argh
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Sunday, 29 August 2010 21:04 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm okay! had a nice day yesterday despite hangover and shit-feelin in the morning. going to hang with m4tt during his break today, probably chill and watch movies tonight.
last night i went to a feast/dance party at my friends' place, and just hung around the fire most of the night. and my friend 3ctor gave me this amazing shirt:http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash2/hs202.ash2/46562_548271048304_4302681_32019333_1728258_n.jpg
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 29 August 2010 21:18 (thirteen years ago) link
um, have i said that i'm moving? into a house closer to my old hood, with one of my best lady-friends, and there are CHICKENS and a huge garden in back? kind of stoked to get out of concrete jungle.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 29 August 2010 21:19 (thirteen years ago) link
This need to be here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NX_igvcBICc
― Kevin John Bozelka, Sunday, 29 August 2010 21:41 (thirteen years ago) link
that lynde is awesome.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 29 August 2010 21:44 (thirteen years ago) link
None of the regulars on this thread are based in SoCal, iirc?
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Sunday, 29 August 2010 21:47 (thirteen years ago) link
ok... mi dia
woke up something like 12-1
went to this vintage boutique shop in my neighborhood to buy clothes for the first time in a damned forever, walked out with a pink dress shirt and this flamboyant flame-colored tie for $12 together
went to the dollar store for a couple items and the absolute cutie 19-ish latino dude i have a total boner for was the cashier today. (have i mentioned i love twinky latino boys? this will come up later, kinda)
went back to the house, chilled for a while, ended up downloading civilization 2 and playing it for a while (lol nerd past coming back to haunt)
ended up playing texas hold em with my skeezy gay christian muscle bro roommate (ugh) and his friends, in which i summarily got my ass whupped
went to karaoke with my friend l1z (i wore the pink-shirt flame-tie), where i sang "save a horse, ride a cowboy", "rock with you" (poorly... too drunk to sing mj properly by then), "slippin' into darkness", and "don't cha". l1z was so happy that she was the first person to get to sing "bad romance" there, cause the vj just got it that day, i was just jealous that she discovered this first.
anyway, so i was riding back from karaoke, crossing steel bridge... and OMG how's this for a gay milestone... i'm pretty sure i got CRUISED for the first time. i was going past this young latin guy, i checked him out as i went past and he was like "hey!..... can u give me a ride?" and i was just kind of like "lol whut" like u are cute and all but no, and kept riding... and two more times as i crossed the bridge he was like "hey!". i thought about turning and going back for him but ugh i wish i wasn't such a damned prude cause i should be having sex with a hot guy right now
― bernard goony (The Reverend), Monday, 30 August 2010 10:51 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah I think I would be too surprised to act accordingly and not answer with a nervous laugh.
― glutinous maximus (corey), Monday, 30 August 2010 13:50 (thirteen years ago) link
skeezy gay christian muscle bro roommate
wait a minute....
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Monday, 30 August 2010 14:17 (thirteen years ago) link
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LEX!
― christopher dullan (Tape Store), Monday, 30 August 2010 14:19 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah i wanna know about that guy's deal
HB lex!
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Monday, 30 August 2010 14:41 (thirteen years ago) link
all you really need to know about him are the three letters "dnw". he's 30, divorced, and boring. his 20-yo homebody boy toy that he supports also lives here, along w/ a few other people. i usually stick to conversing w/ them.
― bernard goony (The Reverend), Monday, 30 August 2010 15:42 (thirteen years ago) link
oh and both of them are like, fantasy geeks btw. gcmb often listens to and sometimes makes shitty trance music.
― bernard goony (The Reverend), Monday, 30 August 2010 15:44 (thirteen years ago) link
hooray i have a laptop again (thanks dad)
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:09 (thirteen years ago) link
yay for awesome parents
― The Cyrkle Jyrkes (corey), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:13 (thirteen years ago) link
Wheee lex! I hope you find the perfect outfit and go nuts in it
― don't hate the playa, hate the del carmen (Stevie D), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:19 (thirteen years ago) link
happy bday lex!
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:26 (thirteen years ago) link
in other matters, can i ask any of you in relationships some questions?
1) was there a point around the 4 month mark where stuff got really weird?
2) if you're 'open,' did you ever feel an intense jealousy over yr partner being with someone else, even if it was in a...um...professional capacity? (m4tt's been doing p0rn shoots)
3) if you're still their primary partner— the person they sleep with the most, and enjoy being with the most— but they need more 'breathing room,' what the fuck does that mean?
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:29 (thirteen years ago) link
~ 4 month is definitely weird. it's just adjusting to what each of you wants.
~ jealousy is completely natural and it is good that you desire him so. just make sure you both understand rules.
~ as i suggested before, "breathing room" means that he wants you for exactly what he wants you for, and doesn't need to feel all the pressure that can come with something more binding.
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:38 (thirteen years ago) link
1) seems to be a common feature of most relationships in my experience (ie 3-4 months is the point where you're like 'is this just a fun fling or something more?') - i'm guessing the "weirdness" has no small thing to do with your 2) and 3), neither of which i have much experience with
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:38 (thirteen years ago) link
"breathing room" is such a guy thing
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:40 (thirteen years ago) link
might be a really good time for you to start thinking about exactly what YOU want. not an issue you can bring to resolution overnight, obviously, but it's worth thinking about it, in terms of how hard you are willing to go for this guy.
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:46 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah. i mean, i think you're right re: breathing room.
i'm willing to go hard for him. but i also don't want to alienate him by going too hard. you know?
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:51 (thirteen years ago) link
i totally know. you don't have to be aggro about it. just like, be there. and if you believe in what you have with him, it will work itself out. sounds like you 2 gravitate towards each other naturally anyway. i guess he just wants his options for the time being.
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:01 (thirteen years ago) link
but i mean, from the way you describe things, it def sounds like he *needs* you in his life in certain ways. don't forget that.
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:03 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, i think he just is also feeling the 'i'm turning 28' thing, and is just feeling really introspective...
and yeah, he definitely needs me in certain ways....we balance each other really well.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:05 (thirteen years ago) link
oh r4mzi, what would i do w/o your support and reassurance? you rule. thanks.
and now, off to work...!
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:06 (thirteen years ago) link
:D i'm excited for you!!
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:08 (thirteen years ago) link
thx for bday wishes. i played a dj set on sat at my friends' night, only got home on sun afternoon. and consequently for the third year in a row, i'm spending my actual bday battling through annoying work while feeling gross.
this was my set btw -
Royal P - Between UsS.Chu - Tribal WidowGatekeeper - ForgottenKingdom - That MysticWe Love - Escape DestinationTori Amos - Riot PoofAaliyah - Rock The Boat (Ill Blu Remix)Magic Touch Productions - HipsTrina ft. Ludacris - B R RightDJ Nate - PoetryErick Rincón - Manos Arriba 2.0Bobby Brown - 2 Can Play That Game (K-Klass Remix)Azari & III - Reckless (With Your Love) (Tensnake Remix)Madonna - Burning UpDJ Naughty - Love LockdownDennis Ferrer ft. Mia Tuttavilla - Touched The Sky (Quentin Harris Re-Production)Nina Sky - Love Song
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:49 (thirteen years ago) link
happy happy
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:52 (thirteen years ago) link
hb lex
Rev, I'm sure you've been cruised before, maybe you were just oblivious to it.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:58 (thirteen years ago) link
happy birthday lexy
― J0rdan S., Monday, 30 August 2010 19:57 (thirteen years ago) link
HB Lex!
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 30 August 2010 21:22 (thirteen years ago) link
hahahappy birthday Lex! xxx
― jed_, Monday, 30 August 2010 21:24 (thirteen years ago) link
I like the mix, lex.
― Eric H., Monday, 30 August 2010 21:48 (thirteen years ago) link
happy birthday, lex!! Because
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rClJ0PqCCQ
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 August 2010 21:56 (thirteen years ago) link
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, August 30, 2010 10:58 AM Suggest Ban PermalinkBookmark
ha, as little as i tend to go out at night, you are probably wrong :/
― bernard goony (The Reverend), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 00:38 (thirteen years ago) link
cruising happens at all hours
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 02:06 (thirteen years ago) link
what happened to the lesbians?
― Latham Green, Tuesday, 31 August 2010 02:36 (thirteen years ago) link
omg who are you
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 03:04 (thirteen years ago) link
I cruise during daylight bcz I can see better.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 04:54 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't rly know how to cruise but sometimes I give smirky glances at rly hot dudes at work or on the street or whatever.
― don't hate the playa, hate the del carmen (Stevie D), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 05:16 (thirteen years ago) link
i did the glancing thing on the PATH tonight
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 05:17 (thirteen years ago) link
I should start winking "I want to fuck you" in Morse code.
― The Cyrkle Jyrkes (corey), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 05:50 (thirteen years ago) link
But no one knows Morse code. ;_;
― The Cyrkle Jyrkes (corey), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 05:51 (thirteen years ago) link
i always get cruised at the most annoying times, like when i'm late or just tired and frazzled. or, by dudes who are fine but not my type.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 08:31 (thirteen years ago) link
so uh
http://popwatch.ew.com/2010/08/31/logo-a-list-new-york-trailer/
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 20:49 (thirteen years ago) link
gayz, i am an expert at moving and packing. it just took me less that 2 and 1/2 hours to pack up all of my shit.
that said, i am most looking forward to eating pizza and drinking beer tomorrow after it's all done.
and now, off to the lake to meet m4tt and drink beer. so nice in oakland today.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 22:18 (thirteen years ago) link
Yay I think I have a date this week
― Lardo Calrissian (corey), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 22:33 (thirteen years ago) link
pizza and beer sounds so nice
but i'm on a diet
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 04:29 (thirteen years ago) link
so mangos and salads sound so nice
yum mangos and salads
i seriously have never been this heavy b4 i feel like a man
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 04:30 (thirteen years ago) link
I BET you do
― don't hate the playa, hate the del carmen (Stevie D), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 04:35 (thirteen years ago) link
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 04:43 (thirteen years ago) link
hilarious lesbian drama is hilarious.
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 13:48 (thirteen years ago) link
which is what i saw, last night, out at the bar with my bi-lady friend, who was aggressively pursued by her coworker (and former ms l3sbian rhode island iirc). spiky bleached anime hair and cargo shorts (which she "accidentally" dropped at one point). when another friend of ours tried to run interference, she was told to "back off, cuz she's going home with me." it was all very silly.
and today i have the gang over. booo.
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 13:58 (thirteen years ago) link
so there is a redheads-and-their-admirers party at the Nowhere bar tonight... called Fire In the Hole.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 14:30 (thirteen years ago) link
happy birthday, Alex!
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 14:33 (thirteen years ago) link
hb A!
I am unsurprised that the guy I shoved my card at last week hasn't gotten in touch.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 15:07 (thirteen years ago) link
You sure you didn't shove a nob at him?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 15:09 (thirteen years ago) link
I had that
so there is a redheads-and-their-admirers party at the Nowhere bar tonight... called Fire In the Hole. --kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius)
Dammit! if it didn't take me 4 hours to get to NYC I would so be attending this
― don't hate the playa, hate the del carmen (Stevie D), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 15:24 (thirteen years ago) link
$1 shirtless beers :/
I am told I'm strawberry blond, not red. But if I get it cut short I have orange spots in the back.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 15:33 (thirteen years ago) link
Happy birthday Alexander
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 1 September 2010 17:26 (thirteen years ago) link
Happy birthday, Alex. And happy belated bday to lex. Love you guys!
― big jeans (lou), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 17:55 (thirteen years ago) link
HBD! meow meow!
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 17:59 (thirteen years ago) link
Aw, thanks guys! Too busy learning about the legal implications of wandering chickens and Second Life property rights to party today (first day of law school was weird, iirc) but lots of cute guys, so it's all good.
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 23:30 (thirteen years ago) link
this photo owns! (kid is the gay dude in glee who is gay irl, for those who don't know)
http://www.rollingstone.com/files/content/mounts/sambamount/images/CULTURE/GALLERY/2010/Fall_Television/004_chris_colfer.jpg
― "bubbling" pictures for mormon approved j0hn (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 2 September 2010 08:36 (thirteen years ago) link
haaaaaaa
― bernard goony (The Reverend), Thursday, 2 September 2010 09:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Steve D, did you get Sunday off or not?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 2 September 2010 13:01 (thirteen years ago) link
That lucky bastard.
Morbs I tries and I prayed and I begged but no one can switch. :/
― don't hate the playa, hate the del carmen (Stevie D), Thursday, 2 September 2010 14:13 (thirteen years ago) link
k. Maybe we can still do the Nwk Bears this month.
A very fit friend (he looks good in spandex) is going to the gay superhero theme party this Saturday. As Superboy.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 2 September 2010 14:28 (thirteen years ago) link
mmm, good date was good.
― how girl get dragnet (corey), Friday, 3 September 2010 13:44 (thirteen years ago) link
Details, corey!
I'm going to Key West tomorrow morning for the first time since 1986. Lots of change, I hear.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 3 September 2010 13:44 (thirteen years ago) link
We went to this restaurant that specializes in organic/locally grown stuff, had a few drinks, chatted over the meal, then went back to his apartment and watched some tv, cuddled and had really great sex. He was super sweet and even made sure I messaged him when I got home safely. I think he wants to see me again. :)
― how girl get dragnet (corey), Friday, 3 September 2010 13:55 (thirteen years ago) link
happy labor day weekend, u gay ppl
headed on out of town for the long weekend to northampton, ma for a anniversary getaway (3 years!). not sure exactly what to do up there but nice to get away
whiling away the afternoon until i can leave, tweeting back & forth w/ pornstar c0lby k3ller lol
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Friday, 3 September 2010 19:19 (thirteen years ago) link
3 years wow, congrats
― optimizing the emotional effects of Redneck Hoe by Insane Clown Posse (corey), Friday, 3 September 2010 21:43 (thirteen years ago) link
Is it too soon for a Fall thread?
― optimizing the emotional effects of Redneck Hoe by Insane Clown Posse (corey), Friday, 3 September 2010 21:46 (thirteen years ago) link
sounds like a time, corey :)
i am doing nothing at all for labor day (as befitting someone who currently doesn't have labor of any sort at the moment)
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Friday, 3 September 2010 23:27 (thirteen years ago) link
― how girl get dragnet (corey), Friday, 3 September 2010 13:55 (Yesterday)
i thought u were a 1 beer queer
― janice (surm), Saturday, 4 September 2010 00:17 (thirteen years ago) link
yes, it IS too soon for a fall thread bcz I haven't posted a shirtless pic yet.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 4 September 2010 00:19 (thirteen years ago) link
And never will apparently!
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 4 September 2010 00:31 (thirteen years ago) link
I may be shirtless around ppl w/ phones this weekend.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 4 September 2010 00:33 (thirteen years ago) link
xps That's all I had! :D
― optimizing the emotional effects of Redneck Hoe by Insane Clown Posse (corey), Saturday, 4 September 2010 01:38 (thirteen years ago) link
― janice (surm), Saturday, 4 September 2010 02:51 (thirteen years ago) link
fun night so far- we went to my friend's 30th birthday party and his band played and very cute gayboy in town is also in his band on synth and guitar and for the second song he took off all his clothes to reveal . . an adult diaper. But he was so hot that it actually wasn't repellent but weirdly captivating (i know, AB/DF is gross, but trust me, on this boy it was not a problem)
Also: my boyfriend gave the birthday boy 30 whacks bent over bf's lap on his bare ass as we convinced him (blonde, smooth, Swedish, and superdrunk) that this was a normal American custom- pics are coming . . .
― the tune is space, Saturday, 4 September 2010 03:45 (thirteen years ago) link
More like RUD3 d4ni3l!
― don't hate the playa, hate the del carmen (Stevie D), Saturday, 4 September 2010 05:21 (thirteen years ago) link
ok, got a kiss goodnight from both Bikeman and Semi-Hot Mess from the other night... too much and not enough.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 4 September 2010 10:31 (thirteen years ago) link
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4108/4957385335_212188dc1f.jpgparty on dudes
― the tune is space, Saturday, 4 September 2010 19:27 (thirteen years ago) link
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4130/4957385327_a8365cd8ba.jpgearlier that night
― the tune is space, Saturday, 4 September 2010 19:28 (thirteen years ago) link
how do i get invited to these parties?
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Saturday, 4 September 2010 19:30 (thirteen years ago) link
if it's good enough for garry shider
― unfinested display names I have loved (The Reverend), Saturday, 4 September 2010 19:36 (thirteen years ago) link
note the adult diapers in that pic up there
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Saturday, 4 September 2010 20:53 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, that was an xp to that
― unfinested display names I have loved (The Reverend), Saturday, 4 September 2010 20:57 (thirteen years ago) link
C:\Users\Bill\Desktop\shirtless.jpg
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 5 September 2010 09:45 (thirteen years ago) link
fuck, that didn't work.
i give up, how do you post photos? The motherfucking FAQ used to be more informative on this.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 5 September 2010 09:48 (thirteen years ago) link
you gotta put it on the internet first. sign up for a photo hosting doodad like flickr. google has picasa, if u already have a gmail account it's easy and fast and you don't have to "sign up" for another thing. then u upload your photo or "add" it to the doodad. then it should give you a link to it, like a url. and then you can post it here. <3
― C:\Users\Bill\Desktop\shirtless.jpg (Matt P), Sunday, 5 September 2010 14:56 (thirteen years ago) link
btw i just couldn't pass up the display name opportunity.
― C:\Users\Bill\Desktop\shirtless.jpg (Matt P), Sunday, 5 September 2010 14:58 (thirteen years ago) link
:D :D
― optimizing the emotional effects of Redneck Hoe by Insane Clown Posse (corey), Sunday, 5 September 2010 15:02 (thirteen years ago) link
followup to party pics: so after we left the party around midnight, diaper-boy, who had already shoved his faced into the cake and ruined it for everyone, convinced all the people at the party- mostly these girls from Sweden who were visiting their friend, it was mixed boy/girl and gay/straight but mostly straight party- to all take off their clothes and wear adult diapers like him. Then, predictably enough, they all just decided to take off their diapers completely and it became a naked party. Why did we leave early? Sigh . . .
― the tune is space, Sunday, 5 September 2010 15:04 (thirteen years ago) link
Part of me wishes I could go to parties like that, the other part knows that I would probably just be too nervous to have any fun. :\
― optimizing the emotional effects of Redneck Hoe by Insane Clown Posse (corey), Sunday, 5 September 2010 15:36 (thirteen years ago) link
well, it's so much easier for girls to take off all their clothes. Like, if I had been around that cute guy that I'm kind of sweating and we were all naked and drunk together, I'd probably throw a rod and be totally embarrassed about it.
― the tune is space, Sunday, 5 September 2010 15:56 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, my dick is like a sentient being that doesn't take instruction well. I could never be in a nudist group (unless they were into playing ring toss).
― optimizing the emotional effects of Redneck Hoe by Insane Clown Posse (corey), Sunday, 5 September 2010 15:58 (thirteen years ago) link
i've always managed to stay unboned when i've been in nude baths, but those were situations when i've just gone to ~relax~ and not get any
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Sunday, 5 September 2010 16:00 (thirteen years ago) link
putting pics on internet, so not worth it
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 5 September 2010 16:21 (thirteen years ago) link
so superhero fetish party was kinda lame, tho my pal looked great. Too many wrestling singlets.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 5 September 2010 16:22 (thirteen years ago) link
drew u are holding a cigarette in that pic
― janice (surm), Sunday, 5 September 2010 16:24 (thirteen years ago) link
also drew i love u still, and if u ever want to take me to a party i'll be there. i'll wear a cute outfit.
― janice (surm), Sunday, 5 September 2010 16:25 (thirteen years ago) link
so wait, did u and ur bf put on diapers? but u left before u got nekkid? wd u have?
― janice (surm), Sunday, 5 September 2010 16:26 (thirteen years ago) link
morbs u can send it to me and i can host it on my flickr if u want
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Sunday, 5 September 2010 16:32 (thirteen years ago) link
I am attending the Philly Naked Bike Ride in a few hours, I am hoping I can stay in control
― don't hate the playa, hate the del carmen (Stevie D), Sunday, 5 September 2010 17:05 (thirteen years ago) link
i'll look for photos of you on blogs
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 5 September 2010 17:06 (thirteen years ago) link
― janice (surm), Sunday, 5 September 2010 17:45 (thirteen years ago) link
haha
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 5 September 2010 17:48 (thirteen years ago) link
i assumed attending doesnt mean riding?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 5 September 2010 17:58 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh no, I am definitely riding, albeit with briefs. Cute ones, of course.
― don't hate the playa, hate the del carmen (Stevie D), Sunday, 5 September 2010 20:14 (thirteen years ago) link
oh. well that doesn't count.
― janice (surm), Sunday, 5 September 2010 20:50 (thirteen years ago) link
Omg you guys
― I JUST NEED TO SING "CRAZY FOR YOU" TO KNOW HOW MY HEART FEELS (Stevie D), Monday, 6 September 2010 00:23 (thirteen years ago) link
hi, stevie!
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 6 September 2010 00:25 (thirteen years ago) link
I spent Saturday in Key West -- swam, got a nice tan, ate great seafood. I must have been the only gay man on the island though. Maybe the locals lock the doors on long weekends?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 6 September 2010 00:26 (thirteen years ago) link
I am here waiting for a message from my date the other night. We're supposed to meet up tonight.
― optimizing the emotional effects of Redneck Hoe by Insane Clown Posse (corey), Monday, 6 September 2010 04:40 (thirteen years ago) link
Naked bike ride was soooo much fun. Well over a thousand people. Also saw erol alkan and boys noize last night which was p amazing as well
― I JUST NEED TO SING "CRAZY FOR YOU" TO KNOW HOW MY HEART FEELS (Stevie D), Monday, 6 September 2010 16:10 (thirteen years ago) link
mega-fuckin-lols at the DN, stevie
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Monday, 6 September 2010 18:25 (thirteen years ago) link
xpost-
aw surm we should party sometime
and yes I am holding a cigarette- I don't smoke, but i have a new policy in my crusade to help my boyfriend quit smoking- the new rule is, if he gets to smoke then I do too- and he *hates* seeing me smoke- so everytime his willpower crumbles and he starts to smoke, there I am right there with him smoking, and it usually prompts him to throw away his cigarettes in "what was I thinking?" kind of gesture.
now that I've blathered on, let me ask y'all if you think this might help him quit . Is this:
1) helpful aversion therapy that reinforces his resolve to quit2) just weird 3) not likely to work4) mean and torturing somebody who's already struggling with something
or some combination of 2 and 3 or 4?
The deal: he's generally on the patch, but he's been on the patch for 15 years and now when he drinks he winds up taking off the patch and smoking too, and he says he hates that he does that and wants to stop . . .
don't make this a poll, just weigh in as you see fit
― the tune is space, Monday, 6 September 2010 19:14 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm leaning toward 3? but I am not licensed.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 6 September 2010 19:56 (thirteen years ago) link
i think it's a good strategy as long u don't cave in with him ;)
― janice (surm), Monday, 6 September 2010 20:21 (thirteen years ago) link
(and like go fully out of control)
― janice (surm), Monday, 6 September 2010 20:22 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, the risk is that I get hooked while trying to teach somebody else a lesson- but I find cigarettes so nauseating/gross that I don't think it's going to happen- he knows it makes me wanna hurl
― the tune is space, Monday, 6 September 2010 23:15 (thirteen years ago) link
― janice (surm), Monday, 6 September 2010 23:55 (thirteen years ago) link
can we see a picture of your boyf?
― janice (surm), Monday, September 6, 2010 7:55 PM (25 minutes ago) Bookmark
Actually ramz if you want to grab a drink or something soon I have this one magazine from a few years ago....
― I JUST NEED TO SING "CRAZY FOR YOU" TO KNOW HOW MY HEART FEELS (Stevie D), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 00:21 (thirteen years ago) link
riiight, didn't realize y'all were together! d'oh have to catch up on my reading
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 00:27 (thirteen years ago) link
Key West foto:
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f308/sotoalf/47462_462381545742_642590742_7096899_1035185_n.jpg
I'm in the middle.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 00:31 (thirteen years ago) link
the beard def looks good with the tan!
― jed_, Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:14 (thirteen years ago) link
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/53724388@N02/4968945153/" title="shirtless2 by drmorbz, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4129/4968945153_fee363cb31.jpg" width="375" height="500" alt="shirtless2" /></a>
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:31 (thirteen years ago) link
[Removed Illegal Image]
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:32 (thirteen years ago) link
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKK
WHERE IS THE VERY CONVENIENT PAGE THAT USED TO TELL YOU HOW TO POST PICTURES?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:33 (thirteen years ago) link
Morbs, flickr should have an option that allows you to post URL's.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:33 (thirteen years ago) link
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4129/4968945153_fee363cb31.jpgshirtless2 by drmorbz, on Flickr
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:34 (thirteen years ago) link
there we go!
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:35 (thirteen years ago) link
i love u
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:35 (thirteen years ago) link
and they even threw in a link for a page I will never use again.
You may all put on your shirts now.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:36 (thirteen years ago) link
YES
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:37 (thirteen years ago) link
THE TRIFORCE IS COMPLETE
http://www.geeky-gadgets.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/triforce-cutting-board_3.jpg
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:37 (thirteen years ago) link
shirts are back
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:38 (thirteen years ago) link
lock thread
― whyte mayne (corey), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:39 (thirteen years ago) link
work it Morbz
it's true, with the removal of the last remaining shirt this thread has reached its alpha and omega and fall is here
― the tune is space, Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:50 (thirteen years ago) link
Really? Are we all present and accounted for?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:51 (thirteen years ago) link
There is another. :)
― big jeans (lou), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:53 (thirteen years ago) link
Do it, and we can close this.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:54 (thirteen years ago) link
Not me! haha
― big jeans (lou), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:55 (thirteen years ago) link
uh, i most definitely remember lou's
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:55 (thirteen years ago) link
Lou you can post shirtless photos as often as you need to.
― whyte mayne (corey), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:56 (thirteen years ago) link
I say this as someone who saw the last one you posted.
so for fall can we all pose in our favorite autumn sweaters?
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:59 (thirteen years ago) link
or wrapped in afghans
while hoisting sheep or dogs
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 00:59 (thirteen years ago) link
my black hoodie is going to be omnipresent in my photos come fall
― whyte mayne (corey), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 01:00 (thirteen years ago) link
SWEATER QUEENS UNITE!
― the tune is space, Wednesday, 8 September 2010 01:03 (thirteen years ago) link
^^gotta be new thread title
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 01:08 (thirteen years ago) link
Trying hard to remember who didn't doff the shirt this season.
― Eric H., Wednesday, 8 September 2010 03:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh and big thumbs up Morbs. Way to steal the closing spot!
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g192/rrawn/shirtless.jpghttp://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g192/rrawn/shirtless.jpg
didn't wanna be the only one
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 04:00 (thirteen years ago) link
!? http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g192/rrawn/shirtless.jpg
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 04:03 (thirteen years ago) link
o_o
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 8 September 2010 04:07 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh hell yeah.
― kenan, Wednesday, 8 September 2010 04:09 (thirteen years ago) link
it's ON
― the tune is space, Wednesday, 8 September 2010 05:05 (thirteen years ago) link
only if you dance back
― kenan, Wednesday, 8 September 2010 06:12 (thirteen years ago) link
dude
― christopher dullan (Tape Store), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 06:15 (thirteen years ago) link
hair!
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 8 September 2010 06:23 (thirteen years ago) link
chest-phoenix!
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 06:38 (thirteen years ago) link
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 11:18 (thirteen years ago) link
R@mzi, come down here and I'll get you a tan.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 11:27 (thirteen years ago) link
Alfred, stop trying to sow melanoma.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 15:34 (thirteen years ago) link
xp lol.
guys, i've settled into my new place. also, this past sunday, i saw CHAKA KHAN at Oakland Pride. totally epic: everyone from 75 year old african american grandmas to young latino twinks SINGING ALONG and just JAMMING OUT SO HARD. it was the closest to a religious experience i've had in a while. made me really...uh...proud to live in Oakland?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=81QDKnV36TE
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 19:35 (thirteen years ago) link
hi
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 19:38 (thirteen years ago) link
herro
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 19:46 (thirteen years ago) link
haaay
― big jeans (lou), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 19:52 (thirteen years ago) link
oh hello there
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 19:54 (thirteen years ago) link
Khan is God.
― Eric H., Wednesday, 8 September 2010 20:04 (thirteen years ago) link
lucky bastard. we got blake lewis.
― rock n roll individual (The Reverend), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 22:14 (thirteen years ago) link
Hmm. Looks like we had Inaya Day this year. lol
― big jeans (lou), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 22:28 (thirteen years ago) link
We had the Village fucking People. I win/lose.
― Eric H., Thursday, 9 September 2010 02:43 (thirteen years ago) link
I saw the Mets beat the Twins on NY Pride Day.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 September 2010 02:48 (thirteen years ago) link
my friend m4rk wrote about the superhero-themed spandex party we went to:
http://www.markallencam.com/?p=351
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 September 2010 03:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Here is my gift to gay ilx for the day:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNZaZqfrrmI
Okay, I don't know for a fact that Eli is gay but I have taken classes with him and I'd be very very surprised if he is not. (No, I do not dance anywhere near as well as he does, needless to say.) The first same-sex partners to win this competition, and the first out of state couple as well.
― _Rudipherous_, Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:16 (thirteen years ago) link
Which one is Eli? The one with spangles or the other one with spangles?
― Eric H., Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:27 (thirteen years ago) link
The follower.
― _Rudipherous_, Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:28 (thirteen years ago) link
The follower: http://www.elitorresdance.com/
― _Rudipherous_, Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Yo guys so a few ppl on Grindr have actually asked me if I bb or play safe, and I'm just like WAT????? Like, are there ACTUALLY people who go around making a conscious decision to bareback???? I though it was just some fucking stupid thing people did in the heat of the moment/on meth/etc, and not some sort of thing that they, like, EMBRACE. Do they already have STDs, or do they just not care, or do they think that STDs somehow don't apply to them? I'm just so confused and dumbfounded.
― I JUST NEED TO SING "CRAZY FOR YOU" TO KNOW HOW MY HEART FEELS (Stevie D), Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:34 (thirteen years ago) link
BB is soooo much more commonplace than most would think imo.
― Eric H., Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:37 (thirteen years ago) link
(And, yes, that dancer has fantastic spins.)
― Eric H., Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:38 (thirteen years ago) link
Not that it makes it any more excusable, but I can at least understand how if two people were drunk and really wanted to fuck but didn't have condoms, that they would just do it anyway. But to soberly go into these situations expecting to bareback just doesn't make sense to me. At all.
― I JUST NEED TO SING "CRAZY FOR YOU" TO KNOW HOW MY HEART FEELS (Stevie D), Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:40 (thirteen years ago) link
um, not to be TMI, but i BB all the time. but only with people i know really well. like, m4tt and i have never used condoms.
anyway.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:44 (thirteen years ago) link
I mean what scares me the most is not only people lying about it but also not even knowing. I mean if I was in some sort of situation where a person I was regularly having sex with was only having sex with me, and we both got tested, I'd be pretty OK with it
― I JUST NEED TO SING "CRAZY FOR YOU" TO KNOW HOW MY HEART FEELS (Stevie D), Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:46 (thirteen years ago) link
Whoops didn't mean to post that twice.
― _Rudipherous_, Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:47 (thirteen years ago) link
I've read about barebacking being, like, an actual gay subculture, possibly with some horribly dumb "political" "reasons" underlying it; those people need to stay the fuck away from me.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:49 (thirteen years ago) link
Saturday August 28, 2010CURIOSITIES OF YOUTUBE, Pt.6
The friendship between MARC JACOBS and SONIC YOUTH is a highly visible one: KIM GORDON is usually front row at his shows, THURSTON MOORE has appeared in MARC JACOBS advertising, and the band performed KOOL THING at the designer’s fall 2008 show, the one that has gone down in legend for starting dead on time, causing most of the invited audience to miss the presentation. First flowering of this friendship can be seen by watching the video for SUGAR KANE, which features a fashion show by MARC JACOBS at PERRY ELLIS, the label for which he created the infamous grunge collection which got him the sack, but which solidified his reputation. It is best to watch this video in full screen, as otherwise the image is a touch small.
Reader Mr. 5T3V3 D01N4CK suggested it is also worth watching the videoclip that accompanies “How to Do That”, a song from the little-known dance album called AOW TOU DOU ZAT that JEAN PAUL GAULTIER released in 1989
http://www.fantasticman.com/recommendations/curiosities-of-youtube-pt-6/
― jed_, Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:52 (thirteen years ago) link
OH MY GOD OH MY GOD
― I JUST NEED TO SING "CRAZY FOR YOU" TO KNOW HOW MY HEART FEELS (Stevie D), Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:54 (thirteen years ago) link
i mean, in terms of the BB thing, it's not any sort of political stance or anything, in my case at least. it's more that condoms suck, and if i'm with a person i know really well and know FOR A FACT isn't poz, then i'm gonna let them do me without a rubber.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:57 (thirteen years ago) link
I presume BB isn't anywhere near as scary if you're a top, et al.
― Eric H., Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:57 (thirteen years ago) link
oh uh ps could that be googleproofed?
― I JUST NEED TO SING "CRAZY FOR YOU" TO KNOW HOW MY HEART FEELS (Stevie D), Saturday, 11 September 2010 18:59 (thirteen years ago) link
why?
i can't see what liking someone has to do with the decision to bareback with them. and how can you know for a fact that yr negative if yr sexually active and in the habit of fucking without condoms as long as you "like" the guy?
― jed_, Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:07 (thirteen years ago) link
- i get tested every fucking month, dude.- i bb with m4tt and m4tt only, as of may.- it's not like i'm getting banged by lots of dudes all the time. my ass ain't a shooting gallery. i'm talking, like, four people in the past 8 months, all of them good friends. so get off my fucking back.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:15 (thirteen years ago) link
is it bare?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:17 (thirteen years ago) link
so get off my fucking back.
or at least put a condom on
― J0rdan S., Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:18 (thirteen years ago) link
tabes, why are you so hostile all the time? He asked a honest question after you posted, "um, not to be TMI, but i BB all the time." You haven't provided all the info the first time.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:18 (thirteen years ago) link
i was hostile because he was hostile. i'm also in a crabby mood, sorry dudes.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:20 (thirteen years ago) link
― =^. .^= (corey), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:22 (thirteen years ago) link
thanks alfred.
personally, if i didn't have a condom i would just not have anal sex. i'm not that fussed about it though.
― jed_, Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:23 (thirteen years ago) link
and i'm not hostile all the time. notice that i joyfully expound the greatness of Chaka Khan upthread.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:23 (thirteen years ago) link
and jed, sorry, i just get really defensive about that sort of thing. no bad feelings.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:25 (thirteen years ago) link
xxp I'm in the same boat. I mean it's nice and all but there are plennnnnty of other things one can do...
― I JUST NEED TO SING "CRAZY FOR YOU" TO KNOW HOW MY HEART FEELS (Stevie D), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:26 (thirteen years ago) link
it's cool, maybe i was a little hostile. once a month getting tested is a lot.
― jed_, Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:27 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah! luckily it's free.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:29 (thirteen years ago) link
Not much gay-relevant news, but I think I have a boyfriend now?
― =^. .^= (corey), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:33 (thirteen years ago) link
would be my first one
pics!
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:33 (thirteen years ago) link
or u don't have to, i'm just interested in what the lucky man looks like cuz i'm into that sort of thing.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:34 (thirteen years ago) link
great news, corey!
― jed_, Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:35 (thirteen years ago) link
also, HEY DONNA ROUGE, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T9BPlLDtnAI
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:37 (thirteen years ago) link
xps There are literally no photos of him online. He's kind of a luddite. He does translation for a German company and writes articles for contemporary music review magazines.
― =^. .^= (corey), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:39 (thirteen years ago) link
COORREEYY!! WHEEE!! I am so so happy for you!!
― I JUST NEED TO SING "CRAZY FOR YOU" TO KNOW HOW MY HEART FEELS (Stevie D), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:40 (thirteen years ago) link
― =^. .^= (corey), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:41 (thirteen years ago) link
I am like sort of "seeing" this one guy but he is, uh, a bit older than me and it's not really a bf type thing.
I wish I had a bf type thing :/
― I JUST NEED TO SING "CRAZY FOR YOU" TO KNOW HOW MY HEART FEELS (Stevie D), Saturday, 11 September 2010 19:46 (thirteen years ago) link
Very happy for you, corey. See how quickly things turn around?
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 11 September 2010 20:09 (thirteen years ago) link
I know! Now all that needs to happen is I get hired at a new job and start school.
http://i.ytimg.com/vi/t7z192I-mQM/0.jpg
― =^. .^= (corey), Saturday, 11 September 2010 20:31 (thirteen years ago) link
azzfucking generally bores me.
but more importantly, happy birthday, donna r!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 11 September 2010 20:35 (thirteen years ago) link
in other news, i have lots of bleach in my hair right now. and later i'm getting a haircut, so short-haired blonde me will post pics soon.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Saturday, 11 September 2010 20:52 (thirteen years ago) link
Azzfucking is great. I'm to the point where it's hard for me to come without something in my butt.
― =^. .^= (corey), Saturday, 11 September 2010 20:53 (thirteen years ago) link
maybe tmi, ah well.
― =^. .^= (corey), Saturday, 11 September 2010 20:55 (thirteen years ago) link
ahem, cosign you there.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Saturday, 11 September 2010 21:18 (thirteen years ago) link
pull up to the bumper baby
― C:\Users\Bill\Desktop\shirtless.jpg (Matt P), Saturday, 11 September 2010 22:41 (thirteen years ago) link
I really don't see the harm in barebacking with a committed partner if you've taken the proper steps, which it sounds like Tabes has done. Not that I've ever been in such a situation.
― dayo reckoning (The Reverend), Sunday, 12 September 2010 01:16 (thirteen years ago) link
Hi, gays. Just got really good head from an ex. It helped that he drank Glenmorangie.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 12 September 2010 03:07 (thirteen years ago) link
:) 0:) :o :D ;)
― I guess you might say it was a "duck blur"! (corey), Sunday, 12 September 2010 03:37 (thirteen years ago) link
Thx for bday wishes guys!! Between the two of us Morbs and I sang about seven songs! (ok he only did two but still)
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Sunday, 12 September 2010 07:29 (thirteen years ago) link
happy birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
― christopher dullan (Tape Store), Sunday, 12 September 2010 07:33 (thirteen years ago) link
don't ever follow dr's version of "Mr Brightside," even w/ Tom Jones
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 12 September 2010 14:35 (thirteen years ago) link
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs653.snc4/61321_549132836274_4302681_32039253_2765989_n.jpg
yesterday, new hair, pre-party. if you saw what i looked like now...whew.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Sunday, 12 September 2010 20:03 (thirteen years ago) link
you look 'bout 16 there [/jailbait]
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 12 September 2010 20:06 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, i know. i was going for the SUPERQUEERTWINK look, tbqh.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Sunday, 12 September 2010 20:15 (thirteen years ago) link
hey. it's cold out today for the first time in a while.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 13 September 2010 17:06 (thirteen years ago) link
as in, hey, fall thread? can we start it?
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 13 September 2010 17:09 (thirteen years ago) link
In one week!
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 13 September 2010 17:18 (thirteen years ago) link
There better be so much shirtlessness in the next seven days.
― Eric H., Monday, 13 September 2010 17:19 (thirteen years ago) link
okay, if we're doing it technical, i'm gonna go on about something:
PROCESS PARK PART IVm4tt's been kind of reclusive, not out of any thing with me, just generally. so anyway, we talked yesterday and it seems like we both sort of jumped the gun in terms of classifying our relationship or whatever. so, we finally came to this understanding that we're not an 'item,' that we're close close friends who sleep with each other and enjoy each other's presences both socially and sexually.
which is fine with me. i've talked about some of his problems of the past year here before, so i understand needing some distance. if i had lost someone and become so distraught that i tried to off myself, i'd definitely feel the way he feels.
also, yesterday, i had this sort of epiphanic moment where i was like, 'right, i can have sex with other people, that's awesome!' and feel pretty good right now.
all of this said, he came over last night and we watched Airplane!, drank hot toddies, and cuddled each other to sleep.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 13 September 2010 17:26 (thirteen years ago) link
also, se4n and i kissed a little and had a really long, weird embrace on saturday night. and we're hanging out later this week. no expectations, but i'm excited that that's coming around again.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 13 September 2010 17:29 (thirteen years ago) link
herro.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 13 September 2010 20:11 (thirteen years ago) link
guys
i have a huge crush on a girl
― banaka socka flame (J0rdan S.), Monday, 13 September 2010 20:15 (thirteen years ago) link
NOOOOOOO
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 13 September 2010 20:16 (thirteen years ago) link
or i mean that's okay, but, uh...
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 13 September 2010 20:17 (thirteen years ago) link
it's just a phase! or if not, more for us.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 13 September 2010 20:19 (thirteen years ago) link
i don't even know her name nor have i talked to her... but she's seriously beautiful
she's looks like erykah badu
idk, i just like to stare at her
― banaka socka flame (J0rdan S.), Monday, 13 September 2010 20:20 (thirteen years ago) link
duh i would never actually date a girl i'm just sayin
― banaka socka flame (J0rdan S.), Monday, 13 September 2010 20:21 (thirteen years ago) link
you can look at anyone
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 13 September 2010 20:25 (thirteen years ago) link
thank you, doctor
― banaka socka flame (J0rdan S.), Monday, 13 September 2010 20:26 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm an asexual.
― Eric H., Monday, 13 September 2010 20:37 (thirteen years ago) link
But I'll still comment on these threads for now.
I made out with a girl a few weeks ago. The only reason I could is because I'm queer. Hooray!
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 13 September 2010 20:44 (thirteen years ago) link
I already had a weakness for his hair, but Zac Efron is convincingly predatory in Me and Orson Welles.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 21:07 (thirteen years ago) link
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 21:21 (thirteen years ago) link
I thought so too until -- well.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 21:33 (thirteen years ago) link
http://images2.fanpop.com/image/photos/8800000/Zac-Efron-Me-And-Orson-Welles-Stills-zac-efron-8810949-585-389.jpg
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 21:34 (thirteen years ago) link
he's beautiful
― banaka socka flame (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 21:34 (thirteen years ago) link
"convincingly predatory" is o_O tho
― banaka socka flame (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 21:35 (thirteen years ago) link
he's good in the film, his looks put me to sleep.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 21:36 (thirteen years ago) link
even for "that kind of thing" i don't like his looks one bit.
― jed_, Tuesday, 14 September 2010 21:39 (thirteen years ago) link
His kind of looks usually leave me cold too, but he was shot to look like Alain Delon in places.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 21:40 (thirteen years ago) link
and Alain Delon was only effective impersonating cold assholes.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 21:41 (thirteen years ago) link
Alain Delon was effectively hotter than Zach Effluvion ... sorry for interrupting, i have strong feelings about this!
― sarahel, Tuesday, 14 September 2010 21:42 (thirteen years ago) link
yea i'm with jed. i love pretty boys. but his face just looks oddly stunted and reptilian.
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 21:43 (thirteen years ago) link
girl crushes are great, though sometimes when i stare at girls and think it's ok cuz i don't want to bone them, i forget that they don't actually know that :/
zefron - ws, i guess, but he's a bit plastic-looking. like he looks as if he's going to melt if you leave him out in the sun.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 22:05 (thirteen years ago) link
It's true: he looks like he might melt and turn into a Sandra Lee recipe -- something served with peanut butter and pork chops.
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 22:06 (thirteen years ago) link
i think i actually might have a bit of trouble believing he's a real person. iirc the rumour i heard was that he dealt with the hectic press and attention by smoking a massive zoot at the start of each day and basically going through all the ~media whirlwinds~ totally blazed? hence the glassy stare i guess.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 22:07 (thirteen years ago) link
hahahaHAHAHA true xp
duhLICIOUS
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Tuesday, 14 September 2010 22:36 (thirteen years ago) link
he was shot to look like Alain Delon in places.
U R HIGH
I'd totally do Rick Linklater tho, depite those hideous Before movies.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 15 September 2010 01:26 (thirteen years ago) link
no to efron. i'm not convinced that he is even attractive and not just merely fine-featured & symmetrical
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 15 September 2010 01:32 (thirteen years ago) link
just sayin that I think that zefron looks like the sort of boy i wanted in high school. not now.
and gays, i got another queer snob tattoo-- Arthur Rimbaud's head on my right bicep. done by the same gay who did my Wojnarowicz tat. it looks fucking AWESOME, will post pics soon.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Thursday, 16 September 2010 20:35 (thirteen years ago) link
hey guys, quick, disco, pox
trammps - trusting heartchic - good timesdonna summer - sunset peoplelalomie washburn - give me love with the musicbohannon - let's start the dancemusique - keep on jumpinsylvester - do you wanna funkcameo - find my wayeddie kendricks - date with the rainstephanie mills - sweet sensation
― C:\Users\Bill\Desktop\shirtless.jpg (Matt P), Thursday, 16 September 2010 21:00 (thirteen years ago) link
right here, right now
rose royce - is it love you're after?sister sledge - thinking of youmother's finest - dis go dis way, dis go dat waysarr band - magic mandrakel'ectrique - struck by boogie lightningbrooklyn dreams - street manfern kinney - love me tonightloose change - straight from the heartdennis parker - like an eaglesalsoul orchestra - magic bird of fire
― william buttinski's 'the disintegration snoops' (donna rouge), Thursday, 16 September 2010 21:10 (thirteen years ago) link
love that loose change track. haven't heard the rest, must request!
― C:\Users\Bill\Desktop\shirtless.jpg (Matt P), Thursday, 16 September 2010 21:16 (thirteen years ago) link
i'll rep for all of them (i mean, obv) but 'magic bird of fire' is one of the most glorious things ever committed to tape - i try to avoid youtubes here but just this once:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rPLk_QPuzs&feature=related
― william buttinski's 'the disintegration snoops' (donna rouge), Thursday, 16 September 2010 21:21 (thirteen years ago) link
:O
― C:\Users\Bill\Desktop\shirtless.jpg (Matt P), Thursday, 16 September 2010 21:27 (thirteen years ago) link
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs671.snc4/61143_549408728384_4302681_32045005_5776716_n.jpg
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Friday, 17 September 2010 01:32 (thirteen years ago) link
so, uh...i made an adam4adam account.
anyone have luck with that shiz? or is dudesnude the new vanguard?
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Friday, 17 September 2010 22:23 (thirteen years ago) link
i just joined manhunt, which is basically wallocock.jpg
― william buttinski's 'the disintegration snoops' (donna rouge), Saturday, 18 September 2010 00:02 (thirteen years ago) link
sweet rimbaud tat
just got the bottom half of a durer tat done; now sporting a headless horse / rider
have to wait two more weeks for the appt. to finish the tattoo, so it looks kind of crazy right now
― the tune is space, Saturday, 18 September 2010 00:13 (thirteen years ago) link
Rimbaud looks a little like Lyle Lovett
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 18 September 2010 03:22 (thirteen years ago) link
fall 2010 \ what, do you run with the nyu glory hole crew or something? \ queers 'n cheers
― janice (surm), Sunday, 19 September 2010 16:35 (thirteen years ago) link